7 Life Lessons Men Learn Too Late In Life
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Are you over 45?
Summary
1) train your mind
a) self control
- eliminate porn
- reduce gaming
B) mental health
- seek help.
- eliminate avoidant behavior
C) validation
- reduce social media usage
2) train your body
- lift weights. Increase your testosterone.
- maintain a healthy weight
3) improve your communication skills.
- get out of your shell.
Thanks man, saved 9mins of my life 👍
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@@patsmith6405 facts that part
@@karanator😂
For introverts the issue with socializing is not fear or anxiety, it’s the fact that it’s exhausting
No man. It's coz you're too lazy to change. Up your energy, work out, change to a better version of yourself. Where you are in control of your own mental strength. This is just a bullshit statement. I was an introvert. I was having low energy. I changed, I started going out and meeting women on the streets. I got really good in terms of that, but what it also gave me, was the mental toughness, health and other side-benefits. You're saying/stating that it's NOT within your control. You're wrong.
Agreed, as a young man I realized women are attracted to confidence. I was extremally introverted so I made a conscience change to get out of my comfort zone and put myself into social situations that I would have never before and looking back I am so happy that I did that. So many things in your life will improve by being more social and getting out of the lone wolf introvert mind set.@@TomasGabriel83
@@TomasGabriel83 its about its waste of time to socialize also, its not about control of your mind cuz socialise with many ppl is waste of time imo, it will just drain your energy and time from something more productive u can do, for me , my energy must be used on something productive and that is meaningful, socialize in most cases are just waste of time
@@TomasGabriel83 On top of that, I found the less people I chill with (socializing), the less bullshit I deal with.
If you've got time for other people's bullshit, good for you.
But coming from being someone quite outgoing and social, to realizing a lot of the people you socialize with won't be there for u when you really need them because they don't ACTUALLY care about you, I realized life is too short to be using the one resource that both isn't renewable and the single most important resource to a human being (Time) on socializing unless it's genuinely beneficial to ur life.
Outside of that, it is in fact time wasting and exhausting.
@w.m.e.cantinoobtrader1334 you're socializing with the wrong group of people if it's a waste of time for you. socializing with motivated/goal oriented people pushes you and opens up doors. You've gotta get used to being able to socialize with people at first. You'll eventually meet the right people you wanna be around
To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love
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Thank you. I have gotten rid of my pain and stress, just by this ONE THING alone! And that's cutting out feminists out of my life. I feel much happier now, thank you :)
Keep in mind that being introverted doesn’t mean you are bad at socialicing. Actually introverted people tend to be more successful than extroverted people. Here are some of the potential reasons for this:
Introverts are generally quiet people, especially when they’re around a large group of people. They’re actually listening.
They’re aware of the things happening around them. Because they’re observant, they’re able to notice both the flaws and successes of others.
They’re naturally cautious, especially with anything that involves risk. Introverts tend to plan ahead as much as possible.
They are relentlessly self-aware and are not likely to take part in any activity that will embarrass themselves or someone they work for.
When an introvert is speaking, he carefully weighs his words in hopes of communicating something important when he gets an opportunity.
It’s no surprise that introverts tend to be more introspective than extroverts, able to spend hours thinking about various topics.
Because introverts tend to be more introspective and careful about things, they’re less likely to be sharing other people’s’ secrets.
Facts
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True bro 😊
As a christian, what I believe due to my personal experience, the first thing we should do is to always put God first. Follow god's teaching in the bible and he will guide you for the rest of your life.
Amen
For the men who are here to make a change. I am here with you! I have gained 10kgs of muscle. I have stopped drinking alcohol. Self asteem is low. I dont feel confident in social events. But today i make that change today i will get out of my shell, i will face my fears!
Glad that I found this video. I am a gamer, and I lost interest in other important activities after I spent a lot of time playing games; I felt empty, stuck, stressed, and anxious. But it's not too late; I am determined to make changes.
Wow man, I´m sure you will achive whatever you want!
what games did you play
As an introvert I started trying to put myself in this type of mindset, “I was born an introvert in an extroverted world”
- With out the ability to adapt, you get left behind in nature. And these days are extremely challenging to introverts because of social media.
Our types have never been more tested in history then now.
I would say there are different types of introverts. I'm introverted but I have all the confidence anyone could wish for. I don't really care to be social honestly. People are nasty and you can't trust anyone.
@@GoneCarnivore And most of the goals of society are too materialistic. I believe that part of being introverted is that we are more sensitive and care for more important things.
@@GoneCarnivorethat’s how I feel
For me I don’t care about socializing at all as long as I have the money to duy what I want and live the life I want
Jose is the hero that we need, but don’t deserve. Truly an inspiration of someone we can become. Thank you Jose
Wym "don't deserve" ?
Don’t deserve? 🤣
Bro this ain't Batman
Jesus is the hero we need, but don't deserve☠️
@@neskingston9742that’s exactly right
WOW. Jose, this was so inspirational for me. My fiance and I spit up recently, watching this has given me a new direction in my life. Thank you so so much !
About 4 month ago. I was seriously struggling with porn for 6+ years. Tried even exercise. Helped a bit ripped but still was addicted to it. Stopped for over 3 months now. Bruh its awesome. I think better, i visualize clearly, i dont subconsciously undress women, i can focus i am always in the zone i feel like i can punch anybody in the face, like i can run 10 miles. Never ever doing that sh*t again. Amen
How did u stop the strong urges man.
I can't go past 3 days
1. You need to have too many work to do and goals to look forward acomplishing tomorrow
2. Have exercise
3. Having a gf that satsify you would actually seal the deal but thats the hard part
You can jerk off but just use memories, don’t use external stimulation
@@azul1964would you let your teen kid to have relationship
We need to protect this man at all costs!
One of the best channels I could have subscribe to when I was in college. Since then I been beast in my goals. Thank you
Dude I'm from the 80s and I will never eeeeever say that I am not a man. We are the last of the real men g.
Gen X
Hear that
I’m sure every generation has said this. 🤫🥱 Just call yourself old.
Yes, the truly masculine men are from the 80s and older! We possess intelligence, mental, emotional, and physical strength as well as a moral standard rooted in our faith.. men of true integrity. Top entrepreneurs of today are from the 80s and older.
I really appreciated the lower tone of voice, the slower pacing. Some past videos had the salesman's pitch voice and pace. This one was serious, but a friend-to-friend tone manner. Well done
The quality of video is way better than any one else thank you jose
Used to watch back then, havent watched in a while. Man you have improved, i am running through what i have missed. Thanks
Brotherhood is proud of you. We are lucky to have you giving updates.
Bless you bro❤
Thank you brother, my journey to the success is now ON!
New editor needs a raise
The whole team does
I used to have loads of confidence. I was in a motorcycle wreck around the time covid started up. Multiple compound fractures to my femur and various other broken bones. The long recovery on top of everything closing down got me playing video games 24/7. I've felt like I'm not even me anymore because of the many issues you covered on top of losing my little brother earlier this year. This video was motivational. Wish me luck.
Peace to you brother.
We here for you brodie
Your comeback is gonna be one for the books
Go get your life back life is for living
keep your head up
Haven’t watched your channel in years but i see you guys have upped your game up 👌🏻💯
A great start for all men. Mentally, physically get strong. I would add to that spiritually as well, which completes and adds hope as well.
Really appreciate the content bro...I'm leveling up like never before ❤️🔥.
I was in monk mode for 6 months and I realized your voice is incredible now I'm waiting for tutorial
You don't look for this video ,it finds you❤...purely informative
This is one of the best videos you've ever made.
Thanks, it is really helpful
Big brother Jose always wants the best for us!
On Point! Def something to share with my sons to keep them on the up.
jose the video quality is awesome you are like a brother I always needed
I am downloading this to my phone and watching this daily, thanks a lot for this!
Lesson 8 never let a man tell you 45 is to late
I love hos his content has improved
I usually compare Jose's videos to Alex Costa's videos and the difference is usually the stuttering and stammering(which is perfectly normal btw)
But none of that's here
Jose's truly mastered his craft
Social Media - I am consuming this and I reckon this type of content will increase confidence.
Thank you for speaking the truth and helping the fellow man.
I actually found socialising to be more of a hinderence as i found people wanted my skills for a lot less than their worth and i actually done the work to keep them happy.
I am now more proactive with my time in nature or seeing family members or friends that don't expect me to be their benefit which gives me piece of mind and more time to do what i want to do all the while earning more money with less stress. Im no millionaire btw 😂😂😂
After my big hit on break up I realized those mistakes. Now i am moving on with self care and discipline. It's satisfying.
Man you have levelled up you channels production. Exquisite content 👏🏾
You got a new subscriber🙌. Literally, every man should watch this.
People nowadays don't even understand the meaning of Introverted, it's just those group of people that choose not to be social frequently. It's not that when they're afraid, it's called social anxiety 💁♂️
6:35 I would say that the right way to fix self esteem is to be the man that doesn't need validation from anyone cause he just knows how awesome and masculine he is. Consuming less is a must cause your subconcious will keep comparing you with others but posting more to actually feel better about yourself is a dangerous and false way to increase self esteem. You should feel like a badass no matter what others say or think about you or your photos
As always it was a great video to watch Jose you are doing Gods work right there
Sincerely, all you videos have been great, but someway somehow, this video has hit me harder than any other video. The facts just hit me directly on the head.
Jose inspires us all with his videos. Thank you
Two minutes in. Already my eyes are open.. Thanks Jose. You are doing God's work❤
As always his contents are top notch and finally I got to see that jose who tells straight on face and holds his masculine tone and body language, i want that jose 🔥🔥 with that the editing has really changed 🤌🏻✨.
For somebody you might be just a fashion influencer but for you are like my big brother, an inspiration and I can't just express in words... love you brother by Shridhar R Hegde from India 🇮🇳. May god bless you and your family with good health,wealth and happiness......❣️❣️❣️
Video at 1.25 is a perfect resume of life nowadays. Light, and concise. Great work.
Loved your video, brother!! Agree 100%! Thank you!
Once again jose is dropping incredible wisdom🔥
No lies, No advertisement just straight to the point things.
Thank you very much big brother, for another great content.
But there is advertisement through
I love this man…….you are the father that I lost💪🏽
I can watch you content everyday for devotional
Pretty much realised this in my late twenties. Really important to go out there and socialise. And gym!
Don't care about what others think. Work on yourself and stay focused! Remind yourself that you are here for a purpose, maybe one you haven't found yet. Great Video🔥💯
Thank you Big Bro for giving me the 7 life lessons that men need to know to late in life. Appreciate it man
bro
You not even realize how good his advices are until you are in the situation. I wish I could start taking his advices seriously earlier in my life
Why does this comment written like a bot?
big bro is crazy 😭😭
@@diollinebranderson6553because your brain have been programmed to think this is a bot due to overconsumptions of internet
jose been releasing bangers recently, bro is definitely in his prime era.
Looks like the editing team got a raise 😅 the editing is top notch ,loved it
Been porn free for a little over 3 months.. I'm honestly impressed how good it feels. I actually find more women in the real world attractive than before. Last night I was so frustrated that I put down my Nintendo Switch, went to Target, walked like 3k steps and managed to talk to a cute girl at Target.
fuck yeah bro
How bad are the urges now compared to when you first started?
@@Nero-KD The first month was rough. Second month was a little easier. After that any urge was pretty easy to control. However, I do still allow myself to masturbate sometimes. Not all the time. That's still more natural than watching porn. Just trying to break one bad habit at a time. There's going cold turkey and there's also tapering off. I'm trying to taper off.
Jose’s videos just keep getting better and better… so glad I’m subscribed to this channel, thanks for the content bro!
You are an true inspiration to young coming generations
Waw... Every single word you used here make sense. Being a fitness coach, completely agree with you bro...i am at my age of 52 fully mascular looks like 30s strong man. Mentally and physically fit💪😅 once again appreciate your motivation for the young generation 🙏
Nothing is learned too late. It's learned when we're ready to realize and understand it. 😎
Life won't just stand there for you to learn.
So, be quick-witted, and save yourself and others. Plus, don't lose your patience. What needs to come will eventually come to you.
You just need to guide it towards you.
And it late then .... understand the context .... ..... " But better late than never ..... "
@@072smith define late.
@@antoniopetisce3417If you're 90 years old and realize that you could've invested money to sustain riches it's a bit late for that. We're all on a timeline and the sooner we acquire and apply useful knowledge the better of we'll be because death is a reality. Momento mori.
i love the new style of the videos 💪🏻
Thank you, I needed to hear these things.
Only thing I disagree with is video games, as a gamer myself and someone who consistently goes to the gym 5 days a week for an hour and a half to 2 hours and manages their health by cooking healthy meals almost every night, reads a chapter each night to help with mental growth, and still works in school, work, and tries for 7 hours of sleep each night. I think video games are a solid use of escapism, and can in fact strengthen the mind, hand-eye coordination, and can be a positive stimulate same as the gym as long as if you're not spending countless hours on it and wasting your life away through gaming it's a solid outlet and a good use to keep your mind occupied and away from negative aspects. I personally play maybe an hour or two each night of games that have solid stories, or even challenging games such as the Dark Souls series, or "Lies of P" currently to help build towards a feeling of success when I overcome these challenges.
I agree, moderationis key, I still play games, but i don’t play for hours on end, everyday. They don’t replace my life. There is a big difference in playing for an hour or so after you’ve finished everything you need to do, versus having video games replace your life and that dopamine system. Can more people realize that difference?
Agreed. Gaming can act as a hobby besides sports and fitness. I think he just means those hardcore gamers like sitting on the chair for like 24/7 and they don't even play competitive gaming.
Ya that's fine hes talking about long stretches of time 1 to 2 hours is fine
bro ur videos are getting better day by day be it be editing be it be script or scientific studies and all . Appreciate that
putting in work brother! The team is incredible
@@JosecZuniga thanks for da reply man , i am 16 and you are changing my life positively in many aspects
Loving the new style of content bro 🔥🔥🔥
Example of a high value video 🔥🙏🏽appreciate your content bro
I’m in my late 30s and proof these lessons need to be learned before it is too late. Lost job, lost marriage, on medication, no friends, have hit rock bottom. I am trying to change this but I have wasted the prime years of my life and I’ll never get those back.
Don’t ignore him and take action on this in your 20s.
Embrace the suffering bruv, stay focussed, hard work makes easy live , godspeed
It's never too late my friend, we things he mentioned are progressive actions. The sooner you do them will yield more benefits, whereas you don't because you think it's too late is just an excuse. You got this bro, don't give up.
@@hakomiiYip, I Agree it's never too late it's just an excuse the sooner U take Action & build these Good habits the sooner U see results....
I think generally the Younger U are the harder it is to motivate Urself to apply these lessons cos most feel it's too hard + U still hve time too break bad-habits/routines + change behaviour & the Older U are the more U realize U need to create Change & the more Motivated U are cos U feel U dnt hve time....
Lastly, Society dsn't dictate when the right time is to attain wot-ever it is Ur hoping to attain there's no Perfect-time tht's also why it's never too late!!!!
Its never too late to bounce back
My own mantra wanna help you: It is n-e-v-e-r too late ! Yesterday was the best moment, today is the 2nd best moment. Now is better than ever.
Thank yo so much Jose🏁🔥
how can you not love this king of a big brother
Came across ur channel now and regreting why not early thankyou for providing us epic source of knowledge and correcting us brother. LOVE FROM INDIA ❤❤
Great video as always but the title is misspelled.
This video is super helpful.
Thank you!
I don’t why but I like this dude seem like he sincere about this message shout out to you bro
I would often hear my dad telling my brother's that when a man can maintain self control/discipline over temptation, sexual desires etc.; and focus on what is most important in life. Suchv as being your best self, take care of yiur family, be honorable, intelligent, tough, there's more but his list was long. Dad would tell them those thing's graduate you from boy to unlocking manhood.
that's why I'm subscribed
Wow!!! That was epic man. Am definitely gonna give this video a thumbs up.
Amazing Video! This is what we really need in today's society.
I will now watch this every morning for 1 year
report back results
@@JosecZuniga So far its reminding me of what I need to do and stay true to. I think that after 3 months of this ill have it memorized :)
Hes right about gaming also. I reduced my gaming now to an allocated time once a week, down from almost everyday. I also don't use any social media, apart from youtube if that counts, same goes for TV, netflix etc, got rid of it all. I live a life of strictly training 4 times a week, buy my groceries for the week, and cook all my own meals prepared fresh every day.
Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't talk to people, just do it, no matter how much you dislike it. I went from avoiding people to now I can just talk to complete randoms without issue, even though I feel uncomfortable, I just ignore it.
This also does lead you to more income as you can now communicate with better clients, or work in a more higher demanding job which, most high demanding roles require very high standards of communication, not just in talking but in writing which are key skills. Not only that, you need to be in peak physical condition in order for you to keep up with the high stress and demands that come along with higher incomes. My brain operates so much faster now compared to a typical person, I can get complex stuff done in days rather than weeks or months.
this video is very very well done. Thanks, brother. thanks so much.
Thank you so much for the priceless info bro !
Obsessed with success🏁💸⚽
Managing money is different from accumulating wealth, and the lack of investment education in schools may explain why people struggle to maintain their financial gains. The examples you provided are relevant, and I personally benefited from the market crisis, as I embrace challenging times while others tend to avoid them. Well, at least my advisor does too, jokingly.
Investors should exercise caution with their exposure and exercise caution when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or trusted advisor in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields
This is superb! Information, as a noob it gets quite difficult to handle all of this and staying informed is a major cause, how do you go about this are you a pro investor?
Through closely monitoring the performance of my portfolio, I have witnessed a remarkable growth of $485k in just the past two quarters. This experience has shed light on why experienced traders are able to generate substantial returns even in lesser-known markets. It is safe to say that this bold decision has been one of the most impactful choices I have made recently
Wow, that's stirring! Do you mind connecting me to your advisor please. I desperately need one to diversified my portfolio
I've actually been looking into advisors lately, the news
I've been seeing in the market hasn't been so encouraging. who's the person guiding you?
Bravo my friend! Clean job! Thank you
God bless you brother for the good work you are doing, ❤❤❤❤
Something Noticed that he's voice is more deeep.....and editing level got increased too.....
Delete social media, posting is looking for external validation
I have deleted all my social media platforms successfully 💪
This is the only thing I have close to a "social media" platform. I 100% agree.
... I had to watch this, three times over to absorb what you said in this clip... THANK YOU
Yo😂 what did I miss? Jose's videos are now this good👏🏼🔥🔥🔥🔥🙆🏾♂️ I'm impressed
Whoever let this man cook was a funckin' G 👑🗿🍷
Your Content Stands Out In A Refreshing Way! I Truly Appreciate The Absence Of Background Music In Your Videos, As It Allows Your Message And Personality To Shine Through Without Distractions. Keep Up The Great Work!
This one was so good. Now to apply the knowledge gained
Nicely said and delivered.
Love the way he Jose is becoming more composed and calm in his videos. Shows he follows his own advice and keeps improving even in the top %
I am forty five years old and still learning 😂
Very informative! Thank you!
Lots of respect for you brotha ♥️
I would say your videos on masculinity are my personal favorites. These are things that men need more of in their lives so thank you!
I don't agree with the number-7 it has nothing to do with extroversion or Introversion because I have come across many introverted entrepreneurs in my life may ge shyness can be a problem but Introversion or extroversion doesn't make much difference here being extroverted doesn't necessarily make you smart because people are introverted but still smarter and sharper on the other hand many extroverted people are not smart they are just dumbs even after being extroverted it us better to be a smart introverted than being a dumb extroverted
Thanks Jose for everything that you do and for every advise that you give us.