Duuuude you guys need to address these issues way more. I think this generation needs this kind of guidance because everyone is scared from marriage (including myself lmao) when it's one of the simplest most beautiful things in life.
Worth watching this 53 mins podcast. Every adult out there who's married or is going to get married must watch this and learn how they can have a balanced life with their partners.. Keep it up guys
half way through i realized its your wife.. frankly you two have given us another perspective of looking at this emotional side of marriage.. kudos! you guys are awesome.. bless you..!!
Thankyou so much for bringing these points. Our society needs to understand that if a man wants to quit his job and spend time with his family dont blame him. It is his right. And yes equal partnership is very important in marriage life. Both husband and wife needs to support each other.
Was talking to my fiance about this yesterday only and came across your podcast. Loved every bit of it. Helped me make him understand that it's okay for a man to take a break from what society thinks is solely his job - a woman surely can be the sole bread winner of the house if circumstances allow. There's nothing feminine about sitting back at home taking some time off and spending the time with your kids if that's what a guy wants. Marriage truly is a partnership! Amazing amazing insight.
Toxic masculinity and power dynamics are the two things you define brilliantly than anyone could. I wish every couple could have the mentality and maturity like you both. ❤️ Stay blessed!
I am about get married in 3 months and this podcast is the most needed thing we both was looking for and you have done it in the best way possible, Kudos to both of you :)
Conversations around gender are so toxic and one-sided. not this one though. You were able to present the perspective of both genders and that too in such a curteous and constructive way that it clears the air and shows the way forward.
Kept me hooked. Refreshing to hear how candidly you both spoke about this complex topic. Suggestion: Muzamil please shuffle between the suit and casual wear.
First and foremost, The whole content was so amazing and thought provoking. Secondly the tone was soft, step by step construction conversation beyond any negativity, the pauses and the way of addressing each and every question was just so perfect. Lots of love for guys. 💕 Keep up the good work. 🙏
When you said " 20 saal k bad agar koi puchta k ye bara ghar or ye bari gaari kis ki badolat ai ha ?"that hit me soo hard. Loved every bit of this podcast.
The quality of your convo is >>> my instrest developed when I heard that Humna went to a dental school as I myself heading towards it. May Allah bless you both ❤
Just finished hearing this podcast while completing my assignment and I absolutely love it. The conversation was so thoughtful. Seems like humna just speak my heart out by giving a voice to my thoughts. I am really looking forward for more podcasts like these and would definitely recommend my friends to hear this one especially. This podcast should needed to be hear by both the genders and both the generations. More power to you guys
Really soothing hearing positivity of you both. These are the characteristics we as a nation needs to adopt in order to raise a morally and ethically rich nation. Hatts off.
i just love the content you out there, i wasnt a person to sit and listen to someone talk for an hour but this seems like a conversation over a cup of coffee that i have with you guys where i just want to listen and explore what your thinking is. ❤️
You are absolutely right guys. My wife is a housewife by choice, she is very happy about it, and the way she is raising our daughters , i am very proud of her too ... so it boils down finally to what the couple wants, expects, gets, and do for each other ...
@Amandeep Wahi the problem is men think that if a woman is housewife, she's a liability than asset... Ye to ghar per rehti hai, kam wam nahi karti ... infact being a housewife is a full time job.
Loved the podcast and will show it to my husband as well. Please make more content about how to improve marriage quality and make this partnership stronger.
This topic was the need of the time because of all the feminism, misogyny and degradation of family structure. I am glad that u people talked about and put forward such a balanced conversation that our society is totally trying to avoid. I like your approach of talking about the confusion and conflicts the common man is facing and not have a fight or heated argument about the extremists. More power to you and Humna.
that was amazing man this is what our young gen needs to understand about a relationship or marriage instead of either dramatizing things or being narrow minded , there should be more stuff like this.
This was such a great episode, would love to see more conversations like these which have some sort of origin that helps us today. It's the idea of coexistence of perception and you both can reflect on how you perceive today's world in different layers of life. Enjoyed every layer of this conversation.
@@noor14-5 you can find it online, honestly way back in 2016-17 i use to love these two and i only took mesha's alligation seriously once she supported her..
I am actually surprised and amazed to listen after listening this whole podcast. A young couple from Pakistan sharing their matured thoughts about this important aspect of life, you don't see very often on Social or Mainstream Media
The way you're organizing podcasts and putting them up is too advanced for Pakistan, by that I mean this is too good and too perfect for the people who are used to tiktok culture and cringy memes, that's why your views are not reaching that much, all I want to say is keep going, you have always been ahead of time! and you deserve all the recognition in the World:)
Both of you have such a nice perspective Masha'Allah 💜 Sab se best part tha jab ap dono ne apne experience share kiye ke kab kab ham ne aik dusry ko apne passion ko pursue karnay ke liye support kiya...and money doesn't define one's status. Out of all your podcasts i have ever listened, this one is my favorite. Keep it up.❤️
this is what we really need to listen, need to understand. There should be equality and understanding in relationship. Great topic. this is much needed talk
I feel like there is so much interference of societal norms and families in a couple's marriage. I believe if we let the couple figure out these conversations regarding equality in the union, finances and everything. Humna is right when she said mostly men in our society don't know how to work as a spouse in a marriage after wedding.
Firstly, congratulations on finding like minded partners among the both of you. Aisa buhat kum hota hai. These are literally my way of thinking and I thought I am the odd one out but it was otherwise. Thankyou so much for this! So I can share this instead of trying to figure out proper wordings to explain my thoughts! Wonderfully explained. Not a fan of podcast but wow this kept me listening. MashaAllah Allah paak ap dono ki joori (partnership) humesha salamat rakhay. And YES MORE LIKE THESE PLEASE!
I just stopped half way through your podcast to comment. You will be an amazing father. I just cried when she mentioned you want to take time off for your kids. This is so so important. I think i cried because i didn’t get this from my own father. Thankyou for talking about this. (This is my first ever comment on any channel)
They are so maturely discussing every aspect of how society has evolved over time and they have explained in the best way how stereotypical gender roles have been created and grown
really loved it. this is my first time commenting on any youtube video but i couldn't resist to tell you how i liked it and how much it is beneficial for me and my partner to hear this conversation. thank you so much brother ❤ p.s I really loved this type of style and this conversation where i felt like my thoughts were being represented instead of those generalized view we all get to see. I really do wish and hope this style of conversation to get normalised where we get to see this general view rather than extreme cases.
Such a mature conversation, you both are so understanding and look great together. Our society needs to see such great videos and understand such cruicial and beautiful relationship a marriage has to offer. Stay Blessed and Happy together.
Both of you are making a huge huge impact. And it's not you guys just talk about it but your lives show it very well. Just keep making a difference. May Allah bless both of you and protect you from evil eye. And lastly I feel very good about your son Rafael who have got parents like you. ❤️
Thank you dear children, I'm a boomer and really trying hard to understand your generation; my children ( I've three: two sons one daughter) and listening to all young people is so very helpful. Do talk more about emotional and social skills, issues and problems, because financial and job related issues are discussed quite often.
I found this conversation has resonated with me in such a positive way, that it has solidified and structured my thoughts about what it means to be a partner.
Always admired this man. His speaking skills, the way he discuss things. The positive ways. I am from Waziristan, I am final year Chemical engineer but I love to be in media, acting n dramas but things are hard😑😑😑
One of the best material, that is very much beneficial for the upcoming couples and families to understand, what things and pressures that has to bear my husband and wife. Although, this is not just enough to deal with all the matters that are included in pre-marriage or post-marriage things. This needs to be a complete series where different aspects of marriage and husband wife relationships are to be discussed. Once again, thanks a lot ♥️♥️
Appreciate the talks by our fave power duo! Some points, not to be overlooked, are that by default women are given less rights (which are theirs to exercise and not supposed to be "given" by men) for the fear of men losing "power" over women, when they aren't given their fare share in inheritance, not allowed to study or work, or go out to have a life of their own. Girls are raised and even educated to "support" a man in living his life to his best. The moment girls start making and living their own life or become successful, the whole world turns against them, be it men or women, and discredits them personally. Kudos to girls who are striving to work and help our society transition into one where men learn how to be supportive to their female life partners as a team, and vice versa, because women also need to learn how they may truly understand and be supportive of their husbands!
This was such an excellent conversation. Wish this was more attainable reality for most women here -which unfortunately it isn't but regardless great conversation.
It's really fruitful and worth watching! More content should be posted regarding such issues. I grasp so many various concepts of healthy and happy relationship.
First off i'll start with how good u both portrayed both the concepts of the society, relationships and things around it plus how politely you guys are giving a great message through this perfect piece of podcast, The thought behind the particular steriotype, its consequences plus on the other hand what is the right thing to do and what mentality do the couples (either they are married or are going to be ) should have . i hope people are very much inspired from your thoughts and how you can push yourself to betterment in relationships and other aspects of the society , atleast i am :) .Plus I hope to remember the things you pointed out to build a healthy relationship in all the aspects when i am getting tied into this beautiful knot. This is for all of your podcasts regarding building a healthy relationship , mentality growth ones and others, i hope you both carry this podcasts and both of your channels always, i love to see you guys happy and prospering (mashallah). you both are doing a great work ,keep it up Love you both Muzammil Hasan and Hamna Raza.
Great conversation, would want Muzamil to give the guy's perspective and himself as an individual for all of the discussion (makes it more fruitful with both narratives/perspectives)
Such a great session. Lovely listening to you guys. Such a strong, positive and a progressive couple MA. More power to you both and to the many with similar ideals and visions!
Muzamil and Humna the conversations you two have are so thoughtful and at the same time thought-provoking. I have listened to it twice and yes I would be looking forward to such more conversations from you two. We general awaam is so often times confused and get to listen too many horror stories that happen on the extreme side and quote them as examples before taking a step as a result we make mistakes living the intermediate life. We really need to listen to such general conversations to break the bubble of fantasy and idealistic lives. As you said during the podcast you wanted to take the conversation to the other side so please do an episode on that. I agree with you that men/boys these days want a partner who is equal to them, independent and can have conversations with but at the same time are confused as well. They know what they want but they give in to what their parents pick for them and as a result the marriages don't work out. Or they marry the one they chose but later it hits them marriage was not what they wanted. I would want you to have a discussion on how must men be educated as well before they tie the knot.
I wish I could just address myself in a voicenote because I have so much to say and specifically when I watch your podcast it makes me wanna have a similar talk and they always make me process my own opinions and rethink and evaluate those as well, seeing you both from months now and You're mashallah this power couple that inspire other couple and even single people like me! I loved this Podcast as well and I think you should definately make more like these.. cause the tragedy of our generation is half of the people like me are scared and half of them settle for less cause they don't know that there are ways to adjust in a relationship... and there are so many problems but people just assume that there's no way of going through them and solve them and I love that YOU ARE WILLING TO ADDRESS THAT. We don't "need" couples that show how much they love each other (we or I definately love that ofcourse) but, I think its rather we need couples that are public figures who address and show people that it is possible to have a successful marriage even if its a love or an arrange one. That you just need to be understanding enough! and there's always going to be a way out of all that stereotype bullshit or the societal pressure or the fear of something going wrong. Cause being married to another individual (lets not fantasize it for a minute) is a journey in itself. Its a journey to grow and learn together! to be scared together but having the courage and mindset to work it out!
Duuuude you guys need to address these issues way more. I think this generation needs this kind of guidance because everyone is scared from marriage (including myself lmao) when it's one of the simplest most beautiful things in life.
Worth watching this 53 mins podcast. Every adult out there who's married or is going to get married must watch this and learn how they can have a balanced life with their partners.. Keep it up guys
exactly my thoughts
half way through i realized its your wife.. frankly you two have given us another perspective of looking at this emotional side of marriage.. kudos! you guys are awesome.. bless you..!!
Thankyou so much for bringing these points. Our society needs to understand that if a man wants to quit his job and spend time with his family dont blame him. It is his right. And yes equal partnership is very important in marriage life. Both husband and wife needs to support each other.
The way she replied every question that's really amazing...
One of the best talk on relationship of nowadays. Our youth needs these talks to get guidance and open their horizons🤗❤
Was talking to my fiance about this yesterday only and came across your podcast. Loved every bit of it. Helped me make him understand that it's okay for a man to take a break from what society thinks is solely his job - a woman surely can be the sole bread winner of the house if circumstances allow. There's nothing feminine about sitting back at home taking some time off and spending the time with your kids if that's what a guy wants. Marriage truly is a partnership! Amazing amazing insight.
Toxic masculinity and power dynamics are the two things you define brilliantly than anyone could. I wish every couple could have the mentality and maturity like you both. ❤️ Stay blessed!
I am about get married in 3 months and this podcast is the most needed thing we both was looking for and you have done it in the best way possible, Kudos to both of you :)
Conversations around gender are so toxic and one-sided. not this one though. You were able to present the perspective of both genders and that too in such a curteous and constructive way that it clears the air and shows the way forward.
well said. i think both genders are pit against each other in usual conversations
Kept me hooked. Refreshing to hear how candidly you both spoke about this complex topic.
Suggestion: Muzamil please shuffle between the suit and casual wear.
The guy seems intellectual and mature. His voice is too good ❤️
this girl's thoughts are very mature. she seems to have an ability to see things with a real perception. it is very helpfull in practical life.
First and foremost, The whole content was so amazing and thought provoking. Secondly the tone was soft, step by step construction conversation beyond any negativity, the pauses and the way of addressing each and every question was just so perfect. Lots of love for guys. 💕 Keep up the good work. 🙏
When you said " 20 saal k bad agar koi puchta k ye bara ghar or ye bari gaari kis ki badolat ai ha ?"that hit me soo hard. Loved every bit of this podcast.
The quality of your convo is >>> my instrest developed when I heard that Humna went to a dental school as I myself heading towards it. May Allah bless you both ❤
Just finished hearing this podcast while completing my assignment and I absolutely love it. The conversation was so thoughtful. Seems like humna just speak my heart out by giving a voice to my thoughts. I am really looking forward for more podcasts like these and would definitely recommend my friends to hear this one especially. This podcast should needed to be hear by both the genders and both the generations. More power to you guys
Boy, this is the kind of education,mindset and progressive approach we need. Bravo.
Really soothing hearing positivity of you both. These are the characteristics we as a nation needs to adopt in order to raise a morally and ethically rich nation. Hatts off.
i just love the content you out there, i wasnt a person to sit and listen to someone talk for an hour but this seems like a conversation over a cup of coffee that i have with you guys where i just want to listen and explore what your thinking is. ❤️
Literally changed my whole perspective of marriage and the husband wife relationship..luv you guys💕
You are absolutely right guys.
My wife is a housewife by choice, she is very happy about it, and the way she is raising our daughters , i am very proud of her too ... so it boils down finally to what the couple wants, expects, gets, and do for each other ...
@Amandeep Wahi the problem is men think that if a woman is housewife, she's a liability than asset...
Ye to ghar per rehti hai, kam wam nahi karti ... infact being a housewife is a full time job.
I love the way Muzammil is using Data Analytics and Algorithmic terms in the conversation.
One of the most amazing conversation on a very important issue these days. More power to you both!
Loved the podcast and will show it to my husband as well. Please make more content about how to improve marriage quality and make this partnership stronger.
This topic was the need of the time because of all the feminism, misogyny and degradation of family structure. I am glad that u people talked about and put forward such a balanced conversation that our society is totally trying to avoid.
I like your approach of talking about the confusion and conflicts the common man is facing and not have a fight or heated argument about the extremists.
More power to you and Humna.
that was amazing man this is what our young gen needs to understand about a relationship or marriage instead of either dramatizing things or being narrow minded , there should be more stuff like this.
Yes but if the guy is mummy daddy type he would be total opposite
Absolutely loved it!!! Sensible. relatable, non-preachy, and everything nice. Bring Humna on the podcast MOREEE!! 🙏🙌💛
This was such a great episode, would love to see more conversations like these which have some sort of origin that helps us today. It's the idea of coexistence of perception and you both can reflect on how you perceive today's world in different layers of life. Enjoyed every layer of this conversation.
such a beautiful couple Mashallah, talking so sensibility about such sensitive topic. may you both grow, MORE POWER! ❤️
She has such a nice thinking; the guy is lucky to have her.
Man is sitting in front of her ❤️
They are both lucky to have eachother. They are both unique
Bhai yeh wohi larki hai jis nai Ali zafar pai jhootay allegations lagai thay harassment kai. Aur yeh relationship pai kya khak samjhai ge .
@@shahbazkhan-pv1co seriously when?
@@noor14-5 you can find it online, honestly way back in 2016-17 i use to love these two and i only took mesha's alligation seriously once she supported her..
Your podcast can literally change one's thoughts about these topics. You both are so so so much thoughtful MASHA ALLAH
I am actually surprised and amazed to listen after listening this whole podcast. A young couple from Pakistan sharing their matured thoughts about this important aspect of life, you don't see very often on Social or Mainstream Media
The way you're organizing podcasts and putting them up is too advanced for Pakistan, by that I mean this is too good and too perfect for the people who are used to tiktok culture and cringy memes, that's why your views are not reaching that much, all I want to say is keep going, you have always been ahead of time! and you deserve all the recognition in the World:)
53 mins DEFINITELY NOT WASTED. Great food for thought please make more with humna❤
Both of you have such a nice perspective Masha'Allah 💜
Sab se best part tha jab ap dono ne apne experience share kiye ke kab kab ham ne aik dusry ko apne passion ko pursue karnay ke liye support kiya...and money doesn't define one's status.
Out of all your podcasts i have ever listened, this one is my favorite.
Keep it up.❤️
this is what we really need to listen, need to understand. There should be equality and understanding in relationship. Great topic. this is much needed talk
I feel like there is so much interference of societal norms and families in a couple's marriage. I believe if we let the couple figure out these conversations regarding equality in the union, finances and everything. Humna is right when she said mostly men in our society don't know how to work as a spouse in a marriage after wedding.
This PODCAST is So AMAZING; KUdos To The Couple-
You guys Are Really Defining A Much Needed Narrative!!!
Thanks for listening
Every couple should openly have meaningful conversations like these. Wonderful addition to the aresnal Muzamil, well done!
Both husband and wife's effort for the relationship keep it strong. Both should understand each other's position.
This is the first time that i have seen a mature approach to a healthy relationship in our society. You are doing great work. Keep it up.
Such an intelligent conversation on relationships! Enlightening and inspiring🙌🏼
The best thing i heard in this conversation is (girls have to figure out their path - to make themselves stable then to jump to the relationships) ✨
MUCH NEEDED CONVERSATIONS GUYS! I COMMAND THE ALGORITHM TO PUSH IT!
Such a mature conversation. I so wanted to heard this.
Firstly, congratulations on finding like minded partners among the both of you. Aisa buhat kum hota hai. These are literally my way of thinking and I thought I am the odd one out but it was otherwise. Thankyou so much for this! So I can share this instead of trying to figure out proper wordings to explain my thoughts! Wonderfully explained. Not a fan of podcast but wow this kept me listening. MashaAllah Allah paak ap dono ki joori (partnership) humesha salamat rakhay. And YES MORE LIKE THESE PLEASE!
I just stopped half way through your podcast to comment. You will be an amazing father. I just cried when she mentioned you want to take time off for your kids.
This is so so important. I think i cried because i didn’t get this from my own father. Thankyou for talking about this.
(This is my first ever comment on any channel)
You are way ahead of your time. Kudos to you for doing this podcast.
Such a nice conversation, people need to understand these things.
i didn't know she is your wife till i got to the end 😂....MashaAllah you guys are doing amazing work...brilliant episode 🔥
lol
I too didn't know that until a couple of days ago when I discovered some of their videos on a random channel about their marriage 😂
سارے سسپنس کی ایسی کی تیسی کرنے کا شکریہ
@@danisharshadofficial 😂😂
@@mustafaaa772 I am not sure but I think the channel where u watch the video about marriage of muzamil and humna is on humna’s channel
One for "Friendships" too.
Best discussion ever on respective rights of men and women in marriage.👏👏
They are so maturely discussing every aspect of how society has evolved over time and they have explained in the best way how stereotypical gender roles have been created and grown
really loved it. this is my first time commenting on any youtube video but i couldn't resist to tell you how i liked it and how much it is beneficial for me and my partner to hear this conversation. thank you so much brother ❤
p.s I really loved this type of style and this conversation where i felt like my thoughts were being represented instead of those generalized view we all get to see. I really do wish and hope this style of conversation to get normalised where we get to see this general view rather than extreme cases.
Loved every aspect of this podcast. I'm glad that minds like you guys exist in our society. Kudos to you both.
Such a mature conversation, you both are so understanding and look great together. Our society needs to see such great videos and understand such cruicial and beautiful relationship a marriage has to offer. Stay Blessed and Happy together.
Both of you are making a huge huge impact. And it's not you guys just talk about it but your lives show it very well. Just keep making a difference. May Allah bless both of you and protect you from evil eye. And lastly I feel very good about your son Rafael who have got parents like you. ❤️
excellent topic, well done you guys! Totally agree with the concepts. Lack of communication & competition truly damages relationships.
Thank you dear children, I'm a boomer and really trying hard to understand your generation; my children ( I've three: two sons one daughter) and listening to all young people is so very helpful. Do talk more about emotional and social skills, issues and problems, because financial and job related issues are discussed quite often.
🤗🤗🤗🤗
This was so informative! Topics like these need t be discussed more. Thank you for being consistent. Really like all of your podcasts 😇
Really obsessed with Humna and Muzammil. Thank u guys for upto the mark Pakistani content. Stay blessed
If there is one podcast that I can hear repeatedly, it is This one. Absolutely love the whole conversation 💕💯
Mind blowing. What a discussion. What a arguments
I love you guys! Please never stop making these! Young generation needs answers !
Loved hearing you both. Looking forward to listening to such intellectual conversations in future as well.
I found this conversation has resonated with me in such a positive way, that it has solidified and structured my thoughts about what it means to be a partner.
Loved the whole discussion. You guys spoke sense. Kudos !
Always admired this man. His speaking skills, the way he discuss things. The positive ways.
I am from Waziristan, I am final year Chemical engineer but I love to be in media, acting n dramas but things are hard😑😑😑
One of the best material, that is very much beneficial for the upcoming couples and families to understand, what things and pressures that has to bear my husband and wife.
Although, this is not just enough to deal with all the matters that are included in pre-marriage or post-marriage things. This needs to be a complete series where different aspects of marriage and husband wife relationships are to be discussed.
Once again, thanks a lot ♥️♥️
i thought I'd just listen for 10 minutes but i physically cannot leave this!! you guys are amazing
Appreciate the talks by our fave power duo!
Some points, not to be overlooked, are that by default women are given less rights (which are theirs to exercise and not supposed to be "given" by men) for the fear of men losing "power" over women, when they aren't given their fare share in inheritance, not allowed to study or work, or go out to have a life of their own. Girls are raised and even educated to "support" a man in living his life to his best. The moment girls start making and living their own life or become successful, the whole world turns against them, be it men or women, and discredits them personally. Kudos to girls who are striving to work and help our society transition into one where men learn how to be supportive to their female life partners as a team, and vice versa, because women also need to learn how they may truly understand and be supportive of their husbands!
Amazing podcast guys. I've been following you two since lolz studio. Happy to see where you are right now. More power to both of you!
Yes i do get different perspective here, thanks again
This is the most thoughtful conversation i have ever heard. This perspective should be prevailed. I pray and hope we change our mindsets.
Such a thought provoking episode. Yes we want more episodes with Humna. Looking forward to it. MayAllah bless you both
This was such an excellent conversation. Wish this was more attainable reality for most women here -which unfortunately it isn't but regardless great conversation.
really mature conversation, you both should do more podcasts. Also I am a female viewer!
One of your best podcasts! Love it. The vibe of your couple is so positive, balanced and feel-good MashaAllah! ❤️ You're both doing great work..
Great topic that we all need. 👍
Amazing ! These type of podcasts are very necessary to settle on going problems in our society. Looking forward for more series like this , good luck.
Muzammil thank you sooo much for giving up new vision and discuss these issue .your every podcast are very informative.
Islam gives solution to all our social issues; it provides the best family model.
Excellent Sir!
Now I have a clear vision about post-married life.
Thank you for the precious discussion!
The whole world needs to listen to this podcast tbh
These types of conversations are goals. Thank you so much for this.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I've been following both of you from about 2 3 years ... and you both are such an inspiration for me❤
We want more of your podcasts with Humna🤩
Loved THe Whole conversation. justified enough. 👍👍👍
It's really fruitful and worth watching!
More content should be posted regarding such issues.
I grasp so many various concepts of healthy and happy relationship.
We need more of these conversations!
YES! Muzamil bhai want more episode like this..
First off i'll start with how good u both portrayed both the concepts of the society, relationships and things around it plus how politely you guys are giving a great message through this perfect piece of podcast,
The thought behind the particular steriotype, its consequences plus on the other hand what is the right thing to do and what mentality do the couples (either they are married or are going to be ) should have .
i hope people are very much inspired from your thoughts and how you can push yourself to betterment in relationships and other aspects of the society , atleast i am :) .Plus I hope to remember the things you pointed out to build a healthy relationship in all the aspects when i am getting tied into this beautiful knot. This is for all of your podcasts regarding building a healthy relationship , mentality growth ones and others, i hope you both carry this podcasts and both of your channels always, i love to see you guys happy and prospering (mashallah). you both are doing a great work ,keep it up
Love you both Muzammil Hasan and Hamna Raza.
Great conversation, would want Muzamil to give the guy's perspective and himself as an individual for all of the discussion (makes it more fruitful with both narratives/perspectives)
Thanks for this podcast
Such a great session. Lovely listening to you guys. Such a strong, positive and a progressive couple MA. More power to you both and to the many with similar ideals and visions!
It was a much needed and productive podcast, thanks for sharing with us.
Muzamil and Humna the conversations you two have are so thoughtful and at the same time thought-provoking. I have listened to it twice and yes I would be looking forward to such more conversations from you two. We general awaam is so often times confused and get to listen too many horror stories that happen on the extreme side and quote them as examples before taking a step as a result we make mistakes living the intermediate life. We really need to listen to such general conversations to break the bubble of fantasy and idealistic lives.
As you said during the podcast you wanted to take the conversation to the other side so please do an episode on that.
I agree with you that men/boys these days want a partner who is equal to them, independent and can have conversations with but at the same time are confused as well. They know what they want but they give in to what their parents pick for them and as a result the marriages don't work out. Or they marry the one they chose but later it hits them marriage was not what they wanted. I would want you to have a discussion on how must men be educated as well before they tie the knot.
I wish I could just address myself in a voicenote because I have so much to say and specifically when I watch your podcast it makes me wanna have a similar talk and they always make me process my own opinions and rethink and evaluate those as well, seeing you both from months now and You're mashallah this power couple that inspire other couple and even single people like me! I loved this Podcast as well and I think you should definately make more like these.. cause the tragedy of our generation is half of the people like me are scared and half of them settle for less cause they don't know that there are ways to adjust in a relationship... and there are so many problems but people just assume that there's no way of going through them and solve them and I love that YOU ARE WILLING TO ADDRESS THAT. We don't "need" couples that show how much they love each other (we or I definately love that ofcourse) but, I think its rather we need couples that are public figures who address and show people that it is possible to have a successful marriage even if its a love or an arrange one. That you just need to be understanding enough! and there's always going to be a way out of all that stereotype bullshit or the societal pressure or the fear of something going wrong. Cause being married to another individual (lets not fantasize it for a minute) is a journey in itself. Its a journey to grow and learn together! to be scared together but having the courage and mindset to work it out!
Amazing podcast, kept me hooked until the very end!
Massive respect for both of you!