My brother has high functioning autism. He does throw tantrums but we’ve learned to just ignore them because it doesn’t help. He does get jealous when we have stuff he wants. I’m the oldest. He is four, then my sister is in 3rd grade, and my other sister is in 5th. We do give him some leniency because of his age but he’s gotten so much better and I know our parents would never put up with that kind of behavior.
That’s not that bad in history I did the same think to finish it in one class every one was say they were 23-25 minutes in then here I am with 50 minutes and the history video was already fast😅
I just use the 2 hour Roman history videos I watch for no reason I use it for background while I’m doing nothing or play a game, it makes it feel faster for some reason
So I’m sorry but… Elaborate birthday parties, custom cakes and pricey gifts are totally a spoiled kid thing. Not only are they unnecessary, they don’t really matter to keep children happy. However of course, favoritism is wrong. But what’s wrong is to send the message that one kid matters more, and to condition your children to compare themselves to each other. Not going all out on every party is totally normal though. Gifts aren’t a due, they’re mostly a financial privilege. Down the line, what matters isn’t how many material things you got as a kid but rather how much support, attention and love you got.
Same!! Unfortunately I know another high functioning person with autism as well, but he's just like that kid. He's now 40 years old and mad because daddy wants him to get a job! He had a great county job in his 20s but quit because he's a lazy spoiled brat that fakes a speech impediment for attention and it's offensive. I caught him and called him out on it. He just ignores people that call him out on his crap and his mum coddles him to this day! And his girlfriend isn't much better! Also on the spectrum but high functioning, she has NERVE to judge people and act like she's better than everyone. It's SIKK and gives the wrong idea about autism. This is spoilt brat syndrome!!!
im an autisitc child but not high functioning i am spoiled but never require much attention unless its from my parents like just spending time with them but their usually always doing work or being lazy but i cant blame them cause im the definition of lazy
Self discipline. Force yourself to stretch your attention span. People on Reddit want a TL/DR after two paragraphs. Meanwhile the Harry Potter books average almost 500 pages each, with the longest being over 700 pages. My Lady Wife used to take a long weekend once a year, start out on Friday night, and binge-read The Hobbit, the LotR trilogy, and the Silmarillion- all 2,000 pages or so. The she'd sleep the last night.
@@ArtistRB12So basically he just told how his autistic brother was spoiled and ruined OP's birthdays, but at the end the parents became more strict and sold almost all his belongings (sorry if it's not so accurate, I was more focused on the background)
@@ArtistRB12To add onto what Czieg said, it starts with the story of how brother used to ruin OP's birthdays out of a desire for them to he about him, added other stories related to other birthdays brother was invited to where he essentially did the same thing, leading to him and the parents being ostracized by the other families, talked about other entitled moments from brother like how often he would steal money from OP and how the parents would try to defend him until aunt gave them crap for it, how he stole things from kids at school, how he stole OP's minibike once, and eventually transitioned into how they had to actually deal with brother's entitlement once OP moved out, forcing them to confront the reality that they were terrible parents. So they began getting more strict with brother, selling all his luxuries and granting him slow privileges after extended periods of good behavior and doing chores, which he hated, but it was all he had to work with. Slowly he and OP would start to grow something of an understanding as he spent time with him, but turns out mom couldn't maintain their strict behavior and caved to brother's demands for more stuff, which became so extreme that mom had a psychotic break where she slapped him and began harming herself. Dad had her hospitalized and beat brother for his behavior, ultimately scaring brother into realizing just how terrible a person he is and having a real heart to heart with OP. Current state of the story ends with OP helping brother realize what adulthood is like, brother being scared of dad despite dad not hurting or raising his voice since and him doing chores without complaint, dad being depressed and filled with regret over everything, and mom still not being home, leaving OP to suspect she had been deemed dangerous and institutionalized.
You fail to understand the point. That was years of overdue spankings rolled into one. And I strongly suspect the Mom didn't give herself those black eyes, which is why she had the total psychotic break. Speaking from experience, if my Mom had been horribly physically abusive, but decent to me the rest of the time, I would have been fine with it. A hundred beatings don't add up to one incident of a parent getting in your face and screaming "YOU WORTHELSS LITTLE SHIT!!" This to a four or five year old me. Bruises and even broken bones heal. Emotional scars? Some of mine have barely scabbed over 50 years later. And this is coming from a GenXer, the "Suck it up, buttercup!" generation. Sadly, physical and emotional abuse tend to be linked. I'll never forget the time Mom broke her favorite wooden spoon while beating my bare backside with it. Three guesses who got in even more trouble over the broken spoon?
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My brother has high functioning autism. He does throw tantrums but we’ve learned to just ignore them because it doesn’t help. He does get jealous when we have stuff he wants. I’m the oldest. He is four, then my sister is in 3rd grade, and my other sister is in 5th. We do give him some leniency because of his age but he’s gotten so much better and I know our parents would never put up with that kind of behavior.
It went from spoiled brat, favoriten't child and bad parent to brat starting to behave, understanded child, hospitalized mother and depressed father.
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*understood
hey at least they apologized better than some stories I see (you happy now)
*stories
I’m not a bad mom how dare you suggest that proceeds to traumatize her kid and hurt herself because she is a horrible parent
If I tried to steal my brother's things he would mess me up 😂😂
I watched the whole 40 minutes in 2x speed 😭
That’s not that bad in history I did the same think to finish it in one class every one was say they were 23-25 minutes in then here I am with 50 minutes and the history video was already fast😅
W pfp btw
I just use the 2 hour Roman history videos I watch for no reason I use it for background while I’m doing nothing or play a game, it makes it feel faster for some reason
So I’m sorry but… Elaborate birthday parties, custom cakes and pricey gifts are totally a spoiled kid thing. Not only are they unnecessary, they don’t really matter to keep children happy.
However of course, favoritism is wrong. But what’s wrong is to send the message that one kid matters more, and to condition your children to compare themselves to each other.
Not going all out on every party is totally normal though. Gifts aren’t a due, they’re mostly a financial privilege. Down the line, what matters isn’t how many material things you got as a kid but rather how much support, attention and love you got.
The reason he’s pissed is because that’s what hey always gave his brother.
He said the only thing he missed was his birthday cake having his name on it, that's all which isn't much to ask.
W aunt and grandparents😂
3:55 for shorts people
GOATed Aunt
*Me with autism:* 👁👄👁 ----👄---- 👁👄👁
Why did u imagine the cartoon blink sound 😂😂❤
i’m Autistic no just NO
Same!! Unfortunately I know another high functioning person with autism as well, but he's just like that kid. He's now 40 years old and mad because daddy wants him to get a job! He had a great county job in his 20s but quit because he's a lazy spoiled brat that fakes a speech impediment for attention and it's offensive. I caught him and called him out on it.
He just ignores people that call him out on his crap and his mum coddles him to this day! And his girlfriend isn't much better! Also on the spectrum but high functioning, she has NERVE to judge people and act like she's better than everyone.
It's SIKK and gives the wrong idea about autism.
This is spoilt brat syndrome!!!
At least it had an alright-ish ending?!?😬😬
It's definitely better than it could have been, and there's hope for the brother yet since he was asking how bad he really was
My parents never held a birthday party for me, they never remember our birthdays at all! But they are our parents❤❤❤
im an autisitc child but not high functioning i am spoiled but never require much attention unless its from my parents like just spending time with them but their usually always doing work or being lazy but i cant blame them cause im the definition of lazy
That brother is a spoiled brat that’s greedy
How old must this little brother be because I would hate to have a brother like that 😂
2:59 you shouldent skip here cuz of how much info before but for short people
I am short 😔
@@PandaArt_3people from shorts I promise you being short doesn’t matter
i heard this story atleast 3 or 4 different times.
Oh my goodness!! I finally finished the video
3:50 for shorts viewers
Thank you :)
35:09 💀💀
4:50:14
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99:60:60
I’m chill with my big bro
I am not going thru 40 minueted of this. Someone tell me when paragraph guys here
i was abt to ssy that😅
Self discipline. Force yourself to stretch your attention span. People on Reddit want a TL/DR after two paragraphs. Meanwhile the Harry Potter books average almost 500 pages each, with the longest being over 700 pages.
My Lady Wife used to take a long weekend once a year, start out on Friday night, and binge-read The Hobbit, the LotR trilogy, and the Silmarillion- all 2,000 pages or so. The she'd sleep the last night.
40 mins? aint no way am i watching that, paragraph guy? where ru?
Let me finish the video, and I will tell you
@@Czieg oh, tysmmm
@@ArtistRB12So basically he just told how his autistic brother was spoiled and ruined OP's birthdays, but at the end the parents became more strict and sold almost all his belongings (sorry if it's not so accurate, I was more focused on the background)
@@Czieg tysmmm
@@ArtistRB12To add onto what Czieg said, it starts with the story of how brother used to ruin OP's birthdays out of a desire for them to he about him, added other stories related to other birthdays brother was invited to where he essentially did the same thing, leading to him and the parents being ostracized by the other families, talked about other entitled moments from brother like how often he would steal money from OP and how the parents would try to defend him until aunt gave them crap for it, how he stole things from kids at school, how he stole OP's minibike once, and eventually transitioned into how they had to actually deal with brother's entitlement once OP moved out, forcing them to confront the reality that they were terrible parents. So they began getting more strict with brother, selling all his luxuries and granting him slow privileges after extended periods of good behavior and doing chores, which he hated, but it was all he had to work with. Slowly he and OP would start to grow something of an understanding as he spent time with him, but turns out mom couldn't maintain their strict behavior and caved to brother's demands for more stuff, which became so extreme that mom had a psychotic break where she slapped him and began harming herself. Dad had her hospitalized and beat brother for his behavior, ultimately scaring brother into realizing just how terrible a person he is and having a real heart to heart with OP. Current state of the story ends with OP helping brother realize what adulthood is like, brother being scared of dad despite dad not hurting or raising his voice since and him doing chores without complaint, dad being depressed and filled with regret over everything, and mom still not being home, leaving OP to suspect she had been deemed dangerous and institutionalized.
I’m sorry but if that dad has spanked that kid and has done it to you too you should call the police
You fail to understand the point. That was years of overdue spankings rolled into one. And I strongly suspect the Mom didn't give herself those black eyes, which is why she had the total psychotic break.
Speaking from experience, if my Mom had been horribly physically abusive, but decent to me the rest of the time, I would have been fine with it. A hundred beatings don't add up to one incident of a parent getting in your face and screaming "YOU WORTHELSS LITTLE SHIT!!" This to a four or five year old me.
Bruises and even broken bones heal. Emotional scars? Some of mine have barely scabbed over 50 years later. And this is coming from a GenXer, the "Suck it up, buttercup!" generation.
Sadly, physical and emotional abuse tend to be linked. I'll never forget the time Mom broke her favorite wooden spoon while beating my bare backside with it. Three guesses who got in even more trouble over the broken spoon?
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Five comments in 1 month? Bro fell off.
Story is ancient.
3:51 for shorts people
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