She's not being genuine and you can help to update us on her. Frontal lobe is not closed until 25yrs old . She was abused in and outside of the home and this was her answer too the trauma. She's so insecure and hurt. It's okay Patricia sorry they didn't see you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 7:11
She keeps saying she "needed" a BBL at 17. Ummmm...you need a high school diploma at 17. You need working papers at 17. You need to apply to colleges at 17....
Reckless af. 😢 n to say you “needed it” you need food, air water, etc… and in her case apparently love n a positive outlook on her body n self esteem. Girl stop. 🤦🏽♀️ #ignorant
I have always been overweight, obese what ever you want to call it. My family are from Puerto Rico. My mother wanted me to get a gastric bypass and I said NO! I want to lose weight the healthy way! I’m 33 yrs old now and I’m still losing weight healthily. The only thing I’m doing is a breast reduction bc I don’t like big boobs but other than that pure exercise. I was 320 lbs and now I’m 200 lbs and I am so proud that I never ever went ahead with any surgeries.
Gastric is different because it's not solely cosmetic. Your mom was concerned about your health. Being 320 lbs can lead to some very serious health complications. Congratulations on losing that weight. It is extremely impressive you did that all on your own 🎉🎉
I got gastric sleeve and it was the best thing that I could do with my life because of my autoimmune disease and my steroids just continued to blow me up. Salute to you sis for doing it without medical intervention and salute to my sistahs who did it with medical intervention ✊🏽🙂!
@@TJJ-od6wk we had no clue he was unlicensed.. we found out after but me and my parents are positive people & we went in with a positive mindset everything came out beautifully.
She would have gotten it herself. When a person has dysmorphia disorder makes ppl so depressed they want to die. Parents don’t want their child to die or be so depressed they don’t live.
She has body dysmorphia. People who have it don't know they have it. She keeps saying she's doing it for herself, which she probably is, but she keeps finding something wrong with her body. BBL are dangerous and she had three. See she's not even done. She's never going to be satisfied.
What's even more dangerous are these "drive-through window" surgery clinics that will do BBLS, tummy tucks, etc. for the price of a Happy Meal. Sometimes, assistive staff members, NOT a licensed physician, will do the surgery at such sites!!!!
i struggled w that. after therapy, slowly growing out of it. and the minute she spoke , i knew that’s what she’s dealing w. she’s beautiful as god made her, wish we could see that.
I graduated college & have 4 houses paid off, acres, plantation property, I’m a real estate investor, stock broker & a trader… getting a bbl young never stopped anything in my life lmao.
@@niaprice3267 & what does spiritual wisdom have anything to do w/ cosmetic surgery? Lmao ya be saying anything.. if ya can’t afford anything than don’t project that shit onto me.
@@kimberlyb6522Facts! Now I don’t know what the chick that posted the video looks like but when she was going in on her and talking about she looks better than her my first thought was “nah mama you’re face is hit too” and then that husky voice…….if I was a man I would need to see a birth certificate and baby pics as proof she was born a 👧
@@kimberlyb6522wtf Are you a husband or a lesbian? why does her face need to be what you want it to be for her to be worth a happy life ? I hope ur children look in the mirror hate their face and HATE you more for it and become super depressed and theres nothing you can do. I wish that for you xx
@@africanbeauty7that’s why I don’t feel bad for them. They go get surgery then think they’re better than everyone else, down talk other people bodies. Then when they end up botched or with health issues they want sympathy and understanding. Nahh keep that same energy you had.
I’m 42 and didn’t get curves and a** until like 5 years ago. My whole life I was skinny. So your body will change. For some it will be sooner and others later. We are forever changing.
Everytime he bring up mentality its totally going over her head. Whew bless and HEAL her heart and her soul. For her to be 12 and researching BBLs and she isn't even finished developing. This is such a sad story.
I understand but you have to remember this is her culture. She said that at a young age they were taught or molded into thinking about their looks and body image. So this is her norm.. no different than in the black community we become babysitters at like 9-10.. some even younger. Not saying it’s right but it’s a cultural norm
@@keida1085 I think she said her family and friends bullied her. I've heard of kids in elementary school vomiting their food because they don't want to be fat. It's unfortunate, but most of us are consumed with how we look.
@@keida1085ma’am just bc it’s OF a culture doesn’t make it healthy, she’s so beautiful refrigerator shape or not 😊 I hope she sees and understands she didn’t need this she is fine already. I’m happy she’s still able to learn and grow from her experiences but the bbl culture is BS the way it’s making women feel & think. It’s an interesting how the insurance, health, and entertainment industries are the ones EATING off this sick ahh ish. & don’t be comparing babysitting at 9-10 to being a black thing 😂 tf be fr EVERY race has experienced babysitting at a young age that was weird. More success to MAMA in the video! F these mf’s 🎉
@@PrettyFinessa I don’t know what every other culture does except mines. And I feel my comment was quite appropriate. And let’s be clear I never said anything about it being ok or healthy.
For sure!!!! I’m 40 with 3 of my own children and a grandbaby. I still get carded and everyone always says I look too young to have a 22yr old or a grandbaby!!!🤣
She felt like she “needed” it for her self-confidence and feeling comfortable in her own body. But a lot of people don’t know that they can reach that state of mind for free.
@@XeniasWorld yea but 167 and what?? You know how many miles long 167 crosses over east & west ?? 167 & University is opposite side of the Bronx from 167 & Vyse Ave lol..
@@ginathornton2690Yep, and while doing fire hydrants, also move your legs in circles behind you..this gives you a rounder butt and curvier hips. Squats can keep your butt plump but it shapes the thighs more than it shapes the butt.
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Praying for her mental health and ability to overcome people’s opinions of her. She was absolutely beautiful before and still is. Beauty is fleeting and starts from the inside out.
She thinks her body cute? She from the Bronx ? Ppl who get their body done thinks everyone hates on them lol ANYONE can get a BBL off care credit 😂😂😂😂.
Thankfully it wasn’t off care credit it was CASH, all 3 times.. & that’s fine if you don’t think it’s cute I didn’t get my body to please anybody but myself.. my husband LOVES IT HERE. & yes I’m from the Bronx but I moved to the Dominican Republic and I live in a house I bought CASH.. but ofc anyone can move to DR & buy 4 houses CASH the same way I did 😄😘
@@CanelitaLubana your parents paid I’m saying anyone can get one off credit NOT that YOU paid credit.. but my point was hate on what? Smh hating on anything fake is wild! It’s not always hate sweety lol that word is over saturated
That’s very true. But being Dominican, I also understand her perspective. Perfect bodies and surgeries are a part of our culture. Even as children, we are judged for our bodies. She said that she was being bullied , so that must’ve gotten to her head. I feel for her, because she was just in the wrong environment.
It’s weird because it’s like the interviewer wants her to feel bad, guilty or remorseful about her surgeries AND SHE DOESNT!!! She explained numerous times that she cried tears of joy, it benefited & enhanced her life.
He is looking for her to be honest and not act as if it was all good. At the end of the interview she said what he was looking to tell the younger audience. watching.
How can we know it enhanced her life? She hadn't even started her life at 17. She is a look and nothing else. Maybe she could've been a doctor, lost that weight whilst becoming an athlete, learnt music, the law, I don't know travelled the world? Instead here she is famous for a viral video and the size of her ass and here she is still obsessing over her looks. Her parents should've paid for therapy not surgery. To me it's sad.
I feel she is being honest & upfront about her feelings/body images/surgeries ❤ we might not see her POV regarding this, but that DOES NOT discount her story & struggles ❤ Be Blessed & try to love other good humans no matter ❤✝️❤️
@@Shyyan-mj6xbHow do you know if she’s educated or not. Are you educated? I know I am and i’m a natural woman but ya’ll care so much about other people and what they do to themselves. Stop it!
@@SlenderSportyI used to feel that way and then I strayed away from God but he found me again and in my new church home I don’t feel the same. Maybe try a new church home. I wish you the best on your journey with God ❤
@@thearlettasamuelthe church is literally a political place to keep the human intelligence down by living in fear lmaooo, and the worst part is y’all be doing the most sinning and judging… nobody wants to be around that energy trust me god is far better / closer to me since I stopped going to church.
I rock with her. In the Black and Hispanic community girls/women are expected to either have a coke bottle shape or the frame for a coke shape. I was super skinny as a little girl. I was 1 of the fastest kids in the projects and they called me fire...because my legs were skinny like match sticks they'd say I'm gonna set myself on fire....my friend was a chunky girl my age and they called us #10 because she was round like 0 and i was skinny like 1. All it did was toughen me, i became quick witted and would snap back on anybody that teased me.
From what I gathered, she got the first one when she was 17, she got the second one because she wanted to go bigger, and she got the third one to fix the botched body that we saw in the TikTok video.
@@anon0268right, 3 like I said. It’s still too much. I understand why she did the first. Nothing but the grace of God that has kept her with those surgeries considering many women don’t make it off the operating table.
@@PlainJane82 When she said that she still wasn’t done with the surgeries, I just thought about all those women who died on the operating table. I hope God opens her eyes.
@@anon0268I don't understand how that wasn't a topic... She goes to the DR for surgeries repeatedly. If we aren't talking about the dangers, why discuss at all?
@@ShixB I think he tried to open up that discussion a few times. For example, when he would ask her “What was a 17YO doing getting a BBL?” But I think she kept deflecting, and she made it about how she was “mentally mature”. That’s not what it’s about - it’s about the danger and the consequences of these surgeries.
She’s not even mature enough to have an intelligent conversation. He was asking her questions she couldn’t answer bc she didn’t understand what he was asking. She says she was happy each time she got surgery BUT she kept having more. She will never be done sadly. It started when she was 17. Yea she may have the money for them but like Chris said that’s a dangerous surgery and some people don’t make it off that table.
How I didn’t understand what he was asking me & I answered everything he asked? I had to get multiple surgeries to fix multiple things.. every time I got surgery I was HAPPY & I fucked it up every time with my lack of discipline and bad habits but if you couldn’t grasp that when I said that clearly multiple times then I can’t be the slow one here.. & yes it’s dangerous but I don’t think of the dangers I give my self to God & I do as I please, that’s why I never had complications throughout these 10 years I got all the surgeries..
I’ll never understand the mindset of one having a BBL feeling like they’re better than any natural woman. Insecure vs Secure? Secure wins every time, refrigerator built and all
I love the fact that this lady kept it real and 100 percent honesty and yes, she's right the Kardashians started by having these surgeries to get the bodies of black culture something that we were born with naturally. So now everyone wants to look like and keep up with the Kardashians by changing the size of their lips that were already naturally beautiful now everyone is walking around looking alike with DUCK LIPS , OVERSIZE HIPS, OVERSIZE CHEEKS AND BOOBS INSTEAD OF INVESTING THEIR MONEY FOR RETIRMENT SO YOU WANT HAVE TO WORK YOUR ENTIRE LIFE ALL JUST TO PLEASE WHOM THE WORLD OR THE INDUSTRY WHO STARTED THE ALL .
Actually, the strippers started it. The Kardashians followed behind them. But does it matter who started it? They all look crazy. The difference is the Kardashians have the money for upkeep and reversal when the trends change. A lot of these "regular" women don't.
Judging or sharing an honest opinion? Because nowadays if we aren’t throwing confetti over someone we are negative or judgmental. Truth hurts and people like to manipulate it into a negative when they can’t handle it
@@liviaforeign6630well she was extremely young when those choices were made and obviously didn’t know no better. It’s not her you should be blaming. No disrespect to her but its those parents of hers who paid for a child to get something like that. Them are who you should be blaming
Im glad she told her story. I like her honesty and openness. Everyones journey is different, and just because YOU wouldn't do it doesn't make them less than.
Yes! The amount of people judging her and pointing out the things they think she should or shouldn’t have done is crazy. She’s being honest and regardless it’s HER body. Just crazy how people can have opinions as if they’re perfect..
@@teedatechtv7848 that’s fine love. I guess that just shows people’s characters … at the end of the day we all bleed the same 🤷🏽♀️.. who are we to judge if someone’s insecure or not hmm
This has really become 1 of my favorite series 💜... As a former body contour provider.. I heard so many stories from women trying to achieve their idea of perfection...and I really tried not to judge... But ladies we have to really love ourselves better & fix the inside first.
This guy is the BEST INTERVIEWER EVER! He really goes in depth respectfully. If she doesn't admit to body dismorphia, then there should be a term for her obsession for the "likes/ shares (social media) for sure
Sweetheart there’s nothing wrong with pretty Vee… you were insecure about your natural body she’s not ! Don’t try throw a jab at someone else’s appearance because you didn’t like you you were better off using your befor pic as an example instead of saying her name!!! Love yourself!
Theres nothing wrong with how she is talking. Thats just her personality, thats how she talks. Shes answering the questions and I understand her. Stop hating ppl
I feel like she don't even know the reason why people reacted like that to the video clip.... It's almost like she thinks it's because she looked fat. Nooooo your butt was completely lopsided. Had the most strange looking shape and stuck out way too much. But I waited for her to address the reason it looked so strangely shaped but she only really said that she gained weight and she knew that she was fat and that right before the video she was already in line for the weight loss surgery.... But I wanna know what caused the extremely strange shape of her BBL
Weight gain her fat cells went all over the place I know too many women get bbl and eat like shit now their fat cell are changing the way their bodies are shaped.
Everybody gains weight differently. And a bbl isn’t natural. But gaining weight is natural. So you adding natural weight on top of a manufactured unrecognized substance 🥴
Just because you got the money and you think you're mature enough doesn't mean that you're ready to get a BBL… 17 year olds haven't even fully come into their body. I remember when I was like 20 and me and my cousin with a thick ass peanut butter sandwiches because we wanted to gain weight and if my younger self could see me now… The thickness came, no shots no surgery!
This is sad… she was so young, she didn’t give her body enough time to develop. She wasn’t mentally there to have that surgery. You can tell because she went back for more surgeries then she talking about she needed the surgery but get hyped about the followers she had online and gets excited about the attention that’s the real reason
@@lovethetruth953 she was comparing bodies. Talking about how her moms side were like Meg the Stallion and her dads was Jess Hilarious. I’m just saying, Jess body is 🔥 too so I don’t understand bringing her up. And she’s beautiful period
I remember being made fun of in school and by family members because I didn’t have a big booty. It really made me feel bad when my mom told me I had a big back. But as time came I just felt less insecure. It never goes away, but just having a little confidence in myself helped me feel better.
This is my first time watching your content, and I want to say that I’m subscribing because I find it incredibly insightful. If you can move past the accent and vernacular, there’s so much to learn from the important messages here. First and foremost is the discussion on Dominican culture. As a Dominican woman, I can relate to the experience of growing up in a family where compliments on beauty or body shape were rare. In Dominican culture, there's often an overwhelming emphasis on physical appearance. You’re either told you need to be thin to be beautiful, or that if you're not thin, you’re fat. On the other hand, being too thin makes you “sick.” It’s a tough standard to live up to. This focus on outward beauty often overshadows internal qualities, and it’s something that’s been passed down through generations. Whether people want to admit it or not, in Dominican culture, your worth is too often linked to how you look. There’s also a lot of colorism and hair-based discrimination. Growing up, I was told to avoid relationships with darker-skinned people, and having natural curly hair was viewed as a problem, not something to embrace. I had my hair permed when I was just eight years old because my natural, Afro-textured curls weren’t considered “good hair.” This kind of cultural pressure contributes heavily to body image issues and the drive to alter our appearances. Another major takeaway from the conversation is how people lie to sell a gimmick. I love the transparency here, calling out those who promote fitness routines, medications, and workouts after having cosmetic surgery themselves but pretending otherwise. Her honesty is refreshing, and I truly admire her courage. She’s putting her story out there, owning her decisions, whether we agree with them or not, and that level of openness is commendable. Ultimately, the biggest lesson here is that everyone will do what’s best for themselves, but we should all be more mindful of the pressures we put on each other. As a community and as a culture, we need to promote more body positivity, less judgment, and more support. The current obsession with physical appearance is driving people to extreme measures, like unnecessary surgeries, and it’s time we start valuing each other for more than just what’s on the surface.
She’s not even mature during this video, and I’m sorry her vocabulary and intellect level is at a 3rd grade level, not even excusing her accent from BX or being Spanish, She sounds completely illiterate. And she can’t answer his questions like an adult. But whatever makes her happy 🤷🏽♀️
I don’t think they failed I turned out great in life thank God. They gave me confidence I didn’t have. If your parents wouldn’t do that for you I’m sorry.
I feel her pain. Growing up in Nyc the people are brutal. They will clown you out, yelling flat butt, bad body. Mind you there is no where you can go that is not crowded. Thats public humiliation in front of thousands of people on a daily basis. So, its a lot of pressure to look good.
So, one will risk infection, blood clots, heart attack, etc. after a bad surgery from an unlicensed Dr. Frankenstein? Let people "clown" you. Get a gym membership and find exercises that will enhance your physicality and most importantly, keep you healthy and alive!
I'm from NYC, I been slim all my life,, I look good I feel good and I smell good never had problems getting men and never thought about getting no bbl ...
People everywhere are brutal, and there are those who love to make fun of the girl who's skinny or fat or with no butt or no boobs, to that I say so what, those talking can be made fun of too, when you love and accept yourself as you were created you just don't care what people say 🤷🏾♀️
Yes people in NYC are very blunt but don’t blame her internal issues on that. As an 80s baby we got picked on and clowned too in school. The difference is these Gen Zs and Gen Alphas are growing up in the age of social media. Now people all over the world can clown you. Now factor in the fact that her culture starts sexualizing girls at very young ages and place a lot of emphasis on their bodies you have this type of delusional mentality.
The fact that she believes in her mind that she is one of the few who actually got a BBL because she felt she needed it is crazy everyone who makes that major surgical decision feels like they need it that's why they spent all day damn money to get it I just hope her body stays healthy and by the time she turns 40 she's still pleased with it BC she has a long way to go and it will not look the same once her body begins to age and like she said she don't even have children yet
I love her energy and transparency! She has a beautiful soul and we all have a personal journey in life. I pray all continues to work out and her life is blessed.
I aim to continue to tell little girls in my community how naturally beautiful they are and that they dont need surgery to fit any fake, lame a** esthetics.
She's not an advocate, please learn the meaning of words. She's just telling her story as she went viral and its a crazy story. She ain't an advocate, grow up lol
I really love her personality. She seems to keep it 💯.. i also really appreciate his questions and the care he gave to not insult her or judge her. Great job 👏🏾 respectfully
Omg love her! She's beautiful and a whole vibe ❤. I used to live on 167 and Walton Ave in the Bronx. Women from NYC are some of the realest you'll ever meet! Especially from Harlem, Brooklyn and The Bronx!
A lot of insecurities start in families!!! How is it that she is aware of body types at 7/8? This was put in her head probably by Aunts/Uncles maybe praising young girls ohh you're gonna be this and look like that! At 17, the focus should be on teenage things NOT adult things! What if she wants to have kids? She seems like she has a good personality but is lying to herself at 17 she did NOT need it she WANTED this for herself!!! Ladies surgery is Necessary for Medical reasons and even then you are putting your life in DANGER!!! Google/RUclips ALL the video of the young/old ladies that DIED on the table and left their children/families behind!!! Cherish what you have and work to improve your body!!! Yall putting your life at risk and making the surgeons rich!!! Surgeons get paid whether you Lie or Die!!!!
It’s really a culture thing a lot of West Indian, and Hispanic ppl put these ideologies in their children’s inadvertently for many many many years same thing with skin bleaching smh
When I was like 8 I was gobsmacked when I saw one of my older cousins, she was shaped like a cartoon character. All natural btw. Then I began to notice how shapely and curvy my mother & aunts were. Y’all gotta start to give kids more credit, they can see like the rest of us
I haven’t had a BBL but 20 years ago a good plastic surgeon changed my life too. I know exactly what’s she’s saying. 18:26 I wax crying and thanking them before I ever even got put to sleep. And best money I ever spent too.
I still feel like 17-19 is still too young. You woman’s body or adult body don’t really settle in until 21-25 and maybe a little longer. I also say don’t be so eager. That recovery is no joke. I had skin removal after weight loss in 3 phases. The abdominal one was the worst so much swelling that you cannot even stand straight. Day by day you wait for the swelling to go down so you can stand straight.
She’s not deep at all. She did it at 15 because she was insecure(still is), she compared her body to others. If you had so much self esteem you wouldn’t care about having a small 🍑 you would embrace it. so many reasons
That BBL is horrible. I’m so glad that my body is real and I’m thankful I’m from New York. I had an accent and a lot of New York women are low-key insecure and anybody will say we got this of her going viral. She looks unhappy. It’s just really sad. She’s a young girl, you just have to love yourself. She just looks like her whole body is in pain.
So. Maybe your face is horrible. Maybe your heart is horrible. She kept it real. She had the guts to tell her story. Her truth and not from behind a profile pic. She didn't come on here being mean, disrespectful and haughty like you. You got insecurities like every other woman. Maybe climb off your pedestal. I like her. She's telling her story whether you can just listen and not instantly pass judgment says more about you than her. ~NYCer
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. People are going to think whatever they want too. But I think she looks amazing… and I hope she knows that. Because her opinion of herself is the only thing that matters. When you don’t maintain after the bbl and gain weight… this usually happens. It’s not the bbl that’s the issue.
She sounds crazy period . Her knowledge shows she’s not even mature enough for a BBL . And it’s not for her it’s for others . Cause keeps repeating I’m not ugly that’s to make herself feel better . She needs therapy
This is a parental flaw. The parents should have taught her to love herself FIRST and then once she’s an adult with her own means she can do as she please. To urge a 17 year old to get plastic surgery instead of uplifting and pouring into their child’s self esteem is nasty work. Now here she is addicted to plastic surgery and still critical & insecure about her body.
To get a breast reduction then get implants is insane.then to say u wudnt have kids unless u have lipo money is jus very shallow..smh.i was so amazed by my beautiful baby i wasnt even thinkin about my belly
This was an awesome video👏 conducted very well. Props to the interviewer and the guest. This is exactly how interviews should go very intentional and informative. Each articulated themselves very well. KUDOS..and we'll wishes to both of them.
She’s worried about all the wrong things. She’s not mentally mature AT ALL but clearly she thinks she is smh. This video doesn’t “help our community” 🤦🏽♀️
She’s very self aware and it’s clear since she was a child, she’s had body dysmorphia as a child & she thought getting surgery would change how she felt about herself & when it did but it also drove her to continue getting it
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She's not being genuine and you can help to update us on her. Frontal lobe is not closed until 25yrs old . She was abused in and outside of the home and this was her answer too the trauma. She's so insecure and hurt. It's okay Patricia sorry they didn't see you
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I don't dm, my number is public....Hoggard, wphilly
Can we get more BBL stories. So much complications happen during and after. More stories like this should be told to spread awareness.
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She keeps saying she "needed" a BBL at 17. Ummmm...you need a high school diploma at 17. You need working papers at 17. You need to apply to colleges at 17....
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Exactly, did she have any other goals or aspirations? Where is the guidance ?
@@michellemurry2180clearly her parents weren’t in her life
My booty flat, boobs flat and these videos remind me to accept me for me 🤞🏾
Me too sis..you gotta work with what you got❤
Tummy flat flat 😛
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Girl don't worry about that foolishness!!! You're Absolutely Beautiful!!!👑❤️👑✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️✨️Keep shinning like the QUEEN YOU ARE...❤️☺️❤️
Amen sis. Frfr 💯
BBL at 17 paid for by your parents is crazy business
Reckless af. 😢 n to say you “needed it” you need food, air water, etc… and in her case apparently love n a positive outlook on her body n self esteem. Girl stop. 🤦🏽♀️ #ignorant
That part
By an unlicensed professional
No comment smh
A lot of people don’t have that type of relationship and that’s ok.
She kept saying other women "wanted" it, but she "needed it". Nobody "needs" a BBL.
That language should have been a disqualifier for the surgeon.
Tell that to my completely flat white ass lol
I have always been overweight, obese what ever you want to call it. My family are from Puerto Rico. My mother wanted me to get a gastric bypass and I said NO! I want to lose weight the healthy way! I’m 33 yrs old now and I’m still losing weight healthily. The only thing I’m doing is a breast reduction bc I don’t like big boobs but other than that pure exercise. I was 320 lbs and now I’m 200 lbs and I am so proud that I never ever went ahead with any surgeries.
Gastric is different because it's not solely cosmetic. Your mom was concerned about your health. Being 320 lbs can lead to some very serious health complications. Congratulations on losing that weight. It is extremely impressive you did that all on your own 🎉🎉
👏👏 good work ! ❤proud of u
Proud of you keep doing what's best for you 💯 🫶 you've given me motivation!!!
🎉 that's wonderful 😊
I got gastric sleeve and it was the best thing that I could do with my life because of my autoimmune disease and my steroids just continued to blow me up.
Salute to you sis for doing it without medical intervention and salute to my sistahs who did it with medical intervention ✊🏽🙂!
She will find out that as you age, your body constantly changes.
Exactly
Yep, guaranteed!
Oh yeah, women have to learn to let nature take it's course....natural process.
Yes it does!
Yes it does I was skinny when I was younger gain my weight 3 years ago. I’m in my 30’s..
She keeps saying that she "did it for herself " CLEARY, it was to fit into society and cultural standards.
You must of missed the part at the beginning when she stated why she first got surgery
Yeah I’m thinking the same thing she’s so young she doesn’t realize it yet smh
Correct
He!
Word!!!! No need to lie!!
Her parents took her to an unlicensed Dr to get a BBL at 17. This could have went horribly wrong. She and her parents are very lucky.
or very careless&stupid
It did go horribly wrong! 🤔 It could have been deadly!!!
There should be laws passed to fine the parents 😢I'm just saying 😢
In some countries 17 is considered an adult. I wonder if she went to another country to get her BBL then that will make it legal.
@@TJJ-od6wk we had no clue he was unlicensed.. we found out after but me and my parents are positive people & we went in with a positive mindset everything came out beautifully.
All the ways her parents could have invested in her… and they chose to get her a bbl?.. is INSANE
Maybe her parents were attracted to her and wanted to promote their daughter hell r kelly messed with aaliyah
Right
And it’s very sad.
She would have gotten it herself. When a person has dysmorphia disorder makes ppl so depressed they want to die. Parents don’t want their child to die or be so depressed they don’t live.
She has body dysmorphia. People who have it don't know they have it. She keeps saying she's doing it for herself, which she probably is, but she keeps finding something wrong with her body. BBL are dangerous and she had three. See she's not even done. She's never going to be satisfied.
What's even more dangerous are these "drive-through window" surgery clinics that will do BBLS, tummy tucks, etc. for the price of a Happy Meal. Sometimes, assistive staff members, NOT a licensed physician, will do the surgery at such sites!!!!
That's exactly what that is
I have body dysmorphia. You are def right
ALL OF THEM DO... It's An Epidemic Out Here
i struggled w that. after therapy, slowly growing out of it. and the minute she spoke , i knew that’s what she’s dealing w. she’s beautiful as god made her, wish we could see that.
At 17 my friends and I were preparing for college!!! Not a BBL😂😂 My parents paid for my education, car and Apartment at 17!!
I guess in her case it’s ASSets + Liabilities= -0
I graduated college & have 4 houses paid off, acres, plantation property, I’m a real estate investor, stock broker & a trader… getting a bbl young never stopped anything in my life lmao.
@@CanelitaLubana well except for spiritual wisdom and discernment
Good for you that’s an amazing blessing your parents gave you
@@niaprice3267 & what does spiritual wisdom have anything to do w/ cosmetic surgery? Lmao ya be saying anything.. if ya can’t afford anything than don’t project that shit onto me.
Thank the Lord she is still here. So many women do not make it off the table.
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Good point!
Not! Who cares what happens to her and those like her with that ridiculous mindset!
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CLEARY she’s still immature and lacks understanding when he ask about “mentality “
It was so dreadful listening to her
I couldn’t get passed five minute…I’m out 🚶🏾♀️✌🏾
I made it to 14 minutes; an High School education was not a priority. Struggling to articulate basic feelings.
Me also.@@moonempress8366
She’s only 26th and had already had 5 surgeries smh 🤦🏽♀️ I really hope she starts doing the inner work!
She cannot change her face, so the body is not gonna do anything for her in the long run 😅
@@kimberlyb6522Facts! Now I don’t know what the chick that posted the video looks like but when she was going in on her and talking about she looks better than her my first thought was “nah mama you’re face is hit too” and then that husky voice…….if I was a man I would need to see a birth certificate and baby pics as proof she was born a 👧
@@kimberlyb6522wtf Are you a husband or a lesbian? why does her face need to be what you want it to be for her to be worth a happy life ? I hope ur children look in the mirror hate their face and HATE you more for it and become super depressed and theres nothing you can do. I wish that for you xx
@@africanbeauty7that’s why I don’t feel bad for them. They go get surgery then think they’re better than everyone else, down talk other people bodies. Then when they end up botched or with health issues they want sympathy and understanding. Nahh keep that same energy you had.
I’m 42 and didn’t get curves and a** until like 5 years ago. My whole life I was skinny. So your body will change. For some it will be sooner and others later. We are forever changing.
Same !!! My body at 40 right NOWWWWW!!!!!! 😂🎉 I'm wearing aalll the booty pants now getting aaallll this attention I been wanting my whole life😂😂😂
Yes that's your story but some women are without curves forever.
As u get older u will have middle age spread as my mom use to call it
Exactly i started getting a butt at 35 and got my curves
@@newworldlord643 😂😂😂 foreals
She looks like a Hispanic Jess Hilarious. I love her voice. She got that throw back New York accent.
She definitely does
Dont do Jess like that.
She does
Yeah she Dominican Jess hilarious 😂
She don’t. If you go to her IG she don’t
Everytime he bring up mentality its totally going over her head. Whew bless and HEAL her heart and her soul. For her to be 12 and researching BBLs and she isn't even finished developing. This is such a sad story.
I understand but you have to remember this is her culture. She said that at a young age they were taught or molded into thinking about their looks and body image. So this is her norm.. no different than in the black community we become babysitters at like 9-10.. some even younger. Not saying it’s right but it’s a cultural norm
@@keida1085 I think she said her family and friends bullied her. I've heard of kids in elementary school vomiting their food because they don't want to be fat. It's unfortunate, but most of us are consumed with how we look.
I was thinking that
@@keida1085ma’am just bc it’s OF a culture doesn’t make it healthy, she’s so beautiful refrigerator shape or not 😊 I hope she sees and understands she didn’t need this she is fine already. I’m happy she’s still able to learn and grow from her experiences but the bbl culture is BS the way it’s making women feel & think. It’s an interesting how the insurance, health, and entertainment industries are the ones EATING off this sick ahh ish.
& don’t be comparing babysitting at 9-10 to being a black thing 😂 tf be fr EVERY race has experienced babysitting at a young age that was weird.
More success to MAMA in the video! F these mf’s 🎉
@@PrettyFinessa I don’t know what every other culture does except mines. And I feel my comment was quite appropriate. And let’s be clear I never said anything about it being ok or healthy.
She looks much older to me than 26🤷🏼♀️
Wait she’s 26 ??? Sheesh
I agree
Need to spend that money on therapy, not surgery ❗️
For sure!!!! I’m 40 with 3 of my own children and a grandbaby. I still get carded and everyone always says I look too young to have a 22yr old or a grandbaby!!!🤣
that’s what tf i said lol im 25 and i was like damn i look like a bb😂
You don't need a BBL you want it. She keep saying I needed it.
yup to justify her situtation. And her parents made it worse by encouraging her to not love herself but to get a "fix"
She felt like she “needed” it for her self-confidence and feeling comfortable in her own body.
But a lot of people don’t know that they can reach that state of mind for free.
@@anon0268 u said it best 💯
EXACTLY
How tf do you need a bbl in real life 🫣
😮my brain cells r burning listening 2 her.
SAME!
She sounds so ignorant and uneducated
I thought it was just me. She had many issues still.
@@jjtaylor1932 im glad i got a college degree to prove my ignorance & lack of education 😅
Aw, I apologize that your brain can’t comprehend heavy accents or other peoples point of view.
i actually know her, we went to school together in new york. middle school. she always been beautiful and good person, wish her the best
What middle school you went to? Because she looks so familiar to me but I can’t pinpoint where.. I went to 145 & 166 for junior high..
@copperamerindian3373 she said she's from 167
@@XeniasWorld yea but 167 and what?? You know how many miles long 167 crosses over east & west ?? 167 & University is opposite side of the Bronx from 167 & Vyse Ave lol..
Well good I thought it was a trans so shade
@@MzHarajukuBarbi😂😂
Watching this while doing 100 squats 😂😂😂 y’all can have that operating table
Squats ain't it. Do fire hydrants. Thank me later.
And the unnecessary surgeries...smh
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@@ginathornton2690Yep, and while doing fire hydrants, also move your legs in circles behind you..this gives you a rounder butt and curvier hips. Squats can keep your butt plump but it shapes the thighs more than it shapes the butt.
Yes and do hands upside down against the wall while shaking your azz. Thx me later
Hey everyone thank you for watching Trappin Anonymous please remember how difficult it is to get on camera and share your story with the world. It’s the platform that we’ve created that tells our stories from our communities. Let’s keep sharing, let’s keep growing. Love yall.
What is her name? I’d like to see her before pics
@@julieandersonpeek4024I posted them in the beginning of this video
Thank you for bringing great content! ❤ 👌🏾
❤ Great questions, patience and understanding. Women and Girls do lots of things for many reasons.
BE BLESSED❤🙏
She has a strong energy about herself. Definitely gives NY energy
Yes I’m loving it 🔥🔥
masculine ny female energy
Praying for her mental health and ability to overcome people’s opinions of her. She was absolutely beautiful before and still is. Beauty is fleeting and starts from the inside out.
I think it was more of her insecurities than other people opinions. Even still.
She didn’t need it at all.
I think insecurities come from other peoples opinions. We are programmed.
She thinks her body cute? She from the Bronx ? Ppl who get their body done thinks everyone hates on them lol ANYONE can get a BBL off care credit 😂😂😂😂.
Thankfully it wasn’t off care credit it was CASH, all 3 times.. & that’s fine if you don’t think it’s cute I didn’t get my body to please anybody but myself.. my husband LOVES IT HERE. & yes I’m from the Bronx but I moved to the Dominican Republic and I live in a house I bought CASH.. but ofc anyone can move to DR & buy 4 houses CASH the same way I did 😄😘
@@CanelitaLubana your parents paid I’m saying anyone can get one off credit NOT that YOU paid credit.. but my point was hate on what? Smh hating on anything fake is wild! It’s not always hate sweety lol that word is over saturated
Right
If you take your savings and put it in your checking is it still your money? 🤔
@@samanthchapman4375 what’s your point?
She actually looks good in her before pictures. Women love y'all selves a lot better please. Be happy w what God sent you here w.
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Right
That’s very true.
But being Dominican, I also understand her perspective. Perfect bodies and surgeries are a part of our culture. Even as children, we are judged for our bodies. She said that she was being bullied , so that must’ve gotten to her head.
I feel for her, because she was just in the wrong environment.
What’s her name? I want to see the pics pls
stfu. 😂 men always convince us we aint enuff. so stop acting. yall dont wanna look at regular people and yall prove it everyday.
It’s weird because it’s like the interviewer wants her to feel bad, guilty or remorseful about her surgeries AND SHE DOESNT!!! She explained numerous times that she cried tears of joy, it benefited & enhanced her life.
He is looking for her to be honest and not act as if it was all good. At the end of the interview she said what he was looking to tell the younger audience. watching.
Right. Women enjoy their results. Let them live.
@@graceg4996 the surgery was done at the age of 17. What are you talking about? You’re obviously a brainless follower
He represents US. Some of us😏.
How can we know it enhanced her life? She hadn't even started her life at 17. She is a look and nothing else. Maybe she could've been a doctor, lost that weight whilst becoming an athlete, learnt music, the law, I don't know travelled the world? Instead here she is famous for a viral video and the size of her ass and here she is still obsessing over her looks. Her parents should've paid for therapy not surgery. To me it's sad.
Wow BBL at 17 is crazy when your bones are not even done growing whoa
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@@TrappinAnonymous this was a dope ass interview very informative
@@prettyblindeyes4375thank u so much
Where she get the money from at 17?
@@NaturallyGifted77 her parents gave it to her for being a good girl in school LOL SMH
He’s a great interviewer. & I fw her she’s genuine
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I feel she is being honest & upfront about her feelings/body images/surgeries ❤ we might not see her POV regarding this, but that DOES NOT discount her story & struggles ❤ Be Blessed & try to love other good humans no matter ❤✝️❤️
I wonder if she could have spent some of that money on an education
@@Shyyan-mj6xbHow do you know if she’s educated or not. Are you educated? I know I am and i’m a natural woman but ya’ll care so much about other people and what they do to themselves. Stop it!
Love her realness! Shes keeping it 💯. Saying what a lot of others wouldn't dare. Agree or Disagree. Shes sharing her story. Respect. 🗽🗽
$12k and the doc was no licensed??? You could've paid the same and got one licensed!!!
Maybe because of her age a licensed one wouldn't do it. But idk
Because a licensed person would not have let her get that done at 17 and they would have had her go to therapy sessions because clearly she needs it
$12,000 spent on a personal trainer and therapy with Bible study and Sunday service would’ve served her amazingly.
That part!
The Bible???? Heck No. That’s Why So Many Ppl Are So Delusional Now
Sunday service with people that are judging you like they’re God? Sounds terrible.
@@SlenderSportyI used to feel that way and then I strayed away from God but he found me again and in my new church home I don’t feel the same. Maybe try a new church home. I wish you the best on your journey with God ❤
@@thearlettasamuelthe church is literally a political place to keep the human intelligence down by living in fear lmaooo, and the worst part is y’all be doing the most sinning and judging… nobody wants to be around that energy trust me god is far better / closer to me since I stopped going to church.
Her parents giving her all that money for a BBL at 17 is absurd!!
Unlicensed 😮
She was on the wayward road from birth 😢🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️ u can't choose your parents but you can change your mind! We are more than our bodies!!
Self confidence is literally EVERYTHING.
I rock with her. In the Black and Hispanic community girls/women are expected to either have a coke bottle shape or the frame for a coke shape. I was super skinny as a little girl. I was 1 of the fastest kids in the projects and they called me fire...because my legs were skinny like match sticks they'd say I'm gonna set myself on fire....my friend was a chunky girl my age and they called us #10 because she was round like 0 and i was skinny like 1. All it did was toughen me, i became quick witted and would snap back on anybody that teased me.
More in the Hispanic they sexualize their children. We were never okay with this in the blk community until this bbl video girl stuff begin.
You guys are the ones who determine the standard. No one demands nothing! Remember that.
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3 bbl’s is a bit much. But she’s def unbothered and shows no signs of regret.
From what I gathered, she got the first one when she was 17, she got the second one because she wanted to go bigger, and she got the third one to fix the botched body that we saw in the TikTok video.
@@anon0268right, 3 like I said. It’s still too much. I understand why she did the first. Nothing but the grace of God that has kept her with those surgeries considering many women don’t make it off the operating table.
@@PlainJane82 When she said that she still wasn’t done with the surgeries, I just thought about all those women who died on the operating table.
I hope God opens her eyes.
@@anon0268I don't understand how that wasn't a topic... She goes to the DR for surgeries repeatedly. If we aren't talking about the dangers, why discuss at all?
@@ShixB I think he tried to open up that discussion a few times. For example, when he would ask her “What was a 17YO doing getting a BBL?”
But I think she kept deflecting, and she made it about how she was “mentally mature”.
That’s not what it’s about - it’s about the danger and the consequences of these surgeries.
Researching BBLs at 12 years old? Wowww…. 😔
Fkn sad
Exactly she needed therapy not surgeries
That broke my heart. I was playing with Barbie’s at that age 😢
It's not surprising for her generation z with social media etc
My exact thoughts
She’s not even mature enough to have an intelligent conversation. He was asking her questions she couldn’t answer bc she didn’t understand what he was asking. She says she was happy each time she got surgery BUT she kept having more. She will never be done sadly. It started when she was 17. Yea she may have the money for them but like Chris said that’s a dangerous surgery and some people don’t make it off that table.
I think she kind of slow. A lot of women from NY are immature and act like her
I agree
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@@princessbleu1090😂😂😂😂 this isn’t funny but I had to laugh.
How I didn’t understand what he was asking me & I answered everything he asked? I had to get multiple surgeries to fix multiple things.. every time I got surgery I was HAPPY & I fucked it up every time with my lack of discipline and bad habits but if you couldn’t grasp that when I said that clearly multiple times then I can’t be the slow one here.. & yes it’s dangerous but I don’t think of the dangers I give my self to God & I do as I please, that’s why I never had complications throughout these 10 years I got all the surgeries..
This is an amazing story. Ppl should respect other people’s cultures and decisions. This woman speaks her truth her way.
I’ll never understand the mindset of one having a BBL feeling like they’re better than any natural woman. Insecure vs Secure?
Secure wins every time, refrigerator built and all
No one feels better than anyone. Comparing is the thief of joy. Live your life and be happy and let others do the same
I love the fact that this lady kept it real and 100 percent honesty and yes, she's right the Kardashians started by having these surgeries to get the bodies of black culture something that we were born with naturally. So now everyone wants to look like and keep up with the Kardashians by changing the size of their lips that were already naturally beautiful now everyone is walking around looking alike with DUCK LIPS , OVERSIZE HIPS, OVERSIZE CHEEKS AND BOOBS INSTEAD OF INVESTING THEIR MONEY FOR RETIRMENT SO YOU WANT HAVE TO WORK YOUR ENTIRE LIFE ALL JUST TO PLEASE WHOM THE WORLD OR THE INDUSTRY WHO STARTED THE ALL .
YES,- I would not trade my full lips for anything 💋 - #Bornthisway
Actually, the strippers started it. The Kardashians followed behind them. But does it matter who started it? They all look crazy. The difference is the Kardashians have the money for upkeep and reversal when the trends change. A lot of these "regular" women don't.
Y’all still judging this girl after she told her story. I get her point of view and I’m happy that she’s still here with us that’s most important ❤
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Judging or sharing an honest opinion? Because nowadays if we aren’t throwing confetti over someone we are negative or judgmental. Truth hurts and people like to manipulate it into a negative when they can’t handle it
Sorry we the people just can't believe how naive and silly one can be.
@@liviaforeign6630well she was extremely young when those choices were made and obviously didn’t know no better. It’s not her you should be blaming. No disrespect to her but its those parents of hers who paid for a child to get something like that. Them are who you should be blaming
Im glad she told her story. I like her honesty and openness. Everyones journey is different, and just because YOU wouldn't do it doesn't make them less than.
Well said😎
Yes! The amount of people judging her and pointing out the things they think she should or shouldn’t have done is crazy. She’s being honest and regardless it’s HER body. Just crazy how people can have opinions as if they’re perfect..
Someone with a BBL is DEFINITELY, LESS THAN me, someone who is NATURAL! 🤷🏽♀️ It’s like insecure vs secure.. that’s how I see it
@@teedatechtv7848 that’s fine love. I guess that just shows people’s characters … at the end of the day we all bleed the same 🤷🏽♀️.. who are we to judge if someone’s insecure or not hmm
@@enjelaygeorge there is nothing SAFE or HEALTHY with these procedures, they should NEVER be performed 🤷🏽♀️
This has really become 1 of my favorite series 💜... As a former body contour provider.. I heard so many stories from women trying to achieve their idea of perfection...and I really tried not to judge... But ladies we have to really love ourselves better & fix the inside first.
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💞💯 Hard work is underrated
I agree. At 53, I am working on getting the shape I want naturally....through exercise and nutrition.
She was looking this up at 12😮 she need self confidence
I really like her personality and her accent. I appreciate her vulnerability.
Same
This guy is the BEST INTERVIEWER EVER! He really goes in depth respectfully. If she doesn't admit to body dismorphia, then there should be a term for her obsession for the "likes/ shares (social media) for sure
Every person should be as real and transparent as her. The world 🌍 would be a better place 🎉🎉
I agree
Real and transparent with a bbl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@bearbear8495 yes real & transparent about every surgery too, something most females would never admit too.. 🙃
😂😂😂😂😂😂
She sounds 17 still… wouldnt guess she is 25 🤦🏾♀️smh
Because I needed it.😢
she prolly is poor thig
She does sound very immature and uneducated
Yall hoes hate bad af
25?? Damn.
She a BX baby all day. Her accent makes me homesick. I love her honesty and her ability to express her rationale for getting the surgeries.
Thank you🥹🥹🥹
@@CanelitaLubana ❤️
She's so funny. I was born in BX. I finally went when I was 19. She reminds me of my time in NY. I miss the culture!
Poor girl at 12 thinking that she was screwed 😕
Sweetheart there’s nothing wrong with pretty Vee… you were insecure about your natural body she’s not ! Don’t try throw a jab at someone else’s appearance because you didn’t like you you were better off using your befor pic as an example instead of saying her name!!! Love yourself!
My love I never said she was ugly or anything was wrong I was comparing body types. I wasn’t calling nobody out their name.
Okay!
Theres nothing wrong with how she is talking. Thats just her personality, thats how she talks. Shes answering the questions and I understand her. Stop hating ppl
I feel like she don't even know the reason why people reacted like that to the video clip.... It's almost like she thinks it's because she looked fat. Nooooo your butt was completely lopsided. Had the most strange looking shape and stuck out way too much. But I waited for her to address the reason it looked so strangely shaped but she only really said that she gained weight and she knew that she was fat and that right before the video she was already in line for the weight loss surgery.... But I wanna know what caused the extremely strange shape of her BBL
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Weight gain her fat cells went all over the place I know too many women get bbl and eat like shit now their fat cell are changing the way their bodies are shaped.
When you gain weight the bbl doesn’t look right. Bc her natural fat is overpowering the bbl that’s why her booty was so big and uneven
Maybe the bbl wasn’t done right in the 1st place then she had the issue with the weight gain???
Everybody gains weight differently. And a bbl isn’t natural. But gaining weight is natural. So you adding natural weight on top of a manufactured unrecognized substance 🥴
Just because you got the money and you think you're mature enough doesn't mean that you're ready to get a BBL… 17 year olds haven't even fully come into their body. I remember when I was like 20 and me and my cousin with a thick ass peanut butter sandwiches because we wanted to gain weight and if my younger self could see me now… The thickness came, no shots no surgery!
This is sad… she was so young, she didn’t give her body enough time to develop. She wasn’t mentally there to have that surgery. You can tell because she went back for more surgeries then she talking about she needed the surgery but get hyped about the followers she had online and gets excited about the attention that’s the real reason
Great interview… she’s now one of my favorite people. That’s how you flip the script… literally!! Loved it!!!
When she gave that comparison to Jess hilarious all I was thinking was that she actually looks like her in the face lol
And voice 🤦🏾♀️
And Jess body is Crazy😍 that was a horrible comparison
@@Tina_FactzWitDaGapnobody compared her body… but you and both people have a bbl.
@@lovethetruth953 she was comparing bodies. Talking about how her moms side were like Meg the Stallion and her dads was Jess Hilarious. I’m just saying, Jess body is 🔥 too so I don’t understand bringing her up. And she’s beautiful period
@@Tina_FactzWitDaGap exactly, agreed 100%
I remember being made fun of in school and by family members because I didn’t have a big booty. It really made me feel bad when my mom told me I had a big back. But as time came I just felt less insecure. It never goes away, but just having a little confidence in myself helped me feel better.
I love and thank her for getting up and being confident in her story! that takes a strong person! especially regarding insecurities! ❤
This is my first time watching your content, and I want to say that I’m subscribing because I find it incredibly insightful. If you can move past the accent and vernacular, there’s so much to learn from the important messages here.
First and foremost is the discussion on Dominican culture. As a Dominican woman, I can relate to the experience of growing up in a family where compliments on beauty or body shape were rare. In Dominican culture, there's often an overwhelming emphasis on physical appearance. You’re either told you need to be thin to be beautiful, or that if you're not thin, you’re fat. On the other hand, being too thin makes you “sick.” It’s a tough standard to live up to. This focus on outward beauty often overshadows internal qualities, and it’s something that’s been passed down through generations. Whether people want to admit it or not, in Dominican culture, your worth is too often linked to how you look.
There’s also a lot of colorism and hair-based discrimination. Growing up, I was told to avoid relationships with darker-skinned people, and having natural curly hair was viewed as a problem, not something to embrace. I had my hair permed when I was just eight years old because my natural, Afro-textured curls weren’t considered “good hair.” This kind of cultural pressure contributes heavily to body image issues and the drive to alter our appearances.
Another major takeaway from the conversation is how people lie to sell a gimmick. I love the transparency here, calling out those who promote fitness routines, medications, and workouts after having cosmetic surgery themselves but pretending otherwise. Her honesty is refreshing, and I truly admire her courage. She’s putting her story out there, owning her decisions, whether we agree with them or not, and that level of openness is commendable.
Ultimately, the biggest lesson here is that everyone will do what’s best for themselves, but we should all be more mindful of the pressures we put on each other. As a community and as a culture, we need to promote more body positivity, less judgment, and more support. The current obsession with physical appearance is driving people to extreme measures, like unnecessary surgeries, and it’s time we start valuing each other for more than just what’s on the surface.
That bbl looks a mess. She didn’t even need it. She needs to love herself more.
TERRIBLE
She likes so what it to anyone else? You sound like it’s personal. Are a hater?
Money will get you everything but it will not give you happiness within💯
AT 17 she was not mature. If you can get bullied about your body and not be able to handle that, you're not mature. Her parents failed her.
She’s not even mature during this video, and I’m sorry her vocabulary and intellect level is at a 3rd grade level, not even excusing her accent from BX or being Spanish, She sounds completely illiterate. And she can’t answer his questions like an adult. But whatever makes her happy 🤷🏽♀️
Big fail!!!
I don’t think they failed I turned out great in life thank God. They gave me confidence I didn’t have. If your parents wouldn’t do that for you I’m sorry.
I’m in my 30s. I’m mature and the first bullies of my body were my family members.
I feel her pain. Growing up in Nyc the people are brutal. They will clown you out, yelling flat butt, bad body. Mind you there is no where you can go that is not crowded. Thats public humiliation in front of thousands of people on a daily basis. So, its a lot of pressure to look good.
So, one will risk infection, blood clots, heart attack, etc. after a bad surgery from an unlicensed Dr. Frankenstein? Let people "clown" you. Get a gym membership and find exercises that will enhance your physicality and most importantly, keep you healthy and alive!
I don't know who did that but I have never witnessed that or experienced it so I have to call cap
I'm from NYC, I been slim all my life,, I look good I feel good and I smell good never had problems getting men and never thought about getting no bbl ...
People everywhere are brutal, and there are those who love to make fun of the girl who's skinny or fat or with no butt or no boobs, to that I say so what, those talking can be made fun of too, when you love and accept yourself as you were created you just don't care what people say 🤷🏾♀️
Yes people in NYC are very blunt but don’t blame her internal issues on that. As an 80s baby we got picked on and clowned too in school. The difference is these Gen Zs and Gen Alphas are growing up in the age of social media. Now people all over the world can clown you. Now factor in the fact that her culture starts sexualizing girls at very young ages and place a lot of emphasis on their bodies you have this type of delusional mentality.
The fact that she believes in her mind that she is one of the few who actually got a BBL because she felt she needed it is crazy everyone who makes that major surgical decision feels like they need it that's why they spent all day damn money to get it I just hope her body stays healthy and by the time she turns 40 she's still pleased with it BC she has a long way to go and it will not look the same once her body begins to age and like she said she don't even have children yet
A lot of people get surgeries to please someone else usually a man. She was pointing out she did it for herself.
I love her energy and transparency! She has a beautiful soul and we all have a personal journey in life. I pray all continues to work out and her life is blessed.
I aim to continue to tell little girls in my community how naturally beautiful they are and that they dont need surgery to fit any fake, lame a** esthetics.
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Yeah I got 2 daughters & I let them know how beautiful they are all the time♥️
Excellent!
This interview was full of contradictions. This was the wrong person to advocate for this issue… IMO
This.
Yes...full of contradiction I thought it was just me. But she kept it as real as she could from her portion of understanding
She's not an advocate, please learn the meaning of words. She's just telling her story as she went viral and its a crazy story. She ain't an advocate, grow up lol
I really love her personality. She seems to keep it 💯.. i also really appreciate his questions and the care he gave to not insult her or judge her. Great job 👏🏾 respectfully
Omg love her! She's beautiful and a whole vibe ❤.
I used to live on 167 and Walton Ave in the Bronx. Women from NYC are some of the realest you'll ever meet! Especially from Harlem, Brooklyn and The Bronx!
Facts 💯💯
Samesies Walton and Marcy place
He asks all the right questions at the right time
A lot of insecurities start in families!!! How is it that she is aware of body types at 7/8? This was put in her head probably by Aunts/Uncles maybe praising young girls ohh you're gonna be this and look like that! At 17, the focus should be on teenage things NOT adult things! What if she wants to have kids? She seems like she has a good personality but is lying to herself at 17 she did NOT need it she WANTED this for herself!!!
Ladies surgery is Necessary for Medical reasons and even then you are putting your life in DANGER!!! Google/RUclips ALL the video of the young/old ladies that DIED on the table and left their children/families behind!!!
Cherish what you have and work to improve your body!!!
Yall putting your life at risk and making the surgeons rich!!!
Surgeons get paid whether you Lie or Die!!!!
It’s really a culture thing a lot of West Indian, and Hispanic ppl put these ideologies in their children’s inadvertently for many many many years same thing with skin bleaching smh
When I was like 8 I was gobsmacked when I saw one of my older cousins, she was shaped like a cartoon character. All natural btw. Then I began to notice how shapely and curvy my mother & aunts were. Y’all gotta start to give kids more credit, they can see like the rest of us
This really sad it gets worse and worse as the video go on .. she’s gonna regret this video it’s more embarrassing than the first
I haven’t had a BBL but 20 years ago a good plastic surgeon changed my life too. I know exactly what’s she’s saying. 18:26 I wax crying and thanking them before I ever even got put to sleep. And best money I ever spent too.
A BBL is not a need it’s a want hope a lot of young women watch this!
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I still feel like 17-19 is still too young. You woman’s body or adult body don’t really settle in until 21-25 and maybe a little longer.
I also say don’t be so eager. That recovery is no joke. I had skin removal after weight loss in 3 phases. The abdominal one was the worst so much swelling that you cannot even stand straight. Day by day you wait for the swelling to go down so you can stand straight.
Womens peak fertility is between 16 - 20 yo, their bodies is usually ready during that stage
Yeah I didn't start gaining weight and filling out until 25
She’s not deep at all. She did it at 15 because she was insecure(still is), she compared her body to others. If you had so much self esteem you wouldn’t care about having a small 🍑 you would embrace it. so many reasons
Young lady is 25?!! Bless her, thanks for sharing story.
"The realer you are, the better it is" coming from her thats crazy
That BBL is horrible. I’m so glad that my body is real and I’m thankful I’m from New York. I had an accent and a lot of New York women are low-key insecure and anybody will say we got this of her going viral. She looks unhappy. It’s just really sad. She’s a young girl, you just have to love yourself. She just looks like her whole body is in pain.
Mind too
So. Maybe your face is horrible. Maybe your heart is horrible.
She kept it real. She had the guts to tell her story. Her truth and not from behind a profile pic. She didn't come on here being mean, disrespectful and haughty like you. You got insecurities like every other woman. Maybe climb off your pedestal.
I like her. She's telling her story whether you can just listen and not instantly pass judgment says more about you than her.
~NYCer
I'm not a judge but she's very INSECURE!!! PERIOD!😢🫣
She never loved herself she still don’t poor baby
When she says “look at me now” I’m confused 🫤. What’s she implying after having all those enhancements🤦🏿
That I lost over 100 lbs?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. People are going to think whatever they want too. But I think she looks amazing… and I hope she knows that. Because her opinion of herself is the only thing that matters.
When you don’t maintain after the bbl and gain weight… this usually happens. It’s not the bbl that’s the issue.
She sounds crazy period . Her knowledge shows she’s not even mature enough for a BBL . And it’s not for her it’s for others . Cause keeps repeating I’m not ugly that’s to make herself feel better . She needs therapy
“God knows what he’s doing” but I need to change the way he made me. ….the irony.
This is a parental flaw. The parents should have taught her to love herself FIRST and then once she’s an adult with her own means she can do as she please. To urge a 17 year old to get plastic surgery instead of uplifting and pouring into their child’s self esteem is nasty work. Now here she is addicted to plastic surgery and still critical & insecure about her body.
Well said cuz this is sad af
To get a breast reduction then get implants is insane.then to say u wudnt have kids unless u have lipo money is jus very shallow..smh.i was so amazed by my beautiful baby i wasnt even thinkin about my belly
Well she wanted the attention from her body being shapely🥴 & she got it😬
Wow
Like that’s what you got from this video?
@@lovethetruth953 was this supposed to be an educational piece or …
@@nae8546 yes … it was
@@nae8546😂😂😂😂😂😂cause I didnt learn shi but dont look a mess
This was an immensely insightful interview. She was very authentic and transparent.
New subscriber here! You’re a really good interviewer. Love the way you hold space and don’t judge
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She interviews very well. Well spoken with a down to earth vibe! ❤❤ I liked this one
She made my job extremely easy
Well spoken??? 😂
Well spoken, nah this world is doomed!
lol definitely not well spoken , but she is very down to earth and herself.
In her defense, a lot of them do be built like a refrigerator. I know what she saying 😂🤦🏾♀️
If it AIN'T BROKE.....Don't fix it. Love yourself the way GOD and your parents made YOU.!!!!!!!
This was an awesome video👏 conducted very well. Props to the interviewer and the guest. This is exactly how interviews should go very intentional and informative. Each articulated themselves very well. KUDOS..and we'll wishes to both of them.
She’s worried about all the wrong things. She’s not mentally mature AT ALL but clearly she thinks she is smh. This video doesn’t “help our community” 🤦🏽♀️
Most things on social media doesn’t help our community
At all.
@@mogetit5999 facts but he said the purpose of HIS videos are to help the community, that’s why I said that.
@@Inyabizz ok I see!
She’s very self aware and it’s clear since she was a child, she’s had body dysmorphia as a child & she thought getting surgery would change how she felt about herself & when it did but it also drove her to continue getting it
I just love her realness and personality definitely got mad respect for her and her parents for supporting her ❤❤❤
Same