Doosari Shadi Ka Bhoot - Second Marriage | Syed Sarfraz Shah
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- In this video, Syed Sarfraz Shah giving the answer of Qasim Ali Shah's question. He is sharing his wisdom, knowledge and experience through his answer.
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Second marriage is not an evil
Aahad imran hai
Quran-:(3)سورة النساء-الجزء الرابع
Quran-:(3)سورة النساء-الجزء الرابع
وَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تُقْسِطُوا فِي الْيَتَامَىٰ فَانكِحُوا مَا طَابَ لَكُم مِّنَ النِّسَاءِ مَثْنَىٰ وَثُلَاثَ وَرُبَاعَ ۖ فَإِنْ خِفْتُمْ أَلَّا تَعْدِلُوا فَوَاحِدَةً أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُكُمْ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ أَدْنَىٰ أَلَّا تَعُولُوا ﴿٣﴾
اگر تمہیں ڈر ہو کہ یتیم لڑکیوں سے نکاح کرکے تم انصاف نہ رکھ سکو گے تو اور عورتوں میں سے جو بھی تمہیں اچھی لگیں تم ان سے نکاح کر لو، دو دو، تین تین، چار چار سے، لیکن اگر تمہیں برابری نہ کر سکنے کا خوف ہو تو ایک ہی کافی ہے یا تمہاری ملکیت کی لونڈی یہ زیاده قریب ہے، کہ (ایسا کرنے سے ناانصافی اور) ایک طرف جھک پڑنے سے بچ جاؤ (3
Hum log sirf naam ke Muslim hai hamara culture abhi Hindu wala hi hai is lsle zina aasaan hai dosri shadi mushkil hai
Aur afsos ki baat to ye hay k dono aflatoon phr bhait kr es ko justify b kr rahein hain...jis qaom k esisy think tanks ho un ka Allah hi hafiz
O Bhai phley ja k puri research karo ja k hindu mazhab ko Dekho lekin ap ne to apna mazhab bhi thek se nahi parha to hindu ka Kya pta hoga...
Ap k itla k Liye arz hai sri Krishna ki 16108 biwiya thi.or drasahd ki teen biwiya......ap log bhi unhi hindu ki trha ho jin ko apney deen k barey mein Kuch nahi pta or wo khud khtey phirtey hai k hindu mein zyada Shaadi nahi.......chley agr bhs krni hai to mujhse krein quran or hadees se hawala de kr samjhao gi is ayat ko......
its not only about Hindu influence its about human nature. Marriage is an institution a relation based on commitment and this is the only relation that we make on Earth all other relations are God given, sharing in this relation gives way to jealousy , depression and sheer grief.if more than one wife had been a necessity Adam could have come with various eves as body has more than one ribs.
Thanks for some sane voice
This theory has been debunked various times. To sum up, we have obligation to obey shari'ah of Muhammad s.a.w, and his rightly guided predecessors. There are only 2 sahaba who had 2 wives. All the rest had multiple wives.
Now bring forth other arguments against kitaab-Allah, which explicitly allows 4 marriages and says "Malaamat mat karna". Mujhe to seriously unlogon ke iman ka khatra lagta hai jo Allah ki halaal ki hui cheez aur tamam sahaba ki sunnat se rokne ke bahane talash karte hain.
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Sane voice? Did Allah made a mistake naudhubillah who revealed the verse to marry upto 4? Why did rasoolullah and sahaba marry multiple wives?
Come on sister. Why are we girls so selfish to disallow other Muslim sisters from having a family and home? I see my colleagues and friends getting old, their minds getting filled with hopelessness and intrusive anxious thoughts. We just need to bear a little pain of jealousy, which subsides eventually, for the sake of Allah.
@@deebakapadia that is what u call a sane voice ye jo oper hazrat adam AS ki examples day rahi hain she needs to educate her self in many ways hazrat adam AS k bad 1lakh 23 hazaar Prophets or b aye hain and as a muslim hum sab ko mante hain leken hum *HAZRAT MUHAMMAD SAW* ki sheriyat pay hain inho lgta hai inki nonsense batin koi sunay ga. Allah k kahe ko lalkarne wale bat hai touba nauzubillAllah.
Salaam shah shb ap ko or apke guru g ko mai smjhti hn ke ap log bht bara kaam kr rhe hain is muashre ko bht zarurat hai islaah ki or muje b.
Sir ,ap k lectures se bht kuch seekhny ko milta h ap ase hi rehnumai krte rhn ....
v gud topic
Sir kindly don't represent the concept of 2nd marriage as something pathetic or evil... its LEGAL in ISLAM though...2nd(or upto 4th) marriage is allowed and comes with alot of responsibilities if one is ready to fulfil his desire also better step up and accept the responsibilities...Ignore the culture which varies place to place but ISLAM doesn't :) So no one is going to be in trouble after 2nd marriage.
Ap logo ko sirf ye pta hai k Islam mein hai pr Allah ne ye bhi kha k is mein nishaniya hai un k liye Jo aqal rekhtey hai....ye ayat kb ai q ai is k pichey Waja Kya hai or is ko lazim q qarar nahi diya....or basically apk Liye adl passsey se Shuru ho kr passey pe khtm jb k esa Kuch nahi adl Arabic language ka word hai Jo k root word letters se bnti hai .....ap ne English sikhi hai to pta hoga k english ki bhi koi grammar Hoti hai agr wo grammatical rule sahi se na follow kiye jaey to mtlb change hojata hai isi trha arabic k bhi Kuch grammatical rule hongey k nahi.....jb tk puri proper research na kr ley to us pr nahi bolna chahye.... beshak ye hai but ye dekhna hai k ye kis way mein kha hai Allah ne is ko insisting way mein or recommended way mein nahi kha hai.......
@@kamranali8916 bhai itne lambay comment mein koi b ksi b kisam ka fact ya point ni hai, kehna ya samjhana kya cha rhe ho 😂
@@BUNTYDATHUG ap k comment ko dekh k jawab diya na jb us mein koi logic nahi to jawab bhi esa hi milna tha....ap ki comment ki trha illogical..😂😂 agr logic chahye to mein abhi puri history k sath is ayat ko explain krdu...
@@BUNTYDATHUG Islam aney se pheley bhht log ek se zyada shadi krtey they itni in ki koi tadad nahi thi or wo us waqt is liye ki jati thi takey apney khandan ko brha sakey..q k us waqt jis ka jitna bra khandan hota tha utna bri izzat or is mein nainsaafi hoti thi...or jb nabi Pak saw ne hazrat Khadija se shadi ki to wo Arab ki is riwaj k khilaf jatey Huey ek hi shadi ki hazrat Khadija ki zindagi mein nabi Pak saw monogamous they....or un ka sath 25 saal tk tha...us ka baad hazoor ne shadi ka Socha bhi nahi tha wo hazrat khola thi jinho ne nabi saw ko hazrat sowda ka hazrat ayesha ka rishta btaya...hazrat ayesha ki pheli se kehi baat tey thi jis ki lekin phir un logo ne hazrat Abu bakr k Muslim honjaney ki waja se inkar kr diya...jis ki waja se hazoor saw ne un dono se nikah kiya q k hazoor saw dono jaga shadi ka paigham bhijwa chukey they....is k bad hazoor saw ne jitni bhi shadi ki sari Allah k hukum se ki or un ki shadi ka maqsad tadad e azwaj nahi tha un ki Shaadi ka maqsaad apni qom ko ye batana tha k tum kin kin aurton se nikah kr saktey ho...or aj un ki ye bat sach hui q k aj Muslims agr cousin se shadi krtey hai to dosrey mazhab k log isey gunnah samjhtey hai q k wo log unhey behn samjhtey hai....mu boleye Betey ki biwi ko sagi bahu samjhtey hai...is k ilawa ghulaam aurton ko tafrih ka saman is k elawa beewah aurat ko us k shohar k sath hi jala diya jata hai takey wo kisi dosrey se shadi na kr sakey.... Israel mein ek law hai k aurat talaq agr leti hai to husband ye bat rekh sakta hai k ye kisi dosrey se shadi nahi kr sakti......to ye thi hazoor ki esi aurton se shadi ki waja k wo unhey bta sakey k ye aurtein tum pr halal hai..or kesi aurat ki haqtalfi na ho.....warna unho ne apni kisi beti ki Shaadi already married man se nahi krwai hazrat Fatima k liye hazrat Ali se pheley Hazrat abu bakr or Hazrat umer ka rishta bhi aya tha..to q ha nahi ki nabi ne dono Ameer bhi they dosra nikah afford bhi krsaktey they or ADL pr to koi shq nahi in k phir q inkar kiya?? Or q hazrat Ali ko hazrat Fatima ki zindagi mein dosri shadi nahi krney di...or ye q kaha k agr Ali shadi krna chtey hai to pheley Meri beti Fatima ko talaq dey q k Fatima merey jigr ka tukra hai Jo isey bura lagta hai wo mujhey bura lagta hai jisey inhi takleef phunchey gi us se mujhey takleef phunchti hai.......or agr sunnat follow krni hai to phir 12 Shaadi kro q nahi krsaktey hazoor ne to 12 ki thi or agr puri tarikey se nabi saw ko follow krna hai to pheli shadi ek bewa umer mein bari aurat se krein or un ki zindagi mein kisi se Shaadi na krein un ki wafat k baad kijye...q nabi saw un ki zindagi mein monogamous rhey they....or agr or zyada achey se sunnat follow krni hai to kisi aurat k sath affairs Mt chlaein q k hazoor saw nikah krney k liye is tarha k rasto ko nahi apnaya tha..........masla ye hai k hum log hamesha ye dekhtey hai k dosri Shaadi Islam mein hai bs lekin ye bhi to dekhey k jis trha se log second marriage ko krtey hai deen ka naam lekr or phir jb is mein adl nahi kr patey to jo nainsaafi Hoti hai to us mein sirf wo miya biwi nahi blkey bachey suffer krtey hai.......or is natijey mein aksar generation mein bigar paida hojata hai.......
Kuch cheezein gunnah beshaq nahi Hoti haram bhi nahi Hoti pr zaroori nahi k wo ap k haq mein theek bhi ho..........
Agr koi sugar ka mareez hai wo meetha nahi kha sakta to is ka mtlb ye nahi k cheeni Haram hogai wo us shaks k Liye thek nahi means age wo us se pahreez krey ga to is mein faida hai ....isey kehtey hai taqwa or shah sahb taqwa ka hi BTA rhey hai.....k insaan kabhi apney nafs k hato majboor tb hota hai jb wo is trha ki behayai wali jagho pr phunchey....wo gunnah nahi kr raha pr gunnah honey ka dr to hai to esi jaha se parheez hi kiya jaey to acha hai.....
@@kamranali8916 mere bhai ik br video phr dekho or dobara comment parho , mje pta hai pakistan mein koi na koi typical sa banda uth k pointless unnecessary behes shru kr deta hai , baat ho na ho issue zaroor bna deta hai apki kahaniya or conceptual debate bakol apke, apko he mubarak ho , jazakALLAH
Last words toooooo goooooood u right sir
Please keep uploading latest talks.
Allah ap ko zindagi ata kry.... 💝💝💝
Mere pyare Sir shah ❤️❤️❤️
سرفراز شاہ صاحب!
آپ کی باتیں موتیوں ورگی ھیں اور دل میں اترتی ھیں۔
براہ مہربانی پاز اگر چھوٹے ھو جائیں تو آپ گی گفتگو زیادہ پر اثر اور روح پرور محسوس ھوگی۔
Asalamwalekum sir...... I want some suggestions for this topic
very Good sir
آپ کے لیکچرز میں مرد اور خواتین اکٹھے بیٹھتے ہیں اور درمیان میں کوئی پردہ بھی نہیں ہوتا تو کیا یہ مخلوط gathering کے زمرے آتاھے یا نہیں... زرا راہنمائی فرما دیجئے
Har baat par nukta cheeni nikalne k koi gharz nhi hona chahiye aapko.. agar aapko inki nasihat par amal karne par takleef ho rhi he to aap esa mat karen.. apne nafs ko taskeen dene k liye dusron par keechar uchal kar sahi ko ghalat na bnaye Taake aapko khud guilty na feel ho.. shukroya@!
When will latest videos be uploaded??
The problem is not in dusri Shaadi the problem lies in you. Mostly log pehli Shaadi see bhi khosh nahe hai. Dosri Shaadi ko aap ne ghalat andaz Mai pesh Kiya hai
Jo jahil log 2nd ya 3rd marriage k against han wo kam elm log apni kam zarfi ki waja society me zana ko promote krna chahtay han, aisay logo ko sochna chayay
Men r only aware of 1 sunnah DOSRI SHADI!!!!😡
There r many other sunnah’s my dear brothers like DON’T hurt the feelings of others and 4 ur information a person who breaks someone’s heart knowing is Jahanami !!!!!
second marriage is totaly an evil
malik bai ap apny chkr mi bakiyo ko sath mt milain r hod byshk jitni mrzi krain
Respected Sir Qasim Ali Shah .....I need your help I want some suggestions
Ask me Uzma. He is crowded by people and will not be able to respond here.
Nayab KS ....who are you. ..?
Uzma Khan Nobody qualified. Just someone interested in human behavior, psychology, anthropology, eastern wisdom philosophies and other relevant topics. I've helped others in the past, won't mind giving you an advice if you are seeking one.
@@nayabks5927 how i can get help from you?
islami law nafiz ho jaye aur ladies ko islamic envirment Miley then koi doubt nahe
Mard KO bs shariyat bs dosri shadi tk he q yaad h
Yahi har orat sawaal kerti hai joo aap nai kiya hai pakistan mai seraf 15 fesad mard dosri sahadi kertay wo bhi kissi majbori ki waja say shook say koi bhi dosri shaddi nahi kerta ...........
Aoa shah sb apki baaty dil pr bht assr krti han
2nd marriage is extremely necessary. Yeh first wife ki tang nazri ha keh husband ko rokay. Society ko balance krnay k liay 2nd marriage by law enforcement honi chahiay.
Ully kay pathay, Pakistan kay 2017 census result kay mutabiq yahan mardoun kee tadaad aurtoun say ziada hay. Tou ager balance kerna hay tou aurtoun kay do do husband honay chahyeyn
asal baat yeh hai ke Muslims nay zindagy ke maksad ke sath shadi aur bachon ko link nahi kia hai (sab nay nahi aksariat nay) aur iski wajah sab se bari yeh hai ke Muslim hukmaran aisa koi plan muslims ko dene main nakam rahay hain ke jiski bunyad pe log zindagy ke maksad ka ijtamai tayun karain , maslan agar islam pe mukamal amal kar k dikhana aur dunya main usay phelana aur phir usay qayem rakhnay ke liye tamam koshishain jari rakhna islye ke koi ghair muslim dunya ya dunya ke kai ilaqon main Allah ki na farmanion ko raij na kar day .. jaisa ke is wakt ghair muslim kar chukay hain aur khud muslim ummah poori tarah hsikar ho chuki hai .. yeh wo maksad hona chahiye tha jiski wajah se har muslim mashra yeh mehsoos karta ke hamain is alami zimadari ko nibhana hai jis main kamyabi ke liye sab se pehley zaruri hai k aik tau hamaray apasi ikhtalaf ya khatam hojayen mukamal taur pe ya itnay kam aur madham ho jayen k unka hona na hona barabar hojaye (aisa mumkin hai agar niyat ho karnay ki) aur phir ye ke koi baligh fard shadi ke beghair na ho aur har surat bewa aur yateem ki kifalat koi shakhs izat o takreen ke sath karay (kyunke bewa aur yateem mashray ke bohat bara test hain - Allah dekh raha hai ke log inka khyal kaise rakhtey hain) aur jab itna zimadar islami muashra hoga tau dosri shadi jaise issue tau reh hi nahi jayega aur mazid kai issues apney ap solve hojayengay kyunke jab sab ummat ke aitabar se sochaingay aur amal karaingay aur unhay hakumati sarparasti hasil hogi ulama ki proper guidance sath hogi tau sab ko dili sakun aur itmenan bhi hasil hoga aur baray makasid ke hasul ki lagan bhi hogi aur asal maksad bhi hasil hoga jiske liye Allah nay pehlay bani israel ko chuna tha aur ab muslim ummah ko chuna hua hai.
jab baray makasid ke liye shadian bhi ki jayengi tau koi aurat apna hisa us baray maksad main dalnay se nahi peechay hatay gi .. jaisa ke mazi main hota raha hai
aur shadi sirf jinsi khwahish ki bina pe nahi karni chahye balkey kai aik baray makasid zehan main rakh ke ki jani chahye agar koi karna chahey tau kyunke ye kisi pe lazim bhi nahi kia gya hai ke zarur dosri shadi karay ..
baray makasid main se chang aik yeh hain ke zana se bachna aur bachana , aurat ya mard ki aur aulad ki aala tareen mayar e fikr pe parwarish karna takay mashray main bahtareen log hon aur har tarah se achai ko wo phela sakain apnay amal aur qaul sey , jangain jo na guzir hoti hain achai aur burai ke darmyan aur jab tak qayamat nahi ati yeh jangain jari hain aur rehaingi jin main har tarah ki support ki zarurat hoti hai ilmi aitabar se bhi aur larai ke aitabar se bhi jaisa k aj kal information war chal rahi hai aur sath hi saleebi yalgaar bhi kai tarikon se jari hai jaise ke ba qaida iraq aur sham ki jangain aur kashmir aur falastine ko phasa ke bhi unhi logon ki sarparasti main rakha gya hai jo is wakt dunya ko kisi na kisi tarikey se asar andaz rehtay hain jab ke agar wo chahain tau ye masail dinon main hal ho jayen aur wohi log jazbat bharka ker bhi chotay baray fasad machatay rehtay hain jaise new zealand ka hamla etc jaise alqaida deash etc bana ke bhi nuksan pohanchaya ja raha hai .. ye chand tarikay tau wazeh sab ko nazar arahay hain .. aur sab se bari chiz ke apni soch ko woh poori dunya pe musalat kar rahay hain aur kafi had tak kar chukay hain k ab hamain desi liberals jaise titles bhi istamal karnay partay hain .. in sab mahazon pe muslims ko chahye tha munzim hokar kam karain jab har mahaz pe itna kam karna hoga tau yeh fazool ke taopis ki koi gunjaish baki nahi reh jayegi ke shadi dosri karni hai ya nahi cigerette pina chahye ya nahi ye haram bhi hai ya nahi etc etc etc
Aoa shah sb
Ustad g(Qasim Ali Shah)plz ustad g 1 mulaqat chaheyay ya AP ka personal contact number plz plz plz
Both maasail Hy seriously AP ki help chaheyay
qasim ali shah great work,dosri shadi ka boot be haya mardo ko hota hai,nafs ko control karna koi fakeero sy seky.
be haya mardo ko zina ka bhot hota ha nikah ka nae haya dar mard nikah krta ha samajh gae ap
Haya daar mard ek nikaah mai khush rehta Islam ko apnai maqsad k liyai istemal kr k apni hawas ni pori krta
ap aurto ko dosre nikah se masla h mard bhale bahar jo b kre wo kher ha par nikah na kre
@@fatimamalik3265 or haya dar rahne k lie he nikah ha isme kuch ghalat hota to islam ne q de ha ijazat pher
Tm Islam ko study kro mai yhi mashwara don gi tmhain kch ni pata Islam ka aj kal k molwi Islam ka naam lai k logon ko gumrah kr rahai sirf kch hain jo achai hain Quraan khud goor cai prho phr ap ko idea hga k kia haqeeqat h agr apko daleel chahiyai to mai dai skti Quran ki roshne mai
Ager phle 1st day sa pasand no ho to per
Islam NY tu 4marige ki ijazat di sar
Aray parhey lekhy jahil insan ye tm dosri shadi k concept ko keya rang dy rahey ho.... Es ko aam karo moashra tabahi ki taraf ja raha hay ...bewao , talaqyafta, umar rasida behno ki shadya nhi ho rahi , hata k kawari lrkio k reshtey nhi mil rahey
Phir bhi Pakistan ki abadi brhti jarhi hai....Bina bewa talaqyafta kanwari k rishtey nahi or bari umer ki aurtein bhi Ghar bethi hai us k bawajood bhi..😂😂😂😂
Wo prhey likhey jahil nahi blkey ap ho jin ko na deen ki knowledge hai na duniya ki jo sirf ye samjhtey hai k sari burai ka khatma dosri Shaadi se hoga....mtlb Allah ne Quran mein jo sikhaya burai se bachney k tariqey btaey islami qanoon btaey us se nahi hoga......o Bhai phley apni aqal khol k Quran ko prho ye ayat kin condition pr or kis Waja se hai phley ye Dekho....or mein ne is pr puri research ki hai agr Kuch sawal ho to puchna mein logic religion or psychological explanation k sath hawala de kr btao g
Topic ka naam hi apne ghalath chuna hai, dusri shadi koi bhoot nahin balke is bigde hue samaj ke masaail ka hal hai. Jo log isko bura samajhte hain wo indirectly zinaa par raazi hote hain.
Aap jaise great thinker se aise suwaal ki ummeed nahin thi. Afsos sir ji
Hd hai shadi hoi hoi ho aur bt zina ki kro wahh apki sooch
@@abdullahmahboob5253 or ha bewaqoof hai ye Jo Shaadi k bad bhi Zina ki khawaish rekhtey hai sochey in k zehn mein kitni haram soch pl rehi hai.....us pr ye deen ki bat krtey hai....
Tu phr qasim sar NY Kun yeh objection lagya
sadaat zindabad
Aap (S.A.W.W) se Berh ker tu Allah se koi Muhabbat nhi Kar skta tha... Wo tu kabhi be'nayaaz na hoe BiBi Ayesha (R.A) se!
Aur ager sunnat per itna hi Amal karta h faqer tu phir ye bhi sunnat hi h k benyaz na HOA jae.!
Agr dekha jaey to tadaad e azwaj sunnat mein nahi asakti ....is Liye q k tadaad e azwaj ka hukum nabi Pak saw k Liye alg hai or aam insaan k Liye alg or ye bat Allah ne btadi hai k Kuch cheezein aam insaan k Liye nahi Hoti wo nabi Pak saw k Liye hai....q k aam insaan k Liye jin condition or strictness k sath Allah ne warning de kr kha wo baat nabi Pak saw k Liye nahi hosakti......
Maine bhi apni biwi ki friend se dosri shadi ki hai ab meri pehli wifeun se mere do bacche hai woh mujhse talaq chahati hai mai kya karu plz meri help kare.
App dosri shadi beshak krtay lkn wife ki friend say nhi.she is feeling betray....khair ALLAH rhm karay
You have hurt her feelings. Before second marriage u should have told your wife gently. Discussed with her. Reassured her that she is dear to u. And if she had refused to share you then u should have listened to her and not married second time
@@misbahhabib8866 isliye mai tou dost he nahi banati zyada.. ye bhi aasteen ki saamp he ban jati hain
Qosri shadi say puri life tabah ho jati hai
in our society every 5th person have girl friend so 2nd marriage is so important for them..women who against 2nd marriage and she know a man need second wife she is doing zulam and will go jahannam inshallah
malik khan hahahahah bawla hogya hai tu mere bhai
Zina aam hogaya apke Pakistan me esleye me bawla hogaya...aik dafa Zina karna kitna gunah he qeyamat me pata chalega..so qeyamat je din pata chalega ke bawla kon he ...
Jis level se malik khan ne baat ki hai wo qabil e ghour hai . agar 2sri shaadi waqi main ghalt hoti tu islam is ki ijazat har giz na deta. pakistani or indian dono akhate rahe is lye pakistaniyu ne hinduism ki kuch aadaat ko apnaya howa hai kyu ke asal main 2sri shaadi hunduism main buri samjhi jati hai.
Malik bhai your comments are totally logical and realistic
That means men are horny bastards and they will go to jahanum not the women
With due respect,
اسلام ایک سے زائد شادیوں کی حوصلہ افزائی کرتا ہے نہ کہ حوصلہ شکنی!!
آپ کی بحث کا مدار دوسری شادی کو ایسا پیش کرنا ہے جیسا ایک گناہ !
آپ اس کی بجائے ایک سے زائد شادیوں کی حوصلہ افزائی کریں ۔
Ovais Razzaq .please ask your sisters (if you have ) whether she would feel happy if their husbands took another wife.
Kitty Begum
It does not depend on 1st wife's agreement or approval,
اس چیز کی اور اس سوچ کی اللہ نے سرے سے جڑ ہی کاٹ دی ۔ اس آیت میں -
"فانکحوا ما طاب لكم من النساء. .."
Unfortunately our tragedy is we stayed with Hindus & in their culture for a long long period.
Because of which.
ھم نے ان کی بہت سی باتیں اور چیزیں ارادی طور پر اور غیر ارادی طور پر (غیر محسوس طریقے سے ) اپنا لیں ہیں ان میں سے ایک یہ بھی ہے """دوسری شادی"""
یہاں تک کہ لوگ یہاں تک سوچتے ہیں کہ دوسری شادی کرنا پہلی کے گھر کو برباد کرنے کے مترادف ہے! !!!!۔
حالانکہ یہ سوچ اور خیال 100 فیصد غلط ہے ۔
Anyway no one can change someone's way of thinking just by few words but I highly recommend you to read a book on this topic .
"ایک سے زائد شادیوں کی ضرورت کیوں "
Detailed book on this topic written by renowned mufti Tariq Masood.
It discusses the topic in more than 400 pages .
My humble opinion is .
ہر مسلمان مرد جو صاحب حیثیت ہو اور دین دار ہو اور برابری کرنے کی طاقت اور پختہ نیت رکھتا ہو سمجھ دار ہو تو اس کو آج کے زمانے میں ضرور ایک سے زائد شادیاں کر کے ایک سے زائد عورتوں کو باعزت زندگی گزارنے کا موقع فراہم کرنا چاہیے ۔
By the way Alhamdulillah summa Alhamdulillah I have 2 wives so far!.
And on this revival of Sunnah I hope that Allah will have mercy on me on the Day of Qiyamah.
Ovais Razzaq ;your wives will honestly tell us if you are reviving the sunnah or being eligible for punishment for not maintaining equal rights of each wife.
Kitty Begum
Kindly leave arguments.
If Allah gives you Toofeeq then purchase that book and ready with clear mindset.
If your kind of mentality would be present at the time of the Sahabah or at the time of revelation of those verses then this type of mind set would have done a big time objections on them..
Anyway can't change your mind.
Wasslam
AP NY ye tou likha hi NH k mrd ko insaf b krna chahiye... JB k Allah nee clearly keh dia h Quran me k TM insaf na krsko gay islye smjho tou tmharay lye ek hi behtr Hy.. braye mehrbani bat Puri Kia kren ...
This video is not completely helpful.
I like sha ji lectures but here I totally disagree
4 shadi ya kam az kam 3 karni chahyay kuk ic sy shadi krnay walay ko boht sawab milta ha us k ic amal ki waja sy society ki 4 Girls zana sy bach jati han aur apni jinsi taskeen ki takmel wo halal tarikay sy krti han
Apni nafsaani kawahishaat ko Islam ka naam dena band kro
mere bhai roza rakhna seekh
Don't show second marriage as bad or evil, it's allowed by Allah SWT and its Sunnah of our Prophet SAW and His Companions RA.
Polygamy should be practiced in this era of fahashi and vulgarity, There are billboards marketing women, offices, malls, and streets everywhere is by-paradagi/by-hayai. Other than that who is going to marry Divorced, widows or aged women, what is their fault, not every woman being divorced is on the wrong side some men are animals and abusive, and will virgin/unmarried males and their families allowed to marry such, these women face criticism of being sitting in their home, they don't just need charity or money they also have other needs and when do choose the wrong path and same society dnt accept them, So we should encourage polygamy instead of what's happening in our society(Girlfriend/Boyfriend haram relations and Zina The easy way). Islam teaches us if you want to have more than one wife there will be responsibilities not unlike today's relations, people meet and enjoy some hours and that's it after 3 4 months both change their partners because they are fed up. Even females which are married can somewhat bear a girlfriend but not 2nd wife. this is hindu culture we got this from them, they are not allowed to marry more than one (According to their new pandits and laws) don't make it Arab culture, Islam was not for Arabs it was for all humankind till the END.
Useless talk. Extramarital affairs are going on from thousand of years and will b going on till end of life. No good talks can stop it😎😎😍