@@user-fq5wq6bs6u Why would an ace go hooking up on grindr anyway? I met someone who claimed to be demisexual after failing to get hard during our meeting. He said he wanted to develop a “connection” with me first. 🤨 I found it very creepy and rude and said this isn’t going to work and sent him home. He wasted both our time!
@@duane_313 Im sorry for your bad experience. the answer is feeling lonely and not being sure about what you want. I assume that part of your disatisfaction is because of your conception of what the app should do. it is like a food delivery but with sex. great. sadly, that is not how a lot of people's sexuality work and everyone needs to know it with an experience so they are sure. my first sex experience was basically what you described with a guy I talked to 40 minutes before we met. I wouldn't describe it as awful, just that I didn't feel literally anything sexual related. Before this I got sure that sex was not the only thing that he was searching for, so we became friends even tho our main idea of meeting without even knowing ourselves a little bit wasn't the best. also, I don't understand why you use the word "claim". that makes me think that a; you don't believe that demisexual people exist and you take that reject personally. or b; I lack context and there is something sus about that dude.
It’s not the app, humans are the issue. Stop thinking it can do something you can’t, it’s a tool how you use it and how you deal with the path you choose is the only things that matter when online dating.
@@hisokadajoka6469 Pretending like Grindr isn't the easiest way for gay people to meet in a lot of places, and that it doesn't contribute to the problem of how we find relationships, is just disingenuous.
@@hisokadajoka6469 I mean, that's not necessarily true. I've met a lot of people on Grindr, including my current boyfriend, that I've treated well and who have been nice and friendly to me in turn, though being a dating (read hookup) app it doesn't really encourage that kind of interaction.
@@boianko ok I am missing something with u. Bro what are u saying cause if this is your current comment then why come at me. I am saying the APP isn’t t the issue how we treat each other is, I also have a post about finding my 9 years bf on Grindr. So we seem to be on the same page yet your not seeing that. I feel you all come on here the air your feelings and you don’t read what a person is saying. Stop projecting yourself or the way other treat you onto every post you don’t get. STFU 🤫 IS ASLO A GOOD THING TO DO.
Honestly I feel like a total eunuch not doing anything like hook ups and stuff but honestly I feel like I also avoid so much drama and bullshit not giving those apps the time of day lol
Omg so accurate 😂 I did this with one of my Grindr hookup but only with Pokémons and he texted his friend why the hell I’m so obsessed with pokemon 😭 💀
The starting part very accurate but that ending part pretty much never happens. The end result is usually a hookup where they might talk to you a little bit afterwards or they're quick to leave. Then you don't hear from them again.
My first ever Grindr hook up, and the one I lost my virginity to, was an exception. I slept at his place the first night. We romped a bit the next morning. We hooked up several more times throught the next few months. He then moved back home and we didn't keep in touch. So nice to have a fwb, but haven't had one since and that was five years ago.
It was a bit different when Grindr started out. Us middle-aged guys answered the door naked and started going at it before the door was even closed. Afterward we both thanked the guy who invented Dial-a-Man and THEN we started getting cute together.
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When 2 bottoms meet each other
But is grindr so bad to let 2 bottoms meet unintentionally ?
that happened to me as an ace with a bottom
@@holger_p not at all Just kidding in fact its kinda funny and friendly
@@user-fq5wq6bs6u Why would an ace go hooking up on grindr anyway? I met someone who claimed to be demisexual after failing to get hard during our meeting. He said he wanted to develop a “connection” with me first. 🤨 I found it very creepy and rude and said this isn’t going to work and sent him home. He wasted both our time!
@@duane_313 Im sorry for your bad experience.
the answer is feeling lonely and not being sure about what you want. I assume that part of your disatisfaction is because of your conception of what the app should do.
it is like a food delivery but with sex. great. sadly, that is not how a lot of people's sexuality work and everyone needs to know it with an experience so they are sure.
my first sex experience was basically what you described with a guy I talked to 40 minutes before we met. I wouldn't describe it as awful, just that I didn't feel literally anything sexual related.
Before this I got sure that sex was not the only thing that he was searching for, so we became friends even tho our main idea of meeting without even knowing ourselves a little bit wasn't the best.
also, I don't understand why you use the word "claim". that makes me think that a; you don't believe that demisexual people exist and you take that reject personally. or b; I lack context and there is something sus about that dude.
The straight-acting at first and then later on go full gay for me 😂
Yup lol
LOL
U like that bruh?
Ew
@@StreamHypeBoyByNewJeans Respect?
And to think when I was that age I had to answer an ad in the paper via mail and wait. LOL.
I remember it as well....also the personal ads..remember?
@digitalsoldier2795 we prefer the term Elder Gays. ;-)
@Digital Soldier you're gonna get there too, dick.
@Digital Soldier All hail the great Tithonus lol.
Middle age gay here. We had Craigslist and email! Sooo much "faster" and still a snail's pace compared to now. Lololol
“so he’s like me”
💀💀💀🤣
@@mesaphooo5284 he's avg size tbh
@@mesaphooo5284 is he the one that do it while sit in chair? Or the spiderman? I forgot
@@blizzardjm he's average size but he's a Latino so plus. 😂
@@mesaphooo5284Latinos are very passionate in bed.
My bf and I started just like this…..9 years ago!😂
Ugh another “grindr success story”. Grindr has ruined gay culture
@@jasonscott4366 this sounds like ur alone and mad. Why would you leave this comment? Kinda disrespectful don’t you think.
@@hisokadajoka6469 lol the dude that replied to you is just jealous
My 9 year anniversary was on Valentine's Day!
@@artieche9congratulations!!!
I want that college jock
Me2
You need Jesus
@@mesmereized and you need a brain and 2 years of critical thinking learning.
@@mesmereized you need mhtnl hhlp. There is no jesus, chltist
Awww I wish I had a good experience from Grindr like this.
It’s not the app, humans are the issue. Stop thinking it can do something you can’t, it’s a tool how you use it and how you deal with the path you choose is the only things that matter when online dating.
@@hisokadajoka6469 Pretending like Grindr isn't the easiest way for gay people to meet in a lot of places, and that it doesn't contribute to the problem of how we find relationships, is just disingenuous.
@@boianko because where you meet someone, is how you treat them. Meet on Grindr treat like crap…..
@@hisokadajoka6469 I mean, that's not necessarily true. I've met a lot of people on Grindr, including my current boyfriend, that I've treated well and who have been nice and friendly to me in turn, though being a dating (read hookup) app it doesn't really encourage that kind of interaction.
@@boianko ok I am missing something with u. Bro what are u saying cause if this is your current comment then why come at me. I am saying the APP isn’t t the issue how we treat each other is, I also have a post about finding my 9 years bf on Grindr. So we seem to be on the same page yet your not seeing that. I feel you all come on here the air your feelings and you don’t read what a person is saying. Stop projecting yourself or the way other treat you onto every post you don’t get. STFU 🤫 IS ASLO A GOOD THING TO DO.
We don't introduce each other here or talk. We simply go into the bedroom 😂
#south
haha
Ew. Sl**
Fuck now talk later
Sometimes we don’t even leave the doorway.
ngl these are the type of friendships that lasts
"Heyyyyyy how are youu, hope you're doing fi-"
*Gets absolutely demolished*
"So what's your favorite type of Pasta?"
No matter if DL college jock is a bit underpowered. Hot, hot, hot!
No choking hazards🫨
@@campervanbug7658 💀💀💀
Did you take your meds today grandpa
@@mesmereized present your 🍤
@@mesmereized weirdo. Shush
Love it. Injecting reality into online fantasies. LOL
Honestly I feel like a total eunuch not doing anything like hook ups and stuff but honestly I feel like I also avoid so much drama and bullshit not giving those apps the time of day lol
It's sad how many gay guys constantly have something in their butt and don't do anything else. It's like their whole personality
That's pretty accurate!. We all start with straight faces and a short introduction
Lol so true sometimes, I usually go out for coffee or something
the white shirt boy have our brazilian way of act
When two queens meet up
I have never felt so attacked in my life
I feel ATTACKED rn.... 😂
I’m feeling so attacked 😂
Bring back cruising in parks, cottages and outdoor spaces, before there was any Grindr. So glad to have grown up then.
Honestly, from some of the bad dates I’ve been on, this looks like a lot of fun.
Clarification: when 2 bottoms meet on grindr
idk if it's happen in almost every country 😅
aww that’s so sweet
What's sweet about gossiping about other people and making fun of their size? Gross
Omg so accurate 😂 I did this with one of my Grindr hookup but only with Pokémons and he texted his friend why the hell I’m so obsessed with pokemon 😭 💀
Every time 😂😂😂 I swear.
That's why a group of bottoms >1 is called a Slander 😂
I met my husband on grindr… 😂❤ this is funny
I go boyfriends, jobs, new apartment, & ... & ... All from Grindr.
@@ak5659 you jealous? Shush
Cute conversation
Your co-star got you with the adlib punch line. 😁
Love the end! I'll take him! 💙
Lmao. Has never happened to me
so he's like me 😂😂😂
'So he's like me' 😅 Lemme tell you something between me and you. He's not 🤫
Two queens ha finally 😂👍🥰🥰🥰🥰
Are you really talking about Grindr? THAT Grindr?This looks like a LOT more fun than any Grindr date I've ever had. 🤔😉
😂 been there... done there...
If I can expect friends then sign me up
I use to do that when the bulletin boards were the way to meet guys before main internet.
Omg it’s meme lol
That's the best kind. 😂 Then we have snacks later.
So wholesome!
Dating apps, Tiktok and OF have messed up the market, mhm
Im pretty sure that just is the market now lol
I can’t lol 😂
"Então ele é igual à mim" hahahahah essa me pegou desprevenido 😂😂
Oh I'm dying! 😂
Man, that's so not how my grindr dates go, lol. Ngl, I kinda wish it was though some times.
Lmfao when two bottoms meet 😂
Who is the guy with glasses? 😍🤤
Awww. He thinks he knows what grindr is. Adorable.
Luke is so adorable and I think this may have been the first time I heard his actual voice ❤
That looks like a great first date. LOL
When I was on grinder if I started talking about other guys or grinder to the person that was my signal I wasn’t that interested lol
Relate much🤣😅
LOL !! Smile !! Friends !! Together !!
Silly, Chris. 😂
That's so adorable ❤️
🌞☺️😋🏳️🌈💋🏳️🌈💋🏳️🌈🇮🇶✋🏻
I wish most of them were actually like this!
The starting part very accurate but that ending part pretty much never happens. The end result is usually a hookup where they might talk to you a little bit afterwards or they're quick to leave. Then you don't hear from them again.
What the ending a;ways happens to me. We just be going through grindr together 😂😂
@@amirriddleWhere do you live?
My first ever Grindr hook up, and the one I lost my virginity to, was an exception. I slept at his place the first night. We romped a bit the next morning. We hooked up several more times throught the next few months. He then moved back home and we didn't keep in touch. So nice to have a fwb, but haven't had one since and that was five years ago.
When your ex's are involved with eachother and find out over dinner. Small town hook-ups.
Sigh I totally miss some of my Grindr buds 😂
Very fun how it turned out 💓
😂😂😂😂😂 so true
You guys are so cute!
Hmmm I just drop to my knees. Maybe I should start getting paid
I really love your channel along!😘👍👌🤙
Ugh... i... i feel attacked... 😂
i love this lmaooo
i can relate to this because we're both bottoms 😂😂😂
The "Marites" Type. I love it HAHAHAHAHA
Gossip guurrllsss
"come with me"
That tracks
LoL Mines is different I guess...because we went straight knocking boots💀💀😭
Exactly! Then afterward we got all cute....
Depends on the vibe!
Not the "so he's like me" 😂😅
In reality grindr dates kinda suck… in more ways than one
Waiting for 2nd Round haha 😆, with Snacks
Everytime I ask:- What to do now? 😂😂
Love this ❤😂
Most bottom guys say their vers. I'm a top guy but I tell everyone I'm vers 😂
🌞☺️😍😋💋🏳️🌈❤️🏳️🌈💐🇮🇶✋🏻
I would love to have a cutie boyfriend who’s a total strict bottom or who has a 🤏🏻🍤
🌞☺️🥰😋🏳️🌈😋🏳️🌈😋💐🇮🇶✋🏻
Bro I’m right here
So true haha
More like how 2 bottoms go on a Grindr date. I would never be that chill with a top in my house. ❤
So fkn accurate 😭😭😭😭
Love them boys been boys talking
Usually they end awkwardly after you reject their offers for sex or a fast relationship.
Yes, exactly.
even if you had a good talk
Sounds depressing
I love this so much
This is so wholesome!
Especially the body shaming part. It warms my heart.
@@gregap8282 hahaha. Red Flag alert!
Besti😂
It was a bit different when Grindr started out. Us middle-aged guys answered the door naked and started going at it before the door was even closed. Afterward we both thanked the guy who invented Dial-a-Man and THEN we started getting cute together.
Who said they also didn’t do that? We only saw the beginning and end to be fair…
it's giving top for top vibes 🤭
Making fun of other people is not the vibe you thought it was
He’s so cute ❤
Totally nailed it 😂😂
Oh the fact that I instantly recognized Mr. Mememimo from twt 🗿💀😭😭😭😭
Both are beautiful! ❤
hahaha i thought it would be different 😅. the same acts like here, discreet in first impression then afterwards hahah 😂.
the 1 in the black shirt is adorable 😍😊
As a guy you should know how mean that is
I would not mind these dates if I’m honest.
Better than what I would normally get…
Why is this so accurate??? 😭😭😭😭
Because that's really how it is 😂😂😂😂😂 before I transitioned I met so many guys that ended in a whole different vision than I imagined it to be 😅😅😅
This is funny haha