Right Lamont. Lessons learned are that if someone says or does something that makes you uncomfortable, address the issue as soon as possible and be selective on who you let within your personal space.
We as black people need to stop using that word amongst ourselves. I never use that word but my family and friends use it and I hate when they do. Love your videos. I do not want to meet any of the RUclipsrs I subscribe to I just enjoy watching their videos.
I totally respect what you just said & agree with you 100%, it's a very derogatory & disrespectful word that I personally never use either. God bless you 🙏🤲 friend.
As a biracial woman, I think people in general need to stop using the word.None black people use the word among themselves when referring to black of color.I have heard conversations that you may never be exposed to and I correct them every time.Bp using to the word doesn't give rac-ist whyte people a pass.The racist were using to word long before it became a slang word.Wrong is still wrong .Stop blaming bp just because you think it sounds good to do so.Fortunately , most people regardless of race are good by nature.
I don't think anyone should call anybody names. However, I have always wondered why it is okay for black people to call each other the "N" word. It seems to be okay with them. It's only offensive when a white person says it.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it. You’re a good person and don’t let anyone change that. You’re so loved by your subscribers⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
I adopted black and mixed race children. When the “N” word made it into my home I wasn’t happy. Sat all the kids down and told them that that word was not allowed in our home and I had better not ever hear it come out of their mouths. My kids are now in their 20’s and 30’s and to this day they have never spoken that word in my presence. I honestly hate that word.
I was a Foster Parent and adopted children in my care. When they came up for adopted I couldn’t give them away because I loved them like my own! They are treated just like my birth children…all the kids get along very well!
You did a great job Lamont, much respect for how you handled that situation. So sorry you not only had to deal with that but your videos got delayed. People are unbelievable. We still love you!!
I am a 52 year old, southern man. I grew up with my parents speaking the N-word all the time. As a consequence, I used it in casual conversation up until I went to college. At that point, I realized how awful that word is. When I hear it, it’s like nails on a chalkboard. There is no reason to ever, ever use that word. I regret having ever used it, but I’m glad that I have been enlightened to that words hurtful nature to many people.
Give us a break. It's just a word. It's no different than calling a white person a honky or a cracker. It's no big deal, because it's just a word. Yes, it's a derogatory term, but so are so many other words used in the English language. In the south, people don't think twice about calling someone a redneck or a dumb hillbilly. But again, they are just words. Just like the children's nursery rhyme goes... "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me." I just wish people would grow a damn backbone. If you're that butthurt over a word, then there's something seriously wrong with you. There are so many more important things to get upset about in this world. "Politically correct" is a term used for whiny, overly-sensitive pansies who need everything sugar-coated for them.
Thank you for sharing this unfortunate experience. I'm a Black Canadian woman living in one of the largest cities in Canada. This year, I have been called a n*gger twice and called a fucking ape once. Each time this happened, I told my boyfriend (who is white), and his response was of anger, sorrow, and disbelief that some people can still be so ignorant. For me, as appalling as it is, I just remind myself that as far as our society has come, in regards to civil rights, there will always be those who choose to remain ignorant, and choose to not comprehend why it is wrong to use derogatory terms against another race. For me, it's just logical to not be hurtful to other people, and that's it. Anyway, Lamont, I'm glad that you completely cut that dude off because he is just not worth your energy. Keep up the great work!! ✌🏾
Ohh so you got a Zaddy... Typical bedw.... Ofc you have to have a Caribbean background. Not too many black American women date Zaddys. Typical black teather
Lamont, I am a mutt Native American, Irish, Scottish, and Dutch. To me a person's skin color doesn't bother me, I have friends of about any race and I absolutely hate when I hear someone making racist remarks. We all bleed red. I love you and your channel, keep up the great work you do.
don't let that affect you man. we love your content and POV so don't let one person's actions effect what and who you associate with. Thanks for your content man, the real fans love ya...
I know how you feel in a way. I grew up in a neighborhood where I was the only white guy. I can’t count how many times I was called the thing you were feeding the ducks. My wife isn’t white and it pisses certain people off. I don’t care… I just keep trucking. Sorry you went through this Lamont. I love your channel and content.
Oh u can best believe they will tell u it’s not the same lol they call us cracka etc and they get away with it to. U try calling them the nword on here and see how fast u get banned! Go ask the rapper khia what she calls whote people and she gets away with it. That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them lol oh well join the club we all get called slurs
@@capricornqueen322 no it actually isnt the same. Difference is we are not allowed to be a victim no matter what. We are not ever allowed to say anything. No one alive had anything to do with the past, but we still don’t get the same treatment.
Speaking of Detroit Ghetto Gas stations, my father was killed in his Detroit Gas station in 1971 by an armed robber. Many interesting stories about the event, some than are almost unbelievable. I would be glad to share these stories with you.
Appreciate your stand on the N word I am English now living in Australia raised NEVER to say the N word Still don't never will now 58 I live in one of the biggest multicultural suburbs in Australia Very proud to have raised a son here who has friends from all over the world Happy to say my boy doesn't see colour just the good in people I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS LAMONT Thanks heaps for your efforts in entertaining your fans xxx
I'm sorry this happened. It's not ok but you handled it well. My husband and I appreciate your content always and have great respect for you. Thanks for being exactly who you are. Love ya Lamont. ❤
Lamont you've got a great soul, here's Bruce Lee style advice that took me decades to learn. Always stay positive emotionally on the inside, not just out, when dealing with people who are opponents of any love in the world. You can't reason with them. The racist wanted to make you feel angry/sad/confused and control your emotions to dark thoughts, it's their sick game. They feel in control so let them know with your mind and emotions you're onto their con. Their power is gone and have no joy in life. Love you man.
Totally agree with you Lamont,he was out of order I think you hold your cool well with him,to me it seems he was taking the piss.your better of by yourself.i admire you.your very honest person and a good person,god bless you xx
I been married to my husband for 20 yrs and raised my 4 boys and then we have 2 boys 10 and 8 yrs old we met online ( old time AOL dail up in a chat room---not all ppl are bad from online )
I’m sorry this happened to you. You are good dude. You could’ve punched him in the face right off the jump, called him out directly in the video and put him on blast, but you didn’t, you just cut him out of your life. That dude sounds like a clown and you don’t need him. Much respect to you Sir.
Physical violence over words? Really??? Yeah, you sound stable. I've been called a honky and cracker more times than I can count and I never though to myself that I should punch the idiot that called me that. I guess it's different strokes for different folks...
I understand you completely. Sorry this happened to you. Similar stuff has happened to me. I don’t sweat it after the initial anger. There are however some folks who might wonder why I ghosted them. When people show you who they are…
We have a saying here in ireland and its so true and it goes like this.Show me thier company and i will them who they are in other words becareful who you hang out with you can trust no one.Im glad you saw through him and blocked him.I enjoy your videos.
Aww the little duck intro was so cute and wholesome , I'm so sorry that happened to u Lamont , u do not deserve that at all, no one deserves to be called a horrible slur like that ever. We always will support u man , ur doing amazing ❤
I like how you handled that Lamont 👏 this is a good lesson for anyone that's wanting to go public with a cool RUclips channel. I worked in customer service in Property Management for 12 years. I require a lot of "alone time" since I retired 😂
That’s the correct way to handle this situation! You handled it like a real man should have. No violence no cursing great job! Way to keep your composure.
For him spitting the word out.......he must use it a lot. PEOPLE SHOULD SAY" I'M AN AMERICAN".Leave off the race, color, creed. I love your videos Lamont.
Dang! I'm sorry to hear you were treated so disrespectfully. It's amazing how you kept your cool. I probably wouldn't have. I'm Native American, half from the Blackfeet tribe in Montana & half from the Suquamish Tribe near Seattle. We've been called prairie n****r or Indian which I hate cuz we aren't from India. Be careful who you meet up, I love your videos & I tell my friends about you.
We, as Black people, come in many shades. People have to be mindful of who they are around because you may "fucc around and find out." And just because you're around Black people don't give you a pass to talk reckless.
Mr. Lamont I don't know if you will read this but I want you to know I'm a 67 year old man and I think you do good work and I support what you have said
So sorry this happened to you! I agree with everything you say, but in today’s world, sadly, the same exact thing could happen, even if you met someone across the street, at work event, dating site or anything. While they may not know your RUclips background people today, you just need to keep your “awares on.” No matter where you meet them.🙏🙏🙏
Saw the notification pop up - saw the title - immediately started watching. I love ducks!!! They are so cute!! Ok I’ll shut up and listen to the rest of your video. ❤ Am back: I hate that word with a passion. It is disgusting that that slide just comes out so easily out of your ex friend’s mouth. Glad you dropped him. I’d be in a pissed off mood also if I had to go through that. What a jerk!!
Stay safe Lamont! Some people have no common sense at all. You handled this situation professionally. Thank you for all the videos you do for us to watch! Stay safe!
So sorry for ignorance, Lamont. I told my kids, three words I did not want coming out of their mouths: Hate, Can't and the "N" Word. It demeans the person who utters it as much as it does the recipient. No excuse for hatred! Love you! ❤️☮️❤️🙏❤️
Lamont you just can't trust people now days that's one reason why I keep my circle very small it's sad but it's just how it has to be keep the videos coming and we will keep watching you are one of the best very talented RUclips video creator and you just don't get the Recognition that you so deserve I can't wait until you hit 1 million soon enough.
In my journey through life and having friends of all races, when I was younger I had black friends that called me n with the “a” and it was cool because it was a sign of acceptance to me. I also called them the same, but kept it in our group. I had a pass with those dudes. I was a typical kid into hip hop and all other forms of music. I knew I couldn’t take it to any place else. I look back now and think it was a little cringe but at the same time, I didn’t say it to them around other white people but neither did they. When around a diverse group, we all dropped the street talk and spoke proper and didn’t want to give anyone else the idea that my friends were cool with any ol body saying it. As I grew older, I didn’t say it anymore at all because I learned I didn’t have to have it to gain or give respect. All we had to do was be ourselves. I was lucky to have black friends and get some of that culture at a young age. You get the knowledge of exactly WHY you don’t say that shit, or take on someone else accent or manner of speaking. Plus I still get invited to the cookout. As always, good content Lamont, I feel like this was a vent and you needed it, I’ve got some buddies that would have handled it way differently, and I’ve seen it first hand. You’re also way too cool for not exposing the name of dude. I feel like you should at least do that so others don’t unknowingly keep following him.
This makes me so sad and sick especially since I live in Michigan and my daughter has been called a Sand N for years by many ignorant racist scumbags. It sends me flying into a rage because I just remember seeing the look of hurt and shock on her face and I just honestly wish these idiots could understand how badly these words hurt people and enrage their loved ones. My daughter’s father is Lebanese and evidently some ignorant racists have hate for anyone who don’t look like them and it got really bad for my daughter after 911 and I’m really afraid that it’s going to get bad again because of everything going on now.
Thank you for sharing. Kudos to you for handling it the way you did ...no reaction, is better than an explosive reaction, that leads to nowhere and as you said, he is nothing to you, therefore... You acted accordingly. ❤ Keep up the good work Lamont and as the old saying goes. It's better to be alone, than in bad company. 🤗
When someone shows you their true colors.. believe them. You handled it correctly. Sometimes the compassionate side wants to sort out or excuse bad behavior. He wasn’t even worth the video TBH. Don’t allow him another second of your energy . Guard and protect it ✌️
I wish I could meet up with you Lamont. You're a kind soul. You're extremely genuine & caring. Watching you do the things/habits you do makes me smile as I also often do what you do from time to time; filling up bird feeders, feeding/talking to animals etc, & talking to the deceased persons grave respectfully as if they're there or you knew them. I used to go & visit my Mum's grave every weekend as a kid & would spend time walking around the cemetery, taking in the peace & nature & reading graves, picking up litter & tidying up the graves the birds & squirrels had messed up picking the flowers out from the headstones & leaving them strewn across the graves or grass. I've moved now, so can't really visit her grave no more, but I still like to walk around graveyards, especially old ones & countryside, nature reserves/beauty spots in the UK. I ALWAYS pick up litter as I go along. Thank you so much for your clips. You're one of the best on RUclips. We ❤ you Lamont.
I'm so sorry that happened to you! That was awful of him to say something so offensive. Some people just don't seem to have a filter, common sense or just any decency. It shouldn't surprise me anymore but it still does. Please know that not all of us are like him. I'm sure you do, but just saying. I couldn't imagine saying something so offensive to someone I don't know anything about, but especially someone I respect for what they do, or who they are. Glad that you didn't stoop to his level and insult him or rage out. But yeah, I would write off someone that nasty as well. I started following you in 2021 shortly after my dad passed away. That's when I started watching RUclips videos of cemetery walk throughs. I don't really know why, but I felt some kind of comfort in the stories I heard. And keeping the person's memory alive in many ways keeps that person alive! My mom started watching the same kinds of videos and channels around the same time. I guess there is something to them! The first video of yours that I saw was the one at the dollhouse grave and your respect and kindness toward that little girl's story and her family definitely impressed me and I've been following you since. I don't do any RUclips videos cause I know I could never be able to deal with nasty people on here. But I hope to one day be able to say hi to you in person whether at a Michigan cemetery or if I finally go to Crimecon which I really want to do (though not sure about the next one cause dang, the cost is crazy!) But either way, thank you for what you do and I hope you continue doing videos for a long time! Take care and stay safe out there!
Lamont: "Nothing on social media I wouldn't say to your face..." Also Lamont: Does a 21:44 video of not saying things to dude's face. Love your stuff, Lamont! :)
Hello LAMONT I'm watching from Tucson Arizona, hey I'm sorry you had to go through that bullshit-with you being in the passenger seat. Huge bummer 😞 but I also don't like hearing that word it cringes my soul. Ugh!! Drives me nuts!! I can't even imagine you letting someone else drive you around, because you are at their mercy. But I'm glad you didn't freak out there because who knows what would have happened... scary thought. Anyways Lamont please stay safe out there and thank you for sharing your videos. Love hearing your voice... very nice
Agree totally Lamont! You definitely don’t need to involve others in your videos. Even though this person got you heated, you actually still were very respectful to whom it may concern. If he sees this hopefully he’ll get it and be more careful of what comes out of his mouth,because you definitely could’ve done this a different way by calling him out to all of us. Keepin real but respectful as always,that’s how you roll,and we appreciate that…safe travels and God bless
Lamont, you handled this with class. The sad thing is that jokers like this can and will get under your skin. No class whatsoever. That in turn without doubt makes you reluctant about meeting anyone. This is a sad thing because there are some normal, decent, humans still out there just hard to find for sure. The worst thing truly is if you have to miss out on meeting a truly genuine person, good conversation, nice dinner out, someone that will be there for you.
Lamont you handed this situation absolutely the right way! Like a man!!!! Apparently he doesn't know how to pickup on when he has rubbed someone the wrong way!! And does not know how to be respectful to anyone he meets!! Hope he realizes he made a big mistake by the word he used and his immature laughing! He is a little punk kid that has alot of growing up to do ! Lamont I'm glad you talked about this on a video and i hope he watches it so he learns from a real MAN!!!!! You are the best Lamont ❤
Thier people are always going to be someone who feels as offensive and that this is ok. Lamont, you're the best, and this is one of the reasons I don't understand why other people say you're a racist. Thank you for taking this stand. I appreciate you.❤❤❤
Sorry this happened to you Lamont. Here's the flip-side of it. I wonder how he would how felt if you had used a derogatory word about his ethnicity?, seriously?? People really have the nerve when they think they know somebody, yet they don't. It was insensitive and it was a gotcha moment Lamont. A man or woman will eventually say what's really on their mind in the heat of the moment. It's called let their true colors come out by making them angry. Nah, that's why I don't open myself up to people much because you gotta feel people out before opening up to them, especially strangers you know nothing about. People are very unpredictable. As someone over 50 , I definitely know this on a first hand experience .
Lol have u heard the rapper khia call us white people cracka etc etc she calls us all kinds of slurs so please spare us and she isn’t the only one! Y’all get away with that cause we don’t care enough to loot and riot over a slur lol u don’t own words and u def don’t get to tell us what we can say lol facts are there are not good people in all races including yours
We do know how it feels cause trust me black people on twitter and RUclips do it daily lol like I said difference is we don’t try and get people cancelled over it lol I frankly couldn’t careless if they like me or not and call me a slur lol
I don't blame you one bit for getting angry. That guy clearly was disrespectful and was acting like a child in my opinion. Very sad on his part and very immature of him.
I am sorry that you went through that. I personally don't like to offend people. I wish I could have a talk with someone who is down to earth without the heavy duty put downs. Sure, I have friends who may show a rough outward appearance, will tell you to your face the reality of it is, I am genuinely a listener and I can put my 2 cents in, but ignore the put down as much as possible. You sound human to me and easy-going. If I make fun of you, it is in jest only, yet sometimes it can be a dry humor. I won't intentionally put someone down but if you make me mad enough (which takes a lot to do) I can really hang it heavy. You sound like you make a great friend to anyone who deserves it.
The best thing you can do for yourself is always set the record straight w/ppl in the very beginning. If someone says something offensive to you, let them know it was offensive & to not repeat it again while in your presence. Of course I'm just repeating the lesson you learned today. I agree with you.
Dear Whitey, they are alway loyal to that little bit of admix regardless. Homogeneity is always the best choice. I hope you learn your lesson, 1 way or the other.
Please don't blame yourself Lamont. You kept it classy. You can only be responsible for yourself. You can't hold yourself responsible for other people's disrespectful actions & opinions. You're not the ignorant one, you're not in the wrong. Don't apologise for others stupitdies! ❤
Yeah, I'd have to Uber back to my vehicle after experiencing that. When I get enraged into silence, I have to distance myself from whatever's causing it.
I'm one of the lucky ones to meet you in person (twice now I believe). You're a good person and we all respect what you do.
Right Lamont. Lessons learned are that if someone says or does something that makes you uncomfortable, address the issue as soon as possible and be selective on who you let within your personal space.
We as black people need to stop using that word amongst ourselves. I never use that word but my family and friends use it and I hate when they do. Love your videos. I do not want to meet any of the RUclipsrs I subscribe to I just enjoy watching their videos.
It’s a horrendous word it makes me feel physical sick
I totally respect what you just said & agree with you 100%, it's a very derogatory & disrespectful word that I personally never use either. God bless you 🙏🤲 friend.
@@cathywhite9415 Thank you and God bless you too!
As a biracial woman, I think people in general need to stop using the word.None black people use the word among themselves when referring to black of color.I have heard conversations that you may never be exposed to and I correct them every time.Bp using to the word doesn't give rac-ist whyte people a pass.The racist were using to word long before it became a slang word.Wrong is still wrong .Stop blaming bp just because you think it sounds good to do so.Fortunately , most people regardless of race are good by nature.
I don't think anyone should call anybody names. However, I have always wondered why it is okay for black people to call each other the "N" word. It seems to be okay with them. It's only offensive when a white person says it.
I’m so sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it. You’re a good person and don’t let anyone change that. You’re so loved by your subscribers⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
this texaas gal luvs Lamont♥
So does this Buckeye! ❤
Amen, he's an awesome dude
@Bennifm This "Buckeye" too. ❤😊
I feel you Lamont. My tolerance for people is next to none
I adopted black and mixed race children. When the “N” word made it into my home I wasn’t happy. Sat all the kids down and told them that that word was not allowed in our home and I had better not ever hear it come out of their mouths. My kids are now in their 20’s and 30’s and to this day they have never spoken that word in my presence. I honestly hate that word.
Why not adopt your own?
@@lapislazulii141rude much?! Smh
@@lapislazulii141why should she? Is it your business? (Rhetorical questions)
I was a Foster Parent and adopted children in my care. When they came up for adopted I couldn’t give them away because I loved them like my own! They are treated just like my birth children…all the kids get along very well!
Well aren't you special? @@Catlover_5971
You did a great job Lamont, much respect for how you handled that situation. So sorry you not only had to deal with that but your videos got delayed. People are unbelievable. We still love you!!
I am a 52 year old, southern man. I grew up with my parents speaking the N-word all the time. As a consequence, I used it in casual conversation up until I went to college. At that point, I realized how awful that word is. When I hear it, it’s like nails on a chalkboard. There is no reason to ever, ever use that word. I regret having ever used it, but I’m glad that I have been enlightened to that words hurtful nature to many people.
Give us a break. It's just a word. It's no different than calling a white person a honky or a cracker. It's no big deal, because it's just a word. Yes, it's a derogatory term, but so are so many other words used in the English language. In the south, people don't think twice about calling someone a redneck or a dumb hillbilly. But again, they are just words.
Just like the children's nursery rhyme goes... "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me."
I just wish people would grow a damn backbone. If you're that butthurt over a word, then there's something seriously wrong with you. There are so many more important things to get upset about in this world.
"Politically correct" is a term used for whiny, overly-sensitive pansies who need everything sugar-coated for them.
Sorry that happened to you, Lamont. You handled it well, just be done with him. We love ya
Agreed!!🔥🙌🏾💯
Raging Rob is who he referred to
@@SuperNatblessed agreed
@@cgruthlessratedr9740 never heard of him
👍
Thank you for sharing this unfortunate experience. I'm a Black Canadian woman living in one of the largest cities in Canada. This year, I have been called a n*gger twice and called a fucking ape once. Each time this happened, I told my boyfriend (who is white), and his response was of anger, sorrow, and disbelief that some people can still be so ignorant. For me, as appalling as it is, I just remind myself that as far as our society has come, in regards to civil rights, there will always be those who choose to remain ignorant, and choose to not comprehend why it is wrong to use derogatory terms against another race. For me, it's just logical to not be hurtful to other people, and that's it. Anyway, Lamont, I'm glad that you completely cut that dude off because he is just not worth your energy. Keep up the great work!! ✌🏾
None of this happened
Everyone gets called names.
EVERYONE.
So what.
NAMES CANT HURT YOU!!!! PEOPLE CAN!!!!
I GET CALLED ALL KINDS OF RACIST NAMES FROM BLACKS,,,AND IT DOES NOT BOTHER ME IN THE LEAST!!!!! BECAUSE IM STILL ALIVE!!!!!!
Ohh so you got a Zaddy... Typical bedw.... Ofc you have to have a Caribbean background. Not too many black American women date Zaddys. Typical black teather
You handled this situation perfectly Lamont.
I am an English white lady and find this guy’s attitude stinks.
Love your work Lamont 🏴🇬🇧
Did u have to add that your white lol what does that matter lady
Lamont, you're a respectful, stable, well-mannered gentleman. THAT'S what I see above all else. Oh, and you have an awesome channel!😊
How was that respectful using the word F#%##%# Ni$$&@ Really 😮😮
You're a good ,smart, dude Lamont !Props to you for keeping your cool!
Lamont, I am a mutt Native American, Irish, Scottish, and Dutch. To me a person's skin color doesn't bother me, I have friends of about any race and I absolutely hate when I hear someone making racist remarks. We all bleed red. I love you and your channel, keep up the great work you do.
don't let that affect you man. we love your content and POV so don't let one person's actions effect what and who you associate with. Thanks for your content man, the real fans love ya...
I know how you feel in a way. I grew up in a neighborhood where I was the only white guy. I can’t count how many times I was called the thing you were feeding the ducks. My wife isn’t white and it pisses certain people off. I don’t care… I just keep trucking. Sorry you went through this Lamont. I love your channel and content.
Oh u can best believe they will tell u it’s not the same lol they call us cracka etc and they get away with it to. U try calling them the nword on here and see how fast u get banned! Go ask the rapper khia what she calls whote people and she gets away with it. That’s why I don’t feel sorry for them lol oh well join the club we all get called slurs
There are racists in every culture
It’s Soooo NOT THE SAME🤦🏾♀️
@@capricornqueen322 no it actually isnt the same. Difference is we are not allowed to be a victim no matter what. We are not ever allowed to say anything. No one alive had anything to do with the past, but we still don’t get the same treatment.
@@lisabolin9924what other r@çe has system that dominates globally besides wypipo?
Speaking of Detroit Ghetto Gas stations, my father was killed in his Detroit Gas station in 1971 by an armed robber. Many interesting stories about the event, some than are almost unbelievable. I would be glad to share these stories with you.
Sorry for your loss :(
How awful, I’m sorry.
I live in Detroit, other than downtown it's a shitshow
These ducks are Beautiful! Thank you for this Beautiful Video!! Lamont you’re a Great Content Creator! 🌺
Appreciate your stand on the N word I am English now living in Australia raised NEVER to say the N word
Still don't never will now 58 I live in one of the biggest multicultural suburbs in Australia
Very proud to have raised a son here who has friends from all over the world Happy to say my boy doesn't see colour just the good in people I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS LAMONT Thanks heaps for your efforts in entertaining your fans xxx
How about “racist”(the n word for Whites)?
It's a horrible word. Think before you speak 😢😢
I'm sorry this happened. It's not ok but you handled it well. My husband and I appreciate your content always and have great respect for you. Thanks for being exactly who you are. Love ya Lamont. ❤
your such a nice guy lamont and such a gentleman we would all love to meet you i wish you would come to the uk..xx
Lamont you've got a great soul, here's Bruce Lee style advice that took me decades to learn. Always stay positive emotionally on the inside, not just out, when dealing with people who are opponents of any love in the world. You can't reason with them. The racist wanted to make you feel angry/sad/confused and control your emotions to dark thoughts, it's their sick game. They feel in control so let them know with your mind and emotions you're onto their con. Their power is gone and have no joy in life. Love you man.
101 reasons not to meet anyone on the internet #1 ITS NOT SAFE
then be more dangerous if the situation calls for it
Nagger please!!!
Totally agree with you Lamont,he was out of order I think you hold your cool well with him,to me it seems he was taking the piss.your better of by yourself.i admire you.your very honest person and a good person,god bless you xx
I been married to my husband for 20 yrs and raised my 4 boys and then we have 2 boys 10 and 8 yrs old we met online ( old time AOL dail up in a chat room---not all ppl are bad from online )
@@angelpurcell3156 absolutely. I do alota biz with folks from online,. Always a good experience, but you have to be prepared
Better to be cooled down and level headed before talking to crazy people. That's a fact. You did good Lamont 💯👏
I’m sorry this happened to you. You are good dude.
You could’ve punched him in the face right off the jump, called him out directly in the video and put him on blast, but you didn’t, you just cut him out of your life. That dude sounds like a clown and you don’t need him. Much respect to you Sir.
Would you promote violence responses to anti Whiteism? Slainte!
Physical violence over words? Really??? Yeah, you sound stable.
I've been called a honky and cracker more times than I can count and I never though to myself that I should punch the idiot that called me that.
I guess it's different strokes for different folks...
You learned a lesson that not everyone has good intentions. So good for you in keeping your cool. Move on and keep trucking.
I understand you completely. Sorry this happened to you. Similar stuff has happened to me. I don’t sweat it after the initial anger. There are however some folks who might wonder why I ghosted them. When people show you who they are…
white nagger says what? . 😂
Wow you are one cool guy. You have your boundaries and stick to them
People are sad. Love what you do man. Keep up the awesome work and let nothing stop you.
We have a saying here in ireland and its so true and it goes like this.Show me thier company and i will them who they are in other words becareful who you hang out with you can trust no one.Im glad you saw through him and blocked him.I enjoy your videos.
Aww the little duck intro was so cute and wholesome , I'm so sorry that happened to u Lamont , u do not deserve that at all, no one deserves to be called a horrible slur like that ever. We always will support u man , ur doing amazing ❤
I like how you handled that Lamont 👏 this is a good lesson for anyone that's wanting to go public with a cool RUclips channel. I worked in customer service in Property Management for 12 years. I require a lot of "alone time" since I retired 😂
Lol @ the beginning of the video with this topic, I totally caught what you did here! Brilliant! Lol
You’re such a great guy Lamont, don’t let anyone or anything change you. You’re the best! Love your channel
You the man Lamont! Stand up guy
That’s the correct way to handle this situation! You handled it like a real man should have. No violence no cursing great job! Way to keep your composure.
Love you, Lamont!! You are such a stand-up guy and I will always be a fan!! ❤❤
For him spitting the word out.......he must use it a lot. PEOPLE SHOULD SAY" I'M AN AMERICAN".Leave off the race, color, creed. I love your videos Lamont.
Dang! I'm sorry to hear you were treated so disrespectfully. It's amazing how you kept your cool. I probably wouldn't have. I'm Native American, half from the Blackfeet tribe in Montana & half from the Suquamish Tribe near Seattle. We've been called prairie n****r or Indian which I hate cuz we aren't from India. Be careful who you meet up, I love your videos & I tell my friends about you.
People are people and some don’t have filters or common sense. It’s a very complex society we live in. I distance myself from most people. 😊
We, as Black people, come in many shades. People have to be mindful of who they are around because you may "fucc around and find out." And just because you're around Black people don't give you a pass to talk reckless.
Facts 💯
Mr. Lamont I don't know if you will read this but I want you to know I'm a 67 year old man and I think you do good work and I support what you have said
So sorry this happened to you! I agree with everything you say, but in today’s world, sadly, the same exact thing could happen, even if you met someone across the street, at work event, dating site or anything. While they may not know your RUclips background people today, you just need to keep your “awares on.” No matter where you meet them.🙏🙏🙏
I feel you. I have a serious temper, i absolutely have to take a breath instead of confrontation. I dont trust my temper at all
I wanna hear that Ghetto gas station song, probably funny as hell.😂
It should be about Atlantic City. Pacific Ave near the 711. 😂😂😂
Me too
Damn man, that is HARD CORE, riding a 250cc Helix all the way from Tx to MI!
Thuggish Ruggish
I have so much respect for d way U are, Lamont.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Saw the notification pop up - saw the title - immediately started watching. I love ducks!!! They are so cute!! Ok I’ll shut up and listen to the rest of your video. ❤
Am back: I hate that word with a passion. It is disgusting that that slide just comes out so easily out of your ex friend’s mouth. Glad you dropped him. I’d be in a pissed off mood also if I had to go through that. What a jerk!!
I love ducks too 🦆
There’s a guy on RUclips who vlogs with his pet duck 🦆
Ya to turnt tony
@@Lamontontherun If you love them you should know your not supposed to feed them crackers or bread, No nutritional value for ducks.
So sorry you had to go through that. ❤Be Safe..... God Bless US All Everywhere🙏
Stay safe Lamont! Some people have no common sense at all. You handled this situation professionally. Thank you for all the videos you do for us to watch! Stay safe!
You handled the situation very well. You were not in your van and who knows what could have happened. Take care out there.
So sorry for ignorance, Lamont. I told my kids, three words I did not want coming out of their mouths: Hate, Can't and the "N" Word. It demeans the person who utters it as much as it does the recipient. No excuse for hatred! Love you! ❤️☮️❤️🙏❤️
Name checks out
@@choossuck7653 I guess it's fun for little minded people to be rude
What about other racial slurs?
@@michaelbrinks8089they usually all fall under an umbrella. Don’t make the comment more than it is.
Find ways to keep your temper that’s waiting in the wings to come out In check…. No one ever wins when they lose their temper. Love & hugs Lamont
Agreed !! You do amazing work and we as people here respect you..Thank you for sharing with us all here..Peace out..
Lamont you just can't trust people now days that's one reason why I keep my circle very small it's sad but it's just how it has to be keep the videos coming and we will keep watching you are one of the best very talented RUclips video creator and you just don't get the Recognition that you so deserve I can't wait until you hit 1 million soon enough.
Never could trust people.
Definitely
People really need to have respect for each other. It would make things so much easier in an already tough world
🙏 much love and respect bro keep going strong 💯
In my journey through life and having friends of all races, when I was younger I had black friends that called me n with the “a” and it was cool because it was a sign of acceptance to me. I also called them the same, but kept it in our group. I had a pass with those dudes. I was a typical kid into hip hop and all other forms of music. I knew I couldn’t take it to any place else. I look back now and think it was a little cringe but at the same time, I didn’t say it to them around other white people but neither did they. When around a diverse group, we all dropped the street talk and spoke proper and didn’t want to give anyone else the idea that my friends were cool with any ol body saying it. As I grew older, I didn’t say it anymore at all because I learned I didn’t have to have it to gain or give respect. All we had to do was be ourselves. I was lucky to have black friends and get some of that culture at a young age. You get the knowledge of exactly WHY you don’t say that shit, or take on someone else accent or manner of speaking. Plus I still get invited to the cookout. As always, good content Lamont, I feel like this was a vent and you needed it, I’ve got some buddies that would have handled it way differently, and I’ve seen it first hand. You’re also way too cool for not exposing the name of dude. I feel like you should at least do that so others don’t unknowingly keep following him.
This makes me so sad and sick especially since I live in Michigan and my daughter has been called a Sand N for years by many ignorant racist scumbags. It sends me flying into a rage because I just remember seeing the look of hurt and shock on her face and I just honestly wish these idiots could understand how badly these words hurt people and enrage their loved ones. My daughter’s father is Lebanese and evidently some ignorant racists have hate for anyone who don’t look like them and it got really bad for my daughter after 911 and I’m really afraid that it’s going to get bad again because of everything going on now.
NAMES DONT HURT,,,,PEOPLE HURT!!!!!!
@@TRUTHSETTERANIMALSRULE . Names hurt children. It’s even more disgusting when you realize that it’s the parents that taught it to them.
You can always go back home, any reason why the heck your in my country if you have it so bad here?
Thank demoncrats. They started the hate up again.
You handled this with class, and that's what is important to remember.
Thank you for sharing. Kudos to you for handling it the way you did ...no reaction, is better than an explosive reaction, that leads to nowhere and as you said, he is nothing to you, therefore... You acted accordingly. ❤ Keep up the good work Lamont and as the old saying goes. It's better to be alone, than in bad company. 🤗
I'm so sorry Lamont. Keep being you, because you have great content, and keep rising above. You are beautiful in so many ways.
I totally agree with u Lamont please travel safe and prayers for u Lamont
Much love and respect Lamont ❤
He was very rude, but you handled yourself very well. Good on you. Safe travels & Gods blessings.🥰🥰💙🩵💚
When someone shows you their true colors.. believe them. You handled it correctly. Sometimes the compassionate side wants to sort out or excuse bad behavior. He wasn’t even worth the video TBH. Don’t allow him another second of your energy . Guard and protect it ✌️
I'm so sorry that happened Lamont. Some people are so hateful.
When u put yourself put there, you attract all kinds
I wish I could meet up with you Lamont. You're a kind soul. You're extremely genuine & caring. Watching you do the things/habits you do makes me smile as I also often do what you do from time to time; filling up bird feeders, feeding/talking to animals etc, & talking to the deceased persons grave respectfully as if they're there or you knew them. I used to go & visit my Mum's grave every weekend as a kid & would spend time walking around the cemetery, taking in the peace & nature & reading graves, picking up litter & tidying up the graves the birds & squirrels had messed up picking the flowers out from the headstones & leaving them strewn across the graves or grass. I've moved now, so can't really visit her grave no more, but I still like to walk around graveyards, especially old ones & countryside, nature reserves/beauty spots in the UK. I ALWAYS pick up litter as I go along.
Thank you so much for your clips. You're one of the best on RUclips. We ❤ you Lamont.
I understand where you're comin' from and I agree one hundred percent. Thank you for this
I'm so sorry that happened to you! That was awful of him to say something so offensive. Some people just don't seem to have a filter, common sense or just any decency. It shouldn't surprise me anymore but it still does.
Please know that not all of us are like him. I'm sure you do, but just saying. I couldn't imagine saying something so offensive to someone I don't know anything about, but especially someone I respect for what they do, or who they are. Glad that you didn't stoop to his level and insult him or rage out. But yeah, I would write off someone that nasty as well.
I started following you in 2021 shortly after my dad passed away. That's when I started watching RUclips videos of cemetery walk throughs. I don't really know why, but I felt some kind of comfort in the stories I heard. And keeping the person's memory alive in many ways keeps that person alive! My mom started watching the same kinds of videos and channels around the same time. I guess there is something to them! The first video of yours that I saw was the one at the dollhouse grave and your respect and kindness toward that little girl's story and her family definitely impressed me and I've been following you since.
I don't do any RUclips videos cause I know I could never be able to deal with nasty people on here. But I hope to one day be able to say hi to you in person whether at a Michigan cemetery or if I finally go to Crimecon which I really want to do (though not sure about the next one cause dang, the cost is crazy!) But either way, thank you for what you do and I hope you continue doing videos for a long time! Take care and stay safe out there!
So you want to ban words you don’t like?
Lamont: "Nothing on social media I wouldn't say to your face..."
Also Lamont: Does a 21:44 video of not saying things to dude's face.
Love your stuff, Lamont! :)
Stay safe out there, and rock on, Lamont!💜✌
I really admire how you handled that situation. Always stay safe!
ITS JUST A WORD I DONT USE IT IT ONLY HAS POWER IF YOU GIVE IT
Your a good man Lamont. Keep doing what you’re doing. Stay safe. Love ❤️ your videos
You are a great storyteller.
Hello LAMONT I'm watching from Tucson Arizona, hey I'm sorry you had to go through that bullshit-with you being in the passenger seat. Huge bummer 😞 but I also don't like hearing that word it cringes my soul. Ugh!! Drives me nuts!! I can't even imagine you letting someone else drive you around, because you are at their mercy. But I'm glad you didn't freak out there because who knows what would have happened... scary thought. Anyways Lamont please stay safe out there and thank you for sharing your videos. Love hearing your voice... very nice
Agree totally Lamont! You definitely don’t need to involve others in your videos. Even though this person got you heated, you actually still were very respectful to whom it may concern. If he sees this hopefully he’ll get it and be more careful of what comes out of his mouth,because you definitely could’ve done this a different way by calling him out to all of us. Keepin real but respectful as always,that’s how you roll,and we appreciate that…safe travels and God bless
Thank you for posting this video,when you don’t have respect for others you shouldn’t expect them to have respect for you!
You are a good man, Lamont.
Your good at letting things roll9ff your back ....too like the ducks with water...love the channel thankyou for sharing ❤ ✌️ ☮️ 🕊
You handled that very well. You don;t need people like that in your life.
So many of us we love & RESPECT you. Forever your fan.
Lamont, you handled this with class. The sad thing is that jokers like this can and will get under your skin. No class whatsoever. That in turn without doubt makes you reluctant about meeting anyone. This is a sad thing because there are some normal, decent, humans still out there just hard to find for sure. The worst thing truly is if you have to miss out on meeting a truly genuine person, good conversation, nice dinner out, someone that will be there for you.
Lamont you handed this situation absolutely the right way! Like a man!!!! Apparently he doesn't know how to pickup on when he has rubbed someone the wrong way!! And does not know how to be respectful to anyone he meets!! Hope he realizes he made a big mistake by the word he used and his immature laughing! He is a little punk kid that has alot of growing up to do ! Lamont I'm glad you talked about this on a video and i hope he watches it so he learns from a real MAN!!!!! You are the best Lamont ❤
The Golden Rule. All of us could be better people if we’d just follow it!
Thier people are always going to be someone who feels as offensive and that this is ok. Lamont, you're the best, and this is one of the reasons I don't understand why other people say you're a racist. Thank you for taking this stand. I appreciate you.❤❤❤
Sorry this happened to you Lamont. Here's the flip-side of it. I wonder how he would how felt if you had used a derogatory word about his ethnicity?, seriously?? People really have the nerve when they think they know somebody, yet they don't. It was insensitive and it was a gotcha moment Lamont. A man or woman will eventually say what's really on their mind in the heat of the moment. It's called let their true colors come out by making them angry. Nah, that's why I don't open myself up to people much because you gotta feel people out before opening up to them, especially strangers you know nothing about. People are very unpredictable. As someone over 50 , I definitely know this on a first hand experience .
Lol have u heard the rapper khia call us white people cracka etc etc she calls us all kinds of slurs so please spare us and she isn’t the only one! Y’all get away with that cause we don’t care enough to loot and riot over a slur lol u don’t own words and u def don’t get to tell us what we can say lol facts are there are not good people in all races including yours
We do know how it feels cause trust me black people on twitter and RUclips do it daily lol like I said difference is we don’t try and get people cancelled over it lol I frankly couldn’t careless if they like me or not and call me a slur lol
Okay Lamont, you're so professional... I applaud you
I don't blame you one bit for getting angry. That guy clearly was disrespectful and was acting like a child in my opinion.
Very sad on his part and very immature of him.
I am sorry that you went through that. I personally don't like to offend people. I wish I could have a talk with someone who is down to earth without the heavy duty put downs. Sure, I have friends who may show a rough outward appearance, will tell you to your face the reality of it is, I am genuinely a listener and I can put my 2 cents in, but ignore the put down as much as possible. You sound human to me and easy-going. If I make fun of you, it is in jest only, yet sometimes it can be a dry humor. I won't intentionally put someone down but if you make me mad enough (which takes a lot to do) I can really hang it heavy. You sound like you make a great friend to anyone who deserves it.
OMG! Those houses in the first shots, my dream home. That's when homes were made not built. Love your videos Lamont.
The best thing you can do for yourself is always set the record straight w/ppl in the very beginning. If someone says something offensive to you, let them know it was offensive & to not repeat it again while in your presence. Of course I'm just repeating the lesson you learned today. I agree with you.
Dear Whitey, they are alway loyal to that little bit of admix regardless. Homogeneity is always the best choice. I hope you learn your lesson, 1 way or the other.
How sweet , people who feed animals or ducks are sweethearts.
Oh how cute!! The ducks have a little house for shelter when the weather is bad!!
Please don't blame yourself Lamont. You kept it classy. You can only be responsible for yourself. You can't hold yourself responsible for other people's disrespectful actions & opinions. You're not the ignorant one, you're not in the wrong. Don't apologise for others stupitdies! ❤
Yeah, I'd have to Uber back to my vehicle after experiencing that. When I get enraged into silence, I have to distance myself from whatever's causing it.
I bet that guy didn't even realize you are black.