7 ways to level up in your 20s!!! | stop wasting yours and start doing this! | practical tips
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
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F A Q
- Where are you ?
Lagos, Nigeria.
- How old are you?
I’m 23 years old, my birthday is on September 26.
- What camera do you use?
For my main videos use the Canon M50 and I vlog using the Sony ZV1. 
Хобби
1. Be disciplined
2. Plan everything
3. Educate yourself
4. Mind the business that pays you
5. Invest in yourself
6. Learn to budget
7. Pick your friends carefully
Thank you so much
Thank you ❤
Thank you :)
Ain't you awesome? So thoughtful of you. Well done and thanks
Thanks alot
Thanks for sharing awesome tips sis. I started my path to reinventing myself a year ago, I’m now living healthier, confident, stronger, making 6 figures, having leisure to enjoy family &friends. I feel happier and living my life for myself . This is to encourage someone “you can start anytime to have a reset it’s worth it! I’m striving to continue growing cus it’s a journey 💗
Congratulations! Thanks for encouraging others with your story, I will love to get tips from you too
@@eiraantoinette6793 Change your mindset, read self-help books, expand knowledge, budget and don't spend on impulse, save, take your finances seriously, eat healthy, exercise your body, meditate; the list goes on...
I hope it is useful to you.
@@gracedaniels6172 How did you grow to 6 Figure ? I’m honestly trying to work on my personal finance this year.
Congratulations to you grace keep it going 🎉👍
@@monicapep2474 I learnt to be frugal, minimal on spending, saving and paying myself first through Investing, made Plans, growing passive income, Read a lot of books on finance, followed my plan consistently.
What you said about discipline being the glue that holds everything together is the TRUTH! I learned the hard way that you can have the best plans and goals, but if you're not committed to putting in the work, nothing will ever get done
I swear. Nothing is ever really easy
Please tell me how to start😭 I’ve been trying but the motivation is not there:(
Currently learning this.😅😩
True
I'm currently going through this 😥😥😩
I'm 24 and I've spent several years unhappy because I was too passive. I'm trying to take full control of my life so I don't have anymore regrets. It's been rough. I appreciate this video so much.
I swear just loosen up a little🥺
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda no
This!!!!
You got this!
@Odaliz Orozco-Rueda no thank you🙂
🌷🌷🌷I will add one very important thing: start healing your childhood traumas sooner if you have any (I think the majority of us have), find a good therapist, don't underestimate their work. I started my healing process at 29. Now I am almost 32. I am amazed how my perspective on things have changed. Even though I did my best in my 20s, I see that I missed a lot of opportunities because I acted based on traumas. So ladies, add this to your list 🌻
SO IMPORTANT! 20s is the best and perfect time to start healing. @Kamsi Nnamani This definitely should be pinned at the top
Ok🥺🙏🏽❤️
Thank you
I love this
when she said “i promise google is free” i HOLLERED. sometimes i really do be forgetting
😂😂😂
Instead of studying for my test, I'm watching this "discipline is glue" 😭😭😭
😂🤍🤍
Garl am with u🤦😂😂😂 I keep saying this is the last one😭😭😭😭
Same here 😂😂
Yes🤣
Me too
“You’re no longer a child..your actually not” 😭😭 draaag me sis!
Love from S.A 🇿🇦♥️🙌🏾
😂😂 I dragged myself too sis😩😂🤍
Yhuu, I felt this one too🤣😭😭😭
She dragged me from her chest 😥🤣🤣
Discipline is keeeey. Discipline, consistency, patience, persistence. Omo this is for life.
Bejng disciplined is so keyyy...last year I made a decision to be more discipline with everything I do ...be it my workout, content creating, studies etc...like I saw a big difference..it was life changing for me ..
“if you fail to plan, you plan to fail” a word.
5) there’s beauty in not replying
6) invest in yourself
-look the part, act the part, do the part
7) BE GOOD WITH MONEY
8) be mindful of your friends
-no mind is an island
TRUE after uni you realise that most friends you had were "organinc" just from school and now you need adult friends very tricky.
Me in my 30s learning this because I have not planned anything nor disciplined myself 😔 and I’m not happy with life cause I know I have so much to offer but my excuses has more “value” than my goals… don’t procrastinate y’all
Don't forget that one can plan but also learn to include GOD in your plans. I used to plan alot and I was turning in circles until I started praying to God and letting him direct my life. My life was never the same again. Let's normalise prayer and not listening to what people say. God has the final say
@@annamayyy9771 FACTSSS!!!
It’s not too late queen👏🏽👏🏽
It's not too late huni
I havent even seen the whole room that you’re sitting in, but from what I can see, ITS SOOOO NICE!!!!
Aww thank youu. You can watch the room tour🥰
Podcast recommendations: 🎥🌸Bechdel cast(portrayal of women in movies),🗣🇫🇷Duolingo, 💋💅🏽The Girls Bathroom(girl talk), 🌐Michelle Obama(deep conversations), 🧖🏾♀️Naked beauty(skincare), 💎✨Quality queen control, 👩🏾🏫science vs, 🌎99% invisible(miscellaneous info)
Your fave?
Where can I get them from
@@_gracia_chantal same question
@@_gracia_chantal audible
@@nyaguayee5553 audible
this is really good advice. i’m dealing w anxiety and depression so even clicking on this video was hard for me bc it seems overwhelming considering i don’t have any personal goals, i think i should just start a little at a time for now. like waking up the same time everyday or going on a walk
Good idea , just start somewhere!! You got this👏🏽👏🏽
yes, i’m in the same boat, i’m 20 and feel so behind in life because i don’t have any goals. but that’s definitely a start
Same
Yes👏🏾👏🏾❣️
To add to the first tip, one needs discipline and consistency in EVERYTHING. I learnt that during my weight loss journey and that’s what I constantly tell my subscribers.
girlllllll me too! The consistency and discipline is real!!!
Am almost turning 21 the urge of becoming this elegant mysterious lady has been knocking in me...i want to be this independent mysterious beauty queen...am trying to master these advices😩
I should be studying but here I'm watching kamsi talk about discipline and planning 😭😭.
😂 we’ve all been there ❣️
samee, but its worth our time to know lol
So u can listen more and not study💓😊I get it😂🤝
😅😅🤣🤣🤣
Same
I'm not 20yet but this is so inspiring.
Shout out to you bc im in my late 20s and wishing i didnt get in a relationship from 19 to almost 24. Its okay now but thats one regret.
Oh wow🥺 must have been rough letting that go🤍🤍 no regrets..only lessons❣️
Same sis, sameeeee.
Be kind to yourself everyone makes mistakes but atleast you've learnt from it
Im scared now ,currently 21 and in a 4 year relationship.help!
@@beccakavejata3215 hi Becca, this might be so hard to hear but you really shouldn't be in a relationship at your age. You need to learn and achieve a lot before you get consumed by relationships and all that comes with it. Ask yourself why you're in this relationship and what you're gaining from it. Be really true to yourself and you'll see that you don't need this at your stage in life. You can also talk to a lot of women that started dating early or married early and they never have good things to say about it. Please read more, research more and listen to a lot of experienced coaches and you'll understand. Don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you what to do, just dropping my own 2 cents.
She is soooo me
Read books....
Write books...
So... Me
I'm 17 and I thought I was listening to my self...
Love you...❤
I felt in my soul when you said “I’m not trying to get a 9-5, I won’t have to wake up early to go to work & I work for myself” that’s literally why I opened up my own business 🤣 2 two reasons alone.
This is some of THE BEST advice I’ve heard on leveling up! It’s not just about superficial things, it’s about a whole lifestyle change and embodying a different version of yourself entirely - which requires the sacrifice, the discipline and the action that you talked about
I’m a podcast lover as well. I listen to podcasts while doing chores and music while I’m working. Some podcast recommendations:
• Everything is We
• I said what I said
• You don’t have the range
• F & S uncensored
• Two queens in a pod.
I have some others but these are my faves atm.
Ouu thanks queen❣️
Ouu thanks queen❣️
My favorite is I said what I said 💯
I started listening to podcasts this year and I don't know how, but it's helpful
Hi , I’m interested in listening to podcasts too . Is there an app I could download to get them please ?
Lori Harvey has mastered the art of being unbothered.
I love that for her 😍
You can’t have a father like Steve Harvey and still be bothered about what anybody thinks...
If you are having sex in different relationships, my dear you are not disciplined. LORI HARVEY is not disciplined. My dear choose your role model carefully
@@didimarcus277 what does that have to do with discipline?
@@didimarcus277 sex is the same whether in one relationship or in different relationships sir
Favorite podcast that teaches me is “Unf*ck your brain” which is all about thought work and how you can use it every day in life
I actually agree with the need to start it early(since the video is focusing on those in their 20s). In fact, the earlier(teen period) the better. Plus it is never too late for those in my age range, 30s and above. It may seem like you are doing too much when your peers cannot relate but trust me, it will pay off along the way. Be disciplined. It starts from there.
The planning tip is something I've been doing since I was 17. I'm 20 now btw. Planning days before, or at the latest a day before, helps me move forward with things I'd been pushing back or things that need immediate attention. If someone calls or texts to meet up in the middle of me achieving things on my list, na them sabi. 😂
I JUST LEVELED UP SUBSCRIBING TO YOUR CHANNEL. This was so good, thank you!
GIRL SAME , like shiiit I wanna be you friend too!
Omg Jenny
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Yes, girl, I love to plan, and creating a vision board can help out a lot too. It gets you excited about your future which we all need a visual of how we want to live our lives. Just remember it's all in God's timing! Having faith in yourself, being consistent & praying. You will be successful & live a prosperous life!
Podcast “Habits of a Prosperous women” she’s the truth!
Please where do I listen to this?
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Exactly!!!! “Mind the business that pays you” Kamsi be spitting facts 💯🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
I will be turning 20 on May 28 . I’m a 2001 baby . So I feel like it’s a new experience for me . Reaching into an adulthood. No more being a child and teenager .😢🥺. I had a great experience my childhood and my teenhood . I miss the past fun stuff .😢So when I’m in my 20s it will hit different. New experience new beginnings just like that . I hope the rest of this decade will be good. I would like to see the Virus end permanently so that I can explore more places in the world and to expand to spend more good times in my life. I want the virus gone ASAP . It messed up my mental health . I’m not happy and I’m not satisfied. Life is not what it used to be. 🥺😢
Awww you’re not alone love! You should be excited, your 20s will be full of adventure! You will learn hard lessons sha lol but it will be alright. Change is scary and this virus will come and go like the rest did. Don’t be too hard on yourself, nobody has it all figured out🤍🤍
Bro I'm 19 too and feeling the exact way
@@fullcream3724 girl same 🥲
girrl i can def relate! and i turn 20 on April 28th lol
@@nyaguayee5553 where are you from?
These tips are spot on, with discipline comes things you didn't think you can achieve. Or even you achieve things faster with a great mindset!
Omg exactly ✨
i’m 21 and just finished uni and i found this SO helpful. i want to get into content creation and start leveling up in my career and finances. i just need to plan my shit out and be disciplined ur literally soooooo on point. thanks so much girl
Good babe you better make a plan and start I already subscribed so keep it up
@@amaniibrahim5599 you’re so sweett omg ahhhh i gotta get to work
For point 5, I do this all the time. I have an exam this week that will by God's grace usher me into one of my biggest dreams. Please wish me all the best and pray for me.
That is, investing in my goals.
Success is yours in your exams
@@lifestylewithmatty5671 Awwwww....Amen! Thank you so much. You are so sweet. You will be specially favoured by God in Jesus' name. Amen.
How did your exam go @Juliet Ambali...All the best, sis😘😘
@@olatanyealuko9757 Awwww....Thank you so much, sis. It went fine. To God be the glory.♥️💓💗❤️
That discipline thing is true both in 9-5s and entrepreneurship! Discipline takes you far! It’s just so hard to develop discipline, but starting by maintaining a real routine will definitely help. Choose a time to wake up and stick to it. Plan out your optimal morning flow and stick to it! There’s no cookie cutter answer. You have to know what produces the most productive you, and commit to making that your lifestyle.
1. You're beautiful
2. I think it's patience and discipline that we need the most in our 20's. Dont be expecting miracles or instant success. Most times it needs to brew and you have to have put in a lot of work. Alot of 'influencers' never tell us how hard hard work is. Tbh Most hard works are hard but not undoable though.
Live.Laugh.Love.
I really love this channel. Well done, sis. Will definitely share
One thing missing in the vid is the importance of keeping Christ close. We need Him to get through so much.
💯💯💯
True
Amen. I was waiting for that
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Facts
Planning everything really levelled up my life, because it gave me actual practical steps to follow through in order to do better, which later helps me to be disciplined! Those were great tips:)
I'm 24 years old and I'm just starting to build the life of my dreams 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍
Our £80 candle gloriously shining in the background 😂😂
As in ehn🤣🤣
Lmao putting her to work o. She must produce that money back
😂😂😂omo
Na by force oooo
Lol...I love us...
This video popped up just as I was thinking about how to not let my summer go to waste
Exactly disciple is the key !!! And won’t work if you don’t have self discipline. A lot of us know what we want but without discipline you won’t do anything. You just keep procrastinating like me.
08:28 podcast: I listen to anything true crime and conspiracy theories. I love that. So interesting. But it’s also good to listen to success interviews and stories and motivational stuff. Love that too!
"Wake up early"
Me: still in bed by 9:25
That tip was for me
Lol girll we’ve all been there❣️
😂
Daym if 9 is late what bout 12 😭
Decided to share on here as well
I’ll group into categories based on what they are for and the vibe I get from them
RELAXATION PODCASTS
Random talks, Amebo, A lil bit of Comedy
1. ISWIS BY Jola and FK (literally my fav)
2. How Far By Mr. Eazi and Temi Otedola
3. The receipts! -they are no longer on Apple Podcast, so sad.
SELF-DEVELOPMENT & RELATIONSHIP talks
1. Pepp Talk Podcast - Brenny Lee - this has a lot of relationship talk.
2. Just Say it - Favour Ojika
3. Woman Evolve by Sarah Jakes Roberts
4. The influencer Podcast by Julie Solomon
FINANCIAL TALK
1. Money moves with ToniTones by Toni Tones
2. The Smart Money Tribe by Arese Ugwu
SPIRITUAL
MOG channel - Odudu Essien (really love this. Really straight to the point and so effective)
Sarah Jakes Roberts 💓 My fav
Arese Ugwu 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Such a brilliant video. Your 20's is the time to prepare for the future you deserve🙌🙌
You can say that again ..girls when it comes to minding other people we spent most of our time like we depend on it but we actually have other areas that we need to polish our selves so thank you with this video
Just discovered your channel and I love your content already. Thank you for the tips. ❤️✨
Definitely hits different when you hear these from someone your age. Love the tips 💕
Ikrr thanks love
Discipline is the key. I'm even learning from ur consistency, I'm applying it in my business too. Glad you even make a content about level up. Yass... Love it like
You’re welcome hun
The major issue with youths in their 20s that need discipline is SEX. Hopping from one relationship to another takes a chunk of your success life. So many youth have delayed their dreams because of this RELATIONSHIP SAGA before they realise it, they are in their 40s
@@didimarcus277 exactly you're damn right
I thought I was the only one😂. My head is always everywhere and so I need to know that I have something written somewhere to check and be sure that my day is productive in case I forget.
So useful! Thank you for sharing, this is great content 💯
I really appreciate this Kamsi, thank you so much❣️
i loved this video! im 18 and working on leveling up as i enter my 20s and these tips were so great!! discipline is THE KEY to achieving goals and becoming your best self! i also totally agree that as you get older it can be harder to make friends with similar mindsets, that why i love finding videos like this because its like all of my BFFS are on my computer screen lol. love your vids, keep it up sis
Love this, your setup, and your personality!
very insightful 💖💕 love this!!
I really love this video especially about discipline 👍🏽
The best advice I’ve heard from my mate 🙌🏾
I definitely agree and relate to all these tips! Great video,great advice.
I see the consistency Mama💞💞💞.
Not yet 20 but I’m taking these tips soooo seriously 😩❤️❤️
I have an exam today but I be here relaxed and even watching the ads😂😂
These tips would sure make life easier for the long run❤️
Thank you Kamsi❤️❤️❤️
My best advice for you is stay away from boyfriend/girlfriend relationships its a MAJOR time waster and prevents discipline. When you are ready to get married and you meet that person, you will know for sure. If you don't, just pray to God for direction.
@@didimarcus277 thank you
I turned 20 a month ago
This changed my perspective. Thank you❤️
So happy to hear🤎
Set goals
I needed this video,thanks Kamsi🙏
Ok I think I need to work on my friends tooo
Displine is actually really important💯
This was so needed!.... Thank you kamsi 😊
I find this video super helpful. Thank you, Kams!
Ooo, look at our ‘larger than life’ candle sitting pretty 😅
I totally loved watching this video 🌸🌸. I lovvve podcasts too.
I will deliberately listen to this every day. Not everyone deserves your energy. I'm so motivated right now. Keep it up
Thank you kamsiiiiiii!!! You’re the best love 💕
these are literally the best tips i’ve heard! thank you
So I was looking for a video to send to my daughter to help build her mindset when i stumbled on this..you got me hooked plus we share same birthday..Nice.
This is THE best video on RUclips 🔥 it’s the way that EVERYTHING is on point for me! The beauty, the knowledge, the humor, the home decor, the makeup 😚👌
I love this sm! Definitely subscribing! Love your way of thinking!
I sure need that levelling up babe
omg i’m new to your channel but i’m so happy i found it! you’re so gorgeous and your aesthetic is BEAUTIFUL, but you’re content is inspiring and you seem so down to earth and I’m so excited to join ur following to see you grow 💗
Well we all know kamsi has the personalityyyyy🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️
‘The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck’. I’ve had the soft copy of this for like a year now and I’ve not been able to complete it.
I’ll try to finish reading it after my semester exams
I needed this talk this week !
it's the final look for me & I love how I take so much away from each video
this video is the motivation i needed! Honestly I had so many life changes recently that it threw me into dark place and now i’m trying to get back. thank you for this. also i know that candle must last forever
Omgg I love your energy
I wish I had known these in my early 20s, just knowing 2 years ago and I'm 27 now.... I feel late 😪 😞
Lol girll you still have plenty time! Don’t feel sad
@@kamsinnamani thank you 😊
This process called life is ageless!
podcast recommendations - Seasoning this UK Podcast. 2 black girls in their 20s living in Scotland!
Thank you so much for this! Really helpful 💛💛
This is my first time watching you, subscribed! I love your energy and advice is super helpful! ❤️
Absolutely LOVE how you said to stop thinking about other peoples business. Your so right about it being a waste of your time! It sounds simple and almost selfish but if you want to improve yourself then you need to change what you invest your thought into😝❤
Mr Eazi and Temis howfar is lovely
I love these tips. Thanks for this video kamsi 💕💕💕💕
Really enjoyed this! Thanks girl
Love videos like this! Super insightful.✨
thank you love!
I loved this video so much. I'm currently being intentional about growth and the people I surround myself with. This was the icing on the cake. Thank youuu !!
Aww you’re welcome love🤍🤍
@@kamsinnamani I need help Kamsi. I have problem in expressing myself in fluent English cos I grew up with my native language, and is really stopping me from doing some things, It always makes me feel bad. Is there any help?
A lot of wisdom in this! Love it 🥰
I'm new here and I saw ur channel as I was scrolling through. I'm glad I found your channel too and I must say I've learnt a lot from it, like a whole lot. Thanks for the tips very helpful and useful 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Money Moves -Tonitone
Where do I start - Ronald Banks
On purpose - Jay Shetty
The naked marriage -Dave and Ashley Willis
ISWIS - Fk and Jollz
The Receipts Podcast
The Love hour podcast.
Awaiting other people's suggestions. Nice one Kamsi.
Ouu thank you for this!
Ouu thank you for this!
You can listen to bants on the bone as well