The one night stands aren’t the issue idc if people do it but bragging makes it seem like u don’t want a committed relationship. Which is fine but then don’t get in a committed relationship
Girl i was adopted too, and had the opportunity to meet my bio family at 18. I decided to keep them out of my life but that has NEVER once affected my relationships. She needs to stop making excuses for being a bad person
2:48 so you’re telling me this chick got a bunch of girls in the past but is so awkward meeting her girlfriend irl? Please. She acts like she doesn’t even know her 😭
Look at how Statler was smirking when she admitted her ex offered her a one night stand ! I was already finding it hard to believe everything she accused Dempsey of more recently. Eg she told Dempsey her own car was only worth $4-5k so she didnt bother selling it, when she was offered $20k on tv. Yet she blew up at Dempsey for failing to mention the £1/2k she recieved for selling her own car.
I was also adopted like statler. I 100% understand her opinions on it. I used to struggle with the same insecurities. I now view it as you were extra loved. We were not thrown away. We were given up for better opportunities. Something our bio parents couldn't do for us at the time.
SOMETIMES ITS NOT LACK OF LOVE, ITS BECAUSE OF TOO MUCH LOVE...THEY BELIEVE THEY CANT GIVE YOU THE BEST YOU DESERVE..THERES ALWAYS TERRIBLE CIRCUMSTANCES AROUND IT & THEY ALWAYS REGRET IT WHEN THEY GET OLDER. THE REAL PROBLEM IS ADOPTION AGENCIES HIDE THE TRUTH WHEN THEY SHOULD HELP THEM REUNITE AT ANY TIME. 😢
Not every adoption story turns out to be a better opportunity. I was a foster kid and then adopted. My adoptive mother was a covert narcissist and had a detrimental impact on my self-esteem. From severe depression, PTSD, body dysmorphia, an eating disorder and self harming. She was pure evil. Not every adoptive parent is the better option then the biological parent..
Statler should have let it be she has lost me with all the negativity she spews at Dempsey who is obviously a sweet honest person as I watch it all again solidified my opinion of them she never let it be enough for happiness to happen
Statler, typical narcissist. That word gets thrown around but wow. I dated someone like her. Drains the life out of you completely. Is in the wrong and yet Dempsey ends up apologizing. Weird.
I would of jumped off the boat ! Statler is a walking Complainer! What the HELL were you two thinking. Travel in a tiny van . I guess you didn’t spend time together! Wtf. Statler your friend is jealous. These travel plans are DONE! Sell the van go your own ways Statler can complain alone!😱😱😱Drives me CRAZY
I don't understand why Statler, Dempsey, and pretty much everyone else in these clips is acting like Statler can just move to the UK? Unless Statler somehow already has British or Irish citizenship (which seems unlikely if she only has been to the UK once before), she can't just pack up and start living there. I think maybe that's part of her push to move in with Dempsey so fast: she wouldn't be able to easily rent an apartment or anything like that herself without a long-term visa, which she probably doesn't have.
@@gemstar7286 As an American myself who had to go through the UK visa process for school, it's not that easy for Americans to move to the UK. Even if Dempsey was into letting Statler move in with her, it's not as easy to move a foreign partner into the UK as it is for the inverse (a foreign partner moving to the US). Everyone in this video just saying that Statler should move to the UK on her own don't seem to be paying attention to the fact that Statler literally cannot just move to the UK unless she already has citizenship there or a visa.
@@WulfFy Yeah I understand , but I don't think people are thinking properly about that.But yeah of course it would take time ....and isn't easy,but they get ahead of themselves. Also Statler isn't exactly sensible or mature enough, she's behaving as if she can just emigrate quickly in a spontaneous way....which isn't realistic.
She can apply to work here and get a work visa. It’s not crazy to ask that of her. Plus I think there’s some security in the fact that she would have to go through a lengthy process & be tied by work. The process is not bad. But there’s a reason she doesn’t want to do that, and it’s because she’s a leech.
@@softscribbles I think that would make sense, but even still it would be quite hard for Statler to get a job in the UK that would sponsor her for a visa unless she has some sort of specialized skill. As an American myself who was in the UK for a year for grad school, even with a UK degree AND living in the UK I still couldn't find a work-visa-sponsoring job. But I suppose it's kinda good that it's hard to get a visa there because it does help to prevent people from leeching off their partners for everything, as many folks in 90 Day Fiance do!
Dempsey was a tad too pushy about moving in. You guys weren't even talking for a YEAR before you met and you were only there for a few months and you asked her if you can move in? You even admitted your last relationship didn't last because she thought you moved too fast yet you STILL ask Statler if you can move in on your FIRST VISIT?
Statler, sweetheart, she was not for you, she is all for herself, she's all about just having fun and nothing serious and having it all her way, she does not understand what it takes for you to move to another country for someone, she's just a selfish b. You are better off alone.
I would of jumped off the boat ! Statler is a walking Complainer! What the HELL were you two thinking. Travel in a tiny van . I guess you didn’t spend time together! Wtf. Statler your friend is jealous. These travel plans are DONE! Sell the van go your own ways Statler can complain alone!😱😱😱Drives me CRAZY
I really wish Dempsey would find better. Statler is one red flag honestly.
They have broken up 🤷🏼♀️
@@Jazzy-f5z well I didn’t know thanks…
Demsy should not rush🎉 south Africa
@@RonnisStander neither should Statler 🙄
@@Jazzy-f5zwhen where?
'Statler & Dempsey' sounds like a 70's TV show about New York detectives.
Dempsey and makepeace wasn't it?
statler is sooo awkward. i'm uncomfortable like i'm there with her 😭😭dempsey is too good for her, she seems so lovely
She is on the autism spectrum . Some of us on the spectrum are just awkward!
😂😂😂😂 yes, Statler is so draining. And it’s not because of her anxiety because other people have that.
she has adhd
Statler is beautiful, as long she doesn't open her mouth.
😂😂😂😂😂
Yes, lol. And that friend of hers is so mean and jealous. They belong together. She’s draining Dempsey sweet energy.
Statler is playing her manipulating games, she is bossy and an energy vampire.
She literally started by saying “I get all the girls sometimes many in a night”
Soon as she said that...🚩🚩🚩🚩
The one night stands aren’t the issue idc if people do it but bragging makes it seem like u don’t want a committed relationship. Which is fine but then don’t get in a committed relationship
Girl i was adopted too, and had the opportunity to meet my bio family at 18. I decided to keep them out of my life but that has NEVER once affected my relationships. She needs to stop making excuses for being a bad person
not everyone can cope with trauma well, stop judging.
2:48 so you’re telling me this chick got a bunch of girls in the past but is so awkward meeting her girlfriend irl? Please. She acts like she doesn’t even know her 😭
They both act like this is the first date! Think they should of lived together first! Then travel way to fast this was! Statler has issues!
To be fair talking online vs in person is different
I feel like being awkward is her shtick that helps her pull girls. Especially if she acts like it's their beauty that makes her awkward. Barf.
@@brennathecatlover4360 that’s true but Satler continues to be awkward throughout their entire relationship
@@Jankb0t3k0 yea but maybe a relationship going well is new to her who knows
Statler has abandonment issues she needs to deal with before entering a serious relationship with someone
Look at how Statler was smirking when she admitted her ex offered her a one night stand ! I was already finding it hard to believe everything she accused Dempsey of more recently. Eg she told Dempsey her own car was only worth $4-5k so she didnt bother selling it, when she was offered $20k on tv. Yet she blew up at Dempsey for failing to mention the £1/2k she recieved for selling her own car.
I was also adopted like statler. I 100% understand her opinions on it. I used to struggle with the same insecurities. I now view it as you were extra loved. We were not thrown away. We were given up for better opportunities. Something our bio parents couldn't do for us at the time.
Love this mindset
SOMETIMES ITS NOT LACK OF LOVE, ITS BECAUSE OF TOO MUCH LOVE...THEY BELIEVE THEY CANT GIVE YOU THE BEST YOU DESERVE..THERES ALWAYS TERRIBLE CIRCUMSTANCES AROUND IT & THEY ALWAYS REGRET IT WHEN THEY GET OLDER. THE REAL PROBLEM IS ADOPTION AGENCIES HIDE THE TRUTH WHEN THEY SHOULD HELP THEM REUNITE AT ANY TIME. 😢
Not every adoption story turns out to be a better opportunity. I was a foster kid and then adopted. My adoptive mother was a covert narcissist and had a detrimental impact on my self-esteem. From severe depression, PTSD, body dysmorphia, an eating disorder and self harming. She was pure evil. Not every adoptive parent is the better option then the biological parent..
No excuse for her behavior though
Statler gives Ellen DeGenerous vibes
Omg I literally could not think of who she sounds like until your comment!!!!! Her tone of voice is exactly like Ellen’s omg well spotted
Statler has serial killer eyes 👀 lol
Dempsey is soooo cute ❤
Statler should have let it be she has lost me with all the negativity she spews at Dempsey who is obviously a sweet honest person as I watch it all again solidified my opinion of them she never let it be enough for happiness to happen
Agreed
What a hideously awkward greeting
She's the cheater worrying if the other girl is a cheater. Wonderful.
Um, sorry, why do you have a fridge full of TV dinners 😂
"My feelings for you have increased" she says, as though reading about a graph
Statler is probably cheating that’s why she’s so insecure. I don’t believe her when she says she’s only cheated once
Statler gives me second hand embarrassment, and makes me cringe with her “adhd” GROW UP LADY !!
STATLER TRIED TO USE HER EX TO MAKE DEMPSEY JEALOUS. THAT WAS WRONG.
“This is my second time coming to England to meet an English woman” I felt the awkwardness 😭
Red flag alert.
STATLER IS AN OBSESSED STALKER IMO.
Statler’s vocal intonations are the exact same as Ellen DeGeneres’es
She's using her. She realizes it. Plus no chemistry, right off the bat.
Statler is cringe. Too nonchalant & pushy
that's the flattest rollercoaster i've ever seen!
Dempsey please save yourself.
Statler, typical narcissist. That word gets thrown around but wow. I dated someone like her. Drains the life out of you completely. Is in the wrong and yet Dempsey ends up apologizing. Weird.
She reminded me of a person I dated as well. Same negative energy and unauthentic vibe.
Statler is so attractive but also a walking red flag 😂
Who stays in a hotel with their ex for “closure”🙄
Lmao
Well they’re obviously staying for an opener 😂
SOOO cringe to watch Statler push her way into Dempseys life. 🤮
Statler finds relationships between leases. Creepy af.
MY GOD DEMPSEYS THE PERFECT PARTNER!
Statler sums up the song "Vampire" very nicely
Dempsey needs to run!!!
They're both so pretty ❤
Shes a narcissist. Red flag..trying to move in and not resepct demseys wishes. So selfish..love 💣
AGREED 🚩🚩
Statler is such a wounded broken lady in every way. I actually feel sad for her. Very very messed up soul and spirit
I would of jumped off the boat ! Statler is a walking Complainer! What the HELL were you two thinking. Travel in a tiny van . I guess you didn’t spend time together! Wtf. Statler your friend is jealous. These travel plans are DONE! Sell the van go your own ways Statler can complain alone!😱😱😱Drives me CRAZY
Statler is giving big red flags!,!!!!
Dempsey PLEASE run
Piss off! Darlington England!!!!! Big up the darlo Massive 😂
Starker is a hot mess. She just got there, how would she know in an hour or two that she wants to move there. 🚩🚩🚩
Dempsey never looked as though she were all in as much as Statler would like. Dempsey just seems like she’s just not into her really.
Statler sounds like Ellen Degenerous and that’s the biggest red flag 😂
They are both so beautiful
Starler is awkward but idk if is because she is shy or what
Coming from the north east of England, no. That's not what our nights sound like!
stater hates her lmfao like just leave each other alone
I don't understand why Statler, Dempsey, and pretty much everyone else in these clips is acting like Statler can just move to the UK? Unless Statler somehow already has British or Irish citizenship (which seems unlikely if she only has been to the UK once before), she can't just pack up and start living there. I think maybe that's part of her push to move in with Dempsey so fast: she wouldn't be able to easily rent an apartment or anything like that herself without a long-term visa, which she probably doesn't have.
The TV show is called ' 90 day fiancé ' , Statler wants to marry her and get the green card & citizenship etc to live in the UK .
@@gemstar7286 As an American myself who had to go through the UK visa process for school, it's not that easy for Americans to move to the UK. Even if Dempsey was into letting Statler move in with her, it's not as easy to move a foreign partner into the UK as it is for the inverse (a foreign partner moving to the US). Everyone in this video just saying that Statler should move to the UK on her own don't seem to be paying attention to the fact that Statler literally cannot just move to the UK unless she already has citizenship there or a visa.
@@WulfFy Yeah I understand , but I don't think people are thinking properly about that.But yeah of course it would take time ....and isn't easy,but they get ahead of themselves. Also Statler isn't exactly sensible or mature enough, she's behaving as if she can just emigrate quickly in a spontaneous way....which isn't realistic.
She can apply to work here and get a work visa. It’s not crazy to ask that of her. Plus I think there’s some security in the fact that she would have to go through a lengthy process & be tied by work. The process is not bad. But there’s a reason she doesn’t want to do that, and it’s because she’s a leech.
@@softscribbles I think that would make sense, but even still it would be quite hard for Statler to get a job in the UK that would sponsor her for a visa unless she has some sort of specialized skill. As an American myself who was in the UK for a year for grad school, even with a UK degree AND living in the UK I still couldn't find a work-visa-sponsoring job.
But I suppose it's kinda good that it's hard to get a visa there because it does help to prevent people from leeching off their partners for everything, as many folks in 90 Day Fiance do!
I just discovered their relationship, and Statler should get out.
Dempsey is very smart run
Statler is so weird.
Has Statler's family been on the show?
6:37 not her saying she won’t cheat on her bc dumpsy is into her wth
Dempsey was a tad too pushy about moving in. You guys weren't even talking for a YEAR before you met and you were only there for a few months and you asked her if you can move in? You even admitted your last relationship didn't last because she thought you moved too fast yet you STILL ask Statler if you can move in on your FIRST VISIT?
You got the names reversed?
@@KerryCase-mg6gnI was about to say that😁
Lol
Sorry my bad. hahaha
Statler is goofy nglll
It's called medication 💊 Statler 🚩🚩
This American girl is a walking red flag 🚩
Haven’t they already broken up?
They have. Are u happy?
Brooo that girl weird 😂😂
Irritating. Both of them.
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Statler is very manipulative and very demanding.
She deserves to be
She needs to come this way get treated a WHOLE LOT BETTER! COME MY Way BABY! STATLER WE GOT BETTER DONUTS OVER HERE I PROMISE!
She's a fing LIAR TO STATLER!
Dempsey not very transparent with her finances with Statler. Not supportive of Statler’s fear of the water. Major red flag. Statler left her country.
Omg can STATLER TALK? Is she 5? It’s not up to DEMPSEY TO PRY ALL HER FEARS OUT OF HER! She’s crazy
@@debschaal don’t agree. You sell off all your assets and you not be vulnerable. Nothing in your name.
Ok Statler lol
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😂😂😂😂not even pretty n hot to have that much galsfriend,oh please!!
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Statler, sweetheart, she was not for you, she is all for herself, she's all about just having fun and nothing serious and having it all her way, she does not understand what it takes for you to move to another country for someone, she's just a selfish b. You are better off alone.
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Who cares!
You cared to watch and comment 😂
You do 🤷🏼♀️ since you Are here
Statler is absolutely pathetic in every which way. Panic attack for everything, trusts nothing or no one. Dempsey run🥹
I would of jumped off the boat ! Statler is a walking Complainer! What the HELL were you two thinking. Travel in a tiny van . I guess you didn’t spend time together! Wtf. Statler your friend is jealous. These travel plans are DONE! Sell the van go your own ways Statler can complain alone!😱😱😱Drives me CRAZY