He would definitely date her or would've dated her if she was into him, but he also values women for their friendship so he didn't have a tantrum and ruin their relationship by screaming at her that she's putting him in the "Friend Zone"
I’m a straight woman who is sexually attracted to very random women on occasion. I’m into men in every way. There’s a distinct difference and it has nothing to do with how I was socialized. Preference is okay and doesn’t need to be endlessly “diagnosed.” We are who we are.
I learned about limerence on the Crappy childhood fairy on RUclips. She goes in depth about it. I also heard people who believe in twin flame is also a form of limerence! So cool that you guys spoke about it. Learning about it really helped me unlock some of my patterns that I knew wasn't healthy but couldn't figure out why it was happening.
I love Annie's honest stories about her exes and attachment and anxiety... it's so refreshing and helpful to hear someone be so honest about something I think a lot of us are struggling with. Thanks Annie for your honesty and vulnerability.
I really liked the “Drop Dead Fred” reference. That movie came on UPN one night when I was 14 and was very invested in the character dynamic between mother and daughter
please please announce the next live trash tuesday more in advance and not so close to the date!! Sluggies want to plan to come see you ❤ have a great time w ur show tonight Annie and the first in person live show on the 4th 😚
Don’t respond too soon bc it gives the ick, but also don’t wait more than 24 hours bc then you’re gross and using power dynamics. How about y’all decide what ya want first? 😂
I learned of limerence recently too !! It sort of opened my eyes to the obsessive love I felt in the past . There is a RUclipsr called “ crappy childhood fairy “ that is very good about explaining this
I have mono and I realized that Ester only takes baths because she's lazy not because she doesn't like showers 😂 why did it take me this long Love you guys, you all do a great job 😙
0:00: 🎤 Annie and her team are excited about the upcoming Trash Tuesday show at the Regent Theater in LA on August 4th, which will include games, audience interaction, and a live podcast element. 7:11: 😳 The speaker reflects on her past relationships, including a possessive ex-boyfriend and a meet-cute that turned into a long-lasting infatuation. 13:13: 😬 The speaker discusses her experience with a person who she believes is her twin flame, but acknowledges the unhealthy aspects of the relationship. 19:34: 🔥 The speaker discusses her experiences with twin flame relationships and limerence. 26:52: 🔍 The speaker reflects on past experiences with dating and the importance of consistency and trust. 40:10: 😳 The speaker discusses their past relationships, including feeling dominated and forced into things, but also finding relief in having someone there for them. They also talk about recurring dreams and the fear of not being prepared for expectations. 46:45: 💬 The speakers discuss their dreams, the fear of spiders, and the cultural differences in smiling at strangers. 53:43: 😂 The speaker discusses her frustration with people telling her to smile more and her realization that she feels more comfortable and friendly around her male friends. 1:02:46: 😂 Esther and her guest talk about their experiences with inexperienced partners and the importance of honesty in relationships. 1:10:05: 😬 Discussion about the importance of communication and being attentive during sexual experiences. 1:15:36: 🗣 The hosts discuss their experiences with sex and breakups. Recap by Tammy AI
@@OPAnaya Todd isn't an equal to Annie. That's lame. That's her playing it safe, ensuring she always has the upper hand, gets to be the dominant one. It doesn't feel balanced, which is the highest order of ideals IMO. You gotta have two people who are equal and opposite.
God I'm so sick of Khalyla lying about stuff. She has to chime in on EVERYTHING, especially what Annie says. Just like the Dj thing,I bet she's never had that thought before And I'm a fan. Truly
As a 36 year old guy who spent his entire youth pursuing a career with monk-like devotion, Thank you for virgin talk. I had sex 3 times total in my 20's, and haven't had sex since 2013. I was thinking i would need to get hookers to help me practice so i wouldn't disappoint a girl if i met the right one, but what Khalyla said made me realize i don't need to do that. Im just gonna be honest and let the pieces fall where they may. Thank you Slugs.
That's so awesome for you. And it's so true. We all have our issues man. Be proud of who you are. If you are good to people that's really all that matters. And put yourself out there. Life is Soo short. Just be friendly but not pushy. Read cues. Try to come across as confident. When you meet someone then you can be vulnerable. Girls like confidence. Good luck. And I know you weren't looking for unsolicited advice. I'm now 50 and yes over the hill. For some reason I am compelled to tell young people not to take time for granted. I hate getting old. I didn't think I would be like that. But I also didn't think it would go so fast. You are still young enough. You still have time to meet someone and have a family. All of that.
"fireworks" type relationships are often toxic. It's the high highs and love bombing that make it feel soo intense.. Guess what? It almost always ends bad. Real love is a slow burn and isn't a Rollercoaster. I fell for the fireworks and chaos once and it took me 7 damn years to get out. Never again.
Love all the lewks!!! Toned legs gorgeous beauty enhancing makeup love the red top Esther! Good jokes! Come back to Seattle to perform-I’ll go this time!
Probably one of the only standers that truly believes in twin flames. And I don't believe that it's an exact copy of one's soul, but rather the perfect mirror image that their soul fits to yours like the perfect puzzle piece. My old lady is every single thing that somehow I got attracted to in my life, and we're so close that we will literally answer a question out loud to a question thought in our head. I think the right person is out there for everyone and you shouldn't stop trying to find the right person until you feel it fully in your soul
Wow guys this episode is EXACTLY what I needed to hear this week. I've been feeling anxious and analyzing past relationships a lil. Resonated a lot with everything you all said and I'm very grateful ❤
The question is does Dave like Esther. I think anyone that gave her a smidge of attention or one percent of effort to woo her would be engaged to her. Getting together will CreepoRedban says a lot about her standards for dating
Just broke up with my ”twin flame” this year. It’s exhausting because both of our egos fed on each others flame and left us dependent and depleted. Rather than us feeding our own flames.
Holy h*ck, you guys. I often talk to the screen when I am listening to this podcast, but this episode I was SCREAMING at the screen. 🤯✨🐦💖 Because, I am CURRENTLY entangled in a twin flame dynamic. He is 20 years older than me. I am 29 and he is 50. Both of our mothers have passed away, FROM THE SAME THING. They had all the same health conditions, we both we their caretakers at the end of their lives. We have IDENTICAL freckles on our chests. It has shown me a lot of my shadow side. He is currently in jail. We both have a tendency to live in a fantasy world. All of my closest friends don't think it's a good idea for me to continue to be with this man. But there are so many aspects about our lives, our connection, the way we met, EVERYTHING- I understand why he is the way he is. And it hurts, but I do love him so much. So, who knows? I am just trying to be open to whatever is supposed to be, even if that means having to let him go someday. So, thank you for talking about that, fr. I WISH I COULD COME TO THE LIVE SHOOOWWWW 😭 Maybe next time tho. 🤭💖 Oh, and PS, this twin flame and I have literally the BEST sex I have ever had in my entire life. I had no idea internal orgasms were even possible for me before him. Aaagghhh. 😭😭💖💖😩
Come see us live August 4th @ 7pm at The Regent Theater! Get tix here: www.ticketmaster.com/event/09005EEAEFA03D97
*_The WILLOW TV-Series on Disney+ gave us a Lesbian Disney Princess._*
Wow these some hayders B we got ur back girls 💴💴💴
i’m busy that night
Hold up!
Why do both tickets start at 7PM, if one is VIP pre show experience???
No thanks
When esther said shes never had a twin flame, we ALL knew she was wrong… it’s definitely rick 🤣
Omg absolutely 💯
1000%
It's so obvious !
He would definitely date her or would've dated her if she was into him, but he also values women for their friendship so he didn't have a tantrum and ruin their relationship by screaming at her that she's putting him in the "Friend Zone"
Esther’s Twin Flame is Rick Glassman and she’s just avoiding it
Omfg please 😭
Have you watched their other show? They’ve got some serious sexual tension
They have no sexual tension lol. I think you're just shipping them
So true.😆
pretty much and i think he digs her too lowkey
Esther is so uncomfy with her twin flame being Rick 😆 it's seriously a love hate relationship
Those "boring" relationships are the best relationships you'll ever have.
I’ve always said this: This is an educational show for men. Thanks ladies
Esther’s dream about having to go back to high school because she didn’t really graduate.. my longest reoccurring nightmare.
Same
i have that too i realize i signed up for classes i never took and it’s the last day of school and i have to take the exams i’m going to fail
I love Annie’s stories 😂👏🏼👏🏼
I’m a straight woman who is sexually attracted to very random women on occasion. I’m into men in every way. There’s a distinct difference and it has nothing to do with how I was socialized. Preference is okay and doesn’t need to be endlessly “diagnosed.” We are who we are.
48:00 😢 omg that’s me too. I’m 5’1/2” tall, maybe 110 lbs and I constantly feel like I’m not safe in the world.
I want to go to the live show!! You three are a riot. Thanks for trashing my tuesdays
❤
I learned about limerence on the Crappy childhood fairy on RUclips. She goes in depth about it. I also heard people who believe in twin flame is also a form of limerence! So cool that you guys spoke about it. Learning about it really helped me unlock some of my patterns that I knew wasn't healthy but couldn't figure out why it was happening.
This podcast needs to end. I cant believe it made it this far.
They’re doing a THEATER….redbar spies get your tickets
I love Annie's honest stories about her exes and attachment and anxiety... it's so refreshing and helpful to hear someone be so honest about something I think a lot of us are struggling with. Thanks Annie for your honesty and vulnerability.
I really liked the “Drop Dead Fred” reference. That movie came on UPN one night when I was 14 and was very invested in the character dynamic between mother and daughter
Esther using eyeglasses? We don't deserve such cuteness. She really looks fine
Wish this podcast was out when I was in my early twenties, this is such an amazing resource and I’m very thankful to the slug queens 💛
This particular pod made me feel so normal.
Agreed!
Really related to Annie about that unhealthy thinking of, I need someone to take the place of my mom (who's my best friend) when she's gone....
please please announce the next live trash tuesday more in advance and not so close to the date!! Sluggies want to plan to come see you ❤ have a great time w ur show tonight Annie and the first in person live show on the 4th 😚
Annie: He was from Michigan. Does that explain it?
Khalyla: Yeah
Esther: No
😂 im crying!! 😂
Wait i don’t get it 😅 he’s just like a Midwest regular hunting type dude or something?
Don’t respond too soon bc it gives the ick, but also don’t wait more than 24 hours bc then you’re gross and using power dynamics. How about y’all decide what ya want first? 😂
As a man, I’ve been told to “smile” more by women co-workers. I just figured they were just flirting.
I learned of limerence recently too !! It sort of opened my eyes to the obsessive love I felt in the past . There is a RUclipsr called “ crappy childhood fairy “ that is very good about explaining this
Love her!❤
Annie is looking 🔥🔥🔥. Great episode Slug leaders.
Annie's story was so worth it haha army crawling. Jesus.
twin flames are legit-if ya know ya know.....THE most intense, life changing encounter/experience/ relationship ever
I have mono and I realized that Ester only takes baths because she's lazy not because she doesn't like showers 😂 why did it take me this long
Love you guys, you all do a great job 😙
“I gotta chew” is really very crazy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
When that happen?
@@OPAnaya in regards to the cooch goop left on the penis after intercourse
That swim dream K gets is a “stress/anxiety dream.” It’s equivalent to teeth falling out, no clothes to school, forgot how to drive ect.,
I know why you're going on a trip with your ex, he's paying for it!
annie's eyeliner is over 9000 on this one
Esther’s flame has a weird smell so the rumors say 😂
0:00: 🎤 Annie and her team are excited about the upcoming Trash Tuesday show at the Regent Theater in LA on August 4th, which will include games, audience interaction, and a live podcast element.
7:11: 😳 The speaker reflects on her past relationships, including a possessive ex-boyfriend and a meet-cute that turned into a long-lasting infatuation.
13:13: 😬 The speaker discusses her experience with a person who she believes is her twin flame, but acknowledges the unhealthy aspects of the relationship.
19:34: 🔥 The speaker discusses her experiences with twin flame relationships and limerence.
26:52: 🔍 The speaker reflects on past experiences with dating and the importance of consistency and trust.
40:10: 😳 The speaker discusses their past relationships, including feeling dominated and forced into things, but also finding relief in having someone there for them. They also talk about recurring dreams and the fear of not being prepared for expectations.
46:45: 💬 The speakers discuss their dreams, the fear of spiders, and the cultural differences in smiling at strangers.
53:43: 😂 The speaker discusses her frustration with people telling her to smile more and her realization that she feels more comfortable and friendly around her male friends.
1:02:46: 😂 Esther and her guest talk about their experiences with inexperienced partners and the importance of honesty in relationships.
1:10:05: 😬 Discussion about the importance of communication and being attentive during sexual experiences.
1:15:36: 🗣 The hosts discuss their experiences with sex and breakups.
Recap by Tammy AI
This episode is really talking to my soul 😭🖤
I think you just unlocked my brain to thinking my ex husband and dad to my 3 kids is my twin flame. I can finally let go of the hate for that jackass.
Could imagine goofy Todd laughing like beavis and butthead telling Annie he’s dedicating a song to her. 😂
Annie your makeup looks so good. 🥰
The day Esther and Dave break off their engagement is the day the world starts making sense.
No way, they're perfect for each other. Annie on the other hand...
What?! I love both couplings. Hot hot hot
@@OPAnaya Todd isn't an equal to Annie. That's lame. That's her playing it safe, ensuring she always has the upper hand, gets to be the dominant one. It doesn't feel balanced, which is the highest order of ideals IMO. You gotta have two people who are equal and opposite.
Fav pod forever 💜
Annie out of focus during the ads at the start 😂 love her!
Man, I wish I lived closer. I would love to come see you guys!
I love when Annie talks bout NM. like girl come back n do a show!!! 505 loves u!!!
what happened to George the old producer?
This is a very special episode!!! Great job!!!!❤😊
Amazing episode i love you guys sm
Khalyla will NEVER leave Bobby. She's around him every chance she gets.
He won't let her. He's talked about it on Bad Friends
Wish I could go to the live show!! You guys have fun!
What happened to Carlos?
God I'm so sick of Khalyla lying about stuff. She has to chime in on EVERYTHING, especially what Annie says. Just like the Dj thing,I bet she's never had that thought before
And I'm a fan. Truly
if you noticed she clings and tries to relate to Annie more and more. Hahaha
Hahahahahaha Bobby turns all his ex girlfriends into lesbians 😂😂
Because Bobby is a lesbian, remember 😂
@@aiseruchaan lmao aw man don’t do my mans like that
As a 36 year old guy who spent his entire youth pursuing a career with monk-like devotion, Thank you for virgin talk. I had sex 3 times total in my 20's, and haven't had sex since 2013. I was thinking i would need to get hookers to help me practice so i wouldn't disappoint a girl if i met the right one, but what Khalyla said made me realize i don't need to do that. Im just gonna be honest and let the pieces fall where they may. Thank you Slugs.
That's so awesome for you. And it's so true. We all have our issues man. Be proud of who you are. If you are good to people that's really all that matters. And put yourself out there. Life is Soo short. Just be friendly but not pushy. Read cues. Try to come across as confident. When you meet someone then you can be vulnerable. Girls like confidence. Good luck. And I know you weren't looking for unsolicited advice. I'm now 50 and yes over the hill. For some reason I am compelled to tell young people not to take time for granted. I hate getting old. I didn't think I would be like that. But I also didn't think it would go so fast. You are still young enough. You still have time to meet someone and have a family. All of that.
Men who have paid for sex is an even bigger turn off that's literally an automatic no for me
Rooting for you!
They're called sex workers.
"fireworks" type relationships are often toxic. It's the high highs and love bombing that make it feel soo intense.. Guess what? It almost always ends bad. Real love is a slow burn and isn't a Rollercoaster. I fell for the fireworks and chaos once and it took me 7 damn years to get out. Never again.
This episode felt vintage Trash Tuesday. Really enjoyed it
Of course Annie has insight on dreams, this was an awesome episode. Very soothing🤌🏻
Love my Tuesday girls! Listening to you guys talk about relationship dynamics and dating is so refreshing thank you for sharing! 💜
spiders rarely kill us. they leave you alone if you leave them alone.
A hundred percent, we take that as a sign to say I’m interested
One of my favorite episode 😅💕💕so relatable please don’t ever stop these !😘
Good podcast
Straight comedy and insight to real life stuff... Great episode!
Love this episode! :)
Great show ladies Esther still wearing her Oprah glass.
Damn Trash Tuesday fell off big time! What happened to the numbers? It's half of what it used to be.
When someone tells me to smile more I say “that’s creepy”
The Hozier song Annie was talking about, is it "Someone New"?
Coming from a woman whose date told her he was a virgin. It’s uncomfortable.
Love all the lewks!!! Toned legs gorgeous beauty enhancing makeup love the red top Esther! Good jokes! Come back to Seattle to perform-I’ll go this time!
Rick n Esther talk like siblings
The best pod on planet earth never stop!
Probably one of the only standers that truly believes in twin flames. And I don't believe that it's an exact copy of one's soul, but rather the perfect mirror image that their soul fits to yours like the perfect puzzle piece. My old lady is every single thing that somehow I got attracted to in my life, and we're so close that we will literally answer a question out loud to a question thought in our head. I think the right person is out there for everyone and you shouldn't stop trying to find the right person until you feel it fully in your soul
Wow guys this episode is EXACTLY what I needed to hear this week. I've been feeling anxious and analyzing past relationships a lil. Resonated a lot with everything you all said and I'm very grateful ❤
Oh thank god someone explained twin flame… I thought it was a show or something lmao
The shoes on the couch 24/7 with this show does kill me but it’s healthy to get through uncomfortable situations so thanks girls keep doing you
I love trash Tuesday ❤️😍
Does Esther like/love Dave or not ? 😂😂😂😂 every week I’m just not sure
Neither is he. 😂
@@JBGC916 😂😂💀💀
The question is does Dave like Esther.
I think anyone that gave her a smidge of attention or one percent of effort to woo her would be engaged to her. Getting together will CreepoRedban says a lot about her standards for dating
@@clevermissfox that’s a good point lol I thought she was with Tony Hinchcliffe?
Whatever happened to Carlos?Anyone know?
Thanks Sluggies! ⭐🌹😘💕⭐
Esther pretending she wouldn’t never talk to a guy again if he told her he was inexperienced in bed. 😂😂😂
Snorefest
I love drop dead Fred ! Yes Phoebe is half Filipina ❤
Her mom is Chinese Filipino ❤
Esther's subconscious and TikTok algorithm are screaming at her to dump Dave 😄
More live shows! Shoutout your city if you want them to come!
Austin TX! 🐄🐌✨
Cleveland, OH!
@@hdog4474Shocked they haven’t been there yet, since Rogan- his club, kill Tony etc are all there, I’m sure they’ll be coming soon!
Indianapolis!
San Francisco
Did I hear Dr Ramani?That's one woman I need in my life daily.Dont take that wrong,
Genuinely enjoying the post intimate conversations about past relationships, as relatable as hpv. 😅
Mr. Big.. to be with you… banger!!!
love yall
dude, I have the same dream about not graduating high school
Just broke up with my ”twin flame” this year. It’s exhausting because both of our egos fed on each others flame and left us dependent and depleted. Rather than us feeding our own flames.
Annie's disappointment after Khalyla's 36:33 "power thru it" flashed me back to Garfunkel & Oats singing "College Try"
*_Maybe-just maybe-stop buying a banana for Esther? Throwing away food is such a waste._*
Kahlayla says being Gay is a Choice!
Awww I wish I could go to the live show!!
Bobby lee is still the best thing to help this podcast
Loved this episode! I received lots of comfort after breaking up with a guy I’ve been with for 2 years on n off but never made me his gf 😅
No way had no idea u guys know rumi personally
I wanna give y’all a big hug and have a four way kiss 💕
Does anyone else think Rick is mean to Ester??? I can't seem to watch her show because of condescension by him.
04:11 Annie's story broke my foot peeing in the woods doesn't actually start until you skip to 14:23
haha honestly 30 second story
Holy h*ck, you guys. I often talk to the screen when I am listening to this podcast, but this episode I was SCREAMING at the screen. 🤯✨🐦💖 Because, I am CURRENTLY entangled in a twin flame dynamic. He is 20 years older than me. I am 29 and he is 50. Both of our mothers have passed away, FROM THE SAME THING. They had all the same health conditions, we both we their caretakers at the end of their lives. We have IDENTICAL freckles on our chests. It has shown me a lot of my shadow side. He is currently in jail. We both have a tendency to live in a fantasy world. All of my closest friends don't think it's a good idea for me to continue to be with this man. But there are so many aspects about our lives, our connection, the way we met, EVERYTHING- I understand why he is the way he is. And it hurts, but I do love him so much. So, who knows? I am just trying to be open to whatever is supposed to be, even if that means having to let him go someday. So, thank you for talking about that, fr. I WISH I COULD COME TO THE LIVE SHOOOWWWW 😭 Maybe next time tho. 🤭💖
Oh, and PS, this twin flame and I have literally the BEST sex I have ever had in my entire life. I had no idea internal orgasms were even possible for me before him. Aaagghhh. 😭😭💖💖😩
Love you guys can u talk about the Barbie movie 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗