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Thanks for your explanation mik. I understand your point but I think these titles are of a help for many viewers especially for non natives. But I guess many natives find this useful as well since you are the first complaining about it. I might pull up a community vote and see, however until I do not see a substantial demand for removing them they will stay. Also you can imagine it could be much more easier to produce the videos without these and I am not placing them for my own amusement. Cheers
for the ladies, if you want to catch a sigma: 1. be good looking, fit, well kept, dress well, have grace (you are being judged at all times) 2. speak politely, intelligibly, articulate, expand your vocabulary, don't just blurb out uncohesive sentences out of your mouth. 3. be quiet, don't be too talkative and if you have nothing interesting, truthful or good to say, just keep your mouth shut and enjoy the silence. silence speaks a lot 4. be interesting, do you have hobbies, do you have a creative mind and ideas, are you good at something, are you passionate about something, do you have an interesting job etc. many women fail here. you can be tolerated for your good looks and pleasantness, but you won't have a deeper connection and don't be surprised if he favors the company of some other woman. 5. be pleasant, a sigma won't argue with you, tolerate disrespect or rudeness. you'll be immediately dumped in the garbage list and ignored. 6. have courage, and some virtues of good character (kindness, humility, generosity etc.). these do not go unnoticed. sometimes be bold (not rude), make efforts. any effort you make (whether for him or on yourself) is noted and valued. 7. understand him, although it is difficult for women to grasp him, but sigmas will appreciate your efforts nonetheless. Sigmas are not bothered by silence or by being alone. other people's opinions, judgements or values are totally irrelevant. Sigmas live in a bubble, a dimension of their own, and they defend its boundaries vehemently. sigmas value their peace, freedom, independence and self respect above anything and anyone, and especially over a woman. So if he allows you into his inner circle and intimacy, it's because you are worth something. he sees something in you that perhaps escapes even your self. so that is the best most honest quiet compliment a sigma can give you. 8. keep in mind that you are always being judged, always being evaluated. He's always gauging your qualities and looking for reasons to justify your presence (or looking for reasons to kick you out). So don't be surprised if he does something special for you which would be out of character for him (you've earned it) and don't be surprised if he ghosts you (you've earned it too).
@@hotlucky5622 who needs narcissists like you if all you give women are stress and insecurities. Rather date an average and sincere guy who will do anything to keep the relationship work than to date a narcissist who will only gaslight and abuse you emotionally and mentally. I'm a high value woman but this kind of guy is a turn off. Rather just stay single and hire a sperm donor than to babysit a problematic person.
Correct, I'm sigma male and I'm looking for these. I go on lots of dates, but most girls fail because they are too lazy, can't cook, not intelligent, shallow, impolite, bad tempered, spoilt, materialistic, lack kindness.
@@howtotrainyourwaifu968 I'm a sigma female and the sigma males actually treat me like a queen. They need a queen not a princess. Work on personal discipline and strong character and you will love these kings and they will love you. Standards are high but not impossible. We just don't like soft people.
Lost in my work was part of the problem I had with an ex...I needed space to think out a work problem and she was in my face trying to interact with me when I wanted to be left to myself. It's one reason I write reports at night - it breaks my concentration to deal with calls, persons calling on me, or everyday tasks.
We don't care what others think or say. If it's worth our time, we will engage in the conversation. Being yourself goes a long way but, act fake and we'll drop you at the drop of a hat.
This is why people hated me all my life. Teachers hated me because they thought I was day dreaming during classes. I got victim of verbal and physical violence against me. As a child I could not understand why? I don't care much about humanity, having a small circle of real friends. Most of mankind are too stupid to understand what life is about and they carry on day by day trying to create their great lives. It's not my way.
My No.1 rule in life - Make you're plans dark as night, then strike like a thunderbolt!!! Keeps other people on their toes and struggling to figurer me out...Just the way I like it.
As a Sigma, most of the time , I tell them my gameplan . I let them know what I plan to do . Of course they try to stop it but they aren't intelligent enough and in the end , I win anyway.
@@shawnmendrek3544 Not true, alpha always needs other people's approval but they don't need to bully, that's fake alpha psychopath. Alpha is always a born leader, they are tough, strong, they have the ability to lead others in the group naturally and people will automatically follow his leadership. Yes, alphas are usually quite aggressive and have status sensitivity, but he is usually nice to those who recognize his status. Alpha often has empathy for members of his pack, but often shows no empathy for outsiders, which is why he is able to fight and kill anyone who poses a threat to his pack, that's alpha's instinct.
@@shawnmendrek3544 Did you not read carefully, alphas are usually tough men, they have high testosterone levels, they have complete empathy and moral values of their own, their empathy is often reserved for for their group members, they also have loyalty to their members, however they have absolutely no mercy towards those they see as enemies who harm their group, that is called the alpha male instinct. Completely different from fake alpha psychopath, a psychopath has absolutely no empathy for other people, including members of their own group. Of course a real alpha usually hates such guys and often tries to punish them.
10. Sigmas find a lot of people boring 9. Sigmas dislike certain character traits 8. You boast too much 7. A Sigma is always busy 6. Trust is earned 5. Sigmas get lost in thoughts 4. Don't tell a Sigma what to think 3. Sigma males have haters 2. You're not being logical enough 1. You're being too much of an alpha male
Here i am thinking im broken. Completely. My girl complains "you disappear. Youll check out." Ill go to an event and just sit and watch people. No interest in interacting. Etc. I was seriously considering therapy and medication. Its just, how i am. I cant lose sight of that.
Yeah I thought I was fucked up too. I just wanted to go actually be doing something. Not just watching a party, because I can’t connect with all the vapidness. I can kinda get it, compliment “drip”, talk people up, vibe with the party vibe - but what next? What about after the party? A hangover, sleep inertia, crawling harrowingly out of bed, making work harder the next day. Ehhh yeah no thanks.
This is not being Sigma. It's being insecure and having emotional issues. Sigmas are very secure and know their purpose. Being so called Sigma is making Sigma traits to work in your favour and for your gain.
I only engage in small talk to pick apart the character of the subject I'm speaking with. When engaging in dialect with alphas or gammas, I use this to find weaknesses and exploit those weaknesses to crush them.
I suggest you are missing the point, I had no clue what a sigma was until my son said I was one, I took it in with out offence (I do not like to be pigeon holed to any type) and researched the character type, and yes I have all the tendencies quoted here, and one main point I would make to you is, walk away don't even bother with alphas and gammas they are mostly too arrogant for time. Drop the ego. I trust you have a high IQ.... then you ride above 'others' BS without a worry.
We shouldn't seek to crush people...unless they need or deserve it. People can't always help how they are. The curse of not being introverted is not realizing negative traits about ones self. Alpha's don't usually realize their being pushy, or overtly boastful for example. The curse of introversion is the opposite. We fail to understand why others are the way they are. We are more likely to only see that they are the way they are and compare it to ourselves. We should have compassion amd understanding as much as possible. Not to say that evil shouldn't be mercilessly crushed of course.
It takes more than looks for me to give you attention. You have to stimulate me mentally. And that doesn't mean you have to be the smartest. I get along with slow interesting mellow people as well. As long as they're not dumb and overwhelming. That's why I'm not shy with talking to cute women. I learned that not all of them are stuck up because they're pretty. Heck, most of them are easier to approach than the average looking females.
I keep considering myself sigma but I've acted gamma in more situations than I want to admit and carry myself like an alpha. Its almost like it's a spectrum. I believe in alpha beta and gamma but a sigma is almost like being a confident gamma or a calm alpha...I have no idea anymore and really dont care either 🤷♂️
@@chase4562 all the labels only allow us to identify the origin of a set of information. This leads to clarification during research, this is how I view it. To each their own.
That's why there exist True Sigmas, the real rare people who really can be considered a complete sigma person. Most people share traits but leans towards a specific archetype. Sharing traits is common on Beta, Gamma, Omega and Delta people archetypes. If somebody just share a few traits with the Sigma one, there's a high chance they aren't Sigmas but another common archetype.
Sigmas really are the so called 'lone wolfs' at heart, but that emotional self-suficiency comes for feeling confident that they are unique. Sigmas are aware of what they are capable of if any right circunstance would be presented to them. So before they materialize to reality they already know the potential of the action, and untill the right moment is presented they will be adding more and more to what they already have, so they never loose on being patient. And therefore making them unpreditable sometimes... Sigmas are also overwelmed by their own thoughts many times...in the end they sense a flow of constant self-worth that results in auto-validation, and they are happy for it and chances are they feel humbly gratefull for it. It really is like a relation itself, so they are not alone and never will be.
This is exactly why dating is so hard as a sigma male. I have so many great qualities and offer so much yet I find most people boring. Especially after relearning to walk and recovering from 2 serious head traumas, it's hard for me to care about my woman's problem with a coworker at work she doesn't like. I'm not tryna be mean but I'm always like, really? That's your problem today and if that's what I have to listen to daily I wanna get away from it. Not being mean or cruel but that's just stupid to me. Not the person but their context. I also travel spontaneously. Like I go to a ton of festivals and comedy shows across the country sometimes day of, it's what I work hard for. That doesn't sit well with a girlfriend or wife and I dont wanna give that sort of thing up, it makes my soul happy. I also train service dogs for kids with developmental disabilities and wanna own a kennel, will own. But I fly around the world for a year plus on end to do it for the big bucks, I'd need a woman to be able to handle that. In conclusion, it's almost impossible to date a sigma. I have kind of figured it out and am content. If I changed I'd be miserable.
Right on my friend, you respect and appreciate your inner introspection and peace of a quiet mind, even more. Probably you, like myself, have grown for an appreciation of something most people don't even know about that they can have themselves . You have learned to love and take care of yourself properly. It's just a darn shamed that people can't recognize the simplicity of really taking care of yourself the right way . Hey man keep up the good work and keep doing what you're doing don't listen to anyone that doesn't deserve your mind😏😏😎❤👍
#4 - 100%. Although I no longer use social media (Facebook), when I did there were people I just did not see eye to eye with and could've just got rid of them. I didn't though, I would see what they had to say and if it had any weight (logic and reasoning) I would give it more thought and may change my views on some issues. #2 ‐ seems to be one of the ones that I need to adjust the goals I want to reach. I do set goals and usually accomplish them. But my goals some times more along the lines of hobbies or enjoying life, not so much to be super successful. This one trait of this type makes me question if I'm this type. I've always made decent money and could be in a leadership roll, I just don't desire to do so. I have become more disciplined in this part of life lately though. Than you fit all the content.
@Bloke Box , you've did it again. I'm extremely impressed with your video. I am a Sigma male and this video sums me up tremendously. I am not a Sigma who wants to get recognition of the things I've done in life. Its very shocking to people, when they find out my accomplishments and successes. When a coworker or someone compliments me for something, it catches me off guard and I don't like attention drawn to me . If someone isn't a Sigma , then the people around them , probably can't understand them . It's true , I look at others work ethic and the characteristics of the person. As a Sigma , i have deep respect for men and women , who don't cheat on their spouses and I've found out through experience, that those people are trustworthy as friends. I am a single Sigma and I believe it will be hard for me to find a mate because of the expectations that I have but at the same time , I am very content of being single. Sigmas can be the best friends you've ever had , just don't lose their trust because it can be lost forever . And yes , as a Sigma , there is many people that are jealous of me because of my wealth . And its mostly the men who are jealous. I never cared about gathering wealth, I just liked having nice things and helping people and when I give to people, the wealth comes back to me multiplied. I plan on buying me another Mercedes . I own three Mercedes convertibles and I have thought about giving away my black convertible, with the title , just because I can. I want to give it to someone but not sure who the person will be and if they could afford the regular maintenance on it. I didn't want to sell it because I don't need the money but wanted to give it to someone who needs a car . I have a few people in mind but I have to narrow it down to the person. This is one of the examples of , why people are jealous of me . I'm not looking for recognition or attention. But as the video says , Sigmas don't care what people think of them . Kind Regards
all 8 are describiing me, and i am a solo hustler since birth. socially very likely but still solo, small circle and focus on knowledge growth and financal and health progress. lets gooo i am 23. i cant imagaine me with 26 because 21 to 22 and 22 to 23 very insane 180 degree shifts. i am constantly growing but sometimes i feel a bit empty and sad, cuz i know deep down i am giving up on other things like party, girls, and event with friends, its really difficult to put everything in your lifeplan ... something will miss always mhh
I seem to largely fit this pattern although I don't really like the idea of identifying with labels. Labels can be used as a practical tool to more easily understand the traits in certain people, but I don't think they should ultimately be taken seriously. Great video though. Very informative.
Was going to leave a similar comment. I don't like the idea of conforming to or people fitting within labels or think things are so simply defined. You can build a box and i'll cut a doorway and step outside.
This is exactly how I've always felt. I never knew why people always try to label themselves as something. I'm me, you're you, they're them and that's that.
Agree ideologies weakens the mind and make people stupid. Sure I might be a ”Sigma” or whatever. It’s still not me 100% and nothing I strive for either.
Nice video. I remember as a 4 year old Child I was already questioning everything. Asking questions like, how far is the moon, why does it rain... It drove my mother nuts. I would read anything about technology, the Universe, Darwin, Einstein, Hubble. At certain point my teachers went also nuts, because if they would teach something and it was wrong, I would correct them or fill out the gasps. That's it I always want to learn and grow. I am attracted to people who are also like this. A smart passionate Woman is so attractive.
As a young kid ,I was put threw some solitary stuff. So injoying the company of others isn't in my top priorities. I learned to deal with myself in my own mind. Made me self aware of myself at an early age. Most I figure would go insane but me found that I could take it. Not to brag but, its given me a perspective that I noticed alot of others don't have. Know if that makes me sigma I don't know. I just learned that I dont need or want, what most strive to be. I don't follow trends. I dont envy my neighbors. Im content with simple and none conformity of life. Im drivin but don't want to run someone else's show. I look for someone like me but seem to come up short. I notice some alpha traits in me depending on the situation but I'd rather go alone. I believe that alpha, sigma, and beta are your upbringing. There a product of your environment and surroundings. As a child, your being molded into what your parents are. Being born this, i think is a reach. In all reality I could say I have the traits as some serial killers but does that make me one? I went threw alot of what most killers justify killing. But thats not me. You have a choice and a conceince.
I hear ya....I'm a very solitary guy and always felt so different. Ever since I was young. And many people do find me attractive and when I walk to a table or feel I could sit with someone somewhere, people notice me immediately and feel so uncomfortable. I can tell how uncomfortable people feel around me. They cannot even look directly into my eyes for more than 3 sec or feel they can't stand still and I'm so laid back and chill. I'm like....what the hell? What is it about me? But I've never had a violent mind. I wouldn't even hurt an animal. My cat is like my best friend and I love her. I don't know, I guess I'm just strange....
@@CJTranceAddiction Pay no mind to those thinking you strange. Its your power of presence that intimidates those around you. Never hide your light to allow others to shine. Just you being is powerful in itself. I'm not violent either. Just been put threw things that others justify in violent actions. Be strong. Know yourself,good and bad. Thanks for the response 👍 😀
@@gabrielking9569 Man, thanks so much for those uplifting words. Even the closest of friends wouldn't tell you those kinds of words of encouragement. The world can be a lonely place when you just stand out as so different than those around you. My mind is just completely unorthodox lol. You be strong, as well. It seems you have been through some hardships that I have not. My childhood was great, actually. My teenage years were a nightmare. All of high school was torture and I had no close friends. Growing into adulthood, I guess you can say, was not an easy transition.
I have to say, I agree with 95% of this video. One of the best channels on RUclips even though I can’t prove it with Science. Thank you kindly for these video 🙏🏻❤️ much appreciated.
I'd like to think I am a Sigma but I honestly don't know. I am an introvert and there is some overlap. I distance myself and ghost people as a form of damage control. My rationale is that I am minimizing further damage by reducing contact. I have found that people react to this worse than if I have an outburst of anger and cuss and carry on. People are hurt more by apathy. I always find this disappointing because I can honestly say I never intend to hurt. I will cut you off if I feel you are toxic or ingenuine. I'd take an honest asshole any day over the sweetest liar.
@@spleenfulwhats sucess for you? Its doesnt mean if you are not sucess in every aspect you aren't sigma?I dont think so, you can be succesfull in your own way, if you mean sucess are just material stuffs, thats deffinitely is sign you are not sigma, i will say.I will say thats are signs for alphas , probably you are maybe alpha, but introvert .
@@spleenfulyou definitely are Not a Sigma. Sigma traits come from not having it all together but overcoming anyways and shining as a one of a kind who’s done it there own way
I saw this video, clicked it and never felt so understood in my life... Also funny, i don't like attention so women alway misjudge me. Some see me as a challenge cause i like to be alone. When they see who i really i'm they are all over me and then become dissapointed and sometimes hurt cause they can't have their way with me...
As a sigma woman, let’s call a thing a thing: ghosting is a cowardly, disrespectful behavior. I would expect a sigma/alpha will tell a woman why he’s not interested instead of disappearing.
Usually they will, out of respect of the situation unless there is a logical reason not to. Unfortunately a lot of women provide logical reasons not to. Sigma's by and large are not the ones doing the ghosting in the dating scene though this video is more about ghosting in life. People of any sort that come into your life probably not by your choice in the first place and then after evaluation are discarded for reasons described in this video.
Suck it up, buttercup.....as a sigma man I can tell you neither sex has the monopoly on ghosting. And ghosting is one of those things the sigma has learned to accept and deal with efficiently, as it is an effective tool, and as sigmas we know how to expertly defend against the same tools we so expertly wield. I'm not so sure you're a sigma.
No need for unnecessary conflict. Im willing to argue about anything if there is a point to it, some outcome I'm looking for, but otherwise why bother?
My Sigma husband is good at everything he does. I always tell him he's amazing because he is. He's definitely let good friends go because of their choice. I do love my Sigma man. He tries to incorporate me in his plans but i know at the end he will do what he wants.
I hate my gamma qualities but thankfully I know how to limit them now. Ever forward people. I'm not a sigma but I definitely like developing those qualities!
Is there anyone in here who thinks this is kind of creepy. I mean I am everything that these videos describe.. but I never labeled myself anything, I have had to tell people that I’m a lone wolf tho. I go to the bars by myself because it’s a feeling that I can’t describe when I know that I’m all I got and I STILL got it! 💪🏾
I mean there are some people who take interest in psychology and others that don’t. I have studied behavioral and evolutionary psychology pretty intensely and I can read people like a book. People often tell me it is creepy but I don’t care, it is extremely empowering to always be several steps ahead and to be able to anticipate your enemies moves before they make it. Of course this video is only a tiny minuscule sliver of the knowledge you’d need to get anywhere near the level I have achieved. I like going to the bars by myself too for what it’s worth.
@@SuccessfulM.D. Ok yeah I agree with you there. I have a large network of people who support me and none of it would be possible without them. I’m definitely not a lone wolf working all on my own but I’m also not afraid to unilaterally take a course of action that everyone is telling me not to take.
"Let me tell you about the weather..." "Well I was doing something else, but I guess we could discuss this subject. What did you want to say?" "It's a bit chilly, isn't it?" "Never speak to me again please."
All that personality stuff are oversimplified labels made to describe a certain type of personality and behaviors. It's like calling someone a badass or a p*ssy. We know what people mean in general when they use those terms. Now some people went backwards and started to sell you the idea that you need to reach a certain types of traits, they arbitrarly assigned to these labels, to be successful (such as: in order to be a badass you need to be A,B,C and do X,Y,Z). There's no depth and relation to your experiences and enviroment.
OMG I've always thought I was just a strong beta or mellow alpha, but this video fits me like a glove. Thank u very much for creating this video it explains so much. I'm a Sigma 👏
I'm a capricorn and I related to all the traits of a sigma. I hate useless family gathering and normally sit in the corner being alof.. People said I give them pressure even I'm not speaking or communicating or involved in any of the things happening. I can forecast what will happen and the possible ending in the very beginning. I live to read people's mind and work on strategy to dealing with them. Like to be alone with only a cup of coffee, a book and cigar as my companion.
I guess I fall into this group but here is the issue. I am 52, successful and take very good care of myself. I have tried to date women whom i'm hoping are willing to have a good loving relationship but it just keeps getting harder to find one who is worth the effort. I realize it takes effort and compromise on both ends however the feminism always comes into play regardless of how well you treat them. I feel better off alone these days as most successful men I talk to seem to agree. Its just not worth it anymore I wish them the best and hope they find love however I don't want a person like that in my life.
I'm a sigma and I gave up on insecure stupid men that are unfaithful we are surrounded by stupid people I wish I could leave the planet because I'm far to wise and intelligent for this place and that may sound arrogant and full of ego but it honestly is not .. I grew up thinking I was dyslexic and stupid just to get to 50 and realise I was dropped out of a hole in a totally crazy insecure stupid world x
Idk this guy said he was an alpha told me he wants a house wife to take care of his house and kids and although I want to be a mother I want a career as well. I think women can handle both and im the total opposite of what he wants but he still invited me out offered to deliver food to my home and asked me to lunch but also ignores my responses or makes me try and fit in his schedule and that doesn't work for me and now hes saying hes going out of the country and im like uhhhh okay? why bother me if your too busy to date? he wanted my IG too I just dont get it
Your accuracy is astonishing! I just had to share it with my very social wife. The parts about alpha males in comparison to us is accurate, we tend to be highly intelligent and working at our pace, no urgency for all this hierarchy construct, we build our own, steady and we are confident we will get it done.
My best years in business is when the alpha, ( CEO, owner) and I used each other's strengths to achieve our mutual goals. Though most of the workers resented my freedom to act independently, the company always thrived as a result.
I've had friends and family message me, asking if I'm ok, because I wouldn't ever text them for months. I cringe at that every time. Most of this list applies to me and I own it and revel in it. Small talk drains me, I hate being interrupted when I'm deep in my mind, and I'm thirty years old, single, and too busy bettering myself and my life vision to seek a woman.
When it comes to ghosting It sounds not normal to most people, or even some. But it’s mainly time, space Personal reflection of prioritizing your thoughts of what’s important and what’s not important , Or to uncluttered your Mindset of things that hinder your personal Growth, Most are bombarded with Busy schedules of work, Entertainment ,materialism Distraction of media internet, sports . Which Leaves no room, for solitude reflection meditation, another meaning for ghosting It’s actually mean leaving The outer world into your Inner world , just you and Your thoughts, that no one Else sees, This is where most people lack , The beautiful thing of ghosting.
A friend of mine told me to watch this, it explains everything about me except, I've never been abused or hazed by anyone. I wouldn't tolerate that BS. I know many other sigma males, this is good.
I am amazed at the number of people that want my attention, and become resentful, even angry when they don't get it. What they don't realize is that I am listening to what they say , people will tell you what they're thinking in a very short time without even realizing it, let them talk, you'll find out everything you need to know about them.
Im not claiming to be special and it actually goes against my nature to talk about myself but i had to drop this comment about how profoundly accurate this decribes me. Im having a hard time comprehending how 100% accurate you are able to describe my personality almost as if you've been spying on me. It actually is making me feel weird emotionally. Where do you get this information?
@@exemplarypersonality6562 i know what you mean..i never even heard of a sigma male until i saw this video but it blew me away at how accurate it described me
Thank you for helping me understand myself... But it kinda disturbs me that my personality type is this well mapped out.... Ive watched at least 3 of your videos discussing this topic and every part of every video has been 100% spot on about my personality.... It kinda fucks with me and makes me feel predictable. Something I'm obviously not used to...
I feel like I am female version of this especially in the dating world. I don't mean to judge but dang, I don't wanna deal with someone dumb decision makings or bad characteristic/traits. I know we all have flaws and I am no where near perfect but so many make their life harder than what it is just by making dumb decisions, that could have been avoided very easily. When it comes to hobbies, everyone seems like they just wanna sit around, smoke weed/drink/drugs and talk shit about others/complain/social media
There so many reasons why I’d just vanish on someone. Most notable is that I am not interested in the friction. I don’t need anyone, therefore I do not have to deal with the friction.
Would love a vid comparison on Sigma and Omega from your perspective. I’ve got most of these Sigma traits except I’m more emotional than rational. I’ve done “aloof” for the reasons you stated. I also care what people think (Empath) but I don’t make it my problem.
Empathy is just recognition and understanding the emotions of others. A sigma can be an empath (understand and recognize) and still not care one way or the other. Your emotional nature might push you away from being sigma but you shouldn't care about that either. Just do you and be cool with that.👍
Mannnnn, this video clip is ALL OF ME AND SOME, I can detect a alpha male in 20 seconds or less and will never follow him or her to nowhere because I know already that they will sacrifice you just to see or feel better about themselves, so when it backfires in their faces I stand there and just look at them smiling because I know they cant carry my weight in nothing at all, yes I am a sigma male and march to the beat of my own damn drum and do not care what this world thinks of me nor about me, love me or hate me that is your problem not mine, when i make a decision i rarely go back on it unless i did not think this completely thru, once i see that i couldve made a better move i then start to change how i think with anything that needs attention including WOMEN, if she does not value herself as I think she should she will kick rocks and just go about her business because I dont need her nor YOU to survive my life while I am here, I look for NO VALIDATION FROM YOU OR ANYONE ELSE, and I would take what you have to give me that is my way of life and thinking, I am a HATED MAN and I very well know it because I can see everything from all sides before you even finish your sentence so be careful of what you are saying to me at anytime and if I miss something TIME always tells me the truth about you and your intentions, and your intentions must be correct or aligned with mine if I spend ANY TIME with you, enough said about myself because there is much more to me than you will EVER KNOW, and you will never find out all of me because I will remain a mystery to all humans
If you seek no validations from anyone in CAPS, then why are you commenting this to complete strangers online. Something doesn't add up. Viva tu vida y que se joda los demas.
You mean like how I feel like I've my boss hates me because everyone at work talks about me all the time. Everyone was shocked when I got there cause I never worked at a factory much less a factory that makes car parts and i was told by my aunt that even the supervisors I didn't know that well were saying good things about me. I was like ya, but this supervisor didn't know me. So why would he talk highly of me?
Yea im not one but i like to reason in a well way with others and when my mates doesn't listen i feel like a shit just cuz i tryna help us out wanna dream to reach the unthinkable the impossible dreams, although they do that i dont hate em cuz if i do my heart goes ablaze so i don't wanna hate it's like an injury that i keep on hitting with a stone so i hate hating others i love not hate, so thanks for this video man
I dont know that people necessarily WANT to be a signa, it is more just how certain people are. When I was younger and far more insecure, I wanted everyones attention. As I grew older I fibd I only want a specific fews attention. I do come off snobby maybe to some but, at this point I really just dont care about random people's mundane and boring small talk. I agreed with just about everything in this description and so even though years ago I probably wanted to be an Alpha I find myself happier with the description of a Sigma. You shouldnt try or want to be something else, you should be who you are and try to accentuate your strong suits.
The last point of this video is very true! My slightly-older twin bro is an Alpha male while I'm a Sigma male, so we butt heads and argue often. I've been distancing myself from him because of that.
Does any one else feel like the whole beta, alpha and now sigma is all cringe? I rather just do me whatever that is because i got traits from all over the place.
NO! The characteristics are as clear as day in each type we meet. What we must do is create a healthy environment where ALL men can continue to build society in peace.
As a serial sideguy I give women I am interested in three choices: 1: Keep it platonic and flirty. Yes - she will be in the friend zone with some extra kind words and maybe a hug once in a while. I am ready to listen to her problems and give advice as a friend. Part of the deal is that I will "ghost" her if I meet someone else. I'm fine with her ghosting me if she finds back to her boyfriend of find someone new. 2: I can be the f**kboy and I want to know how high I am on her list of priorities. If I am far down I might just fade out of her life. Probably not a true ghosting since I'd give a short explanation but to most womens egos any kind of going your own way is a diss and a ghosting. 3: Try to make a real relation out of it. No ghosting allowed. I'm not into the whole beta - alpha - sigma thing but it seems I have the sigma traits. Make what you will of that.
extroverted adhd with asperger traits and no trauma = pretty much sigma. i can follow like 90, 95 percent of the content of several of the videos. pretty much all people i met in my life with these traits are full blown libertarians, philosophical anarchist, humanists, real scientists.
I'm a Sima to the T. I've struggle in my relationships due to this. It makes it hard meeting and keeping a partner. I haven't yet met a partner I hold to my standard. Anyone else have this issue?
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Hey listen mate...can you please stop using subtítals? They are extremely annoying...I can understand English perfectly.
You are the first person who asked me to remove them so I guess you will have to ignore those for a while at least.
@@Mr__ZED if you are deaf they are? I'm not deaf and even if was you tube has a feature to turn subtitles on or off.
Thanks for your explanation mik. I understand your point but I think these titles are of a help for many viewers especially for non natives. But I guess many natives find this useful as well since you are the first complaining about it. I might pull up a community vote and see, however until I do not see a substantial demand for removing them they will stay. Also you can imagine it could be much more easier to produce the videos without these and I am not placing them for my own amusement. Cheers
@@Bloke_Box ok. Thanks.
Cheers.
*"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them..."* If you are reading this, I hope you have an amazing day!
I'll do that. Thank you.
Cringe
@@larryskarmy7129 troll
@@j.fnorfleet1969 Imagine unironically using the term sigma male 😂😂😂😂😂
@@larryskarmy7129 I do because I am. Your a troll and your mac address is visible.
As an Introvert, being a Sigma male is a gift.
It is
The legend of Amber Turd. Probably why youtube has been recommending Sigma, INFJ and Stoic content.
🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️❤️
I could definitely beat them.. If they weren't so afraid of a real competition..
Giga Chad
for the ladies, if you want to catch a sigma:
1. be good looking, fit, well kept, dress well, have grace (you are being judged at all times)
2. speak politely, intelligibly, articulate, expand your vocabulary, don't just blurb out uncohesive sentences out of your mouth.
3. be quiet, don't be too talkative and if you have nothing interesting, truthful or good to say, just keep your mouth shut and enjoy the silence. silence speaks a lot
4. be interesting, do you have hobbies, do you have a creative mind and ideas, are you good at something, are you passionate about something, do you have an interesting job etc. many women fail here. you can be tolerated for your good looks and pleasantness, but you won't have a deeper connection and don't be surprised if he favors the company of some other woman.
5. be pleasant, a sigma won't argue with you, tolerate disrespect or rudeness. you'll be immediately dumped in the garbage list and ignored.
6. have courage, and some virtues of good character (kindness, humility, generosity etc.). these do not go unnoticed. sometimes be bold (not rude), make efforts. any effort you make (whether for him or on yourself) is noted and valued.
7. understand him, although it is difficult for women to grasp him, but sigmas will appreciate your efforts nonetheless. Sigmas are not bothered by silence or by being alone. other people's opinions, judgements or values are totally irrelevant. Sigmas live in a bubble, a dimension of their own, and they defend its boundaries vehemently. sigmas value their peace, freedom, independence and self respect above anything and anyone, and especially over a woman. So if he allows you into his inner circle and intimacy, it's because you are worth something. he sees something in you that perhaps escapes even your self. so that is the best most honest quiet compliment a sigma can give you.
8. keep in mind that you are always being judged, always being evaluated. He's always gauging your qualities and looking for reasons to justify your presence (or looking for reasons to kick you out). So don't be surprised if he does something special for you which would be out of character for him (you've earned it) and don't be surprised if he ghosts you (you've earned it too).
It's just simple. Don't date a Sigma. All I can see is a narcissist who wants their values to be followed but couldn't adjust for others. Meh.
@@howtotrainyourwaifu968 exactly, be content being average and sub-average. we'll keep the top-shelf girls.
@@hotlucky5622 who needs narcissists like you if all you give women are stress and insecurities. Rather date an average and sincere guy who will do anything to keep the relationship work than to date a narcissist who will only gaslight and abuse you emotionally and mentally. I'm a high value woman but this kind of guy is a turn off. Rather just stay single and hire a sperm donor than to babysit a problematic person.
Correct, I'm sigma male and I'm looking for these. I go on lots of dates, but most girls fail because they are too lazy, can't cook, not intelligent, shallow, impolite, bad tempered, spoilt, materialistic, lack kindness.
@@howtotrainyourwaifu968 I'm a sigma female and the sigma males actually treat me like a queen. They need a queen not a princess. Work on personal discipline and strong character and you will love these kings and they will love you. Standards are high but not impossible. We just don't like soft people.
Lost in my work was part of the problem I had with an ex...I needed space to think out a work problem and she was in my face trying to interact with me when I wanted to be left to myself. It's one reason I write reports at night - it breaks my concentration to deal with calls, persons calling on me, or everyday tasks.
We don't care what others think or say. If it's worth our time, we will engage in the conversation. Being yourself goes a long way but, act fake and we'll drop you at the drop of a hat.
This is why people hated me all my life. Teachers hated me because they thought I was day dreaming during classes. I got victim of verbal and physical violence against me. As a child I could not understand why? I don't care much about humanity, having a small circle of real friends. Most of mankind are too stupid to understand what life is about and they carry on day by day trying to create their great lives. It's not my way.
No one cares.
Same here and very true
@@jimohabdulqudus4283 cry baby.
Facts...
Ill be Frank this time, you're right, same to me! It's all in the name! Lol
Selectively social is the protocol. I agree
Selectively social.... hmm. This is very accurate, i like it.
My No.1 rule in life - Make you're plans dark as night, then strike like a thunderbolt!!!
Keeps other people on their toes and struggling to figurer me out...Just the way I like it.
Sun Tzu??
My motto: Never let them see you coming.
Sorry, you missed the point. You're an Alpha 🤣
Bro you hit up the wrong place. You are an Alpha 😂😂
As a Sigma, most of the time , I tell them my gameplan . I let them know what I plan to do . Of course they try to stop it but they aren't intelligent enough and in the end , I win anyway.
I personally like to ignore alphas. It annoys them to no end. They need validation from others so badly.
You dudes are so corny.
@@shawnmendrek3544 Not true, alpha always needs other people's approval but they don't need to bully, that's fake alpha psychopath. Alpha is always a born leader, they are tough, strong, they have the ability to lead others in the group naturally and people will automatically follow his leadership.
Yes, alphas are usually quite aggressive and have status sensitivity, but he is usually nice to those who recognize his status. Alpha often has empathy for members of his pack, but often shows no empathy for outsiders, which is why he is able to fight and kill anyone who poses a threat to his pack, that's alpha's instinct.
@@shawnmendrek3544 Did you not read carefully, alphas are usually tough men, they have high testosterone levels, they have complete empathy and moral values of their own, their empathy is often reserved for for their group members, they also have loyalty to their members, however they have absolutely no mercy towards those they see as enemies who harm their group, that is called the alpha male instinct.
Completely different from fake alpha psychopath, a psychopath has absolutely no empathy for other people, including members of their own group. Of course a real alpha usually hates such guys and often tries to punish them.
Yep. I avoid women like that
SAME. They get so mad.
Sigma male = so rare
Most RUclips commiters = I'm Sigma male.
So true! And very immature.
Saying that their a sigma male does not mean they are one.
Sigma commenters use proper English. That’s how you tell. Anything less is a disappointment…
Lmao spot on
Na only sigs watch sig vids
10. Sigmas find a lot of people boring
9. Sigmas dislike certain character traits
8. You boast too much
7. A Sigma is always busy
6. Trust is earned
5. Sigmas get lost in thoughts
4. Don't tell a Sigma what to think
3. Sigma males have haters
2. You're not being logical enough
1. You're being too much of an alpha male
Here i am thinking im broken. Completely. My girl complains "you disappear. Youll check out." Ill go to an event and just sit and watch people. No interest in interacting. Etc. I was seriously considering therapy and medication. Its just, how i am. I cant lose sight of that.
Her: " You'll disappear. You'll check out!"
Me: "What?"
Yeah I thought I was fucked up too. I just wanted to go actually be doing something. Not just watching a party, because I can’t connect with all the vapidness. I can kinda get it, compliment “drip”, talk people up, vibe with the party vibe - but what next? What about after the party? A hangover, sleep inertia, crawling harrowingly out of bed, making work harder the next day.
Ehhh yeah no thanks.
Stay focused on your goals dude. Everyone and everything else is secondary.
This is not being Sigma. It's being insecure and having emotional issues. Sigmas are very secure and know their purpose. Being so called Sigma is making Sigma traits to work in your favour and for your gain.
i was considering therapy until i watched a youtube video with lots of stock footage
I only engage in small talk to pick apart the character of the subject I'm speaking with. When engaging in dialect with alphas or gammas, I use this to find weaknesses and exploit those weaknesses to crush them.
winner
I suggest you are missing the point, I had no clue what a sigma was until my son said I was one, I took it in with out offence (I do not like to be pigeon holed to any type) and researched the character type, and yes I have all the tendencies quoted here, and one main point I would make to you is, walk away don't even bother with alphas and gammas they are mostly too arrogant for time. Drop the ego. I trust you have a high IQ.... then you ride above 'others' BS without a worry.
We shouldn't seek to crush people...unless they need or deserve it. People can't always help how they are. The curse of not being introverted is not realizing negative traits about ones self. Alpha's don't usually realize their being pushy, or overtly boastful for example. The curse of introversion is the opposite. We fail to understand why others are the way they are. We are more likely to only see that they are the way they are and compare it to ourselves. We should have compassion amd understanding as much as possible. Not to say that evil shouldn't be mercilessly crushed of course.
Please. You are a beta amongst betas.
I’ve ignored a lot of women simply because their physical appearance isn’t priority to me
Sigma
LMAOO chill brother DNT give it away 😂
It takes more than looks for me to give you attention. You have to stimulate me mentally. And that doesn't mean you have to be the smartest. I get along with slow interesting mellow people as well. As long as they're not dumb and overwhelming. That's why I'm not shy with talking to cute women. I learned that not all of them are stuck up because they're pretty. Heck, most of them are easier to approach than the average looking females.
Damn this is rather spot on. Great video and very knowledgeable in why they do what they do and what it could mean.
Before you guys read too much into this, just remember that Alpha males, beta males, etc.. is still just a theory. We all share some of these traits.
I keep considering myself sigma but I've acted gamma in more situations than I want to admit and carry myself like an alpha. Its almost like it's a spectrum. I believe in alpha beta and gamma but a sigma is almost like being a confident gamma or a calm alpha...I have no idea anymore and really dont care either 🤷♂️
@@chase4562 all the labels only allow us to identify the origin of a set of information. This leads to clarification during research, this is how I view it. To each their own.
@@j.fnorfleet1969 yeah it's like the dsm5 and diagnosing personality disorders.
That's why there exist True Sigmas, the real rare people who really can be considered a complete sigma person.
Most people share traits but leans towards a specific archetype. Sharing traits is common on Beta, Gamma, Omega and Delta people archetypes. If somebody just share a few traits with the Sigma one, there's a high chance they aren't Sigmas but another common archetype.
@@johnsonbro4944 well said I agree!
Sigmas really are the so called 'lone wolfs' at heart, but that emotional self-suficiency comes for feeling confident that they are unique. Sigmas are aware of what they are capable of if any right circunstance would be presented to them. So before they materialize to reality they already know the potential of the action, and untill the right moment is presented they will be adding more and more to what they already have, so they never loose on being patient. And therefore making them unpreditable sometimes...
Sigmas are also overwelmed by their own thoughts many times...in the end they sense a flow of constant self-worth that results in auto-validation, and they are happy for it and chances are they feel humbly gratefull for it. It really is like a relation itself, so they are not alone and never will be.
This is exactly why dating is so hard as a sigma male. I have so many great qualities and offer so much yet I find most people boring. Especially after relearning to walk and recovering from 2 serious head traumas, it's hard for me to care about my woman's problem with a coworker at work she doesn't like. I'm not tryna be mean but I'm always like, really? That's your problem today and if that's what I have to listen to daily I wanna get away from it. Not being mean or cruel but that's just stupid to me. Not the person but their context. I also travel spontaneously. Like I go to a ton of festivals and comedy shows across the country sometimes day of, it's what I work hard for. That doesn't sit well with a girlfriend or wife and I dont wanna give that sort of thing up, it makes my soul happy. I also train service dogs for kids with developmental disabilities and wanna own a kennel, will own. But I fly around the world for a year plus on end to do it for the big bucks, I'd need a woman to be able to handle that. In conclusion, it's almost impossible to date a sigma. I have kind of figured it out and am content. If I changed I'd be miserable.
Right on my friend, you respect and appreciate your inner introspection and peace of a quiet mind, even more. Probably you, like myself, have grown for an appreciation of something most people don't even know about that they can have themselves . You have learned to love and take care of yourself properly. It's just a darn shamed that people can't recognize the simplicity of really taking care of yourself the right way . Hey man keep up the good work and keep doing what you're doing don't listen to anyone that doesn't deserve your mind😏😏😎❤👍
Narcissist
@@larryskarmy7129 you must hate yourself. Troll
@@j.fnorfleet1969 not as much as I dislike your character.
maybe you are just unatractive
#4 - 100%. Although I no longer use social media (Facebook), when I did there were people I just did not see eye to eye with and could've just got rid of them. I didn't though, I would see what they had to say and if it had any weight (logic and reasoning) I would give it more thought and may change my views on some issues.
#2 ‐ seems to be one of the ones that I need to adjust the goals I want to reach. I do set goals and usually accomplish them. But my goals some times more along the lines of hobbies or enjoying life, not so much to be super successful. This one trait of this type makes me question if I'm this type. I've always made decent money and could be in a leadership roll, I just don't desire to do so. I have become more disciplined in this part of life lately though.
Than you fit all the content.
@Bloke Box , you've did it again. I'm extremely impressed with your video.
I am a Sigma male and this video sums me up tremendously. I am not a Sigma who wants to get recognition of the things I've done in life. Its very shocking to people, when they find out my accomplishments and successes. When a coworker or someone compliments me for something, it catches me off guard and I don't like attention drawn to me . If someone isn't a Sigma , then the people around them , probably can't understand them .
It's true , I look at others work ethic and the characteristics of the person. As a Sigma , i have deep respect for men and women , who don't cheat on their spouses and I've found out through experience, that those people are trustworthy as friends. I am a single Sigma and I believe it will be hard for me to find a mate because of the expectations that I have but at the same time , I am very content of being single. Sigmas can be the best friends you've ever had , just don't lose their trust because it can be lost forever . And yes , as a Sigma , there is many people that are jealous of me because of my wealth . And its mostly the men who are jealous. I never cared about gathering wealth, I just liked having nice things and helping people and when I give to people, the wealth comes back to me multiplied. I plan on buying me another Mercedes . I own three Mercedes convertibles and I have thought about giving away my black convertible, with the title , just because I can. I want to give it to someone but not sure who the person will be and if they could afford the regular maintenance on it. I didn't want to sell it because I don't need the money but wanted to give it to someone who needs a car . I have a few people in mind but I have to narrow it down to the person. This is one of the examples of , why people are jealous of me . I'm not looking for recognition or attention. But as the video says , Sigmas don't care what people think of them . Kind Regards
Thank you!
@@Bloke_Box , you're very welcome. Your videos are ," Over the Top " .
I can relate ,I too like having nice things and helping people
10:18 was the background pic the "banaue rice terraces"???
I dont know about being a sigma but as a INTJ, ignoring people is one of the easiest thing to do.
The more annoying they are the easier and better it is.
can't argue with that
Do you think there is overlap between INTJ and sigma? I think so
No complaining, no bitching, no drama
all 8 are describiing me, and i am a solo hustler since birth. socially very likely but still solo, small circle and focus on knowledge growth and financal and health progress. lets gooo i am 23. i cant imagaine me with 26 because 21 to 22 and 22 to 23 very insane 180 degree shifts. i am constantly growing but sometimes i feel a bit empty and sad, cuz i know deep down i am giving up on other things like party, girls, and event with friends, its really difficult to put everything in your lifeplan ... something will miss always mhh
I seem to largely fit this pattern although I don't really like the idea of identifying with labels. Labels can be used as a practical tool to more easily understand the traits in certain people, but I don't think they should ultimately be taken seriously. Great video though. Very informative.
I agree. These are tendencies, they will change.
Was going to leave a similar comment.
I don't like the idea of conforming to or people fitting within labels or think things are so simply defined. You can build a box and i'll cut a doorway and step outside.
This is exactly how I've always felt. I never knew why people always try to label themselves as something. I'm me, you're you, they're them and that's that.
Agree ideologies weakens the mind and make people stupid. Sure I might be a ”Sigma” or whatever. It’s still not me 100% and nothing I strive for either.
I believe that there are as many categories as there be as many people in this verse.
Nice video. I remember as a 4 year old Child I was already questioning everything. Asking questions like, how far is the moon, why does it rain... It drove my mother nuts. I would read anything about technology, the Universe, Darwin, Einstein, Hubble. At certain point my teachers went also nuts, because if they would teach something and it was wrong, I would correct them or fill out the gasps. That's it I always want to learn and grow. I am attracted to people who are also like this. A smart passionate Woman is so attractive.
I remember asking why everything as a child too I still do it now and I'm 50
As a young kid ,I was put threw some solitary stuff. So injoying the company of others isn't in my top priorities. I learned to deal with myself in my own mind. Made me self aware of myself at an early age. Most I figure would go insane but me found that I could take it. Not to brag but, its given me a perspective that I noticed alot of others don't have. Know if that makes me sigma I don't know. I just learned that I dont need or want, what most strive to be. I don't follow trends. I dont envy my neighbors. Im content with simple and none conformity of life. Im drivin but don't want to run someone else's show. I look for someone like me but seem to come up short. I notice some alpha traits in me depending on the situation but I'd rather go alone. I believe that alpha, sigma, and beta are your upbringing. There a product of your environment and surroundings. As a child, your being molded into what your parents are. Being born this, i think is a reach. In all reality I could say I have the traits as some serial killers but does that make me one? I went threw alot of what most killers justify killing. But thats not me. You have a choice and a conceince.
I hear ya....I'm a very solitary guy and always felt so different. Ever since I was young. And many people do find me attractive and when I walk to a table or feel I could sit with someone somewhere, people notice me immediately and feel so uncomfortable. I can tell how uncomfortable people feel around me. They cannot even look directly into my eyes for more than 3 sec or feel they can't stand still and I'm so laid back and chill. I'm like....what the hell? What is it about me? But I've never had a violent mind. I wouldn't even hurt an animal. My cat is like my best friend and I love her. I don't know, I guess I'm just strange....
@@CJTranceAddiction Pay no mind to those thinking you strange. Its your power of presence that intimidates those around you. Never hide your light to allow others to shine. Just you being is powerful in itself. I'm not violent either. Just been put threw things that others justify in violent actions. Be strong. Know yourself,good and bad. Thanks for the response 👍 😀
@@gabrielking9569 Man, thanks so much for those uplifting words. Even the closest of friends wouldn't tell you those kinds of words of encouragement. The world can be a lonely place when you just stand out as so different than those around you. My mind is just completely unorthodox lol.
You be strong, as well. It seems you have been through some hardships that I have not. My childhood was great, actually. My teenage years were a nightmare. All of high school was torture and I had no close friends. Growing into adulthood, I guess you can say, was not an easy transition.
On point as usual great video..
I ghosted my ignorant/rude relatives.
Why talk to them?
I have to say, I agree with 95% of this video.
One of the best channels on RUclips even though I can’t prove it with Science. Thank you kindly for these video 🙏🏻❤️ much appreciated.
This comment section is full of the most narcissistic people I’ve ever seen
Must be a Gama male
@@russellklassen4881 Really on that sigma male grindset with your 1 sub
IKR hahaha.
Best summary. Thank you.
This is absolutely the best Sigma video I’ve seen and I am a real live true sigma male
I'd like to think I am a Sigma but I honestly don't know. I am an introvert and there is some overlap. I distance myself and ghost people as a form of damage control. My rationale is that I am minimizing further damage by reducing contact. I have found that people react to this worse than if I have an outburst of anger and cuss and carry on. People are hurt more by apathy. I always find this disappointing because I can honestly say I never intend to hurt. I will cut you off if I feel you are toxic or ingenuine. I'd take an honest asshole any day over the sweetest liar.
If you are not successful/independent/strong you are probably not a sigma
I can relate 100%
@@spleenfulwhats sucess for you? Its doesnt mean if you are not sucess in every aspect you aren't sigma?I dont think so, you can be succesfull in your own way, if you mean sucess are just material stuffs, thats deffinitely is sign you are not sigma, i will say.I will say thats are signs for alphas , probably you are maybe alpha, but introvert .
@@spleenfulyou definitely are Not a Sigma. Sigma traits come from not having it all together but overcoming anyways and shining as a one of a kind who’s done it there own way
I saw this video, clicked it and never felt so understood in my life...
Also funny, i don't like attention so women alway misjudge me.
Some see me as a challenge cause i like to be alone.
When they see who i really i'm they are all over me and then become dissapointed and sometimes hurt cause they can't have their way with me...
It’s like having the sigma male in front of him. Wow!! Very well said. Thank you for sharing my friend.
Good one Gentleman. It's the closest to being accurate that I've heard this far 💯💯💯🧠
As a sigma woman, let’s call a thing a thing: ghosting is a cowardly, disrespectful behavior. I would expect a sigma/alpha will tell a woman why he’s not interested instead of disappearing.
Usually they will, out of respect of the situation unless there is a logical reason not to. Unfortunately a lot of women provide logical reasons not to. Sigma's by and large are not the ones doing the ghosting in the dating scene though this video is more about ghosting in life. People of any sort that come into your life probably not by your choice in the first place and then after evaluation are discarded for reasons described in this video.
Suck it up, buttercup.....as a sigma man I can tell you neither sex has the monopoly on ghosting. And ghosting is one of those things the sigma has learned to accept and deal with efficiently, as it is an effective tool, and as sigmas we know how to expertly defend against the same tools we so expertly wield. I'm not so sure you're a sigma.
No need for unnecessary conflict. Im willing to argue about anything if there is a point to it, some outcome I'm looking for, but otherwise why bother?
My Sigma husband is good at everything he does. I always tell him he's amazing because he is. He's definitely let good friends go because of their choice. I do love my Sigma man. He tries to incorporate me in his plans but i know at the end he will do what he wants.
I imagine you're quite the catch as well, seeing as sigmas know how to pick 'em😉 I know I picked mine well
Excellent psychology video. I don't know if I'm a sigma male.but I do find gaslighting boring, so I often ghost them.
I hate my gamma qualities but thankfully I know how to limit them now. Ever forward people. I'm not a sigma but I definitely like developing those qualities!
That’s sooo true about the haters. 90+ of people love us, the other 10% hate us with a passion. Was picked on a lot when I was younger.
Spot on..!
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Thank you!
Is there anyone in here who thinks this is kind of creepy. I mean I am everything that these videos describe.. but I never labeled myself anything, I have had to tell people that I’m a lone wolf tho. I go to the bars by myself because it’s a feeling that I can’t describe when I know that I’m all I got and I STILL got it! 💪🏾
This video itself really gives me the narcissistic vibe. I share some of the trait here. But this video is really cringy.
I mean there are some people who take interest in psychology and others that don’t. I have studied behavioral and evolutionary psychology pretty intensely and I can read people like a book. People often tell me it is creepy but I don’t care, it is extremely empowering to always be several steps ahead and to be able to anticipate your enemies moves before they make it.
Of course this video is only a tiny minuscule sliver of the knowledge you’d need to get anywhere near the level I have achieved.
I like going to the bars by myself too for what it’s worth.
@@mace3632 It does not mean you are a lone wolf. You're just not like most people that are seeking validation from others.
@@SuccessfulM.D. Ok yeah I agree with you there. I have a large network of people who support me and none of it would be possible without them. I’m definitely not a lone wolf working all on my own but I’m also not afraid to unilaterally take a course of action that everyone is telling me not to take.
Thanks so much for these videos... The understanding I gain from them is priceless.
"Let me tell you about the weather..."
"Well I was doing something else, but I guess we could discuss this subject. What did you want to say?"
"It's a bit chilly, isn't it?"
"Never speak to me again please."
THANK YOU!!!! Omg thank you!!! Don’t waste my time small talking and not teaching me a goddam thing. 🔥🔥🔥🔥💪
All that personality stuff are oversimplified labels made to describe a certain type of personality and behaviors. It's like calling someone a badass or a p*ssy. We know what people mean in general when they use those terms.
Now some people went backwards and started to sell you the idea that you need to reach a certain types of traits, they arbitrarly assigned to these labels, to be successful (such as: in order to be a badass you need to be A,B,C and do X,Y,Z). There's no depth and relation to your experiences and enviroment.
I was persuaded to leave a like because it's true, it only does take half a second. That's a rational pitch, I love it.
Peace to all the men who fall under this. We found our tribe
I put pen to paper on this subject with the song GHOSTED by THE CRUE on you tube...spotify, etc, etc.
THIS 100%% FAXX HAHA DAMN!! If only some people around me would understand
OMG I've always thought I was just a strong beta or mellow alpha, but this video fits me like a glove. Thank u very much for creating this video it explains so much. I'm a Sigma 👏
And psychologically, you will be a conservative too.
Dude, you're really confused in life
I'd always thought I was neither. It was interesting when these suggested videos randomly popped up describing my personality.
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@@StagedWorld-eb5ro "Activity" is a lot of things...so probably true, but what a random comment.
..."highly calculative risks" would be more accurate I'd say. Excellent video.
I'm a capricorn and I related to all the traits of a sigma. I hate useless family gathering and normally sit in the corner being alof.. People said I give them pressure even I'm not speaking or communicating or involved in any of the things happening.
I can forecast what will happen and the possible ending in the very beginning.
I live to read people's mind and work on strategy to dealing with them.
Like to be alone with only a cup of coffee, a book and cigar as my companion.
I guess I fall into this group but here is the issue. I am 52, successful and take very good care of myself. I have tried to date women whom i'm hoping are willing to have a good loving relationship but it just keeps getting harder to find one who is worth the effort. I realize it takes effort and compromise on both ends however the feminism always comes into play regardless of how well you treat them. I feel better off alone these days as most successful men I talk to seem to agree. Its just not worth it anymore I wish them the best and hope they find love however I don't want a person like that in my life.
I'm a sigma and I gave up on insecure stupid men that are unfaithful we are surrounded by stupid people I wish I could leave the planet because I'm far to wise and intelligent for this place and that may sound arrogant and full of ego but it honestly is not .. I grew up thinking I was dyslexic and stupid just to get to 50 and realise I was dropped out of a hole in a totally crazy insecure stupid world x
Idk this guy said he was an alpha told me he wants a house wife to take care of his house and kids and although I want to be a mother I want a career as well. I think women can handle both and im the total opposite of what he wants but he still invited me out offered to deliver food to my home and asked me to lunch but also ignores my responses or makes me try and fit in his schedule and that doesn't work for me and now hes saying hes going out of the country and im like uhhhh okay? why bother me if your too busy to date? he wanted my IG too I just dont get it
Your accuracy is astonishing! I just had to share it with my very social wife. The parts about alpha males in comparison to us is accurate, we tend to be highly intelligent and working at our pace, no urgency for all this hierarchy construct, we build our own, steady and we are confident we will get it done.
My best years in business is when the alpha, ( CEO, owner) and I used each other's strengths to achieve our mutual goals. Though most of the workers resented my freedom to act independently, the company always thrived as a result.
First and TrueSigma ngl
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I've had friends and family message me, asking if I'm ok, because I wouldn't ever text them for months. I cringe at that every time. Most of this list applies to me and I own it and revel in it. Small talk drains me, I hate being interrupted when I'm deep in my mind, and I'm thirty years old, single, and too busy bettering myself and my life vision to seek a woman.
It's impossible to be your friend. I wouldn't consider those sigma traits.
Excellent presentation, simply excellent!
When it comes to ghosting
It sounds not normal to most people, or even some.
But it’s mainly time, space
Personal reflection of prioritizing your thoughts
of what’s important and what’s not important ,
Or to uncluttered your
Mindset of things that
hinder your personal
Growth,
Most are bombarded with
Busy schedules of work,
Entertainment ,materialism
Distraction of media internet, sports . Which
Leaves no room, for solitude reflection meditation, another meaning for ghosting
It’s actually mean leaving
The outer world into your
Inner world , just you and
Your thoughts, that no one
Else sees, This is where
most people lack ,
The beautiful thing of ghosting.
Right on track.
Was nicknamed the "phantom" a few years ago 😁
A friend of mine told me to watch this, it explains everything about me except, I've never been abused or hazed by anyone. I wouldn't tolerate that BS. I know many other sigma males, this is good.
I am amazed at the number of people that want my attention, and become resentful, even angry when they don't get it. What they don't realize is that I am listening to what they say , people will tell you what they're thinking in a very short time without even realizing it, let them talk, you'll find out everything you need to know about them.
Im not claiming to be special and it actually goes against my nature to talk about myself but i had to drop this comment about how profoundly accurate this decribes me. Im having a hard time comprehending how 100% accurate you are able to describe my personality almost as if you've been spying on me. It actually is making me feel weird emotionally. Where do you get this information?
That's exactly what I was thinking. I got a little creeped out
Seems as though someone was reading me from a book
@@exemplarypersonality6562 i know what you mean..i never even heard of a sigma male until i saw this video but it blew me away at how accurate it described me
@@Thictaco i felt the same way its crazy
I am really glad you liked the video. I have been in this topic for a long time and studying sigma males. My psychology background helps me a lot.
Thank you for helping me understand myself... But it kinda disturbs me that my personality type is this well mapped out.... Ive watched at least 3 of your videos discussing this topic and every part of every video has been 100% spot on about my personality.... It kinda fucks with me and makes me feel predictable. Something I'm obviously not used to...
It's never you being ignored, it's the many problems that extend from you being navigated.
Very informative. Thank you
I feel like I am female version of this especially in the dating world. I don't mean to judge but dang, I don't wanna deal with someone dumb decision makings or bad characteristic/traits. I know we all have flaws and I am no where near perfect but so many make their life harder than what it is just by making dumb decisions, that could have been avoided very easily. When it comes to hobbies, everyone seems like they just wanna sit around, smoke weed/drink/drugs and talk shit about others/complain/social media
@@argeshagan7407 Yeah. WTF?
I small talk at first, because I am assessing the person I'm forced to work with or be around. Then I'll know how to deal with them
Great video
Thanks!
Very insightful video. With all the Sigma ignoring you must be tough having relationship with one. The words they use sound personal and hurtful.
Pain is your only teacher.
She failed my tests and stopped talking to me. So I walked
LMAO go ghost CASPER 😂
She saw you as the beta you are another fake sigma
SHE walked. Don’t delude yourself into thinking you were the one that walked away. You got your ass dumped
There so many reasons why I’d just vanish on someone. Most notable is that I am not interested in the friction. I don’t need anyone, therefore I do not have to deal with the friction.
Or....maybe you tried testing a sigma through head games. That'll get you written off real quick.
Totally makes sense!!
Would love a vid comparison on Sigma and Omega from your perspective. I’ve got most of these Sigma traits except I’m more emotional than rational. I’ve done “aloof” for the reasons you stated. I also care what people think (Empath) but I don’t make it my problem.
Empathy is just recognition and understanding the emotions of others. A sigma can be an empath (understand and recognize) and still not care one way or the other. Your emotional nature might push you away from being sigma but you shouldn't care about that either. Just do you and be cool with that.👍
The best one yet!
Mannnnn, this video clip is ALL OF ME AND SOME, I can detect a alpha male in 20 seconds or less and will never follow him or her to nowhere because I know already that they will sacrifice you just to see or feel better about themselves, so when it backfires in their faces I stand there and just look at them smiling because I know they cant carry my weight in nothing at all, yes I am a sigma male and march to the beat of my own damn drum and do not care what this world thinks of me nor about me, love me or hate me that is your problem not mine, when i make a decision i rarely go back on it unless i did not think this completely thru, once i see that i couldve made a better move i then start to change how i think with anything that needs attention including WOMEN, if she does not value herself as I think she should she will kick rocks and just go about her business because I dont need her nor YOU to survive my life while I am here, I look for NO VALIDATION FROM YOU OR ANYONE ELSE, and I would take what you have to give me that is my way of life and thinking, I am a HATED MAN and I very well know it because I can see everything from all sides before you even finish your sentence so be careful of what you are saying to me at anytime and if I miss something TIME always tells me the truth about you and your intentions, and your intentions must be correct or aligned with mine if I spend ANY TIME with you, enough said about myself because there is much more to me than you will EVER KNOW, and you will never find out all of me because I will remain a mystery to all humans
If you seek no validations from anyone in CAPS, then why are you commenting this to complete strangers online. Something doesn't add up. Viva tu vida y que se joda los demas.
You mean like how I feel like I've my boss hates me because everyone at work talks about me all the time. Everyone was shocked when I got there cause I never worked at a factory much less a factory that makes car parts and i was told by my aunt that even the supervisors I didn't know that well were saying good things about me. I was like ya, but this supervisor didn't know me. So why would he talk highly of me?
I agree with those thoughts especially that last one. I'm a sigma and I ignore such bs from alpha males. I'm my own man and live by my own rules.
Yup... im a pure sigma.... not a second guess
Yea im not one but i like to reason in a well way with others and when my mates doesn't listen i feel like a shit just cuz i tryna help us out wanna dream to reach the unthinkable the impossible dreams,
although they do that i dont hate em cuz if i do my heart goes ablaze so i don't wanna hate it's like an injury that i keep on hitting with a stone so i hate hating others i love not hate, so thanks for this video man
This guys just described the whole me😂😂
Til the next RUclips trend comes around then you will be that.
Then you, like the other “sigmas”, have lacking social skills and possibly a character disorder
@wayne hart 🤣🤣 I thought I am a sigma till I noticed it's a trend.🤣🤣
Same. Small talk is boring. I’d rather go skateboard or workout
Which greek letter of male personality is most likely to have no idea what any of these types are?
Why does everyone want to be a sigma? Anyone know what it feels like to be alienated all the time. It's kinda like that only it doesn't bother you.
Pair it up with INTJ type and it's paradise.
I dont know that people necessarily WANT to be a signa, it is more just how certain people are.
When I was younger and far more insecure, I wanted everyones attention. As I grew older I fibd I only want a specific fews attention. I do come off snobby maybe to some but, at this point I really just dont care about random people's mundane and boring small talk.
I agreed with just about everything in this description and so even though years ago I probably wanted to be an Alpha I find myself happier with the description of a Sigma. You shouldnt try or want to be something else, you should be who you are and try to accentuate your strong suits.
It’s either you are or you’re not, you can’t fake that.
The last point of this video is very true! My slightly-older twin bro is an Alpha male while I'm a Sigma male, so we butt heads and argue often. I've been distancing myself from him because of that.
Stay close with your brother. Family.
Does any one else feel like the whole beta, alpha and now sigma is all cringe? I rather just do me whatever that is because i got traits from all over the place.
I see it more as a spectrum not a specific label. You feel me homie dawg
NO! The characteristics are as clear as day in each type we meet. What we must do is create a healthy environment where ALL men can continue to build society in peace.
Very interesting
Are you a Sigma male? Great, now do that without being a narcissist and you will have a truly dynamic personality.
As a sigma male myself I don’t like judge-mental people you will get ignored
This is too real! It's perfectly on point!!😂😂
As a serial sideguy I give women I am interested in three choices:
1: Keep it platonic and flirty. Yes - she will be in the friend zone with some extra kind words and maybe a hug once in a while. I am ready to listen to her problems and give advice as a friend. Part of the deal is that I will "ghost" her if I meet someone else. I'm fine with her ghosting me if she finds back to her boyfriend of find someone new.
2: I can be the f**kboy and I want to know how high I am on her list of priorities. If I am far down I might just fade out of her life. Probably not a true ghosting since I'd give a short explanation but to most womens egos any kind of going your own way is a diss and a ghosting.
3: Try to make a real relation out of it. No ghosting allowed.
I'm not into the whole beta - alpha - sigma thing but it seems I have the sigma traits. Make what you will of that.
extroverted adhd with asperger traits and no trauma = pretty much sigma. i can follow like 90, 95 percent of the content of several of the videos. pretty much all people i met in my life with these traits are full blown libertarians, philosophical anarchist, humanists, real scientists.
this was cool, i didnt know people fit into little boxes like this
I'm a Sima to the T. I've struggle in my relationships due to this. It makes it hard meeting and keeping a partner. I haven't yet met a partner I hold to my standard. Anyone else have this issue?
Bro sigma males don't exist.
yep Jake, and I'm 66....still single....but ya know what I don't really care, it's better than putting up with all the drama and b.s.
Quality work up man is Jemar quality life