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As a child, I would throw my schoolbag in the corner after school. And then I would leave the house until the evening. We usually played cowboys and Indians and shot at each other with homemade arrows. Or we climbed the highest trees. We played in meadows or in the nearby forest. We despised playgrounds. We could do whatever we wanted all day long without supervision. And there were no cell phones yet. So our parents couldn't harass us with calls. *LOL* We only had to be home in the evening, when the church bells rang at 7:00. Of course, we didn't have our own clock. We enjoyed this freedom - it was a wonderful childhood. Greetings from Germany, Bavaria:-)
I experienced the same as you, when my sister and I were young. We had lots of freedom to discover our own way, but our moms always were there, when we needed them. it was such a beautiful time. Greetings from Salzburg, Austria.
As a German, with many relatives in the States (CA, FL, NY), I must/can say it so clearly: Unfortunately, you have not been living "In the Land of the Free" for a long time! I am very happy to live in Germany/Europe! Many greets from the Center of Germany (near Kassel)✌
I am Dutch and these recent "gender wars" in the U.S. are terribly frustrating and confusing. In the Netherlands it is normal to be a single dad with equal custody. And men also get parental leave when they have a newborn. It is not about men or women or who is the best, it is about the children.
But you can buy a gun in the gun store in Germany. And in both in the US, and Germany, a background check is performed. Some US states have stricter gun laws than Germany. Good luck finding a US state where you can freely aquire a pistol carbine kit without an SBR permit. Guns used in crimes are in both countries usually illegally obtained. Last but not least, a super meerkat would be hilarious.
Hey, this is my street! (4:42) On the other side of this Kita is a Kita for about 180 kids. It has a huge Garden to play outside, and they play outside on a daily basis. My children don’t have a seperate room. I know a lot of families who live in small apartments. We are 2 adults and 4 kids and share 3 rooms. (Kitchen, bathroom, living room, two rooms for the kids, the parents sleep in the living room. Bigger apartments are not availible or way too expensive.
When raising my (4) children, I set certain basic rules about the time spent on the computer and television. (Smartphones didn't exist back then, but I had an automobile phone that weighed about 14 kg^^). The children never took advantage of that time because there was always something more interesting to do.
3:52 As a German mother, I have the opinion, that this is, how it should be. Can't understand women, who go immediately to work again,. don't breastfeed, don't witness their little one's first steps, first words etc.. I would never sacrifice that for a stupid job.
American women who don't have the choice of being on parental leave. So they use their annual leave for giving birth and the day after they return to work.
@budapestkeletistationvoices True. But in Germany, it's not necessary. You have the right to stay three years with your child and get paid. This phase (three years, beginning from the last trimester of the pregnancy) is called "Mutterschutz" (mother- protection) . Women, who don't take advantage of this are blinded by feminist ideas. Here in Germany, nobody has to suffer from hunger or poverty. In other countries, where there's no such a system, it's of course another story. I emphasize with women elsewhere.
@kikikoko607 in the UK and the US, many have to. The population say that those who suffer are lazy and deserve to suffer. And when there's a sufficiently big crowd that aren't happy, a Trump comes saying they need more capitalism to solve their problems
I invested a lot of time and energy in my education and saw little sense or benefit in staying home to be a 50s style stay at home Mum while depriving my husband of the close bond he developed with our son. It takes two to make a child and a strong mother to share the baby years. @@kikikoko607
7:55 This is somewhat of an incorrect translation. The nursery rhyme "Messer, Gabel, Schere, Licht, sind für kleine Kinder nicht" does not refer to small children in general, but rather to toddlers. The term "Kleinkind" (a compound word combining "klein" and "Kind") refers to children between the ages of 2 and 6. After that age, it is generally considered acceptable for children to use a fork, knife, scissors, and handle light sources.
Growing up in usa, there was a time when our neighbors knew everyone, we had a farm and in the summer, we would stay outside until it got dark. Unfortunately things and crimes started to be worse, even in our small town. Move to Germany and glad that my children were able to live free. They would go out until dark and most of the neighbors knew them. Unfortunately due to political of bringing or letting anyone in the country, crimes are gone up and my grandchildren don't have all the privilege like my children 😢
Screentime: the reason, that those kids in the video won't need to be limited as much in their screentime is because they are unlikely to become addicted due to their responsible, independent and free upbringing. They simply have better things to do and way more choiceson how to live their lifes at this young age. That's the difference.
@@giobozzde My husband learned to bake as a child of 6. So it can't be that difficult. Try it! His mother had depression, PTSD and anxiety and was unable to run the household. His father was an electrician and was often away working for weeks, so as a schoolchild he did in addition to school all the housework, cleaning, laundry and cooking. He was an adult at the age of ten. I prefer to cook, with fresh veggies, spices, all that cutting, the colours of the veggies, the smell, the joyful anticipation... My husband does the baking. I'm not as good in it as he is.
My condolescence for you, after the loss your country had. Now you are screwed. The U.S. voted that mad criminal again, the rest of the world stares in shock over to you. My best wishes that it's gonna be not that bad as it seems to be. Love and hugs from Germany
Je suis Belge et j'ai 77 ans. Dès ma petite enfance je n'avais pas besoin de mes parents pour me déplacer car dès 9 ans je prenais le train seule sans aucun problème et j'allais chez le docteur seule et c'étais très bien de devenir indépendant très jeune car c'est le meilleur apprentissage de la vie
I am German and have watched some of your videos and can say that you would be a good father, you deal with many things and have a healthy, adult opinion on many things. if the translation is bad, sorry google translate^^
When I hear him speak, I think of my father. He says that when he started school, he learned his first foreign language. Standard German. . . When I was 13-14 years old, I rode the almost 60 km from us to Cologne Cathedral on my bike. And shortly afterwards, together with my younger brother, to Aachen city center. On the way back, his handlebars broke. We didn't call home anyway, but just carried on. . .
Same here, though I live in Austria. I'm in my 60s now. When I was about 13 or 14 y old my 1 year younger friend was on vacation with his parents at the Neusiedler See where he met a girl he wanted to see again. So back home he and I packed a tent and drove from our home town with our bicycles to Rust. There were no separate lanes or roads for bicycles back in the day www.google.com/maps/dir/2500+Baden+bei+Wien/Rust,+Burgenland,+Rust/@47.8977504,16.295028,69414m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m15!4m14!1m5!1m1!1s0x476db080611d6cbb:0x6f36ce3f5ffdb45a!2m2!1d16.23091!2d48.00214!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c3f690b4c3899:0x511984a77756bb60!2m2!1d16.6892859!2d47.8020988!3e1!5i2?entry=ttu&g_ep=EgoyMDI0MTEwNi4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D. We didn't even know the way exactly and had no map, but simply drove in the general direction and it worked somehow. On our way back home we didn't find a good route, since we simply guessed our way. So we ended up making a detour and were driving over the only mountain near and far. www.google.com/maps/dir/Rust,+Burgenland,+Rust/Leitha+Mountains/2500+Baden+bei+Wien/@47.902129,16.295028,69408m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m20!4m19!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c3f690b4c3899:0x511984a77756bb60!2m2!1d16.6892859!2d47.8020988!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c453f60e8357d:0xffc3502091d936d!2m2!1d16.6666667!2d47.9666667!1m5!1m1!1s0x476db080611d6cbb:0x6f36ce3f5ffdb45a!2m2!1d16.23091!2d48.00214!3e1?entry=ttu&g_ep=EgoyMDI0MTEwNi4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D I at least had a pretty sophisticated bicycle with 4 gears :), but my friend had not even that. Still we made it all the way up and then decided to go down the mountain without ever breaking ... until my friend had a nasty crash and hit some metal parts of his bicycle into his hip. Also his front wheel was bent. There were no mobile phones, we didn't even have landline phones at home. So we still drove the rest of the way, but slower, due to my friend's damaged wheel and pain in his hip.
With 11 I rode on my bicycle from Duisburg to Krefeld to the zoo, about 30 km (15 miles), and back. All alone, no smartphone, only a few coins for a telephone cell in case of emergency. When I was 14 I went to Venlo in the Netherlands by bus and returned on a new dutch bike I had bought there. I literally smuggled the bike in, as there was no EU back then and you still had to pay import duty.
putting the danger question aside: isnt it also the point that we today as parents are forced to be the _best ever_ parents, to be just perfect. My children are already grown up, but from what i see around i'd say there is definitely a strict demand of the society for parents to be as perfect as possibble. Maybe the U.S. is only a bit ahead in time in this respect. The same holds for their way to schools: towns and neighbors of schools ache under an even growing number of helicopter parents driving their kids for any way they need to go. What's shown in this video about them cycling to school is IMHO vanishing. (and i dont think its good) So be prepared, there's probably no escape to such developments, not even in germany. 😉
Life is risk... and as u US Americans r so leaned to weapons... no other risk? When i was a child the only rule was: Come in befor darkness.... i to myself ignored that. Means not that parenst do loves us, means be prepaired them for life. No own desicions? So, the parents r the one to be blamed on.
The difference between germans and americans is the rasism, the germans are not Rassists, because our Grundgesetz say" EVERYBODY IS EAQUAL IN FRONT OF THE LAW, ARTICEL: 1! This means: its independent of colour, religion and so on, all are the same!
you cant rly monitor the apps of a 13 year old lets be real ... when your over the age of 12 kids should normaly already know what to do what not to do whats okay, and you offer help and you try to check on it if they let you but it should always be helpful not directing
I don't understand why so many youtubers add music to their videos. Mostly it's too loud compared to the voice and mostly it adds nothing to the content. Annoying.
Our german kids are highly (!) in danger these times! Their independence is at risk too. And on top is, that the german law enforcement barely react to, for example, pedoph.les. The USA react much more better - very long prison sentences vs. German probationary sentences for rap.ng our kids! 😡 Greetings from "safe" Germany.....
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As a child, I would throw my schoolbag in the corner after school. And then I would leave the house until the evening.
We usually played cowboys and Indians and shot at each other with homemade arrows. Or we climbed the highest trees.
We played in meadows or in the nearby forest.
We despised playgrounds.
We could do whatever we wanted all day long without supervision. And there were no cell phones yet. So our parents couldn't harass us with calls. *LOL*
We only had to be home in the evening, when the church bells rang at 7:00. Of course, we didn't have our own clock. We enjoyed this freedom - it was a wonderful childhood.
Greetings from Germany, Bavaria:-)
I experienced the same as you, when my sister and I were young. We had lots of freedom to discover our own way, but our moms always were there, when we needed them. it was such a beautiful time.
Greetings from Salzburg, Austria.
Same here, greetings from Berlin Germany
Same, I grew up in Moenchengladbach.
Mit Tränen in den Augen denke ich zurück 🤗😁
This way German kids learn self confidence, learn to calculate risk, learn to behave within society
As a German, with many relatives in the States (CA, FL, NY), I must/can say it so clearly: Unfortunately, you have not been living "In the Land of the Free" for a long time! I am very happy to live in Germany/Europe!
Many greets from the Center of Germany (near Kassel)✌
America is the land of the free. Trump makes it great again 😅
By strengthen the immunity of your tyrant cops?!@@budapestkeletistationvoices
@peterpaul5820 I don't know any Western country with tyrant cops..enlighten me
The question is which country is really freer today.
I am Dutch and these recent "gender wars" in the U.S. are terribly frustrating and confusing.
In the Netherlands it is normal to be a single dad with equal custody. And men also get parental leave when they have a newborn. It is not about men or women or who is the best, it is about the children.
Exactly. Love to our neighbours in the west.
Our Kids can Do that, because here not anybody can buy a gun in the supermerkets. Think about it!
But can wear a knife 😉☠️
But you can buy a gun in the gun store in Germany. And in both in the US, and Germany, a background check is performed. Some US states have stricter gun laws than Germany. Good luck finding a US state where you can freely aquire a pistol carbine kit without an SBR permit.
Guns used in crimes are in both countries usually illegally obtained.
Last but not least, a super meerkat would be hilarious.
True
Aber Messer kann jeder kaufen und mit sich tragen. Außer natürlich in Messer Verbot Zonen 🤦
@renatakrishnapillai6861 da nehmen wir dann die Schere, den Schraubenzieher, die zerbrochene Glasflasche 🤯🙈🙈
Hey, this is my street! (4:42) On the other side of this Kita is a Kita for about 180 kids. It has a huge Garden to play outside, and they play outside on a daily basis. My children don’t have a seperate room. I know a lot of families who live in small apartments. We are 2 adults and 4 kids and share 3 rooms. (Kitchen, bathroom, living room, two rooms for the kids, the parents sleep in the living room. Bigger apartments are not availible or way too expensive.
Not all German kids are as privileged as the ones in the video.
I think the point was,screen time wasn't necessary. In case they overdo it,the parents for sure would intervene.
During the last summer holidays, my 7-year-old grandson was trained by his parents to ride his bike to school alone - in Berlin.
When raising my (4) children, I set certain basic rules about the time spent on the computer and television. (Smartphones didn't exist back then, but I had an automobile phone that weighed about 14 kg^^).
The children never took advantage of that time because there was always something more interesting to do.
Sounds like good pretending to me
3:52 As a German mother, I have the opinion, that this is, how it should be. Can't understand women, who go immediately to work again,. don't breastfeed, don't witness their little one's first steps, first words etc.. I would never sacrifice that for a stupid job.
Yes, what is the point in having children if you don't have time for them?
American women who don't have the choice of being on parental leave. So they use their annual leave for giving birth and the day after they return to work.
@budapestkeletistationvoices True. But in Germany, it's not necessary. You have the right to stay three years with your child and get paid. This phase (three years, beginning from the last trimester of the pregnancy) is called "Mutterschutz" (mother- protection) . Women, who don't take advantage of this are blinded by feminist ideas. Here in Germany, nobody has to suffer from hunger or poverty. In other countries, where there's no such a system, it's of course another story. I emphasize with women elsewhere.
@kikikoko607 in the UK and the US, many have to. The population say that those who suffer are lazy and deserve to suffer. And when there's a sufficiently big crowd that aren't happy, a Trump comes saying they need more capitalism to solve their problems
I invested a lot of time and energy in my education and saw little sense or benefit in staying home to be a 50s style stay at home Mum while depriving my husband of the close bond he developed with our son. It takes two to make a child and a strong mother to share the baby years. @@kikikoko607
7:55 This is somewhat of an incorrect translation. The nursery rhyme "Messer, Gabel, Schere, Licht, sind für kleine Kinder nicht" does not refer to small children in general, but rather to toddlers. The term "Kleinkind" (a compound word combining "klein" and "Kind") refers to children between the ages of 2 and 6. After that age, it is generally considered acceptable for children to use a fork, knife, scissors, and handle light sources.
Growing up in usa, there was a time when our neighbors knew everyone, we had a farm and in the summer, we would stay outside until it got dark. Unfortunately things and crimes started to be worse, even in our small town. Move to Germany and glad that my children were able to live free. They would go out until dark and most of the neighbors knew them. Unfortunately due to political of bringing or letting anyone in the country, crimes are gone up and my grandchildren don't have all the privilege like my children 😢
Screentime: the reason, that those kids in the video won't need to be limited as much in their screentime is because they are unlikely to become addicted due to their responsible, independent and free upbringing. They simply have better things to do and way more choiceson how to live their lifes at this young age. That's the difference.
Well, I'm the woman for you! I would never ask you to not cook! I would be baking all the time though 😂
🤣 baking is lovely
My mom used to bake but I didn’t learn
Only helped when I could unfortunately
@@giobozzde My husband learned to bake as a child of 6. So it can't be that difficult. Try it!
His mother had depression, PTSD and anxiety and was unable to run the household. His father was an electrician and was often away working for weeks, so as a schoolchild he did in addition to school all the housework, cleaning, laundry and cooking. He was an adult at the age of ten.
I prefer to cook, with fresh veggies, spices, all that cutting, the colours of the veggies, the smell, the joyful anticipation... My husband does the baking. I'm not as good in it as he is.
My condolescence for you, after the loss your country had. Now you are screwed. The U.S. voted that mad criminal again, the rest of the world stares in shock over to you. My best wishes that it's gonna be not that bad as it seems to be.
Love and hugs from Germany
Unless he moved back, but as far as I know he lives in Finland.
As someone who grew up in Germany, I have to say that I would have preferred to spend my childhood in the USA.
Je suis Belge et j'ai 77 ans. Dès ma petite enfance je n'avais pas besoin de mes parents pour me déplacer car dès 9 ans je prenais le train seule sans aucun problème et j'allais chez le docteur seule et c'étais très bien de devenir indépendant très jeune car c'est le meilleur apprentissage de la vie
I can see that you eat good food and do not eat that much junk food because you look healthy and slim.👍
Home cooked meal by myself is how I like it
In the states until the 70s and 80s and even the 90s this was standard.
I am German and have watched some of your videos and can say that you would be a good father, you deal with many things and have a healthy, adult opinion on many things.
if the translation is bad, sorry google translate^^
All children from the age of 3 are entitled to daycare, not from the age of 1. This only applies in one federal state.
No, in 2013 it was changed to the age of 1 (§ 24 SGB VIII )
Is not any German is most of Europe
When I hear him speak, I think of my father. He says that when he started school, he learned his first foreign language. Standard German. . .
When I was 13-14 years old, I rode the almost 60 km from us to Cologne Cathedral on my bike. And shortly afterwards, together with my younger brother, to Aachen city center. On the way back, his handlebars broke. We didn't call home anyway, but just carried on. . .
That’s impressive
Same here, though I live in Austria. I'm in my 60s now. When I was about 13 or 14 y old my 1 year younger friend was on vacation with his parents at the Neusiedler See where he met a girl he wanted to see again. So back home he and I packed a tent and drove from our home town with our bicycles to Rust. There were no separate lanes or roads for bicycles back in the day www.google.com/maps/dir/2500+Baden+bei+Wien/Rust,+Burgenland,+Rust/@47.8977504,16.295028,69414m/data=!3m1!1e3!4m15!4m14!1m5!1m1!1s0x476db080611d6cbb:0x6f36ce3f5ffdb45a!2m2!1d16.23091!2d48.00214!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c3f690b4c3899:0x511984a77756bb60!2m2!1d16.6892859!2d47.8020988!3e1!5i2?entry=ttu&g_ep=EgoyMDI0MTEwNi4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D. We didn't even know the way exactly and had no map, but simply drove in the general direction and it worked somehow. On our way back home we didn't find a good route, since we simply guessed our way. So we ended up making a detour and were driving over the only mountain near and far. www.google.com/maps/dir/Rust,+Burgenland,+Rust/Leitha+Mountains/2500+Baden+bei+Wien/@47.902129,16.295028,69408m/data=!3m2!1e3!4b1!4m20!4m19!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c3f690b4c3899:0x511984a77756bb60!2m2!1d16.6892859!2d47.8020988!1m5!1m1!1s0x476c453f60e8357d:0xffc3502091d936d!2m2!1d16.6666667!2d47.9666667!1m5!1m1!1s0x476db080611d6cbb:0x6f36ce3f5ffdb45a!2m2!1d16.23091!2d48.00214!3e1?entry=ttu&g_ep=EgoyMDI0MTEwNi4wIKXMDSoASAFQAw%3D%3D I at least had a pretty sophisticated bicycle with 4 gears :), but my friend had not even that. Still we made it all the way up and then decided to go down the mountain without ever breaking ... until my friend had a nasty crash and hit some metal parts of his bicycle into his hip. Also his front wheel was bent. There were no mobile phones, we didn't even have landline phones at home. So we still drove the rest of the way, but slower, due to my friend's damaged wheel and pain in his hip.
With 11 I rode on my bicycle from Duisburg to Krefeld to the zoo, about 30 km (15 miles), and back. All alone, no smartphone, only a few coins for a telephone cell in case of emergency. When I was 14 I went to Venlo in the Netherlands by bus and returned on a new dutch bike I had bought there. I literally smuggled the bike in, as there was no EU back then and you still had to pay import duty.
Strange. My reply vanished. Still got the information about a new comment in the thread though.
66 years ago, I had my first school at 4 years old...
putting the danger question aside: isnt it also the point that we today as parents are forced to be the _best ever_ parents, to be just perfect. My children are already grown up, but from what i see around i'd say there is definitely a strict demand of the society for parents to be as perfect as possibble. Maybe the U.S. is only a bit ahead in time in this respect. The same holds for their way to schools: towns and neighbors of schools ache under an even growing number of helicopter parents driving their kids for any way they need to go. What's shown in this video about them cycling to school is IMHO vanishing. (and i dont think its good) So be prepared, there's probably no escape to such developments, not even in germany. 😉
Life is risk... and as u US Americans r so leaned to weapons... no other risk? When i was a child the only rule was: Come in befor darkness.... i to myself ignored that. Means not that parenst do loves us, means be prepaired them for life. No own desicions? So, the parents r the one to be blamed on.
The difference between germans and americans is the rasism, the germans are not Rassists, because our Grundgesetz say" EVERYBODY IS EAQUAL IN FRONT OF THE LAW, ARTICEL: 1! This means: its independent of colour, religion and so on, all are the same!
kids are entitled to daycare by law, but in reality the places are scarce and not that easy to get
you cant rly monitor the apps of a 13 year old lets be real ... when your over the age of 12 kids should normaly already know what to do what not to do whats okay, and you offer help and you try to check on it if they let you but it should always be helpful not directing
the average german family's......LOL!
Ohh in sweden... weé beet them
I don't understand why so many youtubers add music to their videos. Mostly it's too loud compared to the voice and mostly it adds nothing to the content. Annoying.
Yep! “America, the land of the free” NOT!
Our german kids are highly (!) in danger these times! Their independence is at risk too. And on top is, that the german law enforcement barely react to, for example, pedoph.les.
The USA react much more better - very long prison sentences vs. German probationary sentences for rap.ng our kids! 😡
Greetings from "safe" Germany.....
Lets say we do a lot divrent,,n there no guns around like in the staats 🎉
Ach so ich aus Germany 😌🤷🏻♀️ kann das das Video nicht anschauen 🫡🫡🫡