Covert Narcissists Lives A Life Of Hell On Earth

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Комментарии • 206

  • @Plantbased7
    @Plantbased7 3 дня назад +64

    It’s a very traumatic experience once you figure them out. Then you realize you are surrounded by many. They don’t change. They only get worse as they age.

    • @MiamiVisor
      @MiamiVisor 3 дня назад +12

      The scene in The Matrix when Neo wakes up in a gooey liquid, surrounded by dark machines that are harvest his energy symbolizes the awakening of an empath. The Matrix was written by narcissists.

    • @phillipsmith7759
      @phillipsmith7759 2 дня назад

      @@Plantbased7 hence we have suicide-murders, mass shootings, robberies, etc.

  • @arzangofthebrothersoflightario
    @arzangofthebrothersoflightario 3 дня назад +64

    It's gonna get way worse for them soon
    The cushy society that fosters their behavior is gonna collapse

    • @MiamiVisor
      @MiamiVisor 3 дня назад +15

      Yep, it should've collapsed already, we're on borrowed time. And when these narc creatures have to face reality, they too will collapse.

  • @endofexistence
    @endofexistence 3 дня назад +55

    They struggle with a painful darkness... and cannot love.

  • @MGTOWPsyche
    @MGTOWPsyche 3 дня назад +78

    Trying to love a narc is like wasting your time watering a plastic plant and wondering why it doesnt grow...

    • @shaneclinger5888
      @shaneclinger5888 3 дня назад +10

      That's a perfect analogy

    • @susuileamura
      @susuileamura 3 дня назад +3

      yes perfect analogy

    • @InterstateremovalsAuFurniture
      @InterstateremovalsAuFurniture 3 дня назад +1

      Are you saying I'm better off warming up a rubber doll? My doll has more feeling and care than a Narc.

    • @rustyshackleford4299
      @rustyshackleford4299 3 дня назад +1

      She looks like the real thing
      She tastes like the real thing
      My fake plastic love
      But I can't help the feeling
      I could blow through the ceiling
      If I just turn and run
      And it wears me out...

    • @QwertyS3
      @QwertyS3 3 дня назад +6

      You can't love someone that only wants to be superior to you in a delusional game they create. Believing their lies is what gives them validation, that's what's meant by narcissistic validation. They basically want you to be trash and for you to believe it. Don't give it to them. Oftentimes narcissists try to tell you that you're the one seeking validation when it's been them trying to project a image of you and make you believe it, that's what gaslighting is. The way a narcissist brain work is 2 dimensional. They have the potential to be completely convinced of their own thoughts about you, it's literally like psychosis but instead of confusing the internal for external they confuse the external for the internal. Sam vaknin talks about this if anyone knows he is. that's why it's impossible to work out a relationship they are literally delusional

  • @therollingstone9701
    @therollingstone9701 3 дня назад +30

    It's the narc century.

  • @MadManInMyVisions
    @MadManInMyVisions 2 дня назад +20

    They’re vindictive, evil, wicked, and jealous people. I have absolutely, no sympathy, nor empathy, for them.

  • @Gotthattism95
    @Gotthattism95 3 дня назад +41

    Like walking on eggshells, theyll insult you all day but you can never say anything back otherwise theyll lose their mind. They genuinely believe they are better than other people despite any evidence to the contrary.

    • @Brenda-t5r
      @Brenda-t5r 2 дня назад

      @@Gotthattism95 Just like Joel and his brothers.

  • @Pocket_Qs
    @Pocket_Qs 3 дня назад +38

    Gangstalkers are everywhere

    • @NomadicBroski-mf3sv
      @NomadicBroski-mf3sv 3 дня назад +13

      Getting so bad man, EVERYWHERE

    • @Pious_Imagination77
      @Pious_Imagination77 3 дня назад +5

      What? Does none understand anti-scrying techniques & technology?

    • @anneyoung2310
      @anneyoung2310 2 дня назад

      Everywhere! Anyone vulnerable to anything signs up for the perks of demonic cult membership. Hell gonna be real hot, yet, I hope someone knows not what they do.

  • @deborahsummers2072
    @deborahsummers2072 3 дня назад +14

    Yes.
    My mum was a Covert Narc and dad and myself was living in hell.
    Then I married a Covert Narc for 26 years x 3 kids. He turned on me, & he played vict and turned my kids against me and they all betrayed me, I have not seen or spoke to my kids for 2 years, his greed, he tried to unalive me, him & his minions. I escaped and now I have been separated and divorced for 2 years. My connection & faith in GOD saved me and gave me the strength to leave. It was extremely hard, as I showed him unconditional love, they love conditionally, opportinists. The EMPATH & NARC dynamic. I felt sorry for him as he has childhood wounds that he never healed.
    All Narcs all over the world thats is the root of the problem - they need to heal childhood wounds.
    LOVE, LIGHT & BLESSINGS
    Deborah
    System
    AUSTRALIA

  • @marilynnjacobsen1077
    @marilynnjacobsen1077 3 дня назад +41

    These people do not take care of themselves and are usually miserable so they divert their focus on those around them to try and control. They are very jealous of others.They manipulate and play games then attack when you least expect it. I agree its best to move away from them if you can. Pray for them and let go. You cannot fix them. Save yourself and love yourself first.

    • @ryank6322
      @ryank6322 3 дня назад +9

      Beware of people who don't take care of themselves because they won't be able to take care of you either.

  • @galavizK
    @galavizK 3 дня назад +25

    Their hearts and minds are sealed, they can't seem to see a life of god and of goodness.
    Hence they don't know how to truly be happy and fulfilled and they do bad things to themselves, ruin their chances in life and run over everyone else, if they cannot wake up, they cannot win

    • @phillipsmith7759
      @phillipsmith7759 3 дня назад +3

      I'm not sure it's sealed. But it is probably extremely difficult to lead them to better paths. Any thoughts.

    • @rustyshackleford4299
      @rustyshackleford4299 2 дня назад

      @@phillipsmith7759 We are NOT all God's children.

  • @PunishedKenny
    @PunishedKenny 3 дня назад +23

    My mom's a covert narc. I haven't talked to her in four years and I don't miss her.

  • @ryanb2781
    @ryanb2781 3 дня назад +18

    Almost every person in my complex is a narcissist in some form it crazy

    • @Cinemagoer_64
      @Cinemagoer_64 3 дня назад +6

      I believe it, all my neighbors surrounding my house are narcs. My next door narc neighbor passed away in December and the new neighbors who just moved in are couple. They are narcs! Unbelievable!

  • @TheStonedsanta
    @TheStonedsanta 3 дня назад +6

    They’re covert until they get successful enough to not be.

  • @Tamara-xf6hx
    @Tamara-xf6hx 3 дня назад +8

    This is so fucked up i really believe they are not human

  • @Gotthattism95
    @Gotthattism95 3 дня назад +23

    My covert narc mom just rots in front of the tv all day. She hasnt had a job in 30 years shes permanently glued to her tv.

  • @esmeramsay8179
    @esmeramsay8179 3 дня назад +17

    This particular talk tonight really made me cry

  • @LahSosa
    @LahSosa 3 дня назад +10

    Bro I was with one for 10years I left 6months ago bro & it feels like I came home from jail 6months ago
    smh 🙏🏽🤦🏽‍♂️ I gotta 3year old son with her I look out for every Thursday 💰
    Please make a video about having a baby with one of these demons bro

  • @monkeymoo87
    @monkeymoo87 3 дня назад +11

    This gets a double thumbs up. Sadly evil is real, but God is real too. Guard your hearts and trust in Jesus.

  • @Julie-n6k
    @Julie-n6k 3 дня назад +4

    Brilliant words Terry !! I was married for 20years to one,he got worse and worse over the years,more violent,more abusive verbally,sexually,it's like he was getting more and more desperate he would do anything to anyone rages,temper tantrums, stamping feet, smashing things up,throwing things,then acting like nothing had happened my head was spinning,I filed for a divorce without knowing what he was,scorched earth syndrome,he went for my jugular with Everything and anything(,get your ducks in a row first),I use to hear what he was doing years later it was identical stuff with his new wife, crashing vehicles was a big thing of his ,he once put my headlights through with a pool cue so I couldn't leave him it was getting dark when he did it,I moved away cut ties with Everyone ,I can spot narcs a mile of their behaviour is identical,learn the patterns,cycles,and cut ties for your own sanity!!,it doesn't stop them but you know what to expect, although even after educating myself for 8 years narcs still manage to raise my eyebrows with shocking appalling behaviour that fails me for words

    • @rustyshackleford4299
      @rustyshackleford4299 2 дня назад +1

      Re: "although even after educating myself for 8 years narcs still manage to raise my eyebrows with shocking appalling behaviour that fails me for words"
      Ya don't say? Evil knows no bounds.

  • @NothingCompares2U
    @NothingCompares2U 3 дня назад +11

    It feels like God has abandoned them, plus they are so insecure that they cannot step outside with their actual face like they hate it or feel ashamed of it so much they would die.

    • @NothingCompares2U
      @NothingCompares2U 3 дня назад +1

      Somewhat Damaged by nin, just like that song. That's what it feels like to be the covert narc, like I cannot be heard.

  • @Metamorphosis504
    @Metamorphosis504 3 дня назад +18

    You can always remember the day when you finally said to yourself " I'm done. I'm getting off of this roller coaster. That was the final straw." I remember it like it was yesterday. And that's the day that you actually mean it and stuck to it because you know it will never change.

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 2 дня назад

      Yes I had that last month and I am never going back, God willing. I will do everything in my power to never go back again.

  • @Daniel-Deshaun
    @Daniel-Deshaun 3 дня назад +12

    this one keeps trying to talk to me and my friend as if… you can’t just screw everyone over and then wonder why nobody wants anything to do with you… it’s called consequences

  • @MiamiVisor
    @MiamiVisor 3 дня назад +14

    Everyone lives their karma, that's the big secret you're not supposed to know, because then you'll behave in a way that's serves both God and you best.

    • @NotoriousRichie
      @NotoriousRichie 3 дня назад +1

      I have a dear friend at work who’s obsessed with the book “the secret”. He basically told me the secret was you reap what you sow.

  • @1ROCKY89
    @1ROCKY89 3 дня назад +2

    Living is a life without narcs move forward

  • @Dansyoung
    @Dansyoung 3 дня назад +7

    I was married to a covert narc (7 years married 10 years together). It was like a light switch was pulled suddenly it was a different person, I found evidence of infidelity and the reason for the sudden shift was because my family member died and left and inheritance - she expected to get half of it.

  • @MrBogeyman00
    @MrBogeyman00 3 дня назад +11

    Joel is bang on...Lived this Hell for 24 years. Finally got out.

    • @Brenda-t5r
      @Brenda-t5r 2 дня назад

      @@MrBogeyman00 Joel IS a narc.

  • @sammy3712
    @sammy3712 2 дня назад +1

    Well said brother, I felt this ❤ We grow when we learn and that’s what life is all about.

  • @TruthSeeker-rn1tm
    @TruthSeeker-rn1tm 3 дня назад +5

    Mate, have no idea how much I needed this. I can't thank you enough Joel.

  • @lesleylane4747
    @lesleylane4747 2 дня назад +1

    My mom is a narcissist it's a very bizarre experience... I have to stay away from her for good... She lost herself at 3 when her parents died and a crazy lady adopted her smh

  • @dustymcpherson986
    @dustymcpherson986 День назад

    There is no hope for them... and that makes me... very happy

  • @mrwillwgp
    @mrwillwgp 3 дня назад +7

    They are taught from an early age, money grows on trees and it's okay if you max out your credit cards, none of it matters. Oh it will matter when the economy collapses and they need to work to afford to EAT.

  • @Photomonon
    @Photomonon 2 дня назад +1

    This is absolutely true

  • @TheNationofIsrael613
    @TheNationofIsrael613 3 дня назад +6

    Im an at event on Friday evening.
    I see this former friend who is an energy vamp/narc.
    I go to other side of the room.
    Dude goes around the back via the kitchen to stand behind me a few feet away, in the living room, while someone was giving a short speech and everyone was facing the speaker.
    I felt negative energy immediately.

  • @jansefran1752
    @jansefran1752 3 дня назад +4

    It is hell on earth ... Total insanity ... Crazyness ...

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 3 дня назад +2

    It is back to basics in the Bible it’s kinda sad these people have no independent thoughts at all…

  • @christianmartinez76845
    @christianmartinez76845 3 дня назад +72

    I'm retired at 27, went from Grass to Grace. This video here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest wife, $35k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️

    • @EstherGilbert-hs2oq
      @EstherGilbert-hs2oq 3 дня назад

      I'm highly inspired.
      Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.

    • @christianmartinez76845
      @christianmartinez76845 3 дня назад

      I raised 75k and Christina Ann Tucker is to be thanked. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through her. Christina A. Tucker is the kind of person one needs in his or her life! I got a home, a good wife, and a beautiful daughter. Note!:: this is not a promotion but me trying to make a point that no matter what happens, always have faith and keep living!!

    • @JennyCharlotte-n4f
      @JennyCharlotte-n4f 3 дня назад

      Wow 😱 I know her too
      Miss Christina Ann Tucker is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.

    • @JennyCharlotte-n4f
      @JennyCharlotte-n4f 3 дня назад

      I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!

    • @MikeGodfrey-ri3nm
      @MikeGodfrey-ri3nm 3 дня назад

      < I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker)
      If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!

  • @TheStonedsanta
    @TheStonedsanta 3 дня назад +5

    I will not allow others to dump their bs onto me.

  • @Roseberrylove
    @Roseberrylove 2 дня назад +3

    Agreed. My ex made me feel like there was something wrong with me. Meanwhile he gets a new girlfriend and TREATS HER EVEN WORSE THAN HE DID ME. So clearly I’m not the issue. These fuckers are insane.

  • @petethompson3510
    @petethompson3510 3 дня назад +6

    I used to want to get revenge on my ex who I had kids with and then she was screwing behind my back and ended up kicking me out. Now I realise that there is no punishment I could give her worse than she experiences every moment of every day. She has dark trauma in her past

  • @markar6395
    @markar6395 3 дня назад

    I have one of these in my life that I have to have some contact with for family reasons but I've wised up over the last year or so. Minimal contact. One day this person will be out of my life. Grew up in a highly toxic family system. Thanks for this heartfelt and awesome talk. Your approach is so refreshing. Looking forward to seeing some of your other videos

  • @ottoart2024
    @ottoart2024 3 дня назад +6

    wise words from a wise man

  • @caterinadelgalles8783
    @caterinadelgalles8783 3 дня назад +2

    Yup. I am z good person and they indeed live in Hell.

  • @JaskiratSGrewal
    @JaskiratSGrewal 3 дня назад +3

    My ex gf was like this. It was great in the beginning but then she slowly started to reveal herself

  • @brianplord
    @brianplord 3 дня назад +5

    It’s all demonic

    • @JTomas96
      @JTomas96 12 часов назад

      So true bro...

  • @samia6888
    @samia6888 2 дня назад +2

    I have no empathy for them anymore. I used to and it made me sick. I ended up becoming the “mentally ill/crazy” one when all I wanted was love, connection, respect, etc. you know the normal things that people want. Instead I ended up losing so much time, money and precious moments with my dad who has now passed, my health, etc. I used to feel bad of the inner turmoil narcs go through but now it gives me peace and comfort because I do not seek revenge anymore, my revenge is them being who they are. If being around them makes me this sick, I can’t imagine what they are going through since they have to be with themselves 24/7.

  • @Ted-NJ
    @Ted-NJ 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you Terry.

  • @JSFGuy
    @JSFGuy 3 дня назад +2

    Silent notice on this one.

  • @fightingwarrior5893
    @fightingwarrior5893 2 дня назад +2

    They’re the same people that create their own storms, then get upset when it rains. Remove yourself from their drama and let them learn the hard way.

  • @ProfarTheGod
    @ProfarTheGod 3 дня назад +3

    The comparison of you getting a drink without offering your guest one is probably one of the best analogies of narcissistic personality disorder I’ve ever heard.

  • @PikUpYourPantsPatrol
    @PikUpYourPantsPatrol 3 дня назад +4

    I love when this dude laughs 😂

  • @ChocolateAutizzy
    @ChocolateAutizzy 3 дня назад +6

    As a convert narcissist, I can confirm that this is true 😂

    • @Ted-NJ
      @Ted-NJ 3 дня назад

      I still gotta watch your interview. Where can I email you?
      Last year I dated a damaged woman who is a Covert Narc from her childhood trauma of foster homes. I live in NYC also btw.

  • @rainpain3655
    @rainpain3655 3 дня назад +13

    That was my mom, she'd lay on the couch all day bitching and whining about what I'd do for her while she wouldn't do anything. She'd lay on the couch all day watching RUclips drinking some wine while eating a bag of Cheetos 🤦

    • @Gotthattism95
      @Gotthattism95 3 дня назад +2

      Yeah same my mom does absolutely nothing all day beyond staring at the tv screen and gossiping on the phone about other people. She once complained that a drs appointment was 20 mins away.

    • @rainpain3655
      @rainpain3655 3 дня назад +1

      @@Gotthattism95 my mom was complained that her boss gave her shit for being one hour late at a meeting and called it unprofessional. Then I told her that being one hour late at a meeting is professional though. She just gave me this stfu look 🤦

  • @AlexSanchez-cs9fq
    @AlexSanchez-cs9fq 3 дня назад +4

    what kind of narc do you guys think p diddy is ?

  • @Roseberrylove
    @Roseberrylove 2 дня назад +1

    Yup. Just told my therapist a new story I heard of my ex boyfriend. She said he has severe narssisicm disorder. Makes sense. He has no remorse. You’re right tho. These people went through something that just makes them feel no remorse. Sick people. So sick and gross. My ex’s new woman called me for help. Mental help. He cheated on her and treated her 10x worse than he treated me. She’s broke man bait so. Yikes. Smh tho.

  • @Gregory-xx3ny
    @Gregory-xx3ny 3 дня назад

    Thank you for the video. It makes sense.

  • @IgorMironov-rq4ye
    @IgorMironov-rq4ye 3 дня назад +1

    You are so correct Terryjoeljunior; i know 2 narcissists in my immediate life. My own sibling and my moms bestie. The bestie of my mom is the biggest Feminist that I have ever come across. She is of the belief that she is better than anyone else on earth. There is never anything wrong with her. She has plenty to say always.
    The sibling on the other hand has the pride of God Almighty; he believes he is God incarnate. He lives in his 2 story mansion on his high horse, living with his Nurse girlfriend. And my parents think the world of her. She is so selfish and self absorbed. She is literally perfect for him; everytime they come to the house to visit parents, he puts up a facade of caring what my life is made up of. When he clearly doesn't give a flying f***. I gave up on finding a friend, or confidant to Share with.

  • @warrenpullen5276
    @warrenpullen5276 3 дня назад +1

    I am old 60 soon. I have had it.landlord makes life hell for me while he lives the highlife .to move out is too costly. Thanks for your help.

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 3 дня назад

    Yup not normal at all

  • @Annajsee
    @Annajsee 3 дня назад +2

    😢thanks for sharing this…I know the feeling

  • @johndoe3-t3k
    @johndoe3-t3k 3 дня назад +1

    Just imagine what they experience. The thought process they go through.

  • @phillipsmith7759
    @phillipsmith7759 3 дня назад +7

    Humans like to classify people and behaviors. Maybe we should. But their condition may be a result of their DNA and environment..family. schools, society. They may not be able to do much about it. They see and think differently by necessity. Part of evolved human life.

  • @bevinkaker65
    @bevinkaker65 3 дня назад +3

    My ex narc hmu today. Every two months she tries to check in. I wish I could bet on it somehow

  • @yvonnegonzalez5616
    @yvonnegonzalez5616 3 дня назад +1

    Jhe-IzUs , inUs.

  • @Chosen1Crown
    @Chosen1Crown 3 дня назад +6

    Bro why are you stealing from Chozen Spiritual ??? Stole his title smh wow

  • @richardlew5316
    @richardlew5316 3 дня назад +1

    It's struggle to know them they can switch in a dime like chameleon. They can work with out a day off they have a high motor and can't stay still. Just didn't feel safe with them felt like I was waiting to get back stab. Went no contact and found peace and serenity away from them

  • @Annajsee
    @Annajsee 3 дня назад

    So true

  • @Minitslove
    @Minitslove 36 минут назад

    I’m not narcissist..

  • @NoahsEnabletravel
    @NoahsEnabletravel День назад

    They are way off. Always in a crisis. Happiest day of my life was just living my own life. I got called a narc for calling mine out. They literally tell you everything by accusing you of it.
    By the third disappearing act I didn't let the door open again. Now I've got weirdos contacting me and spam coming to my phone. Why??? 😆 it's like a maddening game they are the only ones playing in the end

  • @SigmaTokarev_TheElder
    @SigmaTokarev_TheElder 2 дня назад

    They become so annoyed when you understand their true face and stop talking to them or consider them. Pathetic beings...

  • @BitZapple
    @BitZapple 3 дня назад

    For brain toxicity I like to use sideritis scardica (greek mountain tea), silica (prevent aluminum toxicity) and cilantro (detoxing mercury from the brain), it helps alot

  • @staceydelbucchia2576
    @staceydelbucchia2576 2 дня назад

    you want to keep distance from these evil ones...Bro❤💯

  • @yvonnegonzalez5616
    @yvonnegonzalez5616 3 дня назад +1

    ❤🎉!

  • @johnjennings9693
    @johnjennings9693 3 дня назад

    Exactly I've got the tshirt,

  • @bioniteorigins
    @bioniteorigins День назад

    i have dealt with so many of these people i lost count of how many i have had to deal with.

  • @Connections-d2o
    @Connections-d2o 2 дня назад

    They hide
    It's me me me.

  • @Tamara-xf6hx
    @Tamara-xf6hx 3 дня назад

    New subscriber

  • @skatecado2897
    @skatecado2897 3 дня назад +4

    Bruh everyone is a “narcissist.” It’s a spectrum - some are more selfish than others. Cope

    • @arturom628
      @arturom628 3 дня назад +2

      Oh no... I guess you have not met a REAL narc. And much less an integrated psychopath....

    • @TheStonedsanta
      @TheStonedsanta 3 дня назад +2

      Having Narcissistic tendencies does not make you a narcissist.

  • @5Dascension84
    @5Dascension84 3 дня назад

    Thanks for this message 🙏💖💯
    GOD BLESS YOU 🙏💖💯🙌👏👏

  • @Liam-bz3xz
    @Liam-bz3xz 3 дня назад

    They didn’t believe in us…God Did! 😆

  • @Smartbeautifulawesome
    @Smartbeautifulawesome 3 дня назад

    Don’t get too attached non-attachment theory idk

  • @Mrs.Cherall
    @Mrs.Cherall 2 дня назад +2

    Nice work and Thanks so much for sharing 🩵

  • @Veronica-sz8fc
    @Veronica-sz8fc 3 дня назад +4

    You just copied the title from another smaller channel. I'm disappointed.

    • @Chosen1Crown
      @Chosen1Crown 3 дня назад

      He’s notorious for this

    • @Veronica-sz8fc
      @Veronica-sz8fc 3 дня назад +1

      ​@@Chosen1Crown I didn't know. I'm seeing various big channels copying smaller channels and it's a shame.

    • @batista666bomb
      @batista666bomb 3 дня назад +2

      @@Veronica-sz8fcis it from the black guy who draws in a board ?

    • @Veronica-sz8fc
      @Veronica-sz8fc 2 дня назад

      Yes. That video was posted like 10 days ago​@@batista666bomb

  • @mikeneumann4660
    @mikeneumann4660 День назад

    I am a covert, narcissist, and loving every second of it

    • @Flokix4
      @Flokix4 День назад

      Hope you love hell as well.