3 Things You MUST Give Up To Have Magnetic AF Energy

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    If you wanna be magnetic, I have a secret for you. That's that, you already are magnetic. It's just that you might be magnetizing inauthenticity to you. You might be magnetizing what you don't want rather than what you do want. So, when it comes to having magnetic energy that is very attractive that literally draws people, draws things to you, it's about just understanding that you already are. It's just about getting in alignment with who you really are meant to be. And in this video I'm gonna show you the three things you must give up to have magnetic AF energy. It's not really about what you pile on but it's what you let go of that allows this energy to come towards you.
    Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now, in this video, I'm gonna be sharing with you the three things you must let go of, in order to have energy that is so magnetic that you attract things to you. Now, before we do that though, I just wanna specify, think about a magnet. A magnet can do something like magnetized, but it can also if you flip the polarity, it can repel. And that's not always a bad thing, I imagine that you will repelling people that were trying to drain your energy. Imagine you're repelling narcissists, do you want to attract narcissists? Do you want to attract certain types of people into your life? The answer is that no, it's a good thing when you are really being yourself that some people are polarized away from you. And one of the ways you do this is by really getting in alignment with who you're meant to be and letting go of all the inauthenticity that may be there because if we are being authentic or if we're being not authentic, we're going to attract other people who are not authentic. So this is something to really think about.
    I realized that in my own life one thing I've really been shedding and I have shed this last year was some inauthentic parts of my personality. One of them was that back in the day, like when I was growing up, the masculine role model I had growing up was actually my dad who was and is a like stereotypical nice guy. Someone's really nice, doesn't go intention. It's funny I'm here in Sedona right now. I just got a place here. I took my dad. Let me show you guys. I'm not saying this to brag. I don't know if you guys could see that little thing right there, that little ATV. I brought my dad in that ATV. And as we were going around the trails here, anyone we passed that like, let us go, like, let us go around. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. It was just so funny. I'm like, dude, this is the pattern that I used to have too, I felt obligated to like, be super nice to everybody but realize this, being nice isn't bad, but it's when it's coming from a place like I want to please other people. It's maybe not always authentic.
    So the nice guy in the people pleaser is trying to be nice other people in exchange for validation and support. But here's the funny thing, if you have that pattern going on or that program going on, you'll find that you'll then many times attract narcissists or people that will take advantage of that because that's their inauthentic part of it. So growing up, my dad what attracted my ex step mom, who is a narcissist, who is crazy, controlling, manipulative, was in my life from seven to 16 years old. And that also, they say that, parent pleasing is where people pleasing comes from. So from having to be good enough was what caused that in the first place and then that is the one-on-one reflection. So you actually wanna repel just as much as you wanna attract but the way that I've repelled narcissism in my life is by actually having very strong boundaries and having and being in my own frame, being in a strong frame. Narcissists want everything coming towards their frame, whereas people pleasers in impasse don't have a frame. So I'm gonna share with you a trick and the biggest transformation that has ever happened in my life was by applying a little practice that I'll share with you, I've shared it in a couple of other RUclips videos. But in general, the main thing that I wanted to share is that, if you want to really have very magnetic energy one of the things you need to let go of is needy energy being needy and being codependent which is where the people pleaser comes from which is where the nice guy comes from.
    #lawofattraction #spirituality #awakening

Комментарии • 1 тыс.

  • @AaronDoughty44
    @AaronDoughty44  3 года назад +114

    hey guys! Listen to This Meditation will Raise Your Dominant Vibration PERMANENTLY: ➡ ruclips.net/video/KKrPqB59kg0/видео.html​

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +1

      Live with joy and ring a bell ,
      Go to heaven after watching hell ,
      With God you've risen ,
      After you tripped and nearly fell ,
      You would rise and really swell ,
      All is good and truly well ,
      Nothing to scare and you can tell ,
      Sing for peace and in joy dwell ...

    • @SolflowerBohemian
      @SolflowerBohemian 3 года назад +3

      Thank you Aaron! It’s been such a pleasure watching your and being inspired by your growth and journey. Alafia ✌🏾 Namaste 🙏🏾

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +2

      شكرا ...thank you .Shukran...
      Who knows Arabic ?

    • @elsierandel7656
      @elsierandel7656 3 года назад +4

      Please make the meditation video. You are wonderful- very helpful videos!

    • @nataliamunizrivera5936
      @nataliamunizrivera5936 3 года назад +1

      3-feel the separation between you and other people.
      Isn’t this the ego separation contrary to the law of oneness ?

  • @RelightwithKat
    @RelightwithKat 3 года назад +505

    “Care about what other people think, and you will always be their prisoner.” - Lao Tzu

    • @jessies3236
      @jessies3236 3 года назад

      Needed this one thank you for sharing.

    • @chadamitecheckoutredpillpl2641
      @chadamitecheckoutredpillpl2641 3 года назад

      become a flat earther

    • @annekaluna9089
      @annekaluna9089 3 года назад +5

      It’s hard not to but I have noticed over the years the better I feel about myself the less I believe the lies or criticism thrown at me. Even if the criticism is true I don’t take it as personally anymore. I love myself no matter what anyone thinks of me! So, I have freed myself!

    • @bellabwz
      @bellabwz 3 года назад

      I need this.thanks

    • @tarvinder91
      @tarvinder91 3 года назад +1

      Amazing quote. Thanks for sharing

  • @dantepepper
    @dantepepper 3 года назад +464

    “Happy people build their inner world; unhappy people blame their outer world.” Dalai Lama

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +4

      Live with joy and ring a bell ,
      Go to heaven after watching hell ,
      With God you've risen ,
      After you tripped and nearly fell ,
      You would rise and really swell ,
      All is good and truly well ,
      Nothing to scare and you can tell ,
      Sing for peace and in joy dwell ...

    • @jessies3236
      @jessies3236 3 года назад +3

      Love this thanks for sharing

    • @brianlane3127
      @brianlane3127 3 года назад +2

      You are a blessing stay blessed...💙☀️🙌

    • @navyal7237
      @navyal7237 3 года назад +1

      Love this one .
      Preach ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 года назад +404

    “Sometimes happiness looks like staying at home, minding your business, telling people NO, and doing you.” 🙏🏽

    • @skinnykhris
      @skinnykhris 3 года назад +2

      Didn’t expect u here bro 💯

    • @hazemlaabidi8494
      @hazemlaabidi8494 3 года назад +1

      Didn't expect you here 🥶💯 what other channels do you watch 😂

    • @Vanity529
      @Vanity529 3 года назад

      I couldn’t agree with you more!

    • @stellarstar9340
      @stellarstar9340 3 года назад

      👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👌🏻💯

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 года назад +1

      Exactly!

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 года назад +410

    First rule to protecting your energy:
    Learn to distinguish who deserves an explanation, who deserves a one word answer, who deserves only one answer, and who deserves nothing at all. 😌✌🏽

    • @kassandrajayne8789
      @kassandrajayne8789 3 года назад +20

      No is a full sentance.

    • @Me-xoxoz
      @Me-xoxoz 3 года назад +3

      Going Grey rock is an answer too😁

    • @Neelimatadepalli
      @Neelimatadepalli 3 года назад

      Right. This is exactly what I was thinking when I read your message.

    • @vv3vv300
      @vv3vv300 3 года назад

      Thank you this is what I needed

    • @CariMachet
      @CariMachet 3 года назад +1

      There is no deserve

  • @spillingtheteawithhenryg9710
    @spillingtheteawithhenryg9710 3 года назад +279

    When I started putting boundaries all my siblings and some cousins stoped talking to me , but I actually feel happier

    • @mandolaa4855
      @mandolaa4855 3 года назад +22

      Keep only people who respect your boundaries 👏

    • @perryesther7463
      @perryesther7463 3 года назад +2

      No worries keep up the good work!! Who cares

    • @perryesther7463
      @perryesther7463 3 года назад +4

      Yesterday I found myself feeling emotional pain on such a level that I just said “mommy” over and over while sobbing. That’s when you know you’re in pain. You don’t know what to do with yourself and you say things to yourself to ease the pain. It doesn’t TRULY do it, but it actually created an illusion of easing it. Because as a child we OFTEN go to our mom for comfort when we feel sad and experience tough feelings. There are times when you feel like everything is falling apart. It’s okay to cry, Crying doesn't mean I’m weak... It means I’ve been strong for a very long time.. I just have to remind myself to Never give up. HaShem can find a way when there is no way. He is right beside me all the time. He will see me through. With HaShem nothing is impossible. Never give up, let go attachment

    • @tamirajohnelle4700
      @tamirajohnelle4700 3 года назад +8

      All that matters is that you feel good. We can’t make others happy.

    • @alishar9831
      @alishar9831 3 года назад +3

      I’m in the same page .

  • @1endlesssoul
    @1endlesssoul 3 года назад +158

    “If you want to fly, you gotta let go of whatever still weighs you down.” 🦅💚

  • @UniversalCrystals
    @UniversalCrystals 3 года назад +217

    *”When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” - Lao Tzu* 😎🔮🚀

    • @WayIntoDarkness
      @WayIntoDarkness 3 года назад +3

      Ohhh I love this one! Thanks for sharing😊

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +8

      " Wisdom tells me that I am nothing. Love tells me that I am everything. Between the two, my life flows. "
      Explanation:
      Wisdom tells you not to be identified to anything whether a thought , a material stuff or an emotion ...Love tells you oneness of being with everything ...This is the spaciousness or vast awareness where things ebb and flow , appear and disappear . Forms change and things change in that constant vast awareness...

    • @UniversalCrystals
      @UniversalCrystals 3 года назад +2

      @@WayIntoDarkness 🙏🏼❤️

    • @UniversalCrystals
      @UniversalCrystals 3 года назад +2

      @@waelfaraj6705 🙏🏼👁

  • @MonkyDollqueen
    @MonkyDollqueen 3 года назад +83

    One that angers you controls you. Don't give anyone that power! Especially the one who does it intentionally.

    • @Me-xoxoz
      @Me-xoxoz 3 года назад +3

      Yes and yes someone who knows how to get the desired reaction from you.

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад +2

      I am finally figuring this out..after a lifetime of such anger which was probably dumped on me. Im the scapegoat in the family. BUT how does this work while raising our own children? My son is kind of a challenge child and he definitely tests my patience, lol. Should I not let him get to me? Will he stop if I do?

  • @RelightwithKat
    @RelightwithKat 3 года назад +126

    We can intuitively tell when someone is just being authentically them, without attachment to others' judgments. That's super magnetic.

  • @lifewithbakari1413
    @lifewithbakari1413 3 года назад +179

    “The greatest step towards life is simplicity is to learn to let go”.

    • @etinarcadiaego7424
      @etinarcadiaego7424 3 года назад

      I'm not much of a man of simplicity.

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад +1

      Live with joy and ring a bell ,
      Go to heaven after watching hell ,
      With God you've risen ,
      After you tripped and nearly fell ,
      You would rise and really swell ,
      All is good and truly well ,
      Nothing to scare and you can tell ,
      Sing for peace and in joy dwell ...

    • @lifewithbakari1413
      @lifewithbakari1413 3 года назад +1

      @@waelfaraj6705 I love this one❤️

    • @etinarcadiaego7424
      @etinarcadiaego7424 3 года назад

      @@waelfaraj6705 I appreciate the effort but I don't believe in the Christian god and never will. I don't want the cold comfort of transcendental things, I only care about earthly success. Heaven and Hell mean nothing to me. I don't care about any life but this one. I just want sex, money, and power.

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 3 года назад

      @@etinarcadiaego7424
      With all appreciation , the purpose of life is to experience the tastes of joy , ecstacy and wonders . Religions are keys or ways to experience life in all aspects . I think that heaven is not necessarily in the afterlife or in the sky and so is hell... They are not places somewhere away from earth but they are in the now here as states of being . You get back the energy you put out .
      As long as one treats others well , he or she may do , be or have whatever resonates with them in this temporary human existence ...

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +66

    *The most important two days of your life is first when you were born and second when you find out why.*
    Have an amazing day ladies and gentlemen.

  • @rootedro
    @rootedro 3 года назад +32

    Sometimes I get really in my head about how to be authentic. Ive learned that the key is to not try, just let go and fall into flow

  • @jademorgan1096
    @jademorgan1096 3 года назад +4

    *Overly nice/ people pleaser attracts Narcissists. BOUNDARIES!!
    Let go of being needy.
    Let go of attachment
    Let go of expected outcome
    Forgiving everyone is freedom
    I am happy with me
    😊 THANKS

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 года назад +65

    Tbh, since the energy you emit touches all other aspects of your life... getting complimented on your energy is the highest form of a compliment in my mind 🙃

    • @talulatree5297
      @talulatree5297 3 года назад +1

      I agree. I've had strangers from time to time admire my energy. One time, the guy at the bank drive through told me I was literally glowing, and I remember these compliments with fondness.🤗⭐

    • @colinesquire2480
      @colinesquire2480 3 года назад

      Agree

  • @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331
    @taabishkhanself-improvemen7331 3 года назад +44

    *”If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got”* - Henry Ford

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 года назад +32

    It's hard at times to be ourselves, but it's even more difficult to be somebody else.

    • @3zooz17
      @3zooz17 3 года назад

      NEVER be someone else

  • @TheChristianFlock
    @TheChristianFlock 3 года назад +44

    "We carry inside us the wonders we seek outside of ourselves."

  • @KhoiKhoiBoi
    @KhoiKhoiBoi 3 года назад +33

    Optimism is a happiness magnet 😂🌈

  • @lifewithbakari1413
    @lifewithbakari1413 3 года назад +38

    We are shaped by our thoughts;
    We become what we think.

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 3 года назад +29

    Joy is the most magnetic force in the Universe. Joyful Easter to Everyone 🖖

  • @Visionarioempire
    @Visionarioempire 3 года назад +101

    Aaron doughty’s consistency is unmatched! Great mentor to many

    • @only1lilboosie94
      @only1lilboosie94 3 года назад +1

      Fax

    • @lamadesurvivor5216
      @lamadesurvivor5216 3 года назад +2

      Absolutely!!! His entire page, and videos seem so genuine. He’s being relatable.

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад

      He's my guru right now!! I resonate with all of his videos about magnetic energy.

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад

      I agree!! I’m so into his videos like this one, about magnetic energy ♥️

    • @renaunap2509
      @renaunap2509 3 года назад

      Agreed

  • @AleSGold-pb4tu
    @AleSGold-pb4tu 3 года назад +25

    Like a panda once said:
    “There’s no secret ingredient”.
    It’s only you.
    You are the master of yourself.
    It’s to be, not trying to be.
    I’m on this way too

    • @mstwelvedeadlycyns
      @mstwelvedeadlycyns 3 года назад +1

      Ooh that is a good one@

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад

      first step is to not let anyone control your emotions. People can't drive you crazy unless you hand them the keys!!!

    • @soniawokeuplikethis
      @soniawokeuplikethis 3 года назад +1

      Lol love the kung fo panda reference 😭💕

  • @chetamukherjee6967
    @chetamukherjee6967 3 года назад +35

    “Feel whole and complete “ detachment is important thank God I can save my energy now for my soul mission

  • @anthonypatrick4441
    @anthonypatrick4441 2 года назад +3

    Don't be afraid to be your authentic self. Being open and honest is good way to be. To be helpful, loving and kind is a good way to be. Never take anything personally after a break up, don't let it affect your self-esteem. Just learn from it. Say, their loss and move on!

  • @malcolmnicoll1165
    @malcolmnicoll1165 3 года назад +8

    “The tragedy of an attachment is that if its object is not attained, it causes unhappiness. But if it is attained, it does not cause happiness - it merely causes a flash of pleasure followed by weariness, and it is always accompanied, of course, by the anxiety that you may lose the object of your attachment.”
    ― Anthony de Mello (1931-87)

  • @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas
    @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas 3 года назад +6

    I am repelling narcissists yes, I have noticed that! It's true that you attract those who are like you! A while back I used to attract narcissists while now I repel them! That's a great sign that my energy is changing! So my efforts of inner growth are paying off!

    • @jadapinkett1656
      @jadapinkett1656 3 года назад +1

      If you attract narcissists, does that not make you one? 🤔

    • @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas
      @MihaelaClaudiaPuscas 3 года назад +1

      @@jadapinkett1656 exactly, most likely I was a narcissist as well a while back, then I went to a wake-up period and since then everything changed for me!

  • @AveGoddess
    @AveGoddess 3 года назад +3

    "Just Be Yourself & Let That Be Your Guide"
    -Janet Jackson

  • @TheMoniqueKahili
    @TheMoniqueKahili 3 года назад +20

    “The most magnetic thing is when YOU are being YOU”. Yes, thank you Aaron!! ❤️

  • @mmmmeri
    @mmmmeri 3 года назад +17

    "Lead your own life, be in your body, know what you are feeling and learn how to set boundaries" ✨

  • @momstar7127
    @momstar7127 3 года назад +18

    ""Authenticity is magnetic""

  • @k.h.307
    @k.h.307 3 года назад +15

    loved the video. While watching, I realized I have fallen in love with someone without any attachment to the outcome. This really is huge for me. Blessings! 💫

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +8

    *Greatness is built when nobody else is watching.*
    *I don't know which stage of life you are in but I hope you never give up...* 💥

    • @BUBU999
      @BUBU999 3 года назад

      I need help bro

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan 3 года назад +8

    Ignore the negativity and the doubts people have on you. *Keep moving forward.*
    *I am cheering for your success.* ✋

  • @DivinelyRo
    @DivinelyRo 3 года назад +26

    “It’s a good thing when you’re really being yourself that some people are polarized away from you”
    Say it again for the people in the back, Aaron.
    It’s me, I’m in the back.
    I need to hear it again.

    • @bobbyw8742
      @bobbyw8742 3 года назад +2

      Lmao 😂 I’m right there with you.

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад

      haha, cute. But really, it's in that moment that we become a people pleaser if we repel people or we just stick to our authentic self, which is where true happiness is.

  • @educateyourself24
    @educateyourself24 3 года назад +6

    WOWWW this knowledge i MUST share with you i know how it works FINALLY you have the power to attract ANYTHING to You

  • @AndreyZenperial
    @AndreyZenperial 3 года назад +14

    The colour grading on this video is magnetic AF😁Namaste🙏

  • @educateyourself24
    @educateyourself24 3 года назад +7

    If you say I am h happy and grateful for what i have God s aays you dont know what happyness is and gives you more ❤

  • @SheShe33
    @SheShe33 3 года назад +1

    I can definitely feel when someone is “the nice guy” because they feel they need to be and not because they want to be.

  • @TheMediumChannel
    @TheMediumChannel 3 года назад +7

    You can't help but to broadcast everything you are to the world around you and the world cannot help but to subconsciously pick up on it...the patterns that rule our lives are our best techers in the end...to be magnetic you must be aware of this, release old crap so you can better understand what you are putting out there and how to control it..then choose your vibes wisely...

  • @terilepine7403
    @terilepine7403 3 года назад +1

    Thanks so much ❤️ Right when I needed to hear this! I just broke up with my narcissistict boyfriend after 14 yrs. Through the fire 🔥 to clear and clean air! A new beginning!

  • @gramirez72
    @gramirez72 3 года назад +6

    That house looks amazing!

  • @ludilight2948
    @ludilight2948 3 года назад +8

    Bro I saw this notif ..and the picture looked like you were looking directly at me. ....like personally lol

  • @cheriewi7874
    @cheriewi7874 3 года назад +5

    Thank you Aaron, I so needed to hear this right now. It's been 2 years my awakening started. I remembered when once you said, give yourself permission to do what you like. I did. I started my artistic career....taking drawing and digital painting courses and so on. I'm enjoying it. I've published my children book a week ago and I know it's a journey... Thank you so much 🥰.. love and peace

  • @tgsnetteshafran1407
    @tgsnetteshafran1407 3 года назад +2

    By nature I'm an extrovert but by nuture I am trained to be afraid of getting attention. I'm ready to be receiving attention energy And love myself. It's a habit to start.

  • @stellarstar9340
    @stellarstar9340 3 года назад +5

    Aaron your videos are LITERAL GOLD & Change lives!!! I can’t thank you enough 4 you & your videos!!! Namaste & God Bless! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻☪️🕉☯️🛐☦️💟☮️

  • @sandibergen2523
    @sandibergen2523 3 года назад +2

    Yes. Make a meditation 🧘. I have been a chronic Empath my entire life. I was abused, severely emotionally neglected and physically abandoned by my “parents”. I became a chameleon and conformed to whomever I was with. When I physically moved away from my family, I went through a very difficult year and realized I was never doing what I wanted to do, I felt guilty and always went along with esp my mother, who is insanely dysfunctional and unable to express any kind of emotion or any physical expression (hugs, etc) I grew up with NO physical touch or any emotional conversations- I was left alone age 7. By 11, I was having panic attacks and had a hyper thyroid- All from such extreme constant chronic stress and neglect. I was suicidal by then. Have been hospitalized 7+ times for OD’ing, self-injuring, and severe depressive disorder with huge bipolar swings, borderline pers disorder, GAD, panic attacks, anorexic, OCD-you name it, I had it. I went through close to 30 different meds etc, all kinds of therapy, neurofeedback, everything except ECT. SonI survived all of this...somehow????!! I still suffer depression/anxiety/BPD... but am still trying to get better. I take on my 3 kids emotions all the time. I’ve been divorced from my narcissistic ex for 9 years- he has ZERO to do with me or my kids. I don’t want to pass this on to them. Any suggestions or ideas would be appreciated. I also listen to Dr. Dispenza. Was doing so much better until pandemic hit and I fell even further down the rabbit hole. Thanks so much - & I agree, I’ve watching your videos about 2 years now and you definitely seem like a completely different person- kudos, always happy when people can overcome severe traumas in their lives. Sending love and light- 💕

    • @adnamahad5196
      @adnamahad5196 3 года назад +1

      Hold up you are a hero keep going thanks for sharing your story and inspiring us

    • @arjun5649
      @arjun5649 3 года назад +1

      We love you Sandi. The mere fact that you're taking the initiative to break the toxic cycle is a win. Keep doing the inner work. You're a divine being. Expect miracles to happen and don't settle for anything less. ❤️

    • @sandibergen2523
      @sandibergen2523 3 года назад

      @@adnamahad5196 ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @sandibergen2523
      @sandibergen2523 3 года назад

      @@arjun5649 💜💜💜💜

  • @lamadesurvivor5216
    @lamadesurvivor5216 3 года назад +13

    It’s crazy how the universe works! I have basically been dealing with EVERYTHING you are speaking on Aaron! This video was right on time! I even felt it in my heart center as you were speaking

  • @KyleGood
    @KyleGood 3 года назад +22

    “all energy is sexual”, meaning that subliminally we will redirect our motivation for ungratified sexual impulse to other endeavors.

    • @etinarcadiaego7424
      @etinarcadiaego7424 3 года назад +1

      Yeah well I'd give up everything else just to fulfill those ungratified sexual impulses.

    • @trilliannme
      @trilliannme 3 года назад +10

      Only if you are stuck in your primal brain and don't use the evolved frontal cortex that separate humans from monkeys.
      Being that most everything that most everyone does every day does not have anything to do with sex, this sexual culture that we seem to be building in the world is more about *dumbing* us back down to just living only for pleasure and gratification. Using only a small part of the brain. To keep us from thinking, contemplating, questioning, growing, developing, evolving, etc.
      It's easy to control people who only think about sex, food, drink than people who are questioning why they are being controlled.

    • @heatherv8villalon603
      @heatherv8villalon603 3 года назад

      and it causes acne too.

    • @melindahernandz7942
      @melindahernandz7942 3 года назад

      I wish you could fix me. I don't even know where to start

    • @melindahernandz7942
      @melindahernandz7942 3 года назад

      @@heatherv8villalon603 what do you mean?

  • @VerenaSatriani
    @VerenaSatriani 3 года назад +4

    After I watched this one, I could literally relate why I attracted wrong people in the past. Thank you, Aaron. This really gave me the answer.

  • @rosy276
    @rosy276 3 года назад +2

    Thank you not for pleasing you but you deserve this thank ❤️🙏❤️

  • @KyleGood
    @KyleGood 3 года назад +5

    The Positives & Negatives of life will ALWAYS be present. You choose to look to either one. Get in alignment with that you desire to become, and thus, you will attract (magnetize) that life you desire.

  • @soniaalaska6733
    @soniaalaska6733 3 года назад

    1) detach. You should feel whole already, let go of that neediness and needing "things".
    2) inauthenticity. Don't do things to please people, don't change yourself to others, have your boundaries.
    3) separation. Becoming more connected to your inner self and your emotions. You can become happier and feel safer with yourself. Therefore you have more self love and respect, you know who you are and what you want. It's more appealing.
    People pleasers/ when you don't have boundaries /not aligned with yourself....you are more likely to attract narssassitic people.
    "Raising your vibe is magnetic. Going after your passionate is magnetic. Letting go is magnetic. The most magnetic things is when you are being you... Unapologetically, no string attached."
    Love you Aaron, you've changed my life, I've been watching you for a few years now.

  • @AB-C1
    @AB-C1 2 года назад +1

    Aaron,
    This is possibly the best video I've seen from you mate. This is where I'm at tbh. Been working out or trying to balance the last few years.. trouble is when people are used to the people please you attract a lot of anger negativity hate and that cos people suddenly realise youre not able to be manipulated. Even though you knew their game all along you played along for a quiet life, once you start saying no I'm not having that, youre suddenly considered difficult or just lose people while it's all very well thinking I don't need that shit anyway the flip side is that 1. It don't leave many or any that are close by in my case!
    2. It included my family and ex once I stopped being a door mat.
    As a bloke it's not an easy balancing act to accomplish. You really need to start a fresh somehwere new I feel once you find yourself and truly awaken and realise you're own self worth. And if the VERY few left still want to know they can get in touch or make the effort and if not you find a new tribe that fits with you..
    Just my experience personally.
    Albert Einstein famously stated that; "The Greatest Spirits, encounter the most violent opposition, from mediocre minds!" Or something like that from memory..
    He also stated that "The greatest force in the universe is Love"
    Amazing man! As was Nikola Tesla, both Geniuses both Scientists but yet both understood energy, frequency, vibration, a higher power or knowledge imparting knowledge to them as a vessel! As did Leonard Da Vinci before them and MANY other great thinkers like Socrates and Plato..
    It shows that the greatest minds know the greatest spiritual and universal truths of the universe!
    We are all playing catch up!
    Cheers from London England 👍💪😎🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🙏🕉️ Namaste

  • @TheMediumChannel
    @TheMediumChannel 3 года назад +3

    In mediumship work being in your frame and separating is actually very important because we train to be so connected to Spirit. in order to bridge the 2 worlds sometimes we can be too in our universal oneness. I appreciate the tips and candle meditation and yes, I'd love to see a video on it thank you

  • @endlesseverything460
    @endlesseverything460 3 года назад +1

    I can't believe that this is free. So much value! Thank you so much.

  • @ABihStayWinN
    @ABihStayWinN 3 года назад +8

    Yes. I would love this as a meditation.

  • @jeaniej9370
    @jeaniej9370 3 года назад

    I think showing your appreciation when a person does something nice, like letting you cross in front or opens a door for you, uplifts yourself and the person who did the good deed. It’s like smiling as opposed to scowling. Which type of person would you rather encounter. It’s really just showing gratefulness and positivity. That doesn’t mean you will attract narcissists. It just means that you are aware that we are all connected and treating all people you encounter in a kind and respectful way will help them to have a better day. Once you know someone enough to know they are not who you want to be around, then you can begin repelling them.

  • @liztorres7234
    @liztorres7234 3 года назад +4

    Yes meditation vid!!!!! Ive been following you since day 1. These wounds have been with me for years ( mother and father) attracting narcissists. Healing this is the next step in my journey!! You rock Aaron and thank you!!!! 🙏

  • @christinajohnson8465
    @christinajohnson8465 3 года назад

    I love what you said about not having to say hello to everyone. I’m from Missouri and it’s just taught that everyone says hi to each other. I’m also an introvert and sometimes just don’t want to. I’m not shy, I just don’t feel the need to talk to everyone. Example...out hiking this morning. I love nature and get caught up in it. Then I see someone coming my direction. 🙄 ..And I’ve been forcing myself to say hi. They’ll say hi. How are you? Good. We pass. It’s so unnatural and I’ve hated it, takes away from my experience. So THANK YOU for this video!

  • @sajoudj
    @sajoudj 3 года назад +5

    You don't know how much I feel peaceful and powerful when I watch you 😍I love Aaron ❤️

  • @LyrasRaven
    @LyrasRaven 3 года назад +1

    I set boundaries and distanced myself from a former best friend who was toxic. I was sadder than you could imagine, but I’m 6 months my vibration raised and I felt “cleaner”
    I still think of her and wish her well, tho

  • @felixhansson8169
    @felixhansson8169 3 года назад +4

    Hi Aaron,
    You might have done videos talking about this topic but if you haven't I really suggest you differentiating the different ''wants'' that you talk about. In some videos you say that wanting is lacking and other videos you talk about wanting as something other than the lacking wanting. Something which I found to be useful is to differentiate them into wanting/desiring and craving. Craving being the one which is coming out of a space of Lack.
    Thank you Aaron, you are doing great work. Love you videos!

  • @marniepowell948
    @marniepowell948 3 года назад

    Thanks so much for being here and helping me grow. I love you and appreciate you.

  • @faithforce4414
    @faithforce4414 3 года назад +15

    Back in days, Aaron be like:
    -Stepmom, IM STUCK in low vibration😄

  • @vicklou
    @vicklou 3 года назад +1

    Covid spatial distancing has been a Godsend to empaths' separation!

  • @bcute4evers2
    @bcute4evers2 3 года назад +5

    Great video Aaron! I love the captions, you walking around, and how engaging it was! I find when I watch your videos in the morning, I feel high vibe all day! Your energy is contagious. I have been watching your videos for a couple years and I can’t thank you enough for how much you have taught me. You’re a miracle worker!

  • @christinemariequigless
    @christinemariequigless 2 года назад

    i totally get what you mean--the magnetism to allow the people and the things that are in alignment and when the magnetism is amplified it also repels people who are out of alignment. yes to this! 💃

  • @WayIntoDarkness
    @WayIntoDarkness 3 года назад +3

    I'd be really happy about that new meditation 😊👍🏻

    • @lillysnet9345
      @lillysnet9345 3 года назад

      Just go to your kitchen and get bizy... cooking, organizing the space, washing the dishes....
      Kitchen in the 🏠 represents your mind...

  • @ayuodagiri1577
    @ayuodagiri1577 3 года назад

    OMG when you said that people in trauma closed off their bottom chakras and everything is on top and only knows how others feel but not themselves, this is so relatable, you know your stuff Aaron - old subscriber who has become a fan again, the new you is so magnetic!

  • @mizzcrazygal
    @mizzcrazygal 3 года назад +5

    i want to let go of my ex but it’s just so hard to believe i’ll never see him again. and the thought of him being happy before me makes me jealous.
    i know i’ve said in some video i’m over it, which most of the part i think i am because i don’t cry or feel sad or want him back .. the only thing i’m upset is the memories and having someone to cuddle lol. i feel incredibly lonely so letting go is sort of hard.
    i just hope i can come back to this comment in a few months and say wow i found better, or i am doing better

    • @rexdrabble4988
      @rexdrabble4988 3 года назад +3

      You Would be better OWNING YOUR PART IN THE BREAK UP
      THEN move on,We DO need time for healing
      We are only human after all.

    • @perryesther7463
      @perryesther7463 3 года назад +1

      No worries hon!! U are not alone just let him go u deserve better just try to love ❤️ yourself I know it’s really easy to say but just try and never give up

    • @DS222203
      @DS222203 3 года назад +1

      You aint alone but one thing ive found when feeling like that is to embrace it when it happens. Feel the lonliness and than redirect that feeling into something around you, making food or writing drawing and than youll start to drop the feeling. Keep your head up youll be ok.

    • @mizzcrazygal
      @mizzcrazygal 3 года назад

      thank u, ur right but how do i get over the fact that he could be tricking other girls making them think he's amazing. i dont want other girls to be stuck with him for years like i was cus thats really not fair. i think a man like my ex deserves to be exposed

    • @DS222203
      @DS222203 3 года назад +2

      @@mizzcrazygal you cant help that unfortunately and to be honest if you spend your life keeping others away from him hell always have you.

  • @SheShe33
    @SheShe33 3 года назад

    Omggggg the part where you spoke about being more intuitive and knowing how everyone else feels but not knowing how you feel! OMGGGG! I see it. Thank you.

  • @thegoddessawakened-withmel239
    @thegoddessawakened-withmel239 3 года назад +5

    I'm ready AF 😂 💖

  • @hannapersson1118
    @hannapersson1118 3 года назад +1

    Your energy is so magnetic and nice to be around, I can’t stop listening to you - thank you

  • @LittleMissDivine
    @LittleMissDivine 3 года назад +3

    this just gets better and better!

  • @KaiDaEmpress1
    @KaiDaEmpress1 3 года назад +2

    You Are Amazing Thank You

  • @lightfromevan
    @lightfromevan 3 года назад +3

    Great insights on the feminine and masculine ☯️💜

  • @Lovebuzz11-11
    @Lovebuzz11-11 3 года назад

    Aaron I've watched your videos for quite a few years. I'm having dificulty with focusing on separation. There is truly only 1 of us. As in ACIM, " We are sunbeams thinking were the sun" The magnetic energy is harnessed in your authenticity and a self awareness with the inner- standing to work on the "Separation" is a tyoe of surface level of personality and yes its good to do thus, the deeper magnification is in the authenticity of seeing others and self as innocent. Seeing the light and practicing unconditional Love. We all carry light within us. It is sometimes blocked by layers of stone, blackening sight. True vision is to see through the eyes of God and align with God or Love...whichever you choose to call it. Imagine if we focused on the truth of the Love we each are !?
    Allowing Openness and Aligning to Love and Love yourself and Love others just as much. This is the Ultimate Goal, Love without conditions.
    Really How difficult is this?
    Lifelong learning, what a gift life is for isn't it true Life happens for you not too you? Many Blessings.

  • @_Trakman
    @_Trakman 3 года назад +5

    PLEASE! ESP. ABOUT FEELING SAFE IN YOUR BODY

  • @candicehenry6421
    @candicehenry6421 3 года назад

    These past two years I’ve been doing this and I feel so much lighter... most of these people don’t come back and I feel amazing

  • @TeachSelfAwareness
    @TeachSelfAwareness 3 года назад +4

    "How to Build an Authentic City" by Aaron Doughty.
    🙏👁⭐

  • @felicecancellara4524
    @felicecancellara4524 3 года назад +1

    I have watched all your videos in 21 days, you changed my life thanks 🙏🏻

  • @iloveliljar
    @iloveliljar 3 года назад +3

    Make the Meditation 🧘 🔥

  • @stanleed.harold5457
    @stanleed.harold5457 2 года назад

    I'm watching this at 11:13 on a Sunday and this is better than church. I can feel my body relax. The tension and stress leaving as I listen.

  • @dishajoshi7560
    @dishajoshi7560 3 года назад +4

    hey aaron, this video was honestly what I needed to hear. do you think you can link some of your previous videos about healing inner child trauma and forgiveness I'd really appreciate that and would love listening about this more from you. keep going, love your channel :)

  • @Ditamarie
    @Ditamarie 3 года назад +1

    Love it!! “not attached to the outcome, cup is already full” 💯💯💯

  • @SamuelSanchezD88
    @SamuelSanchezD88 3 года назад +3

    Perfect timing :)

  • @LifeofLindsayBlair
    @LifeofLindsayBlair 3 года назад +1

    You just put into words what has been going on with me, but I couldn't put my finger on it.... feeling the separation between myself and others and staying in my body makes a HUGE difference when interacting with people... it's like a light switch! People can somehow feel it and respond much more positively. Yes, as an empath we tend to feel into others for a sense of harmony all the time, without realizing, and it's not always a good thing!!

  • @jamesfredrick6111
    @jamesfredrick6111 3 года назад +14

    People will be kicking themselves in few weeks if they miss the opportunity to buy and invest in Bitcoin as it's retracing....BE WISE

    • @user-vl6df5gz4l
      @user-vl6df5gz4l 3 года назад

      Stocks are crashing bitcoin investment right now will be at every wise individual's list. In three two months you'll be ecstatic with the decision you made today.

    • @bradlycortis6584
      @bradlycortis6584 3 года назад

      Stocks are good but crypto is The New Gold

    • @jenniferjerry6886
      @jenniferjerry6886 3 года назад

      Bitcoin is the future, Investing in it now will be the wisest thing to do especially with the current rise

    • @whatsapp6713
      @whatsapp6713 3 года назад

      2020 online stock market is just difficult and unbelievable, I rather invest my money on crypto

    • @cryptodailytradesignals5870
      @cryptodailytradesignals5870 3 года назад

      People are ignorant of profitability in bitcoin investment and that has been the major issues limiting their investment

  • @rafiorucciable
    @rafiorucciable 3 года назад +2

    Yes please make a meditation.
    Thankful, full of THANKS

  • @nikitavishwakarma499
    @nikitavishwakarma499 3 года назад +5

    Aaron,your ex step mother is now a famous celeb(vallain) just because of you😂😂😂Not sure,what she is feeling about this?

  • @dakshparikh3914
    @dakshparikh3914 3 года назад +2

    Your videos have helped me improve alot... much love and support🙏🙏

  • @JohnBrewsterMusic
    @JohnBrewsterMusic 3 года назад +1

    I love the use of the word “frame” here... love that. Staying present as the main character of your own movie

  • @midnightblue1973
    @midnightblue1973 2 года назад

    This came up on my RUclips. You fascinate me. You talk like you're talking to a good friend. Thank you!

  • @jdcool038
    @jdcool038 2 года назад

    I'm an empath and I don't have a frame. Thank you for putting that in those words because I've been feeling lately that I don't feel like anyone cares about coming into my world. They don't want to dive into my ocean and get to know me in a way that makes them appear to me to be interested in me outside of my body. I'm going frustrated that I'm attracting manipulators, users, people that want to suck my light from me. I crave them because outwardly they appear to be magical but our chemistry is just a toxic potion. I wish I wanted to break this cycle because I know it is damaging I just don't know how to crave healthy.

  • @tequilachanel7312
    @tequilachanel7312 3 года назад

    I can definitely admit to being a people pleaser. I’ve been doing a lot of self reflection and I’m ready to really stick to my boundaries and be authentic. Real starting to not give af.

  • @_MeMyselfandIam_
    @_MeMyselfandIam_ 2 года назад

    Sir! We have just “met” and maaaannnn I am HOOKED! The detachment work, the abandonment stuff, the authenticity, the empath, the scared kid-this described me. The pain of not knowing me and only feeling alive when someone “needed” me… all in resolution and your teachings are divinely timed and I am thankful. Love you man ♥️

  • @anitacarter8060
    @anitacarter8060 3 года назад +1

    Detachment, 🙏🏻 from people and things… It’s very liberating.

  • @apheliacupnen2432
    @apheliacupnen2432 3 года назад

    this is one of the biggest truths for spiritual/traumatized/empathetic people. opposed to most others, we actually have to learn how to focus on US... i did exactly this back in 2019, by saying different mantras and changing perspective around material things, life on earth, enjoyment etc, by allowing myself to actually e n j o y materialistic things, to live more in the lower chakras, to not feel guilty for respecting ME, for having fun, for being distant when i want to, etc etc. completely changed my life. completely. and i was magnetic af. thank u for this video, what a reminder ( bcs we constantly do have to remind ourselves of our programs ). its okay to live for yourself, youre here to experience life, youre here to please you, you are as important as anyone else, and, if it soothes your mind, by being free and yourself you will actually do more good to others as well

  • @ExtendedUniverse55
    @ExtendedUniverse55 3 года назад +1

    Let go of what does not serve you to make space for what is meant for you!