That is a great question why do we wait till we can ‘t take no more or hurt to be honest withourselves rather that’s not being happy or bcuz a man dediced not to take a women’s emotions into account or doesn’t reciprocate or really shown to the women consistent action that they want the women but instead disrespect their girlfriend and don’t care? This may mean that the women may need to do some work with in and self care correct?
I'm a pod cast subscriber. I love the content. Let's get real about celibacy. Involuntary Celibacy.. I think that's where I am.. I'm content. The girlies need to know how peaceful it can be. I'm coming from a situationship in 2022 and just wanted to be by myself.
What about boundaries when dating…Do you believe there is such a thing as too many boundaries when dating someone? Can someone use some boundaries as a means of control…Is that just as much of a red flag as having no boundaries??
Such a good question I feel like sometimes people can use boundaries as a means to no allow people to get too close to them but I would have to hear an example of what you mean
@@MauiTheWriter this last particular time we both got off work at the same time and I was invited to sleepover. I think my tiredness was taken as me having an attitude without me saying anything but immediately they were like “if you have an attitude I don’t have time for that s*** today”….their tone and response to me is always this way and when I express I don’t like how they talk to me their response was and is almost always “I’m setting the boundary”and when it comes down to me not liking something or expressing how what they said or did hurt my feelings then I’m not in control of my emotions and I was crossing a boundary…just the other day they said, “when you gone act right so I can love you” and the issue is me not respecting boundaries…. So then I’m thinking do I really not know boundaries or are they using it as a means to control. I can call but not too much. I can ask questions but not too many…Seems like everything is a boundary.
In my opinion They are definitely gaslighting you and using it as control by dismissing your emotions and not being accountable by how they made you feel. They are making you as if you don’t have a voice that matters in the relationship that you two have. RED FLAGGGG
All good points and it’s crazy how some of this actually applies to friendships too
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That is a great question why do we wait till we can ‘t take no more or hurt to be honest withourselves rather that’s not being happy or bcuz a man dediced not to take a women’s emotions into account or doesn’t reciprocate or really shown to the women consistent action that they want the women but instead disrespect their girlfriend and don’t care? This may mean that the women may need to do some work with in and self care correct?
Come to New York sister
Iam so happy that you said that cause soon as I get comfortable I start cooking for a nigga and shit and it don’t be at that point yet 😊
Yup use to be me too. Except I couldn’t cook lol whole time that haven’t even really did anything for me or to show me they really like me
I be doing the same thing..but I'm doing better with not being bothering no more.
At least your able to be accountable
I'm a pod cast subscriber. I love the content. Let's get real about celibacy. Involuntary Celibacy.. I think that's where I am.. I'm content. The girlies need to know how peaceful it can be. I'm coming from a situationship in 2022 and just wanted to be by myself.
Whew b/c I over extend myself and need to chill.
Can you talk about dating with kids. How did your man overlook that part - his opinion.
Life as a mom & entrepreneur?
Yes ! Thank you those are some great topics !
What do you bring to the table
She is the table and chair
@@bloaf5728 and the table cloth and the cutlery…🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
What about boundaries when dating…Do you believe there is such a thing as too many boundaries when dating someone? Can someone use some boundaries as a means of control…Is that just as much of a red flag as having no boundaries??
Such a good question I feel like sometimes people can use boundaries as a means to no allow people to get too close to them but I would have to hear an example of what you mean
@@MauiTheWriter this last particular time we both got off work at the same time and I was invited to sleepover. I think my tiredness was taken as me having an attitude without me saying anything but immediately they were like “if you have an attitude I don’t have time for that s*** today”….their tone and response to me is always this way and when I express I don’t like how they talk to me their response was and is almost always “I’m setting the boundary”and when it comes down to me not liking something or expressing how what they said or did hurt my feelings then I’m not in control of my emotions and I was crossing a boundary…just the other day they said, “when you gone act right so I can love you” and the issue is me not respecting boundaries…. So then I’m thinking do I really not know boundaries or are they using it as a means to control. I can call but not too much. I can ask questions but not too many…Seems like everything is a boundary.
In my opinion They are definitely gaslighting you and using it as control by dismissing your emotions and not being accountable by how they made you feel. They are making you as if you don’t have a voice that matters in the relationship that you two have. RED FLAGGGG
Can you talk about moving on from bm/bd
Yes I love this topic
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