I'm 25 right now and I wanted to move out for me to be independent. I do all the house chores while living with my parents so I won't be bothered about the chores if I'll live with my own soon. What holding me back is only one thing MONEY.
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i was kick out of parents house at 17 move out to the park 2 months homeless, got a job at mc donalds now living in a car. i turn 20 got a job in airport bus shuttle got my firts aparment. got drunk for the next 8 years loss job back to streets , when to trucking school now living in the trucks cabs , free rent yall. save up 15 years , now finnaly got my own condo in studio city los angeles. respect or not ,fuck it, is all in how your behavior of how much you want it ,.best of luck to everyone
great advice .......you know its time to leave when your own relatives start holding you back from reaching your goals.......consciously too. All in all it was generally the same things I had in mind which means you are going to have plans then under that smaller plans and of course backup plans . Also when you reach a certain age you know when its time to leave. For me those cons are necessary for people who have had their freedom so restricted that they just ... want....out
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I’m 19 and I had a big argument with my mom , I feel like staying with my parents honestly is keeping me from growing and discovering myself , I am being protected by them and that I’m turn makes me useless , I don’t want to waste away so I want to move out ASAP and learn to grow my own way
My dad doesn't understand that I want to move out of the house he just want me to stay in this house forever and he let my brothers moved out I'm 26 yrs old and still in college and he's too jealous and won't get himself a job because he's very lazy and don't respect anyone in his family not even his own young adults kids and don't pay his own bills at all my mom does understand that I want to move out so how can I get my dad to understand and respect that I want to move out of the house to be more independent just like my two twin brothers?
Hey Kanna - thanks for the comment! I think parents are naturally over protective (especially to girls) so don't hold it against them. If you want to convince your parents that you're ready to move out - come up with a budget to show them that you have calculated all your costs and income and that you're ready. They will probably still have concerns, but if you think you're financially ready then it will be up to you to take the leap. Good luck, and merry Christmas! :)
I'm literally in the same bout. I hate I feel responsible because I feel he needs me to live where we live. But I have a family of my own and I think he depends on me to stay here forever and that's not fair. As a growing women we deserve our own space
I can't wait to move out and wear what I want. My mum keeps nagging me and she can shout and get wound up about the littlest things. I WANNA BE FREE🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
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@@transcendenthd1671 cause they raised me and taught me everything I needed to know. But its been 3 years and im at University ! I got my own car and job so im great now💘
thank you for the advice. Ive been looking to move out of my mother's house due to being 25 and im still living there. i mean, im not the sterwotypical man-child. i do free babysitting for my 10 and 9 year old brothers (mother likes having a free babysitter), i pay the telephone and internet bill, work full time, and am saving 5k a year for a downpayment on a mortgage, as well as "lending" her money to pay HER bills, since apparently her making 3 times the amount of money i make still isnt enough to pay bills. so now im freaking on how the family will see me when i move out, but at tje same time, 25 and still living with my mother makes me feel, almost ashamed, if i could put it to 1 word.
+TrentonHark I wanted to reply to your comment... I think everyone has their own personal situation in life. Their own unique challenges and opportunities. Honestly, you staying at home and working and helping out your family is very honourable. Don't be ashamed of it at all. its great! Not only are you helping your family, but you're probably saving money on rent - and are instead saving up for a down payment on a house that you can then build equity with (which in some ways can be better than paying rent elsewhere). It's a good thing financially for you and its honourable. Let me know when you buy your first place so we can congratulate you! :)
Also a good thing to do before you move out is to mentally and physically prepare maybe start doing everything for yourself so it isn't so much of a shock when you have to start because you've already been doing these things
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I just moved out yesterday, 22 M, This is terrifying, me and my parents had a wonderful relationship but I was wasting away playing games and not working while doing 1 class in college. Me and my mom argued a lot because of it and I don't blame her but I was raised a straight mama's boy and holy hell lemme tell ya this fucking sucks so far xD
Hey Victor, thanks for the comment! Congrats on moving out and starting the next chapter of your life! Yes it can be scary, but this will be a big learning process for you. I believe you will grow and evolve because of it, so embrace that! Reach out to your family for support (cooking tips, recipes, cleaning tips, etc.) as I think that will help keep your relationship with them strong. Visit them often (once per week maybe) if you can, to keep the relationship solid, but also for the free meals haha ;P Do you have any other comments or questions? Let me know, and I'll do my best to reply, and may even make videos about it... check out my new RUclips channel here too! ruclips.net/channel/UC8IPIstW8xluPo5ppy5d8Mw
Actually, no as a chicana (mexican american), I wouldn't get respect at all from aunts and uncles for moving out. On the contrary, they would see me as someone crazy, because according to our mexican tradition, we must wait until marriage to move out, but I'm like go ahead and bark all u want...
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Thanks for the comment! You are right. Rent prices will vary depending on where you're living, and sharing the rent with a roommate of some kind always helps too! =)
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That is usually the #1 con and #1 thing holding ppl back, yea... Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, SUBSCRIBE!
I'm in my early 20's, I live with my mother. I've paid all the rent in my house since I was 16. I buy all of the food for me and my mother 3 out of 4 weeks of the month. I buy all the pet food and I pay for the internet and TV. We haven't had gas or central heating in the house for over 10 years because we can't afford it. I'm physically disabled and I get benefits ,that's the only way I can afford this. I'm working on getting a career in the tattoo industry so I can get more income. I've been considering moving out now for a long time, my mother constantly picks fights with me and sometimes can be down right nasty. My worry's about living on my own is if it'll cost me more than I'm paying out just now and if I'll only be offered apartments in terrible areas. I don't know what to do, if anyone has advice it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Hey, thanks for the comment and for opening up. Sounds like you want to move out but your support is very important to your mother which is one of your main concerns (among others). There is nothing to be ashamed about living at home in your 20s, especially if you're supporting your family the way you are. I would say stay on track on the path that you're in... work on building your career and increasing your income so that one day soon you can afford to move out (somewhere decent) while still being able to support your family if needed. There are tons of people who live with their parents by choice and just mooch off their parents for as long as possible. Know thta you are NOT one of these people. Instead you are supporting your family! Im not sure if this helps but I hope you feel better about your situation. Let us know if you have any other comments or questions. =)
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If you are feeling guilty because your family will miss you or you will miss them, then consider moving out but staying close to family so you can still see each other often (or make sure to stay in touch lots). Proper financial budgeting and planning will help you overcome the rest (do you have income? can you cover living expenses and still have some leftover to save/invest or for emergencies?). If so, sounds like you may be ready!
@@Findlifesuccess I'm not working right now but I'm planning on getting a job so I wouldn't be dependent on my boyfriend ( he's working as well) The problem is how am I suppose to tell my mom I'm moving out? 😭😭
@@leannjoseph5337 you probably don't want to be dependent on your boyfriend, so it may be best to get a job first. Having a job will also help in telling parents because then you will be better prepared to move out. When it comes to telling parents, the bottom line is that once you're ready to move out you just tell them; like peeling a band-aid off quickly rather than slowly. It may be a difficult conversation to have, but if you're properly prepared (for example you have a job and income, and know your budget and that you can cover expenses), then being prepared will give you confidence in speaking to your parents about it. Again, moving out but staying close to family is also an option so you can kind of get the best of both worlds. =P
@@leannjoseph5337 thank you for the topic suggestion. I can definitely produce some content around depression and anxiety, as I have experience with it (and most people do too, they just don't talk about it openly). Until then, I encourage you to check out my content on "Loving Yourself First & Foremost" :)
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lol everything u said we have to do for ourself i already know how to cook clean and do laundry at a young age so im coo lol and my rent is $575 per month it includes gas water heat free wifi trash and sewer removal all i have to pay is electricity
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One of the fears of moving out is that if you get retrenched, you have to move bak and if your parents were hating on you before you moved out, what will they do when you give them a call and say "hey mum dad i got retrenched and i have to move bak in". I think its good to move out as it keeps the bond stronger but at the same time with todays cost of living you really have to be super independant to consider it unless thats just fear talking.
Ebrahim Abdoola I think you are right - one of the biggest fears stopping people from moving out is the fear of failing and having to come back home. That is why you need to make sure you have budgeted properly. As long as you have enough income coming in to pay for your rent, food, transportation, and extras - you should be good. But don't rush it - there are definitely some "pros" of living with family. ;)
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What do you feel guilty about? You can still support family a bit even if you don't live at home anymore... but everyone's situation is different. Do what feels right for you! Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, subscribe!
That will better prepare you for when you move out! Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, SUBSCRIBE!
I'm 30 years old and still living with my parents I have a disabilities but I don't have a good income too so that will be a reason why I can't move out however I once find a job a like and save up then I'll probably move out but I know for a fact I'm definitely not ready to move out. I'm not shamed to still live with them :)
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I live on the west coast... much more expensive here yea haha everyone's situation is different though... Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips video channel here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, SUBSCRIBE!
Haha when you know you know! But living with your parents can also save you money, which may help you buy a place to move out into (and would save you having to rent for a while)... pros and cons... 😋 Thanks for the comment though! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, subscribe!
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Most children should not have to take care of their own parents like that (not until they are grown ups and their parents are seniors maybe), but everyone's situation is different... at least it sounds like you will grow up and be more responsible quicker than most! Hope all is well! Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, SUBSCRIBE!
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No, I don't live in Cali haha I do live on the west coast of Canada tho, which is also quite expensive, but yea the cost of living will depend on where you live - some may be more, some may be less... there are comments on this video that say 1K/month is crazy high haha Thanks for the comment though! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, subscribe! Thanks again!
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Haha yea, that's true... who cares what other people think... but, you may have more self-respect... what do you think? Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, subscribe!
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I'm 25 right now and I wanted to move out for me to be independent. I do all the house chores while living with my parents so I won't be bothered about the chores if I'll live with my own soon. What holding me back is only one thing MONEY.
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i was kick out of parents house at 17 move out to the park 2 months homeless, got a job at mc donalds now living in a car. i turn 20 got a job in airport bus shuttle got my firts aparment. got drunk for the next 8 years loss job back to streets , when to trucking school now living in the trucks cabs , free rent yall. save up 15 years , now finnaly got my own condo in studio city los angeles. respect or not ,fuck it, is all in how your behavior of how much you want it ,.best of luck to everyone
great advice .......you know its time to leave when your own relatives start holding you back from reaching your goals.......consciously too. All in all it was generally the same things I had in mind which means you are going to have plans then under that smaller plans and of course backup plans . Also when you reach a certain age you know when its time to leave. For me those cons are necessary for people who have had their freedom so restricted that they just ... want....out
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"More respect". Good point, hadn't think about that before.
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I’m 19 and I had a big argument with my mom , I feel like staying with my parents honestly is keeping me from growing and discovering myself , I am being protected by them and that I’m turn makes me useless , I don’t want to waste away so I want to move out ASAP and learn to grow my own way
My dad doesn't understand that I want to move out of the house he just want me to stay in this house forever and he let my brothers moved out I'm 26 yrs old and still in college and he's too jealous and won't get himself a job because he's very lazy and don't respect anyone in his family not even his own young adults kids and don't pay his own bills at all my mom does understand that I want to move out so how can I get my dad to understand and respect that I want to move out of the house to be more independent just like my two twin brothers?
Hey Kanna - thanks for the comment! I think parents are naturally over protective (especially to girls) so don't hold it against them. If you want to convince your parents that you're ready to move out - come up with a budget to show them that you have calculated all your costs and income and that you're ready. They will probably still have concerns, but if you think you're financially ready then it will be up to you to take the leap. Good luck, and merry Christmas! :)
kanna231 he needs to respect that you have a life too, it's not your fault he doesn't pay his own bills
I'm literally in the same bout. I hate I feel responsible because I feel he needs me to live where we live. But I have a family of my own and I think he depends on me to stay here forever and that's not fair. As a growing women we deserve our own space
I can't wait to move out and wear what I want. My mum keeps nagging me and she can shout and get wound up about the littlest things. I WANNA BE FREE🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
thejintymyster withjinty same here
@@ujjwaladiya5031 woo! Blessings!
Say hello to roommates
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@@Findlifesuccess nah it's still the same but I've just learnt to not listen to her. Less than a year left until I can move out though
guilt is holding me back
RickySals same
Me tooooo!!!!
Same 😥
Guilt for what bro?
@@transcendenthd1671 cause they raised me and taught me everything I needed to know. But its been 3 years and im at University ! I got my own car and job so im great now💘
Fantastic tips. Thanks a tonne. Going to do some financial planning and hopefully move out in a months time
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thank you for the advice. Ive been looking to move out of my mother's house due to being 25 and im still living there. i mean, im not the sterwotypical man-child. i do free babysitting for my 10 and 9 year old brothers (mother likes having a free babysitter), i pay the telephone and internet bill, work full time, and am saving 5k a year for a downpayment on a mortgage, as well as "lending" her money to pay HER bills, since apparently her making 3 times the amount of money i make still isnt enough to pay bills. so now im freaking on how the family will see me when i move out, but at tje same time, 25 and still living with my mother makes me feel, almost ashamed, if i could put it to 1 word.
+TrentonHark I wanted to reply to your comment... I think everyone has their own personal situation in life. Their own unique challenges and opportunities. Honestly, you staying at home and working and helping out your family is very honourable. Don't be ashamed of it at all. its great! Not only are you helping your family, but you're probably saving money on rent - and are instead saving up for a down payment on a house that you can then build equity with (which in some ways can be better than paying rent elsewhere). It's a good thing financially for you and its honourable. Let me know when you buy your first place so we can congratulate you! :)
Also a good thing to do before you move out is to mentally and physically prepare maybe start doing everything for yourself so it isn't so much of a shock when you have to start because you've already been doing these things
That is a great tip Rosie! It'll be easier if you already have some experience in cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping, etc. before you move out, for sure. Thanks for the comment! 🙂 Check out my new RUclips videos here (ruclips.net/user/F0NKN0) as there may be more content that interests you... if so, subscribe!
I just moved out yesterday, 22 M, This is terrifying, me and my parents had a wonderful relationship but I was wasting away playing games and not working while doing 1 class in college. Me and my mom argued a lot because of it and I don't blame her but I was raised a straight mama's boy and holy hell lemme tell ya this fucking sucks so far xD
Hey Victor, thanks for the comment! Congrats on moving out and starting the next chapter of your life! Yes it can be scary, but this will be a big learning process for you. I believe you will grow and evolve because of it, so embrace that! Reach out to your family for support (cooking tips, recipes, cleaning tips, etc.) as I think that will help keep your relationship with them strong. Visit them often (once per week maybe) if you can, to keep the relationship solid, but also for the free meals haha ;P Do you have any other comments or questions? Let me know, and I'll do my best to reply, and may even make videos about it... check out my new RUclips channel here too! ruclips.net/channel/UC8IPIstW8xluPo5ppy5d8Mw
Actually, no as a chicana (mexican american), I wouldn't get respect at all from aunts and uncles for moving out. On the contrary, they would see me as someone crazy, because according to our mexican tradition, we must wait until marriage to move out, but I'm like go ahead and bark all u want...
Vanessa Bayardo same in every Asian culture
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Sounds like narsisictic relatives
1000 is a lot for rent. Boyfriend moved in with me and I was paying 530. Then we split that. Granted that was for a one bedroom in a college town.
Thanks for the comment! You are right. Rent prices will vary depending on where you're living, and sharing the rent with a roommate of some kind always helps too! =)
Thats if people actually save that "rent money" while living at their parents house .
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Very balanced and honest analysis.
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FIRE VIDEO THANK YOU BRO KEEP GROWING !!!!!!✝️
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only con is money
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I'm in my early 20's, I live with my mother. I've paid all the rent in my house since I was 16. I buy all of the food for me and my mother 3 out of 4 weeks of the month. I buy all the pet food and I pay for the internet and TV. We haven't had gas or central heating in the house for over 10 years because we can't afford it. I'm physically disabled and I get benefits ,that's the only way I can afford this. I'm working on getting a career in the tattoo industry so I can get more income. I've been considering moving out now for a long time, my mother constantly picks fights with me and sometimes can be down right nasty. My worry's about living on my own is if it'll cost me more than I'm paying out just now and if I'll only be offered apartments in terrible areas. I don't know what to do, if anyone has advice it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
I'm spending about £400 on living expenses a month.
Hey, thanks for the comment and for opening up. Sounds like you want to move out but your support is very important to your mother which is one of your main concerns (among others). There is nothing to be ashamed about living at home in your 20s, especially if you're supporting your family the way you are. I would say stay on track on the path that you're in... work on building your career and increasing your income so that one day soon you can afford to move out (somewhere decent) while still being able to support your family if needed. There are tons of people who live with their parents by choice and just mooch off their parents for as long as possible. Know thta you are NOT one of these people. Instead you are supporting your family! Im not sure if this helps but I hope you feel better about your situation. Let us know if you have any other comments or questions. =)
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Guilt
Anxiety
Nervousness
Is holding me back. I'm scared yoo😭😊❤
If you are feeling guilty because your family will miss you or you will miss them, then consider moving out but staying close to family so you can still see each other often (or make sure to stay in touch lots). Proper financial budgeting and planning will help you overcome the rest (do you have income? can you cover living expenses and still have some leftover to save/invest or for emergencies?). If so, sounds like you may be ready!
@@Findlifesuccess I'm not working right now but I'm planning on getting a job so I wouldn't be dependent on my boyfriend ( he's working as well)
The problem is how am I suppose to tell my mom I'm moving out? 😭😭
@@Findlifesuccess can you do a video on people who suffer from depression and anxiety and other issues affecting them in and out of the home.
@@leannjoseph5337 you probably don't want to be dependent on your boyfriend, so it may be best to get a job first. Having a job will also help in telling parents because then you will be better prepared to move out. When it comes to telling parents, the bottom line is that once you're ready to move out you just tell them; like peeling a band-aid off quickly rather than slowly. It may be a difficult conversation to have, but if you're properly prepared (for example you have a job and income, and know your budget and that you can cover expenses), then being prepared will give you confidence in speaking to your parents about it. Again, moving out but staying close to family is also an option so you can kind of get the best of both worlds. =P
@@leannjoseph5337 thank you for the topic suggestion. I can definitely produce some content around depression and anxiety, as I have experience with it (and most people do too, they just don't talk about it openly). Until then, I encourage you to check out my content on "Loving Yourself First & Foremost" :)
Thank you bro you make so much sense ! I’m moving out next month .
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lol everything u said we have to do for ourself i already know how to cook clean and do laundry at a young age so im coo lol and my rent is $575 per month it includes gas water heat free wifi trash and sewer removal all i have to pay is electricity
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One of the fears of moving out is that if you get retrenched, you have to move bak and if your parents were hating on you before you moved out, what will they do when you give them a call and say "hey mum dad i got retrenched and i have to move bak in".
I think its good to move out as it keeps the bond stronger but at the same time with todays cost of living you really have to be super independant to consider it unless thats just fear talking.
Ebrahim Abdoola I think you are right - one of the biggest fears stopping people from moving out is the fear of failing and having to come back home. That is why you need to make sure you have budgeted properly. As long as you have enough income coming in to pay for your rent, food, transportation, and extras - you should be good. But don't rush it - there are definitely some "pros" of living with family. ;)
Moving out =freedom
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I'm 17 and I'm moving out because my college is in a different city, thanks for the tips
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I have guilt , even though I pay the bills
Same
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I do most of the cons at my dad's house.
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I'm 30 years old and still living with my parents I have a disabilities but I don't have a good income too so that will be a reason why I can't move out however I once find a job a like and save up then I'll probably move out but I know for a fact I'm definitely not ready to move out. I'm not shamed to still live with them :)
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I’m guessing u live in Chicago or Detroit? In my part of Kentucky I’ve found a place that’s $600 for a 2 bed 1.5 bath 1000 square foot townhouse.
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All the cons are things that are already happening to me. Meaning I better move out as soon as possible. XD
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Good Video bro nice tips
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I didn’t move out until I was 28
I pay rent to my mum 😂
any help to your parent is helpfull.
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1000$ a month, Holy God! That's 12000 a year right?
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Y is yo shirt so wrinkly
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Sex...what about sex? Your parents don't have to deal with why you are out late because you are having sex and coming home at 7am....
Haha excellent point - I think that falls under the "more freedom" benefit of moving out. =)
You don’t live in California! Lol I heard $1000 and that’s for a one bed room all alone lol minimum
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Like your videos you so real talk I want freedom too
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“More respect” lol wtf that’s the ego talking.
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1000$ a month, Holy God! That's 12000 a year right?
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