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  • Опубликовано: 12 фев 2023
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  • @JesssFam
    @JesssFam  Год назад +378

    You guys are amazing. We appreciate every one of your for all the support 😭💛 And don't forget: CASETiFY’s iPhone 14 Cases are now available at casetify.com! Go to www.casetify.com/jesssfam today to get 15% off your order!

    • @Ash_aka_speedychic
      @Ash_aka_speedychic Год назад +7

      I'm so happy you were able to finally make this video it is a big step it took me a very long time to tell a lot of people that I was part of the community also myself it is still hard as I am not accepted from some of my family/friends
      When it comes to the community
      With the people that I did come out to it was extremely hard and still is to this day with some people I came out around Junior high myself
      And now I'm in my mid-30s
      I probably will be a lot of negativity comments after the video but 99.9% of them I believe are going to be behind you which is awesome and I can't wait to see a lot of the support you're going to have and being in the community and I'm happy that your family definitely supports you you deserve it
      🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
      #YOUGOTTHIS
      #COMINGOUT
      #YAWI
      #LGBTQIA2S+
      #WEGOTYOU
      #WELOVEYOU
      #ACCEPTED

    • @margaretjoy_stucky
      @margaretjoy_stucky Год назад +6

      I AM SO HAPPY FOR LILA SHE IS AMAZIN KEEP WHAT YOU DOING

    • @ella_the_frogg
      @ella_the_frogg Год назад +4

      you’re so welcome ❤❤❤

    • @sngray11
      @sngray11 Год назад +2

      Jess, Chris and you are incredible parents raising amazing children. It is wonderful that you support your children and who they are as individuals a hundred and ten percent. 💞

    • @beckymesbah7905
      @beckymesbah7905 Год назад +2

      She amazing beautiful and young be you do you that's all that matters

  • @OliviaNichole17
    @OliviaNichole17 Год назад +212

    “How dare you accept me for who I am”
    Quote of the day, we love her♥️😂

  • @idekanymore-nb2ie
    @idekanymore-nb2ie Год назад +60

    As someone the same age as Lilia seeing her bravery is super comforting as I am also part of the lgbtq+ community and have yet to tell people

  • @francescaaapple5316
    @francescaaapple5316 Год назад +469

    i understand why you are waiting to let Lilia share more on social media. coming from someone who went through the same thing she is right now, i identify totally different. not saying it’s a phase or anything but just let her grow with who she is and then share. because i understand how it can be embarrassing saying something when you were a kid and thinking different later

    • @hannahprice6466
      @hannahprice6466 Год назад +45

      Nobody is the same person as when they were 13. I agree with your comment. Most people change and grow. I was one of those people. I would have been mortified to announce this on social media as a child. It would have pressured me to continue it. It’s the same with the vegan community and how some switch back to eating meat and getting shunned. People change. It’s okay. Just don’t announce it unless you’re deeply rooted…

    • @FutureFace2023
      @FutureFace2023 Год назад +2

      what part did she come out

    • @user-xc8to
      @user-xc8to Год назад +12

      I’m gay, Ive been out since I was around her age and another girl I knew said she was gay too and when we were like sophomores she identified as bisexual but she’s only dated guys since🤷‍♀️ Our journeys start the same but they end different, always stay true to you

    • @joanajuncaballo9333
      @joanajuncaballo9333 Год назад +11

      If anything, it makes her more relatable. That said, I’ve identified as bisexual since I was her age, 21 and still bisexual, it does depend on each person’s journey

    • @katiec3214
      @katiec3214 Год назад +18

      Also, shes like 10 right? 10 year olds shouldn't be thinking about these things that much. She's not even done being a little kid yet.

  • @alouras.mommy23
    @alouras.mommy23 Год назад +20

    love how proud she is of it!!🥰🥰 i was so nervous telling people i was bi 3 years ago. this makes me happy how accepted she is💞💞

  • @deannagoodfellow360
    @deannagoodfellow360 Год назад +24

    I'm so happy that she's proud of who she is whatever or whoever she may be. I get you wanting to be cautious with sharing it online

  • @EMMYPESS
    @EMMYPESS Год назад +185

    Dang these kids are growing up too fast, I remember when they were ALL babies

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад +2

      lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
      Romans 1:24-32
      24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
      25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
      26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
      27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
      29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
      30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
      31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
      32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

    • @sydneyraine1627
      @sydneyraine1627 Год назад +4

      @@sduolcepoh7502this video has nothing to do with god, no need to bring him up

    • @cesarnava440
      @cesarnava440 Год назад

      How can a 12 year old come out it’s shit

    • @One_direction_015
      @One_direction_015 Месяц назад

      @@sduolcepoh7502oh pls shut up

  • @maeverose6856
    @maeverose6856 Год назад +6

    So proud of you, Lilia! I know how hard coming out to family can be (it was terrifying for me) so just remember that everyone loves you and you are so amazing! 💞💞

  • @cay8480
    @cay8480 Год назад +11

    I love that you are so supportive of your kiddos! they will always have a place to run to when things get tough

  • @jcclfruitofthespirit
    @jcclfruitofthespirit Год назад +14

    Why is lilia's sexuality anybody's business? Who cares? It's between her and God

    • @imdrawingablank17
      @imdrawingablank17 Год назад

      Bcuz lilia wants to share it, not everyone believes in god❤

    • @jcclfruitofthespirit
      @jcclfruitofthespirit Год назад +5

      @@imdrawingablank17 Thankfully, God's existence is not dependent on ppls belief in God!

    • @imdrawingablank17
      @imdrawingablank17 Год назад

      @@jcclfruitofthespirit ☠️☠️

    • @jcclfruitofthespirit
      @jcclfruitofthespirit Год назад +1

      @@imdrawingablank17 😂 Jesus loves you!

    • @Marieq
      @Marieq Год назад +4

      I don't understand it either honestly I feel like it is the new trend or cool thing to say you're gay.

  • @mariahancock8468
    @mariahancock8468 Год назад +16

    Love how supportive you are toward lillia! Always Be you! Don’t let anyone bring you down! ❤🧡💛💚💙

  • @selina1632
    @selina1632 Год назад +50

    I love how Lilia is so proud, you go girl!

  • @cass_dance7843
    @cass_dance7843 Год назад +432

    I'm so glad that Lilia has a family that loves and supports her.

    • @Saraa89764
      @Saraa89764 Год назад +3

      Same

    • @marybervinkle1808
      @marybervinkle1808 Год назад +9

      A parent is not always to support the wrong things the child does but to guide them to do the right things I think all the parents have forgotten that

    • @alliepowers1150
      @alliepowers1150 Год назад +11

      @@marybervinkle1808 it’s not wrong to be who you are. I guess some people don’t know common sense

    • @connieluvr
      @connieluvr Год назад +4

      @@marybervinkle1808 being gay ain’t wrong

    • @mstrikesback168
      @mstrikesback168 Год назад +1

      supporting degeneracy is rad!

  • @kathymartinez05
    @kathymartinez05 Год назад +84

    “I don’t think I’m straight” 😂 it makes me so happy how much Lilia is supported and proud 🏳️‍🌈❤️ Love that for her !

    • @Taylor112996
      @Taylor112996 Год назад +4

      So relatable! Even when you don't know exactly what you are, you know you aren't straight 🤣🤣

    • @kathymartinez05
      @kathymartinez05 Год назад +1

      @@Taylor112996 No seriously ! I often question it too, so I’ve never really labeled anything either

  • @RomyHyuga
    @RomyHyuga Год назад +385

    LILLIA😭😭😭😭😭 I’ve been here since she was born. Such a brave, beautiful, intelligent girl❤️❤️❤️

  • @That_weirdo56379
    @That_weirdo56379 Год назад +7

    Totally support lilia I’m bisexual and it was like awkward to tell my mom but I’m so proud of you for coming out loud and proud and there is nothing wrong with being apart of the LGBTQ+ community

  • @xxnuttycookiexx
    @xxnuttycookiexx Год назад +3

    Just watching the brand deal and reminded me I dropped my phone earlier today and my brother said “omg did your phone just bounce?” “Do it again” best cases 🤣

  • @megandanielle2778
    @megandanielle2778 Год назад +53

    FIRST OFF…. I love you!!!
    I love how you are so supportive of your kids. So many parents try to “change” their kids minds or tell them “no, you’re just going through puberty and you don’t know how to handle your hormones.” Dismissive. And it’s been so harmful to so many young people, even to the point of those young people wanting to take their life. The fact that you’re 100% supportive of your daughter will keep that line of communication open IF (and I’m not saying she will) she ever decides to change her mind. She’s learning about who she is, you’re learning about who she is… and in a SAFE and encouraging environment. We love a healthy parent-daughter relationship!
    And if you are reading this and don’t support or are upset about them sharing…. Maybe it’s time to move on and find other RUclipsrs you align more with. Jess and her fam aren’t going to stop sharing who they are and their journey just because you might be offended. Which you have the right to be if you want, but you don’t have the right to leave nasty comments.
    Rant over ❤

  • @gabbydavis6349
    @gabbydavis6349 Год назад +15

    you dont know how appreciative I am of you jess, if only my family could be supportive like this 🥺

  • @urluvdbb907
    @urluvdbb907 Год назад +8

    “Look at my gay book”🥺🥺😭Im so proud of her❤

  • @atabayilker
    @atabayilker Год назад +8

    To be honest, I did not see that coming but I always knew this kind of stuff wouldn't make anything different for Jess! She is a gorgeous woman who doesn't have walls between herself and her kids.

    • @shayleighcrowthers
      @shayleighcrowthers Год назад +1

      Yes😊

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад

      lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
      Romans 1:24-32
      24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
      25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
      26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
      27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
      29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
      30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
      31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
      32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

  • @oliviarodrigofan5838
    @oliviarodrigofan5838 Год назад +8

    This little girl is amazing😭

  • @violet1179
    @violet1179 Год назад +1

    So much love to you Lillia! Always be yourself. I am a part of the same group! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @micaelahuber7876
    @micaelahuber7876 Год назад +10

    You be who you want to be no matter what anyone says Lilia

  • @celinecrowe5362
    @celinecrowe5362 Год назад +5

    So happy about this she such a beautiful person, and I can’t wait to see where she goes in life , and the support you give her . I know there will probably be a lot of back lash on this but I hope lilia will continue to keep that head high ! Be proud of who you are !

  • @andreabennerakaandi9256
    @andreabennerakaandi9256 Год назад +5

    My daughter was around 12 when she told me. I love this and I love the support!!🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤

    • @dominiquexo4772
      @dominiquexo4772 Год назад +1

      I’m proud of all parent’s who accept It or not. It’s life and we are not supposed to agree 🏳️‍🌈 my son is 17 and finally told me and I always he knew he was but waiting for him to tell me

  • @jennie11041992
    @jennie11041992 Год назад +2

    I love this family so much I have been watching since the twins were first born so I love that Lilia is so accepted and that she gets to be who she truly is much love to the whole family

  • @jordenwadley7438
    @jordenwadley7438 Год назад +59

    Must be hard to know how confusing things can be as a kid wanting to be supportive but also protective for her to reserve the right to change her mind!

    • @Oliver-yf9uu
      @Oliver-yf9uu Год назад +13

      I went through this situation when my daughter was 10. She was dealing with mental health issues and she thought she was trans. She is now 13 and is a little embarrassed of that time in her life. She was pressured by friends and social media to be someone..to pick a group...to be part of something! I was very supportive along the way but cautiously. I am glad I was supportive of that time in her life but also glad I let her become her true self with no pressure from me. I don't think it's a good idea to put kids out here on the internet for the world to see and judge. My daughter would be mortified if I had put her out there like this.

    • @gabbybibi7
      @gabbybibi7 Год назад +6

      what do you mean "change her mind"? sexuality is not a choice.

    • @kierstenhendricks2153
      @kierstenhendricks2153 Год назад +28

      @@gabbybibi7 you're right it isn't a choice but SOMETIMES people especially young people are trying to figure out who they are and it can be safer to not give out information on things like their sexuality in case they haven't really figured it out which it's possible they haven't. I'm not saying she'd ever "change her mind" but I've had friends my whole life that believed they were straight, gay, bi what have you and then later realized who they really were and I can imagine it would be annoying to have to come out multiple times throughout your life and correct what you told people before if things did change especially if you're trying to correct what you said as young as 12. I think its always safer for people to be so open about any sexuality once that person has at least hit an age closer to adulthood.

    • @gabbybibi7
      @gabbybibi7 Год назад +2

      @@kierstenhendricks2153 it seemed like the kid was pretty sure though. kids are a lot more self-aware than you think.

    • @kierstenhendricks2153
      @kierstenhendricks2153 Год назад +15

      @@gabbybibi7 no I know kids are self aware I'm saying anyone is still trying to find themselves and who they are at that age and even until much later, I mean people's brains don't even develop until like their mid twenties I'm not saying kids don't know what they're saying its just unfortunately more dangerous for someone who is 12 compared to someone who's like 22 to be open about their sexuality and it can open them up to a lot of criticism and vulnerability

  • @debbiemorgan6701
    @debbiemorgan6701 Год назад +17

    Thank you for being supportive of Lilia. So many parents aren't. Love you both.

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад

      lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
      Romans 1:24-32
      24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
      25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
      26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
      27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
      29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
      30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
      31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
      32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

  • @monkeysluvdani
    @monkeysluvdani Год назад +46

    Took me until I was 28 to realize it and come to terms with it and finally at 30 I came out. It’s an amazing gift to know who you are when you’re this young. I wish I had.

  • @Thelittleclipstore
    @Thelittleclipstore Год назад +11

    I love how confident she is , ye I don’t like labels for such young girls. And in general it’s always good to be open to change and explore.. I’ve seen plenty times ppl change as life goes on.. you meet someone from opposite gender someone u didn’t know ud fall for and woops ur whole world changes.. often we base our identity by the ppl around us and who loves us and often the first few ppl u fall inlove with.. so who knows but I love the amazing connection u have with ur kids . It’s so nice to see

    • @lexie2355
      @lexie2355 Год назад +5

      yea true it’s so great she’s expressing herself but she still is young

    • @allisonabraham3882
      @allisonabraham3882 5 месяцев назад

      I understand what you're saying. I have friends that I thought were LGBTQ+.but, so far they're not. I am not sure..so,I just go with their flow. Acceptance is so important for young people,and others.

  • @pamstephens6770
    @pamstephens6770 Год назад +3

    My daughter just came out to me about 8 months ago. She’s 24 years old with a 5 year old son. She’s now in a amazing relationship. She’s happy and truly that’s all I care about. She’s not part of the Obgyn community because she and her girlfriend don’t trust all that stuff. They are just happy and want to build a life together. ❤❤❤❤

    • @shelliea4621
      @shelliea4621 Год назад +1

      Does she enjoy delivering babies and Are they both doctors? 😂😭😂 I know it was an honest mistake (OBGYN) but your comment has me cracking up. It's way past my bed time so maybe that's why I'm in such a silly mood. My daughter didn't really ever "come out". She always had boyfriends until she was about 25 then one day she just introduced the family to her girlfriend without ever mentioning that she was gay beforehand. No one blinked an eye. They dated for several months & it didn't work out & now has a different girlfriend. As long as she is happy & being treated right, then that is all we care about.

  • @msshelley74
    @msshelley74 Год назад +5

    I’m so proud of you for supporting your daughter

  • @han1ahh
    @han1ahh Год назад +2

    “ I need to tell you something my mom has not made my ramen.” 😂 that was so cute❤

  • @lifejourney48
    @lifejourney48 Год назад

    So happy lily got her family beside her Jess your family is awesome have a beautiful week sending prayers for everyone

  • @ashleymay3607
    @ashleymay3607 Год назад +31

    I’m proud for her I Could never come out like that to my mom
    Thanks for 30 likes
    👇

  • @julisacarrasco6619
    @julisacarrasco6619 Год назад +236

    I love how loving and supportive Jess is

    • @dlhoward84
      @dlhoward84 Год назад +4

      Yay ! I’m earlier that usual ❤❤

  • @lucygarrett9785
    @lucygarrett9785 Год назад

    I’m happy that Lillia has such a great support for this and people to trust and turn to
    Glad that you caught your iron deficiency early
    My mom just ignored her symptoms and kept going and now she is extremely ill and will be for awhile until the medicine she’s taking start kicking in
    Parents often forget to take care of themselves and it’s been really scary for me to see her go though this, asking for prayers from those who are willing

  • @michellecotten5380
    @michellecotten5380 Год назад +1

    Love you Lilia, coming from someone from the community I love to see the support of it’s just normal it’s not a big deal because it’s not it’s like making a big deal for no reason. ❤️

  • @laneyraeannn
    @laneyraeannn Год назад +22

    People are making "coming out" a fad. half of these young girls aren't even really gay.

    • @piperhh5609
      @piperhh5609 Год назад +2

      Agreed agreed agreed

    • @jessicaleon911
      @jessicaleon911 Год назад +1

      Thank you

    • @randomaccount2784
      @randomaccount2784 11 месяцев назад +1

      As a 14 year old lesbian, I agree with this so much. I’ve been out since I was 11 and I’ve known since I was 8 and it’s a really sad feeling when one of your “lesbian/bisexual” friends realizes they’re straight. When I was about 9-10, I actually had plans to not come out until I was 18 and I moved away but other people around me came out so I felt like it was an ok option and now they’re all straight and I felt so betrayed for the longest time. I’m really happy being myself though and not having to hide it

  • @ocevneyes1815
    @ocevneyes1815 Год назад +3

    this is beautiful, i wish my parents were not just as open, but as engaging and involved as you are with your children and who they are figuring out they are ❤ gorgeous family

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад

      lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
      Romans 1:24-32
      24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
      25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
      26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
      27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
      29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
      30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
      31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
      32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

  • @Mendesfam12
    @Mendesfam12 Год назад +61

    I knew the day her face lit up when she put on that Prince costume ❤️ be your true self Lilia

  • @hannahlaird1185
    @hannahlaird1185 Год назад +8

    This was so amazing to watch! Thank you to both of you for being so open, I wish my parents could have see this as an example of how to properly react to your kid coming out!

  • @gmcrow1199
    @gmcrow1199 Год назад +17

    I'm so proud of Lilia for being unapologetically her true self, but most importantly, I am proud of you and your family being so accepting and supportive.

    • @JesssFam
      @JesssFam  Год назад +7

      Thank you 😭 I'm so proud of who she's becoming.

  • @robbienieves
    @robbienieves Год назад +3

    I love how supportive you are of Lillia how does her dad feel about it

    • @tiffanysanders1986
      @tiffanysanders1986 Год назад

      Good question

    • @espinoza1987
      @espinoza1987 Год назад

      They spoke about it in a podcast before she came out & he doesn’t care as long as she’s healthy & happy

  • @714Roni
    @714Roni Год назад

    I always say I’d need 72 hours in a day to get everything done my husband thinks I’m crazy🤣

  • @MissKatrinaGray
    @MissKatrinaGray Год назад +47

    I went through this with my daughter when she was Lilias age and I let her discover herself and explore her sexuality. She had a hard time with acceptance from others and unfortunately did self harm but she got through it with me by her side every step of the way. I am a very proud mum and now my daughter knows what and who she likes it did turn out to be boys but it wouldn’t have mattered to me if she likes girls. She’s my daughter and I would have supported her no matter what her sexuality was. That’s all a mother can do is be there understand, support and most of all love. Jess you do an amazing job with all your children.

    • @pernambuko27
      @pernambuko27 Год назад +5

      Do you think it was good that your daughter shared her sexuality at such a young age knowing what you know now?

    • @MissKatrinaGray
      @MissKatrinaGray Год назад +3

      @@pernambuko27 yes! Knowing my daughter I know that not sharing would have cause so much more pain for her and the people that couldn’t/ wouldn’t accept her for who she thought she was weren’t her true friends/ family and she removed those negative people from her life and when she finally found her new friends who she considers family they didn’t care what sexuality she was and it was them that helped her when I couldn’t. She has said many times that she’s glad she went through what she did because now she helps others who feel the same and have had similar issues. She’s a strong independent young lady and everyday I look at her and think to myself how proud I am of her and what she’s achieved. She’s happy. That’s all I want is her to be happy

  • @abbylist2397
    @abbylist2397 Год назад +129

    Coming out to my family was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done so it warms my heart to see you be so accepting! ❤🏳️‍🌈

    • @Misty-zf6tp
      @Misty-zf6tp Год назад

      That's awesome keep been true to u

  • @batsls1
    @batsls1 Год назад +25

    Love this! I've been watching for 7 years (found your twin pregnancy vlogs when I was pregnant with my twins) and also have a trans teen. So happy Lillia is comfortable with who she is!

    • @sduolcepoh7502
      @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад +1

      lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians:
      Romans 1:24-32
      24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
      25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
      26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
      27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.
      28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;
      29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
      30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
      31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
      32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

    • @isabellachavez-mw8by
      @isabellachavez-mw8by 8 месяцев назад

      amen@@sduolcepoh7502 🙏🙏

  • @nolol.8552
    @nolol.8552 Год назад +3

    so so so proud of her.

  • @jodydyson8648
    @jodydyson8648 Год назад +6

    I love that she has her family's support and being who she is, very brave you go girl x
    My step daughter came to me at 13 and said I think I'm gay, I told her we love and support her and want her to be happy, she was so happy to scared to tell her mum and dad, the next week she said she went on a date, I said OMG did you have the best time? what you do? where you go?, she told me and then said they kissed I was so excited for her, she told her dad that night and he of course supports and loves her she was so relived, she just had to tell her mum, she did but she was so so about it, we took her and cut off all her hair she looked great, her mum again not great about it, fast forward she is now 18 been with the same girl all this time has just gone off to uni with a mowhark lol, we live in a small town but she is now in a city where she can be free to be herself...
    So Lilia I wish you all the best on whatever you choice is in life as long as your being you and you are happy x

    • @lovins88
      @lovins88 Год назад +1

      What a beautiful story!!! 😍

  • @abigray8585
    @abigray8585 Год назад +6

    I have a castify case and I love it.
    It’s got stars, crescent moons, droplets and stars.
    Makes my phone heavier and feels sturdy.

  • @kathikamholz2100
    @kathikamholz2100 Год назад +10

    THAT TOOK GUTS and I’m so very proud of you for owning it. LOUD AND PROUD

  • @abbyray5947
    @abbyray5947 Год назад +1

    Jess you are such an amazing mom!🫶 I love that Lillia has such a good support system and people that love her for who she is.🥰❤️ much love to you all!🤍

  • @krystals678
    @krystals678 Год назад

    Aw so amazing!! I wish there were more accepting people out their . I love that you all are so supportive.

  • @leisabrady5384
    @leisabrady5384 Год назад +24

    I’m so proud of both Lilli and you Jess. I’m with Lilia the more we talk about these things hopefully will make it more accepted.
    I just love you and your kids and Chris for who they are just like the first day I started watching you all. (Actually none of the other kids were born yet).
    Jess as a mum don’t stress about any of this you and Lilia have such an awesome love and bond and the reason she knows who she is so young is because she and all your kids are loved unconditionally and not scared to be who they want to be. It’s the poor kids that can’t come out and are too scared because of backlash in the family that are so scared to shout it out loud. Love you guys love leisa Western Australia xxx

  • @PinkSander
    @PinkSander Год назад +8

    It makes my heart so full knowing that Lilia has an extremely supportive and loving family! 💕💕💕

  • @AvaAshmenall29
    @AvaAshmenall29 Год назад

    Aww this was so sweet and funny I love you Jess fam I will support you no matter what Lilia ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Kaur-anmol97
    @Kaur-anmol97 Год назад +3

    Kids these days are confused how can she know at this age if she is gay this is insane

    • @illovepizzaa
      @illovepizzaa 11 месяцев назад

      If you don’t like this type of content, you shouldn’t be interacting with it more because RUclips will think you like it and recommend more.

  • @laurawatterson3310
    @laurawatterson3310 Год назад +30

    I love that you’re so supportive Jess! I have a son close to Lilias age though and I worry about putting such personal private info about her sexuality out there so early. Even if she wants that, she’s 12 and doesn’t understand the implications of that being out there for her. I support her 100% but I worry about her safety and mental health if she were to be teased or bullied by people who don’t support her lifestyle choices.

    • @fionainnes-smith2706
      @fionainnes-smith2706 Год назад +3

      I totally agree with this! It’s one thing to put your kids out in public on RUclips but there are some real weirdos and haters out there and no need to subject your child to that at such a young age.

    • @moxi3
      @moxi3 Год назад

      agreed

  • @candilease938
    @candilease938 Год назад +9

    Lilia says “look at my “gay book” lol
    I love that she knows who she is and is proud of it! There’s nothing wrong with that! I also love that you support her no matter what! Many parent don’t and it send kids into deep dark depression and they don’t know which way to turn and they lose themselves at a very young age then go down a very bad road! My kids are 14 (girl) 16 (boy) and 18 (girl) and I don’t care who they want to be with as long as that person loves them and respects them for who they are and treats them good I’m all for it! I support my kids in whatever they choose! Period!

    • @carmenechevarria2924
      @carmenechevarria2924 Год назад +1

      THE DARKEST AND DEEPEST PLACE IS HELL! SO SAD FOR THIS LITTLE GIRL THAT THE DEVIL IS USING HER AND EVERYONE AROUND HER AS PUPPETS! THIS IS HEARTBREAKING! PEOPLE, THIS IS NO JOKE! YOU DONT WANT TO EXPERIENCE GOD'S FURY! Lilia please find the truth! People that don't know God are misleading you! Save yourself from hell! Look for answers! Find the truth 😣

    • @carmenechevarria2924
      @carmenechevarria2924 Год назад +4

      😢 So sad 😔 THIS is definitely out of control 😪 How can a parent want such a thing for their children? This world can't go any farther 😱

    • @carmenechevarria2924
      @carmenechevarria2924 Год назад +1

      @sophieparsnips9774
      -JOHN 14 Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.
      -LEVITICUS 18:22 God says homosexuality is an abomination!

    • @aleddon1
      @aleddon1 Год назад +1

      ​@@carmenechevarria2924so is judging, but we won't discuss that part of the Bible, right?

    • @carmenechevarria2924
      @carmenechevarria2924 Год назад +1

      @aleddon1 Judging is one thing and warning is another. I am warning everyone about the consequences of being homosexual. If God says it's wrong somebody on earth has to say it's wrong. But still people don't want to listen!

  • @amberjohnson3720
    @amberjohnson3720 Год назад +2

    What does her dad say about it

  • @kylieporter7040
    @kylieporter7040 Год назад +1

    I was anaemic I had a blood transfusion and iron infusion last month

  • @choppa1345
    @choppa1345 Год назад +20

    congrats lilia what amazing news!! thank you guys for sharing and creating a comfortable and accepting environment for not only lilia but for you LGBTQ+ viewers like myself. Thanks for sharing lilia, and inspiring young boys and girls to be as loud and proud as they want.

  • @emilyfourman5965
    @emilyfourman5965 Год назад +3

    I'm sensing a "we're moving" announcement coming soon...just putting it out there

  • @castrx
    @castrx Год назад +1

    Does it protect the screen though?

  • @shyanndaniella9697
    @shyanndaniella9697 Год назад

    Love this for her❤ and love you for the way your dealing with lilia taking the lead.♥️♥️

  • @charliegoddard8616
    @charliegoddard8616 Год назад +3

    You guys are fantastic 👏 Lilia is amazing 👏 ❤️ so proud.

  • @beautifully.melanie3440
    @beautifully.melanie3440 Год назад +6

    I love how Lilia is comfortable with sharing this on social media and not afraid to keep it from her parents! Love your whole family Jess, so proud of you Lilia❤

  • @jamielatham5422
    @jamielatham5422 Год назад +1

    My daughter told me the other day she was bi love her so much no judgment ever

  • @reyamidala8850
    @reyamidala8850 Год назад +1

    I absolutely love seeing the support Lilia has 🫶🫶

  • @lynnkepoo2418
    @lynnkepoo2418 Год назад

    Love love love this!! My baby at about 13 came out to me and we are learning as we go. God bless you and your family in this journey called life!! As parents we have no instruction books but somehow love will always guide us. Congratulations Lilia!! Be proud of who you are!! You are so loved and it shines within you!! You are such a beautiful person Jess! May God continue to protect and bless your family!

  • @allisonniehaus9522
    @allisonniehaus9522 Год назад +3

    So excited when I see you posted

  • @beautifuldisaster3218
    @beautifuldisaster3218 Год назад +21

    My daughter came out to me when she was 12. I suspected she was gay and I was very open to it so it's amazing to see parents who are also open and living to their babies who find themselves and come out! 🥰 My daughter is 15 now and goes by a weirdo 😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @jackiebickley347
    @jackiebickley347 Год назад

    Hi Jess where did you get your egg chairs from and your swing ? Thanks ❤❤❤❤

  • @jaylin9322
    @jaylin9322 Год назад +1

    So happy Lilia has a supportive family.

  • @candicebirmingham8969
    @candicebirmingham8969 Год назад +75

    Well, I honestly do not care what people “Identify” as or what their sexuality is because it isn’t any of my business.

    • @lifeasthesmjs695
      @lifeasthesmjs695 Год назад +5

      IK!!!! A person is a person. Why do they feel the need to always make a big deal about all of that stuff?

    • @oliviarodrigofan5838
      @oliviarodrigofan5838 Год назад +1

      Uh so?

    • @Blu3b3rrymuffinn
      @Blu3b3rrymuffinn Год назад +7

      @@lifeasthesmjs695 because lgbtq+ people get a lot of hate. And not all people use or need to use a label. But some people do like to have a label. And I think that it’s okay because it’s about themselves.

    • @kd8859
      @kd8859 Год назад

      ​@donnell188THIS!!!!!!!

    • @gabriellaamaria4986
      @gabriellaamaria4986 Год назад

      @@lifeasthesmjs695 why do you ignore hundreds of years of opresion and violence against LGBT people? Idk where are you from, but you have to be very mind closed to think that people fighting for human rights are "making a big deal about this stuff" when until 2008 same sex marriage were illegal (in USA) and a lot of others humans rights too for LGBT people. Come on, you see that it's the same to say that black people are exaggerating when they fight against racism, don't you?q

  • @buckyelena4774
    @buckyelena4774 Год назад +5

    This is so wholesome!! I wish my parents would support me like this too

  • @christinacollins5691
    @christinacollins5691 Год назад

    I love the support that you give your children!!!!

  • @jasonwoodkimberleyokeefe6318
    @jasonwoodkimberleyokeefe6318 Год назад

    Lillia is so brave it’s so hared to come out to people I told my mum when I was 11 and she said it just a vase then I told her I like boys for the past for years then I told her again and she supports me know bc it’s been 4yr I’m soo happy for her now

  • @thespiritualbubble
    @thespiritualbubble Год назад +6

    Jess, you look gorgeous! Please don’t make it spring so early. I love winter as I live in Tucson now. I’m so proud of Lilia.

  • @mychannel9686
    @mychannel9686 Год назад +2

    Was the deep clean in preparation for your property photos ready for your house sale listing?!

  • @melissabass7014
    @melissabass7014 Год назад

    Lillia keep being you!!! Jess I'm so glad that she has you. Your so cool loving and supportive. I love yall!!!

  • @nicolet4261
    @nicolet4261 Год назад

    Wtg Lilia for being who you truly are and so happy your family is behind you every step of the way ❤

  • @chelciewentzel8191
    @chelciewentzel8191 Год назад +6

    i love this!! i came out a few years ago and to this day i’m still loud and proud about it. i do not care what anyone says because i see it as if someone is happy that’s all that should ever matter!! always. when you walk in my room i have tons of pride flags, pride things hanging up, i have pride shirts, etc. as long as she’s happy that’s all that matters!! you go lilia!!

  • @1111ampm
    @1111ampm Год назад +8

    I love the idea of no labels especially when young you are still finding yourself just be you :)

  • @Misty-zf6tp
    @Misty-zf6tp Год назад

    Lillia keep been true to who u are , your such an amazing person so lucky that you have so much love and support round u and that everyone accepts u for who u are xTake care

  • @rudyrivera8483
    @rudyrivera8483 Год назад

    It takes a lot to be your true self puerto ricans are usually very loud And we're very prideful people So that shows you how beautiful she is she is knows her roots and is learning more about herself

  • @Hibichdj
    @Hibichdj Год назад +3

    These poor boys aren’t gonna ever be able to get married to a woman bro

  • @frankyjayhay
    @frankyjayhay Год назад +17

    You're in the best group there is - a child. You're free to explore without commitment or lasting consequences. There's good and bad in every group, you're super good and that's what really matters!

  • @madikam
    @madikam Год назад +2

    So jealous of your weather! I love the winters here in Montana but the gloom is starting to be a bit much 💀😂 just totally zaps my motivation!

    • @soundslikefireball4499
      @soundslikefireball4499 Год назад

      I'm also in Montana, it is so damn gloomy lmao

    • @madikam
      @madikam Год назад +1

      @@soundslikefireball4499 god it’s really getting old 🫠

  • @rrye3354
    @rrye3354 Год назад +1

    B12 will help with energy too but you want to take vitamin C to help absorb iron or take it with OJ

  • @abbiehewett790
    @abbiehewett790 Год назад +33

    I’m so glad that Lilia is comfortable and proud to be so open.❤❤ As someone who is part of the LGBTQ+ community I support Lilia all the way ❤️❤️

  • @rebeccaeastham5030
    @rebeccaeastham5030 Год назад +48

    I’m so proud of Lilia for coming out and being true to herself!! Such a brave and beautiful girl I’m so happy for you! 🥹❤️🙌❤️

  • @ry.cheers
    @ry.cheers Год назад

    Lillia omg you are so brave and you stuck with what your gut was telling you and you said it you are definitely braver than a lot of us here😢 you are such a great beautiful girl

  • @christinebeider2514
    @christinebeider2514 Год назад +1

    I haven't seen your family channel before today but it popped up and I had to watch it. My daughter came out to us about a year ago around and we love her for who she is❤️ I tell people if you dont except my daughter than we can't be friends cuz my kids come first, so you can go kick rocks with flip flops 😂.

  • @sduolcepoh7502
    @sduolcepoh7502 Год назад +6

    Proverbs 22:6
    King James Version
    6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

  • @Lisa_Uncensored
    @Lisa_Uncensored Год назад +4

    She’s 12 and shouldn’t even know anything about that stuff not sorry at all, that shits weird. You can support your child and not cater to the delusion of children these days.

    • @natalyngrace
      @natalyngrace Год назад +1

      This is so true when I was 12/13 I was still playing with barbies not plastering what gender I'm attracted to all over social media

    • @randomaccount2784
      @randomaccount2784 11 месяцев назад +2

      ⁠​⁠@@natalyngraceI’m 14, I play with Barbie’s too and I’m also openly a lesbian and I’ve been out since I was 11 and I’ve known since I was 8. Most of my friends had crushes on boys since they were 5 and I just so happened to start having crushes on girls when I was 8. I also found out I was a lesbian when I was 9 and googled “can a girl have a crush on girl” because I was so confused about what I was feeling because I finally felt like I was feeling what the girls felt for boys, just for a girl.

    • @natalyngrace
      @natalyngrace 11 месяцев назад

      @randomaccount2784 I understand that I'm not trying to say you can't be lgbtq I'm just saying they shouldn't player it all over social media at a young age

    • @𝔸𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕟_𝕥𝕙𝕖_ℍ𝕦𝕗𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕡𝕦𝕗𝕗
      @𝔸𝕤𝕡𝕖𝕟_𝕥𝕙𝕖_ℍ𝕦𝕗𝕗𝕝𝕖𝕡𝕦𝕗𝕗 8 месяцев назад

      I feel bad for kids that are trans at three. I once saw an 8 yr old who transitioned at four because he only had sisters and he played with their clothes when he was a baby

  • @tabythapurcell3423
    @tabythapurcell3423 Год назад

    Would love a video about tips and stuff for Disneyland. I've never been and I hope to take my 6 year old sometime this year. When is the best time to go??

  • @Bella_dae
    @Bella_dae Год назад

    Is it just me or is the video black for everyone and you can just hear it without seeing anything? I’ve closed RUclips and reopened and it’s still the same