The “we are not professionals” is completely understood but boy do y’all give good solid advice. I truly enjoyed and agreed with everything said on this video. ❤️💯❤️
My boyfriend showed me a post on IG that basically said “after an argument, make sure to touch your partner to make assure the love is still there.. after our last “tif” I hugged him from behind, he told me to get off and I said no, gimme some love and he laughed and all was well ..
I understand in the last story she wants to keep her "family" together for the child but what good is staying with him if she eventually starts resenting him. Then that starts arguments and tension then the child is seeing all of that and feels it too! She needs to think about whether or not she wants her child growing up in that environment not whether or not she can deal with that the rest of her life! The minute you have kids it stops being about YOU! And plus it doesn't sound like he's worth keeping imo. I think they both still have a lot of growing up to do
have you two considered doing a segment/video where the people you gave advice to (so the people who's issues got advice on video) write back in to tell us how they fared with it? like did they try the "therapy" and did it work, if not, why not?
Me and my boyfriend binged watched some of y'all videos last night because I always brag on how transparent and authentic y'all are and now he's a part of quality crew! Y'all are the goats this video is just... WOW! ♥
Let me tell ya'll!!! Marriage dose NOTHING for maturity!!!!! I can not emphasize that enough. Some people (both women and men) may think something like "once we get married he/she will take things more seriously" NOT HAPPENING! If he/she is immature, selfish, irresponsible, dirty etc before the Marriage it's a 98% chance they will be that way after the marriage. Granted people can grow and change at any stage of their life but if you are thinking being married will jump start that change... think again.
josh and isi always give solid advice! to the girl who doesn't want to go to college; you can look into different trades as well. tech/graphic designer, truck driving, equipment operator, manufacturing, medical/vet/dental assistant, etc there are SO many options for you! I would avoid college honestly! ❤️
As a fellow virgin and person waiting to have sex until I’m married, I definitely feel sis about when to mention that to guys I talk to. I agree that until it’s brought up, I wouldn’t mention it. And I feel the earlier the better because I don’t want to waste their time but more importantly I don’t want my time to be wasted either. Shoot I’ve told guys mid make out that this is all that will be happening lol
I would say for the person who is looking for options & school isn’t their first choice…Definitely look for Tuition Remission (if you happen to end up choosing school). Depending on your major/school that offers this option, the school will literally pay for your tuition GRANTED there is a stipulation: you work for them for x amount of time. Or be a child of an employee etc…but it’s worth a dig if you have no idea what to do about your future because you won’t be in as much debt if any at all. The other option is some schools have free tuition BUT you have to want to major in the ones that provide the free tuition. Some Ivy Leagues offer it so it’s definitely worth a dig as well. I even chose my masters program based on low tuition & majority HBCU’s cause I’m not trying to be in $100k in debt.
Chileeee if a SO of mine said that after that much time. I’d be like why not just say that in your freshman year of college?? That’s where the most experiences start to happen & you grow a lot in between those 4+ years of college. So honey I’m sorry but she needs to move on. He’s trying to grow as an adult sure but you don’t need to sit & wait around for that for him. DO YOU! If y’all were meant to be y’all will find each other again in the future. Don’t waste YOUR TIME waiting just bc he’s not ready to take that leap into adulthood with you. No. We are not that gracious anymore. And you’re not his mother. 🤷🏾♀️ what would you gain from waiting on him to come back home for?
For the third read about her friend being confiding in her about her relationship, she is 1000 percent right! I've been through this a couple times! Those people are not good for your spirit protect your peace sis!
Preach Josh "What do you look like out in the middle of the ocean trying to row your boat with an anchor. Cut that anchor off and get you an engine". Amen 1st Lady Isi "When God closes 1 door, another one will open" Glad yall came back with Thearpy Thursday. Im 10 years older than yall but the advice you give is very educational and I can relate too.
I just wanna throw this out here is: you can take time for yourself and find yourself. Also community college is perfectly fine! That was my backup plan, was to get my gen Ed’s out the way.
Josh can you please add your RUclips channel link to the description box aswell moving forward for people to see it. I’m already a subscriber I’m just saying for the new subbies, want your channel to grow.
I haven’t been able to watch you guys’ videos for a while Bc my ex and i used to watch them together and it kinda hurts sometimes. This was the first one i watched in a really long time and i related to a few of these situations and long story short, this was a great step back into Josh&Isi for me and I’m glad i decided to watch it :) love you guys 🤎😚
For that last one… Josh and Isi said they don’t have kids to incorporate that into their advice but from my experience with a child as well as having friends whose parents have been divorced. Please take into consideration what kind of father/mother you want for your child. Do you want a father/mother that doesn’t provide for their child? Do you want your child to mimic the behaviors that your partner displays. People keep trying to stay together for the kids meanwhile the kids grow up wishing y’all separated because then atleast they could have seen their parents happy. When you as a parent are not fulfilled, it is hard to (more than likely will not) then fulfill your child(ren). You sacrificing your happiness so that the family stays together does more damage to the kids than anything else. It’s okay to choose not to be unhappy for the rest of your life. Your kid(s) will not hate you for it.
I agree with this. I don't believe they should stay together if she is doing more for their child then he is. He's just another child at this point for her to take care instead of her "future husband". Definitely should be a conversation had about what she needs and wants from him going forward and if he can't do deuces.
YALL!!! I would like to add that I’m 22 and married! Not going against Josh and Isi, but they do talk about age a lot. Being young does not mean you’re immature! I’m very mature, in grad school, bought a house, my husbands a supervisor, the list goes on. You can be young and mature! If you know marriage or a serious relationship is what you want, go for it!!! Just be smart.
Hey y’all , I’m recently engaged and married . We are long distance but we barely speak to one another. I’m talking 30 min or less everyday . What do you suggest I do ? I’ve tried everything , but it just ends in an arguemenr
Isi you look goodt! I see you black queen! Lookin like a doll. You should make an avatar of yourself and print it on T-shirts, mugs, etc with cute quotes.
It could be things are different in the 🇺🇸 vs 🇨🇦, but data from stats shows people with university degrees are the highest earners. Life is on average, easier with a university degree than without. Of coz people can still make it without degrees. Just choose a professional degree. In my experience most people with professional degrees are silent on how well they are doing.
Feels like we're conditioned to take it at face value from listening to all of the girly shows or romancey series that most of us usually subscribe to, from a young age.
BRUVVV, I'm only 3min and in LOVE with all this LOVE and beautiful energy/vibes! It totally suits my kind of content! These vibes are so relatable! ❤ Hahaha. About to save this juicy video right here and finish my tasks quick so I can finish watching with some hot chocolate ❤❤❤💯💯💯 had to say this first! Hahaha xoxoxo
Okay y’all know I love y’all, so please don’t hate me when I say this, but from watching y’all since the beginning it’s not fair to say that when a person shows you who they are, believe them. I say that because Josh has admitted to being in the streets before Isi (just watch their past videos. Isi even use to help him get girls because they were besties before dating!🥰). So in that case would we say, Josh is still for the streets because that’s what was shown to Isi in the beginning? NO! Because that’s who Josh WAS! We are always in a constant state of evolution, and to put one in that statement (when they show you, believe them) is unfair. Because if Isi believed that about Josh, we would not have this beautiful, intelligent couple in front of us. Just like Isi admitted that she struggled to say I’m sorry. Okay, if we follow the “when they show you, believe them”, we would think that Isi is a selfish person, when we all know SHE IS NOT! Because she is giving, loving, and does for others regularly. So I guess I’m asking, are there certain areas where that’s like.. nahh that’s who they are OR can we say they have room for growth? I hope that makes sense. Because yeah dude lied, but I think just cutting people off, does not allow room for growth. Now I agree. Let mans go to therapy, then if you’re still single see if he has changed. Because I believe that everyone can change because I’ve done it myself.♥️
The “we are not professionals” is completely understood but boy do y’all give good solid advice. I truly enjoyed and agreed with everything said on this video. ❤️💯❤️
My boyfriend showed me a post on IG that basically said “after an argument, make sure to touch your partner to make assure the love is still there.. after our last “tif” I hugged him from behind, he told me to get off and I said no, gimme some love and he laughed and all was well ..
Always with consent tho because sometimes they may not be okay with it
But can we talk about how flawless Isi looks😍😍😍
No cause she makes me feel bad about my looks on a daily basis 😩😭😭😭
Nah cause fr sis been glowing glowing! Josh is glowing too! 🙌🏾✨
Right she sooo beautiful 😍
When Isi shouted “No” in minute 9 I felt that in my Spirit 😂 I feel you girl
LMAOO TBBHHH
The brow on brown aesthetic/look is bomb on the both of you. Love you guys!
I was just on Netflix and Hulu trying to find something to watch.. then I look up, and GOD answered my prayers!!!!🙌🏽💗
Same 😭
God is definitely good ❤️👏🏽
@@alionsunset7595 I love that for us!!
I really appreciate raw and straightforward advice from Josh with these manipulative guys because he puts it direct and knows exactly how boys think
And recently josh and isi’s individual content has been constant too and I love it
Josh and Isi I love how transparent yall are. They don't make 'em like you no more.💕
💯
That “NO” at 9:09 came from the soul😭😭😭
Yeah I felt it 😂
I understand in the last story she wants to keep her "family" together for the child but what good is staying with him if she eventually starts resenting him. Then that starts arguments and tension then the child is seeing all of that and feels it too! She needs to think about whether or not she wants her child growing up in that environment not whether or not she can deal with that the rest of her life! The minute you have kids it stops being about YOU! And plus it doesn't sound like he's worth keeping imo. I think they both still have a lot of growing up to do
Yeah, I agree she should definitely do what is right for her and her children
Me and my dog were literally just sitting on the couch watching an old Josh & Isi banger when this video popped up praise GOD
have you two considered doing a segment/video where the people you gave advice to (so the people who's issues got advice on video) write back in to tell us how they fared with it? like did they try the "therapy" and did it work, if not, why not?
Very good idea.... I would definitely watch.
Also the matching fits???? HERE FOR IT
just the energy i needed right now before continuing to study
I loveee the combination of Josh’s content with this video. The anchor analogy was Golden!!
Isi’s hair 🥰
Me and my boyfriend binged watched some of y'all videos last night because I always brag on how transparent and authentic y'all are and now he's a part of quality crew! Y'all are the goats this video is just... WOW! ♥
Ma’am! Now you know not to trust nothing he says if they live together! 🤦🏾♀️🙄
Yesss we love the consistency and how beautiful you both are with the brown/earthy tones outfits
Can we see a video on bf/gf expectations compared to married life expectations?
nah if a man says his ex lived with him ima block him immediately
🤣💯
Isi you look good, shoot both of y'all are looking hydrated and beautiful!!
love you guys content
As a person who's distance myself from draining energies I enjoy being alone What's the point of keeping you mind frustrated with that friendship.
Right. I was drained just listening to that lmao 🤣
Facts
I completely agree I don’t surround myself with people who drain my energy I love being alone a little too much.
Let me tell ya'll!!! Marriage dose NOTHING for maturity!!!!! I can not emphasize that enough. Some people (both women and men) may think something like "once we get married he/she will take things more seriously" NOT HAPPENING! If he/she is immature, selfish, irresponsible, dirty etc before the Marriage it's a 98% chance they will be that way after the marriage. Granted people can grow and change at any stage of their life but if you are thinking being married will jump start that change... think again.
josh and isi always give solid advice!
to the girl who doesn't want to go to college; you can look into different trades as well. tech/graphic designer, truck driving, equipment operator, manufacturing, medical/vet/dental assistant, etc there are SO many options for you! I would avoid college honestly! ❤️
💯
Facts
I’m here for the #BarberShopJosh coming with truth and love!!
It’s the consistency for me 👏🔥
😂😂😂😂 pop a tire on you me way out...took me out
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO! Y’all really kept it transparent with us 💗
As a fellow virgin and person waiting to have sex until I’m married, I definitely feel sis about when to mention that to guys I talk to. I agree that until it’s brought up, I wouldn’t mention it. And I feel the earlier the better because I don’t want to waste their time but more importantly I don’t want my time to be wasted either. Shoot I’ve told guys mid make out that this is all that will be happening lol
I would say for the person who is looking for options & school isn’t their first choice…Definitely look for Tuition Remission (if you happen to end up choosing school). Depending on your major/school that offers this option, the school will literally pay for your tuition GRANTED there is a stipulation: you work for them for x amount of time. Or be a child of an employee etc…but it’s worth a dig if you have no idea what to do about your future because you won’t be in as much debt if any at all.
The other option is some schools have free tuition BUT you have to want to major in the ones that provide the free tuition. Some Ivy Leagues offer it so it’s definitely worth a dig as well.
I even chose my masters program based on low tuition & majority HBCU’s cause I’m not trying to be in $100k in debt.
The brownnnnnnnn, the skinnnnnnnn everythingggggggggg🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎😍😍😍😍😍
Chileeee if a SO of mine said that after that much time. I’d be like why not just say that in your freshman year of college?? That’s where the most experiences start to happen & you grow a lot in between those 4+ years of college. So honey I’m sorry but she needs to move on. He’s trying to grow as an adult sure but you don’t need to sit & wait around for that for him. DO YOU! If y’all were meant to be y’all will find each other again in the future. Don’t waste YOUR TIME waiting just bc he’s not ready to take that leap into adulthood with you. No. We are not that gracious anymore. And you’re not his mother. 🤷🏾♀️ what would you gain from waiting on him to come back home for?
YALL USED MY SUBMISSION 😭😭😭😆😆😆 I’m so happy y’all just made my day thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Cool!! Which one was yours, if you don't mind me asking?
Y’all please get your certification as licensed therapist, this is toooo good 🤣😭
If a man don't work he don't eat it's accountability for me Take accountability for the household Especially when a child involved OK
loving the chocolate aesthetic 🤎🤎🤎
This therapy Thursday was really good. I needed to hear this lol!!!
I admire your relationship. You guys are the cutest. And inspirational.
For the third read about her friend being confiding in her about her relationship, she is 1000 percent right! I've been through this a couple times! Those people are not good for your spirit protect your peace sis!
Isi looks GORGEOUS.
Isi, giirrrlll! You look AMAZING, hair is POPPIN, melanin is GLOWIN, chocolate outfit is PERFECT!! Keep being beautiful inside and out!!
IsI that hair Girllllll 😍🔥 I need the details??????
I love the aesthetic in this video
Preach Josh "What do you look like out in the middle of the ocean trying to row your boat with an anchor. Cut that anchor off and get you an engine".
Amen 1st Lady Isi "When God closes 1 door, another one will open"
Glad yall came back with Thearpy Thursday. Im 10 years older than yall but the advice you give is very educational and I can relate too.
Josh started preachin, SAY IT PASTUH
ISI is soooo pretty
I love Josh and Isi's openness honestly thank you for sharing your insights. You're both blessings ❤
That man is not in therapy, sis! 😂. He sound like a Chicago dude….move on lol
I just wanna throw this out here is: you can take time for yourself and find yourself. Also community college is perfectly fine! That was my backup plan, was to get my gen Ed’s out the way.
Isi is glowing ✨
Josh can you please add your RUclips channel link to the description box aswell moving forward for people to see it. I’m already a subscriber I’m just saying for the new subbies, want your channel to grow.
Comeeee onnnn joshhh you bettas preachhh in this video 👏👏👏💯💯‼️‼️
Ouuuuu the chocolate brown outfits are bomb!!!!
Josh was preaching about solitude
Whew child. This title! I would burn everything!😩
LOVE LOVE LOVE YALL ☺️💕✨💯 🙌🏾
Beautiful couple would love a behind the scenes of the making of Josh and Isi's day🥰 or a day in the life 🥰🔥
Yay! I definitely was just thinking when were you guys going to post a new video for me to watch 😂
Me: *looking for something to watch then seeing yall posted* Look at God🙌🙌
I am a 23 year old virgin as well and I let it be known on the first date because they usually cancel their self out and saves my time and his!
Come on quality content!!! And melanin❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I haven’t been able to watch you guys’ videos for a while Bc my ex and i used to watch them together and it kinda hurts sometimes. This was the first one i watched in a really long time and i related to a few of these situations and long story short, this was a great step back into Josh&Isi for me and I’m glad i decided to watch it :) love you guys 🤎😚
Love the constant transparency the both of you present to us each video‼️💯🔥
Just started the vid but Isi looks so good!
You all really gave sound advice!!!! Enjoyed this!!!
Whole lot of facts and gems dropped in this video‼️🥰
For that last one… Josh and Isi said they don’t have kids to incorporate that into their advice but from my experience with a child as well as having friends whose parents have been divorced. Please take into consideration what kind of father/mother you want for your child. Do you want a father/mother that doesn’t provide for their child? Do you want your child to mimic the behaviors that your partner displays. People keep trying to stay together for the kids meanwhile the kids grow up wishing y’all separated because then atleast they could have seen their parents happy. When you as a parent are not fulfilled, it is hard to (more than likely will not) then fulfill your child(ren). You sacrificing your happiness so that the family stays together does more damage to the kids than anything else. It’s okay to choose not to be unhappy for the rest of your life. Your kid(s) will not hate you for it.
I agree with this. I don't believe they should stay together if she is doing more for their child then he is. He's just another child at this point for her to take care instead of her "future husband". Definitely should be a conversation had about what she needs and wants from him going forward and if he can't do deuces.
YALL!!! I would like to add that I’m 22 and married! Not going against Josh and Isi, but they do talk about age a lot. Being young does not mean you’re immature! I’m very mature, in grad school, bought a house, my husbands a supervisor, the list goes on. You can be young and mature! If you know marriage or a serious relationship is what you want, go for it!!! Just be smart.
Also I think the last couple should definitely seek some professional therapy, their issues run deep! Love y’all therapy Thursday’s!! 💕
because that’s when most stupid decisions are made.
@@camille98tt that’s understandable I just wanted to also give a different perspective.
Hey y’all , I’m recently engaged and married . We are long distance but we barely speak to one another. I’m talking 30 min or less everyday . What do you suggest I do ? I’ve tried everything , but it just ends in an arguemenr
When are you guys doing another video with Mrs. Edeko? She has such a sweet spirit!
earlyyy fam ✨
Thanks for being consistent y'all I really need it
Isi you look goodt! I see you black queen! Lookin like a doll. You should make an avatar of yourself and print it on T-shirts, mugs, etc with cute quotes.
I love yall so much fr! Yall always give good advice.
Hey qualitty qrew. Love yall 💓
It could be things are different in the 🇺🇸 vs 🇨🇦, but data from stats shows people with university degrees are the highest earners. Life is on average, easier with a university degree than without. Of coz people can still make it without degrees. Just choose a professional degree. In my experience most people with professional degrees are silent on how well they are doing.
How does literally every guy (from a very young age too) know that playbook but the girls don’t?
Feels like we're conditioned to take it at face value from listening to all of the girly shows or romancey series that most of us usually subscribe to, from a young age.
Forever love the outro‼️ both outros 🔥🔥🔥🥰
Just by looking at the title I’d say move out. 😂😂
I love these videos they are awesome and yall are always dropping those gems!!! I love yall be blessed and safe!
I love how Barbershop Josh was still loving. Some men get in that barber's chair and get soo toxic and misogynistic.
I didn't really understand the Barbershop Josh bit. Could you explain it to me, please?
Loved all the advice!
Early gang🙌🏾🔥
I love you guys and the energy keep the videos coming ❤️❤️
Early... Josh I like your pullover😊 love y'all 😊🥰
Early to the party 🎉
I wish I had yall when I was younger !
Clicked fast for this one❤️
BRUVVV, I'm only 3min and in LOVE with all this LOVE and beautiful energy/vibes! It totally suits my kind of content! These vibes are so relatable! ❤ Hahaha. About to save this juicy video right here and finish my tasks quick so I can finish watching with some hot chocolate ❤❤❤💯💯💯 had to say this first! Hahaha xoxoxo
Okay y’all know I love y’all, so please don’t hate me when I say this, but from watching y’all since the beginning it’s not fair to say that when a person shows you who they are, believe them. I say that because Josh has admitted to being in the streets before Isi (just watch their past videos. Isi even use to help him get girls because they were besties before dating!🥰). So in that case would we say, Josh is still for the streets because that’s what was shown to Isi in the beginning? NO! Because that’s who Josh WAS! We are always in a constant state of evolution, and to put one in that statement (when they show you, believe them) is unfair. Because if Isi believed that about Josh, we would not have this beautiful, intelligent couple in front of us. Just like Isi admitted that she struggled to say I’m sorry. Okay, if we follow the “when they show you, believe them”, we would think that Isi is a selfish person, when we all know SHE IS NOT! Because she is giving, loving, and does for others regularly. So I guess I’m asking, are there certain areas where that’s like.. nahh that’s who they are OR can we say they have room for growth? I hope that makes sense.
Because yeah dude lied, but I think just cutting people off, does not allow room for growth. Now I agree. Let mans go to therapy, then if you’re still single see if he has changed. Because I believe that everyone can change because I’ve done it myself.♥️
lsi you sooooo beautiful 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
Love love love y'all ❤️
Loving the browns. 💕
Y’all such a beautiful couple 😍🦋🦋🦋🦋
It's josh's facial expressions for me 😂😂
i needed this video👏🏽🖤
LOVE YOU GUYS. LOVE THE CHOCOLATE 🍫 🤎✨
Before I start watching is this regular Josh or Josh from the last video 😂😂😂😂