I never comment, but as an SA survivor, I have to say - Bris actions and response to her actions are so unbelievably disappointing and hurtful. Knowing she was was also assaulted (as she shared on Theo’s podcast), I’m having a hard time understanding the situation. Bri, please take some time to reflect and understand people’s feelings instead of being so defensive and mean spirited.
SA survivor as well, and i can see where she’s coming from. similar situation for me with hanging around older men at a young age and i have to say i would say the same thing to my younger self, don’t hang out with older men they’re creepy and statistically disgusting, not that it was my fault but definitely just advice to avoid situations like that. as for what she said about “but think about how your friend felt thinking you were dead” in response to grace, it was a little out of touch and i wish we knew how grace felt about it so we knew if we could feel a certain way. if grace felt as if it was inappropriate and insensitive then we can, but truly if grace has a relationship with her where they make little jokes or try to make light of horrible situations by saying stuff like that, then we have no reason to ridicule her for saying that ya know.
@@madirae9293I get where you are coming from….and from what she is saying here I get what she meant. But she should have said, this is what happened and what I meant….I am sorry for how it came off instead of blaming the podcast viewers for not initially understanding her. For listeners who don’t know the context, who don’t listen to every episode or just see that segment…she has a responsibility to be really careful with the language she uses with that particular topic and it came off incredibly victim blaming. There are times people jump down her throat for no reason. This is not one of them.
@@madirae9293as someone whose been in a very similar situation as you listed you’ve been in, i can agree with you completely. I can definitely see where brianna was coming from as i also was a young girl hanging around older men, but than again, i do feel like bri could have expressed her opinion in a more politely or clear way, i can see where she’s coming from but i definitely think she could have worded this differently and more respectfully to survivors especially if she is one herself
brianna “everything i say is taken out of context” chickenfry strikes again girl we all saw both of the entire podcast segments. nothing was taken out of context
The constant gas lighting with Bri it’s always the peoples fault, they always hear her wrong and take things out of context.. blah blah. Also Grace said she’s staying out of it * Like girl perhaps you should think before you speak and take ACCOUNTABILITY.
What this should be called is “Brianna refuses to take accountability for the 5000th time and blames victims of sexual assault by telling them to *just run away*”
did we not watch the same pod? she only said for them to run away because it would be a better resolution than literally murdering your parents. she then said she didn’t know they attempted to run away and it didn’t work, she admitted to being uneducated in the situation. do you think anyone who gets sexually assaulted should just result to murder rather than finding other options? that’s what she was trying to imply because she said she wasn’t educated that they did try other options
@@madirae9293 people just listen to what they want to hear.. it's unreal. she literally said she was uneducated on the whole thing and people are still down her throat lol. like what more do you want?!
I mean she is just a random girl who watched a tv show without any prior knowledge of law don’t think she rly looked too much into it ( maybe she should have )
Bri…maybe just take accountability for what you said. Admit what you said was wrong…that will go over a lot better than saying everything was taken out of context and blaming everyone else. You lost a podcast listener in me. Disappointed Dave didn’t hold you accountable.
I’m just here because I’m glad Dave finally got an invite for the Eras tour. Happy for you Dave. I guarantee you won’t be breathing “dumb air” at the show.😂😂😂
Dave is capable of interviewing a presidential candidate. Bri-after her take with the Menendez brothers- absolutely not. She’s one of the worst influencers out there
people just genuinely can’t let people have their own opinion anymore. she didn’t know every intrinsic detail of the case and is simply giving her opinion on literally murdering someone in the context of what she knows about the brothers. a lot of people think that even in this case there were better options other than murdering ur parents, think about why the jury gave them the sentence. i do not believe they deserve the life sentence given their accusations against their parents, but i do think, even with their circumstances, they could have done something to take action before killing them. i understand they were young but the situation could’ve definitely been handled differently and they did still deserve some prison time.
@@brookevetter3845 her better solution was to “hire a hitman”. If she didn’t know even just the bare minimum of the details she shouldn’t have spoken on it. But instead she’s so unintelligent and just doesn’t care she based her opinion off of a Netflix show that was dramatized and not accurate. People can have their opinions but it says a lot about their character. Especially with how her take with gypsy rose was so different, she could’ve said the same thing to her but she didnt. So no if she can’t do the bare minimum research so has 0 business interviewing a presidential candidate.
I feel like even if it wasn’t what she meant, watching the podcast, that’s how it came off. Acting like everyone is too stupid to understand what she was really saying wasn’t the move. She didn’t say anything about being assaulted herself or like they both navigated the trauma….. she acted like Grace was there alone giving her a heart attack because she was off with 30 year old men being stupid. And she can’t expect every listener to know the story or the past context of what happened. Not everyone listens to every episode. This is the last BFF podcast I will watch until actual accountability is taken because the language that was used (even if it was by accident) was super harmful.
@@madirae9293they didn’t say the exact thing tho bri was the one saying they should have ran away and that there’s NO excuse for murder while grace disagreed with her and said that if what the boys said were true then the murder was justified in her eyes
@@madirae9293 they really didn’t say the same thing though, and even if they did, it’s a shitty thing to do to try to pull Grace in as well. It is a shitty thing to do to a friend.
Dave, this is why Taylor didn’t invite you to Miami: ‘I heard this story against my will, and it was forced down my throat.’ You know what else happened against someone’s will? Grace being sexually assaulted. Show some respect. Why do you protect Bri so much? She’s clueless, only cares about herself, never apologizes, and blames people for 'taking things out of context.' Girl, it’s your podcast, and those words came out of your mouth. Bri is insufferable. Once your toxic relationship ends, you’ll realize how alone you are because the people who supported you and valued your friendship now see your awful true colors
The way she IMMEDIATELY throws Grace under the bus, even though she didn’t even want to discuss the Menendez brothers originally. Bri hasn’t taken accountability for one singular wrong she’s ever done. Grow up and seek therapy
Briana is so out of touch, anytime ppl call her out for her lack of empathy she deflects and is just getting worse by the day grace needs to run far & fast
You cant just claim everything was out of context to avoid responsibility lol. What other context would be needed? Bri spoke on a situation she clearly didn't understand which she admitted herself to doing yet not one apology came out her mouth and she still tried to downplay it by saying the mom was a victim as well when she wasn't innocent either, then we have Dave in the back tryna breeze past it like what she said wasn't just plain ignorant. Then Bri spoke on another uncomfortable situation and again just handled it poorly which might be a little more understandable but no context was saving her statement which she probably didn't intend to victim blame but it definitely came out as such and again Dave downplaying and defending instead of holding her reckless statements accountable.
Or people just take her words out of context like she just said! There was zero wrong with what she said. I’m so over all the fuckin hate people have just bitching about everything and anything.
@@avshraderI actually agree. She affirmed to Grace that it wasn’t her fault. She was just telling their younger audience that unfortunately there are some terrible terrible people, so stick with your friends and don’t hang out with older men who very obviously have no good intentions when choosing to hang out with young females they have no business with. I didn’t think that sounded like victim blaming at all. More just reality of the situation. She also spoke on her own personal perspective of the situation, which was she and her friends were worried about grace.
Dave treating Graces sexual assault story like it’s an annoying story your friend overtells is WILD. Makes me question how innocent he really was when those business insider stories came out. To brush off sexual assault like that is sickening. Poor grace
No, there's a fucking difference between victim blaming & protecting yourself -- telling young girls to not hangout w a 30 yr old, is sound fucking advice -- bc it's letting girls know, if a 30yr old approaches you & tries to smooth talk you, not to engage & get away as quick as you can That's being fucking smart -- no, guys should not abuse women, women should not abuse men -- but that's not the world we live in -- it's good to learn how to protect yourself & know warning signs before it becomes too late
Bri should have just said she did not know enough about everything that went down with the menendez brothers and their parents and she shouldn’t have said her opinion based on watching a show. Also on the SA situation with grace, saying not to hangout with old men when you’re teenagers is sound advice but the way she said it did seem like she was victim blaming and you could tell grace felt hurt saying “it’s not my fault” Dave saying grace shoved the story down his throat is disgusting. You all have a big platform and should be more aware of things you guys say. And do your research before speaking on serious situations. Do better.
just a helpful tip; if you’re gonna make a podcast covering various topics, it would be in your best interest to actually know what happened. dave and josh not knowing what happened are obviously gonna believe bri’s watered down verison of it and take her side. as someone who has a podcast dedicated to pop culture news and who has watched the monsters series, bri should be well aware of the controversy surrounding the series for it’s lousy & inaccurate depiction of the brothers and their story. calling kitty menendez a victim just shows how uneducated she really is and should not be giving her two cents on a situation she doesn’t know AGAIN. kitty KNEW and did NOTHING to stop the abuse, and not only that, she also sexually abused lyle for many years so how DARE bri call her a victim. also nobody ever condoned their actions, but we empathise with them because they suffered horrific abuse at the hands of their own father and mother. ‘i didn’t know that’ is not gonna cut it, if you don’t know, then keep your mouth shut. yes, bri, you did victim blame not only the menendez brothers, but your best friend who was also sexually abused. the pain in that girl’s voice when she said ‘it wasn’t my fault’ for you to then CONTINUE. it’s not on the young girls, it’s on the older men NOT to do it. to not hang around with 16 year old girls. if you put this much energy into the predators and abusers none of this would have happened. bri, i would suggest you rewatch the clips, listen to why people are so upset and try to reflect instead of just a doubling down. josh & dave, i would suggest you know the topics you are covering before sitting down to do this podcast or just don’t participate.
Bri we are not upset that you said run away instead of murder. We are upset that you’re not acknowledging these boys were forced to give their Dad blow jobs at 5 years old and then raped from 5-adulthood. If someone endures that trauma it is not up to us to judge whether that makes you want to murder them. Their Mom knew about the rape and she allowed the boys to touch her breasts in bed. Please think about these things before judging someone for murdering. Yes it is wrong but it’s tone deaf not to try to understand what they went through. Especially if you’ve never experienced that.
I want to hear more from JOSH every ep! He is so chill and smart now, sitting on the purple couch with his own perspective on topics. Good listener + empathetic, too.
AS A 23 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO WORKS IN SPORTS (basketball and hockey) PREACH DAVE. We know we have to work holidays, extremely long days, and late late nights. DAVE WITH WISDOM
I’m a mom😂, so funny hearing you guys talk about moms in the beginning of the show,. I got pregnant at 19, gave birth at 20. Love watching this podcast, have been watching since before Bri even came on.
Love when Dave gets fired up🤣🤣 not the dumb air!!! Also Bri just live your life girl people hate to see you UP. And thanks Josh for the mom joke give us more!!!
@@brookebixler1040on an episode of PlanBri, she chose to speak about how Grace was SA’d as a 16 year old when Grace clearly wasn’t comfortable with it. She then proceeded to use grace’s trauma as a lesson for other 16 year olds and Grace had to yell “it wasn’t my fault” to which Bri said “it’s not your fault but think about how stressful it was for your friends like me who thought you were dead” She also decided to downplay the alleged SA of the Menendez brothers by saying “your mommy and daddy were mean to you” or something along those lines
Bri is too simple minded she's still youngish where her brain isn't fully formed yet so let's hope she learns from this instead of blowing it off like she normally does.
I can’t stand Bri she’s such a mean girl! As a Swifite I hate her! But what she did to Grace was even more despicable and disgusting. Shame on you Bri!
she tried to do something but just made herself sound worse. so you admit you’re ignorant about the situation yet u still decided to speak on it. kitty was NOT a victim, that just shows she’s still willfully ignorant. she also insinuated they killed their parents because their parents were “mean to them.” no, she didn’t insinuate it she straight up said it. as if rape and incest at the hands of your own father is just someone being mean to you and they’re sensitive for reacting that way. insane take. they could never make me like briana
I gave a thumbs up to every Mum comment. So nice to see that other Mums of all ages listen to the podcast, especially the ones that told their stories about having a kid in their 20’s💓
I absolutely hate the acceptability arguments. No matter what influencers say its going to be picked apart. Bri's not doing forced apologies is appreciated. The mama tot back and forth and brooke stuff....no matter what they say theyll be attacked. Learn and grow and apologize to the appropriate people in private imo
My dad’s a retired fireman. Worked Christmas, Thanksgiving, shoot I can’t even add up how many holidays. Life is hard sometimes it takes sacrifices for your career 🤷♀️ Love you Dave ❤
I think the issue with Bri is that she is tone def. Her implication within her statement on her podcast is why people are upset. Instead of saying what she said on this podcast like word for word “if she was a parent back then blah blah.. “ I feel like it would have been translated better but rather she implied that the victim should have known and done better and they didn’t. Instead of taking a moment to reflect on how her statement could have been perceived she got defensive. Like the big issue here at large is really the fact that she is an SA survivor herself that is tone def to other SA survivors.
Everyone's being the accountability police with everything Bri does and wonders why she's cold and defensive. There's been an entire hate page on her for over a year, and no matter what she does people have something to say. You can tell and she has shared she has significant trauma. PSA Everyone responds to trauma diffrently. You want her to show empathy you might want to look at yourself too.
Can we please make “dumb air” a weekly segment so Dave can just rip someone a new one every week. He is absolutely hilarious I couldn’t BREATHE
I died when he said that! Yes to the “dumb air” segment 🤣
YES
43 year old mom here! Thanks for the shout out Josh,Dave I love you!
Mom here and I love this pod lol thanks Josh for thinking of us 🙃
Loved the mug joke! Thanks for the mom shout Josh!!
Bri, the mom wasn’t a victim. She also SA one of the boys.
The trial is on CourtTv, free on RUclips. Lyle testified about what his mom would do.
RIGHT! She watched a show about it now she knows it all apparently. It’s actually so embarrassing
Everyone’s a victim. Shut up
@@naomichacon7667why do you hate watch them just go away
@@Viviana1caraveo yeah cause people never lie
That mom joke was gold… not a mom but still made me chuckle. The more I watch the more Josh’s Canada shows.
Dave saying grace shoves her story down his throat was disgusting they straight up bully her
grow a pair
Mom here! 🙋🏻♀️ i catch up on my pop culture with you guys while I do the dishes 😂
Same!
SAME ! lol
I am nursing my newborn while watching right now 🤣
@@ally9262 I absolutely love this for you!! 🤣👏🏼👏🏼
🙋🏻♀️
It’s so wild Bri can’t just say “maybe I shouldn’t have said that”
The mom was not a victim at all. She did not only enable the father's behavior but took part in abusing them as well.
I never comment, but as an SA survivor, I have to say - Bris actions and response to her actions are so unbelievably disappointing and hurtful. Knowing she was was also assaulted (as she shared on Theo’s podcast), I’m having a hard time understanding the situation. Bri, please take some time to reflect and understand people’s feelings instead of being so defensive and mean spirited.
SA survivor as well, and i can see where she’s coming from. similar situation for me with hanging around older men at a young age and i have to say i would say the same thing to my younger self, don’t hang out with older men they’re creepy and statistically disgusting, not that it was my fault but definitely just advice to avoid situations like that. as for what she said about “but think about how your friend felt thinking you were dead” in response to grace, it was a little out of touch and i wish we knew how grace felt about it so we knew if we could feel a certain way. if grace felt as if it was inappropriate and insensitive then we can, but truly if grace has a relationship with her where they make little jokes or try to make light of horrible situations by saying stuff like that, then we have no reason to ridicule her for saying that ya know.
@@madirae9293I get where you are coming from….and from what she is saying here I get what she meant. But she should have said, this is what happened and what I meant….I am sorry for how it came off instead of blaming the podcast viewers for not initially understanding her. For listeners who don’t know the context, who don’t listen to every episode or just see that segment…she has a responsibility to be really careful with the language she uses with that particular topic and it came off incredibly victim blaming. There are times people jump down her throat for no reason. This is not one of them.
Omg shut upppp people she is literally just warning young girls to not hang out with older men like what are people not getting here?!?! So annoying
@@madirae9293Thank you finally someone with a good perspective
@@madirae9293as someone whose been in a very similar situation as you listed you’ve been in, i can agree with you completely. I can definitely see where brianna was coming from as i also was a young girl hanging around older men, but than again, i do feel like bri could have expressed her opinion in a more politely or clear way, i can see where she’s coming from but i definitely think she could have worded this differently and more respectfully to survivors especially if she is one herself
Idk, Grace seemed really distraught
Omg wouldn’t you????? She is constantly keeping dragged through the mud.
’idk’ exactly, you don’t. So stop acting like you do.
brianna “everything i say is taken out of context” chickenfry strikes again
girl we all saw both of the entire podcast segments. nothing was taken out of context
She’s so out of touch and just thinks she can say anything and just never take accountability it’s wild
i wish they would’ve shown the clips of her takes on gypsy vs mendezez brothers. also wish dave & josh would do research to hold her accountable.
Just bc once in 2023 people were mean to her about dating Zack and now because of that one situation nothings her fault ever! Girl just apologize!!!!
Can someone explained what happened with bri
“Taken out of context” - as if it wasn’t her own damn podcast that released it. Girl be so for real.
The constant gas lighting with Bri it’s always the peoples fault, they always hear her wrong and take things out of context.. blah blah. Also Grace said she’s staying out of it * Like girl perhaps you should think before you speak and take ACCOUNTABILITY.
She did take accountability. You obviously didn’t see the instagram post she made apologizing for her insensitive comments
What this should be called is “Brianna refuses to take accountability for the 5000th time and blames victims of sexual assault by telling them to *just run away*”
did we not watch the same pod? she only said for them to run away because it would be a better resolution than literally murdering your parents. she then said she didn’t know they attempted to run away and it didn’t work, she admitted to being uneducated in the situation. do you think anyone who gets sexually assaulted should just result to murder rather than finding other options? that’s what she was trying to imply because she said she wasn’t educated that they did try other options
and doubling down on it too… WAKE UP BRI
@@madirae9293 people just listen to what they want to hear.. it's unreal. she literally said she was uneducated on the whole thing and people are still down her throat lol. like what more do you want?!
@@madirae9293 you think that children being sexually assaulted shouldn’t end in death??????? Are you okay???
@@cassandrahirtle7905 I want uneducated people to keep their mouth shut on topics they aren’t educated on. Pretty simple.
Bri basing her whole opinion of the Menendez brothers on a Ryan Murphy show rather than actual court testimony is CRAZY.
and the fact she is speaking that information as factual is scary, the mother was NEVER a victim.
So what? It’s a podcast they’re just riffing on topics, she’s not a politician. Go touch grass.
@@mollie_moo-b2n How do you know? Were you there?
I mean she is just a random girl who watched a tv show without any prior knowledge of law don’t think she rly looked too much into it ( maybe she should have )
Bri…maybe just take accountability for what you said. Admit what you said was wrong…that will go over a lot better than saying everything was taken out of context and blaming everyone else. You lost a podcast listener in me. Disappointed Dave didn’t hold you accountable.
Bri was right. Good for her for speaking truth
what if she just doesn't agree with you? is that allowed?
really disappointed
Exactly what is it that YOU feel was wrong with what she said??
@@emilyanderson148you can hear the anger and sadness in her voice she’s not a monster like people are horrible and so soft
I’m just here because I’m glad Dave finally got an invite for the Eras tour. Happy for you Dave. I guarantee you won’t be breathing “dumb air” at the show.😂😂😂
Dave is capable of interviewing a presidential candidate. Bri-after her take with the Menendez brothers- absolutely not. She’s one of the worst influencers out there
Dave can’t even handle hearing about someone being assaulted I doubt he has the faculties to handle a presidential interview
people just genuinely can’t let people have their own opinion anymore. she didn’t know every intrinsic detail of the case and is simply giving her opinion on literally murdering someone in the context of what she knows about the brothers. a lot of people think that even in this case there were better options other than murdering ur parents, think about why the jury gave them the sentence. i do not believe they deserve the life sentence given their accusations against their parents, but i do think, even with their circumstances, they could have done something to take action before killing them. i understand they were young but the situation could’ve definitely been handled differently and they did still deserve some prison time.
You’re a moron the menendez brothers are murderers 😂
@@brookevetter3845 her better solution was to “hire a hitman”. If she didn’t know even just the bare minimum of the details she shouldn’t have spoken on it. But instead she’s so unintelligent and just doesn’t care she based her opinion off of a Netflix show that was dramatized and not accurate. People can have their opinions but it says a lot about their character. Especially with how her take with gypsy rose was so different, she could’ve said the same thing to her but she didnt. So no if she can’t do the bare minimum research so has 0 business interviewing a presidential candidate.
Mom here 🙋🏻♀️ thanks for thinking of us Josh!
Ditto! Loved that!
@@GingerPhoenix4999 yes😍
I feel like even if it wasn’t what she meant, watching the podcast, that’s how it came off. Acting like everyone is too stupid to understand what she was really saying wasn’t the move. She didn’t say anything about being assaulted herself or like they both navigated the trauma….. she acted like Grace was there alone giving her a heart attack because she was off with 30 year old men being stupid. And she can’t expect every listener to know the story or the past context of what happened. Not everyone listens to every episode. This is the last BFF podcast I will watch until actual accountability is taken because the language that was used (even if it was by accident) was super harmful.
the fact that she said “first of all, we both said it” to make grace have some blame in the hate is CRAZY what a horrible friend!!!
Right??
no, really just to compare that people pick and choose. they both said the same thing and bri is getting all the hate
@@madirae9293exactly
@@madirae9293they didn’t say the exact thing tho bri was the one saying they should have ran away and that there’s NO excuse for murder while grace disagreed with her and said that if what the boys said were true then the murder was justified in her eyes
@@madirae9293 they really didn’t say the same thing though, and even if they did, it’s a shitty thing to do to try to pull Grace in as well. It is a shitty thing to do to a friend.
Dave, this is why Taylor didn’t invite you to Miami: ‘I heard this story against my will, and it was forced down my throat.’ You know what else happened against someone’s will? Grace being sexually assaulted. Show some respect. Why do you protect Bri so much? She’s clueless, only cares about herself, never apologizes, and blames people for 'taking things out of context.' Girl, it’s your podcast, and those words came out of your mouth. Bri is insufferable. Once your toxic relationship ends, you’ll realize how alone you are because the people who supported you and valued your friendship now see your awful true colors
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The way she IMMEDIATELY throws Grace under the bus, even though she didn’t even want to discuss the Menendez brothers originally. Bri hasn’t taken accountability for one singular wrong she’s ever done. Grow up and seek therapy
@@sarahtobin3132 she did take accountability. She made an instagram story yesterday apologizing for her insensitive comments
She did take accountability. She made an instagram story apologizing for her insensitive comments
@@Sammyy445did she apologize
@@Sammyy445she didn’t apologize? She doubled down and said she’s sticking to what she said. The word sorry isn’t in her vocabulary
@@gabrielleherrin7300no she didn’t
Briana is so out of touch, anytime ppl call her out for her lack of empathy she deflects and is just getting worse by the day grace needs to run far & fast
Unfortunately a lot of humans in her position would do the same thing
THE MOM ALSO WAS SEXUALLY ABUSIVE WHAT. SHE WAS NOTTT A VICTIM.
She was both a victim and an abuser
You cant just claim everything was out of context to avoid responsibility lol. What other context would be needed? Bri spoke on a situation she clearly didn't understand which she admitted herself to doing yet not one apology came out her mouth and she still tried to downplay it by saying the mom was a victim as well when she wasn't innocent either, then we have Dave in the back tryna breeze past it like what she said wasn't just plain ignorant. Then Bri spoke on another uncomfortable situation and again just handled it poorly which might be a little more understandable but no context was saving her statement which she probably didn't intend to victim blame but it definitely came out as such and again Dave downplaying and defending instead of holding her reckless statements accountable.
Craziest part about it is that Bri literally got assaulted too and she still made the statement about the Menendez brothers
LMAOOOO I CANT JOSH LAUGHING WHEN DAVE ASKS IF THATS BROOKE HAHA
No. Bri sucks. Never takes any accountability. Her and Dave should have some empathy for Grace. Idk why Dave always seems to shit on Grace.
Yes 💯!
Or people just take her words out of context like she just said! There was zero wrong with what she said. I’m so over all the fuckin hate people have just bitching about everything and anything.
@@avshraderliterally everyone is so soft
@@avshraderI actually agree. She affirmed to Grace that it wasn’t her fault. She was just telling their younger audience that unfortunately there are some terrible terrible people, so stick with your friends and don’t hang out with older men who very obviously have no good intentions when choosing to hang out with young females they have no business with. I didn’t think that sounded like victim blaming at all. More just reality of the situation. She also spoke on her own personal perspective of the situation, which was she and her friends were worried about grace.
@@agco2024 exactly
For a mom that is a religious watcher/listener, thank you Josh for your mug joke 😂❤
Mom here! Love the pod! Here every week for Dave and his pronunciations. 😂
As a 23 y/o mom and BFF’s fan I loved the mom humor from Josh lol
Dave treating Graces sexual assault story like it’s an annoying story your friend overtells is WILD. Makes me question how innocent he really was when those business insider stories came out. To brush off sexual assault like that is sickening. Poor grace
I’m a mom! Every Wednesday can’t wait to put the kids to bed and watch the new episode! Catching up on all the drama under an hour lol.
Doubling down is crazzzyyyy…
Doubling down is right and honorable
@@emilyanderson148 Emily internalized misogyny is not a good look.
@@emilyanderson148honorable????
No, there's a fucking difference between victim blaming & protecting yourself -- telling young girls to not hangout w a 30 yr old, is sound fucking advice -- bc it's letting girls know, if a 30yr old approaches you & tries to smooth talk you, not to engage & get away as quick as you can
That's being fucking smart -- no, guys should not abuse women, women should not abuse men -- but that's not the world we live in -- it's good to learn how to protect yourself & know warning signs before it becomes too late
Bri should have just said she did not know enough about everything that went down with the menendez brothers and their parents and she shouldn’t have said her opinion based on watching a show.
Also on the SA situation with grace, saying not to hangout with old men when you’re teenagers is sound advice but the way she said it did seem like she was victim blaming and you could tell grace felt hurt saying “it’s not my fault”
Dave saying grace shoved the story
down his throat is disgusting.
You all have a big platform and should be more aware of things you guys say. And do your research before speaking on serious situations. Do better.
agreed, this is the correct take
Mom fan tapping in here! On behalf of all Mamas, thank you for that shoutout Josh! Need a smiley face mug for my morning coffee forsure! Love bffs!
just a helpful tip; if you’re gonna make a podcast covering various topics, it would be in your best interest to actually know what happened. dave and josh not knowing what happened are obviously gonna believe bri’s watered down verison of it and take her side.
as someone who has a podcast dedicated to pop culture news and who has watched the monsters series, bri should be well aware of the controversy surrounding the series for it’s lousy & inaccurate depiction of the brothers and their story. calling kitty menendez a victim just shows how uneducated she really is and should not be giving her two cents on a situation she doesn’t know AGAIN. kitty KNEW and did NOTHING to stop the abuse, and not only that, she also sexually abused lyle for many years so how DARE bri call her a victim. also nobody ever condoned their actions, but we empathise with them because they suffered horrific abuse at the hands of their own father and mother. ‘i didn’t know that’ is not gonna cut it, if you don’t know, then keep your mouth shut.
yes, bri, you did victim blame not only the menendez brothers, but your best friend who was also sexually abused. the pain in that girl’s voice when she said ‘it wasn’t my fault’ for you to then CONTINUE. it’s not on the young girls, it’s on the older men NOT to do it. to not hang around with 16 year old girls. if you put this much energy into the predators and abusers none of this would have happened.
bri, i would suggest you rewatch the clips, listen to why people are so upset and try to reflect instead of just a doubling down. josh & dave, i would suggest you know the topics you are covering before sitting down to do this podcast or just don’t participate.
Bri doubling down and sharing graces story without her even on this podcast is so disgusting. Why does she even have a platform anymore
Tbf it was her story too
It is THEIR story that THEY have shared many times before.
@@ASarma11 just bc you’re present when something bad happens to ur friend doesn’t make it your story
@@juliacarol2417 did you listen to what she said? they both were assaulted the same night so yes, it is THEIR story.
@@juliacarol2417she got assaulted too it wasn’t just Grace so that’s what I mean
Bri we are not upset that you said run away instead of murder. We are upset that you’re not acknowledging these boys were forced to give their Dad blow jobs at 5 years old and then raped from 5-adulthood. If someone endures that trauma it is not up to us to judge whether that makes you want to murder them. Their Mom knew about the rape and she allowed the boys to touch her breasts in bed. Please think about these things before judging someone for murdering. Yes it is wrong but it’s tone deaf not to try to understand what they went through. Especially if you’ve never experienced that.
THIS!!!!!! And the “because they were mean to you” comment.
Thanks for the mug dedication to the moms Josh we appreciate it 💕
I want to hear more from JOSH every ep! He is so chill and smart now, sitting on the purple couch with his own perspective on topics.
Good listener + empathetic, too.
Mom viewer watching faithfully, love all y’all the bff group is the best pairing ty for weekly tea!
Mom here❤ weekly viewer thanks Josh ! I love your Canadian Kindness ❤
I'm 28 and a mom 🙋🏽♀️ I've been watching BFF's since episode 1. &the joke hits😅 thnx for making us feel seen, Josh. 😆🫶🏽
AS A 23 YEAR OLD GIRL WHO WORKS IN SPORTS (basketball and hockey) PREACH DAVE. We know we have to work holidays, extremely long days, and late late nights. DAVE WITH WISDOM
@19:17 living for this Illuminati conversation--Josh and Bri having to break it down for Dave is quintessential BFFs gold
Bri gave up her life for that controlling dbag and defended him at every turn when it was obvious he was a bad human. And his music sucks
I’m a mom😂, so funny hearing you guys talk about moms in the beginning of the show,. I got pregnant at 19, gave birth at 20. Love watching this podcast, have been watching since before Bri even came on.
Checking in as another mom listener! Need a smile mug now 😂❤ thanks for thinking of us Josh!!
Love when Dave gets fired up🤣🤣 not the dumb air!!! Also Bri just live your life girl people hate to see you UP. And thanks Josh for the mom joke give us more!!!
Of course she would double down 🙄 just solidifies she’s an awful friend and lacks empathy
Good for Brie for speaking truth. You’re a sheep
I hope they hold Bri accountable. I think she wants Dave to fire her.
They won’t. They’re all cowards
Can someone please elaborate on what happened because I’m outta the loop?
@@brookebixler1040on an episode of PlanBri, she chose to speak about how Grace was SA’d as a 16 year old when Grace clearly wasn’t comfortable with it. She then proceeded to use grace’s trauma as a lesson for other 16 year olds and Grace had to yell “it wasn’t my fault” to which Bri said “it’s not your fault but think about how stressful it was for your friends like me who thought you were dead”
She also decided to downplay the alleged SA of the Menendez brothers by saying “your mommy and daddy were mean to you” or something along those lines
Bri is too simple minded she's still youngish where her brain isn't fully formed yet so let's hope she learns from this instead of blowing it off like she normally does.
@@GingerPhoenix4999unfortunately she blows it off and also tries to say Grace agreed with her about the Menendez stuff 💀
I can’t stand Bri she’s such a mean girl! As a Swifite I hate her! But what she did to Grace was even more despicable and disgusting. Shame on you Bri!
Cry more
💯
What did she do
What did she do?
what she did to grace??
Mom here🙋🏼♀️ love the pod!
I became a mother yesterday & long time listener
congratulations!
Loved the mom joke Josh! Stay at home mom so have alottt of time to listen to podcasts 🫶🏼
Literally a mom watchinng with my coffee Josh ❤️
"take accountability" = agree with me or else.
she tried to do something but just made herself sound worse. so you admit you’re ignorant about the situation yet u still decided to speak on it. kitty was NOT a victim, that just shows she’s still willfully ignorant. she also insinuated they killed their parents because their parents were “mean to them.” no, she didn’t insinuate it she straight up said it. as if rape and incest at the hands of your own father is just someone being mean to you and they’re sensitive for reacting that way. insane take. they could never make me like briana
I’m a mom and I religiously watch this pod every week 🫶🏼
fellow mom here… thank you, josh. I needed that lol
also my daughter recognizes all your voices because I have listened every single week for years now😅
Hahahaha oh Dave you crack me uppppp 😅😅 guy was hung up on the wedding dress …. “is that a cape?”
40 year old mom here. Don’t miss an episode thank you very much 🙋♀️
Mom here!! With one more on the way 😊 this pod is literally my saving grace. I love yall!!!
Moms definitely watch the pod Dave!!
I’m a mom 😊 I watch every episode. I also love Taylor Swift & miss peaches 🍑
Dad here with 2 young boys. Also appreciated the joke Josh, shout out from Newfoundland
As a mom, I really appreciated the mug joke Josh ☕️
Mom here lol thanks Josh for looking out for us 😂♥️♥️♥️
I am a mom of a 10 month old and the coffee mug thing did get me 😂
Mom here!!!! Thanks for the laugh Josh
People are so committed to misunderstanding Bri it’s wild!!
Mom here!!! Love you guys
I gave a thumbs up to every Mum comment. So nice to see that other Mums of all ages listen to the podcast, especially the ones that told their stories about having a kid in their 20’s💓
I absolutely hate the acceptability arguments. No matter what influencers say its going to be picked apart. Bri's not doing forced apologies is appreciated. The mama tot back and forth and brooke stuff....no matter what they say theyll be attacked. Learn and grow and apologize to the appropriate people in private imo
Mom here! Thanks Josh for the shout out! 😂
Compulsive liar. You treat grace differently now. It’s on film babe.
34 year old mom of two here! 😂 love you guys
Mom here and love the shoutout Josh!
My dad’s a retired fireman. Worked Christmas, Thanksgiving, shoot I can’t even add up how many holidays.
Life is hard sometimes it takes sacrifices for your career 🤷♀️
Love you Dave ❤
Unfollowing, I’ve been listening for years. The unaccountability is ridiculous.
Thanks for the mom joke, Josh!
I’m a mom with 2 daughters in their twenties😅❤
I’m a MOM and a BFF’s listener!! Appreciate the joke Josh
Dave is so funny omg. He makes me laugh multiple times every episode 😂😂😂
Mom here and I may have giggled at Josh taking the time to make the mom coffee joke. ☕️
Thanks for the shoutout to moms and the joke!!! 😂 You definitely have moms listening to the pod! ❤
Omg these comments. I disagree with Bri on a lot of things but I’m team Bri on this one.
Fellow momma here Josh, I appreciated the joke & watch weekly 😂😅❤
54 year old mom here!
At this point it doesn’t matter what bri says/does. ppl will ALWAYS find a way to make her the bad guy
This is exactly why we love Dave. So many people are wasting this good air…
Am I crazy or is there nothing mentioning the Bri situation?
Because Nobody cares
there was it was just near then end so people would stick around or smth
You’re crazy
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I think the issue with Bri is that she is tone def. Her implication within her statement on her podcast is why people are upset. Instead of saying what she said on this podcast like word for word “if she was a parent back then blah blah.. “ I feel like it would have been translated better but rather she implied that the victim should have known and done better and they didn’t. Instead of taking a moment to reflect on how her statement could have been perceived she got defensive. Like the big issue here at large is really the fact that she is an SA survivor herself that is tone def to other SA survivors.
Mom here and I listen to every episode ❤️
Dave I’m really disappointed in this episode
Mom here who has watched every episode because my lover hall pass Dave but Bri & Josh have grown on me too so BFFMOMSQUAD here ❤
Everyone's being the accountability police with everything Bri does and wonders why she's cold and defensive. There's been an entire hate page on her for over a year, and no matter what she does people have something to say. You can tell and she has shared she has significant trauma. PSA Everyone responds to trauma diffrently. You want her to show empathy you might want to look at yourself too.
Mother and fan here. Luv u guys
A Dave rant is a win for all. I love him so fucking much