I needed this. I'm trying my best to not be in the same room with a classmate of mine who i once became very close friends with- too close that I developed something for her- but the day she started avoiding me instead of moving forward as friends~ I started removing myself from any place she's in and likewise ignoring her too- i think that i'm an eyesore for her so I remove myself in these situations and also started ignoring her too like how she did to me. Just realized that I'm spending all this energy and attention in avoiding her instead of ceasing to think about her and moving on myself.
I needed this. I'm trying my best to not be in the same room with a classmate of mine who i once became very close friends with- too close that I developed something for her- but the day she started avoiding me instead of moving forward as friends~ I started removing myself from any place she's in and likewise ignoring her too- i think that i'm an eyesore for her so I remove myself in these situations and also started ignoring her too like how she did to me. Just realized that I'm spending all this energy and attention in avoiding her instead of ceasing to think about her and moving on myself.
It sounds like you're on the right track. Keep focusing on yourself and you will feel much better!
Wow, this came up at the PERFECT time. Going to a halloween party where my ex will be. Wasnt looking foward to it but hopefully this helps
Hope you have a great time 😊