Husband and Wife Relation | Syed Sarfraz Shah (Part-1)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- In this video, Syed Sarfraz Shah giving the answer of Qasim Ali Shah's question. He is sharing his wisdom, knowledge and experience through his answer.
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Assalam o Alaikum sir ...i like ur vedios ...sir i m from indis ...i hava a question about relation ship ...from where i put my question ...plz answer.
Buaht khoobsurat biyaan
Husband wife relation main jo parties wali baat ki sir nay that is too correct.
For male and female as well.
ماشا اللہ بہت خوب۔۔۔
Jazakumullah khayr for such an important discussion. I don't understand where men think every right of interacting with na mahrams without any restrictions how can this husband wife relation sustains? Only wife cooperation is not enough mostly it fails if only wife strives and husband keeps making ego issues.
Great session! Want to add a couple of more things that make this relationship hell. Jhoot (habit of lies), cell phone, Facebook girl/boyfriends, making fun of wives are some other common factors especially people who live abroad (irrespective race, religion or culture) have these issues. Their life-partner are not loyal and if somebody (partner) has courage to dialogue with better half, Simply receive a reply get you can live your life and I can live mine. So let's get divorse.
I agree cause whenever I say u r wrong I always get a reply go leave me get a divorce and find some one u like
Respected Qibla Syed Sarfraz Shah Sahib is blessings for us, ALLAH Shah Sahib kou Salamat rukhay, ameen
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Wow what a beautiful informative session
JazakAllah khair Qasim bhai 💐
Jazak Allahu Khayr. We need these types of discussions & Guidance desperately in today’s time for finding answers to the marital problems & solutions & also how parents behaviours have impact upon child’s Tarbiyyah . We r raising the future generations of Proohat Mohammed PBUH . Happy marital life will raise responsible adults . Inn Shaa Allah . Our Ummah 🤲🤲
..Function of the husband in Islam..part1
In Islam, it's not an obligation for the husband to be "financially strong". He is only required to earn a livelihood and rely on the compassion and generosity of friends/family when difficult times come. If there is no caring generosity among people, then marriage/family system is not required. More mental hospitals maybe required.
A man is not required to make his wife feel "financially fulfilled", he is only required to spend on household by his earning AND generosity from friends/family.
Question can be asked if the man supports his household by dependence on other people,does it not make him unmanly? Culture says so. Islam says something else. In Islam, manliness is in his character and religion.
If the man does not get support when needed not only he will lose manhood he will become partly insane. It's the generosity among people(giver and receiver) that will keep people psychologically stable. People who believe in being "financially strong" can become cruel people (in heart) because they consider other people as cruel and can't be trusted. The motivation for them to be "financially strong" is their indirect hate for receiving compassion from others. A person's belief indirectly says a lot about the person's character.
Islam allows a man to be "financially strong" only if he believes izzah(honour) and Quwwa(emotional resoluteness) comes from Allah, not job,not wealth, not status in society.And. certainly not from fake religiosity.
"Ghairath" is a cultural term for looking down on people based on human stupidity. Honour is a completely different thing defined Allah Al Aziz.
Manly behavior towards daughters, daughter in law,sons and son in laws..
How does a man act towards his married daughter's behavior?
A real man can judge his daughter's expressions and can sense that a disease of stupidity is about to come and he needs to take action right away. If a daughter says "I need to be financially strong" or "My dream is to do masters degree of human stupidity", her father must say immediately "Your psychotic dreams are not important, your family's sanity is better for you". This will bring sanity to everyone around. If the man knows his married daughter is always on the phone with her mother,he should tell this daughter "You must be taking care of your own home, not our home. Obey your husband"
A man's relationship with his son in law.
How the man shows his authority ( with kindness) with his married daughters is the best education for the son in law. If the married daughter visits her father, he must ask if she had sought her husband's permission.
A man's influence on his daughter in law.
If the man sees any weird or egoistic behaviour in her daughter in law,he can make a statement to shame her without pinpointing her.. An example would be "women who corrupt other women's character are the worst of people and I wouldn't allow them to enter my home"
How do women corrupt other women's character? Using communication tricks of the Shaitan. In human relations, how something is said is far more important than what is said. Some evil people can can corrupt another simply by saying something in a certain evil tone. For example a women asks another woman "What gift did your husband give you on Eid". Next, the stress response gets started, psychotic thinking starts, delusions happen, harshness with children starts, over eating starts and there's agitation in the speech. Worship is supposed to take care of this insanity. If the confidence in the Deen is too weak, take lemon for temporary relief from the symptom
Thank you shah ji, you covered all aspects of husband and wife relationship and their problems, your wisdom and hopes makes difference to our society.
..Function of the husband in Islam..part1
In Islam, it's not an obligation for the husband to be "financially strong". He is only required to earn a livelihood and rely on the compassion and generosity of friends/family when difficult times come. If there is no caring generosity among people, then marriage/family system is not required. More mental hospitals maybe required.
A man is not required to make his wife feel "financially fulfilled", he is only required to spend on household by his earning AND generosity from friends/family.
Question can be asked if the man supports his household by dependence on other people,does it not make him unmanly? Culture says so. Islam says something else. In Islam, manliness is in his character and religion.
If the man does not get support when needed not only he will lose manhood he will become partly insane. It's the generosity among people(giver and receiver) that will keep people psychologically stable. People who believe in being "financially strong" can become cruel people (in heart) because they consider other people as cruel and can't be trusted. The motivation for them to be "financially strong" is their indirect hate for receiving compassion from others. A person's belief indirectly says a lot about the person's character.
Islam allows a man to be "financially strong" only if he believes izzah(honour) and Quwwa(emotional resoluteness) comes from Allah, not job,not wealth, not status in society.And. certainly not from fake religiosity.
"Ghairath" is a cultural term for looking down on people based on human stupidity. Honour is a completely different thing defined Allah Al Aziz.
Manly behavior towards daughters, daughter in law,sons and son in laws..
How does a man act towards his married daughter's behavior?
A real man can judge his daughter's expressions and can sense that a disease of stupidity is about to come and he needs to take action right away. If a daughter says "I need to be financially strong" or "My dream is to do masters degree of human stupidity", her father must say immediately "Your psychotic dreams are not important, your family's sanity is better for you". This will bring sanity to everyone around. If the man knows his married daughter is always on the phone with her mother,he should tell this daughter "You must be taking care of your own home, not our home. Obey your husband"
A man's relationship with his son in law.
How the man shows his authority ( with kindness) with his married daughters is the best education for the son in law. If the married daughter visits her father, he must ask if she had sought her husband's permission.
A man's influence on his daughter in law.
If the man sees any weird or egoistic behaviour in her daughter in law,he can make a statement to shame her without pinpointing her.. An example would be "women who corrupt other women's character are the worst of people and I wouldn't allow them to enter my home"
How do women corrupt other women's character? Using communication tricks of the Shaitan. In human relations, how something is said is far more important than what is said. Some evil people can can corrupt another simply by saying something in a certain evil tone. For example a women asks another woman "What gift did your husband give you on Eid". Next, the stress response gets started, psychotic thinking starts, delusions happen, harshness with children starts, over eating starts and there's agitation in the speech. Worship is supposed to take care of this insanity. If the confidence in the Deen is too weak, take lemon for temporary relief from the symptom
Great, excellent worda. SubhanAllah!
Sir qasim apne tu kamal kardya makhloq e Khuda ke liye ye topic laker
Meri saas ny b aisa he Kiya jo Shah sb ny frmaya
Boat khob💜💛✌️
great words by Sir Sarfraz saab
Great words ma agree hu totally words sa ✅💯
God bless great man
great words
سلامت رھیں رھنمائی فرماتے رھیں
So true
Great
Compromisd or sabar sy life ache guzarte ha ak dosray ko respect dynay sa life ache guzarte ha
zabardast. please spread the word in society.
شاہ صاحب سے ملاقات کا طریقہ کوٸ بتا سکتا ھے میں کھاریاں سے ھوں
Allah pak sub husband's ko hidiyat day Aameen
Dounu kou hadayat dey
Dono ko hidayat de. Or ek dosre ki respect karne ki tofeeq de.
ایم جی رائل ٹریڈرز پرائیوٹ لمیٹڈ
۔ کمپنی کا ایک پرائیوٹ پارٹنرشپ کے تحت چلنے والا کیمیکل کا کاروبار ہے۔
> کمپنی جوکہ آپ کے پیسے کو اپنے کیمیکل کے چلتے ہوئے کاروبار میں شامل کرکے اپنے اور آپ کے لئے حلال آمدن کا ذریعہ بنتی ہے جو ۔کے بزنس مین جاب پرسن انوویسیٹر ۔اچھی ارنینگ کر رہے ہیں اور پاکستان میں ایک راجسٹرڈ ادارہ ہے مزید معلومات wahtsup 03007372224
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ہماری زندگی میں. میں نے مطالعہ سے بہترین لیکچروں سے ڈاکٹر اسرار احمد کے تشریح القرآن سےاپنی ذہنی سطح بہت بلند کر لی ہے.. دوسرا بندہ 20سال کی عمر سے اور مشغلوں باہر نہیں نکلا.. ہماری بولی آپس میں نہیں ملتی. دو منت گفتگو نہیں چلتی. تشریح القرآن میں سنتی ہو وہ نہیں سنتا. اس نےعلم اور ھدایت کے ہی نہیں دل کے دروازے بھی بند کر رکھے ہیں. اسے کوئی خوبی کوئی خدمت کوئی جزبہ متاثر نہیں کرتا. زندگی اور رشتوں کو سطحی طورپر دیکھتا ہے.
Share any lecture of Dr. Asrar where he said Faqeer or Tasawwuf is part of Shariyat??? He was a Wahabi Ghair Muqallid there is no concept of Peeri Mureedi Faqeeri in Wahabism
Good yara. bahoth achy.
golden words by shah sb may he live long
Sarfraz a shah saab great words
Aisy q&a huny chahye good
ایم جی رائل ٹریڈرز پرائیوٹ لمیٹڈ
۔ کمپنی کا ایک پرائیوٹ پارٹنرشپ کے تحت چلنے والا کیمیکل کا کاروبار ہے۔
> کمپنی جوکہ آپ کے پیسے کو اپنے کیمیکل کے چلتے ہوئے کاروبار میں شامل کرکے اپنے اور آپ کے لئے حلال آمدن کا ذریعہ بنتی ہے جو ۔کے بزنس مین جاب پرسن انوویسیٹر ۔اچھی ارنینگ کر رہے ہیں اور پاکستان میں ایک راجسٹرڈ ادارہ ہے مزید معلومات wahtsup 03007372224
عورت کی قربانی میں فرق آنے کی ایک اور بڑی وجہ جسمانی کمزوری بھی ہے جسکا شکار مرد بھی ہیں ۔آج کی ملاوٹ شدہ اور نقصان دہ غذاؤوں اور مسائل کی بھر مار کی وجہ سے ہونے والی کمزوری نے بھی ہمت میں کمی کردی ہے ہر شخص تھکن کا شکار ہے جسکی وجہ سے اسے اپنے فرائض کی انجام دہی میں رکاوٹ آرہی ہے
That's also the factor too..it affects hormones too and so as moods and behaviors
Thakan ki waja depression hai
Nice. sir
Shah sahb aise mard jin k sare kaam b bivi kre us k ghr wlo ko b khush rkhe educated b ho past me professional b reh chuki ho aur shohar phir b kahe k tum me qabliyat ni tum capabl ni abuse kre is k sth ye rawaya rozana ka ho aur bv koe jwab b na de sunti rahe tu ese shakhs ka kia ilaj hai kindly zra jwab de
Husband and wife relation part 2
If we see that life partner is wrong
we should see the mirror and the
mirror betrays our wrongs and relationship goes better.
Khas insaniyat on you tube channel
sir aik question ha,agr husband biwi ki izaat naa kaary To kia karna chihey
Phr b izat ny dy tu kia kry.
Jitni marzi understanding ho jis ny chorrna ho wo chorr he dety hn
Wja chahy koi b na ho
Main b door hona ni chahti
Krny walon ny kr dia door
Sahi kaha
Have you got divorced?
@@tigergreat3653 khuda na kare
@@FaqihAhmadCheema i am sorry i asked that question bcz she said k jis ni chorna ho wo chorr he dety hai
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Asalam o Alaikum, Qasim Ali Shah Sahb ny urdu zuban main aik neya lafz eejad Kia hy" JONSA "
Assalamualaikum.sir say rabta ho sakta hi
Kun k meri brdasht se tu sb kuch bahir hota ja raha.... Me akhri fesla krne ki soch ri hn... Kun k mere huabnd pe tu meri khamoshi ka b koe asar ni ho raha....
latest updates entertainment plz namaz parhen or sajdey me dua kren.Allah bht asani krne wala hai
Husband wife relation sy sas nandon ka jalious ,tang nazar character mines kr diya jaye to talaq ki Sarah 60% Km ho jaye gi
تو کیا عورت کو ضرورت نہیں کہ اس کو بھی سہارا ملے
Aur agar wife ki mother kaa character b khatam kur dey tu relationship will be 200%
میں بالکل متفق ہوں کے جنس مخالف سے آزادانہ میل جول نے شادی شدہ زندگی کو تباہ کر دیا ہے
great
where is part 2?plz post
husband or wife kee good relationship book k name send kardain thanks
Sir se contact ho sakta hai kya
Yes
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I think mothers were puppets with no options, and no education the upbringing was how to please a man and be a quiet "good woman". The man can treat a woman anyway. Sorry, to say but that is not Islamic. Why the gap in mental level why should there be a difference why not the same opportunities and options? The wife is also the mother of your children. They need hobbies, education, and aspirations. Men enjoy women fighting over them. This culture needs to change.
Aur biwi ko bhi husband say kuch chahiye hota hay, support,security,love and care.And Farman s kind and sweet but doesn’t give security then what should a woman do.
meri nundo n aj tk sb bhabio ko kabool ni kia hua meri sas ko agy kr dati hyn ,
"پازز" اور دھیمی آواز کی وجہ سے بات سمجھنے کے لئے دماغ پر بہت زور دینا پڑتا ھے۔
Itna bhi ahista nahi bolna chaye k sunnay wala bore hojaye
دماغ پر زور دیں دھیما لہجا ھے شاہ جی کا
sir pakistan main achi biwi milna namumkin hai .....
Aap ke Walid sahab ko to mil gyee thi...aap bhi koshish Karen mildgi
kash log samjhain
Jonsa kehna chor do Q shah sahib,ab app baray ho gahy hain
ا س و جہ بے بے سکو نی کی یہ بھی ہو تی ہے. کہ ہما ر ے ہما شر ے میں یہ سمجھنا ضروری نہیں سمجھا جا تا
کہ د و نو ں کو سمجھیں بلکہ لڑ کی ا و ر لڑ کے کے گھر و ا لے د و نو ں ہی جھو ٹے پھر جو ٹ میں مثا ئیل ہوتے ہیں
تو دو نو ں ہی پر یشا ن
jazakallahukhair sir hum sub ko itini precious knowledge share karne ke liyae I'm from india &u people are doing great & khair work
Ya Jo Hai wo dakty nahi or jo dakhty hai wo hai nahi in k khany par ak larki nay masom larky ke zindagi taba kar de
Is that shique ? That couple went to honey moon ,on, mountain , there they, met,wife friend, she was hot girl, husband left talking ,with her friends, when he came ,he had ,very expensive don't gift,he gave,to wife friend ,& say ,this I bought to u, wife asked what about me,, he kept,quite,look at wife friend & smile!
Jetnaa husband and wife ka sex relation strong and healthy ho ga autnaaa he relation strong ho ga. So apny sex relation ko apny wife ky sath strong and enjoyable banye.
shah sb mojoda mashre me Mian bewi ka rishta bajie raht k azab ki surat me zahir hota ha.Shah sb shadi hamesha apne khandani daire k andr krne chaie warna sari umr k leye taklef miss understandin or is ka nateja Talq ha.Shah sb ort buhat parhi liki ho ya normal prehi hoi ha us ki pheli khahis ho ti ha k apne shohr ko thle laya jai us k andaz mukhtalif hote he lekin orat ki khahis yehi hoti ha.Shah sb mazrt k sath zayda prehe likhe log bhut jaldi apni ort k Thle lag jate he.
بیوی submissive ہونی چاہیے ورنہ کوی فایدہ نہی۔
Bhai aik naukerani lay ao aur tankhawa do aur rule bata do kay ji hazori kerni hay sirf,behas ,shikayat Aur sawal nahi kerna .
@@mightydecember5751 ok
sab se jhoota rishta h ye, jis mai mard aurat ko sirf apni jooti samajta h that's it.
Behan g sb se sacha rishta b yehi ha.. apna span experience ha... aisy mard ki tarbiat b aik aurat yani maa ne hi ki hoti ha... ye baat yad rakhiye ga
Aurat hi aurat ki sb se bari dushman ha...
إن الله مع الصابرين
Irsa.u said right.mard bss kud ko hakim smjta h.izat ñi kr skta voh urat ki .voh mard hee koi aur hote hn ju urat ko izaat dete hn.
Irsa.u said right.mard bss kud ko hakim smjta h.izat ñi kr skta voh urat ki .voh mard hee koi aur hote hn ju urat ko izaat dete hn.
نصیر صا حب میر ا مشا ہد ہ مختلف ہے کیو نکہ حضر ت علی ر. ح. کا فرمان ہے کہ گنا ہ میں لذ لت نہیں ہوتی اور گناہ
کی چبن با قی ر ہ جا تی ہے جس کی ا سکو ل کی گٹھی اس کو دی گئ و ہ ا گر مو ا ز نے کر کے تو و ہ اس کا
ضمیر بن جا تا ہے. و یسے سفید فو شو ں میں عور ت سے تعلق عو ر ت کی چا لا کی میں پھنسنا ہے تو د ور ہی ر ہتا ہے
میر ے خیا ل میں مر د کا ا یک کیمکل. ے. جذ با تی سے و اسطہ پڑ ھتا ہے جب کہ عو ر ت د و کیمیکل میں مبتلا
ہو کر مر د کا مقا بلہ نہیں کر سکتی ا سی لئیے مر د کو ا یک سے ذ یا دہ شادی کر نے کی ا جا ز ت ہے. جو معا شر ہ
حلا ل. کو نا پسند کر تا ہے چا ہے چھپ کر گنا ہ کر لے ا ور با ت ہے. میں نے ز ا نیو ں کو شر ا بی ہی د یکھا ہے
شاید روح بے چین ہو تی ہو گی اور باضمیر کو ڈ یپر یشن کا مر یض .ا میر ا س سے با لا تر ہیں.
Irshad Baig
Irshad Baig .
Irshad Baig to
Allah bara karm negative nhi sochti hoo liken Jo sathi Mila hai usey Allah ka kuaf hi nhi na. Bacho ki parwa nhi merey sari zinagi zulm karta rha phir usey chaor na saki thak gi hoo jidar sey ko kan bhar Ghar a Kar humgamey krta hai har buri adat us mein majood hai
Mujey keya karna chaey maa humesh ye hi ketey gahar mat toro AP wo bi duniya sey chaley gey is insane ko Allah kuaf hi nhi joot dokha Mara mari cheekna chala 37 years sey is ko bardash Kar hoo zimedari ka pata hi nhi
QASIM SHAH SB PLEASE TAKE IT YOURSELF ALONE.
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