12 SIGNS that YOU should CUT all contact with someone | MARCUS AURELIUS STOICISM
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In this enlightening video, we delve deep into the ancient philosophy of Stoicism to explore the 12 critical signs that indicate it might be time to reevaluate and possibly end certain relationships. Drawing on the timeless wisdom of Marcus Aurelius and other Stoic philosophers, we discuss how these signs impact your mental peace and personal growth, guiding you to make wise decisions that align with Stoic virtues like wisdom, justice, courage, and moderation.
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God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference
It works if you work it
And let us not forget to put principals before personality
1. 02:08 -- Consistent Lack of Respect
2. 04:46 -- Negative Effects on Mental Health
3. 07:17 -- Misaligned Values
4. 10:03 -- Feeling Constantly Drained
5. 12:47 -- Manipulation
6. 15:44 -- Lack of Trust
7. 18:35 -- Abuse of Any Kind
8. 21:10 -- Absence of Growth or Mutual Support
9. 24:17 -- Persistent Selfish Behavior
10. 26:59 -- Destructive Communication
11. 29:40 -- Disregard for Personal Needs
12. 32:33 -- Absence of Mutual Accountability
Thank you!!! ❤❤❤
All of that I went through with him I Just Split up with him of 7yrs🤦🏾♀️
Why cut off contact without solving the problem together?
@@stoicdeedright give it a chance first!
Thank you for making the list. According to this principle, my relationship should come to en end.
Befriending myself has been, so far, the most critical decision I have ever made after years of chasing acceptance and validation from people with their agendas and demons. I love the attunement these lessons bring about.
First we must understand what it is with in ourselves that causes us to become disturbed. I believe it is our ego, our need to be valued and respected. We must learn that our importance is not determined by how another chooses to view us but how we view ourselves. If how we view ourselves is an issue, then how others view us and treat us becomes an issue. We must learn to love value and accept ourselves as we are. Once that is done and mastered, no one else or nothing else can disturb us.
A quote from the Buddha: you are PERFECT just as you ARE!!!
Thanks
Ego oooorrrr hidden childhood trauma. Im very screwed up but due to my trauma. I love myself and if ppl dont like my mean personality, im ok with that. Its just who i am 😁
God speaks through this podcast. I asked for help. This podcast gave the answer I needed.
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
I had to cut all connections with people I taught I was friends with until I found out all that they were doing towards me in a negative way.
Sometimes we need to hear the wise, sometimes we think we know it all but then we realize we don't and it's ok not to know everything, psychology is amazing and when we have these people (philosophers) and go deep in our thoughts and behaviors then share their knowledge it's so important because I really find it helpful and then it makes me understand my deeper self and now I know it's ok that I feel a certain way but that I also have the power to change that but not change others...... and it's ok, as long as we take care of ourselves, it's others job to take care of themselves 🙂
Prioritizing your own peace of mind. ❤
Wonderful broadcast..not only did it outline behaviors I shouldn't condone ...
but it also made me look deep inside myself to make sure I'm not I'm not behaving inappropriately on occasion!
I went from turmoil to tranquility when I stopped all contact with my sisters. What a relief it has been for years. The narcissistic one still can't resist emailing something hurtful, so I press the delete key. They are in the northern hemisphere, and I'm in the southern hemisphere so there is no chance of personal encounters.
Prioritizing your peace of mind means recognizing that your mental and emotional well-being are essential. It involves setting boundaries, practicing self-care, and choosing responses that promote inner tranquility, even in the face of difficult circumstances or people.
Good for you....
The world is in a weird place
We have so much in common. I completely understand what you're going through. It was the toughest decision of my life, but I finally cut ties with my narcissistic sisters. One has done nothing but bring me down, (she's a covert narcissist). The other, an alcoholic, grandios narcissist who leaches off of people. Thankfully, we live in different states and never have to see each other again unless I choose to.
"From turmoil to tranquility" well said. ❤
I cut contact with 2 people about 6 months ago who were friends of nearly 35 years, once very close friends, when I realized they had stopped behaving as a friend to me
Good for you. It's not easy to do but you will be better off in the long run.
Congratulations on choosing you and your well being. Sounds like you out grew those relationships. Makes way for something new ❤
Good for you, sometimes it's time to remove yourself....
Well done. Although it's difficult, you'll benefit in the long run.
@baron Did you reflect on what role you played? It's a hard pill to swallow due to the ego getting in the way.❤❤
These Stoic videos have made me a better practitioner Bushido, Blessed Be.
Bravo! ... Thank you for this profoundly encouraging summary of Stoic concepts. I resonate with everything stated here and feel empowered to continue to refine in a similar direction. It should be clear to many, that the content of this video represents a manifesto of one of the philosophical pillars of Western Civilization. It has taken two thousand years of education, science, and contemporary psychology to affirm and confirm this philosophy as foundational to personal, and social development. This knowledge culminates in profound self-government and progress in communities from family to governing bodies. I believe this content has come at a good time, and will result in the betterment of our social structures if understood and applied. May blessings and good fortune visit those responsible for publishing this valuable work.
This was one of the best videos on Stoicism I've seen...thank u!
It chips away at you until you may even become bitter and that is a terrible feeling.
Yes!! 😢
Truth is recognizable to the spirit the spirit is in total agreement with it.. Thank you for putting this out.
I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck
Needed to hear this tonight Thank You.
Excellent video 👍🏽
Thank you for a amazing advice it’s helping me a lot 🙏🏽❤️
This just validated everything i went through amen ❤ i leave with love for myself and pray for them they have a wonderful life. Just not with me ❤😊
❤Amen
Thanks!❤
i agree,wise words.🙏
In order to maintain relatiinship it should be based in equality , liberty , friendliness, or liberty , godliness and love, thesecare the essence of ones Self...."know thyself" means to know which of the basic elements constitute your behaviour , there are five: instinctive , moving , sex / desires, emotion, intellect , if one studies them in oneself , he can become more aware of them in others this is the first step in any relatiinship....
Thanks for sharing 👍
Thank you!
Do not cut connection, but cut desires, desires lead to sorrows
Good lesson 😮😊
Virtues , something that has been cast aside now days, with those that believe, they move ahead & live right.
Thank you
Thanks!
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
Very important and essential for harmonious mutual living.
From Sam Crow “When I think of you, I think of kindness, wisdom, and love. Thanks for being you.”
I woke up tired of being tired… I’m letting it go, walking away
Gratidão
the key lesson is to recognize and address harmful relationships by applying Stoic principles such as wisdom, justice, and emotional resilience. Prioritize relationships that respect and support your well-being and inner peace, and have the courage to cut ties with those that undermine your tranquility and moral integrity.
Where are the stoic women pictures?
Agree, the imagery is really annoying…AI generated stereotypes…
Very wise words, but hard to follow without crossing or bending the lines a bit when one has also been in a military occupation for half of one’s life , in the military a stoic life is in Al the leadership treats that one is fought and needs to follow but also leaves room for a foot in someone’s ass every now and then, I do understand the need for restraint and mutual respect but in the real world you don’t have to like a particular person but you must respect the rank or there are real world consequences, any one reading this please let me know if I’m wrong but also look at it from a warriors perspective not just a Markus arilious venue that was a Cesar of Rome.
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
I went completely Gray Rock, almost no contact, with my antisemitic sister, who supports Hamas. She's also a covert narcissist. I never pick up when she calls any more, and only respond to her texts with dry and minimal comments. She's acting like nothing's wrong and has never acknowledged the elephant in the room.
Works for me. 😊
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
This is very repetitive but useful nevertheless
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
Crage 2 change in 10 years is not sufficient for modi of 8 pidies why.
🥦 Being vegan is a joyful way of living, and a moral baseline for any kind, sane individual. It’s our duty, while we’re alive on this earth, to strive to do the least harm to others. Being vegan is part of that.
🍌 Being vegan is the least we can do to help animals, who have a right to life, liberty, and happiness, in the same way that we do.
🍆 Vegans don’t steal. They don’t steal animals’ fur, feathers, wool, eggs, milk, honey, freedom, body parts, or their lives.
🍉 Using, or killing someone, just because they look different from us is wrong.
🥝 If aliens came to earth and treated us the way we treat animals, we would be begging them to stop killing our babies and pleading with them to eat lentils, beans, rice, potatoes, tomatoes and tofu instead.
🍎 According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, being vegan is healthy at any stage of development- one just has to eat enough calories, and a variety of foods each day, including fruits, green leafy vegetables, nuts, seeds, legumes and whole grains.
🥕 Being vegan helps protect the planet by reducing one’s carbon footprint. This allows the earth’s air, water, and soil to remain clean for both the animals and the next generations of children.
🫐 Everyone reading this was born vegan as it simply means doing the least harm to animals. Babies drink their mother’s milk which is vegan because it is given freely, not stolen.
🍇 All children who are placed in a room with a rabbit and a banana, will choose to play with the rabbit and eat the banana - not the other way around. All children intuitively love animals. This is why they want toy animals in their homes and love to watch them play together on TV.
🍐 It’s not your fault that your parents fed you the flesh of animals when you were a baby. You didn’t know the difference between a mashed- up carrot and a mashed-up carcass. You opened your mouth because you trusted your parents. But when you know better, you can do better, which means that, at any time, you can simply go back to your roots and be vegan again.
🌽 All religions want people to be kind. No religion tells anyone that they must eat flesh. All religions are open to veganism.
🍠 God wants us to do unto others as we want done to ourselves. This means that if we wouldn’t want our family members kidnapped, raped, forced to be pregnant and killed, we should not do it to anyone else.
🐷 Animals, like children, were put on earth for us to protect. Each of us can do our part, 3 times a day, by not paying anyone to kill them on our behalf.
🍅 Being vegan is easy as there are millions of healthy vegan recipes online and it has been proven that buying vegan foods like oats, beans, peas, rice, potatoes, spinach, cauliflower, broccoli, bananas, pasta, dates, bread, peanut butter, lentils, onions, is less costly because buying staples in bulk is not expensive. Feeding your body with love, and not death, will help you feel better both physically and emotionally.
🥥 Everyone who is vegan, should tell everyone they know and explain the reasons why. By being out and proud of your choice to be compassionate, you can inspire others to do the same.
WatchDominion.org
This one trick pony channel is written, edited and voiced by A.I.
I lost count of the times VIRTUOUS or VIRTUE was used to finish a sentence.
such garbage
Thank you