Should I Reach Out To Him, Wait, Or Let It Go?

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  • Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024

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  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  3 года назад +2

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  • @darlineb426
    @darlineb426 6 лет назад +163

    I reached out. I waited... And I let go 🤷🏾

  • @simi6152
    @simi6152 4 года назад +84

    I think it's best to leave them alone if they don't want to talk. There's so many better people out there in the world who are worth your time! But keep an open heart and an open mind. You should be happy with who you are first!

  • @brycebrown1901
    @brycebrown1901 6 лет назад +208

    I’m too scared to reach out to him. :(

    • @A6Legit
      @A6Legit 5 лет назад +2

      Bryce Brown What do you have to lose?

    • @7ccs350
      @7ccs350 5 лет назад +85

      @@A6Legit dignity

    • @A6Legit
      @A6Legit 5 лет назад +5

      @@7ccs350 Not reaching out due to dignity is different than being scared to reach out.

    • @furreedhiba3572
      @furreedhiba3572 5 лет назад +34

      @@A6Legit self-respect lol

    • @amenzeigbinoba6306
      @amenzeigbinoba6306 5 лет назад +58

      She's scared because she's afraid of getting rejected.

  • @chimi1924
    @chimi1924 6 лет назад +60

    You are good man!!!!! Short and to the point.

  • @yessievillanueva1766
    @yessievillanueva1766 5 лет назад +28

    Ugh.....I'd reach out if I wasn't to nervous of worrying whether the person feels the same or not. And I worry I'd mess it up further. 😬

  • @emmanuelzagadat1788
    @emmanuelzagadat1788 3 года назад +18

    This is a mature response...I feel other "game" channels will tell you go into no contact no matter what the truth is you have to read the situation

  • @mslstew
    @mslstew 6 лет назад +135

    Read THIS . .
    IF A MA WANT YOU, YOU WON HAVE TO GUESS. THE CHASE IS IN THE MAN. LET IT GO.

    • @mslstew
      @mslstew 6 лет назад +3

      MAN

    • @nativechique7589
      @nativechique7589 6 лет назад +13

      Micaela Stewart even if I shut off all my social media?? 😂

    • @AuthorJanaeMarie
      @AuthorJanaeMarie 6 лет назад

      Yup

    • @maycherrie
      @maycherrie 6 лет назад +3

      I have this guy i met online and we’ve been talking for months then suddenly we argue on such thing that causes him to get mad. I said sorry and apologize many times but he wont accept it. So now we dont talk but he keeps on viewing my status in whatsapp or in any social media.. so do i need to reach out on him even though I apologize already or shall i wait for him to be ok and ready to talk back if he thinks that way.

    • @shaylathomson937
      @shaylathomson937 6 лет назад +24

      mHay Sy leave him alone for now. If it's meant to be then he will come around and if not, he don't deserve you

  • @stephencoleman4424
    @stephencoleman4424 7 лет назад +20

    He would likely appreciate her reaching out, explaining.

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty 2 года назад +8

    great advice... but at this point, my pride is too high... i tried reaching out, he said he had too much going on and it wasn't the right time. but he still hasn't reached out, so i just deleted him, and guessing he was just too cowardly to tell the truth. i will miss him though, i thought it was special.

  • @astetic_vibezz319
    @astetic_vibezz319 Год назад +7

    I thought about reaching out many times but decided against it. I’ve always thought if a man really wants you he’ll do everything he can to get you into his life. I guess it’s how you go about it too. But I’d rather let the guy chase. Should never be the woman

  • @yogaflame4128
    @yogaflame4128 6 лет назад +12

    Never EVER reach out to a man UNLESS YOU obviously fucked up. Otherwise he don't give a shit so don't do it.

  • @LG-wv5eq
    @LG-wv5eq 6 лет назад +16

    I will reach out nothing to lose

  • @CrystalDatingCoach
    @CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад +20

    You were wrong...reach out. He was wrong. Wait..if you contact him, you will be his doormat.

  • @pamkay1756
    @pamkay1756 Год назад +1

    Let it go and start healing. ❤

  • @berenicemartinez9238
    @berenicemartinez9238 7 лет назад +24

    I love all ur advice and videos

  • @datwunshortii
    @datwunshortii 5 лет назад +3

    Went on a second date, he looked right at me and said I like you, I would like to go out again. I said sure, I’d like that. But only if you really want to. The only reason I said that was because after the first date, I said forget the rules, first date you can’t really figure a person out and I asked him out he didn’t ask me. it’s been a week since he’s texted me. I reach out to him after that week because we actually took photos on our second date at a cherry blossom trees. After it was all sent, I said ok well thank you! And that was it. He hasn’t bothered to text me or anything. That “I like you I want to go out again” but doesn’t bother to reach out to me just shows me he’s not interested as he said he is. I don’t know if I should reach out again? Or was my instinct right??

  • @underxratedxrage
    @underxratedxrage 5 лет назад +4

    I mean he told me, I should forget about him as if he never existed because he'll just continue to mind fk me.
    His words exactly. But I dont believe his intentions were to hurt me, I ended really caring for him, he says he doesn't know who or want he wants. But I know deep down how I feel about him.. I don't know.

  • @brendawebster3224
    @brendawebster3224 6 лет назад +3

    He says to much pressure you might hurt me

  • @SimplyKrissyG
    @SimplyKrissyG 6 лет назад +14

    Love the bald head sir.

  • @purplegum1383
    @purplegum1383 7 лет назад +64

    I reached out to him and he said he liked me very much and that he was glad i liked him as much as he likes me .

  • @tamyrakay2071
    @tamyrakay2071 6 лет назад +2

    I’m with my husband and his cousin always stares at my face

  • @thatonekid7185
    @thatonekid7185 7 лет назад +58

    When should you have the "what are we" talk

    • @542pixie1
      @542pixie1 7 лет назад +4

      Thatonekid718 if u kiss

    • @Zhaturianvisionz
      @Zhaturianvisionz 7 лет назад +15

      If you a guy you dont initiate it. Rule of thumb is if she dont talk about it dont ask

    • @suckmyprettytoes
      @suckmyprettytoes 6 лет назад

      You shouldn’t because that makes you look pathetic. Just let it naturally come to you.

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 5 лет назад +2

      Never

    • @iamme9743
      @iamme9743 4 года назад

      NEVER ASK THIS QUESTION!!!

  • @haileylopez1601
    @haileylopez1601 6 лет назад +10

    What if you guys can’t see each other? Bc he moved away or something

  • @justsoniam6101
    @justsoniam6101 7 лет назад +24

    Idk I'm confuse this guy talks to me than stops and now out of no where he message me but the conversations aren't deep

    • @542pixie1
      @542pixie1 7 лет назад +8

      JustSoniaBieberx leave him

    • @yagamikyo1162
      @yagamikyo1162 6 лет назад +10

      he is just afraid of rejction., he needs to heal.

    • @joannapequino5015
      @joannapequino5015 5 лет назад

      JustSoniaBieberx I can relate to you... And I'm feeling agitated right now

    • @LifeFlamesReunion
      @LifeFlamesReunion 5 лет назад

      @@yagamikyo1162 spot on

  • @stephencoleman4424
    @stephencoleman4424 7 лет назад +6

    She's not into him.

  • @furreedhiba3572
    @furreedhiba3572 5 лет назад +8

    I'm gonna wait for ages.

    • @LittleKittyCat
      @LittleKittyCat 2 года назад +3

      Then he/she was never yours to begin with.

  • @suedeshardae4264
    @suedeshardae4264 7 лет назад +18

    had a disagreement, i apologized for things i said & he dont talk to me for weeks. then he sees me out & stop to talk to me for a while & then its back to no communication? what is up with that?

    • @taraquinch1256
      @taraquinch1256 6 лет назад +10

      Suede Shardae He's letting you know he's not angry anymore but he's still done. He doesn't want to he worh you anymore.

    • @UltimateD755
      @UltimateD755 4 года назад

      You got him mad and didn’t give him
      Ass after

  • @lydia6954
    @lydia6954 7 лет назад +8

    okay,can you please do a video of when a guy snapchat you all the time but don't. text or check my story anymore.please

    • @Zhaturianvisionz
      @Zhaturianvisionz 7 лет назад

      Osas Igbinovia thats easy hes just doing it because he know you care about it. Ask yourself why is it important that he do.

  • @aishacole595
    @aishacole595 6 лет назад +7

    I broke up with him cos I was upset,I had a sober reflection and came to a realization that he was going through so much at that time and I was not really there for him. We talk from time to time but only on a casual level,I really miss him and I sincerely want him back. How do I go about it?

    • @queeny3412
      @queeny3412 2 года назад +1

      Are you guys back together?

    • @eaintkyisinhan8763
      @eaintkyisinhan8763 11 месяцев назад

      I'm feeling the same way as you did. I dun know what to do right now. I'm so tired and still missing him. What did you do at that time and how did you heal?

  • @iheartfood562
    @iheartfood562 6 лет назад +9

    i know i dont knowmy boyfriend all that well just yet but this exact situation happened before but he hasnt read my text just yet and ive been asking God whether i should reach out t him or let him have his space?

    • @hazelsibayan6914
      @hazelsibayan6914 6 лет назад +6

      we are in the same situation. Don't know if asking a sign to God if I should reach out or him first. Let's be strong and keep our faith to Him. :) #nevergiveup

  • @sekawan3986
    @sekawan3986 5 лет назад +1

    Yes, I did have a misunderstand on my part and it killin me becasue I regret it sooo much T_T

  • @xxjessabugxx
    @xxjessabugxx 5 лет назад +2

    I really enjoy your videos 👏🏽👏🏽

  • @asmarehman4370
    @asmarehman4370 2 года назад

    Hi Luke, even if it’s 6 years.. ? I would really appreciate your feedback.

  • @aWERFRGT6545BGFG
    @aWERFRGT6545BGFG 7 лет назад +2

    If i reach out hel get madif i wait hel get madif i let it go hel get mad

    • @taraquinch1256
      @taraquinch1256 6 лет назад +4

      MissesKitty Just walk away. He had issues within himself..Dont get dragged into the vicious cycle..

    • @MADZOUA
      @MADZOUA 4 года назад

      🤣🤣

  • @cheaffsdeath8586
    @cheaffsdeath8586 4 года назад

    I need help with something. This is my situation This really cute guy I’ve talked to only a couple times because he works at the phone company I’m with I only go there very few times like barley. I honestly feel a Two sided connection because not once but twice He had all his attention on me every time I have went and I was being helped by someone else he would just look at me , I would do the same and I gave him a smile and looked him up and down before I left.
    And every time we cross paths we would just look at each other. I wanted to get his number multiple times but I’m super shy and nervous and it didn’t work out BUT I found his Instagram instead and followed and he followed me back SO before he accepted the follow he added multiple nice pictures of him self.
    I want him to message me because at this point it seemed I’m making all the first moves.
    What do I do ? Without looking desperate

  • @Deserthawk9487
    @Deserthawk9487 4 года назад

    I like it!

  • @braaron77ify
    @braaron77ify 6 лет назад

    I met this man 7/8 months ago.. there was an instant attraction between us... but I shied away because I had ended a relationship around that time and bcus of the weird circumstances we met. He had given me his work number (we met through his job, which I cant disclose) but I never reached out.. and I guess he didn’t either maybe bcus he was unsure. A couple of weeks ago we saw each other, and he told me he was attracted to me, he seemed nervous (talking so fast, lol) then he gave me his personal number. I haven’t called him bcus I am waiting for him to do so. But, should I reach out?

    • @sierracollinsphotography4279
      @sierracollinsphotography4279 5 лет назад +1

      IamVee I’m curious ... I see this was a while ago but did you ever reach out? Did he reach out to you? If he had my number I’d probably wait for him to make the first move but that might he why I’m single now lol

    • @Timeless14
      @Timeless14 5 лет назад +7

      Him giving you his personal number was him reaching out.

  • @dynastyonthunder3584
    @dynastyonthunder3584 7 лет назад

    Hey Man.