Why do women in these dramas always end up getting back with bad men who deceive, cheat and other nasty things? Would love to see more strong women portrayed who can move on. That's more satisfying than this drivel.
@@liezltan1887 that is correct. She even says it in this scene to her friend Hui that she loved him but to him she was just a short term lover that he could drop when there were problems. She was self aware and struggled with herself and kept rejecting him. This drams is different because she wasn't a weak willed soft hearted FL that could be pushed around. She had no problem fighting for herself and those she loved. She didn't allow him back until near the end of the drama. He had to drag himself through hell and back and was willing to wait for her to unravel the knot in her heart. He never blamed her for the break up, he owned his own fault. At least he didn't cheat on her, get drunk and get caught in intimate pics with other women, or belittle/verbally abuse her. This drama is a step in the right direction.
Well no matter what, Ranran never pursued the ML. He pursued her...twice. She was busy living her life and enjoying time with her friends and working on her goal of being a war correspondent. She is very strong willed but insecure at this point because of the scars from their break up. He proved her right as she had fears that he was still attached with Fei'er and left her in the dust at the wedding. Tbh he disappointed me with that move that he didn't even look back to see if she was ok. That will haunt him. At least in this drama her friends are so loyal, protective, and loving. They blocked ML at the beginning and when he pursues her AGAIN. He f'ed up with that break up. I got mad for Ranran myself. She is not a waste of time! Good luck pursuing her...spoiler alert! I read in other video comments he's even worse in the novel. Dude, pick a girl and stick to your decision! At least her unrequited love for him was never planned. She never expected to have him love her back. She expected to keep that in her heart for life. She was just going to go on living and being a war correspondent.
She doesn't want to hear the memories of the evil friend that keep fitting herself in between until she didn't care anymore.Doesn't matter if she left it was to late for him to finally communicate he loved her.
He always protected her second...sure the other girl was a train wreck. But you NEVER put another before your loved one. If you have to help, you make DANG sure your loved one knows the ins and outs. Like at the wedding. He should have gone to her first checked if she was alright and said I am gonna get her outta here...but he never made that priority...no woman wantsnto be second choice...niether do men forbthat matter.
I hate that feeling of unrequited love because I felt that twice in my life. The 1st time I was too young. I was only 13 and lasted until 17. The 2nd hit me harder probably because the guy was older than me and he was good at playing mind games. I was 17 almost 18 when I met him and he was 21. We went to different universities about an hour away from each other so it was hard to see each other so we would write each other. I would see him if he or I attend any of his fraternity parties at any nearby universities. I only found out later that he had a girlfriend at the same school he was attending. At the last frat part he and his frat brothers hosted, I was there and he told me that he was getting ready to graduate and get his masters degree in a few weeks. This is after I stopped communicating with him after a year. He seemed excited to tell me that after he graduates, he’s moving to the city we’re I go school so we’ll be able to see each other more often. In a neutral voice, I told him “I don’t think that’s going to happen. It’s too late. I have a boyfriend now and it’s inappropriate for me to do that.” I walked away and went back to my group of friends in the corner. I never saw him again. I burned all the letters he wrote to me. I didn’t want to be reminded of it and didn’t want my boyfriend to find it by accident and question me. When I cut a person out of my life, I don’t look back. Period. Ever. I’m glad I found a better man who puts me as his #1 priority, he’s loyal, considerate, caring, respectful, responsible, kind, loving, affectionate, funny, and his family loves me and my family loves him as well. Like everyone said in the comments, we women needs to self respect and self worth and let a man know what you don’t tolerate in a relationship and what the consequences will be if you break that trust. No ifs or buts. You’re an adult. You have a choice. If you did something that you know your girlfriend would not tolerate and cause her to break up with you, and you still did it, what does that say about your feelings for her? 🤨 exactly! Yeah, some of these Cdrama where the men cheats repeatedly and then the wife comes back is just plain disgusting. It makes the women look weak. I’m sure not all Chinese women are like that. We need different storylines because this kind of plots are getting too repetitive and boring.
Honestly her finally giving him up might be the right choice for her, but it doesn't undo all the damage done by her to either of them in the quest of always being the centre of attention while playing the weak damsel in distress that always needs to be rescued. Yes, their relationship was ultimately up to them, but she actively sabotaged their relationship several times but now that she's decided she's done, she really expects their relationship will just magically be fixed because that's what she wants now so she doesn't have to take any responsibility for the damage she's caused? Though at the same time she's a narcasist for assuming the *only* reason they aren't together was because she still wanted to be with the ML and now she's given up he'll chose the FL by 'default' because she's not an option 🙄
Honestly I would break contact with both of them for a while then Tiv suppose it friend who honestly she didn't go looking for this one guy because she was willing to give everything up he kicked her out her X fiancee that's why she went and did she ever tell them exactly how she got all the paperwork and I can't believe that they really thought it was going to be that easy her living with him for years and seen how He D like to play mine games I don't understand how she thought it was gonna be so easy not only thethis guy supposed to be pushed her away his girlfriend so that danger wouldn't come dangerous still came into her and the thing is you keep putting her over and over and I hate that bull carbon people say I suffered as well it's like yeah but you made yourself suffer because you knew what was going on you never gave her the option anything was even like when she got her at the wedding he carried about the other one more and didn't even know she was injured Little things like that. And also repeated me office however once I oh she's finally finding real love the evil friend with a single dad and it's like she had love the guy really loved her gave her everything you know the way he even took off and he would believe all her lies and she chose someone more wealthier than him
@@m_l_ek3857 We aren't I never understood about the time capsule that he said he wanted to take care of her for the rest the girl with a good parents to take care of you because they took a minute and would keep him company when he felt lonely and the other girl even made it a point to say she's keeping him around until she found someone better in college and that whole attack thing always was very suspicious to me That I'm not saying it's OK what he did to her but she would like to lead guys on and then oh OK I don't want you no more and it's like you act like as if you Have so much to offer when your parents and your brother are any Negativity in your life and just the way she acted you know and instead of appreciating it when he actually took her abroad she even made up the licence O people are making rumours up when it was actually about the videon he found out the truth that they were talking about it and he said if you guys and my friends you won't bring it up again and it was actually about the video and not about that girl's attack And obviously no one ever found out about it because the reporter would have found out. I'm just saying like honestly the way he had money and everything and with all the friends in contacts he had you mean to tell me he couldn't find her all those years at all and the wish you kept bringing the X squad on even though he called his ex girlfriend she kept pushing herself into their lives because she was used to having him as a backup whenever her fiance didn't give her attention Are you serious sometimes I think if the fiancee knew about the other girl the main girl he would win after her and try to be with her instead of the one he got engaged to
Why do women in these dramas always end up getting back with bad men who deceive, cheat and other nasty things? Would love to see more strong women portrayed who can move on. That's more satisfying than this drivel.
The script writer is a ccp. Typical ccp story, women get bullied all the time.
@@kimmie5861 what’s a ccp ?
Actually he didn't betray or cheat the FL, because the ML loves the FL and not the exgf
@@liezltan1887 that is correct. She even says it in this scene to her friend Hui that she loved him but to him she was just a short term lover that he could drop when there were problems. She was self aware and struggled with herself and kept rejecting him. This drams is different because she wasn't a weak willed soft hearted FL that could be pushed around. She had no problem fighting for herself and those she loved. She didn't allow him back until near the end of the drama. He had to drag himself through hell and back and was willing to wait for her to unravel the knot in her heart. He never blamed her for the break up, he owned his own fault. At least he didn't cheat on her, get drunk and get caught in intimate pics with other women, or belittle/verbally abuse her. This drama is a step in the right direction.
Well no matter what, Ranran never pursued the ML. He pursued her...twice. She was busy living her life and enjoying time with her friends and working on her goal of being a war correspondent. She is very strong willed but insecure at this point because of the scars from their break up. He proved her right as she had fears that he was still attached with Fei'er and left her in the dust at the wedding. Tbh he disappointed me with that move that he didn't even look back to see if she was ok. That will haunt him. At least in this drama her friends are so loyal, protective, and loving. They blocked ML at the beginning and when he pursues her AGAIN. He f'ed up with that break up. I got mad for Ranran myself. She is not a waste of time! Good luck pursuing her...spoiler alert! I read in other video comments he's even worse in the novel. Dude, pick a girl and stick to your decision! At least her unrequited love for him was never planned. She never expected to have him love her back. She expected to keep that in her heart for life. She was just going to go on living and being a war correspondent.
Xio xanqii says the same thing again and again like THIS TIME WON'T LET HER GO AT ALL COST this and that but pushes her away no matter what
Yep. Dumb move dude.
She doesn't want to hear the memories of the evil friend that keep fitting herself in between until she didn't care anymore.Doesn't matter if she left it was to late for him to finally communicate he loved her.
She doesn't like being
Second best to anyone or thing in his life.
He always protected her second...sure the other girl was a train wreck. But you NEVER put another before your loved one. If you have to help, you make DANG sure your loved one knows the ins and outs. Like at the wedding. He should have gone to her first checked if she was alright and said I am gonna get her outta here...but he never made that priority...no woman wantsnto be second choice...niether do men forbthat matter.
I hate that feeling of unrequited love because I felt that twice in my life. The 1st time I was too young. I was only 13 and lasted until 17. The 2nd hit me harder probably because the guy was older than me and he was good at playing mind games. I was 17 almost 18 when I met him and he was 21. We went to different universities about an hour away from each other so it was hard to see each other so we would write each other. I would see him if he or I attend any of his fraternity parties at any nearby universities. I only found out later that he had a girlfriend at the same school he was attending. At the last frat part he and his frat brothers hosted, I was there and he told me that he was getting ready to graduate and get his masters degree in a few weeks. This is after I stopped communicating with him after a year. He seemed excited to tell me that after he graduates, he’s moving to the city we’re I go school so we’ll be able to see each other more often. In a neutral voice, I told him “I don’t think that’s going to happen. It’s too late. I have a boyfriend now and it’s inappropriate for me to do that.” I walked away and went back to my group of friends in the corner. I never saw him again. I burned all the letters he wrote to me. I didn’t want to be reminded of it and didn’t want my boyfriend to find it by accident and question me. When I cut a person out of my life, I don’t look back. Period. Ever. I’m glad I found a better man who puts me as his #1 priority, he’s loyal, considerate, caring, respectful, responsible, kind, loving, affectionate, funny, and his family loves me and my family loves him as well. Like everyone said in the comments, we women needs to self respect and self worth and let a man know what you don’t tolerate in a relationship and what the consequences will be if you break that trust. No ifs or buts. You’re an adult. You have a choice. If you did something that you know your girlfriend would not tolerate and cause her to break up with you, and you still did it, what does that say about your feelings for her? 🤨 exactly! Yeah, some of these Cdrama where the men cheats repeatedly and then the wife comes back is just plain disgusting. It makes the women look weak. I’m sure not all Chinese women are like that. We need different storylines because this kind of plots are getting too repetitive and boring.
She's still lying to herself
Honestly her finally giving him up might be the right choice for her, but it doesn't undo all the damage done by her to either of them in the quest of always being the centre of attention while playing the weak damsel in distress that always needs to be rescued. Yes, their relationship was ultimately up to them, but she actively sabotaged their relationship several times but now that she's decided she's done, she really expects their relationship will just magically be fixed because that's what she wants now so she doesn't have to take any responsibility for the damage she's caused? Though at the same time she's a narcasist for assuming the *only* reason they aren't together was because she still wanted to be with the ML and now she's given up he'll chose the FL by 'default' because she's not an option 🙄
Honestly I would break contact with both of them for a while then Tiv suppose it friend who honestly she didn't go looking for this one guy because she was willing to give everything up he kicked her out her X fiancee that's why she went and did she ever tell them exactly how she got all the paperwork and I can't believe that they really thought it was going to be that easy her living with him for years and seen how He D like to play mine games I don't understand how she thought it was gonna be so easy not only thethis guy supposed to be pushed her away his girlfriend so that danger wouldn't come dangerous still came into her and the thing is you keep putting her over and over and I hate that bull carbon people say I suffered as well it's like yeah but you made yourself suffer because you knew what was going on you never gave her the option anything was even like when she got her at the wedding he carried about the other one more and didn't even know she was injured Little things like that. And also repeated me office however once I oh she's finally finding real love the evil friend with a single dad and it's like she had love the guy really loved her gave her everything you know the way he even took off and he would believe all her lies and she chose someone more wealthier than him
Wow. You stated everything. The fact that the evil lady gets another good guy, I just can't watch it. Xiaoran is actually the 3rd wheel. It's sad.
@@m_l_ek3857 We aren't I never understood about the time capsule that he said he wanted to take care of her for the rest the girl with a good parents to take care of you because they took a minute and would keep him company when he felt lonely and the other girl even made it a point to say she's keeping him around until she found someone better in college and that whole attack thing always was very suspicious to me That I'm not saying it's OK what he did to her but she would like to lead guys on and then oh OK I don't want you no more and it's like you act like as if you Have so much to offer when your parents and your brother are any Negativity in your life and just the way she acted you know and instead of appreciating it when he actually took her abroad she even made up the licence O people are making rumours up when it was actually about the videon he found out the truth that they were talking about it and he said if you guys and my friends you won't bring it up again and it was actually about the video and not about that girl's attack And obviously no one ever found out about it because the reporter would have found out. I'm just saying like honestly the way he had money and everything and with all the friends in contacts he had you mean to tell me he couldn't find her all those years at all and the wish you kept bringing the X squad on even though he called his ex girlfriend she kept pushing herself into their lives because she was used to having him as a backup whenever her fiance didn't give her attention Are you serious sometimes I think if the fiancee knew about the other girl the main girl he would win after her and try to be with her instead of the one he got engaged to