Hot People Have Problems Too!
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Rule no 1. Don’t take Reddit seriously.
It’s a hive mind with horrible takes
@@Red-zh7vqBugmen central.
An army of NPC
The home of Brain rot and anti-conservative activists
@@Red-zh7vqSometimes Reddit has great takes but certain topics it’s always the absolute worst take. Like if the person doing something bad is LGBT they excuse all the bad behavior
Speaking as a Shrek Baby, I have no problem telling you I have 0 privilege.
Also I'm an actor. I would argue I'm 100 times more committed and talented then Megan Fox, but I'm offered less opportunities because of pretty privilege.
Lust is the gateway to love for a lot of relationships. So if you're ugly, you're not being lusted over OR loved/! 😐
I can confirm this.
The only way a man and a woman can be friends, is if they is 0% attraction to each other from both parties. As long as one of them is attracted, it will never be an actual friendship, it will always entail certain strings of attachment, or it will simply be a facade while one of the parties tries to get an in with the other person. And the thing is, if you leave to people locked in a room that have 0% attraction to each other long enough, they'll get attracted to each other eventually. So in essence, is it possible? yes. is it probable? nope
It only works one way. The girl has to be ugly. It cannot work in any other circumstance. The attractiveness of the guy is irrelevant
Ridiculous.
Could not have said it better 👍
This is such a dog water take that only applies to people in teens and early 20s, but slips off-base as people mature into responsible adults. Physical attraction is an increasingly small variable in a complex equation of values, which for most people calculates to a, "hard-no" for all but ONE other person in their lives. In spite of attraction one party might have for the other, and in many cases might be shared, it is a question of, "Is this worth our livelihoods, homes, marriages, children, self-respect, dignity, etc.?" "No? The attraction doesn't matter then, guess we might as well be friends."
If you let the presence of physical attraction prevent you from being friends with someone... oof... but if you know yourself well enough to let a sleeping dog lie, then I guess that's the first respectable step.
Yes, but there’s a lot of things that go into that like if your coworkers yeah if your church friends sure, but I mean if you’re trying to be friends and anything more than that then no you can’t be.
Also good point made even if you are platonic friends can men and women be good friends as the same sex? No.
So tell us Mary, are you having problems too?
Ya she's hot! 🔥
If you are too attractive just eat more, alot more!😂😂😂
Bulked up 30 pounds & got hotter 😢 plz help
Megan Fox is not hot and hasn't been for years. The body and cosmetic trends in this country that people normalize are totally weird.
It's not just in this country. Seems like a developed country issue in general. Most women don't have any real problems in developed/Westernized countries so they are like those neurotic dogs that chew on their own paws out of boredom.
she's like a ferrari that your idiot friend modded out with giant wheels and a smoke stack to look like a rat fink car
ok incel keep coping
@@thereallazygirl lol Great addition to the conversation
Try not to be so lazy and actually "Think".....just a little 😅
normalized totally weird, that's kind of an oxymoron
Attractive women very much have an influence and power. Attractive men do too but it's not the same. This is fine as it's counter balanced by age and matches a woman's fertility years more or less. God's grand plan for us.
Women’s power is imaginary
Megan Fox has toe thumbs.
MGK loves them they hit his G spot
Club thumb.
How's her handshake? A little firm, isn't it? Maybe a little too firm?
Wait. Mary and Brett aren't friends!? 🥺
Co-workers lol
Yes they're friends, just not super close butt buddies.
@@snipes503yeah, I felt that they would not hang out as buddies in real life... too different..🙂
I missed yhe part where that's my problem
How's your uncle?
@@heartlessangel2910 Oof....
@@heartlessangel2910I can help you ask him yourself.
“When you’re used to privilege, equality feels like oppression”
And modern society has never known privilege like pretty privilege
Gen Z has found a way to murder their hotness, the before and after woke pictures truly horrifying
A very large part of how attractive you are, like weight, skin, style and attitude, can be controlled by you, so I'd say pretty privilidge does exist, but only has a small effect.
I’d say your last statement is objectively false. Pretty privilege has a big effect
What?
If youre not handsome and charming you play life on hard-mode.
Megan Fox only has a career cause of her looks.
Nope.
@@EdenMB-w3x you didnt read my comment. Priviledge is some advantage you did not earn. If you are attractice because you put lots of effort in, thats not priviledge
“Pretty privilege” is mostly determined by genetics. People will treat you very different depending on your appearance, thus it’s basically a cheat code. Life isn’t fair though.
Brett: "Yes, I have girlfriends. They go to other schools."
I have a girlfriend she lives in Canada
I beg to differ that oppression to them is not having their way.
6:42 - Attractive people being perceived as more intelligent is essentially the "halo effect", aka the beautiful stereotype. We tend to attracted to good looking people in both a physical and social way, believing that they likely have many positive attributes such as kindness, successfulness, intelligence, fun, etc.
What's it called when you see their personality and it makes them ugly?
@@JennaIsOverIt that’s just classic “true/real beauty is on the inside” 😉
What about all the Gorlocks that rate themselves as 11 out of 10
Certified bad bitch 💯
Like Jabba?
Wasn’t there a commercial covering this?
Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.
I can be friends with a girl because I wouldn't date anyone who I didn't want to be friends with anyways so I can want to date someone but also accept that I'm not
To ve fair, the culture has been attacking beauty standards for quite some time.
Absolutely 💯
Pretty people problems
-stalkers
-making friends with girls who get jealous
personally, if I was only liked for superficial reasons I don't think I'd care that much, if the alternative is being unpopular and ignored, I'd take that any day.
Can men & women BE friends? Yes absolutely. But this is a complete surface level nothing burger question that does not hit at the crux of the issue. The question that SHOULD be asked, is if men & women can STAY friends? To which that answer 9 times out of 10 is a resounding NO. Developing attraction is a natural thing. One that presents itself the more you get to know ppl. There's no set time limit on when the dynamic changes. But the dynamic changing is almost always a guarantee. One way or another, 1 of the 2 ppl in question always ends up catching feelings. & whether or not they express &/or act on said feelings...the dynamic of them being "just friends" completely goes out the window.
For what it's worth most men if not ALL men know the reality of this scenario every single time it comes around. It's the women who are delusional in convincing themselves to think differently because they want to live in this fantasy world where they're allowed to have their cake & eat it too. On that note I'll drop one last bombshell about the subject. If you see yourself as an attractive woman who has had a successful long lasting friendship with a man...one that has never once threatened to cross any lines... 1) he does not find you as attractive as YOU think you are. & your presence does not annoy him enough to move on. or 2) he's gay. lol. I'm just saying.
Good looks aren’t everything, but they’re important!
Y'all talk about Chappell Roan way more than Madison Beer, so that's at least one hot person that is being discriminated against for being hot (So hot).
😂😂😂
Bahahaha totally
@@ttvmikimoto5475 This guy knows. Better music and so hot.
'Pretty privilege' is called sex appeal, and yes people with sex appeal have more natural advantage in society
Pretty privilege is just a cope and seethe because nobody likes heffers except other heffers
As a formerly hot person, I'm middle aged now and look as I should and not trying to be 30 years younger, I can say that it genuinely hurt me when I discovered my first husband was cheating on me (with less attractive women, no less) and it had nothing to do with pride in my looks, but cheating is horrible. When he told me that he liked taking me out so other men would be jealous of him, I stopped going out with him anywhere. Not even the grocery store. The only good thing he gave me was four wonderful kids that I love. My second husband was more enraptured with my computer knowledge than my looks and we've been together 25 years. Also, my entire life, I've been friends with men and very rarely women because other women don't like anyone more attractive than they are. This is gospel truth and fire cannot burn that out of mankind.
Men experience the same thing. Women love to parade and trophy their men when they look better than their female friends boyfriends/husbands. Men just tend to be less neurotic about it but it is awkward when a girlfriend is more focused on appearances and showing off to competition than the actual relationship.
I dumped several chicks due to this behaviour. I also gave zero F's about what other guys thought about my gf's because I'm not a "closeted" individual and I never wanted to attend Diddy parties.
Maybe your first husband had something else going on besides the side chicks as well...
@@badlaamaurukehu I can only give my experience, but yes, I have seen this a lot.
Immature people with poor self esteem and underdeveloped communication skills will have problems with relationships of any kind. Many people maintain a variety of healthy relationships. (And water is wet)
You re right
This is probably my least favorite take from Mary. The idea that it's ok to be manipulative, or to purposely use people to get what you want, is pretty sad. Granted this is depending on what "feminine wiles" are, but I can't imagine any definition making that statement ok
a man can be "friendly" to women, but being friends? not really, are you kidding me halo lan parties? the women who like that stuff... really only choose it because they hang out with guys,.. like that.
Women never approach me because of how incredibly attractive I am and that is the story I’m gonna run with.
They just intimidated by stong independent men.
I say I'm depressed and it's hard for me to emotionally connect with women sometimes but people don't care because I'm moderately attractive. I feel like sometimes my issues get overlooked because of how I look. no im tripping too blud.
I do think “pretty privilege” did exist at one point not so much now because of DEI stuff.
Nobody’s perfect, but you can improve yourself!
Thank you for covering this. Its hard out here
The wall hit Megan Fox like a Mack Truck.
Is that what negging is?? Didn't know it had a name.
It’s a dumb name too
I've had a few female stalkers in my life
id take care of you Mary
This seems like a humble brag. Oh my gosh I’m so pretty I have so many people that wants things from me.
People always focus on the positives. That attention comes in every form. Male relatives being inappropriate with you. It all starting at an inappropriate age. You can't tell friend or foe. Jealous female bosses discriminating against you. Not even getting married solves it because every woman is hostil, thinking that you will steal their husband. None of that is even remotely worth being able to get out of a speeding ticket. Which is why many attractive women end up alone or can't wait till middle age.
Im listening to this like Mary and Brett are both hot right? Am I the only person who thinks so? 😅
Mary is a cutie.. but Brett not so much. He’s too small lol
Pretty privilege is a real thing. And by far, it most affects women (and always has), since humans evolved both biologically & culturally in a way such womens' attractiveness matters more than mens'. However, pretty privilege is not very significant in the grand scene of things; it rarely equates to POWER.
The only REAL type of privilege that exists & matters in the world is RICH PRIVILEGE. Wealth = power, and people born into in it have inherent advantages in most facets of life that the majority the human population could only dream of.
Edit: They always want to be friends when they aren't attracted to you, but will caterwall about how unfair life is when they are, but it isn't reciprocated. It works both ways.
Title: Hot People Have Problems Too!
Thumbnail: Megan Fox
Me: These two things are not the same.
Yes. It is very possible. My oldest friend is a woman. We've never been romantically involved, unless you want count a kiss or two when we were 12. lol We are 41 now and never have I had a better friend. Her husband got to know me and knows our relationship is strictly what it is. We are like a brother and sister. He sees that. I'm more sure that if he had an issue, I would not be apart of their lives. And that is something I would understand. BUT with him understanding our relationship, shows it is possible. For some, it is not. I get that too. BUT IT IS POSSIBLE.
Men and women can be "just friends" in only 3 cases I know:
1) Everyone is in committed, monogamous relationships and everyone knows there will be no funny stuff
2) She's absolutely not going to hook up with anyone there, and everyone knows it
3) She will hook up with anyone there, and no one wants anything more from her
Surely that Hot Girl video was just poking fun...right? Please?
I dont like using "privilege" in that way; used that way, it's just a method to make your own jealousy seem virtuous. Instead, i would emphasize that a privilege is a thing/activity you're conditionally allowed to enjoy. It has nothing to do with the circumstances in your life.
8:06
I’m an older guy with a team of younger engineers and yeah that’s true. Out mid level chicks end up with some really high quality dudes.
But kangroo jack didnt have 16 year old megan fox under a waterfall getting soaked since she couldnt show up in a bar scene lmfao
I'm calling friends that are girls, my opposite sex friends now. 😂
Your mate, should be your best friend. Men and women can be friends, but if there is sexual attraction between them and they don’t have the level of communication that “Friends” have they’ll just feed their lust and move on.
men and women CAN be friends - men just have to treat women as women, sexual beings but not sexual objects and women just have to keep their dirty thoughts to themselves haha but seriously. the way it works for me is that after years of experience, the ladies who I made an effort to be a genuine friend to stay my real friends for life, ladies I dated almost invariably fade away, perhaps the love for friends is a better end game than "true love" and the selfish paranoia it often creates.
The song is like the same as the one from Crazy Ex Girlfriend just for women instead of men but extremely off key and super cringe.
theres a window of time that one is 'hot'. when thats all that matters, the rest of life becomes an inescapable abyss. hot is attractive because its seen as the opposing pinnacle, opposite our collective mortality. its especially tragic when bad things happen to 'good people' for example.
Mary what you said about nuce guys is a trope that women tell eachother to justify treating nice guys the way that the bad boys treat them. Now if you are talking about the loser that goes into the friend zone to wait for the perfect chance I agree but those are not nuce guys. As Tim would say those are the sneaky fuckers.
The movie Malena does a great job demonstrating how both men and women react to attractive women.
the problem for hot girls, in my opinion as a tall fit guy, is that most men are not at their level of fitness, don't have the same level of confidence and probably don't care to settle down especially during the years hot girls want to lock down a life partner and start families
One thing that will never change is real people can not stand listen to millionaires complain about there problems.
Any kind of "power" is going to make you doubt people's deeper intentions.
Well, Im prettier and younger than my sister. And shes a Leo narcissist.
the transformers movies were a lot of fun. Loved the movies and it's tiring to hear otherwise.
she may have been hot before but her face is nightmare fuel now. i know surgeons have to work too but yeah those guys wrecked her face.
Men and women CAN be friendly......NOT friends.
There can be a male-female friendship that is strictly friendship if neither is attracted to the other.
You need to have the dark side, if you dont have it you regard everyone and everything as evil and opressive
Women and Men can be just friends, as long as the guy is not attracted to the girl
I was a means to an end too many times, but I was a wiling participant sometimes.
You guys could have had a better take than this.
Mary why?! Lol my ears are bleeding
IMHO Women and Men can be friends, if you accept most men secretly want to be intimate with you .... most may NOT act on the desire, but the desire is there ... if you are able to live with that, we are golden
so you cant have an ugly female friend ?y'all are weird as hell
Mary: "Do you HAVE female friends?"
So Brett and Mary hate each other confirmed?
As far as we know, they are coworkers
as a decent-looking guy, the worst part is the creepy dudes, not the interest that women show.
kind of feels like being a big healthy water buffalo stalked by a lion who's reasoning 'I don't think I can take that one down'
Talk about it, Mary
Tell me about it...
Finally I feel seen
Literally me
Everyone wants to be tall but they fail to consider that nothing is built for tall people. At 6’3 I’m always hitting my head. Having back pain from slouching or being cramped while driving. The worst though is dealing with people that have Little Man Syndrome and people who are instantly intimidated by you.
Seriously. I can't even drive done car models because I can't move my feet enough on the pedals
@@bullmoose5574 don’t even bother with small displacement motorcycles 😆
@davesleyer9393 honestly, I'd die on a motorcycle. My friends say I have -1 dex, my gf says they're setting wrong it's -2 dex lol.
@@bullmoose5574 at least you have +2 sense of humor about it.
Yes, of course, men and women can be friends.
but only if your not attractied to them
Men and women can NOT be one on one friends. At least one of them will always want more.
If theyre ugly they can.
It is easy to ugly yourself if you are naturally gorgious.
1. Never shower.
2. Shave your head.
3. Shop Goodwill.
4. Eat an onion sandwich.
5. No make up.
6. Consume lots of sugar to get plenty of facial blemishes.
7. Glare at people.
8. Smear lipstick around.
9. Smile way too much.
Jennifer's Body is a mid remake of Ginger Snaps, a real cult classic.
"Being hot is SOOO hard..." *proceeds to get plastic surgery*
(Not that it improved her looks, but, it kind of undermines her point...)
Mary "I don't see anything wrong with using your feminine wiles to get what you want" it's like out of a 1950s Christian magazine
Are you really sure about that mary? Using feminine wiles because that would include having sex to get your way too and that seems to be outside of your religious convictions
Extremely Attractive 37 year old man here, Had many stalker girls, but by far the worst thing that happens is drunk women groping and touching me inappropriately. Getting SA'd as a man has always been ignored, other women find it funny and other men call you lucky. It is very tough dealing with, without any understanding from the general public. Drunk women are the rudest and inconsiderate of society.
Yes! When I work out women do feel like they have a pass to touch. It’s usually drunk older women too. A lot of times there’s no conversation that leads up to it. I don’t even consider myself conventionally attractive I’m more Clint Eastwood than Bradley Cooper.
male pretty privilege stories are more bonkers than female I think. one guy I know said he had been out with a girl he met a bar 4 times before he had to ask if she knew his name. she said I didn't want to offend you xD
Men and women can be friends if one of them is gay lol