Pastor Is Tired Of Women's Nonsense

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  • @Maj.Threat
    @Maj.Threat 4 месяца назад +125

    First off, God ain't sending no one to anyone who won't do what God says in His Word.

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 4 месяца назад +11

      Louder...
      ...For the people who are plugging their ears with their fingers to try to ignore you!

    • @thewarrior9087
      @thewarrior9087 4 месяца назад +8

      and It is written "HE that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing" Not SHE. -theWarrior

    • @ericp.7550
      @ericp.7550 4 месяца назад +1

      That Part!!!

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +2

      Yeah right!
      Today's modern black women refuses to obey Allah yet they are asking Allah to send them a man, like the late Kevin Samules says..."You can't make this up"!

    • @slickrick8046
      @slickrick8046 4 месяца назад

      @@thewarrior9087
      Exactly…!!! 304’s choose pimps and men choose women. Women only have the option to choose the men that pursue them. Good men aren’t perusing these 304’s.

  • @mrsmith5202
    @mrsmith5202 4 месяца назад +110

    The most high is not Santa Claus.

    • @yaadythommo5548
      @yaadythommo5548 4 месяца назад +17

      Yuppppp.....or the tooth fairy.......or Disney prince.

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @geraldross967
      @geraldross967 4 месяца назад +1

      The time of miracles are over.

    • @MrT-nh6di
      @MrT-nh6di 4 месяца назад +1

      😂

    • @user-fi1mg2it8m
      @user-fi1mg2it8m 3 месяца назад

      THESE WOMEN TRY TO PLAY THE MOST HIGH CAUSE HES A MAN TOO.

  • @bos3835
    @bos3835 4 месяца назад +104

    The young sistas are saying they're "tired of settling," they want the easy life. As if they have the right to sit on their butts and do nothing. They only talk about money when they say "settling" and never character.

    • @ErikWhite-lt7zi
      @ErikWhite-lt7zi 4 месяца назад +1

      Amen. If they judge us off of finances and if we judged the women off of being attractive and in shape, a lot of them wouldn't qualify for us

    • @standingbeark2290
      @standingbeark2290 4 месяца назад

      Amen!!! Most women don't qualify for what they want !! They have definitely passed up good husbands because of ridiculous criteria. Ex: the woman is 5' 2", but the 5' 8" brotha won't do cause her preference has her holding out for the complete package , and he has to be 6'4". I have no sympathy for these modern day, delusional women...

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 4 месяца назад +9

      Bingo 👈
      That's why alot of em up with Leotis, Ray Ray and Pookie (aka the STREETS 🚦 👈) and 3 or 4 OOW kids:
      They don't care WHAT kinda man the dude is, as long as he got some 💰👈

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +9

      Your right!
      They never mention their own character and if they are worth the man, bringing them into his life.

    • @tyronesullivan8165
      @tyronesullivan8165 4 месяца назад +4

      The old ones aren't any better. Talking the same talk. Can barely walk and saying they're not settling. It didn't work for them and it's not working for their daughters and nieces.

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 4 месяца назад +51

    They say they’re “God’s children.” But men are “God’s children” too. It should dawn on them that maybe the reason why they can’t “find their husband” is because God is protecting His male children from them.

    • @ericp.7550
      @ericp.7550 4 месяца назад +9

      PREACH!!!!

    • @HowardLKing
      @HowardLKing 4 месяца назад +4

      They Zaddy hasn't told them to think like that yet. Being a slave to Your oppressor You must get permission first. 🙄🤔🤣🤣🤣

    • @edwardoutlawjr8154
      @edwardoutlawjr8154 3 месяца назад +2

      And boom goes the dynamite

    • @dallasmckay1455
      @dallasmckay1455 3 месяца назад +2

      🎤 drop... 🎯

  • @ogpirons
    @ogpirons 4 месяца назад +72

    They skip over Alexander O'Neal to get with Rick James but when it don't work out claim he's Luther.

  • @saintgermain6031
    @saintgermain6031 4 месяца назад +30

    Most men settle for the women they deal with. We just don't say anything.

  • @christopheranthony3169
    @christopheranthony3169 4 месяца назад +46

    This reminds me of a story. A man sat on a roof after a flood and was trapped, he prayed fervently for God to save him, another man in a bathtub rowed by and offered to help him. The man replied: Don't worry God will save me! An hour later a boat came by and offered assistance, the man replied: Don't worry God will save me! Another hour goes by and a cruise ship pulls up and offered assistance, the man replied: Don't worry God will save me! Two hours later he drowned. When he got to Heaven and met God he asked: God! Why didn't you save me?! God replied: I sent you THREE BOATS YOU BIG DUMMY!!! This is exactly what these ladies are doing now. Moral of the story: If God can't save them, what in HELL thinks you can?

    • @RachaelBluee
      @RachaelBluee 4 месяца назад +1

      "If Jesus can't save these h03s, what makes you think you can!?" Minister Jap

    • @elmahdi5
      @elmahdi5 4 месяца назад +1

      Church

    • @geraldross967
      @geraldross967 4 месяца назад +1

      Or he could have been a black man and was leery of following people on boats.

    • @christopheranthony3169
      @christopheranthony3169 4 месяца назад +2

      @@geraldross967 I believe you are missing the point, if the people in the tub, boat or cruise ship are offering help God sent his Angels to assist you.

    • @TallGlass-fh8qf
      @TallGlass-fh8qf 3 месяца назад

      Church buildings and church culture, yes@@elmahdi5. But not the actual church of the scriptures called The Body of Christ.

  • @user-dt1be5io9b
    @user-dt1be5io9b 4 месяца назад +58

    They want struggle love. I moved my girlfriend to Chicago. We had a son by me. She never had to work or even buy her own clothes. She played like she was going back to Ohio when my son was 3 years old. She never came back. She called me and told me she found someone who was just like her. A woman beating drunk. Every man after that was a drunk woman beater and the last man almost killed her. I'm glad she left.

    • @notfunny5013
      @notfunny5013 4 месяца назад +13

      Can’t help the modern woman. They are forever looking for an upgrade not realizing they are only average themselves.

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 4 месяца назад +5

      hope you have your son.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 4 месяца назад +1

      Had the same happen but mine went for the drug dealer guy friend she had from highschool lol...

    • @danieltucker632
      @danieltucker632 3 месяца назад

      Women : if you were a real man you would’ve fought for her 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @Humble01able
    @Humble01able 4 месяца назад +43

    They pricing themselves out. They act like that because they want to tell the sistahood how desperate he was for her

  • @KiaraWyBradford
    @KiaraWyBradford 4 месяца назад +42

    He’s married to Shanie O’Neal But I’m actually shocked to see him telling women the truth! A lot of younger pastors are catering to women and saying that men are the only problem!

    • @Remember-Death
      @Remember-Death 4 месяца назад +1

      The RedPill & Manoshpere have given pastors the "space" to finally be able to tell women the truth. The tide is turning and these pastors want to be ahead of the RedPill wave that's becoming more and more mainstream.

    • @ialphoto
      @ialphoto 4 месяца назад +1

      He built his church catering to women....he did this likely to just go viral like he is now...

    • @KiaraWyBradford
      @KiaraWyBradford 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ialphoto yeah I been seeing a lot of people saying that lol

    • @RakMPVet05
      @RakMPVet05 4 месяца назад

      I agree 100%

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 3 месяца назад +1

      katering to women is how to get paid. Why do you think most pastors do it, Steve Harvey, Karamo, Dr. Umar,. I need a skrong, independent, don't need no man sister to come pay all my bills. drizzle drizzle. LOL

  • @RafaAldez
    @RafaAldez 4 месяца назад +72

    So theyre rejecting men for delusions of being the pastors wife. If any of them married him theyd cheat and leave him.

    • @memyself4ever1
      @memyself4ever1 4 месяца назад

      And I've seen many videos of pastors being cheated on by their wives with other congregation members and folks from other churches! Even in a church of GOD, these heauz ain't loyal!

    • @devosirius
      @devosirius 4 месяца назад +3

      They'd have to leave the streets and their single girlfriends alone

  • @memyself4ever1
    @memyself4ever1 4 месяца назад +28

    I remember another church video where a woman claimed that there were no available men and as soon as she said that, the pastor told the single men in the congregation to stand up and almost the whole church was full of men that stood up! It wasn't that there were no suitable men, it was the fact that there were no men that fit her criteria (i.e. the three 6s). Meanwhile, she was masculine and overweight!

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 4 месяца назад

      Dave Hollister in pinstripes 👈🤣

  • @618raphaelthagod
    @618raphaelthagod 4 месяца назад +65

    Dr Umar gonna be mad when he sees this😂😂😂

    • @AC-dt1rk
      @AC-dt1rk 4 месяца назад

      Umar is trash. Black women do no wrong with Umar even when they do wrong.

    • @gj_lyricmelodist1610
      @gj_lyricmelodist1610 4 месяца назад +1

      Umar’s real name is Jermaine Shoemaker and has 4 baby mommas that we know of, has never been married, telling BM who to marry, assassinates the character of BM who married outside their race and and and are so happy. Jermaine Shoemaker tells black people they don’t need reparations but he’s running around the country staying in motel 6 begging for cash apps to open his never going to be school. Jermaine Shoemaker is nothing but an actor. BM go get your passport ASAP and never look back. Period!!!

    • @lordmaul3
      @lordmaul3 4 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

    • @thewarrior9087
      @thewarrior9087 4 месяца назад

      Good. Umar is a stain in Men's drawers. -theWarrior

    • @babygeneral1985
      @babygeneral1985 4 месяца назад

      Dr Umar is a simp lol

  • @derrickchaisson8260
    @derrickchaisson8260 4 месяца назад +9

    Let's just be honest about what the modern day woman really likes, "Dangerous men. "

  • @ItsTheKeji
    @ItsTheKeji 4 месяца назад +37

    It really trips me out by the large number of black women that pass up on really solid brothers at their peak, yet they backtrack 1,3,5+ years later to those brothers hoping to "start over" after they've given their highest value portion of themselves to whomever. I genuinely don't understand why they won't sort themselves. Ugh...

  • @themayne6303
    @themayne6303 4 месяца назад +40

    Let’s not talk about the nasty look with the smirk they give you when a man happens to just casually make brief eye contact. That ain’t cool. This is why I don’t even make casual conversation with stranger black women anymore. They aren’t approachable at all.

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 4 месяца назад +11

      Smirk? I usually get the stankface snarl for making innocent eye contact. Tells me all I need to know about her dating history and why to avoid the angry, bitter and jealous hearted.

    • @themayne6303
      @themayne6303 4 месяца назад +3

      @@seensay2132 yeah I get that too as well as other negative type looks. They are so versatile.

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 4 месяца назад +5

      @@themayne6303 versatile or weak? Let’s deep dive. BW for generations had to take the absolute worst this country could throw at us. And yet our Ancestors could still get BW strong, healthy and feminine enough to still be ladies and bare minimum smile and be pleasant to their men. All this visceral anger from Modern BW is rather unprecedented and unhealthy. Something has to give 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 4 месяца назад +3

      I stopped going to Black churches, they're the most unfriendliest churches. Service ends, folks walk out no meet and greet. I don't get that at the Presbyterian churches. We always have coffee in the coffee bar and sit and talk story for hours

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +4

      You are doing the right thing keep on doing that, and never look back for any reason!

  • @tyronesullivan8165
    @tyronesullivan8165 4 месяца назад +116

    He's doing a 180 from a previous video.

    • @ttownhornet
      @ttownhornet 4 месяца назад +63

      I don't know this Brother but I'm not surprised at something like that, the church normally panders to whatever women do.

    • @sammymcclelland1071
      @sammymcclelland1071 4 месяца назад +20

      I know this individual and I am not shocked by this new rhetoric.

    • @mrAhollandjr
      @mrAhollandjr 4 месяца назад +9

      Can you please provide a link for me to check out.?

    • @joevic4674
      @joevic4674 4 месяца назад +13

      ​@@ttownhornetwent mother's day and the pandering was troublesome.

    • @SuperheroJunior
      @SuperheroJunior 4 месяца назад

      ​@@tommygunn2782 Blue Book Gentlemen 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Passports up and everything else down 👇

  • @thaiboxing67
    @thaiboxing67 4 месяца назад +69

    Women killed the dating market with their unrealistic expectations and now they are looking for the almighty to help them when he’s been sending angels to them for years, they just having been paying attention because they’ve been so caught up in the devil’s lies.

    • @thewarrior9087
      @thewarrior9087 4 месяца назад +2

      Just like their mother Eve. Notice how Men 'fall in love' like Adam fell. When a Man falls, it is NOT a good thing. -theWarior

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад

      Caught up in the devil’s lies....AKA Themselves!

    • @edwardoutlawjr8154
      @edwardoutlawjr8154 3 месяца назад

      Like the Old Folks say, "They out here missing their blessings."

  • @kennethfoster6754
    @kennethfoster6754 4 месяца назад +3

    They don’t even realize they ran the men out of church and now they have no idea where the single men congregate.

  • @xaviermann1342
    @xaviermann1342 4 месяца назад +5

    If you are not aligned with the law statutes of Commandments it doesn't even matter at the end of the day

  • @kennethjohnson6273
    @kennethjohnson6273 4 месяца назад +15

    Yeah they act like they don't see me so I say eff em.

  • @bluefig797
    @bluefig797 4 месяца назад +7

    “High esteem of themselves but low esteem of men.” 🔥🔥🔥

  • @clockehvac1240
    @clockehvac1240 4 месяца назад +99

    If you don't want me at my worst when I didn't have it ALL THEN YOU DO NOT DESERVE ME AT MY BEST when I got it ALL
    TAKE THAT TO THE BANK.
    OH YEAH PASSPORT BROS UP

  • @antoineragins5035
    @antoineragins5035 4 месяца назад +17

    God send me a man is womanese for God send me a millionaire!!!

    • @illoneson.5218
      @illoneson.5218 4 месяца назад +3

      and make sure he's tall good looking and a simp 😂

  • @meme-fs1jn
    @meme-fs1jn 4 месяца назад +10

    This is absolutely not CHURCH

  • @alistairfannell6694
    @alistairfannell6694 4 месяца назад +145

    This is why Black men are getting their passports and finding love overseas

    • @tripleeight5608
      @tripleeight5608 4 месяца назад

      @@eruss4373why?

    • @williamsalter8388
      @williamsalter8388 4 месяца назад

      ​@@eruss4373what's lame about it? I hope you got the same energy for the illegals crossing our borders. The funny part is that those men ain't coming here for American women. Think about that. 😂😂😂

    • @williamsalter8388
      @williamsalter8388 4 месяца назад +12

      I finally realized that when the Bdubb (all women) when they use the term "Trauma" they are NOT talking about childhood. They are talking about all the bodies that they've collect since they started having sex as a teenager.

    • @dannybaldwin7343
      @dannybaldwin7343 4 месяца назад +7

      🤔 Brothers be careful 🤔

    • @tripleeight5608
      @tripleeight5608 4 месяца назад +1

      @@eruss4373 can I know why that’s lame? Without emojis and with an argument of course

  • @jerichothe8584
    @jerichothe8584 4 месяца назад +5

    God ain't got time to be sending you a husband. Hes got more urgent prayers to answer. He already sent you 3 husbands but he was "too short", he was "broke" or he was "too nice"🙄

  • @kms4124
    @kms4124 4 месяца назад +46

    These women are so out of pocket that even PASTOR can't stomach lying to these chicks anymore!
    Wow!

    • @thewarrior9087
      @thewarrior9087 4 месяца назад +2

      Facts!

    • @prid6427
      @prid6427 4 месяца назад +1

      TD Jake's tried to tell them!!🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +1

      Naw, hes simply trying to off load these old bags, and recruit a new patch of younger women into his church who make more money💸💸💰💰💰

    • @kms4124
      @kms4124 4 месяца назад

      @@TheTruthcometh
      😆 AMEN!

  • @salaamallahalternatechannel
    @salaamallahalternatechannel 4 месяца назад +12

    WHEN I WAS IN HIGH SCHOOL NOBODY WOULD EVEN TALK TO ME !! WHY ??????? BECAUSE I DID NOT HAVE A CAR !!! 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠

    • @kenwilliams5048
      @kenwilliams5048 4 месяца назад +1

      In High School?....I'm 49, so I'm a little out if touch, but what High school kid has a car?

    • @Adrian-qr6gk
      @Adrian-qr6gk 4 месяца назад +2

      @@kenwilliams5048 many do nowadays, it's necessary in some cases but often times they'll have a lemon of a car as their first or their parents buy them a new one. It is a status symbol of course and people act as such

    • @Ma1nguy
      @Ma1nguy 4 месяца назад

      You too?!

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад +6

      Most high school student's don't have cars, including the girl's who didn't want to speak to you as well🤣🤣🤣

    • @marieporter6631
      @marieporter6631 4 месяца назад

      Or perhaps you were young and immature like most young people at that age.....we grow up eventually

  • @r.p.m4332
    @r.p.m4332 4 месяца назад +11

    You know that his TITHES are about to be REALLY light now he spoke the TRUTH.

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh 4 месяца назад

      Yeah those chicks are going to bounce into another church next Sunday🤣

  • @tumbahantoine2517
    @tumbahantoine2517 4 месяца назад +6

    I heard the best response for the question of god/universe send me a man.
    “God/universe sends you one perfect man created just for you the first time you asked, but you were to evil to see them for the blessing that they are, now its way to late and all you got left are demons that only torment you from now on.

  • @SBJ84
    @SBJ84 4 месяца назад +7

    God did send them a man, they rejected him.

  • @user-bp1nk3ip9w
    @user-bp1nk3ip9w 4 месяца назад +2

    Another reason why most of brothers start traveling overseas 25 years ago..and that number is only going to grow

  • @ravenspeaks483
    @ravenspeaks483 4 месяца назад +24

    He's a pandering grifter. He was talking up feminist BS before. The tide is turning, so now he is talking this. He still puts in pandering BS while acting like he is giving women some tough love. It's a show. He is not a good example.

    • @mcole442
      @mcole442 4 месяца назад +1

      He's trying to bring some Passport Brothers ✈️ in👈:
      He realized that between student loan debt, credit card debt, rent, bills, car note and insurance, them Hyenas ain't got no money 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sajsed2
    @sajsed2 4 месяца назад +8

    They only want pookie n ray ray and Chads

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 4 месяца назад +10

    This just means he's made his money pandering to women, now he's going to start pandering to us! I'm expecting him to announce a new book or video soon...
    Panderers are ALWAYS selling something!

  • @RedAquarian
    @RedAquarian 4 месяца назад +8

    This whole issue is a paradox to me. Women (obviously not all) are daily passing up genuinely good, hardworking men for vain reasons some of which revolve around him not “looking like” he has a big bank account(?). Yet, at the same time many of these same women are getting their backs blown out by young men young enough to be their sons “who aren’t working or doing anything for themselves” but because they’re physically attractive these women quickly compromise their “situational morals & standards” for temporary pleasure. Many of them have these youngsters dropping them off at their big corporate jobs where they make their six figures and the kid has their luxury vehicle for 8 hours to run with his boys or to go see one of his many women he’s (in one way or another) living off of. Then they turn around and say “ain’t no good men” or “God send me a Boaz”
    All is vanity in American society..all is vanity😮

    • @alexisc7565
      @alexisc7565 4 месяца назад

      God forbid we have sex with men we are genuinely attracted to lol

    • @marieporter6631
      @marieporter6631 4 месяца назад

      Define what you mean is a "good" man? There seems to be different interpretations of what is "good". Most men say this however that's not a lot of women's experiences. Some men will say they love their wife/ or gf but don't really like them personally, it's a real thing. Some men will have a job, car maybe a house but no real passion to be a husband AND a father his kids. Men say out loud they want "peace, quiet, sandwich and s**" which sounds shallow because in this sentiment doesn't explicitly express to include his desires for a loving reciprocal relationship and a kids who grow to honor him, etc real things that matter beyond bedroom antics and having a meal. Or desires for respect in his community by his fellow peers. There is a difference between a guy who is hardworking at the job but perhaps he just hasn't been hardworking at his relationship with his wife/gf. I don't prescribe to woman's antics of not taking care of their man but I'm showing a disconnect between the two.

    • @RedAquarian
      @RedAquarian 4 месяца назад

      @@marieporter6631 Having traveled the world I can say that there is a disconnect between the rest of the world and Western civilization (US). When I say good I am placing emphasis on things intangible that one cannot put a price on like character, integrity, conviction, the ability to be selfless, caring, thoughtfulness, the ability to communicate effectively, patience, etc. That is what I mean. It doesn’t mean that this man is perfect because obviously none of us are. I prescribe to the Scripture as a reference to how a man is supposed to love (not a woman), but his wife. We are commissioned to love her “like Christ loved the church”. How is that??? He willingly laid down his life for her (the church). As a good man I am fully prepared to operate in this way for her. Yet, especially in American society we’ve been socialized and indoctrinated to see the man who is demonstrating the very same qualities and characteristics that described Jesus loving the church as somehow being weak, Simp(ish if you will; by men and women. Generally speaking in the western hemisphere when the term “a good man” or a “high value” man is mentioned the emphasis is placed more on tangible things that come and go like material things, money, status, (worldly power), looks, education. While these tangible things may be very important it is my opinion that in the western hemisphere too much emphasis is placed on these and not enough on the intangibles that last a lifetime.
      So in my comment I was referring to a good man who possesses those inner qualities that I mentioned more so than the tangibles that many (not all women) in America presume are more important. We have become worshippers of Self to the degree that many of our children are suffering quietly because we think if we buy them things and otherwise give them a good life ie worldly security then they’ll be fine when they get older. Today we have millions of highly (book) intelligent young people who lack real manners, have little to no empathy, aren’t respectful of Elders and so on. Children who come from very humble beginnings but who have parents that invest their time and love into them often turn out to be better human beings. In America better seems to mean that you’re rich and look good (for the most part). I have had happen to me and seen happen to many genuinely good men; we give our all to a woman who at their whim decide to leave us to be with another man who in her eyes “has more to offer by way of looks, financial status, maybe even how great his sexual prowess is, but in each case they all try to come back to us because they so-called “better” guy played a role just to enjoy them physically and didn’t mind spending his millions on spoiling them for a season. A man who really is a good man (from the inside out) who works, but may not be rich, who’s dependable, trustworthy, sacrificial, integral, who will not bail on his woman should life hit her hard unexpectedly ie job loss, poor health, etc these men are generally invisible in the eyes of many women in America but these are the same men who suddenly become hot commodities when many of these women begin to lose their looks or have had so many sexual partners that they lost count and them men they prefer are no longer interested in them. How do you suppose that makes the men who are good men feel? Genuinely good men are out here and all we want is to be appreciated, respected and to be a woman’s choice. Not who she settled for. A man who is hardworking on his job but not his relationship is either not a good man or he may be a good man struggling to find the inner strength necessary to balance out his work on his job with his internal work on himself that would be necessary if he is to work on any relationship.

    • @marieporter6631
      @marieporter6631 4 месяца назад +1

      @@RedAquarian For some reason my earlier comment didn't save, here's a snippet of it ...however respectfully I agree 110% with what you've expressed about a man loving his wife like Jesus loves the church. I do see clear differences between other societies and the West. I think what happens here in the West which I see often are men not leading with their intangibles rather flashy things like car, houses and bank accounts. Its cool men can have the capacity to earn a lot which demonstrate his hard work and input on the job but financial literacy is far important. Good men need to work hard and nurture their romantic relationship. It's a balance, whichever seeds you sow is what grows. Men shoulder the load more to be Christ-like. Men should lead to "draw women in" thru his spirit, love and inner strengths than material things. Lead with attitude not your pockets. I see good men choose wrong women than to do the inner work to attract a valuable woman worth her salt. If you build a $10,000 empire choose a woman for that, if you build a $1 million dollar empire choose a woman accordingly. A valuable woman will know how to anticipate your needs if she's locked into you. When a woman says it's hard to find a good guy this means who is both "good to you AND good for you". Some good men have deep behavioral issues brought on by unresolved childhood trauma or past relationships. Other societies spend time using the whole family, uncles, grandfather and cousins to raise and steer their boys into great husbands and fathers. Men know how to ask for s** but fail to ask for what's important to feed into their inner strengths. You have some interesting points.

    • @canadianbrotv1303
      @canadianbrotv1303 4 месяца назад

      ​​​@@marieporter6631Up here in Canada plenty foreign women stay with their foreign man and build strong families . While our bw walk right past us and worship yt Men and have all this feminist bs in their heads ...Men have no time for this bs no more. Passports. Up

  • @Mighty-VizioN
    @Mighty-VizioN 4 месяца назад +4

    Ultimately i actually appreciate women of today. You can save yourself a lot of heartache and heartbreak if you pay attention. I love how self destructive they are. I want to see how this all plays out.

  • @TheBetterMeClub
    @TheBetterMeClub 4 месяца назад +12

    As a man watching your video for the very first time....I am proud of you as a woman of open unbiased truth. Kudos to you and your kind of woman(Rare gems).🎉

  • @capricornblack3450
    @capricornblack3450 4 месяца назад +18

    I feel no sympathy for these lonely, single, modern day women out here. They've shunned every good man who has crossed their paths.

  • @waltdiesel
    @waltdiesel 4 месяца назад +5

    He need to fell these women to stop competing with each other and start competing for a husband

  • @cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739
    @cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739 4 месяца назад +1

    They'll find out the hoarder way....

  • @williamwinn2114
    @williamwinn2114 4 месяца назад +3

    The car is the bait.
    The woman is the fish.
    The man is the fisherman.
    Games silly people play.

  • @negroraven9458
    @negroraven9458 4 месяца назад +2

    None of these “pastors” can be trusted.

  • @donsebas6554
    @donsebas6554 4 месяца назад +2

    "Hyena rhetoric" took me out 😂🙌

  • @Rudmyster
    @Rudmyster 4 месяца назад +4

    I had this happen to me and I’m a handsome fit man and the women I’m talking about gave me at least 4 choosing signals in a row. Then when I tried to talk with her she tells me her name and Runs left me standing there bewildered what in the Heck is that. Oh did I mention I met her in Church. What’s crazy is I know she is more than interested. And I’m interested no games. We even looked like a good match size race. Now I may be able to give her a pass if it’s just that she is intimidated but we may never find this out.

    • @marieporter6631
      @marieporter6631 4 месяца назад

      Just two cents.. sometimes women are put off if a man is not humble or could have said something that triggered her. 🤷

  • @lastofadyingbreed9895
    @lastofadyingbreed9895 4 месяца назад +10

    Thaaaaaaat's Riiiiiiiiiight!!!

  • @Dj2knitro
    @Dj2knitro 4 месяца назад +7

    Its crazy was having this same discussion in a group. CC is echoing everything I said crazy. I guess great minds do think alike.

  • @analikab5631
    @analikab5631 4 месяца назад

    He didn't say that?! He said that you have to be more approachable

  • @noahknight4039
    @noahknight4039 4 месяца назад +2

    When they say an “ick” they dropped him for no reason.

  • @BELLARINGS
    @BELLARINGS 4 месяца назад +71

    Shaq’s ex-wife’s new husband.

    • @therealcmplx
      @therealcmplx 4 месяца назад +10

      Didn't she just cheat on this dude with a rapper ?

    • @antoniomoton9387
      @antoniomoton9387 4 месяца назад +5

      Lmao 🤣

    • @alwaysblack2436
      @alwaysblack2436 4 месяца назад +3

      What up Bella? Yes, I know him. His name is Keion Henderson, a pastor near the area where I live.

    • @awatson8683
      @awatson8683 4 месяца назад +2

      Pastor
      keion Henderson

    • @prid6427
      @prid6427 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@alwaysblack2436 what's the name of his church?

  • @robertorobinson5021
    @robertorobinson5021 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank u Crimson Cure for staying in great shape.

  • @tracydixon8405
    @tracydixon8405 4 месяца назад +10

    Your wisdom is unfailing !!!

  • @Asneeded
    @Asneeded 4 месяца назад +8

    Awesome teaching as always. Thank you😊

  • @bigcee5702
    @bigcee5702 4 месяца назад

    I’m glad this pastor wasn’t pandering !!! Many do for money

  • @rckc.1719
    @rckc.1719 4 месяца назад +2

    this is needed for a lot church women ......because a lot of them think they are better or more holy than thou.

  • @mrsnipermask936
    @mrsnipermask936 4 месяца назад +2

    9:03 - 9:33. I run off of integrity and respect and honor before anything. Glad to hear a sister say its a good thing. it's weird ASF being in a world that says im crazy and treats me as such for being this way.

  • @kinglexicon3924
    @kinglexicon3924 3 месяца назад

    This is true. Mine finally got accepted into a sorority at 40 and she stopped having time for the relationship. She’s more successful than most of those chicks but needed to follow them and be led by them. I knew when she pledged I was gonna lose her. Ran into her recently and she didn’t really know what to say. I had to initiate because she just stood there. She knows she blew it. And for what?

  • @sethbrolsma516
    @sethbrolsma516 4 месяца назад +1

    Modern women: "God, please send me a good man!"
    God: "I did. You rejected him because of his outfit."

  • @riddickj16
    @riddickj16 4 месяца назад +5

    Great points sis

  • @ratswagger
    @ratswagger 2 месяца назад

    The black church is filled with senior citizens, middle aged single women and their children. They go to church to hear pastors cater to them.

  • @user-fi1mg2it8m
    @user-fi1mg2it8m 3 месяца назад

    To the woman who made this video. I personally wanna say thank you for taking the time to show these women what a righteous woman looks like. Ive been hurt so bad by women by being used when i was simply looking for love. All I do now is work and workout.

  • @80sGenX
    @80sGenX 4 месяца назад +6

    No one has time to figure them out anymore 😅

  • @denzellcoleman925
    @denzellcoleman925 4 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for sharing because the most damning thing to me about the gold-digger videos is a lot of women will try to justify their behavior as it being a skit. If there was a skit attempting to get black men to look like absent and/or neglectful fathers the vast majority of black men don’t think that way, we don’t behave in that manner and no matter how funny it may seem we don’t want our sons growing up thinking that those type of actions are acceptable or palatable on any level.

  • @whenniceguysretaliate5619
    @whenniceguysretaliate5619 4 месяца назад +3

    Facts.

  • @magicmarlie
    @magicmarlie 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm shocked to hear a pastor even mention Tik Tok. I'm officially old now

  • @JayJay-jd3hp
    @JayJay-jd3hp 4 месяца назад +3

    These folks super weird. Tired of these ppl lol

  • @thewarrior9087
    @thewarrior9087 4 месяца назад +4

    In the last days It is written, "7 women shall take a Man by his garment and say take us all. Take the reproach from off of us by giving us your last name. We will eat our own bread and provide our own clothing" Isaiah 4:1 Look it up.

  • @deslynmavraj2802
    @deslynmavraj2802 4 месяца назад +1

    Good afternoon my sis, fyi!! This same Pastor was saying the exact opposite a few months or a year ago!!!

  • @ps112man3
    @ps112man3 4 месяца назад

    independent: does not depend on others, is not controlled by others 
separate: 1. seen as one outside of a group of something, or, 2. to stop being joined together

  • @TrickstoThrive
    @TrickstoThrive 4 месяца назад +1

    As a woman, it's important to understand that there are deeper reasons why you may not have found the right partner yet. It's not just a matter of chance or fate. To establish a meaningful connection, you need to recognize and address these factors.
    One significant factor is that superficial qualities and appearances can prevent genuine connections from forming. When these superficial traits take priority over substance, it becomes challenging to build lasting bonds that are founded on mutual understanding and respect.
    Another critical factor is understanding your purpose as a woman. When you embrace your identity, strengths, and aspirations, you empower yourself to attract a partner who complements and supports your journey. When you are grounded in your sense of self, you naturally gravitate toward individuals who appreciate and resonate with your authenticity.
    Uncertainty surrounding a potential partner's mental and financial stability can also create barriers to forming a relationship. It's crucial to navigate these concerns with sensitivity and clarity, ensuring that both of your values, goals, and expectations are aligned. Open communication and mutual respect are essential in establishing trust and laying the foundation for a fulfilling partnership.
    Ultimately, finding the right partner requires self-awareness, discernment, and patience. By addressing superficial tendencies, embracing your purpose, and fostering open dialogue about important matters, you can create the space for genuine connections to flourish. Trust in the journey and remain steadfast in your commitment to authenticity and growth, knowing that the right person will enter your life when the time is right.

    • @mayebouee8099
      @mayebouee8099 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for this level of insight! People like to simplify very complex issues when it comes to relationships.

  • @artbrantleyiii9980
    @artbrantleyiii9980 4 месяца назад +2

    Absolutely on point AS USUAL

  • @RoyaltiesDonDon
    @RoyaltiesDonDon 4 месяца назад +2

    Many Blessings Wisdom seed.

  • @missjoy6685
    @missjoy6685 4 месяца назад +2

    She’s married to Shawni O’Neal, Shaq’s ex-wife. Give it time, he’ll be preaching prosperity gospel soon (if he’s not already) 😅

  • @alionesaxman1765
    @alionesaxman1765 4 месяца назад

    I'm lost on everything as a newly divorced sbm, I'm laughing at women hustling their homemade "exercise"videos on the gram😅 That's why I'm just building better credit and businesses. Great video and love the perspective.

  • @markusg5477
    @markusg5477 4 месяца назад +2

    Pastor Kieon!!! One of my favorites

  • @eugeneclayton2558
    @eugeneclayton2558 4 месяца назад

    Pastor Keion Henderson is 41 and a very well-respected pastor. The pastor is trying to say (For example) that if you're looking for a job, they have rules and regulations, a dress code, and stand by a code of ethics because you are representing the company if hired.
    You submit a resume with or without experience, and they take a chance and hire you. How long do you think you will be employed if you talk to the supervisor disrespectfully, dress improperly, or show up to work late because you were clubbing last night and did not perform your work duties as asked? Then you fired, jobless, and wondering why someone wants to give you a chance? SMH.

  • @RG-os1ry
    @RG-os1ry 4 месяца назад +3

    He's married to Shaunie O'Neil!

  • @zentarmuhammadi1198
    @zentarmuhammadi1198 4 месяца назад +1

    A yo Crimson he is flipping the script big sis’. Mad love CC

  • @user-yv3qz3cf9f
    @user-yv3qz3cf9f 3 месяца назад

    Ion care 😭 what y'all say, but that brother 😯 was preaching 😂!!!

  • @icharmprince
    @icharmprince 4 месяца назад +2

    Modern women ain't following modern religion. Their god is thr Almighty dollar, even with its depreciating value.

  • @KQH8
    @KQH8 4 месяца назад +1

    I want these types of women to keep that same energy when the power grid goes offline, when gas hits 10.00 a gallon and when no food is on the grocery store shelves.

  • @terencew7716
    @terencew7716 3 месяца назад

    Fellas deal with women that will bring positive vibes into your life!!

  • @wanderer5200
    @wanderer5200 4 месяца назад +6

    First time for everything.

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 4 месяца назад +1

    Absolutely so...

  • @Jazz313
    @Jazz313 4 месяца назад +1

    Desperately need

  • @joeclark7888
    @joeclark7888 4 месяца назад

    The more of your videos I watch,the more I like and appreciate what you say.Great work always.🌞

  • @tabbym.7485
    @tabbym.7485 4 месяца назад +1

    This man is on his 3rd wife to Shaunie O'Neal. His mom has two children, him and one of his siblings, with the married pastor (now deceased) of the church he grew up in in Gary, IN and his mother continued to attend the church and did not tell him the married passa was his daddy until he was thirteen. However, I do agree with what he said about how some women present themselves.

    • @balls_down_ya_throat456
      @balls_down_ya_throat456 4 месяца назад

      Where is the original video?

    • @tabbym.7485
      @tabbym.7485 4 месяца назад

      @balls_down_ya_throat456 I saw what I'm referencing from another youtuber video. She posted a conversation he was having with T.D. Jake's about his upbringing and shared all this. I have family in Gary, and I went to high school with his second wife.

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 3 месяца назад

    10:26
    He’s unavailable Crimson so they can want all they want.
    He’s married.

  • @Mighty-VizioN
    @Mighty-VizioN 4 месяца назад +1

    Men settle for the women 100% of the time. No matter how attracted she is. Or how much in love he believed he is with her. He will always be settling. Because a woman is a bill. And she is the type of Bill that most men will take on willingly. He usually gain nothing from her. Other than a child that he also has to take care of. Even if he chooses her. He has settled for her. There is no such thing as the perfect woman, you can only get good enough.

  • @mrsam1084
    @mrsam1084 4 месяца назад +1

    Many of them create online profiles just to tell men not to inbox them. Ive seen women say they dont want anything sexual, yet they will have ass pics lol. Real life and cyber are one in the same.

  • @uncleboslifelessons2448
    @uncleboslifelessons2448 4 месяца назад +1

    But in another video he told women they don’t have to change they will find that man that they will be soft for so what happened that he changed his mind.

  • @LanierHale-oq3dr
    @LanierHale-oq3dr 4 месяца назад +1

    The "pastors" are the greatest 'shakedown artists" to ever exist.

  • @oldschool8983
    @oldschool8983 4 месяца назад +1

    Amen, say it again. I see this all the time to the point I am afraid to say good morning or hold the door open for them. It’s how I was raised and I am not going to let a “ strong independent” idiot change me for who I am. Let them continue being bitter and be alone with a couple of cats.

  • @azazelgrigori9244
    @azazelgrigori9244 4 месяца назад

    Polytheist here. I don't ask my gods to "Send me a woman." I ask them to "remake me" so that I can possess the right attributes to get one on my own.
    Btw, this sounds like Pygmalion-type shit, and we all know how that went.

  • @pdhnetwork
    @pdhnetwork 4 месяца назад +1

    Pastor Keion Henderson.. He's 44yrs old

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L 4 месяца назад

    GREAT TALKING POINTS MA'AM .... ELOQUENTLY PUT .. SALUTE 🫡

  • @williewakawhistle9058
    @williewakawhistle9058 4 месяца назад +2

    Looks like Pastor Keyon, Shaunie O'Neal's husband

  • @Proverbs31lifestyle
    @Proverbs31lifestyle 4 месяца назад +2

    He's Shaunie O Neal's husband, Shaqs ex wife @crimsoncure

  • @junewade6859
    @junewade6859 3 месяца назад

    Great message, Crimson! I guess I'm the exception not the rule. I got a better husband the second time around.