NICE vs KIND ‼️

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024
  • Let’s talk about the difference between being kind and being nice.
    Being nice means being polite, agreeable, and pleasant. It’s about keeping the peace and making others feel comfortable. But sometimes, being nice can lead to neglecting your own needs or letting others take advantage of you.
    Being kind, on the other hand, comes from the heart. It’s about genuine care and compassion. Kindness isn’t about avoiding conflict or being liked, it’s about doing what’s right, even when it’s hard. A kind person knows how to set boundaries and doesn’t let others walk all over them.
    So, how can you make sure no one takes your kindness for weakness?
    1. Set boundaries: Being kind doesn’t mean saying yes to everything. Know when to stand firm.
    2. Be intentional: Don’t act out of guilt or fear of rejection. Kindness should come from a place of strength, not obligation.
    3. Practice self-respect: The more you value yourself, the less likely others are to misuse your kindness.
    And for those who take advantage of others, whether they’re kind or nice, ask yourself:
    • Why do you feel the need to manipulate or exploit?
    • How would it feel if someone did the same to you?
    • Instead, try practicing gratitude and empathy. Treat others the way you’d want to be treated-it’s better for everyone in the long run.
    Let’s normalize being kind and strong, and let’s respect the energy and care that others give. Together, we can create a world where kindness thrives without being taken for granted.
    #KindnessNotWeakness #Empathy #PersonalGrowth #honorthyself #honorthyselfcommunity
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Комментарии • 21

  • @Gomba13
    @Gomba13 14 дней назад +1

    The worst is when people demand that I’m nice. That’s when the gloves come off and I make them regret.

  • @Gmelonhead
    @Gmelonhead 14 дней назад +1

    Kindness has no bounds. Even when you have different lifestyles, you can still be kind,this is a whole new mindset.
    You can still state your mind. It’s not confrontational but they KNOW how you stand. It’s up to them to decide,whether to be congenial or not. They know how you stand.
    You are still you.

    • @Honorthyself
      @Honorthyself  12 дней назад

      @@Gmelonhead This is so true. ✨✨✨

  • @Honorthyself
    @Honorthyself  15 дней назад +2

    The ending 🤣 I’m being serious but funny. It’s humor but real. I never take kindness for weakness. I don’t put nothing past anyone. I respect everyone.

    • @NezterBedford
      @NezterBedford 14 дней назад

      Because you are a good caring person and loving being!☀ Keep your blessing with all you have!✨ Pure, pleasant and polite🌹💎

    • @Honorthyself
      @Honorthyself  12 дней назад +1

      @@NezterBedford thank you so much

    • @NezterBedford
      @NezterBedford 12 дней назад

      @@Honorthyself You are welcome so much pretty sunshine ☀🌻

  • @johnboxingp4pthebest23
    @johnboxingp4pthebest23 15 дней назад

    Great video

  • @NezterBedford
    @NezterBedford 14 дней назад +1

    Ecclesiastes 1:18 says, "For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow." Yes, etymology of the original meaning of words will shock us, yet still possibly help in our life's experiences. History isn't hidden anymore!! Old English will be a shocker to many once studied and learned. Origin of the word "nice" derives from latin "not know or ignorant", and old French "stupid." People of the "New World" are innocent victims of New-age spells. Had to share!😇 Love your content, Honor Thyself🌻🌷🌺

  • @essence3438
    @essence3438 15 дней назад +1

    Nice is low frequency. People will be so nice then later blame EVERYONE for them doing what they didn't like. 🥴.
    I'm nice to strangers in the store, working a job, finessing the system... I'm NICE! 😅

  • @Me-tb8rs
    @Me-tb8rs 10 дней назад

    0 lies detected. Happy to be kind, I definitely used to be nice❤

  • @essence3438
    @essence3438 15 дней назад

    I prefer to be considerate over kind.

  • @essence3438
    @essence3438 15 дней назад +1

    Nice can be super fake...period!

  • @essence3438
    @essence3438 15 дней назад

    You ate and left NO CRUMBS! I don't have any desire to be nice!

  • @Jamesjr-jo6ir
    @Jamesjr-jo6ir 15 дней назад

    My kindness is not weakness. I’m working on people pleasing.

  • @TheBlackKakashi
    @TheBlackKakashi 8 дней назад

    I know I’m nice but I don’t really care about the validation anymore tbh

  • @ladislav-galgoczi
    @ladislav-galgoczi 14 дней назад

    Towards attractive guy cause thats how i feel as woman =being nice
    towards average guy in the same situation and same circumstances cause as a woman im just pity of him =being kind

  • @matthewforte5341
    @matthewforte5341 12 дней назад

    One thing that irritates me about the nice guy discussion is women will say they're just acting said way to hopefully get action. As opposed to the guys who do the same thing a different way women happen to find attractive being treated otherwise.
    Personally I enjoy being polite but women enjoy being treated poorly because they simply are of poor character. Women generalized us.
    Here's one for ladies. Your silence regarding all the negativity men face speaks even for those who consider themselves good women. As men walk away the only thing that matters is you could prove it wrong. The question is will you, and how?