The REAL TRUTH about "Guard Your Heart" ❤️ Proverbs 4 23
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- Опубликовано: 3 апр 2019
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Proverbs 4 23 - "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."
Have you ever asked yourself "What does it mean to guard my heart?" or "What is Proverbs 4 23 telling us when it says guard your heart or protect your heart ?" Be sure to listen, like, and subscribe! Oh and leave a comment below to share your thoughts.
Trying to figure out how to guard your heart in a relationship should not be your focus. For a relationship to thrive you have to be open and vulnerable. I know that may sound scary, but that's why healing is needed. You have to be truly open to love, and trust God to protect your heart.
I hope this video helps with this topic of guarding your heart, and provides a better understanding of Proverbs 4 23. I want you all to be open to receiving the man or woman God has for you. It is ok to guard your heart and to be cautious of what you let in your life. But don't "guard your heart" in a way that you shut down your heart and opportunities to meet the right one.
"The same walls you put up to protect you are the same ones blocking your blessing."
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I used to tell my girl all the time. The same walls you use to protect you also keeps out the good trying to invest in you.
God spoke to me about this last year. He told me that I had built walls around me to protect myself but those same walls were keeping out things that I wanted. Throughout the year He began to help me heal and trust Him enough to let those walls come down.
That a spiritual issue that can only be handle by God he tells who too trust a person can only do so much
@@dennaesmith415 wow I feel the exact way! I realized this too. Yeah i kept myself safe in a cocoon from being hurt, but i also guarded myself from love and intimacy too which i want
This is so true, and I think this is part of what led my husband to commit adultery and us separating. Although committing adultery was his choice and I put him out, I can see how some of my errors affected our marriage.
Note to self!!! Heartbreak is painful. Recognize when the HOLY SPIRIT whispers to you and only you. DISCERNMENT!
Guard your heart against anyone unequally yolked. ♥ 👑 ✝️✔️💯
Amen to that!
“If you are walking in fear your are letting the devil use to”
You are welcome God bless you
If your walking in fear your letting Satan steal your joy because he comes to steal and kill and destroy ,God wants to give you life and more abundantly 🤗
yeah its true how can be free from fear?
Sometimes you don't realize you need to heal, until you try to date again 😮
This is so true
“Walk by faith. Heal. Trust God with my heart.”
I agree 100% with this video. I refuse to go into a new relationship with a jackhammer trying to break in. One should heal and become whole before getting involved with someone.
Da Nia absolutely don’t get into a relationship halfhearted
Da nia, I agree to a degree .we definitely need to get as much healing as possible before getting in a relationship. However, we will always have room for improvement. I believe there's layers of healing. It's not like we're 100% healed. None of us are perfect . Some stuff we won't realize until we're actually in a relationship to work through it beloved.
In Scripture, the word heart represents the center of our emotions, thinking, and reasoning. It is the command center of our life. So when we read, ”Guard your heart” (Proverbs 4;23), it makes a lot of sense. We need God’s help not to neglect His Word, but to use it to align our hearts with His heart every day.
Well said
Very well said!❤
Guard your mind too folks!!!
shawna Wallace once you guard your heart your mind will automatically be guarded as well since the heart is the source of it all.
this video broke my heart , made me face my reality , changing my perspective and trusting God going on from now
Yess Trust God and he’ll help you discern who to trust and he also mends hearts
On the other hand, the heart represents our innermost feelings and emotions. So sometimes our heart leads us to making the wrong decisions based on emotion. In guarding the heart, you are using yr head ❤️🧠
I felt that.
No In guarding your heart you are being lead by God.
Living in truth and righteousness
Guarding Your Heart simply means allowing God to protect it from things and situations WE can’t see ahead. Yes, I agree we will be hurt at some point and time in our life however, we must always be aware of the things we don’t want so that we can welcome the things we do want. #guardyourheart
Amen to that!! 🌸
EXACTLY👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
Amen..toxic people..Guard against them
I trust God to lead me but try to balance this with discernment in all areas of life (love, work, friendships, ect)
Proverbs 4:23
..Guard your heart!!! No negative energy!!!
I agree 100% with what you said. I used to believe it meant protecting your heart with walls. But as I have been studying scripture and praying on it and reading Faith Based books. What you said makes more sense. I used to be an awkwardly social person and I truly believe that I have to learned to put my fear and anxiety aside so I do not give the devil control over my blessings. This is something I have been working on this year. I am putting myself out there in my church and getting involved, which are things I've never done because of how I would allow myself to be consumed in fear of rejection. But now I am living in God's light and I will no longer be a prisoner to my fear and anxiety. Thank you so much for always spreading such uplifting messages. GOD BLESS ❤️
It’s a VERY delicate line when recovering from a narcissistic abusive relationship. Most, if not all, RUclips posts will tell you to run, be afraid, be very afraid of relationships and when approaching relationships! They stress be on high alert at all times!! Makes it truly difficult for the one who wants to experience real, true meaningful love 🤦♀️
I totally understand
Sometimes I dont trust myself. I struggle with recognizing where I should let God lead and where I should use clear judgement. Hearing this message does give me more clarity.
Well said. I think you hit the nail on the head on this!! I don’t want my blessing being blocked anymore.
Good word❤🙏 but I never knew my life could depend on me discerning good from evil in a man. We need to be cautious. It almost cost me my life.
Hearing your explanation makes me think of just living in your joy/happiness and to live in love no matter what or who comes and goes ✨
Amen! No matter how much I have been hurt, I still choose to love and have an open heart.
Yes! Walking in love! Not allowing the circumstances to dictate your joy! Abide in Christ!!
God saids the joy of the Lord is yours that true happiness because he loved us first
Ms. Holloway once God has done the appropriate work in you He will send that husband
Yes. Guard your spiritual heart from all negativity.
The same walls you have up to protect you are the same walls that are blocking your blessings 🙌
Love them in such a way that they should feel free❤️
Yes i agree with you. I walk in faith. I separate myself from the evil.
Definitely needed to hear this today! Thank you!
This is so good. You share so much wisdom with us, and it is appreciated!! I once heard that fear is faith (for some people)...just in a negative way, so we have to be very careful and mindful of having faith that produces positive fruit.
You’re speaking the truth. Thank you!
Sharing this with my circle. Confirmation to pray about everything and pray about your process.
"The same walls you put up to protect you are the same walls blocking your blessing" I resonate with those words (reminded me of Brene Brown about vulnerability) because the pain of heartbreak can be so big that you just want to shut down all gates not to experience it ever again. But in the same time...you hardly can let anything good in. I am learning to open the gates again, I know it is silly to keep them shut. Thank you for your simple truth I needed to be remineded of. God bless you!
I agree 💯 That's the way love go's !
I’m still learning so much the older I get. This is a powerful video...Thanks...Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Wow, what a revelation! Absolutely agree with this.
Real talk! "Guard your heart."
That's a good word. I was just sharing something similar with a young man. He shared a story of a family situation and I reminded him we are to love the sinner and only hate the sin. However to create safe boundaries for respect on both sides of the aisle.
Just rolled my eyes because what you’re saying is confirmation to REALLY trust God and Jesus and be a kind open minded happy and out going person again.
nessa nikkita when you love and treat people right God is in you and if God Be for you who can be against you
I agree with your interpretation. Everything you do flows from the heart. Guard your heart from hate. Trust in God, increase your faith
Vulnerability is feminine and the main characteristic that makes a good man fall in love! Don't play hard to get. Just BE easy to lose.
I love your message ❤️
The Fasting Goddess Yes be Vulnerable to the right person but learn by listening with your mind and spiritual decernment
♥️♥️♥️
What??
I agree so much. Insane amount of wisdom.
This message was for me and I shared it with some people. Thank you.
Good message needed to hear it. Thank you for sharing.
Well said! Thx so much for this video!
Thank you very much for this truth, sir.
For years I thought this passage meant
exactly what most believe. I recently received a different outlook which lines up with what you are sharing. I am learning to walk in love (although a challenge with some) and watch the universe manifest the best outcome in every situation. Thanks for the reminder.
Perfect timing... thank you!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks, yes... just divine confirmation
I just adore this man! 😫😫😫
I'm really trying because I felt like you took a stroll through my heart and read a couple lines....... That has gotten me through so far just keeping ppl at arms length,don't expect anything from anybody so I'm not reminded of what that pain feels like. It's been this way for so long I don't even know if I even know the first steps of changing that which has been a part of me for a long time. I've been single for as long as I can remember by choice. People show you sides of them that make you wonder if your perception on life or the mechanism used to interact with others are functioning normally🤔😅 But I hear what you are saying. I have to dig deep down before I even start to accept the thought of that. Love hearing you,recently bounced up on your channel,it's been refreshing and unbiased I must say. I'm very impressed and proud to know there are black men out here with such a different perspective than the average Joe. I will be tuning in all the way from Trinidad 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾💖
This came when I least expected it and needed it most. You left me speechless. Thank you ❤️
@Andrew M. Thank you 😁
Wow makes sense, Very profound! Thank you💕
God is always confirming himself. He is right! This was in my devotion today. "Guarding your heart, doesn't mean not loving others. We love like Christ, its always has risk involved. Allowing yourself be vulnerable and genuinely caring (loving) deeply. Possibility of deep connection and love. A wounded heart is susceptible to hurt someone else." Healing is needed. Blocks you from being loved. He is right!
Wow...beautiful message! ❤️
EXACTLY! THANK YOU!
Wow this really touched me just now! I’m very guarded right now after the man I’ve been with for 6 years has continued to hurt our relationship. And here I am bitter, angry, got my guards up, fearful of getting hurt a 7th time .. and your right walking in fear is coming from the enemy when I should walk with faith that God will protect my heart. 🙏🏽♥️
Jasmine Morales when a person shows you who they are believe them don’t continue to take it anymore, each time he breaks your heart your self esteem is affected God is trying to tell you something your going to keep going around the same mountain if you refuse to be obedient , I real man protects ,loves and provides 😇
Thank you So Much For This.. God is definitely Using You🙏🏾 #Humbled🌹
Amen. I like how you started off by saying to pray about it first. I want to totally heal and learn to allow God to show me how to change my perspective.
Thanks and Lord Blesd
Felicia 1234 also pray for a church home to study and learn Have a close and intimate relationship with God that’s the key
Amen. Yes Sir!
Thanks Stephan for yet another insightful video. Blessings brotha.
Thank you for this. Im trying to heal and trust God so I can fully love!
Well said so true and good information I receive this message
Very valid points. All this time I did have that scripture wrong and now I have a better understanding of what guard your heart means. I love how this was broken down thank you❤
#Truth... I have had MANY conversations with others about this... We have emotions and we are to learn how to manage them as we are trusting in God.. not hiding from life. Thank you Stephan
Absolutely true! You can either operate out of love or fear . everything else is a by product of that.
That's is a very good topic, I'm glad that i tune in.now i understand clearly what that verse means. I thought it meant concerning relationship .because when you don't get full understanding of something.you can miss out on what God has for you. Thanks again man of God for another inspiration message. be always blessed
Confirmation that I needed to hear.
I’m glad you started inputting the word of God.
Damn you really opened my eyes in a completely different viewpoint of what guarding your heart can actually be.
Wow. Very profound. I'm going to heed this immediately! Bless you.
You have enriched my life so much, Stephan! 💞
I so needed this... Where to even begin!! Smh....I can't afford counseling but...I do appreciate this... I had to keep replaying this😌
Thank you for this great wisdom of encouragement👑📖🙏🏾
Wow! Food for the soul.
Great advice! Thank you for sharing.
I truly love this channel I’m in ministry and I love the positive support this videos put out much love
I agree, what ever you allow to enter in you will display on the outward man, meaning what ever you allow to take hold of you, you will ultimately show in action at some point, and this will hinder you from being open to the one that is for you..
Love this perspective. I do walk in fear. I will work on this.
👏🏼👏🏼beautifully explained!
Guarding your heart I believe is to place the Word of God in your heart. The Word will act as a shield from things that can cause harm and lead you into places that can cause harm. Thank you so much Stephan for your wisdom. I am a Therapist and I like taking excepts from your books to help my clients be a better them in their relationships ❤️
Thank you for the Truth of this word to Guard Your Heat, Powerful. Blessings to you, a gift to the Body of Christ for helping us to become whole in mind and spirit.
I keep waking up at 423 am so i looked it up and it took me to proverbs 4:23 and that led me here bc i didn’t understand but now i understand hearing you i started to cry. Bc this is what I’ve been asking for and God gave me the answers to all my questions through your video !!😭😭😭
Amen!
Amen Stephen Thank For Explaining Guard Your Heart .Father God Forgive Me For Asking You To Guard My Heart And Not Realize The Fear Of Hurt And Continue To Walk In Faith And For My Soul Mate To Come In My Life Now Im Ready To Love Thank Lord For Stephen For Revelation
Awesomeness my brother well put...
That's so true, anxiety, anger and all those things ; come when we are fearful of the unknown. To guard our heart of these things is so refreshing to hear in this manner. Trusting God, Thank you
Norma Barros also Guarding your heart from people who have these characteristics and they try and transfer those spirits on to others the enemy is working in them
So sweet x message heard.
That's so true.
Right..Love king..great topic...this needed to be explained...alot of folks have the wrong understanding of guarding your heart...also I was guilty of this....
Many good points on your videos
Thank you!!!!!!!!
Amen , Agreed
Wow, I love your videos Stephan. I just started to begin dating again and I realize I am still guarded and some guys have been picking up on it. I was just talking about this yesterday, and I did pray today and this video popped up tonight. Not sure if coincidence, but thank you. 🙏😌
Man I love Stephan so much wisdom 😍
Young man... you are some woman's personal gift from God,,,that she may CONSTANTLY be reminded to thank Him for sending you!
Thank you…it was for me🙏🏾
Yes you're right about that I cannot agree with you more 100% on that sentence but at the same time you know what we know the way to stop that from happening and stop making judgments and moving too fast with the relationship you got to see how things go first and to see if there is any connection between the two
Thank you Stephan for this teaching and clear understanding of Proverbs 4:23
Amen
Great message 👍🙏, keep up the good work,you are on point as always.blessings to you stephan
Enjoyed hearing an excellent prospective on this - Guard your ❤!!! 🙏💗🙏
omg , I love ur videos ❤
I definitely touch and agree, and that’s why it’s always wise to ask the Lord for clarity regarding Scripture.