Thank you all your kind words and thoughts and prayers for me and my family. I do see a lot of comments on if or why I am not going to India it’s because I am not able to travel because of my passport issue. I didn’t think I needed to explain in details but I know how some people can get curious and judge and that sadly bothers me. My Indian passport expired in 2018 and was lost/ stolen along with other documents while going through my divorce. I tried renewing it after my gc but couldn’t as I didn’t have matching documents with my previous last name and other documents like adhar or voter were needed which I didn’t have so I gave up on the process as never in my dream I thought this will happen. I am working on getting my passport renewed but my case is different and complicated. But the consulate is helping me. I am awaiting police report on my lost passport which will take a few more days then they will let me know if I have all the right documents and I can get the passport or not. They can issue a one way travel document to enter India but I need to get Indian passport sorted before I can travel back to USA and I have 4 kids so I won’t chance that. Also I have a strong support system here so given I didn’t have issue with my passport I would have left the day of . Coz the amount of money, energy I have spent and the pain and stress I have gone through I would rather would have seen my dad one last time and be with my mom and sister in person than stay up night after night over the phone. I don’t owe you or anyone an explanation but there are definitely some insensitive people who don’t what to say during this time but acts more concerned for my family than I am and give unsolicited advice.
Rumela, you did not have to explain this...and kaku will always be with you. Amar babao aar nei ei prithibite.. I am still grieving.. I lost him in 2019. May God give you the strength to overcome this loss. I hear you.. ❤❤❤❤
You don't need to explain anything to anyone.. Tumi onek strong.. Kaku jekhanei thakun tomar sathe thakben.. But eta sotti koshter j tomar kharap somoy katiye tumi ato valo akta jaygay pouchecho.. Richard er moto valo akjon lifepartner peyecho kintu kaku seta samne eshe dekhte parlo na..
You don't need to explain everything.. those who judge they would do it no matter what.. just be strong and well. Take care and don't forget u r a strong lady who never gives up ... ❤❤.. Nijer ma Babar kache jete na parar pain ta nischoi tomar theke beshi ar keu feel korte parbe na.. India r baire thakle ei visa related n legal complications gulo sobar pokhhe bojha possible noi unless they face it...
You are a strong woman our inspiration... I can touch your pain cause I have gone through this pain in the month of February. I have lost my mother she was a diabetic patient. She was just 58. I miss her everyday 😢
My condolences to you and your family Rumela. This loss is irreplaceable and I can feel your pain as I have lost both my parents. May his soul rest in peace.
Stay strong Rumela. I lost my dad in 2018 and still miss him so much and it took some time for me to deal with the emotional pain.Prayers for you and your family's well being 🙏❤
this cannot be easy. i am so sorry for your loss rumela. please take care of yourself, take time to grieve and heal. take as much time as you need, we're here for you
Very sad news,I can't believe this. Every word you said about your father was matching with me & touched my heart .we were also very dear daughter to our father. To me,Baba means like a positive energy .Baba means like a powerful strength with full of love.Don't worry Rumela ur father will always be by your side with positive energy Be careful &stay well .
Om Shanti 🙏Bhogoban Tomader shokti din ai koshto sojjho korar .Uni Amader ak meye ke diyechen Amra dekhchi as an inspiration.Unake Dhonnobad .Rumela unar sopno puron koro uni jekhane thakun tomai dekhben o ashirbad korben.
I am so so sorry for your loss !! I have been following you for almost 10 years and so proud as a fellow Bengali in the USA….I will keep you in my prayers 🙏
I can relate with you coz i lost my father last month...and am 26 now my father was 70 ....i lost him at 9th july , whole world turned upside down for me...bt am still fighting through it....he too was just like your father was so proud of me i guess baba ra emon e hoi❤...would appreciate every little things i did...he was fighting cancer for last 9 years...and am proud of him that he fought through this disease for so long and was still happy with his life never complained about anything...i can understand that your situation is lot more tough as you away from your relatives at this moment may god give strength to you for bearing this loss
মা বাবার সেরা মেয়ে তুমি কাকুর কোনো অপূর্ণতা নেই কাছে না পাওয়ার দুঃখটা হয়তো থেকেই যাবে। আমরা কাছে পেয়েও অনেক কিছু করতে পারিনি। কাকুর জন্য রইলো প্রণাম আর প্রার্থনা।
I have lost both of my parents n I can understand the pain you are going through. It will.take time n gradually you will return to normalcy. I pray to God for the departed soul.may his soul rest in peace.
So sorry to hear that..I have not been into your place , so I don't know how does it feel. But all I know is his blessings and love are always with you. May be now he can see you everyday from close. You just need to feel it. My condolences are with the family. Be strong!!!
So sad to hear this. You're so courageous to make this video and we thank you for sharing this with your community❤️ Be strong and celebrate his memory everyday❤️ Warmest love from a French follower ❤️❤️❤️
Khub kharap laglo khabar ta peye. Anaira habar samay tomar baba esechhilen dekhechhi. Tumi er madhye jadi akbar kolkatai gele bhalo karte. Ki ar karbe. Khub y alpa bayase chale gelen. Akhan ma ar bon ke take care koro. Uni jekhaney thakun bhalo thakun
Hi rumela. I can understand your pain as i have lost my mother just one month before she was to come to my place. The pain of losing is unbearable. Its been a year now but still pain remains. I too have a photo of her in my bedroom abd whenever i see her my heart sinks. No words can heal this agony.
So sorry to hear your loss😔 I lost my father when I was 13months old i know the pain of not having a father... I know no words can console you right now.. Stay strong 😔
I can understand your pain I lost my both the parents in a year . More strength & courage to you . It is a difficult situation. It will take time , please take time to heal this grief as it is one of the hardest time . Take Care ❤
Rest in peace Kaku🙏 Sending you loads of strength and love. These are tough times dear. Hold onto your good jujus and patience. I very well know the feeling you are currently experiencing. It hurts everyday but also gets a little better with time. You will be your mother's shoulder henceforth. ❤
So sorry to hear this news, I can feel your pain Rumeila, I lost my father when he was 52yrs old in car accident, we say it is early but you know dear it the time for them, every one has a different time to live this world dear, it's a big loss for a family. I have no words to console you, prayer for you and your family, universe give you and your family the strength to bear this loss. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE🙏💐
Stay strong…no sought of condolence is enough in this situation and neither we can feel the amount of pain you are growing through. But I would just like to say be strong..be brave ..
Losing a parent is the saddest thing that can happen to anyone . I lost my day when he was 65 and lost my mom in 2022. She lived with my sister in Sydney . I could not see her one last time . I often dream about her , hear her call me just the way she used to do when used to call me. My sister called early in the morning and I knew something terrible has happened .
I can feel your pain Rumela Di because i also lost my mother this year march she was just 56years we came to know about her cancer on 7th of January on my mother’s birthday there was no symptoms it was so unexpected for me as i’m the only child she died on march 5th. We got no tiem for treatment as doctor told us nothing can save her no treatment is there .I can feel your pain nothing can fill this up 😢
I can't give you any sympathetic words for this as bcz I can recall my those days too...bhogobaan tomay strength dik..r Baba jekhanei thakuk tomay onek ashirbad korbe shamner poth cholar jonno..🤗❤🤗
Be strong physically nd mentally, i know u are, fathers are so attached to their girl chield, just like a hero, we girls' make our father proud about whatever we are, let uncle be in peace wherever he is🙏🙏💕💕💕💕
Amaro khub kharap lagche kothata shune.. be strong noile tomar maa ke kikore samlabe.. onake je ekhon tomra dui bon chara keu samlate parbe na.. ki ar bolbo, karon eta emon ekta loss, jetar jiboneo konodin bhorpai hoyna❤❤ take care of yourself and your mother too❤❤
Thank you all your kind words and thoughts and prayers for me and my family. I do see a lot of comments on if or why I am not going to India it’s because I am not able to travel because of my passport issue. I didn’t think I needed to explain in details but I know how some people can get curious and judge and that sadly bothers me. My Indian passport expired in 2018 and was lost/ stolen along with other documents while going through my divorce. I tried renewing it after my gc but couldn’t as I didn’t have matching documents with my previous last name and other documents like adhar or voter were needed which I didn’t have so I gave up on the process as never in my dream I thought this will happen. I am working on getting my passport renewed but my case is different and complicated. But the consulate is helping me. I am awaiting police report on my lost passport which will take a few more days then they will let me know if I have all the right documents and I can get the passport or not. They can issue a one way travel document to enter India but I need to get Indian passport sorted before I can travel back to USA and I have 4 kids so I won’t chance that. Also I have a strong support system here so given I didn’t have issue with my passport I would have left the day of . Coz the amount of money, energy I have spent and the pain and stress I have gone through I would rather would have seen my dad one last time and be with my mom and sister in person than stay up night after night over the phone. I don’t owe you or anyone an explanation but there are definitely some insensitive people who don’t what to say during this time but acts more concerned for my family than I am and give unsolicited advice.
Ho6e sune ho6e khub kharap laglo .Uni jekhanei ho6e thakun valo thakun kaku
Rumela, you did not have to explain this...and kaku will always be with you. Amar babao aar nei ei prithibite.. I am still grieving.. I lost him in 2019. May God give you the strength to overcome this loss. I hear you.. ❤❤❤❤
You don't need to explain anything to anyone.. Tumi onek strong.. Kaku jekhanei thakun tomar sathe thakben.. But eta sotti koshter j tomar kharap somoy katiye tumi ato valo akta jaygay pouchecho.. Richard er moto valo akjon lifepartner peyecho kintu kaku seta samne eshe dekhte parlo na..
You don't need to explain everything.. those who judge they would do it no matter what.. just be strong and well. Take care and don't forget u r a strong lady who never gives up ... ❤❤..
Nijer ma Babar kache jete na parar pain ta nischoi tomar theke beshi ar keu feel korte parbe na.. India r baire thakle ei visa related n legal complications gulo sobar pokhhe bojha possible noi unless they face it...
I so sorry Rumeka may give you the strengthto to overcone this huge lord.
Losing a parent is like losing a limb. I lost my mom last year and I havnt got over it at all.
Hugs to u. ❤
Losing parents is most toughest phase in every one life😔 … be strong di
সত্যি কষ্ট লাগছে, কি বলবো বুঝতে পারছি না গো,বিদেশ জীবন সত্যি কোঠিন, মন শক্ত করো দিদি। কাকু স্বর্গ বাসী হোন🙏
So sorry for your loss, Rumela! Please accept my deepest condolences .
So sorry to hear your loss. Stay strong dear! He will be always with you in your thoughts and in your memories.❤
Can feel the pain. Just take one day at a time to get used to it for who is gone is in a better place but we have to carry on. All strength to you!
You are a strong woman our inspiration... I can touch your pain cause I have gone through this pain in the month of February. I have lost my mother she was a diabetic patient. She was just 58. I miss her everyday 😢
Take care Rumela, no words can console you! Stay strong and be a support for your mum ❤️ May his soul rest in peace 🙏🏻
That’s unexpected.Stay strong dear! Sending you love.
More strength to you & your family. Heartfelt condolences 💐
You are his biggest pride . He is there with you . Just remember the lovely moments you ha with your Bapi . May your Bapi rest in peace !!
My condolences to you and your family Rumela. This loss is irreplaceable and I can feel your pain as I have lost both my parents. May his soul rest in peace.
RIP uncle 🙏♥️.Deep condolences to the family,hope you soon get over this and start from the scratch all over it again...
Stay strong Rumela. I lost my dad in 2018 and still miss him so much and it took some time for me to deal with the emotional pain.Prayers for you and your family's well being 🙏❤
So sorry for your loss, death of a parent is never easy. Will pray for you and your family
RIP....💐 এর কোনো সান্তনা হয়না রুমেলা....কি যে বলবো....মা একা থাকলে মাকে নিয়ে চলে এসো তোমাদের কাছে। Stay strong .
OMG, so sorry to hear about this dear. Please stay strong. I lost my dad 2 years back, and this is something that nothing can heal.
So sorry to hear about your loss 😢
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May your father's soul rest in peace .I can feel your pain as I have lost my father on my last birthday.
this cannot be easy. i am so sorry for your loss rumela. please take care of yourself, take time to grieve and heal. take as much time as you need, we're here for you
Heartfelt condolences to you can feel ur pain and death of a parent is irreplaceable, much ❤ and strength to you and your family.
RIP 🕉 SHANTI
A Heartfelt condolences to you and whole family in the great loss
Rest in peace!
খবরটা শুনে খুব মর্মাহত হলাম।ইশ্বর তোমাকে কষ্ট সহ্য করার শক্তি দিক, এই প্রার্থনা করি।
May his soul rest in peace 🙏
I lost my father too in January this year 😢Very difficult to lose parents.
Be strong..to be honest you are my inspiration, you fought every time and came back..this time also you will overcome all pain❤
Be strong Rumela. It's a very sad news. May his soul rest in peace.
May his soul rest in peace.
So sorry to hear about your loss. May he be rest in peace 🙏
Very sad news,I can't believe this.
Every word you said about your father was matching with me & touched my heart .we were also very dear daughter to our father. To me,Baba means like a positive energy .Baba means like a powerful strength with full of love.Don't worry Rumela ur father will always be by your side with positive energy
Be careful &stay well .
Very sad to hear . May his Soul rest in peace 🙏.
Ohhh....My.....God.......RIP 🙏🙏🙏
Must be very painful for you. Stay strong. His blessings are there for you.
No words... Stay strong di🫂
Condolences to you and your family, stay strong Rumela
Be strong. Your dad is in a better place now passing away in sleep is a blessing from God. My prayers are with you all
Om Shanti 🙏Bhogoban Tomader shokti din ai koshto sojjho korar .Uni Amader ak meye ke diyechen Amra dekhchi as an inspiration.Unake Dhonnobad .Rumela unar sopno puron koro uni jekhane thakun tomai dekhben o ashirbad korben.
May his soul rest in peace. He will always be there with you all.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my dad, I know how much it hurts.
So sorry Rumela, may God give you tbe strength to over come this extreme pain.
I am so so sorry for your loss !! I have been following you for almost 10 years and so proud as a fellow Bengali in the USA….I will keep you in my prayers 🙏
I can relate with you coz i lost my father last month...and am 26 now my father was 70 ....i lost him at 9th july , whole world turned upside down for me...bt am still fighting through it....he too was just like your father was so proud of me i guess baba ra emon e hoi❤...would appreciate every little things i did...he was fighting cancer for last 9 years...and am proud of him that he fought through this disease for so long and was still happy with his life never complained about anything...i can understand that your situation is lot more tough as you away from your relatives at this moment may god give strength to you for bearing this loss
More prayer to you ND your family 🙏🙏
Sorry to hear this, though I lost my father on 8th July and he was just 64. It's true, life is very much unpredictable.
মা বাবার সেরা মেয়ে তুমি
কাকুর কোনো অপূর্ণতা নেই
কাছে না পাওয়ার দুঃখটা হয়তো থেকেই যাবে।
আমরা কাছে পেয়েও অনেক কিছু করতে পারিনি।
কাকুর জন্য রইলো প্রণাম আর প্রার্থনা।
I have lost both of my parents n I can understand the pain you are going through. It will.take time n gradually you will return to normalcy. I pray to God for the departed soul.may his soul rest in peace.
So sorry for your loss 😢stay strong x
My condolences to you and your familyno words to say be strong may his soul rest in peace
So sorry to hear that..I have not been into your place , so I don't know how does it feel. But all I know is his blessings and love are always with you. May be now he can see you everyday from close. You just need to feel it. My condolences are with the family. Be strong!!!
So sad to hear this. You're so courageous to make this video and we thank you for sharing this with your community❤️ Be strong and celebrate his memory everyday❤️ Warmest love from a French follower ❤️❤️❤️
Khub kharap laglo khabar ta peye. Anaira habar samay tomar baba esechhilen dekhechhi. Tumi er madhye jadi akbar kolkatai gele bhalo karte. Ki ar karbe. Khub y alpa bayase chale gelen. Akhan ma ar bon ke take care koro. Uni jekhaney thakun bhalo thakun
Rest in peace uncle...stay strong dear. ...god bless you and your family
Khub e koster ata... jar haray sei jane... strong theko atai bolar... 💖💖💖
Oh my God..im literally shocked to see ur video just now..I'm really sorry for the loss..may God give u and ur family strength
Hugs and love to you Rumela.
We are with you please try to be strong 😢
A heartfelt condolences to you and your family. May God gives you all enough strength to bear this huge loss.
Please be strong, this is unexpected 😢 Wherever he is, he is proud of you!
Rest In Peace. 🙏
Hi rumela. I can understand your pain as i have lost my mother just one month before she was to come to my place. The pain of losing is unbearable. Its been a year now but still pain remains. I too have a photo of her in my bedroom abd whenever i see her my heart sinks. No words can heal this agony.
So sorry to hear your loss😔
I lost my father when I was 13months old i know the pain of not having a father...
I know no words can console you right now..
Stay strong 😔
I can understand your pain I lost my both the parents in a year .
More strength & courage to you .
It is a difficult situation.
It will take time , please take time to heal this grief as it is one of the hardest time .
Take Care ❤
Stay strong and pray for your dad's departed soul ❤
RIP🙏
Don't cry always sister ...He is still with u , try to send few good vibes to him , I have passed thie same phase before 2.5 years
Rest in peace Kaku🙏 Sending you loads of strength and love. These are tough times dear. Hold onto your good jujus and patience. I very well know the feeling you are currently experiencing. It hurts everyday but also gets a little better with time. You will be your mother's shoulder henceforth. ❤
Sabdhane theko, ei phase ta shantipurno vabe katiye otho taratari .
Loosing a parent is loosing a part of yourself. Cherish his memories. May his soul Rest In Eternal Peace 🙏
Deep condolences to You and your family..
No words. May God give patience and strength to family.
Stay strong ..he is in a better place ..and after all your hurdles he was a proud father...
M so sad 😢 Rest in peace. 🙏
May his soul rest in peace. You are a strong woman….. he will be always with you.
So sorry to hear this news, I can feel your pain Rumeila, I lost my father when he was 52yrs old in car accident, we say it is early but you know dear it the time for them, every one has a different time to live this world dear, it's a big loss for a family. I have no words to console you, prayer for you and your family, universe give you and your family the strength to bear this loss. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE🙏💐
Sune mon ta khub kharap laglo Rumela,.. it’s very painful.. may god give you and aunty strength for this loss… he is always with you ❤️
Stay strong…no sought of condolence is enough in this situation and neither we can feel the amount of pain you are growing through. But I would just like to say be strong..be brave ..
Love & hugs to you . With each day it will get a little better
Be strong didi I also lost my dad just 6month holo so be strong
Deepest condolences to you and your family for a great loss, May his soul rest in peace , take care of yourself and your family be strong 🙏
So sorry for your loss...tomar baba r attar shanti kamona kori 🙏🙏🙏 bhalo theko
Sincere prayers!❤
You are in my thoughts and prayers, Rumela, hugs to you
I also lost my father 3 months ago i know what went through in my life😢😢😢😢😢
There is no word to console at this point. Stay strong dear. Love you ❤
Losing a parent is the saddest thing that can happen to anyone . I lost my day when he was 65 and lost my mom in 2022. She lived with my sister in Sydney . I could not see her one last time . I often dream about her , hear her call me just the way she used to do when used to call me. My sister called early in the morning and I knew something terrible has happened .
So sorry for your loss.
I can feel your pain Rumela Di because i also lost my mother this year march she was just 56years we came to know about her cancer on 7th of January on my mother’s birthday there was no symptoms it was so unexpected for me as i’m the only child she died on march 5th. We got no tiem for treatment as doctor told us nothing can save her no treatment is there .I can feel your pain nothing can fill this up 😢
I can't give you any sympathetic words for this as bcz I can recall my those days too...bhogobaan tomay strength dik..r Baba jekhanei thakuk tomay onek ashirbad korbe shamner poth cholar jonno..🤗❤🤗
😢rest in peace dadu
Feeling very sad to hear this news. Be strong Rumela. May his soul rest in peace.
Be strong physically nd mentally, i know u are, fathers are so attached to their girl chield, just like a hero, we girls' make our father proud about whatever we are, let uncle be in peace wherever he is🙏🙏💕💕💕💕
RIP🙏 I have no word to console u.. just stay strong..
Amaro khub kharap lagche kothata shune.. be strong noile tomar maa ke kikore samlabe.. onake je ekhon tomra dui bon chara keu samlate parbe na.. ki ar bolbo, karon eta emon ekta loss, jetar jiboneo konodin bhorpai hoyna❤❤ take care of yourself and your mother too❤❤
Very sad .May his soul rest in peace.
Rest in Peace to your dad
Chinta koro na sob life tumi mene niyecho
Kichu korar nei
MAY his soul rest in peace Ameen 🙏
Tumi khub strong... Kichu boler nei ei situation e tomay.. shokto theko, thaktei hobe... Kaku achen tomar sathe always... Shokto thako Rumela... Amra sobai tomar sathe achi.
May god give you lots of strength.. hugs and love for you Rumela.
Mon sokto koro kakima bon er pase theko ora to okhane aka khub kosto pelam go