Debra Is Underappreciated | Everybody Loves Raymond
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- “It's my money."
Season 5 Episode 20: Net Worth
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"with which to screw up"... Ray is really clueless 🙂
This scene reminds of the slippery turkey Debra threw into the oven. She delivered some great Lucy-esk scenes.😂😂
Sex and golf ⛳️ are Ray's priorities lol
Yes yes they are,oh and let’s not forget the looking like a good father,husband, and person when he isn’t yes every now and then he does nice things but that’s just so his wife won’t be/stay mad at him anymore!
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You don't get a bed tonight Raymond!! LOL!!
And I Guess that sleeping on the couch was too good for him.
Debra is so funny when she gets mad 😂 like when she bangs stuff, or in this case, drags away half the stuff in the room😂
Yeah, abusiveness is funny
@@MIS315 there is nothing funny about abuse, don’t relate real life to scenes from a sitcom because Debra is heavily abused not only from her in laws but her husband as well.
@@useryou9877 she's the abuser
I am grateful to these shoes for bringing up such issues for us single people. Now I know which issues to address before I get married
Naw, that’s not real. I wouldn’t use their mess as any type of guide.
Ray’s view of the value of money is as follows
Giving away $1000 to a friends is the same as Debra giving $5 to a hobo. 😂😂😂
Yes, but to a hobo that's like a $1000! 🤣
@@sxc7566 Exactly 😂😂😂
Ray couldn't keep the book balanced and pay the bills without debra but thinks it's just his money. That's not a marriage. When you get married it's what's mine is his and his is mine because you're suppose to be working as a team.
Yeah nah
*ORRRRRR...* If not, you need to make sure you at least marry someone who's going to be on the same page as you about the principle of sharing the wealth.
@@WestIndianAK I agree. It's something my husband and I talked about before we got married cause we both worked at the time so we went over budget, whose paycheck will cover what bills, and which account extra will go into. Then anything we need or want we just talk to each other so the other person knows that the bank account is still secured.
Remember Ray was part of the writing and was upset a poll called him "a good tv dad."
Ray wrote for conflicts; a lazy, whiny dad and husband too obviously attached to his mommy's pampering; was written as a warning to other dads!
Ray's stand-up routine only influenced the first seasons of the show, after that the characters started to feel a lot more like stereotypes... so pay attention to what season you're referring to because in the later seasons every character look like Iunatics, exaggerated versions of themselves.
My real life dad was ALOT like Jack Arnold from the wonder years
I cannot believe they never divorced. It's surreal in some ways.
The kids. Same reason frank and marie stayed together.
They're catholics. They can't divorce with out an annulment through the church, which they likely wouldn't get due to the nature of the family, length of and the intricacies of their marriage.
People just knew how to stick it out back in the day
@@ValsalaP-y3m , unfortunately, it’s not. My great-great-grandmother Alexandria Czerniecki (“Mrs. Czarniecki” in 1922) made clear that she would have left my great-great-grandfather Julian (whom died in 1922) could she have done so. She identified as “Aleksandra Andrulewicz” by both maiden name and informant name when my great-grandaunt Regina three years after Julian. The pressures on women like Marie and Debra (and, in real life, Ray Romano’s and Phil Rosenthal’s respective mothers and wives) did not change and have not changed for the better in many respects, and some of the pressures are becoming as bad as or even worse than they were just over a century ago.
Obviously, Aleksandra is not the only example from back then, though she’s a poignant one-and my understanding is that, even though some different circumstances complicated her and Julian’s situation, Julian was very much a Frank Barone of his day (Add alcohol as well), and his son Tony was a Ray Barone (and Ray Romano) of his day.
Not sure if they would have lasted without each other, same with Frank and Marie.
Did you see the checkbook episode? She manages the finances. It is her money too.
Debra doesn't get enough appreciation having to put up with marie isn't easy
@@passportlifestyle9832 I appreciate her, because we never would've had this show if she didn't convince him to move closer to them : )
They both had their own important roles to play and I think deep down they did respect each other on some level on what they did. The thing is from Debra's point of view he have it more easier because he isn't with his parents 24/7 while she is and actually is doing something that he enjoys. But in one episode show that writing isn't as easy that Debra thinks it is showing that Ray's work isn't all fun and games. In return, Ray could be a bit more involves with helping out with the house which could help out Debra's stress more.
Honestly, this is one of the more fair assessments of their relationship that I have ever seen. I respect you for not looking at it as black and white.
No problem. People gets so wrapped up in the fights that they forget that Ray and Debra have shown plenty of times to love each other. Ray is nowhere near critical to Debra as Marie is about her roles as housekeeper/mother (outside of cooking), takes the time to comes up all of these creative and unusual nicknames for her and occasionally had made her laugh. In return Debra puts up her in laws' antics for the sake for Ray and is often his confidant. She is also supportive of his job. She just wishes he would help her out a bit more without her having to nag him to do it. Both are also shown to be caring parents to their kids in their own way.
@@jfk-t9o Excellent point. Something that I would like to add to your original comment though is that Ray is also an excellent sports writer. Not only is he famous for it but he has also won multiple awards. To the extent that you want to consider our society a meritocracy, Ray's work is much more valuable than Debra's so while she works harder his output per unit of input is more valuable.
Thanks. If one look at it that way sure. But on the other hand, Debra is ensuring the next generation of model citizens by paying more attention to the kids by staying home which is important in the long run in the sense of society. They both have to be involved with talking about family and money matters though. Like I said these two plays different but equal roles here.
Ray and Debra's sweet moments
Ray have shown several times throughout the show to be comfortable in showing deep emotions or telling his wife some personal childhood stories that he doesn't usually do with others. He also got rid of his old childhood car just because it made Debra uncomfortable, reassures her that the babysitter wouldn't replaced the kids' love for her, got her job back after she got fired on her first day after initially being unsupported (which even Debra herself admits was very sweet even if she didn't takes the job back out of ashamed), set up an vow renewal on his own to makes up for taping over the wedding video, have shown times to care what Debra think of him, fought Frank to have Debra's initial house color for her, admits in front of all Robert's wedding guests that he still considers his wife to be the most beautiful girl in the world and wrote a touching letter in his newspaper column to makes up for forgetting to thanks Debra in his speech. Throughout the series Ray often takes the time to comes up with ton of creative or unusual nicknames for Debra. The fact that she barely bats her eyes over this show that she is used to this. He also is shown to occasionally still capable of making her laugh.
Meanwhile throughout the entire series Debra puts up with her in laws' antics for the sake of her love for her husband. She also often serves as her husband's confidant, is supportive of Ray's job even if he have to travel often, worries if their marriage is strong enough after her parents divorces each other and have times tries to convinces Ray to not let his parents get under his skin. She is a good wife. It is also shown that both are boring people who are all right with simply watching tv or going to the occasional movies or dinner together. The series finale especially show that Debra would in fact be an complete wreck without Ray being with her and no doubt he would be the same with her.
An minor sweet thing but while Ray and Debra may bickers often the one thing that they have always been in total agreement is that they are very careful in making sure that their kids don't get involves in the family arguments. It can be implies that on some level Ray is mindful enough to not want his kids to experiences the same thing he and Robert went through during their childhood. Also, we do need to remember that the show is showing their worst days because that what makes it interesting and funny. They had to have ton of good times together if the long-lived marriage is still going on strong underneath all the bickering. Ray do a good job in providing for his family and he is more involves with the kids than what is shown. Debra have made comments few times that she does in fact consider Ray to be a good husband and her biggest fear is losing him. He always comes home to her even if things are crazy around the house with the family. Lot of the times the fights are due to stress, annoyance or the heat of the moment. Their actual everyday relationship is probably more tame than what is shown. They get on each other nerves but there also nobody else than they rather be with. They're comfortable with each other and are able to get by the trials in the marriage. Isn't that what makes a marriage successful at the end of the day?
I think it is worth mentioning that as much as Ray can be frustrating at times or lazy about household chores, he is no idiot. He know what is going on with the family situation and is kinda in a hard place. He knows that his parents are nuts and difficult people and he know that mom isn't doing much favors for his wife. That is the love of his life and the mother of their children. Yet at the same time he still cares for his parents deep down meaning banning them permanently is out of the question. The thing is Frank and Marie are going to do what they want to do and Ray can't do much about their behavior. He and Debra just have to deal with it for the better or the worse. What he does do is show Debra that he loves her in other ways that may be small but probably actually means lot to her. Debra do recognizes this which is why she never left. She knows she got a good if bit imperfect husband who she loves dearly. She is truly Ray's light in this crazy family because she stuck around.
If you're doing a load I got some socks! 😂
It's your money. Both of your money
Debra works more then ray housework is no joke babysitter maid cook running around with three kids too oh and the crazy in laws😂
I doubt it, a lot of women even have a job besides 3 kids, plus Marie also helps.
@@redbull4fly797 I'm a guy and that there is bullshit.
Remove the laughing audience and the entire series is a story of a narcissistic person
@@Itsmebhuvaneshwari , unfortunately, narcissistic behavior is often seen as comedic or otherwise laudable in this society. In fact, right now, two of the most-narcissistic people on the entire planet are running for president of the United States.
Ray and Debra's sweet moments
Ray have shown several times throughout the show to be comfortable in showing deep emotions or telling his wife some personal childhood stories that he doesn't usually do with others. He also got rid of his old childhood car just because it made Debra uncomfortable, reassures her that the babysitter wouldn't replaced the kids' love for her, got her job back after she got fired on her first day after initially being unsupported (which even Debra herself admits was very sweet even if she didn't takes the job back out of ashamed), set up an vow renewal on his own to makes up for taping over the wedding video, have shown times to care what Debra think of him, fought Frank to have Debra's initial house color for her, admits in front of all Robert's wedding guests that he still considers his wife to be the most beautiful girl in the world and wrote a touching letter in his newspaper column to makes up for forgetting to thanks Debra in his speech. Throughout the series Ray often takes the time to comes up with ton of creative or unusual nicknames for Debra. The fact that she barely bats her eyes over this show that she is used to this. He also is shown to occasionally still capable of making her laugh.
Meanwhile throughout the entire series Debra puts up with her in laws' antics for the sake of her love for her husband. She also often serves as her husband's confidant, is supportive of Ray's job even if he have to travel often, worries if their marriage is strong enough after her parents divorces each other and have times tries to convinces Ray to not let his parents get under his skin. She is a good wife. It is also shown that both are boring people who are all right with simply watching tv or going to the occasional movies or dinner together. The series finale especially show that Debra would in fact be an complete wreck without Ray being with her and no doubt he would be the same with her.
An minor sweet thing but while Ray and Debra may bickers often the one thing that they have always been in total agreement is that they are very careful in making sure that their kids don't get involves in the family arguments. It can be implies that on some level Ray is mindful enough to not want his kids to experiences the same thing he and Robert went through during their childhood. Also, we do need to remember that the show is showing their worst days because that what makes it interesting and funny. They had to have ton of good times together if the long-lived marriage is still going on strong underneath all the bickering. Ray do a good job in providing for his family and he is more involves with the kids than what is shown. Debra have made comments few times that she does in fact consider Ray to be a good husband and her biggest fear is losing him. He always comes home to her even if things are crazy around the house with the family. Lot of the times the fights are due to stress, annoyance or the heat of the moment. Their actual everyday relationship is probably more tame than what is shown. They get on each other nerves but there also nobody else than they rather be with. They're comfortable with each other and are able to get by the trials in the marriage. Isn't that what makes a marriage successful at the end of the day?
I think it is worth mentioning that as much as Ray can be frustrating at times or lazy about household chores, he is no idiot. He know what is going on with the family situation and is kinda in a hard place. He knows that his parents are nuts and difficult people and he know that mom isn't doing much favors for his wife. That is the love of his life and the mother of their children. Yet at the same time he still cares for his parents deep down meaning banning them permanently is out of the question. The thing is Frank and Marie are going to do what they want to do and Ray can't do much about their behavior. He and Debra just have to deal with it for the better or the worse. What he does do is show Debra that he loves her in other ways that may be small but probably actually means lot to her. Debra do recognizes this which is why she never left. She knows she got a good if bit imperfect husband who she loves dearly. She is truly Ray's light in this crazy family because she stuck around.
P.S. Ray is nowhere near critical to Debra as Marie is about her roles as housekeeper/mother (outside of cooking).
They behave like mom and dad 😅😅😅
Apparently, Debra felt that making him sleep on the couch was too good for him.
Debra's ears 😊
$1000?! What was Ray thinking?
It's his money.
It was an investment.
@@williammccormick984 When you get married nothing is yours anymore.
@@Babygirlly555 Wrong. She didn't have a job. He can make investments without having to talk to her. Her entitlement here was the worst.
@@williammccormick984 Like I said in marriage nothing is yours. In divorce everything's hers. See how that works? lol
The writer for the show writing that character makes it unwatchable. A screeching woman is nothing anybody wants to hear as a show begins it's horrible having her on the show . As soon as she starts screaming I turn over to something else
Glad I'm single
yeah because this show shows real life 🙄
Whose money to screw up?!
His. He works, he provides the pay, he's the breadwinner, Debra needs to shut up and learn her place
@@Mydayiscomingsoon, you are a jerk 😒.
Hahaha 😂😂😂!!!!
Ray is an incredibly inept husband. Debra should marry me.
Saul Goodman is in this episode
Great idea, but he will need to make sure she pays her half of the bills...
For wrestling fans out there, doesn’t Ray’s outfit look like Andy Kaufman’s outfit that he wore in his match with Jerry ‘The King’ Lawler?
Debra its not your money 😂
When you're married it's our money. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband always appreciate that I save them 2000 a month on child care and 500 on not eating out all the time. We view it as our money cause we work as a team to manage the money.
@@anniewallace3601 I understand Annie and i appreciate what you do. Having said that its still his money.
@@lorenzobrown4465 the main issue with Ray's attitude is he doesn't handle the bills. He just makes the money which is fine. That's how he contributes to the family but for him to just give someone 1000 without talking to the wife who handles the bills is not okay. He possibly just made it so they couldn't pay a bill. He should have talked to her because a healthy marriage would communicate and go over the books before giving so much away. This show makes me laugh but no one should follow Ray and Debra's example. They only show toxic behavior of lack of respect, lack of communication, and poor conflict resolution. In real life they would be divorced.
Wages for Housework! Federici would be proud!
She should get compensated for her work, absolutely, but idc that’s HIS money
I never liked how mean Debra was Raymond had some misfits but in truth he really did try he was a goofy person with a good heart Debra was mean spirited Raymond deserved better. In the later seasons she was meaner and overreacted to everything the show lost its charm
Just think them acting horrible on their bad days. Their good days are probably more tame.
It's all about writing tbh. In the earlier seasons, they made a decent team. Debra was way more understanding and sure Ray was goofy, but he made an effort. After seasons 3, he kind of stopped caring, and she turned into a bully.
The creator Ray Romano considers him bad dad and husband and wrote him that way. You are just making so many excuse for his bad behavior and expecting Debra to respond positively to it. In this scene he gave away $1000 without telling her then insulted her a lot. How is that goofy ?
@@kalebr560 Ray was absolutely right it was his money and can waste his money if he wanted to. Debra was completely wrong.
Why would he have to ask for her permission to make a one-time payment on something? It’s not like he plummeted them into debt or changed their lives. He’s a grown man with a full-time job and has disposable income, he can easily afford it. He shouldn’t need to ask her to spend money like she’s his mother giving him an allowance.
When 2 people are a team, they make decisions together. It’s about mutual respect. My husband wouldn’t make that decision without me and I wouldn’t without him.
but lets look at this. Ray has to do the actual job and all his "benefits" Debra gets. House, cable, lights. Her doing the stuff around the house might be how she pays her portion of the bills and is allowed to live there and use those items. If he don't work, no money no house. But if she don't do the dishes, you just have dirty dishes. If the bank calls for their money, she can't say well I did the laundry today. Just a thought
Marriage is a partnership of equals, but ray creates inequality by placing himself above his wife in their marriage. He is mean to do that, and instead should be a loving husband who holds up his agreed-upon end of the bargain and pay the bills, while she holds up her end of the bargain and takes care of their three young children. Just an actual thought
Please tell me you're joking
@@scooterdooter there is no such thing as a 50/50 marriage
@@caz3502 please tell me you are not serious
You are a 100% correct, look at all those politically correct sensitives rushing to sound apropriate.
Poor Debra and Marie. I hope that Marie came to realize that Nona Barone went through the same abuse that Barone men inflicted on their wives and daughters for generations.
I hope Marie realises the abuse she inflicted on her boys
Please STFU with that victim mess. Females try so hard to be victims.
Awww...do you feel better now that you made a man-hating comment on a YT video? So empowered...so stunning and brave! 🤡
I love re-watching this show but maaaaaaaaaaan oh man the fighting they get into is hard to ignore sometimes.
@@KG-xt4oq lol I'm a guy and all I see on RUclips are women hating comment 😂. You saw one comment and got your panties twisted in a bunch
While Ray was a moron to waste that much gambling Debra technically does get free housing food clothing etc so charging him makes little sense but she does have a right to get mad about him losing that much money.
He gets free babysitting, surrogacy, maid, sex, cook. She also does the shopping. If he paid for her work she could shop only for herself and the kids. Hell she’d have her own house seeing as she made 3 kids. It’s starting 100k for one child in surrogacy. She could of made 500k popping out his kids if she charged for it.
And Ray get free house keeping and baby sitting service. Did you forgot that?
@@Zodroo_Tint, exactly. Debra also gave up her career and her best years to support Ray in his career.
@@NicoleCzarnecki She did. Ray also constantly complains ANYTIME he has to do any of the housework/childcare, which clearly shows how hard it is. Debra also manages all their finances, so she absolutely should get a say in how they invest their money. Ray tried handling their finances and was so bad at it that he bounced a bunch of checks and had to borrow money from Robert...Then, he lied about all of that and said that Debra had a spending problem. So yes, partners should have equal say in how money is spent/saved/invested.
@@elliemyers6435 Debra is the homemaker. Keeping the house clean and taking care of the kids is he job.
Oh well. "Them thats pays the bills makes the rules". Isn't that how its always been?
Not really, she is working for him, she makes him food and keep his clothes and the house clean for free, so she should have words in the money decisions.
Yes but men also used to protect their wives too and that's gone
@@Zodroo_Tint Nope. Woman has no say.
@@c.barrett5114 Gone? You NEED to protect your wife!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Actually he went to work so it is his money, if u want to get salary for your home maiden, maybe u need to remember he is feeding u, it’s a family everyone has a role.
So don't get a "house wife" remember that's what Ray wanted..🤷🏽♀️🤦♀️
@@anamarier4791 women get flatter her boss at work and laugh on his silly jokes, but to stay at her home honoured, not to undergo harassers on road to work and inside it, those things should honour her man for his preventing her from all these.
@@mrxyz2kwhat are you babbling about
And this, ladies, is the risk you take when you decide to be a homemaker 🤷♂
he's right its his money
No its not if you ask your wife to quite job and take care of house and kids :)
Great ❤
Hate the game not the player if you let it go on know your worth 😜
By asking her Debra meant only getting her way. Ray should make his own decisions.
You really don't get the idea of marriage do you
debra was terrible
She's right though
2:37-3:10 Absolute utter BS 💩. There’s no WAY I would have put up with that little tantrum from her
I hope that for every woman‘s sake on the planet, you are not married.
Really?? AND WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE DONE??
She’s just the worst. I’m sorry. Bottom line is, it’s still his damn money.
thank god i don't know anyone in my life who thinks like you.
@@CBoapinta Why not? Cause then you'd know some good, sensical people
Wow. Debra calls Ray immature and she’s the one freezing him in his sleep, and what about the kids were they cold as well
Okey im sorry i don't get it how it always (magic) happend that when you are im marriage woman think that the many that husband MAKE are hers and I'm a woman and I hate support my ex beacuse he was to lasy to go to work.
I mean, he is the one with a job and makes the money
It is his money. Yes she takes care of the house and the kids, but she’s able to do it all with the money he earns working
😂😂😂 never get enough of them
Someone here isn't, and has never been married....
@@maceoa9903, i’ve never been married, and I fully appreciate that a stay-at-home parent (especially a stay-at-home mother) works more of a job than many (if not most) parents (especially fathers) in the labor force will ever work in their lives.
What did Ray do? and Debra is so immature taking all the sheets and stuff. God Marriage sounds annoying. And their house is always a mess.
Do stay home moms really be this entitled on men’s money ??
It is their money
Yes, and I'm a guy saying that.
What Debra doesn’t realise is that if Ray moved out because they got divorced or something then Debra becomes homeless because she couldn’t afford to pay bills and support a family because she doesn’t have a job
She would get good alimony and child support checks after divorce and Ray probably have to move out of the house as well. Look what happened to Alan Harper.
He had to beg his rich brother to live in his Malibu house because he could not afford to rent normal place for himself. And he paid 3800 dollars alimony every month even though he earned probably less than successful sports journalist Ray Barone..
It should be the reverse, meaning that Raymond should occupy the house, and Debra will live with her folks or get her place to live with the kids. Keep this in mind. Could you picture Debra remains the occupant in the house, knowing her arch nemesis Marie lives next door to hers? Debra would jump off a bridge rather than attempt to take over the house for sanity's sake.
Redpill Mgtow
He pays for the house she lives in. Is that not appreciation enough?
hello? has anyone heard of comedy? why are people analyzing every scene to death and self portraying their lives to each second of the show. news flash, it’s not real life, although how people are expressing themselves is like a caveman convention
What Debra does around the house doesn’t pay the bills….
I mean, he's not wrong, she doesn't work, he does
She takes care of his children and the house and everything else. He comes home and does absolutely nothing, she's on the go constantly. She works. Tell me, if she had a job, wouldn't he have to do half of the work at home including the children? I'm guessing ur answer is no.
I love how women think they do that all day.
When homemakers have kids and tons of house chores to fulfill each day, what do you expect them to do, sit by their televisions and watch soap operas instead of preparing oatmeal for their youngins and washing dirty shorts for their husbands, Trump hater?
ray's a genius turning debra off than on then debra turns temp down to 50s to funny
I am a gay man, so I will never understand this, but can somebody explain to me why the head of the household, the man, the one who goes and actually earns a living has to get permission from his stay at home wife on how to spend money? When did men become such wussies.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership so financial decisions are supposed to be shared by both parties. That said, sitcoms have a long history of portraying husbands as more subservient in the relationships than they actually are.
Being a gay man doesn’t excuse this mindset.
While one partner goes out and works the other works at home. Because if not the earner would pay for a babysitter, maid, cook, surrogate, and sex worker. Since when was being gay an excuse for being sexist?
Because she is taking care of his clothes, stomach, house, kids and his d. for free.
Who cleans your house? You? Does it takes time? Well, time is money.
@@WadeAlma Amen to this. I am a gay woman and cannot understand that person's mindset. My wife and I both work, (We don't have kids, but even if we did, we'd still both work) and we discuss all our finances together. Our orientation has nothing to do with the fact that marriage is still an equal partnership with decisions that need to be made jointly. And if one of us didn't work, we'd still discuss financial stuff together, because that's what you do in a marriage.