Over the past few years I’ve felt like “I lost myself” but this video made me realize I’ve just been operating in masculine energy and it has felt off. I now chose to release the need to control people and things outside of myself. I am now resting in my feminine energy..my feminine energy is activated✨ Thank you for this video 💕
@@User-uw7uw Hey sorry just now seeing Your comment. Honestly started diving deep into my childhood traumas and why I was that way. A lot of it is subconscious limiting beliefs planted in us at a young age. Reading lots of self help books and practicing a lot of the exercises in them along with Meditation has also played a huge role. ❤️
@@Akos91 Hey sorry just now seeing Your comment. Honestly started diving deep into my childhood traumas and why I was that way. A lot of it is subconscious limiting beliefs planted in us at a young age. Reading lots of self help books and practicing a lot of the exercises in them along with Meditation has also played a huge role.❤️ The book called Breaking the habit of being yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza helped me so much!
Being feminine has always been my true nature, but I had met a very passive man and felt myself shifting.. it was awful. The entire energy of our relationship felt “off”.. but after we broke up, I began to feel myself again. Thank goodness 💕
It’s so important she clarifies that being led by your feminine energy doesn’t result in thinking without logic or reason. As human beings we possess masculine and feminine attributes and although logic is a classically masculine mode of thought it doesn’t mean someone who is fully in their Devine feminine is devoid of logic. That’s a common misconception about feminine energy. She highlights this so well! Furthermore intuition can often be more accurate than pure logic because intuition accounts for things that aren’t evident as an observer. Intuition is the expression of ultimate feminine wisdom.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm a guy and seeing a girl actually having feminine energy is so rare and so refreshing to see. It's actually the most beautiful thing in the world. I don't even need to travel to see some far away country, cause a feminine woman will outshine any landmark I can come across. Burn down the eiffel tower for all I care, if that means I can have an afternoon with a feminine woman.
This is good advice for people who have never dealt with narcissists- a woman will naturally be feminine and ungraded in the presence of a man who is safe and shows he supports her in all areas In life… He must earn it - especially for people like me single moms
Chicken and egg thing is my experience.. men respond to the energy we have.. if you don't give control, they will not take it.. Ps - I don't have the answer of how to get men to take control...just that if I wait for men to earn it, it doesn't work out
While watching you the word SENTUALITY emerged. This says to me to gat into touch more with my physical body. I was neglected growing up so this is a important point for me. Be attentive to my body. I know some ppl have negative body image. So it's important to heal that wound and transmute it back to love. Rose 🌹🌺
"Maybe I feel anxious and nervous in their presence. Maybe they're taking out a part of me that does not feel secure. And then you say, "this does not feel good. I'm not going to allow this person to stay in my life."
Highlights 🌸 Feminine energy is about flow, presence, and intuition, while control is rooted in masculine energy. 🌸 Being in your head rather than your body hinders your ability to make decisions guided by intuition and feminine energy. 🌸 Releasing control allows you to raise your vibration and attract your desires by living in the present moment. 🌸 Control often stems from feeling unsafe, triggered by past traumas or a lack of control in early life experiences. 🌸 Healing the need for control involves identifying fears and traumas and affirming safety and security within yourself. 🌸 Healthy feminine energy leads to confidence, trust, and respect in relationships, where you don't need to control or change others. 🌸 Journaling prompts help recognize and address the root causes of control issues, allowing for inner healing and transformation.
I was walking through one of the biggest Bogotan avenues so I had a great time listening to this. Thank you so much for pointing out the unhealed trauma and how to act effectively. There are a bunch of ladies online that offer courses, meditations, and other things but this is the most completed and relevant video I could find and it was unintentional. Thank you for your love and effort ✨🌻
I thought I was the only one who tries so so hard all of my time to keep a clean house. I knew it was from a lack of control. could be from untreated adhd or a form of ocd. I feel better knowing you went through something similar. thank you for sharing! thank you for posting these!! im incredibly thankful for the knowledge
The journal prompts gave me such a deep insight i'd like to share.. i ended up writing to my inner child about the things i had no control over. I told her/myself not to seek love from (our) mum because we/she wont recieve it, and the more i tried the more it hurt. This applies to now, too. I cant control love. We cant control other people loving us. Love is NOT controlling. And the love that is always there, that is unconditional, comes from within and from the universe/god ❤
Ps. Releasing control is about trying to control outer reality / others/ situations...etc It doesnt mean stopping to control yourself : your thoughts, feelings, habits,..etc We need both energies yet the feminine energy is more fun❤
You always have such great content. I am 48 yrs old and one may think that our age difference and life experience would possibly make it not as relevant to me but I sure wish I had known this in my 20’s. Even though I had a great childhood and parents that were very good to each other and in love I have had very difficult relationships and just went through my second divorce. I am determined to heal my own wounds though and not settle. Also I share your content with my two daughters 23 & 26. I want you to know you make a difference for many. ❤
Thank you so much love, I am so happy to have you here. It is never too late to learn and feminine energy is absolutely relevant to everyone. I believe your energy and excitement for life represent your true age much more than a number 🥰
So wise. Every video you upload holds so much weight. Every time I see a new post from you I know I'm going to learn something new and meaningful. Thank you for the work you put in.
I’m learning to relax and receive and connect with my feminine energy however it’s hard cause of my painful past and learning to be present is not an issue it’s just things and for so long have been lame. Sometimes I’ll get disappointed and ppl don’t understand my vision. I think because of my childhood trauma and relationship with my mother I’m often disconnected from my feminine energy ❤. After going through a dark night of a soul I learned to release ppl and detach and stop trying to fix ppl
Omg same with the COVID period and wanting safety. I changed my whole life during that time and i felt so unhappy and lost. Then i started working on my feminine and myself again and i actually attracted my dream partner now one year ago. This stuff is really working and I thank you so much for offering your advice on it ❤🙏
I felt an interest in feminine energy as a woman after realizing how I didn’t feel in touch with my femininity and especially in my past romantic relationship. I wanted to learn more about this. Masculine energy exists in women. And feminine energy exists in men. The anima and the animus-ancient archetypes. I was interested for own personal growth and to balance both the feminine and masculine energies inside of me. And for my own inner spiritual journey. Definitely not for control, manipulation, or for others to use against me, mock me and make false assumptions. THANK YOU for your content. I’ve shared in a Facebook group about how you were someone I watched to learn more about feminine energy.
Where do i feel the need to control now? And what do i feel happening, if i were to release control here? Where did i lose control or where did i not have control earlier in my life that caused me pain?
I’ve realised that I have practised my feminine energy and decided to lean back and watch his actions. I had issue of feeling unsafe (anxious attachment style) when he goes out with female friend one on one. I did communicate this to him and express how I feel. But I never stop him from going out. I said I will try to reassure myself and hope he can help me out as well by updating me. However he felt that his freedom being taken away cause everything,r he goes out with lady friends, he worried of the consequences.
Thank you, it was an extremely interesting video! 😊 I find that DANCE is the best way to restore the mind-body connection and harness our internal feminine energy for me and for most of my students!
**Main Points:** 1. **The Role of Control in Feminine Energy** - The desire to control is a significant obstacle to accessing and embodying feminine energy. - Control often manifests as wanting to control people and situations, which aligns more with masculine energy. - Feminine energy is characterized by being grounded, present, and intuitive, whereas control keeps one in their head and logical thinking. 2. **The Connection Between Control and Logic** - Control shifts focus from intuition and emotions to logic, leading to decisions guided by the head rather than the heart or body. - Embracing feminine energy requires being in the body, grounded in intuition and emotions, which can lead to attracting desires and opportunities. 3. **Living in the Present** - Releasing control allows one to be present in the moment, fostering a deeper connection to people and opportunities. - Anxiety often stems from worrying about the future, making it essential to live in the present. 4. **Receiving vs. Giving** - Control involves giving guidelines or trying to change others, whereas feminine energy allows for receiving. - Attempting to control can push people away and hinder personal growth. 5. **The Source of the Need for Control** - The need for control often arises from feeling unsafe, rooted in past experiences or traumas. - Trauma can lead to attracting situations and people that perpetuate feelings of unsafety. 6. **Healing and Letting Go** - Healing involves acknowledging past traumas, reassuring oneself of safety, and separating the past from the present. - Avoid associating past traumas with current or future relationships. 7. **Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies** - Achieving a balance of feminine and masculine energies is key to personal growth and fulfilling relationships. - Embracing one's divine feminine energy involves feeling confident, secure, trusting, and full of love and respect in a relationship. 8. **How to Release Control** - Journaling to identify areas where control is an issue and the associated fears. - Acknowledging past instances of lost control that caused pain and addressing them. - Allowing people to show their true selves, observing without judgment, and deciding if their energy aligns with yours. - Developing curiosity and openness to new perspectives. - Gradually facing fears and taking small steps to build confidence. - Maintaining a clear plan or timeline when taking significant relationship steps like moving in together. **Actionables:** - Reflect on areas in your life where you feel the need to control and the associated fears. - Consider past experiences that may have contributed to your need for control and work on healing and letting go. - Practice allowing people to be themselves and observe their actions without trying to change them. - Cultivate curiosity and openness to new perspectives. - Gradually confront your fears and take small steps to build confidence. - When considering significant relationship steps, ensure there is a clear plan or timeline in place. By understanding the connection between control and feminine energy, individuals can work toward embracing their feminine side, fostering better relationships and personal growth.
Spiritual alignment.. “ they won’t be looking to their ego for advice “.. love it!! I’m dating a new guy and he makes me feel safe.. one way is.. he checks on me without me thinking about it. And it’s not overbearing ❤😂 feminine energy is awesome .. thanks to God❤
Found this channel like 3 days ago & she’s so pretty for one . For two , thank youuuu!! For creating this channel …. I’m in a masculine energy . I’ve been in it for a couple years but I’m just now realizing it months ago … this is helping been listening to different videos throughout the days and I’m just tryna program being feminine in my mind 🥲 i want to control literally everything . & i wear the pants in my relationship which isn’t good 😢 I’m just tryna unlearn , relearn , heal and grow ❤️❤️ best of luck to all the women healing
Omg this is such a great lesson!! This is seriously your best one sis and you’re so right. I’ve never had much control lol so this might be easy for me! And yesss I want to be guided by my feelings and emotions more, and not so much in my head! Btw your hair is so pretty when you straighten it! So inspiring lol
OMG GIRL!! You are GOOD....❤ I'm 67 and one of Your Videos popped up in my automatic RUclips feed this morning not long after I had asked the Universe, Divine Spirit to help me climb out of the Black Hole I had fallen into...... I was sent You to remind Me of all the things I know but had allowed to fall by the wayside. Thank You SO VERY MUCH Blessed Be Lovely Lady ❤🙏🙏
I've been following my heart since my awakening and miracles have been amazing! Yet, I found myself doubting and toxic parent and partner planted seeds of doubt and I downloaded apps and made lists, control, control, control and just like magic, your video appeared and I've never seen you before! Bam! I feel so blessed to be watching this video. Control feels yucky healing the feminine
Here I am watching this video and finally understanding what I want to do to be in my feminine energy and let go of old beliefs and what not serves and I look at the clock: 11:11 I am on the right path, I will keep watching this videos. Thank you for your support ❤
I know it took someone else to make me realize my inner feminine needed some healing and it was the reason I was not happy! I had no idea I was expecting something from a man that only a woman could truly fulfill. My mother was very unstable in my life and it was something I suppressed so didn’t think it was still affecting me. Well it was. I now know that my own inner feminine needed to heal and that only I could make the changes to heal. So by tapping into my creativity, my hobbies and passions and off course, spending quality time with my kids and husband! Sing dance paint self care are all good ways to tap into ur feminine!!
so off topic, but this woman is so insanely beautiful 😍 thank you so much for this video love, it's already shifting my mindset into receiving. Sending you so much love ❤️
I was guided to get into feminine energy I didn't even realize I wasn't in it I was wondering why I was iny head all the time .But I see how controlling I was because of fear I didn't know😢 I got energy going all thru my body😂as I'm listening to this video I appreciate you. Now I gotta learn how to receive thanks🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm doing my happy dance
I have learned that if I have to watch him. I let it go … not wasting my life on any man that I doubt ever again. I suffered years. I learned not to ever do it. What the experience taught me is all the red flags. Now, if someone even shows one of them. I let them go immediately!
Hey Alexis I have a video request! How to stop trying to prove yourself? In my childhood my father was never satisfied with me and I constantly had to look for ways to prove myself but it never worked. I know the reason but I don’t know how to fix it
You are amazing and I love your advice. I am in the mist of healing my feminine energy to avoid attracting feminine men and I’m so grateful for your help of healing this feminine energy of mine. I now realize I’ve been resting in my masculine energy for so long and in a position where I can focus on the feminine energy in my life. I’ve learned so much here and looking forward to more wisdom and understanding.
Prompts: - Where do I feel the need to control now and what do I fear happening if I were to release control here? - Where did I lose control earlier in my life that caused me pain?
Hihi, I have a request. I commented in one of your old videos where you talked about what to look for in female friendships. There, you said you'll tell where to find them in a separate video and have posted it in tiktok but tiktok is banned in my country, and I really want to make such lovely friends. So can you post a video about it here? If not, even the tiktok posted as shorts works. Thank you! I really love your content
You have helped me grow so much. I struggle with heavy toxic masculinity. I deserve to be soft too and I’ve really learned how to be more aware of my trauma response. This has helped me feel and live more feminine and free
Love these videos💕 I just found you last week! Your video about how to look your best at all times and not needing a reason to get cute showed up on my recommended feed :) I've been sharing your videos with my gfs and I plan on taking your course soon❤
Would you give a man another chance who betrayed you in the past and wants to come back into your life after confessing his mistake and wanting another chance with you?
Love you so much Alexis🧡 you are so beautiful thank you for your beautiful advice you helped me to get off of drugs 😊 God bless you. You are helping many people. By being beautiful and sweet
If I find myself wanting control over how others see me, perceive me, is that indicative of a fear of being seen, accepted? I am open to any thoughts 🙏🏾🙏🏾
“If you are depressed you are living in the past and if you are anxious you are living in the future” wow
"if you dont feel safe, you will see your partner as a threat" i needed to hear that. Really grateful i found your video/channel!!
If you don’t feel safe, everyone will be a threat ❤
Anyone else love the “hello my beautiful girls” introduction ❤️
Over the past few years I’ve felt like “I lost myself” but this video made me realize I’ve just been operating in masculine energy and it has felt off. I now chose to release the need to control people and things outside of myself. I am now resting in my feminine energy..my feminine energy is activated✨
Thank you for this video 💕
The same!
I healed my attachment style and my marriage is so healthy now plus I feel such inner peace now.❤️
How did you do this?? I have exhibited signs of all attachment styles in my relationship and it’s affecting my life too.
Yes, please let us know how you were able to heal? Thank you 😊
@@User-uw7uw Hey sorry just now seeing
Your comment. Honestly started diving deep into my childhood traumas and why I was that way. A lot of it is subconscious limiting beliefs planted in us at a young age. Reading lots of self help books and practicing a lot of the exercises in them along with Meditation has also played a huge role. ❤️
@@User-uw7uw the book called Breaking the habit of being yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza helped me so much!
@@Akos91 Hey sorry just now seeing
Your comment. Honestly started diving deep into my childhood traumas and why I was that way. A lot of it is subconscious limiting beliefs planted in us at a young age. Reading lots of self help books and practicing a lot of the exercises in them along with Meditation has also played a huge role.❤️
The book called Breaking the habit of being yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza helped me so much!
Being feminine has always been my true nature, but I had met a very passive man and felt myself shifting.. it was awful. The entire energy of our relationship felt “off”.. but after we broke up, I began to feel myself again. Thank goodness 💕
literally what im living now. It’s so unnatural and i hate it.
@@scarlet132011 I totally get it... I hope things change back to the way you were meant to be...
You always look so elegant with your simple jewellery pieces and clothing 😍 So simple but so classy and feminine
Thank you love 🥰
It’s so important she clarifies that being led by your feminine energy doesn’t result in thinking without logic or reason. As human beings we possess masculine and feminine attributes and although logic is a classically masculine mode of thought it doesn’t mean someone who is fully in their Devine feminine is devoid of logic. That’s a common misconception about feminine energy. She highlights this so well! Furthermore intuition can often be more accurate than pure logic because intuition accounts for things that aren’t evident as an observer. Intuition is the expression of ultimate feminine wisdom.
Thank you so much for this video! I'm a guy and seeing a girl actually having feminine energy is so rare and so refreshing to see. It's actually the most beautiful thing in the world. I don't even need to travel to see some far away country, cause a feminine woman will outshine any landmark I can come across. Burn down the eiffel tower for all I care, if that means I can have an afternoon with a feminine woman.
This is good advice for people who have never dealt with narcissists- a woman will naturally be feminine and ungraded in the presence of a man who is safe and shows he supports her in all areas In life… He must earn it - especially for people like me single moms
Releasing control is something that needs to be EARNED by men! We can’t just be out here trusting any Tom duck and harry 🤷🏻♀️
Are you a jersey shore fan?
I swear
Releasing control to God is the foundation. Trusting life.
Leadership was proven. MODERN MEN don’t understand that.
Chicken and egg thing is my experience.. men respond to the energy we have.. if you don't give control, they will not take it..
Ps - I don't have the answer of how to get men to take control...just that if I wait for men to earn it, it doesn't work out
While watching you the word SENTUALITY emerged.
This says to me to gat into touch more with my physical body.
I was neglected growing up so this is a important point for me. Be attentive to my body.
I know some ppl have negative body image. So it's important to heal that wound and transmute it back to love.
Rose 🌹🌺
"Maybe I feel anxious and nervous in their presence. Maybe they're taking out a part of me that does not feel secure. And then you say, "this does not feel good. I'm not going to allow this person to stay in my life."
Highlights
🌸 Feminine energy is about flow, presence, and intuition, while control is rooted in masculine energy.
🌸 Being in your head rather than your body hinders your ability to make decisions guided by intuition and feminine energy.
🌸 Releasing control allows you to raise your vibration and attract your desires by living in the present moment.
🌸 Control often stems from feeling unsafe, triggered by past traumas or a lack of control in early life experiences.
🌸 Healing the need for control involves identifying fears and traumas and affirming safety and security within yourself.
🌸 Healthy feminine energy leads to confidence, trust, and respect in relationships, where you don't need to control or change others.
🌸 Journaling prompts help recognize and address the root causes of control issues, allowing for inner healing and transformation.
Amen
May all beings be healthy, be happy, be well and be free. Including ourselves.
How about you just don't wake up tomorrow hope you get ill
your skin is so flawless. I would love to see a skincare/beauty routine! alexis, thank you for being fabulous as always xx
Thank you love. I will add this to my video suggestion list 🥰
Your makeup look is so clean and warm here. I love it as I like warm tones
I was walking through one of the biggest Bogotan avenues so I had a great time listening to this.
Thank you so much for pointing out the unhealed trauma and how to act effectively. There are a bunch of ladies online that offer courses, meditations, and other things but this is the most completed and relevant video I could find and it was unintentional.
Thank you for your love and effort ✨🌻
I thought I was the only one who tries so so hard all of my time to keep a clean house. I knew it was from a lack of control. could be from untreated adhd or a form of ocd. I feel better knowing you went through something similar. thank you for sharing! thank you for posting these!! im incredibly thankful for the knowledge
Love your energy! You had such a positive effect on me. ❤
I always saw that my tendency to let my emotions guide me as something negative, but i can feel that changing and now i can use it as an advantage🤭
I am so happy you are talking about this, I struggle with releasing control but I wanna be in my feminine energy. Thanks for the advice❤
You have the most pure energy thank you for posting ❤
Wow!
Alexis you're really glowing in this hair and dress.
Thank you for journeying with me in my inner walk .❤
The journal prompts gave me such a deep insight i'd like to share.. i ended up writing to my inner child about the things i had no control over. I told her/myself not to seek love from (our) mum because we/she wont recieve it, and the more i tried the more it hurt. This applies to now, too. I cant control love. We cant control other people loving us. Love is NOT controlling. And the love that is always there, that is unconditional, comes from within and from the universe/god ❤
Ps. Releasing control is about trying to control outer reality / others/ situations...etc
It doesnt mean stopping to control yourself : your thoughts, feelings, habits,..etc
We need both energies yet the feminine energy is more fun❤
Omg this is what I needed as I enter this new era dedicated to healing my divine feminine. Thank you so much
Thanks!
You always have such great content. I am 48 yrs old and one may think that our age difference and life experience would possibly make it not as relevant to me but I sure wish I had known this in my 20’s. Even though I had a great childhood and parents that were very good to each other and in love I have had very difficult relationships and just went through my second divorce. I am determined to heal my own wounds though and not settle. Also I share your content with my two daughters 23 & 26. I want you to know you make a difference for many. ❤
Thank you so much love, I am so happy to have you here. It is never too late to learn and feminine energy is absolutely relevant to everyone. I believe your energy and excitement for life represent your true age much more than a number 🥰
So wise. Every video you upload holds so much weight. Every time I see a new post from you I know I'm going to learn something new and meaningful. Thank you for the work you put in.
Yes!!! That’s why you should never miss Awwlexis videos!
Aww thank you so much! ♥️
I’m learning to relax and receive and connect with my feminine energy however it’s hard cause of my painful past and learning to be present is not an issue it’s just things and for so long have been lame. Sometimes I’ll get disappointed and ppl don’t understand my vision. I think because of my childhood trauma and relationship with my mother I’m often disconnected from my feminine energy ❤. After going through a dark night of a soul I learned to release ppl and detach and stop trying to fix ppl
Omg same with the COVID period and wanting safety. I changed my whole life during that time and i felt so unhappy and lost. Then i started working on my feminine and myself again and i actually attracted my dream partner now one year ago. This stuff is really working and I thank you so much for offering your advice on it ❤🙏
I wish you had passed during covid and your partner is probably as bad as you
You are so beautiful inside and out. I am SO grateful that I found your page!! I really needed to find you! Thank you for your amazing videos! 🙏🏼🙏🏼💜💜
I really appreciate this video!!
I felt an interest in feminine energy as a woman after realizing how I didn’t feel in touch with my femininity and especially in my past romantic relationship. I wanted to learn more about this.
Masculine energy exists in women. And feminine energy exists in men. The anima and the animus-ancient archetypes.
I was interested for own personal growth and to balance both the feminine and masculine energies inside of me. And for my own inner spiritual journey. Definitely not for control, manipulation, or for others to use against me, mock me and make false assumptions.
THANK YOU for your content. I’ve shared in a Facebook group about how you were someone I watched to learn more about feminine energy.
What facebook group love?
Where do i feel the need to control now?
And what do i feel happening, if i were to release control here?
Where did i lose control or where did i not have control earlier in my life that caused me pain?
I’ve realised that I have practised my feminine energy and decided to lean back and watch his actions. I had issue of feeling unsafe (anxious attachment style) when he goes out with female friend one on one. I did communicate this to him and express how I feel. But I never stop him from going out. I said I will try to reassure myself and hope he can help me out as well by updating me. However he felt that his freedom being taken away cause everything,r he goes out with lady friends, he worried of the consequences.
Thank you, it was an extremely interesting video! 😊
I find that DANCE is the best way to restore the mind-body connection and harness our internal feminine energy for me and for most of my students!
I just found your Channel today and I’m so blessed that I did 🙏🏼
thank you for enlightening me ❤
BEAUTIFULLY spoken!!! I love this
Thankyou so much, this is such a lovely video
This is so good!
**Main Points:**
1. **The Role of Control in Feminine Energy**
- The desire to control is a significant obstacle to accessing and embodying feminine energy.
- Control often manifests as wanting to control people and situations, which aligns more with masculine energy.
- Feminine energy is characterized by being grounded, present, and intuitive, whereas control keeps one in their head and logical thinking.
2. **The Connection Between Control and Logic**
- Control shifts focus from intuition and emotions to logic, leading to decisions guided by the head rather than the heart or body.
- Embracing feminine energy requires being in the body, grounded in intuition and emotions, which can lead to attracting desires and opportunities.
3. **Living in the Present**
- Releasing control allows one to be present in the moment, fostering a deeper connection to people and opportunities.
- Anxiety often stems from worrying about the future, making it essential to live in the present.
4. **Receiving vs. Giving**
- Control involves giving guidelines or trying to change others, whereas feminine energy allows for receiving.
- Attempting to control can push people away and hinder personal growth.
5. **The Source of the Need for Control**
- The need for control often arises from feeling unsafe, rooted in past experiences or traumas.
- Trauma can lead to attracting situations and people that perpetuate feelings of unsafety.
6. **Healing and Letting Go**
- Healing involves acknowledging past traumas, reassuring oneself of safety, and separating the past from the present.
- Avoid associating past traumas with current or future relationships.
7. **Balancing Feminine and Masculine Energies**
- Achieving a balance of feminine and masculine energies is key to personal growth and fulfilling relationships.
- Embracing one's divine feminine energy involves feeling confident, secure, trusting, and full of love and respect in a relationship.
8. **How to Release Control**
- Journaling to identify areas where control is an issue and the associated fears.
- Acknowledging past instances of lost control that caused pain and addressing them.
- Allowing people to show their true selves, observing without judgment, and deciding if their energy aligns with yours.
- Developing curiosity and openness to new perspectives.
- Gradually facing fears and taking small steps to build confidence.
- Maintaining a clear plan or timeline when taking significant relationship steps like moving in together.
**Actionables:**
- Reflect on areas in your life where you feel the need to control and the associated fears.
- Consider past experiences that may have contributed to your need for control and work on healing and letting go.
- Practice allowing people to be themselves and observe their actions without trying to change them.
- Cultivate curiosity and openness to new perspectives.
- Gradually confront your fears and take small steps to build confidence.
- When considering significant relationship steps, ensure there is a clear plan or timeline in place.
By understanding the connection between control and feminine energy, individuals can work toward embracing their feminine side, fostering better relationships and personal growth.
No shortage of value in your content ❤
Thank you so much ❤
Spiritual alignment.. “ they won’t be looking to their ego for advice “.. love it!! I’m dating a new guy and he makes me feel safe.. one way is.. he checks on me without me thinking about it. And it’s not overbearing ❤😂 feminine energy is awesome .. thanks to God❤
Found this channel like 3 days ago & she’s so pretty for one . For two , thank youuuu!! For creating this channel …. I’m in a masculine energy . I’ve been in it for a couple years but I’m just now realizing it months ago … this is helping been listening to different videos throughout the days and I’m just tryna program being feminine in my mind 🥲 i want to control literally everything . & i wear the pants in my relationship which isn’t good 😢 I’m just tryna unlearn , relearn , heal and grow ❤️❤️ best of luck to all the women healing
Best of luck! ❤
So much good stuff in this video! I’m so glad I fell upon it.
This has been very helpful for my journey ❤
THANK YOU!!! I have so much of a struggle with this .. I want to break this cycle so bad 😩💔
Me out loud to your video “girl you smart af” lol. Thank you for this video.
Haha thank you love ❤️
Omg this is such a great lesson!! This is seriously your best one sis and you’re so right. I’ve never had much control lol so this might be easy for me! And yesss I want to be guided by my feelings and emotions more, and not so much in my head! Btw your hair is so pretty when you straighten it! So inspiring lol
Thank you so much love! And I’m proud of you for the self awareness you have 🥰
@@awwlexis aw omg that’s such a sweet compliment coming from you lol 🥰 I definitely feel at home here and love learning from you! 💕
OMG GIRL!! You are GOOD....❤
I'm 67 and one of Your Videos popped up in my automatic RUclips feed this morning not long after I had asked the Universe, Divine Spirit to help me climb out of the Black Hole I had fallen into......
I was sent You to remind Me of all the things I know but had allowed to fall by the wayside.
Thank You SO VERY MUCH
Blessed Be Lovely Lady ❤🙏🙏
Aww thank you so much love! So happy to have you here ♥️
@@awwlexis ❤❤
I've been following my heart since my awakening and miracles have been amazing! Yet, I found myself doubting and toxic parent and partner planted seeds of doubt and I downloaded apps and made lists, control, control, control and just like magic, your video appeared and I've never seen you before! Bam! I feel so blessed to be watching this video. Control feels yucky healing the feminine
Aww Kimberly thank you for sharing. So happy you’re here girl ♥️
You are so gentle and beautiful: your inside matches the outside 💛
Aww thank you lovely 🥰
10:17 saving spot
I’m binging your videos 😂so grateful your channel was recommended to me❤❤❤
I had to rewatch this a few times! I needed this video in sooo many ways! Thank you soooo much! I am healing! 👑💕
Here I am watching this video and finally understanding what I want to do to be in my feminine energy and let go of old beliefs and what not serves and I look at the clock: 11:11
I am on the right path, I will keep watching this videos. Thank you for your support ❤
I know it took someone else to make me realize my inner feminine needed some healing and it was the reason I was not happy! I had no idea I was expecting something from a man that only a woman could truly fulfill. My mother was very unstable in my life and it was something I suppressed so didn’t think it was still affecting me. Well it was. I now know that my own inner feminine needed to heal and that only I could make the changes to heal. So by tapping into my creativity, my hobbies and passions and off course, spending quality time with my kids and husband! Sing dance paint self care are all good ways to tap into ur feminine!!
You are so beautiful! I just stumbled upon your amazing page and I'm excited to begin my journey! :)
so off topic, but this woman is so insanely beautiful 😍
thank you so much for this video love, it's already shifting my mindset into receiving. Sending you so much love ❤️
Thank you so much love. So happy for you and excited to have you here 🥰
I was guided to get into feminine energy I didn't even realize I wasn't in it I was wondering why I was iny head all the time .But I see how controlling I was because of fear I didn't know😢 I got energy going all thru my body😂as I'm listening to this video I appreciate you. Now I gotta learn how to receive thanks🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm doing my happy dance
I am SO happy to hear this Sherita! Thank you so much. Welcome to the community 🥰
I have learned that if I have to watch him. I let it go … not wasting my life on any man that I doubt ever again. I suffered years. I learned not to ever do it. What the experience taught me is all the red flags. Now, if someone even shows one of them. I let them go immediately!
🙌🏽♥️💯
I am learning how to control my emotion. Whatever, thank you for sharing. 🍒🙏🙏
This was a helpful video and learned so much and need to put me and my needs first and men wanting me and putting me first and creating best life.
I’ll be rewatching this for sure!! Such a great video, thank you for sharing! ❤
Love your videos and your optimism! And I love your hair like this x
You are so incredibly wise! This is truly talent blessed upon you from God to grace the lives of others with ❤
You are a God sent! It was so nice meeting you at church. ❤
Aww hi Jordyn it was amazing to meet you! ❤
Hey Alexis I have a video request! How to stop trying to prove yourself? In my childhood my father was never satisfied with me and I constantly had to look for ways to prove myself but it never worked. I know the reason but I don’t know how to fix it
the second i let go of controlling my fam - all went much better much smoother
You are amazing and I love your advice. I am in the mist of healing my feminine energy to avoid attracting feminine men and I’m so grateful for your help of healing this feminine energy of mine. I now realize I’ve been resting in my masculine energy for so long and in a position where I can focus on the feminine energy in my life. I’ve learned so much here and looking forward to more wisdom and understanding.
girllllll ur so stunning 😍😍😍😍 I love your energyyy 🎉🎉❤❤
Prompts:
- Where do I feel the need to control now and what do I fear happening if I were to release control here?
- Where did I lose control earlier in my life that caused me pain?
Your smile is so bright❤ energy is inviting too 🎉I’m subscribed
Hope you rot in hell
I give all my respect to my feminine woman
Checked in… your videos always make me happy. I didn’t even realize I tried to control some outcomes. Thank youuuu thank youu❤❤❤!!!!
I need to get into my feminine energy
Thankyouuuu so much for thoose precious advices Love you thanks a lot and I hope ill be the version of myself
Preach! This is for me and everybody I know! Thank you for this! The descriptions, examples, 🙏👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
You are such a blessing. Needed this!!
This video came at the perfect time for me!! I have been struggling with this lately and want to work towards mastering detachment. Thank you queen ❤
Hihi, I have a request. I commented in one of your old videos where you talked about what to look for in female friendships. There, you said you'll tell where to find them in a separate video and have posted it in tiktok but tiktok is banned in my country, and I really want to make such lovely friends. So can you post a video about it here? If not, even the tiktok posted as shorts works. Thank you! I really love your content
Hello love. Absolutely, I will post it as a RUclips short for you right now 🥰
Love your videos...not sure how I came across them...but this is wonderful information...very enlightening. Thank You!❤
You have helped me grow so much. I struggle with heavy toxic masculinity. I deserve to be soft too and I’ve really learned how to be more aware of my trauma response. This has helped me feel and live more feminine and free
You absolutely deserve that my girl! So proud of you for doing your inner work. I’m grateful to help you ♥️
You have such deep wisdom 💙
I loooove this video!!!
How do we reach our goals and still remain feminine?
Can you do a video on how to run a business with feminine energy?
Love these videos💕 I just found you last week! Your video about how to look your best at all times and not needing a reason to get cute showed up on my recommended feed :)
I've been sharing your videos with my gfs and I plan on taking your course soon❤
Aww my sweet girl I’m so happy you’re here! I can’t wait to have you join the course ❤️
I needed this today, thank you ❤️
Would you give a man another chance who betrayed you in the past and wants to come back into your life after confessing his mistake and wanting another chance with you?
Omg thank you so much for existing lol you have helped me soooooooooooooo much!!!
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love it, thank you lex
That hair!!!😍😍😍
Love you so much Alexis🧡 you are so beautiful thank you for your beautiful advice you helped me to get off of drugs 😊 God bless you. You are helping many people. By being beautiful and sweet
Get back on the drugs you're worthless and always will be
7:20 made me tear up a bit 😅
Will activating feminine energy give me perfect, glowy skin like yours? Girlllll .....
More than likely, because feminine energy means less stress and less stress is good for the skin. 😉
You explained this soooo well, thank you 🙏🏿 ❤
If I find myself wanting control over how others see me, perceive me, is that indicative of a fear of being seen, accepted? I am open to any thoughts 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Please any advice on how to use your feminine energy to know your career path