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  • Опубликовано: 31 май 2022
  • Ben is back from his month of traveling and ready to read through listener drama! Tune in as Ben goes through your tweets and offers advice on navigating toxic friendships, weird encounters, and so much more! Ben highlights the importance of setting healthy boundaries in your friendships and cutting off people who bring you down in life.
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Комментарии • 227

  • @elizabethwhite2558
    @elizabethwhite2558 2 года назад +482

    So crazy to think that this podcast came out as ‘I Almost Died’ when I was in my second semester of junior year and now it’s ‘DRAMA MAMA’ and I’m a high school graduate. Time flies

    • @chinosbaby
      @chinosbaby 2 года назад +8

      wow...

    • @leafyisnothere3365
      @leafyisnothere3365 2 года назад +4

      who asked💀💀💀

    • @RunawayRoyalty
      @RunawayRoyalty 2 года назад +62

      @@leafyisnothere3365 fr? did you think everyone was gonna kiss your feet once you said that?

    • @leafyisnothere3365
      @leafyisnothere3365 2 года назад +2

      @Runaway Royalty what💀💀

    • @elizabethwhite2558
      @elizabethwhite2558 2 года назад +49

      @@leafyisnothere3365 I was just making a statement about how time flies and how much Ben and everyone else has grown since the beginning of the podcast. It doesn’t matter if anyone asked. No one asked for your snarky comment, but it’s still there. Also, it’s not funny. It’s childish. My 10 year old cousin has better comebacks than you. Grow up

  • @aeia_a
    @aeia_a 2 года назад +166

    ben literally can make anything and everything funny 😅
    Genuinely he deserves all the appreciation in the world

    • @loveofmylifeben4097
      @loveofmylifeben4097 2 года назад +2

      agreed He deserves all the happiness in the world Even us too We all love you ben I especially love you too soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo MUCH hehe 😘😍🥰🌹🌹💙💚

    • @Maddie_the_great
      @Maddie_the_great 2 года назад +4

      Ben is the funniest person I’ve ever seen on RUclips 💅 like you know how hard it is to find a funny person on RUclips but I was looking for a video to watch then I am blessed with a video by ben and I was crying laughing 100000101028281919292928292101929/10 would recommend

    • @aeia_a
      @aeia_a 2 года назад +1

      @@Maddie_the_great agreed - Ben is literally so funny though

  • @eepydevil
    @eepydevil 2 года назад +54

    bro i broke it off with my ‘best friend’ of over a year abruptly recently 😭😭 thank you Ben i honestly appreciate you sm you’re funny, cool, everything. we all love you Ben!!

    • @i2bmgyu
      @i2bmgyu 2 года назад +6

      i broke it off with her today because she kept on hanging out with my enemy. she knows what she did to me and the time she shipped us which made us uncomfortable yet shes gonna hang out with her? i quickly replaced her because she replaced me with an enemy, im so nice😇

    • @eepydevil
      @eepydevil 2 года назад +4

      @@i2bmgyu JSHSJSH i isolated myself from everyone for her so replacing her will NOT be easy sadly 😭

    • @i2bmgyu
      @i2bmgyu 2 года назад +2

      @@eepydevil awh sorry :(

    • @Not.Soph938
      @Not.Soph938 Год назад +2

      @@i2bmgyu same honestly- hope your doing better

  • @Arminsgf
    @Arminsgf Год назад +7

    OKAY BUT THE VOCALS IN THE FIRST 10 SECONDS⁉️🔥
    Eating effortlessly

  • @hellothere4419
    @hellothere4419 Год назад +14

    last year was my first year at a new school,none of my friends were in my class so yk i had to make some new ones, long story short, the girls that became my absolute best friends ended up being female dogs and i spend most nights crying myself to sleep. thanks for listening to my rant, ily

  • @coopervaughn2188
    @coopervaughn2188 Год назад +11

    Thanks Ben you made my day I recently had a group of friends that broke off our relationship because they were “bored” of being my friend. This helped me get through it❤

  • @tillyct8937
    @tillyct8937 2 года назад +36

    Take all the time you need Ben!

  • @robin_kaito
    @robin_kaito 2 года назад +77

    Ben i don't know if you're gonna see this but i deeply appreciate you and all the work you do for us. You seriously make my day every time you post. I love you ben💙

    • @subtoantiapple
      @subtoantiapple 2 года назад

      we didn't ask.

    • @leorema
      @leorema 2 года назад +3

      @@subtoantiapple and why u mad ?

    • @subtoantiapple
      @subtoantiapple 2 года назад

      @@leorema when did i even say i was mad lmao

    • @hay6051
      @hay6051 2 года назад +4

      @@subtoantiapple then what reason do you have to be rued???

    • @user-hl6jc6qz2f
      @user-hl6jc6qz2f 2 года назад +1

      r u also a directioner? lol

  • @Tunesmakesmusic
    @Tunesmakesmusic Год назад +4

    i broke up with my best friend of 3 years and i feel happier then i have ever felt! i lost weight picked up hobbies i eat less sleep more drink more water.

  • @h_gordy
    @h_gordy 2 года назад +17

    Congratulations on 100K! 🎉 I’ve been here since the cary first episode of the I almost Died Podcast! Congratulations ben! 🥳

  • @momoluune_
    @momoluune_ 2 года назад +1

    good grief, i had to do this to one friend because they gaslit, manipulated, and triggered me and my friends into falling into dark pits of mental health. it was so ungodly painful, and i still feel the after affects from it. please, if anyone gives you this sick feeling, leave them. it’s not worth the pain.

  • @luvmesumu2
    @luvmesumu2 2 года назад +5

    Congratulations on 100k Ben. I'm so proud of you ❤️

  • @smaya__
    @smaya__ 2 года назад +5

    CONGRATS ON 100k

  • @ItsSimplyyAlexis
    @ItsSimplyyAlexis 2 года назад +9

    CONGRATS ON 100K BENNN💕💕

  • @quit.editor.eviqis
    @quit.editor.eviqis 2 года назад +4

    Happy 100k!! Cg!

  • @katihyde
    @katihyde 2 года назад +3

    Ben i don’t know if your gonna see this but this made my day! i needed this Ty!!! i just went through a friend break up and this really helped!

  • @sweaty_hands6895
    @sweaty_hands6895 2 года назад +14

    u should do "reading ur horror stories" :D idk i like to hear other peoples horror stories lol

    • @christymiller4808
      @christymiller4808 Год назад

      Yeah, I would love that, a lot of scary things have happened in my house

  • @iwantmykidsback1600
    @iwantmykidsback1600 Год назад +10

    the beginning of this episode sounded like my mom when she wakes me up in a “gentle way”

  • @lylahmartin2510
    @lylahmartin2510 2 года назад +1

    Congratulations for 100k!!!!

  • @Sallysillygamer123
    @Sallysillygamer123 2 года назад +7

    H E L L O B E N

  • @anyaupadhyay
    @anyaupadhyay 2 года назад

    Cg on 300k!

  • @xojess_rosexo9157
    @xojess_rosexo9157 2 года назад +3

    100K for DRAMA MAMA 🎉 CONGRATS!!!!

  • @5leeah
    @5leeah 2 года назад

    Yuhh I'm so excited for these podcasts

  • @summerxsparkles4507
    @summerxsparkles4507 2 года назад +2

    Congrats on 100k! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

  • @parkerhull7404
    @parkerhull7404 2 года назад +3

    Sadly, I can't make it to any of the tours/vidcon, but I'm so excited for Ben to meet his fans

  • @24kandis
    @24kandis Год назад +4

    Love your channel Ben!

  • @etgalaxydog5121
    @etgalaxydog5121 9 месяцев назад +3

    my sister's 'friend' TACKLED her and now she says, 'We're cool, forgive and forget' 💀

  • @miracleburgess4260
    @miracleburgess4260 2 года назад +4

    Hey mamas! I love your vids ur a big inspiration to me

  • @dogesk8r592
    @dogesk8r592 2 года назад +5

    This was a great podcast ben, I love your videos you still never fail to make anyone laugh🤣

  • @tillyct8937
    @tillyct8937 2 года назад +4

    MAMAS BEN HIT 100K

  • @andreadeyarmon1640
    @andreadeyarmon1640 2 года назад

    yay its my birf day so perfect timing!

  • @greyson_is_wet
    @greyson_is_wet 2 года назад +5

    happy 100k!

  • @Racc00n._.22
    @Racc00n._.22 2 года назад

    great job on 100k!! did you get the plaq?

  • @Broski..T_T
    @Broski..T_T 2 года назад +11

    U are my actual favorite RUclipsr ever!👻 🤳🏼

  • @anniegihozo2259
    @anniegihozo2259 2 года назад +5

    bens laugh is everything

  • @aidanajjar2479
    @aidanajjar2479 2 года назад

    Congrats on 100k ben

  • @saisha_jayasuriya
    @saisha_jayasuriya 2 года назад +3

    yay!! drama mama is at 100k!!!!!

  • @digitalpixie3255
    @digitalpixie3255 2 года назад

    Congratulations on 100k

  • @giannavallo
    @giannavallo 2 года назад +4

    HI BENJAMIN

  • @mithra_v
    @mithra_v 2 года назад +4

    Clicked as fast as I could ✨rise and shine✨

  • @kurtd5775
    @kurtd5775 2 года назад +1

    Ben. Take all the time you need. We cannot forget that you are human and you need to relax. Do not force yourself Into making videos but we are all glad that you are back!

  • @analeighholman5709
    @analeighholman5709 2 года назад +4

    Could you maybe do an episode of when ur crush has a crush on ur bff or some advice about that topic

  • @ham-brained
    @ham-brained Год назад

    Underrated we love to see it🧡

  • @Nicolajachna
    @Nicolajachna Год назад +1

    dw about taking brakes i allways watch ur old videos over and over again (the omegle jumpscares)lol.

  • @ilikegiuneapigs6465
    @ilikegiuneapigs6465 2 года назад

    Good job on 100k subs! 😆🥳

  • @brego5138
    @brego5138 2 года назад

    Congratulations 🎉 on hitting 💯 k 🎉🎉🎉🤩🤩🤩🥳🥳🥳

  • @fer-wr8cv
    @fer-wr8cv 2 года назад +3

    Rainbow frogs vibz

  • @deardear334
    @deardear334 2 года назад +4

    You're literally my idol

  • @sanaafarhat4562
    @sanaafarhat4562 2 года назад +1

    How are you Ben? You are a great youtuber! Congratulations on 100K subcribers! You are so talented! :)

  • @SimplyStitches1234
    @SimplyStitches1234 2 года назад +2

    Sorta early! You are literally my most favorite RUclipsr ever! You have the ability to make me laugh when I am literally so sad you’re the best bro 😎

  • @addison461
    @addison461 2 года назад +3

    Ben is so sweet and so helpful like i would kill to have a friend like this

  • @Maddie_the_great
    @Maddie_the_great 2 года назад +2

    3:37 me over here sad cuz I can’t go 😫😫 but I still can watch your videos happily 🙄💅 slay Ben 💅💅💅💅 ( it’s 4 in the morning 😭) why am I still awake I have church tomorrow 😭

  • @chilodominguez2007
    @chilodominguez2007 2 года назад

    Ok

  • @AlexDivisi0n-AAO
    @AlexDivisi0n-AAO 2 года назад +4

    HI BEN

  • @sleepy-strawberry_frog9637
    @sleepy-strawberry_frog9637 2 года назад +3

    Hey! I love your new RUclips name!

  • @bella-by3jk
    @bella-by3jk 2 года назад +4

    HEY MAMAS 😟🤚

  • @mattie124
    @mattie124 2 года назад +1

    Yes sir

  • @evyrli
    @evyrli 2 года назад +2

    4:02
    You won’t regret it

    • @coraxob
      @coraxob 2 года назад

      It’s so cute lol

  • @senapiro123
    @senapiro123 29 дней назад

    My drama:All of my friends was a pick me and they were screaming in the break time.then i realize i start to be like them and i stop to talk with them.And i stop going with them like this bla bla and they block me like they are waiting for this.Should i fight with them.And btw when i talk this with them they talk like stubborn and they said its so normal,you blocked us to(in real life),and i never come and talk with somebody.I see their other face.
    Actually experiencing this made me see their second side

  • @sheneakascott3073
    @sheneakascott3073 2 года назад +2

    so crazy thing,I cant go to any of ur events..😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @pepperthetinypooch9476
    @pepperthetinypooch9476 Год назад

    Next Tour can you go to Edmonton please

  • @emma.w.a.dilemma
    @emma.w.a.dilemma 6 месяцев назад +1

    this actually hits so hard bc I js broke up with my bsf of 9 years

    • @gavonion
      @gavonion 3 месяца назад +1

      omg i hope you're feeling better without him/her when did you guys meet, and why did you guys "break up"

    • @emma.w.a.dilemma
      @emma.w.a.dilemma 3 месяца назад +1

      @@gavonion we met when we’re neighbors when we’re like 5 and broke up because she replaced me with my literal bully 😭

  • @mithra_v
    @mithra_v 2 года назад +5

    CONGRATS ON 100K MAMAS WE DID IT

    • @luvmesumu2
      @luvmesumu2 2 года назад +1

      Aww I love this ❤️

    • @mithra_v
      @mithra_v 2 года назад +2

      @@luvmesumu2 Ty! This journey has honestly been amazing and I love how much traction Ben has gotten bc he deserves it!

  • @giannavallo
    @giannavallo 2 года назад +2

    OMG NO WAY U READ MINE IM SHAKING

  • @geturselfanoutfit
    @geturselfanoutfit 2 года назад +3

    hii ben

  • @clarafagetti5515
    @clarafagetti5515 2 года назад +2

    I'M THE GIRL FROM.THE SECOND STORY OMG

  • @sanaafarhat4562
    @sanaafarhat4562 2 года назад +3

    Hi Ben

  • @Sailor_noir
    @Sailor_noir 2 года назад +2

    ( Ignore this ) 16:35

    • @patel6752
      @patel6752 2 года назад +1

      ??

    • @cherrybvues4760
      @cherrybvues4760 2 года назад +1

      @@patel6752 Clearly, you didn't ignore the comment...

  • @crustydustyhellnah9384
    @crustydustyhellnah9384 2 года назад +1

    ✨DEPRESSION ✨

  • @legoman4208
    @legoman4208 2 года назад +2

    I love you ben

  • @lifewsweetheart.
    @lifewsweetheart. 2 года назад +2

    I understand the title the pain

  • @eizlynnlynn9160
    @eizlynnlynn9160 2 года назад

    BEN YOU'RE ALR REACHED TO 100K!!

  • @L1amzx
    @L1amzx 2 года назад +2

    i said " drama mama" in a sad swedish acent

  • @laurenschultz3309
    @laurenschultz3309 2 года назад

    CANT WAIT TO SEE U SATIRADY😊

  • @outlaw88andthewildbunch78
    @outlaw88andthewildbunch78 Год назад

    the beginning grrrr sound scared me

  • @kolbij8026
    @kolbij8026 2 года назад

    okay I love you so much and you mean everything to me!!!:)

  • @oliwiadolega5432
    @oliwiadolega5432 2 года назад +2

    I’m sad I can’t go on your tour bro:(
    POV you live in Europe

  • @lucie7518
    @lucie7518 2 года назад

    I’m so sad I can’t go to tour 🙁

  • @dalilahlopez2902
    @dalilahlopez2902 2 года назад +3

    HI BEN❤️ HOW ARE U?

  • @isabellagraves-bq8vo
    @isabellagraves-bq8vo Год назад

    i feel ike ben could actully sing 😂 ben ilysm❤

  • @LESHAUNDINGLENUT226
    @LESHAUNDINGLENUT226 Год назад

    he went 💀💀💀

  • @Shadow_beachbabes
    @Shadow_beachbabes Год назад

    I just need a lil help on something in my friend group. There is this one girl who hits and bullies everyone and we all end up having tears. She starts up a lot of drama and calls me and the others fat and ugly and we want to cut her off but we don’t know if we r being rude abt it or not. One of the things we did was all get picked up from school in the same car without her and I can’t tell if we r being toxic. I just need to know some other ways to cut people off as well.

  • @aurorak.johnson61
    @aurorak.johnson61 2 года назад +2

    AYYYY

  • @gvllx6848
    @gvllx6848 2 года назад

    Slay what u wanna slay and let the slay slout slay soul sista slay ma sista mista

  • @jewellerybyzayx3493
    @jewellerybyzayx3493 2 года назад +3

    Hiiii ❤️❤️

  • @georgie7534
    @georgie7534 2 года назад +1

    Hi Ben♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @reynadavila4502
    @reynadavila4502 2 года назад +3

    Hii

  • @kgisaqueen
    @kgisaqueen 2 года назад

    I don’t have Twitter. I have so many drama to share but I can't. LOL

  • @jmfrerrrr
    @jmfrerrrr 2 года назад +3

    yo

  • @rukia6983
    @rukia6983 Год назад

    11:11

  • @icloud36
    @icloud36 2 года назад +2

    see you at vidcon!

  • @MnCBowl
    @MnCBowl 2 года назад +3

    hi

  • @pluhpluhdamnnn
    @pluhpluhdamnnn 2 года назад +3

    minion in the corner🤓🤓

  • @CyberCharm34
    @CyberCharm34 2 года назад

    Well the title of this video is actually true Because it actually happened with me today in high school

  • @mayahschannel3401
    @mayahschannel3401 2 года назад +1

    Hi

  • @chloegrace8693
    @chloegrace8693 2 года назад

    I just found out he had this Chanel

  • @KohenFabre
    @KohenFabre 2 года назад

    Do you all remember I Almost Died? Time goes by

  • @ItsAlanaGrace5
    @ItsAlanaGrace5 2 года назад +3

    2nd love your videos s

  • @starburstsd
    @starburstsd 10 месяцев назад

    i dont have facebook or anything but i have a situation.
    On my friends (aim, yes thats her nickname) bday party we went to a trampoline park, and it was a good 3 hours long. Other ppl came but her best friend came too, and she was my best friend at the time as well. After we were all done, me and (ill call her… leni) leni were riding with aim, and we were gonna have a sleepover at her moms house. I had all my things, and so did everyone else. They usually stay up later then me but i adore sleep, so i go to bed a bit earlier then them. (Btw they claimed top bunk and it was one of those beds where theres a desk under the bed, and i had to sleep on the floor with a foam mat.) when i was ready to fall asleep, they start to annoy me by playing obnoxiously loud music, not even music. Its a meme audio which i do find funny, but not when its full volume, and im insanely tired. They start laughing and i told them that i have a sleeping disorder. I also asked them to stop many times, but they just kept going. It went on from 12:47 AM till 3:12 AM, and when they turned off the music, i had asked them “are you done?” And leni said “idk man..”
    … i love sleep more then anything, and if you mess with even one night of it, it means more then just what they might have understood it. I can see their point of view, but what gets me, is how she would help me with other arguments with other “friends” (for some reason i am just a magnet to toxic ppl😅). And she didnt even care to look from my point of view. And when i told her about it, she dares to say “it was only one night.
    IT WAS MORE THEN ONE NIGHT TO ME? She not give a fuck about how it meant to me. And i have more stuff with her that happened recently.
    So i was playing roblox with some old friends (I have been friend with them for 7 years. So we are close.). It was gods will so its a competitive game. I was consecrated on the game, i didn’t realize she had joined. She changes her user like every week so its hard to keep track of, and i had more then one friend named what her user name was. So i was playing, and apparently she was in the game too? Idk but after the game she came yelling at me through discord and was saying stuff like “it was obvious it was me?” and “why were you ignoring me?” And i was saying how i had my chat closed bc it distracts my gameplay. She said “well i chatted didnt i” and aim was coming at me at the same time. So it was hard to keep up with. So i got overwhelmed by what they were saying, and leni responds with “its more then just the game, youve always put yourself first, and i just feel like ive been holding this friendship for a while now… i just dont think this is gonna work.” I froze. I just said i had to go and said idc if you wanna or dont wanna be friends with me. The next day i wake up to seeing a message from her. “Dont worry, ill never have to take a break from you bestie❤”
    ARE YOU SERIOUSLY KIDDING ME? YOU JUST SAID ITS NOT GONNA WORK.
    so i just said i need time to process stuff and its been a good 4 weeks. Am i the jerk? I just dont know how to tell her that i dont really wanna be friends with her too. We are in the same school btw
    oh and i love your videos, podcasts, and etc. i hope everything your doing goes fine❤ keep up the great content! (Ps i was watching one of your vids while all of this was going on❤❤)

  • @loraxmatters
    @loraxmatters 11 месяцев назад +2

    ben please notice me i litterally stopped doing self harm bc of u i had BAD thoughts and u stopped them

    • @elijahfergus
      @elijahfergus 6 месяцев назад

      you should be proud of yourself!! ❤ that is a hard thing to do.