"Melancholy is comfortable for me, so it's annoying when people try to cheer me up" and "I'm okay with sad song, sad stories and sad movies...overly happy people me a headache." YAAASSSSSSSS to BOTH of these. I just discovered I'm a Type 4 w 5 like this girl and I TOTALLY felt what she was throwing down. I research things ad nauseum. And being able to go deep and be authentic is my number one thing I look for in a friend, too.
She seems like a self pres 4. In my experience as a social 4w5, I don't long to be the 'center of attention' in that classical sense (I dread standing up and giving a speech) but rather to have an audience collectively already know something different/unique about me. I like the idea of not having to explain myself but rather that they just 'get it.' Admittedly, this feeling is rather self-absorbed, as 4s tend to be.
"i know who i am but i'm constantly trying to figure out who i am" that's the most relatable thing i've ever heard! Although i don't know if i'm a 4 or a 6 lol. I'll watch the interview with a 6 later, Maybe these videos will help me find who i truly am, thank you!
I am 4. I think the thing I need to work on is being less selfish, considering others more and being disciplined! Strengths are creativity, counselling others and a developed self identity
Taking the eanneagram and learning about four has has been so wild. I was always the odd ball out in my group of friends growing up and I was bullied for it. all my journals throughout the years, I’ve written about constantly feeling misunderstood, not seen or noticed, and asked God why am I not normal😭 I can almost laugh at it now but it has been so painful growing up w this. God has recently freeeeed from so much, and the the Holy Spirit just leading me into my God given identity. It has been in my heart for so long to create a safe place for people (especially the “weird” kids haha) to feel safe to be vulnerable and to know God and be known. Looking back at the type 4 enneagram I’m just like “this is so type 4 of me!” 😭😂 it’s awesome! Glory to God ⚡️
Basically the same. It gets worse when you find someone that does understand you then abandons you. This really brings the wound of abandonment to the surface. It suggests 4s neurosis is likely formed from childhood abandonment ... just a theory of where the neurosis of envy was created.
00:58 🤔 Decide between 4w5 and 5w4 by first understanding the core fear, desire, longing, and weakness of each type (videos provided). 01:52 😌 Type 4 prioritizes identity over knowledge, while Type 5 values knowledge before identity. 02:49 😫 Under stress, Type 4 becomes moody and relationship-focused, while Type 5 becomes critical and restless. 03:46 💭 Determine if you use your head or heart first. Type 4 (heart triad) operates from feelings, while Type 5 (head triad) relies on thoughts. 05:04 🔄 Explore how you handle stress-Type 4 moves towards the Type 2's traits, while Type 5 leans into Type 7's behaviors. 06:47 🤷 Assess if you want to be different-Type 4 tends to embrace and show their uniqueness, while Type 5 often hides it.
00:08 🤔 Counter types in the Enneagram are types that don't always behave like their typical type. 01:29 😯 There are three subtypes for each of the nine Enneagram types, making a total of 27 subtypes. 02:25 😕 The counter type for Enneagram Type 4 is the self-preservation type, which can often be mistaken for other types due to different behaviors. 03:46 😇 Self-preservation Type 4s tend to be generous and compassionate, often fighting for justice, but they keep their emotions private. 04:40 📺 More information on the other subtypes of Type 4 (social and sexual) is available in another video. 05:24 🧐 For personalized Enneagram coaching and typing assistance, you can check the coach's website.
As a four, the closed-ended questions are killing me! I believe fours love to express thoughts of their life and their personality in their own words. So cutting that process off is cringey! All that to say, I related with a lot of things in this video and it is CRUCIAL to address how Christ can redeem the enneagram personality types! Love that you addressed Holy Spirit and how he can help and transform. ❤️❤️
2:47 "The core fear of a 4 is the fear of being inadequate emotionally cut off plain or abandoned." I would add deeply misunderstood to the list as well. I have been living with these feelings on a conscious level for several years now. Its most unpleasant. I feel the underlying hope and path to resolution is to experience self significance without a need for external validation. Challenging path ...
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I'm a type 4 with a 5 wing too! I love hearing the perspective of other type 4s. I totally relate to your interest in researching things as well as feeling misunderstood by others, particularly by family. I recently did a vlog about my experience as a Type 4, but I love this interview format. Reminds me of the Annie F. Downs podcast about the Enneagram types. Thanks for sharing!
Oh my gosh...she nailed it with the replaying of things I've said...sometimes after a conversation I've mulled over it for hours wondering if I had the right nuance or got my message across properly. Not to mention rehearsing what I am gonna say beforehand.
Great video. I really relate to so much of what she says. I’ve recently landed on type 4, specifically the SP type. I love to go deep with people and love peppy people only when they’re authentic, otherwise they are kind of annoying. I love going deep with people and don’t want someone to cheer me up until I’m ready for it. However, I also don’t want someone to bring me down unless I’m in the mood for it (especially sad movies/books). Is that a 4 thing? Cuz I’ve bounced around types and this one, including the stress/growth arrows, resonate the most.
Yesssss!!! I’m a textbook 4 and I have always felt like no one truly understands me. And I feel like everyone else has something that I’m missing. Sounds so melancholy and depressed but that’s just me being a 4 😂
Wow wow wow!! I am a 4, E V E R T H I N G she said is me 1000x %. I was watching with my husband and he was just as floored at I was. He knows me better than anyone and we were actually laughing at how I act just like what you and Bethany were talking about. Oh and my name is Betheny too! Haha! :)
This video has helped me so much. If I met Bethany I wouldn't think she is lacking anything at all. I wouldn't even know she is a 4! It helped me see my type from the outside.
I am a type 4. I really liked the way you unpacked the type 4. As a type 4 we do struggle with comparing ourselves and with us others not getting us. We struggle with envy like you stated. I know there are "weaknesses" to each type but how those weakness of a type 4 is unpacked is so important. If its not done gently we'll struggle with who are even more. I used to feel that I do not like being a 4 just by how it was presented by other coaches.
The authenticity part I would say is one of the most defining traits. This was really one of the biggest things that helped me understand that I was a 4 & not a 9. I can fake fitting in/merge with other people when I have to, but nothing about it will feel “authentic” to me.
I love how you relate this with the Holy Spirit working on 4's, because I feel He's helping me with this. Disciplining me to stop fantasizing about the things He hasn't given me, and focus on HIM. "Trust and obey" is what I feel He's telling me. As a four, having to snap out of my imagination and trust Him is hard. We must remember God while studying the Ennagram. Thank you!!
4 both wings... My best friend is a nine. We have such a beautiful relationship. We can sit back and truly laugh through the good, bad, ugly. She does disappear though... Sigh😞. .... Lol that's my boo!
Wow! Thanks for making this video. I’m a 4 and I just recently started researching more about what that means. When I first took the test and read the description, I cried. Even after that, I read a lot of the negative things about 4s. I knew those things could be true for me and I was struggling to see the strengths I possessed because I’m a 4. So thanks for exploring this type. Still not sure what wing I fall into though.
Your so welcome! Thank you for this comment. These always make my day. I’ll do more videos on the four and hopefully that’ll help clarify which wing you lean towards.
I’m either a 5w4 or a 4w5 I’m not sure. 🧐 But I definitely relate to the side of the four that feels deeply misunderstood. I have felt that my whole life and there’s a part of me that loves that nobody understands me and a part of me that hates it. Because I also have the five thing of feeling like, “if I know enough about the outer world I can come out of my head and not be afraid or feel incompetent.” Haha thank God for giving me a mom that is very social and knows how to navigate in the outer world. ❤️
I'm for sure an enneagram 4, my second dominant type is 9. I resonate with 4 but I don't express my feelings easily at all. Why is that? I'm also an ENFP
There are 9 levels of health with each number and depending on which one your at might be the reason why your not able to express your feelings easily. You might feel your feelings but expressing them is a difficult. I know as a 9 I have a hard time even identifying what I’m feeling in the moment and I wonder if you relate, since 9 is your second dominant. Thanks for sharing this! I bet other 4’s can relate.
ENFP has auxillary introverted feeling which is not as outwardly expressive as extraverted feeling. Introverted feelers tend to feel things deeply, but have can have trouble expressing their emotions. I'm an introverted feeler (INFP) and I can have trouble expressing my emotions in the moment.
Are you sure you're a 9? You are VERY high energy for a 9..I would have guessed 7..or maybe 6w7 Also, Bethany seems an unusual example of a 4 I think ...because she's self-preservation..
I am. I scored high on the 7 but it comes down to core fears and desires and motivation. My absolute core fear is conflict and loss of separation from others. Peace is the most important thing to me. And currently I haven’t made any RUclips videos in 2 months because I’ve completely withdrawn because I’m overwhelmed with life. But I will be doing a video on this if I can find the energy. LOL. I’m a social 9 if that helps. Thank you for your comment!
@@enneagramandcoaching like Suzanne Stabile says we do not analyze behavior we analyze reasons why. And also we do not analyze others 😉. You are absolutely adorable and as a 2 I'm really appreciative of all your work. Enjoy your cruise.
This makes sense. If you relate to a 4w5 then I’d guess your dominate type is a 4 and you lean most towards a 5 wing. The 2 plays a part in the type 4 because under stress a 4 goes towards the average to unhealthy side of a 2. You wings are only on the side of your dominate type. So a type 4 can only have a 3 or 5 as their wing. I’m making the wings video for the type 4 today 😊. I should have it available in a day or two. ❤️
I love your content... This is going to be weird but it would be awesome if you could avoid saying "I read..." Because I'm not sure if other 4s would relate with this phrasing but it's trump the capability for me to receive the aspect that you speak about. I don't mean to be critical, it's just that I would be great to see you understand your content not only logically or based on memory alone but to also open a chance for you to be a able to feel hence flow better as you explain. I haven't studied 9s yet but maybe I can understand you better too if I could do so myself...
C C enneagram stuff goes back to the biblical days & is probably why god was mentioned. but for the most part i agree informative videos should be based on science:)
I need to be authentic and I don't wipe my butt....ever. Conformists do that and that ain't gonna fly with the Randy. The smell though.....it's becoming a problem. I want my uniqueness to be seen by others but people can't stand being around me because I smell like a mixture of really old cheese and burning sulfur. I'm in a bit of a pickle as you can probably imagine. Like, if I start wiping my butt, I'll just be like everyone else and nobody will ever know, that like, yeah, I'm not like you; I make my own trail; I clear my own path. Honestly if people could just put their prejudice and olfactory sensory processing system aside, they could bask in the glow of my (largely unnecessary and inappropriate) decision to ignore my hygiene
"Melancholy is comfortable for me, so it's annoying when people try to cheer me up" and "I'm okay with sad song, sad stories and sad movies...overly happy people me a headache." YAAASSSSSSSS to BOTH of these. I just discovered I'm a Type 4 w 5 like this girl and I TOTALLY felt what she was throwing down. I research things ad nauseum. And being able to go deep and be authentic is my number one thing I look for in a friend, too.
Hardly a minute into the video and I related immediately!
I choked up when you said we are God's expression of creativity.
Oh I love this! ❤️❤️❤️
same here.
Same, so sweet! 🥲
She seems like a self pres 4. In my experience as a social 4w5, I don't long to be the 'center of attention' in that classical sense (I dread standing up and giving a speech) but rather to have an audience collectively already know something different/unique about me. I like the idea of not having to explain myself but rather that they just 'get it.' Admittedly, this feeling is rather self-absorbed, as 4s tend to be.
GIRL same
I'm a social 4w5 too! 🙂
OMG SAAAMEEE..all of it
I can relate with this comment so much wow
TRUTH
"i know who i am but i'm constantly trying to figure out who i am" that's the most relatable thing i've ever heard! Although i don't know if i'm a 4 or a 6 lol. I'll watch the interview with a 6 later, Maybe these videos will help me find who i truly am, thank you!
Your Welcome!
I am 4. I think the thing I need to work on is being less selfish, considering others more and being disciplined! Strengths are creativity, counselling others and a developed self identity
Wow! Awesome self awareness! ❤️
Taking the eanneagram and learning about four has has been so wild. I was always the odd ball out in my group of friends growing up and I was bullied for it. all my journals throughout the years, I’ve written about constantly feeling misunderstood, not seen or noticed, and asked God why am I not normal😭 I can almost laugh at it now but it has been so painful growing up w this. God has recently freeeeed from so much, and the the Holy Spirit just leading me into my God given identity. It has been in my heart for so long to create a safe place for people (especially the “weird” kids haha) to feel safe to be vulnerable and to know God and be known. Looking back at the type 4 enneagram I’m just like “this is so type 4 of me!” 😭😂 it’s awesome! Glory to God ⚡️
I LOVE THIS! Thank you for sharing so authentically! So thankful your free and embracing your God given Identity!
Basically the same. It gets worse when you find someone that does understand you then abandons you. This really brings the wound of abandonment to the surface. It suggests 4s neurosis is likely formed from childhood abandonment ... just a theory of where the neurosis of envy was created.
00:58 🤔 Decide between 4w5 and 5w4 by first understanding the core fear, desire, longing, and weakness of each type (videos provided).
01:52 😌 Type 4 prioritizes identity over knowledge, while Type 5 values knowledge before identity.
02:49 😫 Under stress, Type 4 becomes moody and relationship-focused, while Type 5 becomes critical and restless.
03:46 💭 Determine if you use your head or heart first. Type 4 (heart triad) operates from feelings, while Type 5 (head triad) relies on thoughts.
05:04 🔄 Explore how you handle stress-Type 4 moves towards the Type 2's traits, while Type 5 leans into Type 7's behaviors.
06:47 🤷 Assess if you want to be different-Type 4 tends to embrace and show their uniqueness, while Type 5 often hides it.
00:08 🤔 Counter types in the Enneagram are types that don't always behave like their typical type.
01:29 😯 There are three subtypes for each of the nine Enneagram types, making a total of 27 subtypes.
02:25 😕 The counter type for Enneagram Type 4 is the self-preservation type, which can often be mistaken for other types due to different behaviors.
03:46 😇 Self-preservation Type 4s tend to be generous and compassionate, often fighting for justice, but they keep their emotions private.
04:40 📺 More information on the other subtypes of Type 4 (social and sexual) is available in another video.
05:24 🧐 For personalized Enneagram coaching and typing assistance, you can check the coach's website.
As a four, the closed-ended questions are killing me! I believe fours love to express thoughts of their life and their personality in their own words. So cutting that process off is cringey! All that to say, I related with a lot of things in this video and it is CRUCIAL to address how Christ can redeem the enneagram personality types! Love that you addressed Holy Spirit and how he can help and transform. ❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing! ❤️
2:47 "The core fear of a 4 is the fear of being inadequate emotionally cut off plain or abandoned." I would add deeply misunderstood to the list as well. I have been living with these feelings on a conscious level for several years now. Its most unpleasant.
I feel the underlying hope and path to resolution is to experience self significance without a need for external validation. Challenging path ...
Oh, that’s good. Thanks for sharing.
Type 4 here: Recently I traced back SO many of my quirks and inefficiencies to my fear of abandonment. It's so obvious now.
I thought you were referring to hair types when I read this tittle lol I was finna say y’all are definitely type 1s with straight hair.
Hahahahaha!!!! 🤣
Im weak😆 lol
Lol
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I'm a type 4 with a 5 wing too! I love hearing the perspective of other type 4s. I totally relate to your interest in researching things as well as feeling misunderstood by others, particularly by family. I recently did a vlog about my experience as a Type 4, but I love this interview format. Reminds me of the Annie F. Downs podcast about the Enneagram types. Thanks for sharing!
I’ll have to go look your vlog up! Awesome!
Oh my gosh...she nailed it with the replaying of things I've said...sometimes after a conversation I've mulled over it for hours wondering if I had the right nuance or got my message across properly. Not to mention rehearsing what I am gonna say beforehand.
LOL! I love this!
You had me at Holy Spirit...😁
❤❤❤
Great video. I really relate to so much of what she says. I’ve recently landed on type 4, specifically the SP type. I love to go deep with people and love peppy people only when they’re authentic, otherwise they are kind of annoying. I love going deep with people and don’t want someone to cheer me up until I’m ready for it. However, I also don’t want someone to bring me down unless I’m in the mood for it (especially sad movies/books). Is that a 4 thing? Cuz I’ve bounced around types and this one, including the stress/growth arrows, resonate the most.
Yesssss!!! I’m a textbook 4 and I have always felt like no one truly understands me. And I feel like everyone else has something that I’m missing. Sounds so melancholy and depressed but that’s just me being a 4 😂
Love this!
Same 😭😭
Wow wow wow!!
I am a 4, E V E R T H I N G she said is me 1000x %. I was watching with my husband and he was just as floored at I was. He knows me better than anyone and we were actually laughing at how I act just like what you and Bethany were talking about.
Oh and my name is Betheny too! Haha! :)
Wow! This blows my mind!!! Even down to the same name!
I'm a 4w5 and an INFJ. I'm so much like her
Love that!
I'm a 4w3 and also INFJ!
4w5 INFJ too, YES
4w5 infj sameee
This video has helped me so much. If I met Bethany I wouldn't think she is lacking anything at all. I wouldn't even know she is a 4! It helped me see my type from the outside.
Yay! Love this!
This is crazy! I am so her! I even look quite a bit like her, and sound like her, and have the same mannerism and body language! What?!
I am a type 4. I really liked the way you unpacked the type 4. As a type 4 we do struggle with comparing ourselves and with us others not getting us. We struggle with envy like you stated. I know there are "weaknesses" to each type but how those weakness of a type 4 is unpacked is so important. If its not done gently we'll struggle with who are even more. I used to feel that I do not like being a 4 just by how it was presented by other coaches.
Thank you for this! I really appreciate comments like these. ❤️❤️❤️
The authenticity part I would say is one of the most defining traits. This was really one of the biggest things that helped me understand that I was a 4 & not a 9. I can fake fitting in/merge with other people when I have to, but nothing about it will feel “authentic” to me.
Self-pres 4 here. This interview resonated with me so much. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you! ❤️
This is such a great interview. I wasn't even sure I was a four until I saw this. That is me, right down to the 5 wing. Thank you!
I love this! ❤️❤️❤️
Relation on every level. I loved the energy your friend brought to the video, and how well your energies flowed together. 💜 yes, I’m also a 4w5.
Yes! Love it!
I love how you relate this with the Holy Spirit working on 4's, because I feel He's helping me with this. Disciplining me to stop fantasizing about the things He hasn't given me, and focus on HIM.
"Trust and obey" is what I feel He's telling me. As a four, having to snap out of my imagination and trust Him is hard.
We must remember God while studying the Ennagram. Thank you!!
You guys hit every point. I love this.
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4 both wings... My best friend is a nine. We have such a beautiful relationship. We can sit back and truly laugh through the good, bad, ugly. She does disappear though... Sigh😞. .... Lol that's my boo!
Oh my gosh... Im so normal. thank you.
Love this!
OMGGG I love this 4-woman! Bless Hillary
Wow i really relate so much to that lady
Thank you for explaining why I would test as a 1w2. I definitely think I'm a 4w5 the more research I do.
It's fun to see a 4w5 sp in action.
:smiles: 5's are passionately nerdy about weirdly specific things.
This comment made me so happy 🤣
Wow! Thanks for making this video. I’m a 4 and I just recently started researching more about what that means. When I first took the test and read the description, I cried. Even after that, I read a lot of the negative things about 4s. I knew those things could be true for me and I was struggling to see the strengths I possessed because I’m a 4. So thanks for exploring this type. Still not sure what wing I fall into though.
Your so welcome! Thank you for this comment. These always make my day. I’ll do more videos on the four and hopefully that’ll help clarify which wing you lean towards.
Thank you, thank you, thank you for this Gospel centered depiction of the type 4 personality!
Thank you for watching!!! These comments keep me making more videos! ❤️
I’m either a 5w4 or a 4w5 I’m not sure. 🧐 But I definitely relate to the side of the four that feels deeply misunderstood. I have felt that my whole life and there’s a part of me that loves that nobody understands me and a part of me that hates it. Because I also have the five thing of feeling like, “if I know enough about the outer world I can come out of my head and not be afraid or feel incompetent.” Haha thank God for giving me a mom that is very social and knows how to navigate in the outer world. ❤️
Tomorrow’s video is on the mistypes if the type 4. I cover the 4 vs the 5 in detail so hopefully this will help you! Thank you for sharing!
4 w5 ENTP. My curiosity in the way life works often keeps me from living it.
Oh my gosh! It’s like I’m the one answering these questions! I think I’m a 4 -5 also
LOL! Love this!
Just figuring this stuff out. Loving your videos. I can see where I've leaned on each of my wings through life.
Thanks for making these! Great content
A four with a three wing is called an aristocat
I AM A 4 WE SUFFER A LOT ............. but through suffering, we can find love .............
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I hope you do more interviews like this but people with their instinctual variant like the self pres, social and sexual. I'd love to watch it.
Yes! That is coming! Instincts are so important!
I’m curious! If you/she doesn’t mind sharing, what is her husband’s type, since she said they are “opposites?”
Crystal Sharp I totally don’t mind. 😀 Her husband is a 3.
My bestie is a 4! Totally God's gift
Otherwise good video. I relate so much! I was debating between 6 and 4 but I have to be a 4
Thank you! Love that you could relate!
Haha! Bethany and I could be best friends. I completely relate to this girl! I get it💛💛 Go girl, fours are amazing (I could be just a little biased😊)
Love this! ❤️
I'm for sure an enneagram 4, my second dominant type is 9. I resonate with 4 but I don't express my feelings easily at all. Why is that? I'm also an ENFP
There are 9 levels of health with each number and depending on which one your at might be the reason why your not able to express your feelings easily. You might feel your feelings but expressing them is a difficult. I know as a 9 I have a hard time even identifying what I’m feeling in the moment and I wonder if you relate, since 9 is your second dominant. Thanks for sharing this! I bet other 4’s can relate.
ENFP has auxillary introverted feeling which is not as outwardly expressive as extraverted feeling. Introverted feelers tend to feel things deeply, but have can have trouble expressing their emotions. I'm an introverted feeler (INFP) and I can have trouble expressing my emotions in the moment.
Same, and I’m a 4 and ENFP
I feel equally a 4 and a 6...my fears and desires are both...can you be two?!
Feeling more and more that I might be a 4w5 ...
even though people say that I am a head person😉
You know yourself best.
@@enneagramandcoaching .. journey to the true self
Are you sure you're a 9? You are VERY high energy for a 9..I would have guessed 7..or maybe 6w7
Also, Bethany seems an unusual example of a 4 I think ...because she's self-preservation..
I am. I scored high on the 7 but it comes down to core fears and desires and motivation. My absolute core fear is conflict and loss of separation from others. Peace is the most important thing to me. And currently I haven’t made any RUclips videos in 2 months because I’ve completely withdrawn because I’m overwhelmed with life. But I will be doing a video on this if I can find the energy. LOL. I’m a social 9 if that helps. Thank you for your comment!
@@enneagramandcoaching like Suzanne Stabile says we do not analyze behavior we analyze reasons why. And also we do not analyze others 😉. You are absolutely adorable and as a 2 I'm really appreciative of all your work. Enjoy your cruise.
@Yemima Hutapea everyone is different
Wait.. are we saying that other types don’t over analyze what they say, think, or do?
Funny thing, when I did my test my highest scores were on 4, 2 and 5; in this exact order. So I really relate to the 4w5. Am I a 4w5 or a 4w2?
This makes sense. If you relate to a 4w5 then I’d guess your dominate type is a 4 and you lean most towards a 5 wing. The 2 plays a part in the type 4 because under stress a 4 goes towards the average to unhealthy side of a 2. You wings are only on the side of your dominate type. So a type 4 can only have a 3 or 5 as their wing. I’m making the wings video for the type 4 today 😊. I should have it available in a day or two. ❤️
Hillary McCaskey Thank you very much, I’m ceirtainly gonna watch it.
Your so welcome!
Wow a lot of leading questions here :/
I'm a enneagram 8
I think I'm a type 4!
I love your content... This is going to be weird but it would be awesome if you could avoid saying "I read..." Because I'm not sure if other 4s would relate with this phrasing but it's trump the capability for me to receive the aspect that you speak about. I don't mean to be critical, it's just that I would be great to see you understand your content not only logically or based on memory alone but to also open a chance for you to be a able to feel hence flow better as you explain. I haven't studied 9s yet but maybe I can understand you better too if I could do so myself...
There is something very Kim Kardashian like about her personality. And I can understand, because I am a balanced 4, but more wing 3.
Actually now that you say that I see it too!
Great observation! I see it!
I'm troubled, It feels like I'm listening to Kim Wexler
What do you mean? In what way? Curious minds need to know LOL
@@enneagramandcoaching You have the same kind of voice so i'm really enjoying listening to you lol!
I love it! Thanks for telling me! ❤️
Is the 4 lady a introverted judger in Meyers Briggs. Hillary, do you score high on 7 (or do you know your tritype) ? I'm 469.
Melitta 1235 I’m not sure about her Meyers Briggs. I’m 972.
Thanks
I'm a 4 and an INFJ
I'm a 4 and INFP.
@@enneagramandcoaching no wonder I like you so 🤣🤣 I'm 279.
10000000% agree
This chick is NOT a 4. Nice girl. Not a 4.
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What is Bethany’s MBTI?
Daring Greatly84 I don’t know. I’ll ask her and see if she knows it. ❤️
ISFP-T
Hi Hillary, Whats her mbti?
I just asked her and she said an ISFP-T.
@@enneagramandcoaching Wow. Thanks. I am an enneagram 4 too and my mbti is INFJ-T.
Got 1:16 in before God was mentioned smh. This is about science not God lol in my humble opinion...
C C enneagram stuff goes back to the biblical days & is probably why god was mentioned. but for the most part i agree informative videos should be based on science:)
Allah is the greatest and the enneagram is not the body of Isa (A.I)...! Type 4 and INFJ. Nice interaction by the way and nice video, Thanks!
I need to be authentic and I don't wipe my butt....ever. Conformists do that and that ain't gonna fly with the Randy. The smell though.....it's becoming a problem. I want my uniqueness to be seen by others but people can't stand being around me because I smell like a mixture of really old cheese and burning sulfur. I'm in a bit of a pickle as you can probably imagine. Like, if I start wiping my butt, I'll just be like everyone else and nobody will ever know, that like, yeah, I'm not like you; I make my own trail; I clear my own path. Honestly if people could just put their prejudice and olfactory sensory processing system aside, they could bask in the glow of my (largely unnecessary and inappropriate) decision to ignore my hygiene
Idk wth is going on. Is ennigram like an astrological sign? Some sex role?
Type 4 = drama
John Hanigosky If their MBTI is INFJ they don’t like drama. Healthy ones are really analytical & able to rationalise their feelings.
Drama is literally intensity in the dictionary