16 Personalities as Boyfriends
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
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Me, an INFP: You guys are getting girlfriends?
Female INFP here. I feel you man, from the other side of that heterosexual coin.
Now...kith...
i married an INFP, there is hope :)
@@basilbaby7678 haha. Unless...
😂😂😂
As a INFJ I can confirm that turning down the lights and sharing our deepest insecurities and traumas is such a turn on
My GOD someone being willingly vulnerable is like my kryptonite
As an INTJ, that sounds positively horrible 😂
@@krista584 in a way it is... 😂
I like this 😎 ~ENTP~
HELL YEAH!!!! (Me: INFJ) 😊
I can't help but wonder what a "16 personalities react to 'I love you'" sketch would be like
YES..!
(INTJ DEATH STARE. NO WORDS. CRICKETS CHIRP IN BACKGROUND).
ISTP: *stares and doesn't move*
@@meganobrien5967 sounds rpmantic.
ENFP: froze in amusement, and start laughing because of the awkward atmosphere
INFJ :Lets just turn Down the lights and talk about our deepest insecurities and traumas.
Me an INFP : Yes, Please!
as an INFP in that moment i would say yes please, then i would go home and write in my journal about how much do i regret how much did i open up, and how is this person gonna hate me or be loving me only BY sorrow. stupid INFP MIND.
srry if i got some grammar errors, english is my second languaje :P
@@hatercualquiera3386 kinda but not that hard btw are you an INFP-t ? I am an INFP-a
@@btsthete yes i am an INFP-T, how did u know?? xD)
omg same
Infp's are precious, must protect. Im always up for deep convos...
~fellow INFJ
“I know what your face looks like. Who do you think you’re fooling?”
PFFFFTTT 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣
Loved it. If a dude ever tells me that I'll keep him for life.
Frank is gold 🤣
I screamed 😂😂😂
INFP; we're all hopeless romantics until someone actually asks us out or confronts us about our true feelings and suddenly we clam up and we're like: "HA feelings?? What are these 'feelings' you speak of?" Lol
wow, that is too true
Oops, that's me
Justin Draxx that was beautiful
Justin Draxx what song inspired you to write this?
Why is this so true...
INFJ: let’s share our deepest secrets and insecurities with each other
Me, an ENFP: that’s literally all I’ve even wanted 🤌🏻
God, I really want to date INFJ guy
YES !
lmao im one of the infj's out there and i had no idea that those traits were ever attractive to yall (like im being attractive at all-)
Marianna Fodor Evbuomwan god if you only knew! There are too many superficial people out there. So you appreciating deep talk is wonderful.
Male Enfp here....Psht you're telling me, wheres the female INFJs? 😲😫 I've only met one, but she was pretty toxic unfortunately. But not gonna let one to dissuade me for others🤞
I'm an INFJ woman married to an ESTP man and honestly like 3 years into our relationship he was like "I never thought I'd settle down. I usually get bored after like 6 months". He honestly meant this as a Huge compliment and I chose to take it that way 🙄😂
Jessica Hart hilarious! But it's good he found someone who understands him.
Wow. I was with an ESTP for 5 years and got married to him. Toxic person and totally opposite. Had to divorce him, there was no other way. How can you have an ESTP as a partner? 😱
As an INFJ woman, I find ESTP men attractive. Send help😷
@@ilkyszn My boyfriend is ESTP and i'm INFJ we're literally polar opposites in everything (not just personality type). It's been a lot of work but we're both very committed to making the relationship work. So far we've been together 4 years and going strong! So it's definitely not hopeless!!
@@quirogatnonerrat3214 One data point doesn't make a trend. Sounds like a pretty unhealthy individual.
How to recognize an INFP?
That little desperate half-laugh half-sigh, we unconsciously do it literally all the time
And that's sooooo cute *-*
Knew an infp, can confirm.
I didn't know I did this until my friends started calling it the "my surname" sigh.
😂👌🏻 too true
I wish I could stop it...at least when trying dirty talk....but nope, it's always there...heh...sighs
My INFP boyfriend sent me on my birthday a journal of events that happened since we met 🤷
Sravya D that's so sweet 😊
Lol 😅
Where can I find one of those 😂
@@godsgirl9497 Seriously!! Ah I love INFPs
That’s freaking adorable
"Were you listening to everything I've just said?" to an INTP is so relatable. 🤣🤣
And the INTP not answering too.. 💀💀💀
Yes
I always find it hard to listen to people , specially those who talk about their day
Masher that’s normal if ur an intp, we ain’t interested in small talk mostly
@@spronkthesprinter273 yeah
Pov: you're looking for the timestamp
Yes 😂😂
Tf-
Yeah, ugh if there are none I shall provide
So you can convert it to ISO 8601?
Nope I'm not.
0:00 ENFP - Campaigner
0:06 ESFP - Entertainer
0:27 ISFJ - Defender
0:37 ESTJ - Executive
0:45 ESFJ - Consul
0:59 ISTJ - Logistician
1:11 INTP - Logician
1:29 ESTP - Entrepreneur
1:45 ISFP - Adventurer
1:55 ENTJ - Commander
2:12 ENFJ - Protagonist
2:26 ENTP - Debater
2:34 ISTP - Virtuoso
2:51 INTJ - Architect
3:03 INFP - Mediator
3:15 INFJ - Advocate
For those who prefer the Personality Names(or titles, or whatever) than the Trait Initials, here's your guide, and your welcome. 😉 And for those Protagonists reading, salutations!
Gasp! How'd you know?!
@@user-pt5cl2ro6f Pardon me, deary, but what do you mean "how did you know"? If you were pertaining to my knowledge about the Titles for each trait initials, believe me, I had no idea. Heck, idek what my initials were,(except that I'm an F and a J, or basically the Extroverted version of an Advocate) sooooo went to the 16 personalities website, wrote every title and trait initials down, then typed all of this down and VOILA! The guide I've always needed whenever I watch these videos.
.
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But if you were talking about how I knew "You were a protagonist", well... it's the Protagonist's sixth sense.....
Jk, I assumed that all Protagonists(including myself) would want to know about each personality and how to understand others and ourselves to further our improvement. I believe protagonists have this tendency to always to change and somehow like, "be a better version of themselves", and stuff... idk, maybe. But that's just how I see it, I'm not sure about you.... Is that how you feel?
🔥🔥🔥
0:00 Me
Well done for all the effort
It took my INTJ boyfriend 7 years to introduce me to his parents, who live only 2 minutes walk from my apartment. 😂😂😂
WOW
INFP: lol after a year i would've not only introduced myself, but I would've decked myself out in the best clothes and makeup, found out some of their interests (from my SO or social media), and baked something. I don't need permission😂😂😂
Whaaaaat? 🤯
im a intj and i'd be so pissed with this...but i'd probably try to never introduce a bf to my parents and try to hide from neighbours too. It's not personal, we are just paranoid.
@@mariana.b. I'm personally attracted to vulnerability/openness (bc I'm like that) so I prolly wouldn't date someone who didn't live up to that. Nothing against ur lifestyle tho. Ppl value different qualities over others🤷🏽♀️💞
Extroverted personalities are just the introverted ones plus some crack
"Sprinkle some crack on him and lets get out of here"
I literally thought the same thing! 🤪
that ah a man if culture, Dave chapelle
I was an INFJ when younger and now I’m ENFJ. I really do tell others the same thing too 😂 extroverted ppl are just introverted but on crack
exactlyyyy im an intj but entj is literally just everything i think on the inside and never say out loud lmao
Dear ISTPs,
You're adorable.
Sincerely,
Me.
No u
thanks
THEY ARE HAHAHAHAHA
Lol I be like how did I even end up here saying shit like this , feeling all ashamed
If I could I would hug all the ISTP and the ISTJ 😔💖
I'm married to an INFJ, one of our dates was literally that. 😂😂
Sounds like a great date
You only had one? Lucky man.
Yes! i really like doing that and always trying to do that with my closest people 😂 im infj.
My ideal date. INFJ
Just the fact that you said you're married to an INFJ gives me hope.
0:00 ENFP
0:06 ESFP
0:27 ISFJ
0:37 ESTJ
0:45 ESFJ
0:59 ISTJ
1:11 INTP
1:29 ESTP
1:45 ISFP
1:55 ENTJ
2:12 ENFJ
2:26 ENTP
2:34 ISTP
2:51 INTJ
3:03 INFP
3:15 INFJ
Someone's gotta do this
what's your personality type among the 16??
ESTJ here, I've found my true love : ESTP
@@sanikatilak9735 entp
The hero we needed but did not deserve
Ferry Yap knew it immediately
Girl: Were you listening to anything I just said...?
Me: INTP.
Video: INTP.
When you're in an INTP-INTP relationship and it's like you're talking to yourself...
I’m an intp
@@Calliopa_22 I’m an INTP and I’ve never dated an INTP as far as I know (1 girl may have been but I can’t confirm). Is it usually successful? So far I’ve had the best luck when dating ENFP’s.
@@aplusmerchant2281 I'm an INTP too... but I don't date.
@@rainerbloedsinn182 same
My boyfriend and I are both ENFJs and we do weekly dates and facetimes and talk about how we can improve ourselves and our relationship, THIS IS SCARY ACCURATE
My INTP mentor checks in on me once a month or so she's super busy but she gets freaked out whenever I read her emotions its like someone found out the password to her email or something. LOL
Intp: I have everything under control, I am a pro, I got this. This is going as well as it possibly could.
"Were you listening to anything I just said?"
Intp: surprised pikachu face
Every time I space out during conversations I'll end up remembering what they said unconsciously couple days later
Bandit im an intp junior at highschool and on the rare occasion something on a test stumps me, i turn it in and figure out the solution as im going to my next class
Hell yeah
We literally over complicate and over think everything. While our SO is telling us something serious we'll be having a deep inner monologue weighing the pros and cons of what they're saying and we'll end up debating ourselves while they tell us about their childhood or something and we'll only remember half. 😌
That's my husband for sure
Next, "16 personality types as pet owners" (pets matching them)
@@cynthiataylor1310 Omg yes
ENFJS LOVE EVERYONE I have a bearded dragon but I also petsit people’s dogs 🤩
"thank you for inviting me, but I've been working a bunch lately, and it is really having a negative impact on my dog. I'm gonna have to stay home and spend time with him. For the next 10-16 years." - INFJ/ASD.
@@johnravely2872 YES I'm an infj too :)
Alleged INTJ, possibly ENTJ here. My choice would be a rainbow boa or a salt water aquarium with a lot of invertebrates.
INFP: looks for someone to love and loves them back
That one person who admits their feelings to an INFP
INFP: They're too good for me. What if I do something wrong that'll end the relationship. Maybe I shouldn't be in a relationship yet. But this is a rare opportunity. Do they like me for who I am though? Asdfgjk! They look so cute!
That one person: *awkwardly waiting for a response*
That sounds INTP-like too.. 😅
All that was missing was:
"... Oh god... I forgot her name! Why? Jesus. Do I call her "hey youuu" for the rest of the night or do I try to figure out how to get her to say it herself without her knowing I forgot it. I knew I should have texted it to myself! Why do I have her phone number memorized to the tune of "Aha - Take on Me" but I can't remember her name. I'm fucking hopeless."
@@GrandmasterofWin omg lol. My first day on school I was talking with a classmate for a whole solid 2 hours. Then I ask her if she wants to eat together at lunch. later while walking I asked her... Have I asked your name? because I was trying to remember her name XD she said no.
@@kritishrestha7471 Wow... I always admitted to myself who are my crushes.. I just don't care enough lmao. To me, at least, they're my crushes so what now? I never thought of confessing.. Psh that's not a thing... Probably why I never had a boyfriend XD
And I guess you're not alone.. I do have crush on someone for almost 2 years now lol never met them again nor talked through chat for almost a year
Oh gosh I have this internal conversation every day...I’ve been dating for almost six months now. Believe me HE asked and not me😆
as an INTP i can confirm that this is a normal occurrence
im so glad i stumbled upon this series
can confirm it too. But people have told me that even if i am concentrated on something i might actually answer a question, but then when i don't need zo be concentrated anymore and give them my attention they say i have already answered the question
Same here! Me, too!
I can relate to this as an INFP too.
I already knew it was the INTP when the overthinker started talking.
😭😭😭
Years of forcing yourself into social situations and learning what works and what doesn’t. Forming a web of plans and fallbacks for any conversation, just to miss out on every important detail about her life while your zoned out thinking about how well this is going. Now when she asks if you remember what she told you about her mother at dinner last week, you have to keep bullshitting until you think your safe, which is never!
very accurate representation of dating an intp - your local enfj
This is totally what it’s like to date me an intp hahaha
Am I the only intp who can listen and think on the same time?
I FEEL CONSTANTLY ATTACKED BY YOUR TAKE ON INFPS
em em same lol 😂
Same
No, I think you probably just feel constantly attacked lol
not a coincidence! he is jelly :P
Except for sometimes it feels off to me, but literally sometimes it’s a word for word situation 😂😂
His voice goes back to his normal voice when he does INFJ
makes sense, he is an INFJ 🤣
Why you guys have to leave this at 69? XD
Woah, ur observant. Good ears😉
People keep claiming all sorts of types for FJ
As an INFJ, vulnerability/openness/deep conversation is just so important.
1:13 just by seeing him talk to himself I knew it was INTP, so relatable lol
101% accurate for you guys
I can relate to it in a spiritual level
INTP: hey I just want to have a nice conversation, okay?
Brain: but I was just gonna play this fun game where every minute I find the most important word in the sentence they just said and scratch it out like idk it sounded p fun lol
Now I finally know what was going on inside my exes head 😅
Plus the inconspicuous T-shirt! 😂😂
“What if we started acknowledging each other during daylight hours” that sounds like me.
I'm an INTJ and I learnt to not be like that ^ ^
Lol PDA just isn’t my thing. I usually will hold my fiancee’s hand or something, I just prefer privacy in my relationship.
So much fun! My husband and i are both INTJs, and yeah, we kept our relationship private for quite sometime!
Yep sounds like me too 😂
This makes me feel better that I (INFJ woman) and my mutual crush darling (INTJ man) never even look at, much less speak to each other, in group scenarios. For me it's because I'm deathly afraid that someone (including him) will figure out that I'm intensely in love with him, which I've been working hard to hide all trace of for many years.
Can someone tell me why INTJs ignore the people they like in public?
I died with the INFJ!!
I am one myself and had just came back from a date with my boyfriend where we just sat down and watched the sunset and we talked about our insecurities!
Stop, I’m an INFJ and my love language goes beyond words of affirmation. My love language is “soul-baring” 😭
Means so much to me when someone Opens Up and i can do the same (tho I’ve tried to be a little guarded for my own safety)
Please do 16 personalities as girlfriends next
That's what I was thinking!
I would like to see that too
Yeah!
Yes!
Wear a dress lol
lmfaooo this is freaking amazing i'm so glad i've stumbled across this
Glad you're here 🙌
What type are you?
@@YEDxYED ISFP.
@Hal Why are you looking for those in particular? Also, if you're looking for some with solid Ne, Gibi ASMR and ASMR Glow are great.
@Hal whispersred emma is an infp and i think maria maybe an infj but in not sure
ISTP had me laughing out loud. I probably wouldn't be quite that honest, but emotional empathy isn't my strong suit.
I loved the clarity of that section.
Yeaa man
I am INTP but I find the ISTP to be just the type of guy I would appreciate at this stage in my life and bring the tool belt with. Just love the honesty too. Salt of the Earth. Runner up in this one is the cook.
lol that was a near perfect portrayal
As an INTJ female, this is so true. I liked this guy a lot for years (He actually asked me out, which I wanted him to, and I backed out because I didn’t want attention drawn to myself, considering he was popular, extroverted, and hot to every girl then).
I only acted attracted to him when no one was around, and when people were around, I treated him like nothing but an acquaintance, and he was good with that. We secretly liked each other, and kept it secret, just how we liked it. But, when he wanted to be official, my fear of emotions and drawing attention to myself caused me to ditched out.
(Don’t regret it, because he is not nearly as unique, hilarious, intelligent, thought-provoking, etc. as he used to be.. kind of an airhead now)
wow
From a man same happened i tried the same but suddenly i start drawing attention and i felt I'm not my self let's not call it detach i isolated my self for 2 years until everyone forget me why do i did that probably overthinking fear of emotions i feel week when i get emotional i don't want my pride to get hurt but mostly fear of emotions fear to INTJ is different fear is deep thinking you just fall in depression when you thinking hard thats it
I once thought that one guy was attractive and actually kinda liked him and he asked me out and ofc I said no stfu because like it’s weird pe*ple looking at you and like knowing you have emotions it’s too much
I'm not in a relationship.. but you guys have installed a new fear into me... people knowing I can feel..
I struggle with this same exact shit as an INTJ male. It makes women think I am trying to hide them from another woman when in reality that's not the case at all. I just hate putting my private business like that out in public. And yes, "love" is a business partnership to me in many ways lmao
I started crying after hearing the INFJ one because it reminded me of one of the first dates me and my bf had. We’re both INFJs and the only thing we did on this date was sit my car talking about our past and crying while holding one another because we were so thankful to have one another and feel so lucky.
Do you still have him?? I must say it's a lucky thing for sure..
This is so relatable! My bf is also an INFJ
Well that will never happen to me because nobody cares about me
I'm an INFJ-A. I think it's boring. Dating someone like... Myself. I don't know why people want to date me coz even I would not date myself. Who am I exactly?
Anyway. I'm currently dating an ISTP. 😅
@@_komorebi LMAO the identity crisis be like
INFJ got me right in the feels! I think I'm going to keep the lights real low and mull over my insecurities & trauma.
Yeah... Pink hearts and roses? No. But exploring the darkness in our souls together... that's the "real romantic". *grin*
@@silva-schattensang Male INFJ here. Where can I find girls like you 😅
Lmfao I swear this is so me. I’m an infj too
it's hard to find us most of us are hiding out at home with popcorn and watching psychology-themed dramas and pondering our own existence.
with a bottle of red wine**
Both me and my BF are INFJ...yes, let us bond over the sharing and discussion of our deepest traumas, lessons and worries...
I feel bonded to a person when we can discuss each others' difficulties in life...hahaha... This is sooo true.
INTJ here finding out INFJ is the ultimate boyfriend for me 💜 also, recognising myself as a girlfriend in the INTJ boyfriend, we must be a pain! 😹
Thanks, Frank, for creating a dating life for me! 😹
Same
I mean... I’d love to be your GF with all these 16 shades of yours FJ...
Dia Edsa haha.... 16 shades of FJ!
@@Julia-LArt Made me laugh too omg someone needs to pitch MBTI movies
Honestly same
Lol, I just want to sit and read him. Yeah, he's really good looking. But omg he is intriguing.. ❤
Ritzykitz haha!
me, an INTJ: i came here to have a good time but i'm honestly feeling so attacked right now
Infp : *pat pat* it's okay
Be honest. We come here to feel attacked. It is a good time.
right on the anxiety
This is how INTJs are....own it
I felt so personally attacked too by the INTJ one as a fellow intj. The ENTJ one got me good to tho I feel like I've had that conversation a couple times bahaha.
I love how ENFPs are always the ones just doing the most random shit and being proud of it.
Yeah, I love how FJ portrays us. The randomness definitely a big part of us. But there's more to us... Actually a lot of the ENFPs are very thoughtful and caring little fairies
I'm an ENFP And I would never do something like this (which is normal x) )
The randoms things are okay with ENFP we still have a lot of Logic And loyalty
Actually: I may think about doing it but I would never do it And never less with the car of someone else!!!
@@delireent.3960 Same, the thought could cross, but I won't do it, come on, I will die otherwise :v
@@mandarinadreux9572 I know, why is just the random side being projected :',v?
My boy is an ENFJ and I'm an INTP and honestly I live for our daily (not weekly) relationship check-ins. We're just maximising outcomes!!!! And I have so many thoughts!
16 personalities as activists 🌳🌻🌍
I got one for INTP
*Comes up with great plan to save the environment*
*Dies before he finishes the second step*
INTJ: You mean, we have to meet!? In public!? Screw that, I'll just write an angry, though well-crafted, e-mail.
for infp- makes this genius detailed plan on how to save the world but doesn’t bother to act on it
Sorry no thanks too much commitment ISTP I'll just do my own thing
I don't know, but it's supposed that the ENFP'S are the activists ones
Okay, now we need 16 personalities as girlfriends and you have to wear a bunch of wigs, each one worse than the last
Agreed.
INFJ gonna have a raggedy wig 💀
my boyfriend is an INFJ, i'm scared at how accurate this is 😂
Me an INTP, me reaching the rank and attaining the badge "Boyfriend" would require quite the work...but i must say, if i were to be in relationship...I'd love to go absolutely mega deep into conversations...and really building the highest amount of trust for each other and tell each other everything about us...becoming 1 entity...knowing our secrets...our insecurities...what we like what we do not like...although I'd be very shy with love...once someone manages to gain a very deep trust of mine...i will then show how much of a loving monster i am...and yes...INTPs can be wild
Edit: Damn 6 months later with working on my Fe, I have changed quite a lot 😂😂😂
I'm so incredibly lucky to be in an INTP-INTP relationship. I can assure you that it's exactly what you've described, we have absolute trust in each other, deep conversations all the time. We share everything and yeah, it's like we're one entity xD.I love them so much. How tf they love me back, I do not know xD
@@Calliopa_22 i get you dude. I was in a relationship like that. But you must always be very careful, very stoic, and put yourself first, because if it suddenly falls apart you'll suffer like a dog with cancer.
@@oninjadaburaca Oh, I already know that if my relationship falls apart, I won't get over it for a _long_ time. Doesn't seem to even be a possibility though, which is great, I love them so much ☺️. Not a dude btw, Non-binary xD
That's how i want my relationship to be. Perfectly described 😭😭
Intp
when I say people underestimate intps, I mean this... you guys are adorably weird hahaha
16 personality’s as Best Friends
Yes please! 😂
Me, an intellectual INTJ: what
ill sometimes pretend idk my INTJ dad in public coz im too embarrased by his Fe trickster
My INTJ guy friend doesn’t even look at me in public 😂😂😂
@@zubaidaalomyshi7896 really so what do they look at?
The GOAT I mean he acts like he doesn’t know me , which is kinda understandable since I’m a walking awkwardness XD
@@zubaidaalomyshi7896 im 21 and i even try to avoid my best friend for 15 years, when i dont feel like talking lol.
As an INFP, I can safely tell you, it's spot on. My boyfriend saw it, repeated it more than 10 times in a row, laughed his ass off the whole time of how accurate it is.
ENFPs aren't this reckless as far as I know... We are very caring and love to get to know a person deeply, helping them get in touch with their emotions and their higher purpose... ✨
Exactly
Yo soy ENFP y tengo un gran sentido de la responsabilidad, creo que somos muy empáticos💗
Yes! You summed it up perfectly. Heal them and help them get in touch with nature and higher purposes. Help them see the magic. My ENFP bf is just radiant with light. (I'm ENFP too but less expressive)
@@Emiliaclarii Sip, también, es importante para mi ser responsable en mis actividades y trabajo 🤧
@@mandarinadreux9572 Ajjaajajajajjajajaja that's funny and cute somehow 🤣🤧
Wait you mean we’re **not** supposed to share our deepest insecurities and traumas on a first date??? Oops
The first one is always free.
Oversharing is a hell of an urge....😩
The human condition: You're not supposed to speak openly about things that are actually important.
lol same!!!
HAHAHHAHA I ALWAYS DO while making friends and stuffs
Me: Pff as if they could predict what it's like to date me
INFJ: "I can tell you just wanna turn down the lights, real low..."
Me: Called it!!
INFJ: "...and share our deepest insecurities and traumas to each other."
Me: OMG THAT'S ME
Agreed. My thoughts exactly.
Yeah. Foreplay
So, you guys want to???? 👉👈🥺
INTJ here, can confirm after a year of seeing someone I finally brought up we should acknowledge each other during daylight hours - not even a joke.
"Hey I know it's been a year, and we might moving way too fast, but maybe it's time... to acknowledge each other during daylight hours."
Ouch, right in the feels. I think I've used that line once... after a month... about talking...
" oooh I just had a spicy idea: on a ride home let's find something really trivial to argue about for no reason" ....ahahahahahahahaha !!! This sums up most of conversations among humans
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Idk about this one. I don't find myself in conflict often. Might just be because of you.
An ENTP: i find this problem a lot, in myself, lately.(big probleme is that i dont think of it as an issue)
Probably, but the two ENTPs that I'm friends with do this more than average. I think they get bored, and they kind of like exploring ideas to the extent that the drama itself is enjoyable because of the possibilities. It's like, if you keep pushing the buttons you get free new things to play with due to the unpredictability of free will and human nature. At least...that's been my observation. It's just one of those typical things where a person's greatest strength is also their greatest weakness.
actually I hate arguments, I don't avoid confrontations but as for pointless arguments I'm not interested
So accurate.
This made me remember a scene with my boyfriend at the time:
Me (INFJ): 'how do you think we will be in the future? Will we still be passionate or will we just become like those couples that love eachother but don't really show it? '
Him (ISTP): 'I don't know. I'm not even sure if I won't get tired of you in a couple of months. I just know that I love you now and you're fun to be with.'
Even if I was mad cause he had no vision of us in the future, with time I came to understand that the very fact that he preferred being with me than being alone, was a huge way of showing how much he cared to keep me around.
ISTPs they miss that big picture what INFJs have. But there's always chance. Me married to INTP and my daughter is ISTP...... courage 🤫😊
@@klara1493 Indeed.
Sadly, we broke up. But we remained good friends, and he told me he would try to change the habits that hurt me in the past, to be with me again. He's a nice man, really.
Okay, I'm an INTJ, and it fits very well, but I was actually feeling the ENTJ one on a spiritual level for this one. If you ask me a question and are expecting me to lie or sugar-coat it then we're probably incompatible.
My boyfriend is ENFJ and the "you tell me all the things you love about me" is very accurate. He would generally ask for it in a more subtle way, but once I've started telling him, he will ask for "more details", or "how do you feel about this side of me?". He's adorable and I love him, but sometimes he can be unbearable ...
He probably asks that out of insecurity.
@@FlashBangBANGz Yes, I know. He comes from a very toxic family and his narcissistic parents really messed up his self esteem
Ahhhhhhh I would love to have an ENFJ; though I never met one, from your pov and the video they're looking quite adorable to me, well I really want to tell my partner that how much I love him, I'm not expressive but I'll try my best for him, we can atleast try and if it didn't work I'll try to share my feelings through my eyes haha 😁 - INFJ female
@@s.b.7121 I read somewhere most enfj/infp come from toxic families.. ~enfp-enfj here
Please bear with him :3 and an INFJ but we INFJs and ENFJs do be like that sometimes. We need reassurance.
Seriously impressed with how good this is. The writing is 👏👏
I'm an ENFJ....I literally have a weekly meeting for me and my INTJ every Wednesday in our shared calendar. I am dying.
As an INTJ I would love if my partner did this 👏 I love working out how to optimise everything.
Omg tell me more!
I love how the INFJ are really good represented. Thank you. As a INFJ, I dl really appreciate it.
I love how accurate the INFP and INFJ's are. I am INFP and my oldest daughter is INFJ. She's always trying to figure out and analyze me and talk about feelings *shutter*. I just want to think about my own feelings in my head or in a journal and never tell them to anyone. Ever. Never ever ever. ahahaha
Nerdmom81 omg so that’s an infp thing? I thought I was just traumatised or something. I’m high-key ashamed of having feelings and I don’t tell them to anyone.
Fujoshi Chan I think so! I find it so strange that people who don’t even know me well open up to me and tell me all their deep inner thoughts at random, and I’m a good listener. But the thought of ME sharing MY feelings? 🤮
Nerdmom81 same!!! I would never!!!
Nerdmom81 lol, guess this is just more proof that despite my introverted tendencies, I am DEFINITELY an ENFP to the core. I can be a bit quiet at times, but I’m very, very, VERY open about my emotions...
Sophia I get that. I cry a ridiculous amount of the time and I do it in public and it’s whatever but I just don’t like to share what I’m thinking on the *inside.*
My husband is an ENFP. We rub off on each other.
As an ENTP living with an INTP I could relate. Him zoning out and me trying to argue just for fun sounds like our daily life.
Agreed
Wife: Hey what do you want for dinner?
Me: *Thinking about it*
Me: Uhhh….
1 hour passed
Wife:Hello, what the hell do you want fir dinner!?
Me:Anything.
The ENFJs are so nice, considerate and understanding, maybe not for Thinkers, but some Feelers would love to do that XD
@@jellyfishi_ It *is* smart, and that's cool, good luck with that ^^
Yeah I'm an ENFP and I found the ENFJ so adorable :) they just want everyone to be happy
as a female intp, i'm also like that when i was in a relationship. it's easy to just channel out from your own body and mind and not caring about anything until people have called your name out for 3 times
"I don't have a journal." Said no infp ever, hahahaha!
Maria C I dont
how do you handle the embaressment?
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Edit: I should say more about a journal and other ways to handle the embarrassment.
One way to handle the embarrassment is to deny the journal, but that makes things complicated for an INFP. When Frank James acts like an INFP boyfriend, he confidently mentions the feelings he wrote about in his journal, which immediately embarrasses him. In response, he denies that he has a journal: ". . . I don't have a journal. Who said that?"
It is a tricky conflict when strong feelings give you confidence, and they also embarrass you, but that is the conflict that INFPs must resolve.
I would say that:
A common fear for an INFP is that other people will misunderstand him/her because many people do not trust feelings. INFPs may even fear that they do not understand themselves. A journal is a tool that might help you to identify how you feel, and why your feelings make sense, but there are other tools you could use instead. The important thing is to build self-confidence. A good place to start is to simply notice what you feel.
Embarassment is impossible to avoid completely so learn about how to manage it. You can sometimes deny, disguise, or even overcome embarassment, but when those responses do not work, you will have to endure embarassment. When that happens, do your best to move onward because there are more important things than to be embarassed.
I'm an Infp and I never had a journal
@@nr.v4009 I think it's just making fun of our tendencies to hide certain aspects of my life.
I never had a journal as well, but that's probably cuz in my early years, i haven't been aware of my feelings enough to want one... & now, i can just cope & sort the emotions out without needing one. that bit of info gets updated in my head anyway.
My boyfriend is an INTP, and it was spot on! Hilarious! 😂
I’m an INFJ myself and I thought I got lost in my own world. lol
ESTJ: “Look, I know what your face looks like. Who do you think you’re fooling?” 😂
As an ISTP, this is too accurate.
INTJ boyfriend here: me and my girlfriend have been a couple for almost 2 years and the most affective I get in public is quick side hug so yeah... accurate
You have been with someone for two years and all you got physically was a distant acquaintance hug?
RIP
@Naomi Madan hmmmmm lol
Wow.
Jorge Martell why is that?
I’m an INTJ and my boyfriend and I usually don’t get the slightest intimate in public (from my part mostly), holding hands is probably the most affectionate we get in public, so I get u lol it’s very much accurate
I’m just lost in my head regardless lol 😂 -INTP
in true intp fashion 😂
jordan hampton Lmao fax
I almost spit out my drink when I heard “Were you listening to anything I just said?” Lmaoo too relatable.
Me too!
- female INTP
It's more of a curse than people think lol I'd love to live in ignorance but logic just cannot allow it
As an ISTJ, I might not propose a restaurant bracket, but if my date did, I would scream, "Let's DO this!!!" Best. Date. Ever.
As an intj, I am totally using the line
"I am completely amazed that I am not bored of you yet!" that's a BIG compliment
1:45
"Girl, you are a work of art. You put the Mona Lisa to shame."
"Although she's not that attractive to begin with, so it's probably a bad comparison."
I instantly knew which one was INFP😫 so me
Lo same. He just mentioned journals and I was like... “yup, that sounds familiar* (has like 6 journals she’s currently using)
Yeah, another INFJ here, it's the same for me too. Also the thing of mentioning a private detail I didn't plan to talk about and then asking myself: Oh, did I really say this?
Hanna N my daughter is an INFP and I can pick it too.
I currently own 6 sketchbooks and 2 journals (one is a K-Pop journal I recently started and the other to organize thoughts) if that means anything to you about me as an infp
Schattensang factssss
ENFJ : Tell me what you like about me. Okay, now time for some self improvement.
OMG LMAO THAT IS SO ACCURATE I FEEL EXPOSED
For the record, INTPs only zone out when our thoughts are more interesting than the conversation. This happens a lot, but not so much on a date (at least if you are an INTP male in a culture where women don't normally ask men out) for 2 reasons 1) We don't ask someone out unless we really like them (because it is super hard to ask people out so we pick our battles wisely) 2) We are way more interested in what women we like are saying than the average person.
Hence, we are tuned in.
This is what I love about INTPs. No wonder, I have a thing for them! 🤣 The best part is, they don't judge you and are patient to know everything about you unlike most people who don't like talking about feelings or deep thoughts... INTPs really go for quality over beauty and are very loyal people. Just as I like!💜
~Fellow INFJ-T
"All right it's time for our weekly check-in."
Omg no- this is totally going to be ENFJ isn't it
"I'll tell you all the things that I love about you,..."
Awh hell no-
"...And then we'll move on to opportunities for improvement."
NOOOO *ENFJ unleashed*
best comment ever 😂 had the same reaction
Its true, im entj and my bf as enfj, I can surely agree with this 😂👍🏻
I like it. I'm an INFJ, but I'd be down for this. Constant improvement is like a must.
Lol.. I'm ENFJ and it was so spot on. My INTP husband gets crazy when I propose date and time for our relationship improvement meetings. :p.
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sshhhhhh we don't talk about that!
“Oooh I just had a SPICY idea... in the car ride home let’s find something really trivial to argue about...
...
for no reason🔥”
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This definitely applies to GF entps as well.😬
I'm intp but had to pause the video to appreciate the accuracy.
I can confidently say this applies to ENTPs in just about any situation
I don’t know why it’s spicy to us ENTPs....but it just is 😂
@@MissLida I'll never understand why everyone doesn't enjoy pointless arguing as much as we do
@@stopshowingmyname4161 why is arguing /debating so much fun?
Why is it that us INTP people can't usually even have a romantic relationship and then when we do get one, we get cocky for no reason 😅😂
thats kinda adorable actually
Ydah, whenever my ENTP boyfriend feels down he starts arguing on the Internet, his goals is to get banned on Facebook 😅. Lucky for him as an INFP I have a sence of humor.
I can understand, I've been trying that in Instagram and it finally worked, my account finally suspended. Tell him to keep up the good work, it will surely work
like how do you even speak to ppl who never had a ban on fb
This is hilarious
@@AmanSingh-ug6simy goodness
😂😂
"Truck?" .... "Is this a country girl?" (Southern accent)
😁😂
Truck-owning country girl here who almost fell over when I heard that, hahaha!!
@@loverofbeautifulthings 😂😂😂 That is awesome
Country kid here!
I’m built like a 4 x 4, but I don’t own one. I do operate with a ridiculously charming twang, though.
My boyfriend is an ENFP and I knew immediately that the first one was him
ur infj? just curious, what's the most reckless thing he did so far? (love enfps)
@@sheenasolero thanks we love you too
@@stalem8834 HAHAHAHAHA 😂 I know ur gonna say it's not meant to be funny, but really the spontaneity ALWAYS gets me. This made my day 😂
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As an ENFJ, I won't lie to you guys, we do exactly that on most of our dates 🤣
Cheers to my fellow Protagonists! And for all of you guys 🥂
So funny I’m an INTJ married to an ENTP and you just nailed it with him!
When you see the flannel, that’s when you know it’s the istp.
For sure.
I mean. Id be ok w/ Flannel shirts😗
I know when ISTP is on, because it's like I'm talking to myself...if that makes any sense. Not that anyone asked or cares.
2:52 I knew right away that this was the INTJ one, because I started laughing before the first sentence was over.
INTJ woman here. This is the speed I'd have liked to go with my one boyfriend, but I was new to the whole "dating" thing and working only based on data from others' experiences. Also, I let him take the lead (except when his confidence needed a boost, because he was a lot more caught up in the pressure of the idealized relationship process than I was). At least we didn't put anything on social media. I gathered some great information about myself. Very interesting experience. Doubt there will be a next time, though, not for another decade at least. Singleness is great.
More like a self affirmation of life. It takes a lot to be absolutely serious all the time while dealing with notions of dissociation from the experience itself.
Are you even human?🤣
Word...
My very thoughts today... singleness awesome!!! taking over the world? number 1 priority...
"Very interesting experience. Doubt there will be a next time, though, not for another decade at least. Singleness is great." - funny, that's what I thought about my first (and only) romantic relationship. It's just that in my case, I honestly think I wouldn't do it again even in ten years. Romantic love is overrated. And I don't want to get married or have kids, so I decided it's logical to stay single forever. Oh, and I'm asexual so not dating works great in this area too.
..."based in data from others' experience" - could've been me really, I do that too hahahahahahahaha
"Look, I know what your face looks like, who do you think you're fooling?"
LMAO I just love ESTJs
I'm 50/50 on the first two personality letters ending with TJ. He did perfect justice for ISTJ and ENTJ. ISTJ detail orientation and comparison is great. ENTJ males from my experience are underappreciated for their blunt honesty.
Every single video :
ENTP : "i love to argue."
[EDIT : I'm not saying it's not true, I just think there's other things to say about ENTPs beside the fact that they enjoy debating]
Pierre Bernard its just getting old
@@stevanmiric5816 I agree. It's not even funny anymore
It's so true though. My ENTP hubby argues as his native language.
I honestly think my dad is an ENTP . He argues about every little thing and likes to start an argument between others. When he starts the arguments between others he goes to his room and starts laughing.
It's true. We love to question anything
"Well, my sincerest apologies for answering honestly"😂 me too... And I'm an INTJ
Can agree eventhough im an entj girl 😂
Exactly, it is very much an INTJ trait too.
the most accurate ISTP imo
Turning the lights down low and talking about our deepest insecurities and trauma unironically sounds better than any other romantic endeavor
Enfj be like: I love that you're complimenting me... But I need more
Yes!! One guy literally asked me to say more.
It's our fuel to save the world! 😎
That's so spot on. lol
My boyfriend is ENFJ and the "you tell me all the things you love about me" is very accurate. He would generally ask for it in a more subtle way, but once I've started telling him, he will ask for "more details", or "how do you feel about this side of me?". He's adorable and I love him, but sometimes he can be unbearable ... and I'm ISTJ.
I’m ENFJ and it’s relateable 😂 mainly because we can be so bloody critical of ourselves and really want to be better so when people tell us honestly what they like and dislike about us we REALLY appreciate it because it reassures is of our good things and allows us to work on our bad things. Very self aware.
Only problem is we tend to do the same analysing on other people forgetting it can be quite offensive even though it’s from a good place 😅
Thanks for this! So funny!!! ENTP and INFJ were my favourites! Please keep making these!!
I’m an enfp dating an istp and lemme tell you this is sooooo accurate lol my little energetic feeling self loves to see pretty much my opposite get mushy 😂😂
Oh man, the ENTP one is SO accurate. Arguing over trivial things was one of the first real conversations I had with a guy that I liked🤣
I think that ENTP are like this even with their friends 🙂