I have recently been diagnosed with stage 4 advanced cancer. Everything in life seemed fine; I had no idea or symptoms. Remember this: If you're in good health, I don't care what gender you are, what ethnicity you are, what identity you are, I don't care what your debt levels are, your qualifications. I don't care how hard done by you feel your life is. I would swap with you in a heartbeat.
Good luck dear friend. I was struggling with Stage 3 cancer for last six months...the journey is painful but there is light at the end of the day. More power to you
Sorry to hear your news and wish all the luck and strength in the world. I've been there and recovered, luckily I was diagnosed early. Thank you for reminding me again, and all of us, just how easy it is to be negative. Good luck.
When Dani Harrison asked his dad how to become a great guitarist, George answered “learn lots of chords”. Same with photography, make lots of photos. Whatever craft or skill you want to get good at, the only way to do it is to do it.
Thank you Sean, been following for years and not a time have you failed me and many others out there, us trying to produce great photography work while trying to fight our demons, and you so elegantly put it out there for us all to absorb and understand.
Very well said Sean. Experience has taught me that a true professional will never malign someone near the bottom. I once worked with a photographer who bemoaned that in the age of digital, ‘Everyone’s a photographer’ in a negative way. Some years later I was talking to the late and great David Anthony at a social event, who was a true master photographer yet incredibly humble. When talking about my own photography I was embarrassed, yet he took a thorough and genuine interest in what I had done and insisted that I show him. I kept mumbling and looking at my feet until he asked me ‘Do you understand light?’ ‘Yes’ I replied. ‘Then you are a photographer’ was his response. 100% positive and supportive, and truly at the top of his game.
Sean, you have made me a deeper thinker and a better person. Even outside of photography I love hearing your insight about life and values. For years I've been an extremely negative thinker and it does indeed hold me back, horrifically so. My boyfriend is one of the biggest reasons I've started to come out of it. Through him I realized I'm a terrible cheerleader for my family and friends because I speak unkindly to myself internally and have for years. And it has at times completely stunted my creative growth. At this time of year, with so much potential in the coming spring weather, I'm doing my best to set aside my complaints and negativity and get back out into this beautiful world. Thank you, Sean! ❤❤❤
that observation, "isn't it funny how some people can shame you without saying a word, just by being their gracious selves", are exactly the words I've been searching for to describe the impact a good friend of mine had on my personal growth. I often credit him as being one of the key people in my development, and he is always confused and dismissive of the praise, arguing that he didn't do anything in particular, he doesn't know what I'm talking about, etc. But it's exactly as you put it, his being his gracious self, present in my life at the time, is what gave me the contrast to my self, a self that, at the time, I found in need of some growth, to put it kindly to myself in the spirit of this video! Thanks.
As a poet, I really love that your videos speak to all artists, no matter the field or profession. Your videos tell universal truths about the philosophy of art and making things.
If I have learned one thing during the few years I've been into photography, it's to steer away from any and all photography forums and comment sections under articles about photography, unless I really am looking for a specific piece of information :D
This is an inspiration Sean. I really enjoy your no-nonsense, honest-talk directly to the camera. It's heartfelt, gets at the core of your feelings and helps me/us to think about ourselves, and I appreciate that. And I love your photography as well!! I learned a LOT from your "Corporate Headshots" videos, and I recently took headshots for my fellow employees using many of the tips and knowledge from you, as well as other photographers, and our company headshots came out great!! So, thank you again, cheers!
Thank you so much! A very big pleasure to follow your insights not only on photography but art in general. All you say applies exactly on making music, which is my field. It is a due reminder to be not only passionate but also cheerful about being creative!
I must be honest, Sean: I haven't been watching you as much as I used to. But this video rings so true to me, it reminded me of the deep insights into the creative mind that compelled me to subscribe to your channel years ago. I will be catching up on your videos in the coming days. Thank you for making more than complaining, that is one thing we can all be grateful for!
A much needed and well timed video (for me personally.) -A reminder that those who are busy doing the work often don't have the time or care to break others down. Thanks Sean
I've often though about Gandalf and Dumbledore (sorry, I'm a nerd and that's where my head goes), and why they were so positive and polite by nature. I don't think it's merely because that made them fun characters. I think it's because being that powerful gave them the agency to be that brave. Courtesy, optimism and hopefulness takes a lot of bravery. But it's always better to aim for them than settling for cynicism and negativity.
Thanks for another great discussion. You have summed up why I stopped following a lot of other RUclipsrs. Because all they do is complain and talk about gear and there isn’t enough on the art, the practice or the “why”. Sean you’re one of the few that truly help others and the art!
It's easy to complain. Much harder it's to look back at your complains and realize that if you, yourself not gonna do anything about it, it's never gonna change. Only you can be a solution for yourself. But it takes time, discipline, and tiny bit of luck! Thank you Sean for another motivating video! Greetings from OSLO!
Hello Sean! This one is very magical for me. I've been thinking about quit writing for the past month now. But this one sparked a whole new inspiration in me. Thank you
Point well made. Having been in this industry since the mid 90's I absolutely understand what you are saying. My friend (also a photographer) suggested rather aptly that tue collective noun for a group of photographers should be "a whinge" as it is true we do generally have a tendency to complain. Over the years and along my journey I have encountered negativity, jealousy and spitefulness. I try to always make an effort to let that roll off and smile, this behaviour is only a reflection of those persons underlying realisation that they aren't living the life they want, a kind of "if I can't have it then no-one else can" attitude. As I have progressed and forged my path, grown my business and become relatively successful I have realised that on this journey I passed by this group and up to another, a groupnof successful photographers. In this group I witness much more positive and supportive behaviour, we reach out to each other and help, not hinder. This is for me a distinction between success and not. Basically stop wasting energy on bitching and step up, put yourself out there. It is not easy, it is hard work and you only really have yourself at the end of the day in this business. It isn't something everyone can do and that is OK. One thing that makes me happy is seeing my assistants leave and become successful, that is a good reflection on me I believe. To make it takes a lot of graft, hours, trial and error, learning and growth. Mad busy days and long hours looking at a screen. For the majority of working photographers it is not a glamorous life, but for me it is exceedingly rewarding and a passion I cannot ignore.
I'm not a street photographer and it's not really a genre that hugely interests me, but yours is one of the few photography channels I always come back to on RUclips, because the things you talk about apply to any type of art - and even more widely to life itself. I think that's the mark of a great channel, and you've definitely found your calling here, so to speak! I also got a lot out of your book. Keep on doing what you're doing. All the best.
Once again, thank you Mr. Tucker. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. What you convey in these videos is not only enriching but also inspiring. Thank you!
One exercise that I've started doing recently is a "every day write 3 good things that happened today". I combine it with project 365 as a commitment device and it already made be a happier person that complains a lot less. Thank you for your videos, Sean!
Thank you for these honest words and thoughts! I totally agree to what you say and one should not forget what happens when you combine this with low self esteem.. which actually sometimes might be the reason to step out of the arena
Yes, couldn't express my own thoughts any better Sean. I started listening to J-Pop years ago when I lived and worked in London (I was feeling suffocated by negativity and it was truly killing any creativity I had) - moved to Japan about ten years ago and my photography blossomed. Now, I don't think it was moving to Japan which rejuvenated my creativity per-se, but I do think moving to a new exciting environment made me feel like I couldn't blame anyone but myself for what I made of things. The pandemic put the dampers on things for a while, but I still find going out with my camera kind of blows all the negativity out the window and I'll get excited about whatever I find or learn. Then recently, I've started thinking about writing screenplays and noticed how excited I'm becoming about some creative ideas that have entered my head. Immediately, I have those kind of "oh, who are you kidding ... do you really think you're going to be the next Tarantino" etc ... and then I giggle ... it doesn't matter ... it really doesn't ... I say, damn it go out, have fun, see where creativity takes you and anytime you get the negative voice, the naysaying demon creeping in .... giggle and say, "oh, well, isn't that funny ... I must have had a creative thought otherwise you, the negativity demon, wouldn't have been summoned!" ha ha ha.
yes, this is so so important, its also the same on a personal healing journey, we can only change ourselves, love the RR quote too in the video. I wonder how we can get to a place of acceptance and peace in our lives and how this impacts our creativity. While I haven't developed my photography much, it's been in the state of calm and peace that I have developed more creative writing. Negativity can just be projections and displays of fear. This is such an important message for life. Yet, negativity bias is rife in social media and likes. Brene Brown on the man in the arena is so good, and how we put ourselves out there and make ourselves vulnerability.
Very well said! It made me think about how much I hide behind negativity and how much it is holding me back! I’m saving this video so I can go back and remind myself. This video was like drinking a glass of fresh water when you are really thirsty, so refreshing and just what I needed to get me going. Thank you so much!
Great video Sean, thanks! Good timing...been feeling despondent over my latest efforts, after taking a trip to the UK for a month and having a fabulous photographic time, then coming back to the "same old same old". Been blaming the weather, the location, the timing, my job... But the truth is some of my favourite shots are from here, and it's well past time to be grateful for what I have and get back in the saddle. Cheers!
Thanks Sean. It's so easy to lay the blame elsewhere and complain when things go wrong rather than look at the cause and find a remedy. I've been shooting for 40 years and have seen the advancement in gear. So I know only too well that it ain't the box... it's the guy behind it. But thanks for the reminder. Sometimes you just need a little kick up the butt to get you back on track and celebrating what we have and how lucky we are. Cheers
Love this! Extremely helpful summaries in your videos are always seem to pop up right when I need them.. Thank you so very much for all the personal insight. You put into these videos.
"replace complaining with gratitude about the things we actually have" ... get back to making and learning. I am a hobby photographer and hobby artist (watercolor, sketching, drawing). And those words ... really apply to all of us. I am also a recently retired software developer ... 68 times around the sun. Thought provoking video - thank you.
I've definitely been a bit of a moaner. Especially about social media. But I've definitely hit a point now where I just feel happy that I've got 30-40 people who regularly like my work. I always think, if a print of my work was in a room, and 40 people walked in and said they liked it, how would I feel? Overwhelmed and loved for sure because that's incredible.
I completely agree with you Sean. The funny thing is, while I do probably complain too much in life in general, photography is the one place where I just go and enjoy without complaint. Landscape photography is my respite from the world - my place to be present and simply appreciate wherever I am. I can't imagine how much less my life would be if I filled my photography with complaining, because it's the place I go to restore my soul. Thanks for the reminder to look at how much I might complain elsewhere.
I recently threw caution to the wind and did an impromptu portrait shoot of the guests visting my home on the occasion of my aunty's wake. We gave her a great send off. As for the images, I could see a plethora of mistakes, but all who see the mounted images in the album rave about them. I've learnt many valuable lessons watching your vids. Thankyou for not shying away from tough topics like this one! Regards Greg
Thank you for this video! I have always been an extreme optimist and my "on the bright-side" viewpoint has always been a toss of the dice as to how it will received by my receiver. So this video has actually helped me remember to be compassionate to someone who may not be ready for the most positive of responses. As a side note: because of an earlier video you posted with your conversation with Margaret Soraya, I booked a photo retreat with her for this next September at the Isle of Harris. Never underestimate the influence one of your videos may have on a person. I have already been making the journey as important as the destination as I have had delivered Harris Gin to my home (and quite enjoyed every drop) and am learning some Gaelic words and phrases. This is no short travel for me as I will be traveling from Minnesota, USA. So in short, thank you for the Margaret video and for adding a very fun challenge to my life!
Hi Sean, I originally came here for photography, but I am staying for the depth of ideas you are so brilliant at exploring. Thank you. I love your book; it has inspired me on so many levels. Mac
this hit in more ways than one, sometimes i open my mouth a little too much and its definitely the complaining. thank you for this, helps redirect the negative energy people try to unload on you.
I recall coming across The Man in the Arena from a speech Mandela gave to the Springboks just before they faced the All Blacks at Ellis Park. I was so taken with it, I tracked it down and wrote in a notebook. I often find myself coming back to it when I’m struggling with a task, project, or sometimes just the trials of life … very poignant 😊
Sean, I have been following you for a while and admired your work and thoughts. This time, you definitely far exceeded my expectation. introspection and practice is key to any creative endeavor that produces great result. Your comments resonated with me strongly. I am putting having a discussion about this with you in person in my bucket list. Thanks for your thought provoking and valuable comment. Dipak
Thanks Sean. You are talking sense and making me really think and reflect as usual. Most importantly you remind me to make a habit of being kind and optimistic about other people. The opening scenes of this piece are a really inspiring and beautiful piece of movie making. It opened me up to really hear your message. Thank you for this work.
The negative comments I receive are so strange and obviously from weekend warriors who don’t understand the niche techniques I’m describing they just make me laugh. I try to further educate them but some people are like trying to reorientate an oil tanker.
You misunderstood me- Them not understanding doesn't make me laugh, it is how vulgar, harsh and mean people can be in youtube comments when they comment on techniques they obviously have no understanding of. One can either laugh or cry at such things, i choose to laugh and try at least once to guide them to an understanding (often with humor and lightheartedness) and often I win them over and we part on good terms. Some don't, or can't, change. @@AllCarsUnited
In the darkroom, we used to transform a negative into a positive - printed on paper after human intervention involving passion, attention and care. In my days at camera clubs, it seemed that some judges had stopped at producing negatives in their attitude. The sheer joy of making images, making some mistakes in the enhancement of skill, technique and, most importantly, creativity is always worthwhile.
Thanks so much for this video Sean, once again you've dragged me back from the brink of despair at exactly the appropriate moment with words of wisdom I'd already sensed but hadn't been able to articulate. Seriously grateful! 🤗
Personally I feel that you can't run away from feeling the negativity, BUT you can channel it into your photography. Embrace both the light & the dark of yourself, and enjoy the photography that flows from them both.
Thank you for this insightful video & for sharing your thoughts on this topic so honestly. I’m an illustration artist & I make it a point to find inspiration from all fields of art, especially photography. I catch myself complaining about social media algorithms & how AI Art has been ruining the overall outlook of people towards art. But thanks to your video, I’ve realised that I would rather spend that time knowing & understanding myself better & to be overall grateful for who I am and what I do, because I wouldn’t give it up for the world ❤
Thank you for the thought provoking content. I definitely agree with so much of what you conveyed on being more positive and trying to let the small things go.
great show, I feel this was designed for. I was complaining earlier this morning to family. regarding where I stay makes me depressed. this video made me realize to complain less, tolerate more.
Yes. We now even come to the point where we start to complain about complaining... 😊😅 What also works: what works for me is to force a smile on my face. Magically the conversations and perception of things suddenly become a lot more positive 😁👍🏼
I always love videos mate, particularly these thought provoking ones, hearing your thoughts, as you do really come across as someone that has seriously thought about these topics. I think in this particular case, I'm not sure I completely agree with you. Like many things, context is king. You gave many examples, which in some cases complaining is going to mean something different, from negativity as you mentioned, to criticism and some just commentary or observation. Discussing the state of "insert industry here" and recognising pitfalls, negative issues etc, may be complaining, however it may also be pure observation and logic of what is really happening, not everything is positive. There is a very big difference between this and complaining as an excuse for something, aka, missing a shot, not accomplishing a goral, not getting clients, whatever... It's fair and natural to complain I think, but if you don't do anything about it and just keep complaining, than that is a different story. I could go on and elaborate (examples etc) but this is long enough haha! Thank you again for your thoughts and a great video!
The „Sehnsucht“ - for personal growth and improvement should not degrade one’s motivation of continuing what we do. It’s within in ourselves. Just give it a try. („longing“ which it might translate as the closest in this context - is not the word I was searching for - so I used that expression in my mother’s tongue, sorry;-) That’s what resonates while watching your wonderfully inspiring video. Apart from that; Like your style - and your mindset. Thanks and greetings from Nuremberg, Germany.
This is an amazing video and message. I do my best to catch myself when things like ego or complaining come up. But I still go out and take image's with either a camera or phone just to keep capturing. I'm looking forward for the next video from @seantucker and it's worth the wait for his work and message.
“Don't think about making art, just get it done. Let everyone else decide if it's good or bad, whether they love it or hate it. While they are deciding, make even more art.” Andy Warhol
Thanks for your work, Sean. It seems that you're referring to the concept of ego as defined in New Age and Eastern philosophical/spiritual systems: Ego is often viewed negatively as a source of selfishness, separation, and suffering. However, there are other assumptions regarding this concept as in cognitive psychology for example: The ego is often viewed as part of the overall self-concept, encompassing one's thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions about oneself and the world, influencing behavior and decision-making processes. In short, are you suggesting that we may want to shift from the Eastern philosophical/spiritual concept of ego to the concept of ego as defined by cognitive psychology?
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I have recently been diagnosed with stage 4 advanced cancer. Everything in life seemed fine; I had no idea or symptoms. Remember this: If you're in good health, I don't care what gender you are, what ethnicity you are, what identity you are, I don't care what your debt levels are, your qualifications. I don't care how hard done by you feel your life is. I would swap with you in a heartbeat.
May God grant you the strength to get you through this difficult time. God bless 🙏🏻
Good luck on your journey.
Forza💪
Good luck dear friend. I was struggling with Stage 3 cancer for last six months...the journey is painful but there is light at the end of the day. More power to you
Sorry to hear your news and wish all the luck and strength in the world. I've been there and recovered, luckily I was diagnosed early. Thank you for reminding me again, and all of us, just how easy it is to be negative. Good luck.
When Dani Harrison asked his dad how to become a great guitarist, George answered “learn lots of chords”. Same with photography, make lots of photos. Whatever craft or skill you want to get good at, the only way to do it is to do it.
From the very beginning, you are one of the very few creators on youtube who make sense everytime. Thanks Sean
Thank you Sean, been following for years and not a time have you failed me and many others out there, us trying to produce great photography work while trying to fight our demons, and you so elegantly put it out there for us all to absorb and understand.
Thanks my friend
It might be just way too early to say it, but this is the best photography video of 2024. Cheers mate!
Very well said Sean. Experience has taught me that a true professional will never malign someone near the bottom. I once worked with a photographer who bemoaned that in the age of digital, ‘Everyone’s a photographer’ in a negative way. Some years later I was talking to the late and great David Anthony at a social event, who was a true master photographer yet incredibly humble. When talking about my own photography I was embarrassed, yet he took a thorough and genuine interest in what I had done and insisted that I show him. I kept mumbling and looking at my feet until he asked me ‘Do you understand light?’ ‘Yes’ I replied. ‘Then you are a photographer’ was his response. 100% positive and supportive, and truly at the top of his game.
This is so much deeper than what most photography channels normally talk about, thanks mate
This is not even about photography, it's about life
Sean, you have made me a deeper thinker and a better person. Even outside of photography I love hearing your insight about life and values. For years I've been an extremely negative thinker and it does indeed hold me back, horrifically so. My boyfriend is one of the biggest reasons I've started to come out of it. Through him I realized I'm a terrible cheerleader for my family and friends because I speak unkindly to myself internally and have for years. And it has at times completely stunted my creative growth. At this time of year, with so much potential in the coming spring weather, I'm doing my best to set aside my complaints and negativity and get back out into this beautiful world. Thank you, Sean! ❤❤❤
Sounds like some important self awareness. Well done.
that observation, "isn't it funny how some people can shame you without saying a word, just by being their gracious selves", are exactly the words I've been searching for to describe the impact a good friend of mine had on my personal growth. I often credit him as being one of the key people in my development, and he is always confused and dismissive of the praise, arguing that he didn't do anything in particular, he doesn't know what I'm talking about, etc. But it's exactly as you put it, his being his gracious self, present in my life at the time, is what gave me the contrast to my self, a self that, at the time, I found in need of some growth, to put it kindly to myself in the spirit of this video! Thanks.
Thank you, Sean! Few people can reach from screens into viewers' hearts and soul. So grateful for you and all that you create.
I like to rewatch this wonderful and wise presentation often, so as to remind myself.
As a poet, I really love that your videos speak to all artists, no matter the field or profession. Your videos tell universal truths about the philosophy of art and making things.
If I have learned one thing during the few years I've been into photography, it's to steer away from any and all photography forums and comment sections under articles about photography, unless I really am looking for a specific piece of information :D
This is an inspiration Sean. I really enjoy your no-nonsense, honest-talk directly to the camera. It's heartfelt, gets at the core of your feelings and helps me/us to think about ourselves, and I appreciate that. And I love your photography as well!! I learned a LOT from your "Corporate Headshots" videos, and I recently took headshots for my fellow employees using many of the tips and knowledge from you, as well as other photographers, and our company headshots came out great!! So, thank you again, cheers!
Great to hear Marcus.
No social media, no negativity, fulfilling life
Thank you so much! A very big pleasure to follow your insights not only on photography but art in general. All you say applies exactly on making music, which is my field. It is a due reminder to be not only passionate but also cheerful about being creative!
I must be honest, Sean: I haven't been watching you as much as I used to. But this video rings so true to me, it reminded me of the deep insights into the creative mind that compelled me to subscribe to your channel years ago. I will be catching up on your videos in the coming days. Thank you for making more than complaining, that is one thing we can all be grateful for!
Thanks my friend.
thank you for another great video-lesson!
we’re so lucky to have you out there! 🙏
Sean
You are what I call an honest artist. Bravo!
A much needed and well timed video (for me personally.) -A reminder that those who are busy doing the work often don't have the time or care to break others down. Thanks Sean
I've often though about Gandalf and Dumbledore (sorry, I'm a nerd and that's where my head goes), and why they were so positive and polite by nature. I don't think it's merely because that made them fun characters. I think it's because being that powerful gave them the agency to be that brave. Courtesy, optimism and hopefulness takes a lot of bravery. But it's always better to aim for them than settling for cynicism and negativity.
Absolutely true, not only for creators but in life in general as well... kind of a key to a happier, more serene life?
Totally agree
Thanks for another great discussion. You have summed up why I stopped following a lot of other RUclipsrs. Because all they do is complain and talk about gear and there isn’t enough on the art, the practice or the “why”. Sean you’re one of the few that truly help others and the art!
It's easy to complain. Much harder it's to look back at your complains and realize that if you, yourself not gonna do anything about it, it's never gonna change. Only you can be a solution for yourself. But it takes time, discipline, and tiny bit of luck! Thank you Sean for another motivating video! Greetings from OSLO!
Hello Sean!
This one is very magical for me. I've been thinking about quit writing for the past month now. But this one sparked a whole new inspiration in me.
Thank you
I love your videos! You go so far beyond photography but everything you talk about helps me improve - my life and my photography. Thank you.
Love your openness and life long learning position. Thanks for being an honest voice in your art.
“…are we complaining more than we are making…” 🖤
Point well made. Having been in this industry since the mid 90's I absolutely understand what you are saying. My friend (also a photographer) suggested rather aptly that tue collective noun for a group of photographers should be "a whinge" as it is true we do generally have a tendency to complain.
Over the years and along my journey I have encountered negativity, jealousy and spitefulness. I try to always make an effort to let that roll off and smile, this behaviour is only a reflection of those persons underlying realisation that they aren't living the life they want, a kind of "if I can't have it then no-one else can" attitude.
As I have progressed and forged my path, grown my business and become relatively successful I have realised that on this journey I passed by this group and up to another, a groupnof successful photographers. In this group I witness much more positive and supportive behaviour, we reach out to each other and help, not hinder. This is for me a distinction between success and not. Basically stop wasting energy on bitching and step up, put yourself out there.
It is not easy, it is hard work and you only really have yourself at the end of the day in this business. It isn't something everyone can do and that is OK. One thing that makes me happy is seeing my assistants leave and become successful, that is a good reflection on me I believe. To make it takes a lot of graft, hours, trial and error, learning and growth. Mad busy days and long hours looking at a screen. For the majority of working photographers it is not a glamorous life, but for me it is exceedingly rewarding and a passion I cannot ignore.
I'm not a street photographer and it's not really a genre that hugely interests me, but yours is one of the few photography channels I always come back to on RUclips, because the things you talk about apply to any type of art - and even more widely to life itself. I think that's the mark of a great channel, and you've definitely found your calling here, so to speak! I also got a lot out of your book. Keep on doing what you're doing. All the best.
Once again, thank you Mr. Tucker. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom. What you convey in these videos is not only enriching but also inspiring. Thank you!
I dont just want to like this, I want to love it. Absolutely beautiful presentation, and rings 100% true.
One exercise that I've started doing recently is a "every day write 3 good things that happened today". I combine it with project 365 as a commitment device and it already made be a happier person that complains a lot less.
Thank you for your videos, Sean!
Thank you for these honest words and thoughts! I totally agree to what you say and one should not forget what happens when you combine this with low self esteem.. which actually sometimes might be the reason to step out of the arena
Yes, couldn't express my own thoughts any better Sean. I started listening to J-Pop years ago when I lived and worked in London (I was feeling suffocated by negativity and it was truly killing any creativity I had) - moved to Japan about ten years ago and my photography blossomed. Now, I don't think it was moving to Japan which rejuvenated my creativity per-se, but I do think moving to a new exciting environment made me feel like I couldn't blame anyone but myself for what I made of things.
The pandemic put the dampers on things for a while, but I still find going out with my camera kind of blows all the negativity out the window and I'll get excited about whatever I find or learn. Then recently, I've started thinking about writing screenplays and noticed how excited I'm becoming about some creative ideas that have entered my head. Immediately, I have those kind of "oh, who are you kidding ... do you really think you're going to be the next Tarantino" etc ... and then I giggle ... it doesn't matter ... it really doesn't ... I say, damn it go out, have fun, see where creativity takes you and anytime you get the negative voice, the naysaying demon creeping in .... giggle and say, "oh, well, isn't that funny ... I must have had a creative thought otherwise you, the negativity demon, wouldn't have been summoned!" ha ha ha.
yes, this is so so important, its also the same on a personal healing journey, we can only change ourselves, love the RR quote too in the video. I wonder how we can get to a place of acceptance and peace in our lives and how this impacts our creativity. While I haven't developed my photography much, it's been in the state of calm and peace that I have developed more creative writing. Negativity can just be projections and displays of fear. This is such an important message for life. Yet, negativity bias is rife in social media and likes. Brene Brown on the man in the arena is so good, and how we put ourselves out there and make ourselves vulnerability.
Very well said! It made me think about how much I hide behind negativity and how much it is holding me back! I’m saving this video so I can go back and remind myself. This video was like drinking a glass of fresh water when you are really thirsty, so refreshing and just what I needed to get me going. Thank you so much!
You're welcome. That's great to hear
Great video Sean, thanks! Good timing...been feeling despondent over my latest efforts, after taking a trip to the UK for a month and having a fabulous photographic time, then coming back to the "same old same old". Been blaming the weather, the location, the timing, my job... But the truth is some of my favourite shots are from here, and it's well past time to be grateful for what I have and get back in the saddle. Cheers!
So great to see you adopting the teachings of Richard Rohr into the field of photography.
Thanks Sean. It's so easy to lay the blame elsewhere and complain when things go wrong rather than look at the cause and find a remedy. I've been shooting for 40 years and have seen the advancement in gear. So I know only too well that it ain't the box... it's the guy behind it. But thanks for the reminder. Sometimes you just need a little kick up the butt to get you back on track and celebrating what we have and how lucky we are. Cheers
Love this! Extremely helpful summaries in your videos are always seem to pop up right when I need them.. Thank you so very much for all the personal insight. You put into these videos.
"replace complaining with gratitude about the things we actually have" ... get back to making and learning. I am a hobby photographer and hobby artist (watercolor, sketching, drawing). And those words ... really apply to all of us. I am also a recently retired software developer ... 68 times around the sun. Thought provoking video - thank you.
I've definitely been a bit of a moaner. Especially about social media. But I've definitely hit a point now where I just feel happy that I've got 30-40 people who regularly like my work.
I always think, if a print of my work was in a room, and 40 people walked in and said they liked it, how would I feel? Overwhelmed and loved for sure because that's incredible.
I appreciate all of your content that you share on these kind of issues that many of us can relate with.
I completely agree with you Sean. The funny thing is, while I do probably complain too much in life in general, photography is the one place where I just go and enjoy without complaint. Landscape photography is my respite from the world - my place to be present and simply appreciate wherever I am. I can't imagine how much less my life would be if I filled my photography with complaining, because it's the place I go to restore my soul. Thanks for the reminder to look at how much I might complain elsewhere.
I recently threw caution to the wind and did an impromptu portrait shoot of the guests visting my home on the occasion of my aunty's wake. We gave her a great send off.
As for the images, I could see a plethora of mistakes, but all who see the mounted images in the album rave about them.
I've learnt many valuable lessons watching your vids. Thankyou for not shying away from tough topics like this one!
Regards
Greg
Thank you Sean. Another example of great content that enlightens us with motivation.
So much wisdom and truth here, in this video essay about life. Inspiring! Thanks Sean, God Bless you, man.
Thank you for this video! I have always been an extreme optimist and my "on the bright-side" viewpoint has always been a toss of the dice as to how it will received by my receiver. So this video has actually helped me remember to be compassionate to someone who may not be ready for the most positive of responses. As a side note: because of an earlier video you posted with your conversation with Margaret Soraya, I booked a photo retreat with her for this next September at the Isle of Harris. Never underestimate the influence one of your videos may have on a person. I have already been making the journey as important as the destination as I have had delivered Harris Gin to my home (and quite enjoyed every drop) and am learning some Gaelic words and phrases. This is no short travel for me as I will be traveling from Minnesota, USA. So in short, thank you for the Margaret video and for adding a very fun challenge to my life!
Hi Sean, I originally came here for photography, but I am staying for the depth of ideas you are so brilliant at exploring. Thank you. I love your book; it has inspired me on so many levels. Mac
Thanks Mac:)
Thank you so much for the reminder. I just caught myself in doing way too much complaining my self. Will do better now ❤😊
I love your thoughtful work and open and honest, frank approach. It's always inspiring. Well done and thank you.
this hit in more ways than one, sometimes i open my mouth a little too much and its definitely the complaining. thank you for this, helps redirect the negative energy people try to unload on you.
I recall coming across The Man in the Arena from a speech Mandela gave to the Springboks just before they faced the All Blacks at Ellis Park. I was so taken with it, I tracked it down and wrote in a notebook. I often find myself coming back to it when I’m struggling with a task, project, or sometimes just the trials of life … very poignant 😊
Sean, I have been following you for a while and admired your work and thoughts. This time, you definitely far exceeded my expectation. introspection and practice is key to any creative endeavor that produces great result. Your comments resonated with me strongly. I am putting having a discussion about this with you in person in my bucket list. Thanks for your thought provoking and valuable comment. Dipak
Thanks Sean. You are talking sense and making me really think and reflect as usual. Most importantly you remind me to make a habit of being kind and optimistic about other people. The opening scenes of this piece are a really inspiring and beautiful piece of movie making. It opened me up to really hear your message. Thank you for this work.
This video is a course itself. There is so much wisdom and vulnerability in it… Thanks a lot Sean. ❤️
The negative comments I receive are so strange and obviously from weekend warriors who don’t understand the niche techniques I’m describing they just make me laugh. I try to further educate them but some people are like trying to reorientate an oil tanker.
So people not understanding you make you laugh? That sounds a bit negative and cold as well.
You misunderstood me- Them not understanding doesn't make me laugh, it is how vulgar, harsh and mean people can be in youtube comments when they comment on techniques they obviously have no understanding of. One can either laugh or cry at such things, i choose to laugh and try at least once to guide them to an understanding (often with humor and lightheartedness) and often I win them over and we part on good terms. Some don't, or can't, change. @@AllCarsUnited
Thank you Sean, thanks for the quote from Rooseveld, will remind me to stay positive regardless the atmosphere. I appreciate your work!
Well said...less complaining and more joy = adapt - Be a doer
In the darkroom, we used to transform a negative into a positive - printed on paper after human intervention involving passion, attention and care. In my days at camera clubs, it seemed that some judges had stopped at producing negatives in their attitude.
The sheer joy of making images, making some mistakes in the enhancement of skill, technique and, most importantly, creativity is always worthwhile.
🌺✨🌺 Thank you. I agree... and faulter (at times... still). Love and Light :)
Thanks so much for this video Sean, once again you've dragged me back from the brink of despair at exactly the appropriate moment with words of wisdom I'd already sensed but hadn't been able to articulate. Seriously grateful! 🤗
Great to hear.
Thank you. I struggle with negative thoughts but your support empowers me to keep trying. Thank you.
Personally I feel that you can't run away from feeling the negativity, BUT you can channel it into your photography.
Embrace both the light & the dark of yourself, and enjoy the photography that flows from them both.
Agree 100%, if our self talk mirrors the support we would give a struggling friend it is a powerful motivator.
You may be posting less these days but each video keeps being a keeper. Thanks!
Thank you for this insightful video & for sharing your thoughts on this topic so honestly. I’m an illustration artist & I make it a point to find inspiration from all fields of art, especially photography. I catch myself complaining about social media algorithms & how AI Art has been ruining the overall outlook of people towards art. But thanks to your video, I’ve realised that I would rather spend that time knowing & understanding myself better & to be overall grateful for who I am and what I do, because I wouldn’t give it up for the world ❤
Thank you for the thought provoking content. I definitely agree with so much of what you conveyed on being more positive and trying to let the small things go.
Just ordered a book and 3 magazines! Can't wait until they get here. In the mean time, no complaining and lots of picture-taking 😊
Thanks for the support!
Thanks for some true words. I just finished reading your book and enjoyed every page
great show, I feel this was designed for. I was complaining earlier this morning to family. regarding where I stay makes me depressed. this video made me realize to complain less, tolerate more.
Yes. We now even come to the point where we start to complain about complaining... 😊😅
What also works: what works for me is to force a smile on my face. Magically the conversations and perception of things suddenly become a lot more positive 😁👍🏼
Again wonderful thoughts to reflect on myself. Thank you for your great work!
Very refreshing and inspiring. Time for me to get on with it. Thank you Sean!
I always love videos mate, particularly these thought provoking ones, hearing your thoughts, as you do really come across as someone that has seriously thought about these topics. I think in this particular case, I'm not sure I completely agree with you. Like many things, context is king. You gave many examples, which in some cases complaining is going to mean something different, from negativity as you mentioned, to criticism and some just commentary or observation. Discussing the state of "insert industry here" and recognising pitfalls, negative issues etc, may be complaining, however it may also be pure observation and logic of what is really happening, not everything is positive. There is a very big difference between this and complaining as an excuse for something, aka, missing a shot, not accomplishing a goral, not getting clients, whatever... It's fair and natural to complain I think, but if you don't do anything about it and just keep complaining, than that is a different story. I could go on and elaborate (examples etc) but this is long enough haha! Thank you again for your thoughts and a great video!
Bravo! Beautifully expressed words, Sean. Thank you.
Much wisdom here Sean, thank you for the reminder.
Thank you, Sean. Your video's are always inspiring.
Thanks for this reminder, your are so eloquent.
The „Sehnsucht“ - for personal growth and improvement should not degrade one’s motivation of continuing what we do. It’s within in ourselves. Just give it a try.
(„longing“ which it might translate as the closest in this context - is not the word I was
searching for - so I used that expression in my mother’s tongue, sorry;-)
That’s what resonates while watching your wonderfully inspiring video.
Apart from that;
Like your style - and your mindset.
Thanks and greetings from Nuremberg, Germany.
Sean Tucker! ‘’Upon those that dwell in the land of darkness, a light has shone!”
This is an amazing video and message. I do my best to catch myself when things like ego or complaining come up. But I still go out and take image's with either a camera or phone just to keep capturing. I'm looking forward for the next video from @seantucker and it's worth the wait for his work and message.
Thank you so much for your great lesson, most appreciated!
what a thoughtful video, I like this a lot Sean! It's a great lesson for everyone.
I really needed to hear this and not just for my photography. thanks.
And this is what we need when we are struggling. Kuddos to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏
“Don't think about making art, just get it done. Let everyone else decide if it's good or bad, whether they love it or hate it. While they are deciding, make even more art.” Andy Warhol
Always a joy to follow your honest thoughts.
Love how you tell the stories
Amen. Refreshing talk.
You have an incredible way with words! ❤
You are the only one that first i hit the like button and then watch the video. An other great video with a lot of truths
you are necessary, Sean! thank you
This was so good and really made me think. Time for change i think.
Sean, thank you very much for this video, a great lesson
Our thoughts are our enemies or allies. It's always our choice what we think about.
Thanks for your work, Sean. It seems that you're referring to the concept of ego as defined in New Age and Eastern philosophical/spiritual systems: Ego is often viewed negatively as a source of selfishness, separation, and suffering. However, there are other assumptions regarding this concept as in cognitive psychology for example: The ego is often viewed as part of the overall self-concept, encompassing one's thoughts, beliefs, and perceptions about oneself and the world, influencing behavior and decision-making processes. In short, are you suggesting that we may want to shift from the Eastern philosophical/spiritual concept of ego to the concept of ego as defined by cognitive psychology?
This talk is more of a current societal reflection than a photographic one!
Thanks ... needed to hear this (again) !