Gem Of A Parenting Tip From Sudha Murty
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- Опубликовано: 27 авг 2020
- How Sudha Murty convinced her son to not host a birthday party at a 5-star hotel. She was speaking at an event organised by Mumbai’s Jamnabai Narsee International School in 2017. You can check out their channel here at: / @jamnabainarsee
I am happy that people like sudha murthy are sharing parenting tips, I think parenting should be taught.
@@str0027 very true, u know what hate about today's parenting, is the misuse of word "respect". in name of respect they stop u from asking questions. i think parenting class should be made by govt.. 2 classes per month is perfect. good and well-informed parents will make a progressive society thus solving the majority of the nation's problems.
@@str0027 yup u r right parental class should be mandatory. I'm a 26 yr old man, i consider my parents quite respectful towards me, but still i have problems talking to them about sensitive topics like this. and in my friends circle most guys can't ask simple questions to there parents. I can't imagine how tougher it will be for girls, thanks to patriarchy and gender discrimination.
the thing is even if children wants to commute with parents in equal plane, most parents don't appreciate. I don't know maybe there ego hurts, or maybe it's hard for them listen that they are some things that they can improve or they don't want to lose power over their children....i don't know, its sucks
and for children who are comfortable with not asking questions....i have a very good theory why they are ok😉...
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@Sumeet P I pity your knowledge and awareness level..Are you from India or not ...
She set an example! Don't argue or scold your child, reason with them! They understand reason! And talk and communicate. One of the million reason I love this lady for😇
Very true..😊
Exactly
Golden things that give our children are sanskar
U r absolutely right mam...
Honestly even I feel the same...now a days this is the biggest problem with parents...that they don't communicate with their children and doesn't try to make them understand the importance of life and values,morals,ethics...
And at the end they blame their children if they get spoiled or doesn't come upto there expectations..
Whose fault is this???
It is the parents who can teach each life lessons to their children so that they can become perfect person in coming future and reflect the grt thoughts and ideologies together....
@Sumeet P abe tere ko kya problem hai??? Mein kisi se bhi baat karu ya rply du...tu bata na tere parents kitni baat karte the tujhse jo tu itna faltu hai ke dusaro ki baatoo mein beech mein rply de raha hai...😂😂😎😎🧐🧐
Sudha Murthy is one among Abdul Kalam, and Ratan Tata, who have no haters. Huge respect!
Cgj
Now a days, if you're not connected to some leading political party, your seat for presidency is hopeless.
I saw many people in this comment section who hate them for rubbish reasons like they have succeeded lot more then these great people
Absolutely Agree
Everyone has haters. One can’t please everyone.
Its too much of an expectation to not have any..
"You cannot live with other's opinion"
Best line.
"Log kya kahenge? " is the biggest question our parents generation worries. There are many negative effects that this worry causes to next generations' life
Really true
Sabse bada Rog kya kahenge log 😂
N they (parents)also force us to think beta...log kya kahenge.... I hate it... Arre log bhi aajkal samne nhi bolte kuch... N bolte h toh bole.... I don't care
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According to their value they do accountable to other's life.. let them think. These are all false value which shouldn't carry in Next GENERATION !! Cut off
Can you believe how simple she is despite being a billionaire.. 😊 Huge Respect ❤️
thats rarer than finding a sample of tanzanite (1000x rarer than diamonds)
Very true..the actual question is we think it's difficult to be simple... Just the Ikigai way of life will take us ahead
agreee yr
She's a billionaire ? 👀
She is Uncomparable,,,,she is only one,,,,,no other one in the world,.
Just because your father has money or I have money you don’t become extraordinary- Sudha Murty what a great learning
"I'm a very ordinary person but the situation made me great"
@Sumeet P maybe she doesn't care how she comes across as
Sumeet P she’s the first woman in her time to get a job in tata. She has a postgraduate degree. She’s a lecturer irrespective of Mr. Murthy. She has the ability to survive without anyone’s help. Murthy is successful because of Sudha and it’s vice versa. Do not belittle anyone.
@Sumeet P try getting into IISc first like how she did. may be you will see through her sacrifices done.
@Sumeet P How can you say the stories she wrote are useless . Even NCERT publishing her stories in the English subject for children .
@Sumeet P If she is an underachiever than almost every person in the world is underachiever. She topped her class, she got job before marrying, she is a lecturer, an author. Just because she is a wife of a billionaire, she is useless? I don't understand your logic. She is doinh fine on her own, also her story is not useless, it is good to teach your kids that just because you parents or you are rich, this doesn't make you great or superior to anyone.
I love her so much. I am reading her "Three thousand stitches" these days.
Howz it?
@@jagrutijadhav4580 it's a good book.....you should read it too
Very nice@@jagrutijadhav4580
I read all the books of sudha murthy
I am currently on dollar bahu
@@DrRuchikaGargGynaecologist Doller bahu is a very good book.
The line " I'm a very ordinary person, but the situation made me great " is great moral value for all of us
"Every mother care for their own child but my mother also care for someone else's child too" Golden quotes by your son ❤Dr Sudha Murthy Ji. Huge respect.
If everyone had her principles,imagine the world would be so beautiful and life much easier..
If you have piles of wealth behind you. Everyone is Aristotle. As she says situations and environment made us rich, poor, Intelligent, lazy and what not
Nature runs on equilibrium, the nicest persons are always counter balanced by the some not so nice persons.... if everyone turns bad or everyone turns good... people will stop having emotions... emotions occur in those crests and troughs of life and that to me is beautiful.
If everyone had her principles they would end up having a son like her who is a failure :-)
@@jonron3805 he is not a failure. Check facts first.
@@sowmyagangahanumaiah4310 A person who has unhappy relations, has not made any personal successes and who never worked independently- if you think such a person is successful then thats your choice. In my opinion a person who neither has a good personal life and is financially working in the shadows of his parents is not much of a success.
In Sikhism there is a concept of donating(better word is Sharing) 10% of your monthly income called "Daswand" .
eg . If a person earns rs. 1000/month , he must spend rs.100 helping others.
Good
I will donte 7,600 from now
Thank God my parents raised us like this. Our domestic helper eats with us on the same table, in the same plate and same food. She wears same clothes and accessories like us. She's not less. Infact we might be lesser than her if we think of ourselves as somebody superior.
This is such a good comment!!!
Read her book "wise and otherwise"
It's full of stories of her life and around her life,you will respect her even more.
Thank u
Three thousand Stitches penned by M'am is also a great read
@@jayashreemahadevan7020 ok.thanks👍🏻
@@jayashreemahadevan7020 i agree its a great book
@@jayashreemahadevan7020 ya it's really very good
She is a Queen with a invisible crown💖💫💥👏 every child needs to be raised the way she raised her sons💯💘👏👏
Sudha Murthy should be the country's next president!
Absolutely
Nope, she should become Prime Minister.
Unmesh should also be country's next president after Sudha Murthy, Sonam wangchuk...
President is too much for her. Let's say 'A very generous woman who gives importance to people as much as for money '.
@Sumeet P ohh as if your modi achieved a lot
337 people thumbed it down May they spend their birthday in a 5 star hotel. We are too ordinary in front of Sudha ma'am.
I went in a mall for shopping. my daughter cried to buy your book when she was in sixth class . I didnot know why she was crying .But after listening of your speech I knew. what great person you are . You convey your message in simple language .I will try to brought up my daughters like you.
What an absolute gem of a person. Hope she lives a healthy and happy life
I have treated my maid in this manner - she would sit & eat at our dining table & was treated like a person who has come to work for money ( just like anyone else including me). But , sadly , she failed to remain respectful. This has happened with other maids also. If you treat them with respect & good behaviour they think that you are a soft person & start taking advantage & being rude & very indecent . I have realised that being very offcial & maintaining a distance is the best way to deal with these people . Sadly there is a class jealousy which becomes evident most of the times. If you get some one decent you are lucky .
Yes you are right. I have seen this too. But at least your conscience is clear. And you can always hire another worker.
@@trisha5477 you are really very lucky to have got a decent human being as a maid . The harsh reality is that most of them come from financially very poor backgrounds where the struggle to survive & obtain food & earn a livelihood is very acute. Also, often there is a lack of moral development as these people grow up in non life serving situations where survival by any means , whether foul or crooked , is paramount , & the end result justifies the means , and most of them do not have a healthy , decent up bringing . I have realised this the very hard way as I have been forced to employ ayahs from Centres to look after my infant, being a working mother , and had to face huge problems as ours is a nuclear family with no grand parents alive on either side of our family
If ur father has money nd ur mother has money it doesn't mean u r extraordinary. ......👍👍👌👌
I'm glad to share that my mother too used to give us reasonable options to decide what we had to do.She would let my brother and me figure out and decide upon taking small small decisions when we were in school.
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I deeply love her ideologies! Deepest respect.
She is a true feminist, liberalist and women's activist, one who does not give in to the idea of toxic feminism and fake liberalism. Really, women to look up to...lots of respect.
Totally agree that she is a strong and unique lady.. But here she haven't talked anything about equality or feminism. So there is no use of stating like that
And I can't understand what you mean by toxic feminism.. Nowadays every other person in social media speaks about toxic feminism..which I think is not toxic(except some who comes to take feminism in a very wrong way)
indeed True !!
@@muhammedrazi7991 I think what he means is that she is an educated strong woman meanwhile upholding family values and not advocating for complex toxic theories....
@@tromboner6061 If a women is not educated and strong it doesnt mean they are toxic feminists, they coudnt get a chance to be educated etc
@@muhammedrazi7991 I know. I didn't say what u r thinking
She s a great human being.... I saw lots of her admirers in Bangalore..... Everyone respects her in Karnataka
I love and respect her very much.
Sudha Murthy has the BEST books! And she is a gem of a person, I love her!💖
She is a role model that our generation loves to follow
Most valuable things that parents can cultivate in their children's are good values. Parenting style have a significant impact on the individual's personality. Democratic parenting have developed great minds and souls.
other than parenting I think society and friends all of those factors also play a key role
Sister, I have seen and Listened to your SPEECH to School Students and Parents, at Bombay in U Tube. After leaving the Village SCHOOL and Hard working Parents Life Disciplined me for Engineering Service as a Soldier's Life under the Able Guidance Ex PM Indira Gandhi to develop in TECHNICAL, DESIGN & CONSULTANCY to Self SUFFICIENT and Develop Advance SYSTEMS. How you explained proper PARENTING / BROUGHTUP
She is an eg. of true altruism 🙏
Blown by her immaculate personality
I’m super impressed by her.. Such simplicity and positive personality she has..👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻
How can people dislike this great thing she shared with us. Poor mentality may be.
This is what being true Indian mean
A heart of gold, full of values, looking at people as a god's soul and thinking of helping less fortunate. 🙏
Nothing could have been better than this video being watched as the first one in morning! Love 💓 and respect to such a powerful undermined leader of India 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Right saumya
Beautiful comment mam🙏
@Sumeet P she is not just a wife of a biilionaire, she has worked as hard as Narayan Murthiji.
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An adorable speech given by an adorable lady.i wish there were more women like her then the world would have been a better place.
In nutshell, the thoughts of Sudha Murtyji are extraordinary!!
She looks like Amma...
We Bangladeshis also call Amma or Ma to our mothers...
Long live Amma...
Salam,Love and best wishes to so simple virtuous family...
The Amma she calls is the Kannada language's Amma.
Creating Equality in the society we live...is a noble value 😊 Each child should be groomed like this 👌 Yes, values change with time...but good values in childhood reflect 🤗
Women with Great thoughts.....Each word from her means a lot .....
Its a great feeling when people who we dont know or never seen touch our hearts. Salute to women like her who keep india great still
Very Amazed after listening your speech ...MashaAllah if every mother is like this then this world will be a heaven......
How simply she explained her son his place among the crowd... I'm ordinary (and so are you). To become a great parent, you have to be a great person first, and Sudha Murthy is a living example of it. Thanks for sharing this gem of a video.
Madam I thought of spending a lot of money on my children's birthdays and felt ashamed of it. Hats off to you.This kind of humbleness could come only to a truly learned person. In this world where people are so much after money and show off, your kind of people are rare.
Philanthropist can't be a politician. If it does, then it's an exception.
Great values, thoughts, necessities are all built & cherished in the space of Kindness & compassion.
Great exemplary Sudha Murthy is all about simplicity, purity & kindness🙏
We have been brain washed to tell our kids “you are very special, everything you do is amazing” to make them confident and here is a legend saying that you should tell your kids that they are ordinary. Only if we can believe we are ordinary, we can tell that to children I think.
There has to be a fine balance between the two. Telling the children that they are special also does wonders with their confidence. But yes knowing when to say what makes parenting the toughest job out there.
Well but everyone is rare so saying there ordinary doesn't help them
Well said
Well whatever she did she has a son of a failure in life. He has not succeeded in achieving anything but work for his father. Even there his achievements are not at par. So whatever she has done did not work on her son.
@@jonron3805 Well, the definition of "failure in life" it depends on one's priorities. She wanted to cultivate giving nature and not to be over consumed by your wealth, according to the example she gave (sending money to soldiers on his birthday), she succeeded. Just because someone isn't at par with their parents or anyone to that matter doesn't make them a failure. To some, being content with self is a success, to some, being rich or increasing their property by many folds is success.
World really needs to realize this✨
No lol if U have money then just have fun with it🤭👋
@@Gamingmonkey254 so i am saying world invludes you also!!
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True amma, the most important thing to give to our children is values, and that too, not merely by words. You live it and demonstrate it.....thats what helps children imbibe it. My solutions to you...as a person and as a mother. You are yet another treasure in our country
Mind blowing...what an inspiring personality sudha maa...God bless her with lots of happiness...You deserve more respect & position in civil society..
She is amazing ..so grounded and down-to-earth lady!!❤️
She always inspires Us...Thank you so much for uploading.
South India produces gems... One was APJ Abdul Kalam, another is she.. We from other parts of India really learn many things from South India..
Excellent parenting tips every mother should know. A humble lady with great thinking. You are very great mam!
She's really an amazing lady ..... And after watching her podcast I went 💥🤯.....very positive , very calm person
I HOPE EVERY KID AND ESPECIALLY THOSE GOING TO AMBANI SCHOOL OR THE OTHER HIGH MAINTENANCE SCHOOLS SEES THIS VIDEO.....AND MOST IMPORTANTANTLY THEIR PARENT !!
SUDHA MURTHY YOUR SPEECH BOUGHT TEARS IN MY EYES..
YOU ARE TRULY THE RICHEST PERSON' IN THE WORLD AND THE BEST MOM !!!!
Salute to Sudha Murthy jee . Noble thinking and doing 🙏🙏
Great person with great thought.
हम उस देश के निवासी है जहा सुधा मूर्ति रहती है .
When you speak, i remember my Father's words during child hood... "Sharing" happiness... be it money or anything :) He is no more... but his thoughts are always there with me deep inside.. your speech brought tears :-(
There should be a compulsory parenting course from people like her to every India which would guide next gen to be the best.
After hearing these words I am Happy that I am bringing up my kid in right way 😊
"You cannot live in people's opinion"
Spot on
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She should be karnataka chief minister
No India's President
Hi... ನನ್ನ channel ಗೆ ಒಂದು ಭೇಟಿ ಕೊಡಿ plz😊..
@Sumeet P what she has done? You know how many devadasis she has helped you know how many social service she has done you dumbo dont speak without knowing facts , she is not famous because of murthy surname she is famous because of her work dedication towards bringing change in society ppl like you are getting multiplied thn who shud be chief minister according to you ? She is the perfect eligible candidate for woman CM of karnataka!!!
@Sumeet P if sudha murthy becomes CM she will be the most dedicated , uncorrupt CM who creates a healthy society and bring harmony among ppl
@Sumeet P Manmohan singh was puppet of Sonia if she joins BJP she will be independent at least we can trust her and dont worry people like sudha murthy won't even enter dirty politics, it was my personal opinion that she should be CM of karnataka
Only respect and huge admiration to you and your work mam!
Simple human being with richest mind and common sense!! With love ❤and respect to philanthropist Sudha Murty ,the ideal Indian mother, best regards from an ordinary,but happy and humble Indian Mum in UK. Utterly agree with her Philosophy.
I was taught this recently and I wasn't genuinely not very happy.
But this article engraved a different mindset in my head.
It's my birthday today and what a great coincidence that this video dropped just now. Lot to learn from the great lady. Respect✔️🌸
This values provided by a great scholar is very valuable to all parents and children, so look over the money we spend in bday party which come every year..
She reminds me of my parents. They always cared for other people's children.
I being a mother am very impressed with your parenting tip. Please share more ma'am.
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My teacher shared this same video captioning 'Must watch'
Same. My teacher also shared it to us on our group.
Super
Same
Sudha mam is really extraordinary woman ...so simple ...best lesson to learn from her
I have a huge respect for you, mam 🙏. Hope we as parents can inculcate good values in our children 😊
Absolutely my thoughts. Great lady who has her feet firmly embedded on the grassroots of values.
I really salute...her 🙏 ..if she would be a teacher during my parents school time..I would not have to take this much effort to make my parents understand me..
Legends grow up to mountains, but behaves down to earth, huge respect!
Sudha Murti mam has Brilliant storytelling capacity.
God bless you. I had tears in my eyes while watching this..........
I salute you mother ,😊
It's your karmas who have resulted to rishi sunak.. Huge respect.
My mother taught me and my siblings to share our food with anyone who is hungry whether be it at school or neighbor.....and always help those in need....
Fact:She is a billionaire yet doesn't show off
Really🤩🤩🤩
Yes nowadays even small business men showoff..hats off to her..she is like a motherly figure
I will surely show this to my mother and to my children hopefully in the next 20 years ! This shows how a gem of of a person she is!
We need more parents to inculcate such values in their kids❤️
Huge Respect Maam .You are a gem What is there to dislike in video .
May live the longest. God bless you. I had tears in my eyes while watching this ♥️
what she is teaching is social responsibility. Serving ourselves isn't bad. We earn, we spend on ourselves, it's not a bad thing at all. But she's saying that when we have surplus after meeting all our needs, whether we are using that amount to help someone in need or not.
That's the message.
Spending 50K on ur birthday just because u can isn't bad. If you have the amount,you can surely spend it. But doing that in front of people who have minimum of the amenities doesn't show a good example.
I have met her many times and can vouch that she is the same- simple, relatable, and talkative. A beautiful storyteller. Much respect to Mrs. Murthy.
She is the finest writter..n my fav...very great lady...every mother should be like her n son like her...
such a gem and proud to say she is from my town.
"You cannot live on people 's opinion
You have to live on your own opinion. "
Waw... Great👏👏👍 that's why mother is the first Guru of a child
Mom is best teacher ... you are True legend madam
I want see this man biography.. Definitely it's inspiring everyone am really proud am from where sudha murthi stay..
Great mother spreading wisdom to son and all of us.. You are true assert of India mam👏👏
Mam you are mother of India to us and new generations to come and everytime we learn something extraordinary from you
Wow ❤ Great Tips🥰
Hi sir.....
I simply love this lady.❤️
Let them think wt they think... Solid true values 😘🥰😍Sudamma👣👏👏
LOVE YOU MOTHER...AMMA WE LOVE YOU.
BHARAT IS STILL GREAT BECAUSE OF MOTHERS LIKE YOU.
PRANAMS PRANAMS PRANAMS.
Love her books . Her books are the only books /novel which make me interested to read My favourite one is HOW I TAUGHT MY GRANDMOTHER TO READ....❤️❤️🔥❤️
Please read three thousand stitches and it'll become your new favourite 😊