Thank God for you you've gotten over your loss. At the same time, it was good you acknowledged those pastors that were kind to you. The person or people who decided to pay your children's school fees were kind as well. But for you rejoicing that you scammed them makes me wonder.
Keep wondering . Yes I’m happy I did. I no be mumu wey someone will use and dump. People that could dump a handicapped widow with three kids, whose husband was pastor for over 20yrs
@@realtalkAuntyAdunni I just watched your video for the first time today. I was a member and a worker of the RCCG in Nigeria and abroad, but I left many years ago and I've returned to worship at a Baptist church abroad and God has been faithful. I believe your story. To me from my experience with the RCCG, I normally refer to them as a ''business centre''. It's all about the money, money, money, not about any genuine salvation of the lost souls. I just pity those members that still attend and think their Daddy GO is God, and everything he says must be obeyed. The RCCG still owes me money that I invested to buy shares for their satellite communication business when I was in Nigeria. Even after I've called the RCCG headquarters/redemption camp from abroad to request a refund, they never did. I don't trust all these so-called Pentecostal churches established by Nigerians (I am a Nigerian by the way),as you can see they are all worshipping Marmon. And no matter what you say, some of these RCCG members are personally invested in the business, and some are still in poverty but remains invested and their eyes are blind and ears are deaf, until the real God Almighty rescue them. Matthew 7:13-14). I will NEVER attend any church established by a so-called Nigerian Pastor or GO, ever again, as they are all the same (majority of them are scams presented as churches). This is my short contribution. Oro po ninu iwe kobo. Ki Olorun eledumare ko gba wa lowo awon woli eke, wooli jeunjeun.
I wonder if you’re wondering or a wanderer. She said it as it is, it’s her story not yours, she went through it alone not with you. You can see clearly that she didn’t scam them, she only talked them into doing what they were supposed to do.Thanks
If u like dont learn from her experience,keep worshipping a man an not question if u r walking d right path or not !!for me my Bible is my teacher ,how many Nigerian pastors r flying jet up and down !!!ND der kids r abroad ,wen I was young pastors, Rev etc wer riding bicycles not fly jets ND dey will feed the poor with wat dey recieve !!!not now I was going day ND night dat I needed job dey busy telling me to drop tithes,I'd rather give it to d poor
I have been looking for you around the globe,only for me to see you on FB. Everything you said are true cos I'm an insider. I thank you for your courage,hard work and dedication. Thanks. God bless you for being honest and found happiness again. You truly went through hell Only God I mean God helped you. To God be the glory.
Sorry about what you went through Auntie Adunni God has been good to you through the tough times. The Bible is true Give and it will be given to you. It’s good to be a giver. It’s unfortunate that many Christian ministers have exploited this giving to their own advantage
Madam as an American trained theologian my heart is thumping as you are sharing this RCCG experience . These DADDY GOS will surely enter burning sulfur. You're smart and others in the Redeemed will learn from your experience .Dede watching from Barcelona Spain.
The word of God is yea and Amen. The Bible should be our compass not the church or Pastor. As a believer our relationship with God and Holy Spirit is Paramount. Whatever the church or pastor is saying, it needs to pass through the word and Holy Spirit confirmation. I believe that God does not forget his own, whatever we do for God is not a waste, I know even if you did not go back to church Ma, God will still raise help in another way. What you did is not a scam , you asked, the word of God tell us to ask and it shall be given to us because the church may assume that all is well with you, let us know that the Pastors, GOs are also human and not God, perfection can only be found in God . God is faithful. God bless you Ma and keep your prayer alter burning. Thank you
Good day ma, I listened to your ordeal at Redeem Christian Church. And during the occasion of one of your video I listened to, you made mentioned that going for EVANGELISM is recruiting more slaves. In as much as I sympathized with you for the ordeal you pass through, I will not agree with you with that statement. The cause of Christ that you believe is to evangelize the whole world for him. The Lord says go an make disciples of me. Matthew. 28:19-20 and in Proverb. 11:30 says he that wineth souls is wise. Every man and woman will stand before Christ irrespective of the name they are called. That has ever been my cry to every one. Ma, It will be good enough to correct that impression in the heart of those who may have come across such comments. They need to go ahead with the work of the Lord, may we not be weak and weary in the business of our Lord in JESUS name. Thanks and Be Blessed. Ajayi
Anty T, your stories shall be an eye opener to many widows. To me. My mind is my church now cos most churches are scams. Since the demised of my husband, no church has ever given me money. And being a giver, I just came back to my senses now that its better to make Hale's when the sun shines. I give the church now with my senses alert. Thank you so much. God shall keep directing our path
I am sorry for all you have gone through but I thank God for coming through for you .Each time you talk about the experience I am always in tears. You wll not die young and you will not mourn over those children and your loved ones .The Lord will bless you more and more in all the areas of your life . Sending my hugs .
Tuale! @Adunni, Tiri Gbosas for from Bonny Island, thank you for your content, thank you for sharing your experience. I am contemplating sending your channel to my RCCG sister and Deeper life sister, I don't want them to feel I am mocking them, these sisters of mine are totally entrenched in their churches, wasted their most productive years in the guise of serving God but actually serving the owners of their churches, both are now over 50 years, no husband, no children because they believe it the miracle of one man from nowhere coming to marry them. It's been pain watching these sisters of mine waste away. Thank you again, I truly hope a lot of people get to watch and learn from you. Have a lovely evening
I’m a widow in RCCG and I didn’t experience any oppression whatsoever. No one said I should not remarry and I can’t fornicate except I remarry. I’m independent and doing great eternal life is the goal
Do you belong to any group?? Are you a work , or deaconess???? I was worshipping with MFM, it will be untrue if i come to right like you mfm is perfect, 1. I dont belong to any group. I dont go for recognition, I was going to listen to sermon, , bible study, and praise worship. I love dancing. I dont wear jewelry to church, i dont mind that , cos ilove fashion , and its a lot putting it right, so jumping into my boubou, on sunday its convenient.. im destined leader, im conscious of who i am, so it will be dffclt for an ordinary mortal to control my life or ways of life. I have strong spirit of discernment , and read my bible. Olukoya's prayers gave me night mares, i do affirmations , positive thinking, forgive people , stay of toxic people, i do my little to make people happy, either morally or financially, i guard my thoughts jealously. I stopped going to church , after covid, and the desperation of online programmes asking for money during covid put me off completely
I stumbled on your channel,I'm quite impressed .you are true to husband unlike some that will drag their husband down,probably your parent or those who brought up from childhood must be good.very hard to find such women like you this days.
Thanks for your Story , lot of wisdom here in the USA some of these Churches the Folks/members don't own their homes while Pastors have several. Their kids go to the best Universities/Colleges. It's a worldwide situation. ♥️
You are such a sweet sister. I am happy that you woke up early to these scam artists called pastors. I am so happy to see that you and the kids are doing very well. Remain blessed
God have blessed you sis and I'm hoping that your testimony will help many of our people back in Africa, church owners are raking havoc in Africa most especially Nigeria taking advantage of people's ignorant and vulnerability,
"God have mercy on me" is aready a serous prayer. I thank God for you. You escaped one of the chains holding people in Nigeria: religion. Another chain is tribalism. There are still others. Finally, keep humbling yourself before your creator and as you rightly said, you live on God's grace. You have good health. And you are a woman too.
Your story is very moving. New subscriber here. And also you can definitely remarry if you want to. My aunt with 3 kids remarried a british tech ceo at 51 during covid. The man could not wait to marry her. Pls definitely be open. My friends older sister also remarried with kids in naija o. A fine single guy at chevron married her o. Never say never. Love your energy mam!
It's very true, I was a member of a certain church , l used to pay tithe until my business went down, after that the started gossiping me and laughing at me. No help at all on there side.
While I can't make a case for the church and the actors in your experience, I still think you are taking the grace and mercy of God towards you for granted. You arrogate too much to self, I hardly hear you mention God's involvement in your recovery. Your bitterness nurtures ingratitude to God. I can understand the feeling of neglect and betrayal when you needed the love and support of the church the most. Pastors/ brethren are humans with their shortcomings. That they came looking for you on their own should show you their conscience convicted them. But then, taking the laws into your hands is like telling God you could fight your fight...Much as I rejoice with you, I still think you need healing for your soul (bitter but true) Congratulations on your "testimonies" but my sister, remember that America is not heaven.... The story continues. My prayer is that you find your place in Christ again ( note that I didn't say church) before the story ends.... And may it end really well for you in Jesus name. Note also that yours is just a version of experience, there are also those who abused church's love and care. Supposing your husband didn't invest so much in the church, would you have felt this entitled? Yet, I think you were entitled for church's care and support as a window, irrespective of what your husband gave or did not give while he was alive. May your husband's gentle soul rest in peace.
Wow, i live in Norway and im frm Ghana. I saw the 1st post on Facebook and i searched for the part 2 of ur story. Tnk u 4 sharing. I have stopped going to church wen my eyes really open
You are so beautiful mom. Thank you for pouring your message of love to us. I learned a lot. I stopped doing church in 2019. I still really love God and he is King over my life but church is not the place for me at the moment. I love you Ma. Thank you for your time.
Thank you so much my darling sister. Many God wiped away your tears. May he continue to guide you and the children. You are a very strong woman. I pray that God in his mercy will continue to shower is blessing upon you and your family ijmn. We all love you. God will always speak for you, you're guide.
God says He would have mercy on whom He would have mercy. The truth is that most people have a distorted concept of what praying is? It is not the words that makes prayers work, but what backs the prayers. So that simple word "God have mercy on me" encapsulates a lot of requests. If it is said with sincerity and comes from a heart that deeply appreciates dependency on God, it can be very effective. If God has mercy on you, how would you lack? How would evil befall you? How would you not prosper or do well in your endeavours?
I am touched to hear your story. I’m glad that God has blessed you after all these years especially after what you went through. I am a member of RCCG myself and honestly I’m surprised to hear some of the things you highlighted. One that has surprised me is that of just praying and not going to hospital because we study in our Sunday school the importance of medical check ups. In fact it is encouraged that we should make it a habit to see the doctors at least once a year. Some things you have mentioned I want to believe that was then coz I have experienced the exact opposite. I want to believe this is no longer happening coz at least I have not experienced it in our parish. I’m speaking this as a worker in RCCG. So I want believe maybe because of people like you things are changing. GOD bless you and your family.
Great lady, strong lady, an overcome, a survivor. God bless you sister Adunni. You are an inspiration to widows, orphans in particular and to everybody in general. He who has ears, let him hear.
Hmmmm God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek Him,he doesn't owe any man.Please do not mislead people church didn't put gun on anybody's head to give live in your own truth,atleast after approaching the church they still helped you.
Shes not misleading people, shes just teaching people to be responsible with their lives.Her plea is for people to think of raining day and to give responsibly
Bros Abi Sis, you know no say brain washing is waste dey putting gun on congregations (church members)?? She is only tell people like you to use your brain wisely while you still decide to go to church. There are other take away from her story.
My explanation on first fruit offering as taught by my G. O. These are the scriptures quoted as an insight into first fruit offering. 1. Ex 34:26 The Bible claimed” Bring the best of the first fruits of your soil to the house of the Lord”. The implication in my own opinion is that anything we have been blessed with via sowing of seeds and reaping, via income/ wages, via receiving gifts/ acts of giving by someone etc can be given to God. 2. Proverbs 3:9 claimed “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops”(income/ increase). 3. Romans11:16 claimed “For if the first fruit be holy, the lump is also holy; and if the root be holy, so are the branches”. Giving first fruit offering is a choice in my own opinion. The Bible did not mention the negative side effect of not giving first fruit offering. Certain people derived their own ways of giving to God and in return they receive good measure, pressed down and running over. Certain people receive breakthroughs and testify as a result of their first fruit offering. Certain people give offering/ first fruit offering in another method as their heart desires and receive breakthroughs and blessings.
I just stumbled on your channel and I thank God that I did because I have been saying the same thing about all these one man churches. I pray God will open the eyes of all who diligently seek him so that they can be liberated from the church mindset slavery. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Life is sowing and reaping. The husband of this woman served God sincerely while alive, and God has honoured the man even in death!!! But our dear sister thought because of errors or shortcomings of men, the church is a scam. It is a pity!! Man might fail, but my Lord Jesus Christ is not a scam.
@situiyiola9676 Of course Christ and the message of Christ which is Love is definitely not a scam, but Today's Churches and its messages are definitely scams, majority of the Pastors are scams, majority of their teachings are scams. Lastly serving God has little to nothing to do with going to church or a building. It's all about LOVE
As much as I would be discrete and avoid mentioning names. I saw everything you said during my 1-year NYSC service during at RCCG, Kebbi State. I wasn't a worker, but there were incidents that made me question what was happening in the church. The Pastor complained, members were subjected to take full responsibility at that parish. Erect the building, pay the pastor, and meet their quota to the regional head at the end of the day. Imagine a pastor of a parish hungry and his children out of school. All the HQ could do was tell the pastor that he has to look for a job. He should not bank on the privilege of being a pastor. So, what is he doing for you as a church? No help came from the HQ. I can't say all that I noticed. I hope people would be enlightened and not be blinded by religion.
Can You Imagine. As A Former Worker In RCCG My Advice For Wanna Be Pastors And Workers, Please Do Get A Good Job And Don't Stress Yourselves When It Comes To Church Business. Your Family Comes First, Church Second.
True to your words I once experience the same thing. This church of a thing in Naija ehhhh. I tire oooo. Yes in redeemed the poor pastor pays for d church rent, instruments and all that and there is a quota he must remit to headquarters whether he likes it or not. Sometimes the pastor has to borrow or use from there pocket to meet up with that quota. I no dey craze I Kuku comot for church seat for my house Jo. Now am more of a humanitarian not a religious person
The truth is we are easily scammed by these pastors because we believe their teachings rather than scripture that God left for us. Nigerian churches like RCCG are pyramid schemes and we see no such thing like that in the Bible. There is no such thing as first fruits and tithes for Christians all these these things are not scriptural and giving to a pastor to get blessings from God in return is again not biblical.
Love you loads aunty Adunni, you really nailed it all, thanks so much for the insight, God will continue to uphold you, your children & your spouse. More grace, more wisdom, more victories n more breakthroughs for you & your household in Jesus mighty name. Cheers!!!!
I always say, go to church with your brain and stay away from pastors. Its not everything they preach i believe and not every prayer point i pray. Thank God for your life. I encourage you to continue to study the word of God.
Dear sister, so sorry to hear about your experience. God is good always, please do not stop praying for you and your children. It's a lie from the pit of hell to convinced you not to pray. In prayer you have victory.
The truth is that Pentecostal churches in Nigeria focus more on money than on teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ! The love for money and emphasis on money is much!
Sister I am happy for you. I am a Nigerian, my sister my house is close to a river if I tell how many pastor I see a day doings Ritual rite. Sis God has located you, all you need now for your kids. I never knew kids bring happiness The day mine wife gave birth I cried it was tears joy . You still young and beautiful. You ll fine happiness so . Any man that refused to love you and your kids should be kick out.
God give us wisdom and knowledge to do things , believe in and believe in yourself , I believe in my own prayer, we all have God in our side , work hard and have Faith.
My sister wht you are saying is the truth .i personally hv the same experiencd in the same place.All i hv to tell U ,dont allow ur experience to affect ur walk with God.Also regarding prayers is Biblical and is right for every child of God.
No oooo,I thought you guys were encouraging her to go all out against the church. Was it not in Elijah times that a widow whose late husband was a prophet,but owed greatly before his death. But God remembered her in famine. Man is man and God is God. Now she is quoting the bible wherever it benefits her
Aunty Adunni, kindly permit me to correct the statement that "prayer is a wish"...pls even if you don't want to go church any more, you can find out on your own what the bible says about prayer. Except if you don't believe in the bible at all, you can always go to the bible and your answer will come. Prayer is a command that gives us access to God. You still have most of your church mind, you have uttered prayers during this particular recording ma😁
Pls don't give up on God no matter what. Remember God is not to blame for what GOs do, he hasn't offended or done injustice to anyone of us. Ensure that you're at peace with God and have Jesus as your Lord and saviour.
These are comments with deep bitterness in the heart. This is not healthy for her physically and spiritually. No one with bitterness in the heart will make it to heaven at the end of life. LIFE IS TRANSIENT. The LORD will HELP our dear SISTER to forgive all the pastors that offended her and RCCG as a church. No man, and no organization of men is perfect.
Thank u for sharing. Its so encouraging. You did not scam them. I think the family is entitiled to that benefit as family of Pastor. I pray people will support those that have lose loved one and not abandon them.
Madam thank you for exposing this people. You have told your truth and not holding anything back. It’s up to those still believing their bullshit and cut up in the web of lies to either learn from your stories and make their own decisions. You have done well, thank God for your life ❤❤
Aunty Adunn, your story is very touching. You are very correct in your story. I thank God you have over come it. I want to ask you, how did your husband family deal with you and your children? Because in Africa, this is a serious problem for Widows.
Aunty Adunni, Prayer works. I agree with most things you have said concerning the way churches are run. A lot of Christians today have been dealt with poorly by the Church. You are right in saying that you have to work hard and use your God given sense to make a life for yourself but without a relationship with God, it will eventually come to nothing.
Did she tell you she has no relationship with God? Is not by going to a building govern by one man brain washing people that make one have relationship with God.
Amen. It is a good step you take ma. May God help our pastors to do the right things, the Lord teaches us in the word of God. God be with you and your family and your helps. In Jesus' name. Amen 🙏🥰
I thank God on your behalf ma. Prayer without action will not work. Use your God given brain so you will not be a victim. This is were many people go wrong. Again ma, I give glory and adoration to God almighty because God made a way for you and your family.
Keep praying sister, don’t be discouraged about serving God. Man will be man , but God is great, that was the reason He is connecting you to the helper of your destiny. God bless you
You didn't scam them o!! It was a promise made by their pastor you went to collect!! It's was not a scam atall! All glory to God for taking you this far!
I now see reasons my husband said he wants to back out from redeemed, he said the church activities are affecting his spiritual life...He is a Yaya president in a very big zone...I now understand ...
You didn't scam them, you only benefits from the labour of your late husband, since it didn't sink into their mind to do what's right you use wisdom for them.... you're a very wise woman, I really benefits from your story , thanks and God bless you richly . Amen 🙏
Good evening ma God bless you This is a very good advice and encouragement for Christians More grace Your stories touched me It is only God that can heal and rewards you for your labours of loves for all your contributions as a minister Please it is possible to have your number for a private discussion and for counselling because ĺ also attend Nigeria church and lam passing a lots God bless you ma
My dear sister, I always tell people that our God does not owe anybody, be it labour, care, money, He pays back several folds over to make you more blessings to others. God bless you abundantly
Your story is so touching. Please don’t let what you have been through affect your relationship with your God. Church is not God and in most cases they are operated by men looking for an easy way to enrich and build empire for themselves. May the Lord continue to be with you and your children. Jesus loves you❤
I really thank God for your life, I hv bn saying it time without No, that first fruit is nothing but SACAMANJE, bcos of what I said, my pastor here in USA refused to relate with me again, which I don't care. I'm so glad for u my sister.
Ma'am, I really love the way you present your points. God bless you and your children. They're just a bunch of selfish and self-centered people, deceiving innocent and vulnerable worshipers.
Your personal experience does not invalidate the Word of God. I quite agree that some of our practices in the church are not biblical. Please go back to your first love for - Jesus, Jesus died to save mankind from eternal damnation. That you don’t pray again is not too good, please teach your children the bible and pray for lost souls and continue to give to the needy. God bless you
Right advice. Continue going to Baptist Church and believe more that Jesus Christ died for you and forget your bitter experience with rccg. Daddy GO and his wife will one day face the true God they serve if such a respectful man old be caring with all integrity but hear all tey are acquiring on earth today and the children of the man who handed the church of God to him could be neglected until when one man cried out on behalf of those children. So SAD INDEED. Mama GO is a sacred today even the children of Pa Akindayomi worshiped her. VERY VERY SAD INDEED. We shall all give accounts of our deeds on this earth. BUT PLEASE, DON'T LEAVE GOD. HE CREATED YOU BUT DON'T BELUEVE ON ANY MAN AS PER YOUR LIFE'S EXPERIENCING AT RCCG.
God has blessed you beyond cause my sister. I was moved to tears. But my joy after the whole experience was that you sought medical help when you had infertility issue. If you had not done that, what would have been your gain today. I do not want to imagine losing your husband without children!!!
Thank God for you you've gotten over your loss.
At the same time, it was good you acknowledged those pastors that were kind to you. The person or people who decided to pay your children's school fees were kind as well. But for you rejoicing that you scammed them makes me wonder.
Keep wondering . Yes I’m happy I did. I no be mumu wey someone will use and dump. People that could dump a handicapped widow with three kids, whose husband was pastor for over 20yrs
@@realtalkAuntyAdunni I just watched your video for the first time today. I was a member and a worker of the RCCG in Nigeria and abroad, but I left many years ago and I've returned to worship at a Baptist church abroad and God has been faithful. I believe your story. To me from my experience with the RCCG, I normally refer to them as a ''business centre''. It's all about the money, money, money, not about any genuine salvation of the lost souls. I just pity those members that still attend and think their Daddy GO is God, and everything he says must be obeyed. The RCCG still owes me money that I invested to buy shares for their satellite communication business when I was in Nigeria. Even after I've called the RCCG headquarters/redemption camp from abroad to request a refund, they never did. I don't trust all these so-called Pentecostal churches established by Nigerians (I am a Nigerian by the way),as you can see they are all worshipping Marmon. And no matter what you say, some of these RCCG members are personally invested in the business, and some are still in poverty but remains invested and their eyes are blind and ears are deaf, until the real God Almighty rescue them. Matthew 7:13-14). I will NEVER attend any church established by a so-called Nigerian Pastor or GO, ever again, as they are all the same (majority of them are scams presented as churches). This is my short contribution. Oro po ninu iwe kobo. Ki Olorun eledumare ko gba wa lowo awon woli eke, wooli jeunjeun.
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I wonder if you’re wondering or a wanderer. She said it as it is, it’s her story not yours, she went through it alone not with you. You can see clearly that she didn’t scam them, she only talked them into doing what they were supposed to do.Thanks
If u like dont learn from her experience,keep worshipping a man an not question if u r walking d right path or not !!for me my Bible is my teacher ,how many Nigerian pastors r flying jet up and down !!!ND der kids r abroad ,wen I was young pastors, Rev etc wer riding bicycles not fly jets ND dey will feed the poor with wat dey recieve !!!not now I was going day ND night dat I needed job dey busy telling me to drop tithes,I'd rather give it to d poor
I have been looking for you around the globe,only for me to see you on FB. Everything you said are true cos I'm an insider. I thank you for your courage,hard work and dedication. Thanks. God bless you for being honest and found happiness again. You truly went through hell Only God I mean God helped you. To God be the glory.
Sorry about what you went through Auntie Adunni
God has been good to you through the tough times.
The Bible is true
Give and it will be given to you.
It’s good to be a giver.
It’s unfortunate that many Christian ministers have exploited this giving to their own advantage
Madam as an American trained theologian my heart is thumping as you are sharing this RCCG experience . These DADDY GOS will surely enter burning sulfur. You're smart and others in the Redeemed will learn from your experience .Dede watching from Barcelona Spain.
The word of God is yea and Amen. The Bible should be our compass not the church or Pastor. As a believer our relationship with God and Holy Spirit is Paramount. Whatever the church or pastor is saying, it needs to pass through the word and Holy Spirit confirmation. I believe that God does not forget his own, whatever we do for God is not a waste, I know even if you did not go back to church Ma, God will still raise help in another way. What you did is not a scam , you asked, the word of God tell us to ask and it shall be given to us because the church may assume that all is well with you, let us know that the Pastors, GOs are also human and not God, perfection can only be found in God . God is faithful. God bless you Ma and keep your prayer alter burning. Thank you
Good day ma,
I listened to your ordeal at Redeem Christian Church. And during the occasion of one of your video I listened to, you made mentioned that going for EVANGELISM is recruiting more slaves. In as much as I sympathized with you for the ordeal you pass through, I will not agree with you with that statement.
The cause of Christ that you believe is to evangelize the whole world for him.
The Lord says go an make disciples of me. Matthew. 28:19-20 and in Proverb. 11:30 says he that wineth souls is wise. Every man and woman will stand before Christ irrespective of the name they are called. That has ever been my cry to every one.
Ma, It will be good enough to correct that impression in the heart of those who may have come across such comments. They need to go ahead with the work of the Lord, may we not be weak and weary in the business of our Lord in JESUS name.
Thanks and Be Blessed. Ajayi
Your story is a big lesson for our society especially Nigeria. God will stand by you and your kids. ❤ 🙏
Which God? God that she doesn't believe in. Maybe na you be the god wey go stand for her
I really appreciate your story, though i missed the earlier versions. It has reinforced my believe in helping the needy and humanity generally
Anty T, your stories shall be an eye opener to many widows.
To me. My mind is my church now cos most churches are scams. Since the demised of my husband, no church has ever given me money. And being a giver, I just came back to my senses now that its better to make Hale's when the sun shines. I give the church now with my senses alert. Thank you so much. God shall keep directing our path
I am sorry for all you have gone through but I thank God for coming through for you .Each time you talk about the experience I am always in tears. You wll not die young and you will not mourn over those children and your loved ones .The Lord will bless you more and more in all the areas of your life . Sending my hugs .
Tuale! @Adunni, Tiri Gbosas for from Bonny Island, thank you for your content, thank you for sharing your experience.
I am contemplating sending your channel to my RCCG sister and Deeper life sister, I don't want them to feel I am mocking them, these sisters of mine are totally entrenched in their churches, wasted their most productive years in the guise of serving God but actually serving the owners of their churches, both are now over 50 years, no husband, no children because they believe it the miracle of one man from nowhere coming to marry them.
It's been pain watching these sisters of mine waste away. Thank you again, I truly hope a lot of people get to watch and learn from you. Have a lovely evening
I’m a widow in RCCG and I didn’t experience any oppression whatsoever. No one said I should not remarry and I can’t fornicate except I remarry. I’m independent and doing great eternal life is the goal
No one is talking of remarrying here. Were you married to a late Pastor?
It depends on your commitment.
Do you belong to any group?? Are you a work , or deaconess???? I was worshipping with MFM, it will be untrue if i come to right like you mfm is perfect, 1. I dont belong to any group.
I dont go for recognition, I was going to listen to sermon, , bible study, and praise worship. I love dancing.
I dont wear jewelry to church, i dont mind that , cos ilove fashion , and its a lot putting it right, so jumping into my boubou, on sunday its convenient.. im destined leader, im conscious of who i am, so it will be dffclt for an ordinary mortal to control my life or ways of life. I have strong spirit of discernment , and read my bible. Olukoya's prayers gave me night mares, i do affirmations , positive thinking, forgive people , stay of toxic people, i do my little to make people happy, either morally or financially, i guard my thoughts jealously. I stopped going to church , after covid, and the desperation of online programmes asking for money during covid put me off completely
What you are even saying is not close to what she’s saying madam go rest abeg
I stumbled on your channel,I'm quite impressed .you are true to husband unlike some that will drag their husband down,probably your parent or those who brought up from childhood must be good.very hard to find such women like you this days.
Thanks for your Story , lot of wisdom here in the USA some of these Churches the Folks/members don't own their homes while Pastors have several. Their kids go to the best Universities/Colleges. It's a worldwide situation. ♥️
They are not clean, but prayers of the righteous man availth much my dear sister 🙏🏾🗣👏🏾
Your story is what will make people know about the MAFIA in the church community. Aunty, please keep on praying for our religious people back home.
You are such a sweet sister. I am happy that you woke up early to these scam artists called pastors. I am so happy to see that you and the kids are doing very well. Remain blessed
Hmmm!
This is a real ministry of God given to you to liberate all in bondages.
Well done
You are beautiful.
Remain blessed.
Thank you very much.
I love your creativity. Almighty God will continue to support your ideas in Jesus Mighty Name.
God have blessed you sis and I'm hoping that your testimony will help many of our people back in Africa, church owners are raking havoc in Africa most especially Nigeria taking advantage of people's ignorant and vulnerability,
Prayers are indeed wishes. Dear sister, please continue in this great job you are doing. Ignore detractors. You are wonderful. Best regards sis.
Thanks 🙏🏽
Prayers are wishes right,pray you don't need one when all hope is almost lost.
So sorry to hear your story. You didn’t scam them. They owed you and your husband. Stop saying you scammed them. These people are heartless
Pls ma, l need your No thanks
You are contradicting yourself because you said when they started paying your children were no longer at school
She is not Dear, as She said it has been 18 yrs. She is a Senior give her some grace. ♥️♥️
@Rosemary Omole-Daomi jog on and leave her alone.
You are a very wise woman, your story is encouraging to me. Thanks for sharing 👍🏼❤
"God have mercy on me" is aready a serous prayer. I thank God for you. You escaped one of the chains holding people in Nigeria: religion. Another chain is tribalism. There are still others. Finally, keep humbling yourself before your creator and as you rightly said, you live on God's grace. You have good health. And you are a woman too.
Your story is very moving. New subscriber here. And also you can definitely remarry if you want to. My aunt with 3 kids remarried a british tech ceo at 51 during covid. The man could not wait to marry her. Pls definitely be open. My friends older sister also remarried with kids in naija o. A fine single guy at chevron married her o. Never say never. Love your energy mam!
Truth!
It's very true, I was a member of a certain church , l used to pay tithe until my business went down, after that the started gossiping me and laughing at me. No help at all on there side.
I'm so sorry about your loss and the terrible experience in the hands of the church.
Seriously, the church NEEDS to do better concerning all WIDOWs and needy especially church workers!
You spoke well
Am glad for the life of your husband. His prayer deposit will deepen knowledge in his home. God bless you
Thank God for where He brought you from and where you are now. Congratulations and remain blessed in Jesus name.
Thank you so much my sister God almighty protect and guide you and your family in jesus' name
“Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful.” ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca. 4BC - 65AD
Wise words.
You are a brilliant strong person auntie. I am impressed with your blogs.
I feel like hugging you auntie Adunni. You are a strong woman. Thank you for the eye opener. I will continue to follow your channel from London
God came for you as the husband of the widow even in spite of your manner of living and lack of understanding of the ways of God.
While I can't make a case for the church and the actors in your experience, I still think you are taking the grace and mercy of God towards you for granted. You arrogate too much to self, I hardly hear you mention God's involvement in your recovery. Your bitterness nurtures ingratitude to God. I can understand the feeling of neglect and betrayal when you needed the love and support of the church the most. Pastors/ brethren are humans with their shortcomings. That they came looking for you on their own should show you their conscience convicted them. But then, taking the laws into your hands is like telling God you could fight your fight...Much as I rejoice with you, I still think you need healing for your soul (bitter but true)
Congratulations on your "testimonies" but my sister, remember that America is not heaven.... The story continues. My prayer is that you find your place in Christ again ( note that I didn't say church) before the story ends.... And may it end really well for you in Jesus name.
Note also that yours is just a version of experience, there are also those who abused church's love and care. Supposing your husband didn't invest so much in the church, would you have felt this entitled? Yet, I think you were entitled for church's care and support as a window, irrespective of what your husband gave or did not give while he was alive.
May your husband's gentle soul rest in peace.
Good advice
She won't be in this situation if the husband had followed a different route. And She's not been entitled, the so called "church" is a mess this days.
Wow, i live in Norway and im frm Ghana. I saw the 1st post on Facebook and i searched for the part 2 of ur story. Tnk u 4 sharing.
I have stopped going to church wen my eyes really open
You are so beautiful mom. Thank you for pouring your message of love to us. I learned a lot. I stopped doing church in 2019. I still really love God and he is King over my life but church is not the place for me at the moment. I love you Ma. Thank you for your time.
Thank you my sister you should put this in a book i love you so much . I also do short prayers . I give my money to the poor and I am so happy .
Sister T sincerely I am so proud of you thanks for speaking up God bless you real good.
Thank you so much my darling sister. Many God wiped away your tears. May he continue to guide you and the children. You are a very strong woman. I pray that God in his mercy will continue to shower is blessing upon you and your family ijmn.
We all love you. God will always speak for you, you're guide.
You've done very well. It was very immotional at a point. Keep encouraging people who want to learn and do well for themselves 👌🏾
God says He would have mercy on whom He would have mercy. The truth is that most people have a distorted concept of what praying is? It is not the words that makes prayers work, but what backs the prayers. So that simple word "God have mercy on me" encapsulates a lot of requests. If it is said with sincerity and comes from a heart that deeply appreciates dependency on God, it can be very effective. If God has mercy on you, how would you lack? How would evil befall you? How would you not prosper or do well in your endeavours?
Once I was blind, but now I can see. Wisdom is indeed profitable to direct
I am touched to hear your story. I’m glad that God has blessed you after all these years especially after what you went through. I am a member of RCCG myself and honestly I’m surprised to hear some of the things you highlighted. One that has surprised me is that of just praying and not going to hospital because we study in our Sunday school the importance of medical check ups. In fact it is encouraged that we should make it a habit to see the doctors at least once a year. Some things you have mentioned I want to believe that was then coz I have experienced the exact opposite. I want to believe this is no longer happening coz at least I have not experienced it in our parish. I’m speaking this as a worker in RCCG. So I want believe maybe because of people like you things are changing. GOD bless you and your family.
Shocking!...m scared now...
Nonesense talk
It's until you become a burden that you will understand some aspect of the church you haven't seen before
Auntie is talking about those days!!!! Not recently a lot of them are changing. Kumuyi is even changing. He now relaxed the doctrine about head tie.
@@deborah7830 thanks for your reply. You took it from me so right ❤
God bless you ma'am. You will remain protected, even as u continue to tell the truth that some of us knew since.
Babe the way you pray is the way I pray too. I beg for His forgiveness and mercy any way I made mistakes in my life.
Great lady, strong lady, an overcome, a survivor. God bless you sister Adunni. You are an inspiration to widows, orphans in particular and to everybody in general. He who has ears, let him hear.
Hmmmm God is the rewarder of those who diligently seek Him,he doesn't owe any man.Please do not mislead people church didn't put gun on anybody's head to give live in your own truth,atleast after approaching the church they still helped you.
Pls read your comment by yourself 🙄🙄🙄
Shes not misleading people, shes just teaching people to be responsible with their lives.Her plea is for people to think of raining day and to give responsibly
Bros Abi Sis, you know no say brain washing is waste dey putting gun on congregations (church members)?? She is only tell people like you to use your brain wisely while you still decide to go to church. There are other take away from her story.
@chinelo nwosuh nobody is brainwashing anybody those who are being brainwashed are mentally and spiritually lazy.
My explanation on first fruit offering as taught by my G. O.
These are the scriptures quoted as an insight into first fruit offering.
1. Ex 34:26 The Bible claimed” Bring the best of the first fruits of your soil to the house of the Lord”.
The implication in my own opinion is that anything we have been blessed with via sowing of seeds and reaping, via income/ wages, via receiving gifts/ acts of giving by someone etc can be given to God.
2. Proverbs 3:9 claimed “Honor the Lord with your wealth, with the first fruits of all your crops”(income/ increase).
3. Romans11:16 claimed “For if the first fruit be holy, the lump is also holy; and if the root be holy, so are the branches”.
Giving first fruit offering is a choice in my own opinion. The Bible did not mention the negative side effect of not giving first fruit offering. Certain people derived their own ways of giving to God and in return they receive good measure, pressed down and running over.
Certain people receive breakthroughs and testify as a result of their first fruit offering.
Certain people give offering/ first fruit offering in another method as their heart desires and receive breakthroughs and blessings.
First fruit is a scam. These pastors are shameless, they don’t care if you have food to eat or not they only want your money
giving to church is different from giving to God. God is in that blind helpless man by the church you are enriching
God bless you maa! You really fought this battle not without God. Keep believing God. You are an inspiration to women outside there.
I just stumbled on your channel and I thank God that I did because I have been saying the same thing about all these one man churches. I pray God will open the eyes of all who diligently seek him so that they can be liberated from the church mindset slavery. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Amen 🙏🏽 thanks
God will uphold u my Darling sister.
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Correct woman! I’m happy I stumbled upon your page this early morning. May God help us to be wise.
Life is sowing and reaping. The husband of this woman served God sincerely while alive, and God has honoured the man even in death!!! But our dear sister thought because of errors or shortcomings of men, the church is a scam. It is a pity!! Man might fail, but my Lord Jesus Christ is not a scam.
@situiyiola9676 Of course Christ and the message of Christ which is Love is definitely not a scam, but Today's Churches and its messages are definitely scams, majority of the Pastors are scams, majority of their teachings are scams.
Lastly serving God has little to nothing to do with going to church or a building.
It's all about LOVE
Oga any how see am church na scam
I just pity all of you that just open your mouth to spew words against the church,church is a scam abi? You will give account of every words you spew.
As much as I would be discrete and avoid mentioning names. I saw everything you said during my 1-year NYSC service during at RCCG, Kebbi State. I wasn't a worker, but there were incidents that made me question what was happening in the church. The Pastor complained, members were subjected to take full responsibility at that parish. Erect the building, pay the pastor, and meet their quota to the regional head at the end of the day. Imagine a pastor of a parish hungry and his children out of school. All the HQ could do was tell the pastor that he has to look for a job. He should not bank on the privilege of being a pastor. So, what is he doing for you as a church? No help came from the HQ. I can't say all that I noticed. I hope people would be enlightened and not be blinded by religion.
Can You Imagine. As A Former Worker In RCCG My Advice For Wanna Be Pastors And Workers, Please Do Get A Good Job And Don't Stress Yourselves When It Comes To Church Business. Your Family Comes First, Church Second.
True to your words I once experience the same thing. This church of a thing in Naija ehhhh. I tire oooo. Yes in redeemed the poor pastor pays for d church rent, instruments and all that and there is a quota he must remit to headquarters whether he likes it or not. Sometimes the pastor has to borrow or use from there pocket to meet up with that quota. I no dey craze I Kuku comot for church seat for my house Jo. Now am more of a humanitarian not a religious person
The truth is we are easily scammed by these pastors because we believe their teachings rather than scripture that God left for us. Nigerian churches like RCCG are pyramid schemes and we see no such thing like that in the Bible. There is no such thing as first fruits and tithes for Christians all these these things are not scriptural and giving to a pastor to get blessings from God in return is again not biblical.
Wow I'm in kebbi State presently brad of life Parish
Thank you for speaking your truth. Your story made me cry. Thank you
I feel like hugging you (you just said the fact) am happy that someone is relating. GOD bless you.
I love you my sister. You've just encouraged me now.
Love you loads aunty Adunni, you really nailed it all, thanks so much for the insight, God will continue to uphold you, your children & your spouse. More grace, more wisdom, more victories n more breakthroughs for you & your household in Jesus mighty name. Cheers!!!!
God bless you sister. May God continue to take care of you and the children IJN Amen.
I always say, go to church with your brain and stay away from pastors. Its not everything they preach i believe and not every prayer point i pray. Thank God for your life. I encourage you to continue to study the word of God.
You are a courageous brave woman,may God continue to bless you.
Chai. Your story touched me. You are a strong woman indeed
I thank God for ur life my sister. Thank God u were wise enough to realize certain things. I also have my encounter with RCCG but all glory to Jesus!
Dear sister, so sorry to hear about your experience. God is good always, please do not stop praying for you and your children. It's a lie from the pit of hell to convinced you not to pray. In prayer you have victory.
The truth is that Pentecostal churches in Nigeria focus more on money than on teaching the gospel of Jesus Christ! The love for money and emphasis on money is much!
God bless you sister, the personal churches are all skammer. God gave you the wisdom.
Sister I am happy for you. I am a Nigerian, my sister my house is close to a river if I tell how many pastor I see a day doings Ritual rite. Sis God has located you, all you need now for your kids. I never knew kids bring happiness The day mine wife gave birth I cried it was tears joy . You still young and beautiful. You ll fine happiness so . Any man that refused to love you and your kids should be kick out.
God give us wisdom and knowledge to do things , believe in and believe in yourself , I believe in my own prayer, we all have God in our side , work hard and have Faith.
Pastor Eskor was also a very very good man.
If Pastor Eskon Mfon were to be alive she won't go through most of the negative experience especially the upkeep of the children.
I knew Pastor Eskor personally. He was a good man with compassion.
My sister wht you are saying is the truth .i personally hv the same experiencd in the same place.All i hv to tell U ,dont allow ur experience to affect ur walk with God.Also regarding prayers is Biblical and is right for every child of God.
No oooo,I thought you guys were encouraging her to go all out against the church. Was it not in Elijah times that a widow whose late husband was a prophet,but owed greatly before his death. But God remembered her in famine. Man is man and God is God. Now she is quoting the bible wherever it benefits her
The gods around us are the people around us! This sank deep into me! Thank you! Thank you! And thank you
Aunty Adunni, kindly permit me to correct the statement that "prayer is a wish"...pls even if you don't want to go church any more, you can find out on your own what the bible says about prayer.
Except if you don't believe in the bible at all, you can always go to the bible and your answer will come. Prayer is a command that gives us access to God. You still have most of your church mind, you have uttered prayers during this particular recording ma😁
Can one stop 😂
Pls don't give up on God no matter what. Remember God is not to blame for what GOs do, he hasn't offended or done injustice to anyone of us. Ensure that you're at peace with God and have Jesus as your Lord and saviour.
These are comments with deep bitterness in the heart. This is not healthy for her physically and spiritually. No one with bitterness in the heart will make it to heaven at the end of life. LIFE IS TRANSIENT. The LORD will HELP our dear SISTER to forgive all the pastors that offended her and RCCG as a church. No man, and no organization of men is perfect.
Thank u for sharing. Its so encouraging. You did not scam them. I think the family is entitiled to that benefit as family of Pastor. I pray people will support those that have lose loved one and not abandon them.
Hopefully this will create an awareness so the head of churches will look out for the needy
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Madam thank you for exposing this people. You have told your truth and not holding anything back. It’s up to those still believing their bullshit and cut up in the web of lies to either learn from your stories and make their own decisions. You have done well, thank God for your life ❤❤
This is a deep revelation about the church that people have much regards for. Thanks so much for the insight.
Aunty Adunn, your story is very touching. You are very correct in your story. I thank God you have over come it. I want to ask you, how did your husband family deal with you and your children? Because in Africa, this is a serious problem for Widows.
Thanks brother.. Will talk on it.
Aunty Adunni, Prayer works. I agree with most things you have said concerning the way churches are run. A lot of Christians today have been dealt with poorly by the Church. You are right in saying that you have to work hard and use your God given sense to make a life for yourself but without a relationship with God, it will eventually come to nothing.
Did she tell you she has no relationship with God? Is not by going to a building govern by one man brain washing people that make one have relationship with God.
Madam, I love you already!! Just minutes into your presentation!! May God keep and bless you with your kids!! Keep teaching sister!
Amen.
It is a good step you take ma. May God help our pastors to do the right things, the Lord teaches us in the word of God. God be with you and your family and your helps. In Jesus' name. Amen 🙏🥰
God is so good and greatly to be praised. What a testimony WOW! Thank you God Almighty for everything.
You didn’t scam them. You simply took back what’s yours 👍🏾
Yesoooo my conscience clear 😂😂😂😂
I want to post a comment but no space to do this!!
Now,you have really told the whole truth and intact you should be applauded because this is why judgement is coming to the Church!
Can l get close to you to discuss more?
You should give us another story time. I really don’t want this to end ❤
Smiles. Every story has an End 😂
Aporoko no go kill us
I thank God on your behalf ma. Prayer without action will not work. Use your God given brain so you will not be a victim. This is were many people go wrong. Again ma, I give glory and adoration to God almighty because God made a way for you and your family.
Keep praying sister, don’t be discouraged about serving God. Man will be man , but God is great, that was the reason He is connecting you to the helper of your destiny. God bless you
You didn't scam them o!!
It was a promise made by their pastor you went to collect!!
It's was not a scam atall!
All glory to God for taking you this far!
Ma, i give God all the glory in ur family
I now see reasons my husband said he wants to back out from redeemed, he said the church activities are affecting his spiritual life...He is a Yaya president in a very big zone...I now understand ...
It's true oo, activities all the time,no time to upgrade yourself spiritually, build personal relationship with your God
You didn't scam them, you only benefits from the labour of your late husband, since it didn't sink into their mind to do what's right you use wisdom for them.... you're a very wise woman, I really benefits from your story , thanks and God bless you richly . Amen 🙏
I’m glad sis Tnx
Good evening ma
God bless you
This is a very good advice and encouragement for Christians
More grace
Your stories touched me
It is only God that can heal and rewards you for your labours of loves for all your contributions as a minister
Please it is possible to have your number for a private discussion and for counselling because ĺ also attend Nigeria church and lam passing a lots
God bless you ma
You meant her late husband. Not ex
Thanks sis, it was typography error I wanted to write late husband and I wrote ex...I have corrected it , thanks and God bless
I'm happy for you ma, this is very encouraging ❤
My dear sister, I always tell people that our God does not owe anybody, be it labour, care, money, He pays back several folds over to make you more blessings to others. God bless you abundantly
Facts sis 🙌💕
Your story is so touching. Please don’t let what you have been through affect your relationship with your God. Church is not God and in most cases they are operated by men looking for an easy way to enrich and build empire for themselves. May the Lord continue to be with you and your children. Jesus loves you❤
I still cling to God like my skin but I don’t go to church anymore
Thank God Almighty for your life and those of your family members. Sincerely speaking you are a very beautiful woman.
I really thank God for your life, I hv bn saying it time without No, that first fruit is nothing but SACAMANJE, bcos of what I said, my pastor here in USA refused to relate with me again, which I don't care. I'm so glad for u my sister.
I'm happy for u aunty aduni.. I can testify to ur story cos I lived in harmony estate.. U are blessed already
That's great. Wow good to have you here 🙌
I. Just love you for your expose...never stop exposing the fakes
Ma'am, I really love the way you present your points. God bless you and your children. They're just a bunch of selfish and self-centered people, deceiving innocent and vulnerable worshipers.
You have done your best good talk. God bless you ma
Thank u so much for testimony woman of God,we are really helped
Your personal experience does not invalidate the Word of God. I quite agree that some of our practices in the church are not biblical.
Please go back to your first love for - Jesus, Jesus died to save mankind from eternal damnation. That you don’t pray again is not too good, please teach your children the bible and pray for lost souls and continue to give to the needy.
God bless you
Right advice. Continue going to Baptist Church and believe more that Jesus Christ died for you and forget your bitter experience with rccg. Daddy GO and his wife will one day face the true God they serve if such a respectful man old be caring with all integrity but hear all tey are acquiring on earth today and the children of the man who handed the church of God to him could be neglected until when one man cried out on behalf of those children. So SAD INDEED. Mama GO is a sacred today even the children of Pa Akindayomi worshiped her. VERY VERY SAD INDEED. We shall all give accounts of our deeds on this earth. BUT PLEASE, DON'T LEAVE GOD. HE CREATED YOU BUT DON'T BELUEVE ON ANY MAN AS PER YOUR LIFE'S EXPERIENCING AT RCCG.
God has blessed you beyond cause my sister. I was moved to tears. But my joy after the whole experience was that you sought medical help when you had infertility issue. If you had not done that, what would have been your gain today. I do not want to imagine losing your husband without children!!!