Speak for yourself. In these days and times you need 10 years. As loose as these women are undiagnosed mental illness . Their history matter. Gotta see how they move in these streets. Add kids possible divorce financial debt money issues...if a woman can't wait 10 yrs she ain't worth it. Marriage ain't even worth what it's used to be or supposed to be
We have social media celebrities these days, they need their personal drama to sell things coz their lack of talent and lack of hard work aint doing it
That's not true she has had cosmetic surgery like everybody else did.Which is cool.Everybody has got something to say about someone.What Nelly is doing or has done men do all the time.Have a good day.
@@bettyhoward643 noted ,it is In general more difficult for women in the entertainment industry and corporate world to find themselves because the type of fellow men / guys out there and their views on women an how they feel women should be treated
Yes Ashanti does value herself and hoping all of us women do the same and have moved on. BUT we all make mistakes in life. We were all younger at one point and we made mistakes. And when we were younger there was a time, that we never thought about a committed/ marriage relationship, we dated, but our minds were on careers, school, family, etc, etc and just still young at heart and enjoying life. So I do hope they get back together. Lets not pretend some of us have never been there, because we have and thats life. But one thing, True Love Never Leaves and if so, it will pull you back TOGETHER. Nelly is a good man. Men make mistakes and "HECK" women make mistakes to. Everytime a couple breaks up it is always the men faults, but dont forget women has faults to. HECK, I made a mistake 8 years ago when I was younger and I truely loved my partner. He moved on. However "True Love" bought us back together and as of today we are back together and have been for 2 years and now getting married. And he definitely was and is the first man I realized how it felt to be in love. No matter who you moved on with that true love you hold inside and pretending you are so over it all will not last. But again we mature as time goes on. So again we all make/made mistakes . Nelly and Ashanti .. Together Again 😁💖✌
@@rgw1380rw Exactly...marriage is something that people feel they "have" to do...an obligation...but what happened to actually LOVING the person? I direct your attention to Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell. They've been together almost 40 years, not married, STILL together. There is nothing wrong with marriage but there is something wrong with people thinking that marriage is better than just being in a relationship. A marriage is simply a relationship on paper....a lifetime commitment to each other but you can still have that without marriage.
@@ingridj7070 I always tell people that marriage is nothing more than signing a business contract that usually leaves someone in debt to the other. You are correct about a couple being together for decades with signing that contract 🤓👍🏾!
@@rgw1380rwThx! 🙂 Yes you are correct about that. I won't say that all people get married because they feel they HAVE to but to some it is the beginning of a new chapter, new life. Goldie Hawn said the reason why she has not married Kurt is because she would have been long divorced by now.
I still can’t get over how he nearly ran over ppl to get to Ashanti during the versus he can’t even stay faithful in a relationship why would that change when married
Lesson ladies....Men don't talk about marrying anyone, they marry someone! Actions! Keep letting the talkers tickle your ears! It don't take that long especially if the woman is sane nowadays!
It depends. If someone takes along time getting a career sometimes they might not want to bring someone in their financial woes or in this case off and on shouldn't get married thats unstable
@@crystalvouse6435 Someone working on their career and don't have time for a relationship isn't whom the post was for! It's for ppl whom make their mouths try to string someone along w/relationship talk when they don't want a functional relationship! Tickling ears!
@@michaelmckenzie6311 right I was just giving an example of why a couple may not get married after 10 years .. and for Nelly and ashanti they both cheated on each other
@lisa winslow my question to you is would you rather be an ashanti or a delishis yeah got the ring but her husband is now filing for divorce . Leaving her ass after one year. For me I rather a Nelly at least he realize he wasn't ready for the commitment. Don't marry me if your not truly ready to then humiliate and then divorce me a year or two later. . Thats just embarrassing and traumatic
They had a low profile breakup. Neither one had diarrhea of the mouth during or after their breakup. That's very mature and classy compared to most celebrity relationship breakups.
Embarrassment on her part and why would he blow his spot up saying he cheated? Neither one of them want one another, I mean they did not even speak after the breakup for 7 years nor did they see one another. They could have but they didn't neither one of them.
....so basically Nelly is saying he already knows he can't be in a committed marriage so he just rather stay single....well if u can't commit to a wife he damn sure won't be faithful to a "girlfriend"
Well all I can say is at least he’s honest somewhat, but you don’t have to be a hoe either I’m talking about Nelly. Didn’t they say raped a woman. Ashanti did right by moving on.
Nelly says marriage is something he takes seriously...wanting to do it just once but will cheat/betray and not take his relationships seriously ?? Crazy stuff 👎🏽
Not as good as he and Miss Jackson looked. They were a couple, couple and I liked them together. She has the same and different reasons for their break up she only let it ride 7 years. Remember when Nelly was confessing his crush on Beyonce even brought her some Popeyes LMAO!! That was his first choice he just didn't have her as a option LOL.
We need to stop teaching our sons that they should only respect a piece of paper given by this worldly government and not the woman who is opening up her mind, body, and soul to him. Smh. Men like him irk my soul.
Nelly and Ashanti will get back together. As we grow we all mature. They will fine love again for each other. Ashanti and Nelly, they were a powerful couple. And it will be happening again. 💝✌️
Miss Pisces.. I agree with you. Nelly and Ashati were a powerful couple. We as women and men have all made mistakes in life, but as we grow we learn and become better. So that being said, I wish Nelly and Shanti would get back together. They still have love for each other and they were and would still be a powerful couple. Just like we are waitng for Babyface and Toni to get together. Now that would definitely be a dynamite couple. 😁✌🏾💘
Ashanti and Nelly I believe they still have feelings for each other 10 years in a relationship believe me they still care they make a beautiful couple.
Yes I agree Ashanti and Nelly still have love for each other. In life we have all made mistakes and we learn from our mistakes. We have all been there and we learn to become better. Men make mistakes and even women make mistakes. When we were all younger our minds were not settled regarding relationships. We were all dating. So the past us the past and hope Ashanti and Nelly get back together. They were and would still be "A POWERFUL COUPLE" . Wish they would stop making us wait and get back together. Just like. I wish Bayface and Toni would stop making us wait. ✌🏾💖💖😁
Do you ever go back to the trash that you left out on the street to dig back through it for things that you should take back into the house? (This is assuming that you don't have a clinical hoarding disorder, of course.) I don't. Neither should Ashanti.
Ashanti has moved on she ain’t thinking about Nelly. Nelly is not marriage material check his track record. Plus he has sex allegations against him. See maybe he needs to think about getting married and staying out of trouble. Be loyal to someone
Growing up I always viewed Nelly as a bozo & never liked his music. I never got into his & Ashanti’s relationship, I just knew they were a couple. Years later, once I heard they split, I didn’t even know it was a question as to why. I assumed her “Braveheart” album was based on him & the healing she did from that relationship. Once a woman does the healing work, they do not go back.
Your comment is spot on I left a over 10 yr relationship and I been alone now almost 3 yrs it feels amazing I healed and I'm just chilling loving the single life
Kevin Samuels said a man knows if he will marry a woman within 6 months of being in a relationship. To play house without being married for 5-10 years is very costly especially for a woman. A woman at a certain age have difficulty conceiving a child but a man can impregnate a woman when he’s 60 years old. Ashanti dated Nelly for 10 years wish was a waste. She’s now 40 years old and hopefully she won’t have a problem conceiving if she wants to settle down one day and have a family .
@@Kishagirl70 He's a twice divorced, opinionated, father of 1 daughter, jacka$$ who prides himself on being an eligible "high value man" who's currently "dating" young women who are '8's or better". So basically, he's not currently in a happy marriage and has been divorced twice, but somehow now has all of the answers for marriage. 🙄😒
I agree. Everyone has their own timeline. I got engaged after 18 years with mine boyfriend, but we met when I was 15 and he was 18. I think getting married after 30 is better for guys. That's enough time to get the player out. We are still going strong too.
Belly probably cried when he saw Ashanti step out in that blue dress at Joe's bday party..thats how you get sweet revenge without even trying! Let him watch your milkshake "BRING ALL THE DAMN BOYS TO THE YARD"! 😂😂😂😂😂including him!! You lose!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣BELLY 😂😂GOOD NAME FOR HIM..BELLY, SOMETHING ASHANTI DOES NOT HAVE..NOT EVEN A LITLLE BIT!! SORRY NELLY BELLY BUT WHEN SHE STEPPED OUT THAT CAR YOUR KNESS FELT LIKE JELLY...FO RELLLLLLLLLLLLY😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ashanti is such a beautiful soul and a Libra like myself. Once I’m over someone they will NEVER see me again. Like actually, so Fat Joe bringing out Nelly would’ve shocked me too. I saw Ashanti live on the millennium tour 2021. She looks good, owns her own label, owns her masters (sorta complicated cuz of Irv’s hater self), and she puts herself first. Ashanti travels, experiences other cultures, she’s just so down to earth. I love seeing women living their best lives honestly. Grew up watching Ashanti she’s a smart woman!
Correction: Nelly actually dated Lashontae before Shantel Jackson. The word on the curb is that he started seeing Lashontae during the end of his on again, off again relationship with Ashanti.
I think Nelly has grown a lot. The entertainment business is a lot to handle not making excuses. I think this time the love and the respect will be stronger
Well fast forward to today They are back together again and happier than ever buying expensive gifts for each other and are so in love lol I think he's gonna marry her this time e
Nelly dont smile the same with her as he does with Ashanti...he look in a trance or daze in every pic with that other lady..he smile so bright with Ashanti, he glows with her, just beautiful 💜💯
Why would u wish for a Disrespectful/Cheating/UNHEALTHY relationship to continue? 🤔 The even SADDER part is that you're are Female that's requesting & praising this 😳😳😳😳😳... YIKES!!! ... #CLUELESS #Embarrassing
Did you watch the video? The relationship was toxic and very unhealthy. Why would you want them back together because they look good together what does that even mean. It’s obvious looks could be deceiving
Hey. near 7:00 but... Verzuz is usually highly promoted prior to... she didn't know 'Nelly' might be 1 of FJ's guest performers? Insiders usually have access the public doesn't have. perhaps...
If any man says he isn't into marriage or doesn't believe in it run. Especially if you know that's what you want in the future. He can continue to say this and for some reason every woman who steps in a man's life we feel we can make a difference . Smh these men know what they want and they don't see that future with you. It be all fun and games. Yall don't be loyal but expect a woman to be and to still have your back after the fact. But now trust has been broken and thats a hard one to repair.
Life is funny! You never know. Ben and JLO. I just love those two together! Friends first, honesty always & have each other back no matter what. Only they know we are just looking in from the outside.
It's always best to never look back once the door is close. You can't move forward if you keep looking back...She don't need him. A zebra could never remove his stripes..
Two people who are not married and having sex with each other are going to have God at the forefront of their relationship? You all kill me with how you cherry pick what to follow from the Bible.
That will be one bad ass reunion!!! They were always a great couple!! The heart is something that doesn't get played with or hurt and that is what Nelly did. Some pain is not worth reliving.
Thank God 🙏🏿 Idgaf about the whole marriage thing.. I'm just not into it.. 🤷🏿♀️ it's always best to date someone that's like minded ❤️❤️ even if it's just you ❤️❤️..
Well it cleared up why they really broke up..2 Beautiful women and he cheated on both..Nelly crazy with his fine self..maybe 1 day he will calm down but those 2 move on ladies..you deserve better..
She is a beautiful and seemed very intelligent young lady! I hope she doesn't ever take him back. It's unfortunate to say but there are very few men who act and live their lives the way that he does and can actually change.. not to say that he can't change but very few men can change
I hate click bate videos- so taky!! Anyways... Although some men get cold feet at marriage, I strongly doubt that the reason that Nelly and Ashanti split was cause he didn't wanna marry her. There's a catch to every story that's for sure and no one knows but Ashanti and Nelly exclusively what was the main target.
Cute couple. If they can be together and respect each other, then cool. But if he does not even imagine her being a wife, then don't waste her time with an illusion.
It’s not my business what came between Ashanti & Nelly I know I wanted them back together permanently when Nelly was with Shantell Jackson I wrote a comment saying Ms. Jackson wasn’t for Nelly I wanted him & Ashanti back together. Thank God my prayers were answered
That ship has sailed. These 10 year relationships and 5 year engagements make no sense to me. If it takes that long, someone has doubt. When you both know, you know.🤷🏾♀️
We've all been through that at least once from an immature partner, a commitment phob... No I don't think that she will torture herself again. I think that 5 year gambit was a deal breaker for her...if nothing else was the 💔 breaker
I'm suprised she stayed that long,because he got a little we we,she wasted her own time,with that one,no wonder she doesn't want him back ,she is on to bigger and better things,
It don't look small to me, or I am not consumed by po*nographic illusion of what big is. From my real-life experience, I would take it with no complaint but that's just me.
I wish they would get back together and make it last forever! See this was made BEFORE the irv gotti interview and Ashanti & Nelly reuniting on stage performing together! Their chemistry is out of this world! Nelly needs to grow up and put a ring on it!!
Nelly is too scared to commit to marriage..Since, his parents divorced..He will stay with a women but will not marry them..So, if you want more don't get with Nelly .
I’ve always thought Ashanti is one of the most naturally beautiful women out there.
I agree
@@mimiactivities8536 💯
I think they make a nice couple, if it is meant to be it will be
@@deborahafrazier776 💯
I sooo agree 😊
It took me 6 months to know I wanted to marry my wife, 1 year to propose. Grown men with intentions to marry a woman don't take 10 years.
Speak for yourself. In these days and times you need 10 years. As loose as these women are undiagnosed mental illness . Their history matter. Gotta see how they move in these streets. Add kids possible divorce financial debt money issues...if a woman can't wait 10 yrs she ain't worth it. Marriage ain't even worth what it's used to be or supposed to be
SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE LITTLE BOYS IN THE BACK!! 👏👏
Amen! 👏🏾
True
Thank you!!!
He lost a GREAT ONE..SHE GETS FINER & BETTER WIT TIME SHIIIT
I was just getting ready to write the samething! Ashanti is badd!!!
Ashanti Is A Boss💯💯💯✅✅✅
She keeps her personal life on 🔒
A lot of people needs too take 📝
Kim and Kanye need to take note 📝.
Are you listening, will and Jada⁉️🤔
Not her vigina🤦🏾♂️
True
We have social media celebrities these days, they need their personal drama to sell things coz their lack of talent and lack of hard work aint doing it
Nelly STILL crushing on ASHANTI she STILL looks THE SAME as She did Back Then🥰
That's not true she has had cosmetic surgery like everybody else did.Which is cool.Everybody has got something to say about someone.What Nelly is doing or has done men do all the time.Have a good day.
Hmm
Sounds like a HIT DOG
ROOF ROOF 😂🤣
@@pamelagarner954 She did not have surgery!
@@pamelagarner954 she's a Natural woman.
I'm happy Ashanti moved on ,10 years is too looong to be with someone and then they betray you,People are either a lesson or a blessing....💔💔
I agree 🎯🎯🎯
lesson or blesson Dat part literally.
@@elkboy180 Yep.,Most people are a lesson..just watch what they actually do..Love,Peace and Blessings...
There's a blessing in every lesson.
@@Wernerwoman1 yep .😄
Ashanti values herself & knows her worth. She moved on & there’s no turning back #periodtt‼️💯
That's what I like about her 💯👌🏿
Took her ten years though
@@bettyhoward643 noted ,it is In general more difficult for women in the entertainment industry and corporate world to find themselves because the type of fellow men / guys out there and their views on women an how they feel women should be treated
BAMMM👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
The Damn Truth 4REAL‼️‼️‼️
Yes Ashanti does value herself and hoping all of us women do the same and have moved on. BUT we all make mistakes in life. We were all younger at one point and we made mistakes. And when we were younger there was a time, that we never thought about a committed/ marriage relationship, we dated, but our minds were on careers, school, family, etc, etc and just still young at heart and enjoying life. So I do hope they get back together. Lets not pretend some of us have never been there, because we have and thats life. But one thing, True Love Never Leaves and if so, it will pull you back TOGETHER. Nelly is a good man. Men make mistakes and "HECK" women make mistakes to. Everytime a couple breaks up it is always the men faults, but dont forget women has faults to. HECK, I made a mistake 8 years ago when I was younger and I truely loved my partner. He moved on. However "True Love" bought us back together and as of today we are back together and have been for 2 years and now getting married. And he definitely was and is the first man I realized how it felt to be in love. No matter who you moved on with that true love you hold inside and pretending you are so over it all will not last. But again we mature as time goes on. So again we all make/made mistakes .
Nelly and Ashanti ..
Together Again
😁💖✌
10 years with no ring, no that’s too long to drag a person. Either you want to marry them or you dont. Ashanti, hats off to you.
Yes because married people are happier
@@ingridj7070 That's what people would like to believe.
@@rgw1380rw Exactly...marriage is something that people feel they "have" to do...an obligation...but what happened to actually LOVING the person? I direct your attention to Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell. They've been together almost 40 years, not married, STILL together. There is nothing wrong with marriage but there is something wrong with people thinking that marriage is better than just being in a relationship. A marriage is simply a relationship on paper....a lifetime commitment to each other but you can still have that without marriage.
@@ingridj7070 I always tell people that marriage is nothing more than signing a business contract that usually leaves someone in debt to the other. You are correct about a couple being together for decades with signing that contract 🤓👍🏾!
@@rgw1380rwThx! 🙂 Yes you are correct about that. I won't say that all people get married because they feel they HAVE to but to some it is the beginning of a new chapter, new life. Goldie Hawn said the reason why she has not married Kurt is because she would have been long divorced by now.
Ashanti did the RIGHT thing. Let sleeping dogs,lie😳
I agree
I come from the future to let you know that the two (according to Ashanti) are "talking"... It looks like they'll be back
😆😇
I still can’t get over how he nearly ran over ppl to get to Ashanti during the versus he can’t even stay faithful in a relationship why would that change when married
So basically she thought he was going to be faithful to her after cheating on Ashanti with her lol what goes around comes around
Nelly is for the streets. Leave that woman’s peace alone. She’s been there, done that, why revisit a cheater.
💯👏🏿
Ashanti is not innocent she been with other men. She is a harlot too.
Lmao and he likes these basic looking white girls lol
😂😂😂😂Right ✅️
True he didn't marry the other girlfriend either and she left him too
Lesson ladies....Men don't talk about marrying anyone, they marry someone! Actions! Keep letting the talkers tickle your ears! It don't take that long especially if the woman is sane nowadays!
It depends. If someone takes along time getting a career sometimes they might not want to bring someone in their financial woes or in this case off and on shouldn't get married thats unstable
@@crystalvouse6435 Someone working on their career and don't have time for a relationship isn't whom the post was for! It's for ppl whom make their mouths try to string someone along w/relationship talk when they don't want a functional relationship! Tickling ears!
@@michaelmckenzie6311 right I was just giving an example of why a couple may not get married after 10 years .. and for Nelly and ashanti they both cheated on each other
@@crystalvouse6435 Understood!
@lisa winslow my question to you is would you rather be an ashanti or a delishis yeah got the ring but her husband is now filing for divorce . Leaving her ass after one year. For me I rather a Nelly at least he realize he wasn't ready for the commitment. Don't marry me if your not truly ready to then humiliate and then divorce me a year or two later. . Thats just embarrassing and traumatic
They had a low profile breakup. Neither one had diarrhea of the mouth during or after their breakup. That's very mature and classy compared to most celebrity relationship breakups.
Embarrassment on her part and why would he blow his spot up saying he cheated? Neither one of them want one another, I mean they did not even speak after the breakup for 7 years nor did they see one another. They could have but they didn't neither one of them.
Ashanti is good where she's at. No loyalty in the relationship is enough for anyone to call it quits.
....so basically Nelly is saying he already knows he can't be in a committed marriage so he just rather stay single....well if u can't commit to a wife he damn sure won't be faithful to a "girlfriend"
Well all I can say is at least he’s honest somewhat, but you don’t have to be a hoe either I’m talking about Nelly. Didn’t they say raped a woman. Ashanti did right by moving on.
Facts on FACTS
That PART!!!
Nelly says marriage is something he takes seriously...wanting to do it just once but will cheat/betray and not take his relationships seriously ?? Crazy stuff 👎🏽
I'm pretty sure that being a wealthy public figure makes it kind of hard to pass up on plenty "P" being offered to you.
@@rgw1380rw I believe self control, maturity and respect would change that thinking.
@@Divinescalling888 huh? Is that what is going to be said in this video??
@@Divinescalling888 huh
TYPICAL BLAQ MALE
An unfaithful man is an unfaithful man. Shantell got that Ashanti treatment! But Ashanti and Nelly did look good together and I was rooting for them!
We ALL was rooting for them, how could they! Tyra Banks voice😂🤣
Very good looking
Wow. Their names are too similar. 😬
Exactly he cheat on ashanti with her what did she expect
Not as good as he and Miss Jackson looked. They were a couple, couple and I liked them together. She has the same and different reasons for their break up she only let it ride 7 years. Remember when Nelly was confessing his crush on Beyonce even brought her some Popeyes LMAO!! That was his first choice he just didn't have her as a option LOL.
He a whole fool for this one! She look better than back then ... glowing nd shii 💯🖤
They were cute together however she seems happier in her current relationship so i am happy for her. Nelly loss , Ashanti has to do whats best for her
@Tiffany Moore That’s what I’m tryna figure out 😂
Who she with?
Flo'rida
That’s good that she has a whole happy relationship with the person that she’s currently with.....
That new guy won't marry her.
Ashanti,
you deserve Sooooo much more!!
Why?
I would love to see them together again. I believe they can make it. They are older and wiser💯on that❤️❤️
They actually back together now
They were such a gorgeous couple and would of had a beautiful baby😭🥰🤔. Wish them both the best. I've always thought they were very talented. 🙌🏾
Ashanti is a Boss.. probably still love him but I hope she realizes going backwards would be a big mistake
Never good to back track.
@@missmarya747 Ben and JLo did just that😉
Such a cute couple. I wish them the best in their current situations.
Yes they was
They are BOTH GORGEOUS!
I loved them together!
They are both good looking people...but he knew he was not going to marry her and he totally wasted her time.
We need to stop teaching our sons that they should only respect a piece of paper given by this worldly government and not the woman who is opening up her mind, body, and soul to him. Smh. Men like him irk my soul.
Agreed
Sis needs to keep on doing her thing and being at peace
Nelly and Ashanti will get back together. As we grow we all mature. They will fine love again for each other. Ashanti and Nelly, they were a powerful couple. And it will be happening again.
💝✌️
And did 🎉❤❤❤ your comment aged well
They were so good looking togheter
Miss Pisces..
I agree with you. Nelly and Ashati were a powerful couple. We as women and men have all made mistakes in life, but as we grow we learn and become better.
So that being said, I wish Nelly and Shanti would get back together. They still have love for each other and they were and would still be a powerful couple. Just like we are waitng for Babyface and Toni to get together. Now that would definitely be a dynamite couple.
😁✌🏾💘
Ashanti and Nelly I believe they still have feelings for each other 10 years in a relationship believe me they still care they make a beautiful couple.
Yes I agree Ashanti and Nelly still have love for each other. In life we have all made mistakes and we learn from our mistakes. We have all been there and we learn to become better. Men make mistakes and even women make mistakes. When we were all younger our minds were not settled regarding relationships. We were all dating. So the past us the past and hope Ashanti and Nelly get back together. They were and would still be "A POWERFUL COUPLE" . Wish they would stop making us wait and get back together. Just like. I wish Bayface and Toni would stop making us wait.
✌🏾💖💖😁
Do you ever go back to the trash that you left out on the street to dig back through it for things that you should take back into the house? (This is assuming that you don't have a clinical hoarding disorder, of course.)
I don't.
Neither should Ashanti.
Ashanti has moved on she ain’t thinking about Nelly. Nelly is not marriage material check his track record. Plus he has sex allegations against him. See maybe he needs to think about getting married and staying out of trouble. Be loyal to someone
Growing up I always viewed Nelly as a bozo & never liked his music. I never got into his & Ashanti’s relationship, I just knew they were a couple. Years later, once I heard they split, I didn’t even know it was a question as to why. I assumed her “Braveheart” album was based on him & the healing she did from that relationship. Once a woman does the healing work, they do not go back.
Oh ok
🗣Preach!
Your comment is spot on I left a over 10 yr relationship and I been alone now almost 3 yrs it feels amazing I healed and I'm just chilling loving the single life
So true
well they’re reconciling now.
Ashanti is over him frfr
Kevin Samuels said a man knows if he will marry a woman within 6 months of being in a relationship. To play house without being married for 5-10 years is very costly especially for a woman. A woman at a certain age have difficulty conceiving a child but a man can impregnate a woman when he’s 60 years old. Ashanti dated Nelly for 10 years wish was a waste. She’s now 40 years old and hopefully she won’t have a problem conceiving if she wants to settle down one day and have a family .
It’s crazy that ppl quote Kevin Samuels and he has never once said he was in a healthy relationship or marriage.
You lost me at KS but I still read on. Hey, you can learn a lot from a dummy
@@Kishagirl70 exactly, ain't that some shit! :)
@@Kishagirl70 He's a twice divorced, opinionated, father of 1 daughter, jacka$$ who prides himself on being an eligible "high value man" who's currently "dating" young women who are '8's or better". So basically, he's not currently in a happy marriage and has been divorced twice, but somehow now has all of the answers for marriage. 🙄😒
@@Kishagirl70 say it again for that person in the back
She’s gorgeous and super sweet.
but can't sing for shit and can't dance
They made a GREAT couple. I loved the 2gether. I wish they would have gotten married & had beautiful kids together.
Engaged my 9th year of being together. Married the10th 1998. Still going strong. It depends on where you are in life with the person.
Congratulations
I agree. Everyone has their own timeline. I got engaged after 18 years with mine boyfriend, but we met when I was 15 and he was 18. I think getting married after 30 is better for guys. That's enough time to get the player out. We are still going strong too.
They did not met in high school like you might have
If you're like 16 then 10 yrs make sense. But if you're 30, 10 yrs. make no sense.
I didn’t know they were together for ten YEARS!
@Zajmeddda Allahofusno 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Like Wow. 😮
Me too i did not Know
Nelly still loves Ashanti and no doubt Ashanti still loves Nelly. Hope they get back together. 💝✌🏾
She need to tell Nelly kick rock and do it moving he'll never be faithful
Belly probably cried when he saw Ashanti step out in that blue dress at Joe's bday party..thats how you get sweet revenge without even trying! Let him watch your milkshake "BRING ALL THE DAMN BOYS TO THE YARD"! 😂😂😂😂😂including him!! You lose!!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣BELLY 😂😂GOOD NAME FOR HIM..BELLY, SOMETHING ASHANTI DOES NOT HAVE..NOT EVEN A LITLLE BIT!! SORRY NELLY BELLY BUT WHEN SHE STEPPED OUT THAT CAR YOUR KNESS FELT LIKE JELLY...FO RELLLLLLLLLLLLY😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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They should go for it.they still love each other. And anyone can see it.
Ashanti is such a beautiful soul and a Libra like myself. Once I’m over someone they will NEVER see me again. Like actually, so Fat Joe bringing out Nelly would’ve shocked me too.
I saw Ashanti live on the millennium tour 2021. She looks good, owns her own label, owns her masters (sorta complicated cuz of Irv’s hater self), and she puts herself first. Ashanti travels, experiences other cultures, she’s just so down to earth. I love seeing women living their best lives honestly. Grew up watching Ashanti she’s a smart woman!
I had a huge crush on Nelly in his Hay Day & I was jealous of he & Ashanti's union. But I have to admit, they were a great looking couple. 👩🏽♥️👨🏽
Nelly and Ashanti is a powerful compatibility
Correction: Nelly actually dated Lashontae before Shantel Jackson. The word on the curb is that he started seeing Lashontae during the end of his on again, off again relationship with Ashanti.
And she just got kicked to the curb by Buffalo Bill's wide receiver Steffan Diggs
@@gangsaretheblackkkk6291 Tae heckard can't catch a break.
He was the fool.he had it all.now he crying go somewhere . Black men who be bless lose everything lol
What you don’t “ appreciate “ will be taken away from you. That’s what’s really going on with BM now.
Ashanti is Classy af 💜💜💜💜💜
I think Nelly has grown a lot. The entertainment business is a lot to handle not making excuses. I think this time the love and the respect will be stronger
Grown?... Wasn't a sex tape just leaked?
@@mrstee7004 and supposedly that was Ashanti’s aunt in the video 😞
@@Yassss-rj9zf whaaaaaaaat
No
@@Yassss-rj9zf foreal 😳
I REALLY THOUGHT THAT THEY WOULD BE TOGETHER, WE DIDN'T WORRY OR THINK TO MUCH ABOUT IT .
I hope she keeps looking towards the future 🙏!! Never go backwards Ashanti.
Love Nelly 😘❤
They are great for each other because they understand the music world together; making time for each other; friends; and a long history 🥰💯🙏🏽
Nah, cheaters aren't great for anyone. 99% of the time they don't change.
Well fast forward to today They are back together again and happier than ever buying expensive gifts for each other and are so in love lol I think he's gonna marry her this time e
She's beautiful and he is so handsome, I thought that was a love ❤️ made in heaven. I'm still of fan of them both.
Nelly dont smile the same with her as he does with Ashanti...he look in a trance or daze in every pic with that other lady..he smile so bright with Ashanti, he glows with her, just beautiful 💜💯
Wish They were back together, beautiful Couple 💑 I always loved 😍 both of them ..
Why would u wish for a Disrespectful/Cheating/UNHEALTHY relationship to continue? 🤔
The even SADDER part is that you're are Female that's requesting & praising this 😳😳😳😳😳... YIKES!!! ...
#CLUELESS #Embarrassing
I do too, but without the cheating lying and etc. They both seem like good people.
Did you watch the video? The relationship was toxic and very unhealthy. Why would you want them back together because they look good together what does that even mean. It’s obvious looks could be deceiving
Hey.
near 7:00 but... Verzuz is usually highly promoted prior to... she didn't know 'Nelly' might be 1 of FJ's guest performers? Insiders usually have access the public doesn't have.
perhaps...
Ashanti and Nelly made a beautiful couple.
I feel how Nelly feels. I will only get married once and I'll go through hell and high water to make it work.
Am I the only one who doesn't want any Nelly new music 🤣
His duo's are AWESOME 😎.
Nelly’s life is a playa cautionary tale. He had one of the very best girls in the game ready to be with him for life but he messed it up.
If any man says he isn't into marriage or doesn't believe in it run. Especially if you know that's what you want in the future. He can continue to say this and for some reason every woman who steps in a man's life we feel we can make a difference . Smh these men know what they want and they don't see that future with you. It be all fun and games. Yall don't be loyal but expect a woman to be and to still have your back after the fact. But now trust has been broken and thats a hard one to repair.
Ashanti, don’t need to return to a cheating man! She doesn’t deserve it, no one does
I loved them as a couple!!!
She deserves better than him. I hope she stays head strong in that area.
Agreed
Life is funny! You never know. Ben and JLO. I just love those two together! Friends first, honesty always & have each other back no matter what. Only they know we are just looking in from the outside.
I'm extremely humbled by Steve Irungu Jermaine
It's always best to never look back once the door is close. You can't move forward if you keep looking back...She don't need him. A zebra could never remove his stripes..
Him and Ashanti was a beautiful couple wish he would of married her
I believe Nelly is afraid to Marry anyone!!!
If he is afraid we gotta give him credit. It is better to not marry then get married. And live like u single. He have respect for marriages.
Exactly 💯 He too scared to marry anyone I agree..
I don’t blame his look how the legal system pedestalize women on court
Blessings Ashanti is beautiful
I always though Ashanti was a naturally beautiful woman and I felt as if the two would keep God as their forefront they would definitely work out
Two people who are not married and having sex with each other are going to have God at the forefront of their relationship? You all kill me with how you cherry pick what to follow from the Bible.
Wow!! 10yrs of her life she can't get back but she is still beautiful, talented. I'm just sorry she wasted her time with that boy👦🏽
I thought they were a awesome couple. Good looking couple.
Now they're back together ❤
HAS NELLY PAID BACK THE ALLEGEDLY $500.000.00 THAT HE BORROWED FROM HER YEARS AGO???🤔🤔🤔🤔
Lol typical of blk woman trying to hold a man down
@@hoodlutalo3708 The same can be said about men holding women down.
Good question
That will be one bad ass reunion!!! They were always a great couple!! The heart is something that doesn't get played with or hurt and that is what Nelly did. Some pain is not worth reliving.
Aged well
Ashanti is A New Yorker and Now's her Worth and if she except him back he's going to have to EARN HER RESPECT, LOYALTY, AND HONOR FIRST 🥇
I think Ashanti and Nelly look good together. I really want to see the two marry. 👰🏽♀️🤵🏽♂️
A marriage for him will not work out if he cant be committed...
He should be on her DM's if he is smart... just low key win her trust back. If love is present anything is possible..look at Jlo and Ben
Nelly fucked up. Point Blank Period🤑
Great video and info! One critique: there’s a few lines being repeated. Be sure to edit! ☺️
Thank God 🙏🏿 Idgaf about the whole marriage thing.. I'm just not into it.. 🤷🏿♀️ it's always best to date someone that's like minded ❤️❤️ even if it's just you ❤️❤️..
Well it cleared up why they really broke up..2 Beautiful women and he cheated on both..Nelly crazy with his fine self..maybe 1 day he will calm down but those 2 move on ladies..you deserve better..
God bless them both i pray 🙏🏽 they get back together soon especially with music 🎶
They made a beautiful couple.
She is a beautiful and seemed very intelligent young lady! I hope she doesn't ever take him back. It's unfortunate to say but there are very few men who act and live their lives the way that he does and can actually change.. not to say that he can't change but very few men can change
I hate click bate videos- so taky!! Anyways... Although some men get cold feet at marriage, I strongly doubt that the reason that Nelly and Ashanti split was cause he didn't wanna marry her. There's a catch to every story that's for sure and no one knows but Ashanti and Nelly exclusively what was the main target.
Cute couple. If they can be together and respect each other, then cool. But if he does not even imagine her being a wife, then don't waste her time with an illusion.
Luv Ashanti. Stay strong
It’s not my business what came between Ashanti & Nelly I know I wanted them back together permanently when Nelly was with Shantell Jackson I wrote a comment saying Ms. Jackson wasn’t for Nelly I wanted him & Ashanti back together. Thank God my prayers were answered
That ship has sailed. These 10 year relationships and 5 year engagements make no sense to me. If it takes that long, someone has doubt. When you both know, you know.🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂 came from tiktok Nelly really in her dm
A man will waste your time if you let him 🥹
We've all been through that at least once from an immature partner, a commitment phob... No I don't think that she will torture herself again. I think that 5 year gambit was a deal breaker for her...if nothing else was the 💔 breaker
They were a cute couple...it's ashame they didn't make it work...Nelly needs to learn self control when it comes to being faithful in a relationship 😔
I'm suprised she stayed that long,because he got a little we we,she wasted her own time,with that one,no wonder she doesn't want him back ,she is on to bigger and better things,
It don't look small to me, or I am not consumed by po*nographic illusion of what big is. From my real-life experience, I would take it with no complaint but that's just me.
I wish they would get back together and make it last forever! See this was made BEFORE the irv gotti interview and Ashanti & Nelly reuniting on stage performing together! Their chemistry is out of this world! Nelly needs to grow up and put a ring on it!!
Nelly is too scared to commit to marriage..Since, his parents divorced..He will stay with a women but will not marry them..So, if you want more don't get with Nelly .