I was 14 when my father died at quite a young age. He was the breadwinner and my mother was left to look after myself and my sister alone on very little money. I recall being sad during my teenage years and it was very hard to realise I would never see my father again or hear his voice. I am now elderly but I can happily say, much as I loved my father and still think of him a lot, I haven't let the loss of him define me. I know for sure my dad would not have wanted his death to spoil my life. I sympathize with anyone suffering mental health, but I can't help feeling Harry needs to do his therapy in private and start looking forward.
He’s only 4 years into therapy. It’s still new/raw and he’s probably in the stage where he’s proud to share about his progress to others. I wish he would have given himself another 5 or 10 years to grow, get perspective, before sharing his personal journey with the world.
@@jittaun248 In the Apple+ series that just dropped this week, Harry explained that he has been undergoing continuing psychological treatment for the last 4 years. That doesn’t mean Harry is lying or insinuating he’s never been to a counselor before. It’s a great thing that Harry finally found a form of therapy that is effective for him.
THAT IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH!! AND IT IS ABOUT TIME!!! WILLIAM LOST HIS MOTHER TOO! AND SHE WAS HIS MOTHER FIRST!!ALSO HE IS NOT TRYING TO CASH IN ON HIS MOTHER'S MEMORY!! MAY SHE REST IN PEACE😪
@@bonniemoore3461 but William will be King....he's expected to keep his emotions tightly to himself. That's the way the Mornachy raised him. So is Charles. That's why Harry describes them as being "trapped."
William said his mother was paranoid, lived in fear and was isolated while Harry said she was an honest and resilient woman. Very contrasting memories of their mother!
Sorry Linda but you are so wrong Both the boys were hugged when out of the main thoroughfare of mourners They were shown in an archway when the senior members spoke to and stroked them You can see it on the recording of the funeral Please don't slate Charles Philip and Earl Spencer
Does anyone get that Diana was a woman in her mid 30s, she knew exactly what she was doing. Don't forget that the whole point of that documentary was to create her brand and get a good divorce. Harry is doing the exact samething, exploiting his position for monetary gain
Oprah should not allow Harry to speak out so publicly about his issues especially targeting young people.It could be damaging.Its like telling people what medicine to take with out doctors advice.
Maybe some people I.e. William does not feel the need to satisfy other peoples morbid obsession with his mother and her death to discuss it in public all the time. Him and Harry did a documentary on the 20th anniversary of her death and he said that would be the last one he would do on the subject.. maybe these ghouls on loose women should respect his decision. And maybe they should remember Philip did comfort William ( who was next to him ) during the funeral walk
donna wills well said. It must be hard for both and I think Harry is feeding these sick people’s obsession with their mother. They take a microscope 🔬 to the RF instead of dealing with their own issues.
What works for one person doesn’t work for others. I’ve had a friend who lost her dad at 7 and lived (what i assumed) was happy life even with that loss. 3 years ago she took her life and part of the note she left read- “I can be with dad now and the pain will stop. I wish I talked more open about the pain but I didn’t want everyone to have to worry about me”. That taught me a huge lesson- silence can be the death of someone suffering! Loss and grief appears and affects people differently! To give those who feel they need to talk the space to do so! So often, we say, we had this happen to us and we dealt with it a certain way- well we are all different from each other and what works for us might not work for others and we should try our best not to project our feelings onto others! Would we like if someone told us how to grieve🤷🏼♀️ Sending love and hope to all those suffering!
Very good points. I lost a family member to suicide and we knew he was having trouble but I remember a lot of people thinking it was because he was still a teenager. It's not something you really recover from. You just learn how to live with the grief and sometimes confusion about what could have been done to help him. He tried to talk to people, but no one knew what to do.
Harry is not well at all. His mental health is declining by the minute. Stop letting him in front of the camera and get him some help right now. Marriage and parenthood have obviously re-traumatised the poor man and his paranoia is concerning.
He is making this series on mental health in order to help others who are going through the experience he went through. If you're not one of the target audience or not interested, you can move along, you don't have to watch.
Why now that prince William is speaking out.the Royal and British except it from William with so much praise.But When Harry talks about it he has gotten a lots of negative criticisms. I don't think Prince Charles and Princess Diana married would have last because he cheated on her. Charles aways wanted to be with Carmela. And Diana knew it. The report was wrong for tricking her. But she was having problems within the Royal family already. They need to except what really happened. They keep blaming Meghan for Harry leaving but he said he wanted out.And the why the Royal reporters and the British newspapers. Keeping talking badly about Maghan and dragging her name through the mud. And non of the family spoke up in her defense. Not even Prince William or Prince Charles.
Lossie Scott Charles didn't want to marry Diana, he was forced to, because he was told that he was getting old and he needed an heir, that was an arrange marriage that shouldn't have taken place.
@@moimeself1088 by suppressing? You mean he has to emulate Harry for you to approve of his therapy? You mean if he doesn’t spill to the world through a microphone then he is suppressing his trauma? Logic?
@@moimeself1088 I don't see William suppressing anything. He has always conducted himself with dignity and continues to do so. He speaks about his mother's death if and when it is appropriate, not to gain sympathy like his brother.
@@bobbidazzler1343 so everyone talking about their mental health isn't allowed to tell their story as it is, if you suppress Harry, people with mental health worries might be afraid to speak up.
@@esme8944 The thing is, Harry and Meghan's 'truth' has been proved to be untrue, 17 or 18 times. They make claims without backing them up. I will gladly listen to either of them if they prove what they are saying. X
My legs physically would not work at my brothers funeral, the minute I see the car with his coffin ,my legs went like jelly my sister had to basically hold me getting out the car was the same ,I was 40 yrs old this was ten yrs ago how those two boys walked behind their mothers coffin i dont know it must of been so painful 💔
I have sat down with both my parents and rationally discussed I will not be attending their funeral. Not out of disrespect, quite the opposite and they understand. I too would not be able to physically or mentally handle it and would want to remember them as they were. I am probably going to do something completely normal and mundane instead and let my older brother take charge of it all.
@@trancehi a funeral is part of the grieving process. But if you’re set on not going then you must find a different way to grieve because that’s the road to healing. I’m sorry for being insensitive 🙏🙏🙏
Meghan is not in the same situation as Diana. She is not being chased down the street in her car by hundreds paparazzi - rather, she smiles for the camera. Harry is dealing with paranoia of things that are not based in reality. He needs to continue his therapy.
Just because she's Not follow down the street with camaras etc doesn't mean she's Not followed. She's followed by negativity & persecution by the uk press & the Firm
These discussions are for Willian and Harry it’s time we all butted out (including myself here) I wish you both well , Harry talk to your brother not the world.
So true. Harry has to privately deal with his anger and come to terms with it. His brother was young too, he also suffered. This public airing just cause more pain.
Like four women talking over their garden fences, very real. Prince William is the dignified man we need at present to represent the very best of being a member of our Royal Family. Diana was used and abused, so wrong.
The best healing method for these children is not BBC apologies, but their father apologize publicly to the world, for the way he pushes Diana , and now his children is in the driver's seat trying to clean up his mess
Aww bless u Brenda I know this really hits home, let’s just be kind ppl. Them poor boys must be so traumatic for them to live with. Rip Princess Dianna 🙏🏽❤️
Harry said he thinks his mother is looking down proud of him. But as you've mentioned, the boys are not together, and that would definitely not have her happy. Worst of all, I doubt there will ever be a semblance of a good relationship ever again.
How do you know they are not together? Do you have evidence or just listening to what the press say. Provide evidence? What my eyes saw were two brothers chatting with each other during Prince Philip's burial, that's good enough for me to know that at least they are on talking terms.
Why doesn't PRINCE HARRY TALK OVER HIS BUSINESS.WITH HIS BROTHER OR HIS.FATHER NOT WITH.OPRAH SHE IS JUST A TV INTERVIEWER NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST KNOWS NOTHING THIS IS ALL SO MESSY AND GETTING WORSE PUTTING ALL ON TV GET HELP
Sadly if Harry doesn’t build bridges with his family his children could be speaking out in years to come about their sadness at being cut off from their grandparents, uncle & cousins.
Leaving behind people who don't support you at your lowest is the best thing you could do for your children and future children. He cut off a very unhealthy cycle. Well done Harry!
@@sussexsquadsista5595 Funny how he didn't think they were toxic until Meghan came along. He said he didn't realise he was trapped until she told him! Classic controlling behaviour.
Please ladies take a leaf from Lady Colin Campbell.....you ladies are very wimpy and so pro Harry and acting like his mother. Lady C has many followers because her diction is impeccable unlike you ladies and she knows her stuff and comments in a very fair way. I am neutral,however, I do know when a person is not taking their meds,thus out of control. Meghan and Oprah are doing what Bashkirs did. I will never watch your programme again it ranks like a soap opera on American television for the bored housewives!!
All the money, access and means in the world and 28 years later he hasn't dealt with it, what good is all this therapy and talking to the world doing, I'm not seeing any progress, if anything his mental health appears to be disintegrating before our eyes. Yet William is on such an even keel without the need to do a tell all.
What do mean even kill, he is dieing inside. Please the keeping quiet is to appease the firm nothing more. Because the reason for the pain loosing your Mom and your family breaking up is rubbed in your face daily, your Dad married the mistress, hello #chicos
Imagine Diana died so young living her Children without a mother? Mother's love is so important to any child. I lost my parents when we were young, I can't explain enough how painful journey I was through with my siblings. I always miss my Mother till today. I always understand what Williams and Harry go through. No one will feel till you go through it!.
William speaking up helps others too. His speech was very powerful. As men we need role models who stand strong and speak their mind and deliver it with conviction and strength. Even if it’s just one time.
I don't think lady Diana and Prince Charles would of been together cause Prince Charles made up his mind he wanted to be with Camilla from early on in the marriage yes I do think that the paparrazzi was part of Diana death cause if the car wasn't driving so fast to get away the accident wouldn't have happened the paparazzi should of been held accountable for what they did
Maybe if Diana and Dodi hadn't tipped off the press that night things would be different. She was no angel either, she gad affairs with at least 5 married men, one wife had to contact the Palace because she was constantly phoning their house and putting the phone down.
Yeah, they may still end up divorce but more amicable less acrimonious. Less toxic for the children. Diana’s paranoia led her to refused official protection services. If she was with better support staff the driver wouldn’t be that driver who thought he should escape from the paps and he wouldn’t have had a few drinks.
I don't think he meant they would be together,but they had been separated 3 years and became friends ,this interview meant their divorce was acrimonious in the end ..
You people are weird ! Bashir did not force those words out of Diana’s mouth ! She spoke her truth she said the same truths to Andrew Morton years before ! Charles admitted to affair year before ! Please ! Stop trying to rewrite history
This is what we call the outcome of an investigation into corrupt and unethical practices. It is rewriting history, you’re right, all for the conscience of Diana’s loved ones affected, her staff her friends and the conscience of the BBC staff who were bullied when they reported of the deceit. Not to support your narrative 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
He falsified information to obtain the interview . He lied to make Lady Diana feel safer with a BBC newsman than her own staff. THAT IS NOT ABSENCE OF MALICE. The price has been a questionable result of a ROYAL MARRIAGE, the questional result of a ROYAL TITLE, AND THE MENTAL HEALTH IF TWO YOUNG MEN BOTH ROYAL PRINCES . This does not call for control of the media. This calls for Judeo Christian ETHOS. DO NO HARM. THE MEDIA HAS THE POWER OF A PHYSICIAN. DO NO HARM.
The BBC just exacerbated an already very fragile situation. But the blame cannot solely rest with them, Charles infidelity was happening long before that interview!
Diana was having affairs too so Charles is not the only one to blame. This is not their fault it’s the BBC and Bashir. Let’s not change the narrative of what this issue is.
@@ally_bally6728 She had her affair long after Charles did. Hed been cheating on her with Camilla before they were married, and continued well after that. Diana gave him multiple chances to cut his ties to Camilla, and he didn’t. So why shouldn’t she seek another relationship?
@@melaniewilliams1351 I didn’t say anything about her not being able to but this convo changes the narrative about the interview. The affairs have nothing to do with the way the interview was obtained and why this post has been put up.
Love you four on the panel today . Keep it that way please 🇨🇦. Loved HRH Prince Williams speech . Worthy of a future King . But I am afraid Mr Markle has burned all his bridges as far as I am concerned . He always makes money from his poor Mother’s death . He is in a terrible state and need treatment and medication. He definitely is in no position to lecture us on mental health.
I am Happy for Harry that he is able to talk about his feelings. It's ridiculous when people say that Wlliam also lost his mother. We all react differently to grief. William is the future King and is unable to express his feelings as freely as Harry. Wishing Harry Meghan Archie and baby girl every happiness and joy. We all deserve joy and happiness regardless of our position in life.
First of all plenty of people cheat in a marriage it wasn't uncommon then and it isn't now, second it would of been very difficult to live with someone who everytime there is a bickerment has the feeling of harming themselves and has extreme mental health issues especially at that time Diana's issues were only exacerbated by Charles cheating and not caused by them, Diana's childhood trauma is what caused her to have mental, emotional and physical health issues and third this interview made the relationship worse as now I'm sure Charles and the whole family wouldn't of been able to trust Diana to not speak to the press 24/7 along with the interview courting the media and her time with her 2 sons who I'm sure would of liked their privacy when spending time with their mum, also would like to point out because of this interview Diana also declined the queens offer of security on the basis that at that time Diana felt paranoid that this security would of been bad because of the tactics that Martin Bashir did made Diana feel she couldn't trust the security which then led Diana to be a target for all the paps, what was the Queen to do force the security onto Diana without consent??
Yes they are "normal" and reason being they don't have titles and they don't capitalise off of the family and they definitely have never blamed the family for any downfall they have ever had so your point is what exactly
Harry needs to STOP. He's been in "therapy" for years!!! He needs a better counsellor. Those closest to him who allow or encourage him to spill his guts EVERY SINGLE DAY are not helping him....or US.
Totally agree 28 years later and he is still stuck in the same place. Access to the best support in the world and all this talking yet he seems to be deteriorating not getting better
Was'nt it great how open and honest diana was in the interview talking about mental health, bolimia, self harm she spoke her truth why should anyonebe ashamed of that interview
Her interview has some untruths but she didn’t lie. Yes, she was honest with her feelings, feelings which was formed from Bashir’s lies. We are not ashamed of Diana but Bashir’s corruption and BBC’s top men’s cover up of the unethical means.
@@wickedwillis5611 Let's not forget that his father gave his interview first in which he publicly admitted to adultery and said the marriage had irretrievably broken down. How humiliating that was.
As soon as someone comes out with the phrase telling "Their truth" or "my truth" I switch off as you can be sure it is not 'The truth' & is anything but. Packk it in with the inane Americanisms Loose Women.
The way it seems is that Diana was the boys link to the real world. When she died, they became priveledged prisoners of a sort. Harry "defecting" was only a matter of time and I don't think Meghan had anything to do with it. She may have reinforced what he already felt but he was looking for a way out. And so what?! It's his life after all.
My dear, the more you speak out about traumatic experiences the more it helps, of course but doesn’t need to be done in public, and doesn’t need to be aired for the world and for you to know 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Are you trying to justify Harry’s constant yapping of who wronged him? William doesn’t need to be like Harry, one is enough but Harry needs to be more like William.
This is different from person to person. Some people process the pain and don’t want to mention it anymore because they left it behind and it’s uncomfortable for them to come back to something that they decided to leave behind. Others need to keep on it over and over. And others just use the pain as a reference point. It depends on the person.
Harry has a lot to answer. Had he taken the call from Diana, history would have been written differently. Harry is bitter and venting this anger in himself. Also his wife is taking advantage of his bitterness for her own financial gain.
@@sucheng8392 Agree. He doesn’t care who else he is hurting, and in my opinion he is in a state of hallucination where only his own view exists. I’m starting to think that he is a sociopath.
@@taradalik1405 The difference I concede and concur, thank you for your well-thought answer. What irks me is one of the ladies saying that she's glad to at last see that William is opening up and not suppressing his pain. It sounded to me like the Royal Family or any public figure should open up about their pain and misery and even breakdown on TV for all to see, so that the public can appreciate what they're going through and sympathise with their sufferings? Because that 's exactly what Harry is doing and people are fed up with him. Sounded like an implication that William is now showing his pain, we should all cut Harry some slack for going over the top. Well, as long as Harry keeps going public about it, the public will react - positive and negative - because it's in public space.
@@nocturnalowl5867 yes, I noticed that, and also noticed that people believe in what they want to and not in what is before their very eyes. Prince William’s statement mentions the tragic consequences of a setup done by a BBC reporter, and he points out what that meant to him personally and his family, and the amount of misery they had to cope with. But essentially he was approving the enquiry, requesting providences and stating that such practices are damaging to everyone, as his mother’s sad situation proves. And in fact he is asking that those who are accountable to be dealt with, because it is important to have a free no reliable press. His statement was excellent. He spoke for him and for others, including the BBC itself, that needs a good shake and a cleansing.
I lost my dad when I was 6 years old, I lost my Cousin (who was more like my brother) at age 16, I lost both of my grandfathers at age 20 within a month of each other. I learned how to forgive, how to be strong and how to accept that death is part of life. I miss all of them very much every single day, but I learned to move on with my life. I learned how not to let my grief take control of my life. We all have had lost in our lives, but it’s something very personal and in my own personal experience I would not be making it so public. This grief is mine alone but it doesn’t control my life. I enjoy life while I still miss my love ones.
Were any of them hounded by the media? Lied to get an interview from them that led to divorce? Died while pursued by paparazzi? Apples with apples, please.
@@seaofghosts one was killed by a drunk driver, then I had to help out with my grandfathers who both had Alzheimer’s. So yes it was very stressful and painful for the whole family. Everyone has their own pass that is painful but we need to move on if not it is not healthy for anyone.
@@cynthiabeason6591 But it's not Harry's experience. Nor is Harry you. No one can tell another what to feel and how long it should take them to get over it. IMO, the issue is how Harry is publicly dragging his family into it that has nothing to do with Diana's death.
I remember the public outcry surrounding Dianas death, and the traumatic affect it had on the British public at the time. We were a country in a state of mourning., but what I remember above all is the public pressure that was put on the RF and the Queen to be seen to be in mourning, to reflect the sadness of rthe nation . The demand by the public to seee the Queen make comment on Dianas death , even though at the time she was in Balmoral with Harry and William helping them to cope with the loss of their Mother. The public demanded the Royal family mourn with them, It was the public that demanded Harry walk behnd his mothers coffin at 12 years old, without thought or consideration as to whether he wanted to or not.. The point I am making is that we are all complicit in the mental crisis that Harry faced, and is facing, and more importantly in Dianas death . We make demands on this family because they are royalty and pvrivileged, without thinking about the emotional damage to them from a human perspective,.. Ether this or we project some sort of soap opera narrative into their lives . As much as the Press ,and in this case the BBC, must be held accountable for this flagrant and illegal manipulation of Diana with regards to this interview,, consider thiis, if there was no demand for the salacious details of the RFs lives, there would be no press demand, because the media circulate and print news that will sell . ( money and ratings) , and in saying this I am fully aware that it is the media that steer the narrative , however we the public devour it all up , amd demand for more and more, and nothing,, absolutely nothing has changed since Dianas death. Peace
William shouldnt have said that Diana led a false narrative and the interview wasn’t legitimate. She spoke similar things before in Andrew Morton’s book and in published tapes so it was her truth. Thankfully Harry said she was unquestionably honest. Diana’s voice shouldn’t be silenced. It’s not up to William to say it contributed to his parents bad relationship as it seems very pro Charles not taking into account what Diana said and how she felt
I think he meant ,there were things she said that she wouldn't have if she hadn't been so angry ,things she deeply regretted and caused her pain ,he should know ,he was there ,he was the one she turned too ,he became her rock ,the one that passed her tissues while she cried ..Harry was protected by his brother as much as possible from his mother's hurt ...
@@Carole1279 Or maybe it's because he's now a grown man ,and has decided to let old hurts go in regards too his parents ,..Hate does no good in the end ...
If Harry can speak his truth why can’t William? See the problem with pushing for this “my truth” to be relevant in deciding who was factually truthful? What is wrong with the son defending his father? He has forgiven him and learnt life lessons from him. Charles may not be a good husband to Diana but he did his best for his children. Diana’s answers to Bashir’s questions were formed from Bashir’s forgeries and lies. Bashir was her personal friend and may have started feeding her falsehoods from whence they first met. Big possibility.
It's not just the bbc the tabloids and other media outlets should be investigated too and apologise because as much the bbc was wrong atleast their acknowledge their fault and took accountable. The tabloids are busy pointing fingers at the bbc as though they were not the once who wrote nonsense about her and had photographers constantly chasing her around. This is not about politics it is about hamun values and human exploitation by the media that those tabloids do this very day and still never take accountability, justice and peace for all no matter gow much privilege one has it doesn't justify what these papaers put these royals through at all, you can treat them horribly because of their privilege when majority of them profit of royals, want a monarchy and also no one wants communism and rightly so. Sondeal with the fact that there will be people richer than you and also the money royals get is not directly from the taxpayer but from the crown estate were they get 18-25% of the profits from their estates, land and properties that are not private which they now share with the government because of the agreement with George V, so the abuse they get to this day is not right one bit. I just want to cry for them honestly and i am so angry for the both of them and their entire family.
I agree, it's also double standard, the royal family needs the BBC just to verify they exist and the BBC needs the royals to make money. The BBC has been under the royal family since lizzy years.
to speak so publicly about their pain is very validating for others who are going through pain. How one feels, felt and the way that you try to move forward with no support and how your mental health suffers, i feel, is very important to hear anyone talk publilcly about it. The reach that this will have to help people in regard to their mental health is immeasurable.
I’ve not liked the BBC for past 2years & not watched or listened to them as I don’t agree with the TV Licence or radio licence. Their programs are also not great anymore. I’d rather pay for something that gives multiple choice viewing.
This is HIGHLY suspect. This is 25 some years old. ALL of us have had horrendous tragedies with a stiff upper lip. I certainly have and haven't trashed others for it. DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR INEXCUSABLE BEHAVIOR. It is absurd they are whining about her death 25 years later! UNREAL! ENOUGH!
Charles did'nt protect Diana .he was busy to focus on his mistress Camela. Hary is right to run away From the toxic british media. Look at what piers morghan is doing on tv every occasion and nobody can't stop him Because Meghan cut him off. I'ts big shame for british media
Are you saying William is not choosing his wife and children first? If William felt Catherine and his children were suffering he would abduct his position but Catherine is a strong person and his children are protect by him and Catherine so to me it's not about breaking any mould it's about doing what you feel is right for your own family and William has done so for his wife and children in the way he wants to so don't go saying Harry has done something different nope he sure hasn't
He is angry at the BBC and rightly so, William isn't stressed because he has his soul mate Catherine by his side, as for his career/job well don't we all get stressed I know I do so I'm not about to say he seems stressed we all feel stress so William looks fine
1. THANK YOU FOR KEEPING THE COMMENTS OPEN. 2. Lovely topic. I hope harry and william continue to speak out. The old days are gone, time for them to give a new face to that family. 3. Nadia, i love you as a panelist. As moderator or whatever, pls give others a chance to speak. We would like to hear from them as well. Thank you!
Stop trying to make lady Diana into a Saint. The BBC and Martin Bashir did not kill Lady Diana. He didn't make Charles stay inlove with Camilla etc. YA blame the driver, the no seatbelts, the paparazzi, the Royal family, blame the BBC so much blame. This was an unfortunate accident trying to blame everyone and anything will never change what happened. The trauma of the men who lost there mother is real. We empathize with them.
Harry is in a very very good place he’s come to the realization why these things are happening to him that’s the first healing why is he talking about it because he knows and other people are experiencing things in their life and don’t understand why.
Oprah is manipulating Harry’s weak mind and Meghan is weaponising his grief! Harry is commercialising his mother’s death. BOYCOTT all Oprah, Harry & Meghan programs!!!!
“The more you speak about traumatic things the more it does help.” Please stop. This is not true, and neuroplasticity research increasingly shows it. Talking endlessly about trauma can very easily get someone stuck in that trauma because it teaches the brain to focus on it at the expense of anything else. I’d love this panel to dig a little deeper and be a bit more thoughtful about exactly why it they believe it is helpful to Harry to expose all this vulnerability in front of the entire world. And, perhaps, to wonder why Meghan and Oprah are encouraging and facilitating it. He appears to be going into an ever darker and angrier spiral; he’s now totally isolated from his original support base, surrounded by people wanting money and publicity out of him, increasingly paranoid, and over-sharing in front of the entire world. He is indeed repeating Diana’s history, almost exactly, and it’s all his own doing. Many of us can see this, or sense it on an intuitive level, and because of that we also sense that this is going to end very badly indeed.
Really? did no one pick up on the fact that William reiterated that his mother was paranoid a condition (she was never diagnosed as having), his parents were never going to reconcile because Charles said he never loved Diana and had affair"s" throughout the marriage. His focus was on Bashir rather than what his mother revealed, shame on him.
Where was all this emotion and support for Meghan when she spoke of how the press hounded her, degraded her and manipulated her and her image. Oh wait ...
Just such a sad family saga. The Royal Family needs to take some responsibility for Diana's life challenges and the impact on her children. Harry is brave to speak out and get help for himself. and make the necessary life changes to get him and his family into a better mentally healthy situation. Shame on the BBC. The interview should never be aired again and any awards the BBC received for it should be rescinded!!
Who can afford therapy in the U.S. in the for-profit medical care system? Is he going to pay for the therapy sessions? Does he address the inequality of people not being able to access therapy? "London's a trigger" is reason he came up with to leave U.K. His mother, who was not wearing a seat belt, had a history of speeding and in the car with an intoxicated driver, died in France. Just Harry should be taken out of the line of succession, because he'd need to be in London a great deal of time, to perform duties of a British King! Harry wants to speak to the international community. As an international community, let's respond! To protect healthy relations between the U.S., U.K. and the Commonwealth, the international (everyone on Earth) public should sign Lady Colin Campbell's Change. org petition requesting Just Harry to ask the Queen to put all his titles in abeyance. The link to this petition is provided on her 5/20/2021 RUclips channel, in the drop down box (click arrow next to title of video), within first couple of lines. The international public can use their voice by signing it, and if they want, also leave Just Harry a message. Link (remove space between the "e" in change and the "." before org): www.change .org/p/the-public-invitation-to-prince-harry-to-request-the-queen-to-put-his-titles-into-abeyance?redirect=false
Oprah & Harry content is not helping people’s well-being, this is triggering, unhealthy and highly dangerous propaganda aimed at lining their pockets! BOYCOTT Oprah, Harry & Meghan programs
The statement which was made by William about the BBC that’s exactly Harry was trying to tell people all along but he was misunderstood that’s why he moved away.
5:42: exactly - one is grieving with dignity, the other...well, his wife successfully managed to convince him that she is a reincarnation of his mother... For RF this is just sad. For my lectures on neuro-psychopathology, MM and H are brilliant.
William seems to forget that Charles had done his interview a year or two earlier admitting that he saw still in love with camellia. Also Andrew Morton’s book confirmed everything the interview stated, pure facts.
and no one is critiquing William throwing his mother under the bus by labelling her paranoid, and distancing his father's/royal family's role in diana's greater story.
@@rachelsavard851 William is considered the perfect one, but he did an interview stating when he's with his children, he sees his mother. He should seek help also so he can talk his feelings out, your inside take care of your outside and William is balding fast.
Noone is denying Charles cheated not least Charles 🤦♀️🤦♀️ the problem here is the interview divided the two and made the relationship worse in terms of custody and co-parenting what part of that don't you get
@@rachelsavard851 she was paranoid though, and if William confirms this then I believe him as he was there he is Diana's son remember, he is the older son remember, William was there and you were not remember
@@kylieballard2123 i'm not discussing the 'truth' of whether she had feelings of paranoia, or the state of her relationship with her ex-husband, just that for decades there's been a media campaign to paint her as the problem and reframe the charles story, especially with camilla etc. and William has in essence publically taken a side (yet doesn't get critiqued for it - which in turn speaks to the bias the british have when it comes to the royal family)
I lost all my so-called friends 😀 my wife and my kids are now my best friends. To speak out about what my wife, have to deal with because she's not white.. turned you against me but that's alright because we all have our own bottles to fight in this life!
Diana may have been deceived by Bashir for the interview, it doesn’t erase the fact that she spoke her Truth that everybody knew and saw played out in her live and death. The way she was treated by the jealous and heartless husband Charles, her mother and father in-law’s silence to her pain, and lack of support, was what broke and destroyed her mental health and eating disorder, also emanated in her adultery and other negative behaviour as revenge for the way the family treated her. she really suffered. RF are wicked and Toxic. People should not overlook that fact because they love and respect the Queen. Bad is Bad. Diana also had premonition the husband was planning to kill her in a car crash in earlier interview with Andrew Morton. Why didn’t William investigate the real cause or perpetrators of their mother’s murder; instead of trying to clean up for monarchy’s inappropriate acts and now trash or dismiss his mothers truths given it no merit . That is an insult to his mother. Throwing his dead mother under the bus second time around, just like he did his brother Harry and wife for good Press and Popularity. Pathetic! He should be ashamed of himself. Hat up for Harry, who is more humane, kind giving a genuine and impactful service globally, and a very honest, God fearing and responsible husband and father. God will continue to bless and protect him and family from all evil plans in Jesus mighty name.
The Me Me Me Me You Can’t See, lol ! as long as his jealous wife and Oprah Winfrey whisper and feed his paranoia, self-centered spoiled Harry will go on sending his family under the bus on Tv for all the millions of dollars they can all get ! It has become more and more disgusting !
I was 14 when my father died at quite a young age. He was the breadwinner and my mother was left to look after myself and my sister alone on very little money. I recall being sad during my teenage years and it was very hard to realise I would never see my father again or hear his voice. I am now elderly but I can happily say, much as I loved my father and still think of him a lot, I haven't let the loss of him define me. I know for sure my dad would not have wanted his death to spoil my life. I sympathize with anyone suffering mental health, but I can't help feeling Harry needs to do his therapy in private and start looking forward.
Well said and my was the same lost my father at 13. Still still miss him and my mum.
The difference is getting can't talk about it before he kept his feeling quiete for so long that looks like damage him badly
He’s only 4 years into therapy. It’s still new/raw and he’s probably in the stage where he’s proud to share about his progress to others. I wish he would have given himself another 5 or 10 years to grow, get perspective, before sharing his personal journey with the world.
@@maggie7843 but he has.constantly said he had therapy well BEFORE meeting Meghan.
@@jittaun248 In the Apple+ series that just dropped this week, Harry explained that he has been undergoing continuing psychological treatment for the last 4 years. That doesn’t mean Harry is lying or insinuating he’s never been to a counselor before. It’s a great thing that Harry finally found a form of therapy that is effective for him.
I wonder how the Palestinians are feeling with the massacre of mothers fathers and children and entire families. 🥲💕
Maybe you should ask Hamas why they are using children as human shields!!!!!!
lol... they aren't innocent....
I wish peace and healing for William and Harry.
Yes!!!
Finally people remember that William was also Diana's son.
Amen! 👑💜
Right
THAT IS THE ABSOLUTE TRUTH!! AND IT IS ABOUT TIME!!! WILLIAM LOST HIS MOTHER TOO! AND SHE WAS HIS MOTHER FIRST!!ALSO HE IS NOT TRYING TO CASH IN ON HIS MOTHER'S MEMORY!! MAY SHE REST IN PEACE😪
@@bonniemoore3461 but William will be King....he's expected to keep his emotions tightly to himself. That's the way the Mornachy raised him. So is Charles. That's why Harry describes them as being "trapped."
He doesn’t act like it!!!
William was so dignified. What a great man to respect. The other one is so negative can’t respect his lack of compassion
William said his mother was paranoid, lived in fear and was isolated while Harry said she was an honest and resilient woman. Very contrasting memories of their mother!
Sorry Linda but you are so wrong Both the boys were hugged when out of the main thoroughfare of mourners They were shown in an archway when the senior members spoke to and stroked them You can see it on the recording of the funeral Please don't slate Charles Philip and Earl Spencer
These people seem to want to see public figures have a breakdown in public. I wonder why? Perhaps to validate their own pain or insecurity?
The boys should not have walked behind the coffin, such a traumatic event. Nobody was protecting them.
Does anyone get that Diana was a woman in her mid 30s, she knew exactly what she was doing. Don't forget that the whole point of that documentary was to create her brand and get a good divorce. Harry is doing the exact samething, exploiting his position for monetary gain
Both of them are bonkers.
Spot on 👍
Oprah should not allow Harry to speak out so publicly about his issues especially targeting young people.It could be damaging.Its like telling people what medicine to take with out doctors advice.
Harry is an adult. If not Oprah it’s someone else.
Maybe some people I.e. William does not feel the need to satisfy other peoples morbid obsession with his mother and her death to discuss it in public all the time. Him and Harry did a documentary on the 20th anniversary of her death and he said that would be the last one he would do on the subject.. maybe these ghouls on loose women should respect his decision. And maybe they should remember Philip did comfort William ( who was next to him ) during the funeral walk
donna wills well said. It must be hard for both and I think Harry is feeding these sick people’s obsession with their mother. They take a microscope 🔬 to the RF instead of dealing with their own issues.
BBC and CNN used to be the most trusted networks. Not anymore. Oh how the mighty have fallen.
What works for one person doesn’t work for others. I’ve had a friend who lost her dad at 7 and lived (what i assumed) was happy life even with that loss. 3 years ago she took her life and part of the note she left read- “I can be with dad now and the pain will stop. I wish I talked more open about the pain but I didn’t want everyone to have to worry about me”. That taught me a huge lesson- silence can be the death of someone suffering! Loss and grief appears and affects people differently! To give those who feel they need to talk the space to do so! So often, we say, we had this happen to us and we dealt with it a certain way- well we are all different from each other and what works for us might not work for others and we should try our best not to project our feelings onto others! Would we like if someone told us how to grieve🤷🏼♀️ Sending love and hope to all those suffering!
Very well said, i am so sorry for the loss of your friend. God's blessings always, one love from Scotland.
Very good points. I lost a family member to suicide and we knew he was having trouble but I remember a lot of people thinking it was because he was still a teenager. It's not something you really recover from. You just learn how to live with the grief and sometimes confusion about what could have been done to help him. He tried to talk to people, but no one knew what to do.
@@dianaweir5414 thank you so much!
People dont get it that the real issue
Harry is not well at all. His mental health is declining by the minute. Stop letting him in front of the camera and get him some help right now. Marriage and parenthood have obviously re-traumatised the poor man and his paranoia is concerning.
He is off his meds...and things will get worse....
Totally agree and thus lot are acting like his mother
He is making this series on mental health in order to help others who are going through the experience he went through. If you're not one of the target audience or not interested, you can move along, you don't have to watch.
@@flrn2001 thing is he is not helping anyone,if he spoke about how his mental health was healed them maybe that would help people but not this
@Christina Bonvillian It would seem that most if the public do not agree with you. Thank God, Prince William will be our King. God save the Queen.
Why now that prince William is speaking out.the Royal and British except it from William with so much praise.But When Harry talks about it he has gotten a lots of negative criticisms. I don't think Prince Charles and Princess Diana married would have last because he cheated on her. Charles aways wanted to be with Carmela. And Diana knew it. The report was wrong for tricking her. But she was having problems within the Royal family already. They need to except what really happened. They keep blaming Meghan for Harry leaving but he said he wanted out.And the why the Royal reporters and the British newspapers. Keeping talking badly about Maghan and dragging her name through the mud. And non of the family spoke up in her defense. Not even Prince William or Prince Charles.
Lossie Scott Charles didn't want to marry Diana, he was forced to, because he was told that he was getting old and he needed an heir, that was an arrange marriage that shouldn't have taken place.
William dealt with this perfectly, without blaming the world for his problems. He will be a brilliant King.
By suppressing what ails him? Harry has the right to speak his mind. 🤷🏾♀️
@@moimeself1088 by suppressing? You mean he has to emulate Harry for you to approve of his therapy? You mean if he doesn’t spill to the world through a microphone then he is suppressing his trauma? Logic?
@@moimeself1088 I don't see William suppressing anything. He has always conducted himself with dignity and continues to do so. He speaks about his mother's death if and when it is appropriate, not to gain sympathy like his brother.
@@bobbidazzler1343 so everyone talking about their mental health isn't allowed to tell their story as it is, if you suppress Harry, people with mental health worries might be afraid to speak up.
@@esme8944 The thing is, Harry and Meghan's 'truth' has been proved to be untrue, 17 or 18 times. They make claims without backing them up. I will gladly listen to either of them if they prove what they are saying. X
My legs physically would not work at my brothers funeral, the minute I see the car with his coffin ,my legs went like jelly my sister had to basically hold me getting out the car was the same ,I was 40 yrs old this was ten yrs ago how those two boys walked behind their mothers coffin i dont know it must of been so painful 💔
Probably the worst moment of their lives.
That's a crucial point on all of this. I respect your loss and I can't imagine my life without my sisters.
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I have sat down with both my parents and rationally discussed I will not be attending their funeral. Not out of disrespect, quite the opposite and they understand. I too would not be able to physically or mentally handle it and would want to remember them as they were. I am probably going to do something completely normal and mundane instead and let my older brother take charge of it all.
@@trancehi a funeral is part of the grieving process. But if you’re set on not going then you must find a different way to grieve because that’s the road to healing. I’m sorry for being insensitive 🙏🙏🙏
Meghan is not in the same situation as Diana. She is not being chased down the street in her car by hundreds paparazzi - rather, she smiles for the camera. Harry is dealing with paranoia of things that are not based in reality. He needs to continue his therapy.
Just because she's Not follow down the street with camaras etc doesn't mean she's Not followed. She's followed by negativity & persecution by the uk press & the Firm
@@ngadjuigenistar2321 Not so 😁
These discussions are for Willian and Harry it’s time we all butted out (including myself here) I wish you both well , Harry talk to your brother not the world.
So true. Harry has to privately deal with his anger and come to terms with it. His brother was young too, he also suffered. This public airing just cause more pain.
Earl spencer refused a place of safety at althorp for Diana to live.
That is incorrect.
Yes he did.....she died because she wasn’t wearing a seatbelt and she refused protection from the RF because of her paranoia.....time to move on
They are all such hypocrites.
Always a one sided view on this awful program
Can't stand Martin Bashir- his nasty interviewing style with Diana and Michael Jackson really made matters worse for both these gentle personalities.
You Wright darling
The truth on the Oprah show were lies!
Like four women talking over their garden fences, very real. Prince William is the dignified man we need at present to represent the very best of being a member of our Royal Family. Diana was used and abused, so wrong.
The best healing method for these children is not BBC apologies, but their father apologize publicly to the world, for the way he pushes Diana , and now his children is in the driver's seat trying to clean up his mess
Aww bless u Brenda I know this really hits home, let’s just be kind ppl. Them poor boys must be so traumatic for them to live with. Rip Princess Dianna 🙏🏽❤️
Harry said he thinks his mother is looking down proud of him. But as you've mentioned, the boys are not together, and that would definitely not have her happy. Worst of all, I doubt there will ever be a semblance of a good relationship ever again.
How do you know they are not together? Do you have evidence or just listening to what the press say. Provide evidence? What my eyes saw were two brothers chatting with each other during Prince Philip's burial, that's good enough for me to know that at least they are on talking terms.
@@flrn2001 Pipe dream.
@@flrn2001 Harrys wife is putting a leash on him
As oppose to the Firm ,the BRF & the UK Public having a Leach on Prince Harry?
@@ngadjuigenistar2321 The point is -no leashes. And so far all the therapy hasn't helped THAT.
Why doesn't PRINCE HARRY TALK OVER HIS BUSINESS.WITH HIS BROTHER OR HIS.FATHER NOT WITH.OPRAH SHE IS JUST A TV INTERVIEWER NOT A PSYCHOLOGIST KNOWS NOTHING THIS IS ALL SO MESSY AND GETTING WORSE PUTTING ALL ON TV GET HELP
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Sadly if Harry doesn’t build bridges with his family his children could be speaking out in years to come about their sadness at being cut off from their grandparents, uncle & cousins.
It's healing when you cut off toxic family
Leaving behind people who don't support you at your lowest is the best thing you could do for your children and future children. He cut off a very unhealthy cycle. Well done Harry!
@@sussexsquadsista5595 Well, the rest of the world thinks Harry is in a toxic marriage.
@@sussexsquadsista5595 Funny how he didn't think they were toxic until Meghan came along. He said he didn't realise he was trapped until she told him! Classic controlling behaviour.
Please ladies take a leaf from Lady Colin Campbell.....you ladies are very wimpy and so pro Harry and acting like his mother. Lady C has many followers because her diction is impeccable unlike you ladies and she knows her stuff and comments in a very fair way. I am neutral,however, I do know when a person is not taking their meds,thus out of control. Meghan and Oprah are doing what Bashkirs did. I will never watch your programme again it ranks like a soap opera on American television for the bored housewives!!
William and Harry are both amazing Their mum would be so proud of them. It’s ok to not be ok 🥰 This was great ladies Thank you 🥰❤️
All the money, access and means in the world and 28 years later he hasn't dealt with it, what good is all this therapy and talking to the world doing, I'm not seeing any progress, if anything his mental health appears to be disintegrating before our eyes. Yet William is on such an even keel without the need to do a tell all.
Everyone deals with grief differently
What do mean even kill, he is dieing inside. Please the keeping quiet is to appease the firm nothing more. Because the reason for the pain loosing your Mom and your family breaking up is rubbed in your face daily, your Dad married the mistress, hello #chicos
Imagine Diana died so young living her Children without a mother? Mother's love is so important to any child. I lost my parents when we were young, I can't explain enough how painful journey I was through with my siblings. I always miss my Mother till today. I always understand what Williams and Harry go through. No one will feel till you go through it!.
HARRY AND WILLIAM HAVE BEEN THROUGH A LOT. WHILE THE WORLD WATCHED,AND NOW HARRY IS SPEAKING UP TO HELP SO MANY OTHERS. I WISH THE BROTHERS THE BEST.
William speaking up helps others too. His speech was very powerful. As men we need role models who stand strong and speak their mind and deliver it with conviction and strength. Even if it’s just one time.
I don't think lady Diana and Prince Charles would of been together cause Prince Charles made up his mind he wanted to be with Camilla from early on in the marriage yes I do think that the paparrazzi was part of Diana death cause if the car wasn't driving so fast to get away the accident wouldn't have happened the paparazzi should of been held accountable for what they did
I agree. William is speaking with the pain of childhood, but i think he's mistaken about what happened between his parents.
@@moimeself1088 i had a feeling that Charles wrote that statement !
Maybe if Diana and Dodi hadn't tipped off the press that night things would be different. She was no angel either, she gad affairs with at least 5 married men, one wife had to contact the Palace because she was constantly phoning their house and putting the phone down.
Yeah, they may still end up divorce but more amicable less acrimonious. Less toxic for the children. Diana’s paranoia led her to refused official protection services. If she was with better support staff the driver wouldn’t be that driver who thought he should escape from the paps and he wouldn’t have had a few drinks.
I don't think he meant they would be together,but they had been separated 3 years and became friends ,this interview meant their divorce was acrimonious in the end ..
You people are weird ! Bashir did not force those words out of Diana’s mouth ! She spoke her truth she said the same truths to Andrew Morton years before ! Charles admitted to affair year before ! Please ! Stop trying to rewrite history
It’s benefiting the Royals , they will do anything to rewrite history
This is what we call the outcome of an investigation into corrupt and unethical practices. It is rewriting history, you’re right, all for the conscience of Diana’s loved ones affected, her staff her friends and the conscience of the BBC staff who were bullied when they reported of the deceit. Not to support your narrative 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️
He falsified information to obtain the interview . He lied to make Lady Diana feel safer with a BBC newsman than her own staff. THAT IS NOT ABSENCE OF MALICE. The price has been a questionable result of a ROYAL MARRIAGE, the questional result of a ROYAL TITLE, AND THE MENTAL HEALTH IF TWO YOUNG MEN BOTH ROYAL PRINCES . This does not call for control of the media. This calls for Judeo Christian ETHOS. DO NO HARM. THE MEDIA HAS THE POWER OF A PHYSICIAN.
DO NO HARM.
@@lesleywallace8773 👏👏👏🙏🏻🙏🏻
l know right 🙄🙄
I find it funny how people have suddenly woken up to the BBC in light of this interview.
The BBC just exacerbated an already very fragile situation. But the blame cannot solely rest with them, Charles infidelity was happening long before that interview!
Totally agree With you,it's so easy to blaming BBc and ignore Charles cheating Diana With Camilla .With of royal famille.
By the time that interview came out they were both with other people ! It was the false claims of spying etc that made Diana paranoid '
Diana was having affairs too so Charles is not the only one to blame. This is not their fault it’s the BBC and Bashir. Let’s not change the narrative of what this issue is.
@@ally_bally6728 She had her affair long after Charles did. Hed been cheating on her with Camilla before they were married, and continued well after that. Diana gave him multiple chances to cut his ties to Camilla, and he didn’t. So why shouldn’t she seek another relationship?
@@melaniewilliams1351 I didn’t say anything about her not being able to but this convo changes the narrative about the interview. The affairs have nothing to do with the way the interview was obtained and why this post has been put up.
Love you four on the panel today . Keep it that way please 🇨🇦. Loved HRH Prince Williams speech . Worthy of a future King . But I am afraid Mr Markle has burned all his bridges as far as I am concerned . He always makes money from his poor Mother’s death . He is in a terrible state and need treatment and medication. He definitely is in no position to lecture us on mental health.
I am Happy for Harry that he is able to talk about his feelings. It's ridiculous when people say that Wlliam also lost his mother. We all react differently to grief. William is the future King and is unable to express his feelings as freely as Harry. Wishing Harry Meghan Archie and baby girl every happiness and joy. We all deserve joy and happiness regardless of our position in life.
Charles cheating made his parents life worse.
Diana cheated too!!
First of all plenty of people cheat in a marriage it wasn't uncommon then and it isn't now, second it would of been very difficult to live with someone who everytime there is a bickerment has the feeling of harming themselves and has extreme mental health issues especially at that time Diana's issues were only exacerbated by Charles cheating and not caused by them, Diana's childhood trauma is what caused her to have mental, emotional and physical health issues and third this interview made the relationship worse as now I'm sure Charles and the whole family wouldn't of been able to trust Diana to not speak to the press 24/7 along with the interview courting the media and her time with her 2 sons who I'm sure would of liked their privacy when spending time with their mum, also would like to point out because of this interview Diana also declined the queens offer of security on the basis that at that time Diana felt paranoid that this security would of been bad because of the tactics that Martin Bashir did made Diana feel she couldn't trust the security which then led Diana to be a target for all the paps, what was the Queen to do force the security onto Diana without consent??
I agree with most what you said but princess Anne children are normal
Yes they are "normal" and reason being they don't have titles and they don't capitalise off of the family and they definitely have never blamed the family for any downfall they have ever had so your point is what exactly
that s life, we must live with dignity,not complaining always
Harry needs to STOP. He's been in "therapy" for years!!! He needs a better counsellor. Those closest to him who allow or encourage him to spill his guts EVERY SINGLE DAY are not helping him....or US.
You need to stop ! Harry has every right to speak !
Totally agree 28 years later and he is still stuck in the same place. Access to the best support in the world and all this talking yet he seems to be deteriorating not getting better
So true. Some patients do not want to get well 🤷♀️🤷♀️ and that’s the truth in Harry’s case.
Was'nt it great how open and honest diana was in the interview talking about mental health, bolimia, self harm she spoke her truth why should anyonebe ashamed of that interview
Thank you
I actually find it amazing too ! What an amazing young woman she was
Because she claimed to world that UK establishment was intentionally doing ham to her. This is not true! Facts don't care about your feelings!
@@xchen3079 yes and it was bbc and Bashir who planted that seed in her head that MI5 were spying on her.
Her interview has some untruths but she didn’t lie. Yes, she was honest with her feelings, feelings which was formed from Bashir’s lies. We are not ashamed of Diana but Bashir’s corruption and BBC’s top men’s cover up of the unethical means.
Well William's dad married his mistress. Why doesn't he point the finger at his dad?
They are all mixed up messed up.💔
William grew up with royals so his understanding if his mom's life is based on whatever poison the royals drained his brain with
It's not like he married her the next day ..... Diana had affairs as well including with married men
@@wickedwillis5611 Only after Charles was messing around with Camilla .. when she found out she wasn't loved.
@@wickedwillis5611 Let's not forget that his father gave his interview first in which he publicly admitted to adultery and said the marriage had irretrievably broken down. How humiliating that was.
As soon as someone comes out with the phrase telling "Their truth" or "my truth"
I switch off as you can be sure it is not 'The truth' & is anything but.
Packk it in with the inane Americanisms Loose Women.
The way it seems is that Diana was the boys link to the real world. When she died, they became priveledged prisoners of a sort. Harry "defecting" was only a matter of time and I don't think Meghan had anything to do with it. She may have reinforced what he already felt but he was looking for a way out. And so what?! It's his life after all.
Someone save Harry from the people around him exploiting him and using him
My dear, the more you speak out about traumatic experiences the more it helps, of course but doesn’t need to be done in public, and doesn’t need to be aired for the world and for you to know 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Are you trying to justify Harry’s constant yapping of who wronged him? William doesn’t need to be like Harry, one is enough but Harry needs to be more like William.
This is different from person to person. Some people process the pain and don’t want to mention it anymore because they left it behind and it’s uncomfortable for them to come back to something that they decided to leave behind. Others need to keep on it over and over. And others just use the pain as a reference point. It depends on the person.
Harry has a lot to answer. Had he taken the call from Diana, history would have been written differently. Harry is bitter and venting this anger in himself. Also his wife is taking advantage of his bitterness for her own financial gain.
@@sucheng8392 Agree. He doesn’t care who else he is hurting, and in my opinion he is in a state of hallucination where only his own view exists. I’m starting to think that he is a sociopath.
@@taradalik1405 The difference I concede and concur, thank you for your well-thought answer. What irks me is one of the ladies saying that she's glad to at last see that William is opening up and not suppressing his pain. It sounded to me like the Royal Family or any public figure should open up about their pain and misery and even breakdown on TV for all to see, so that the public can appreciate what they're going through and sympathise with their sufferings? Because that 's exactly what Harry is doing and people are fed up with him. Sounded like an implication that William is now showing his pain, we should all cut Harry some slack for going over the top. Well, as long as Harry keeps going public about it, the public will react - positive and negative - because it's in public space.
@@nocturnalowl5867 yes, I noticed that, and also noticed that people believe in what they want to and not in what is before their very eyes. Prince William’s statement mentions the tragic consequences of a setup done by a BBC reporter, and he points out what that meant to him personally and his family, and the amount of misery they had to cope with. But essentially he was approving the enquiry, requesting providences and stating that such practices are damaging to everyone, as his mother’s sad situation proves.
And in fact he is asking that those who are accountable to be dealt with, because it is important to have a free no reliable press.
His statement was excellent. He spoke for him and for others, including the BBC itself, that needs a good shake and a cleansing.
Judy looks gorgeous today !
I lost my dad when I was 6 years old, I lost my Cousin (who was more like my brother) at age 16, I lost both of my grandfathers at age 20 within a month of each other.
I learned how to forgive, how to be strong and how to accept that death is part of life. I miss all of them very much every single day, but I learned to move on with my life. I learned how not to let my grief take control of my life. We all have had lost in our lives, but it’s something very personal and in my own personal experience I would not be making it so public. This grief is mine alone but it doesn’t control my life. I enjoy life while I still miss my love ones.
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Were any of them hounded by the media? Lied to get an interview from them that led to divorce? Died while pursued by paparazzi? Apples with apples, please.
@@seaofghosts one was killed by a drunk driver, then I had to help out with my grandfathers who both had Alzheimer’s. So yes it was very stressful and painful for the whole family. Everyone has their own pass that is painful but we need to move on if not it is not healthy for anyone.
@@cynthiabeason6591 But it's not Harry's experience. Nor is Harry you. No one can tell another what to feel and how long it should take them to get over it. IMO, the issue is how Harry is publicly dragging his family into it that has nothing to do with Diana's death.
Prince William had to grow up fast. I so wish it could have been different. I wish Princess Diana was still here.
I remember the public outcry surrounding Dianas death, and the traumatic affect it had on the British public at the time. We were a country in a state of mourning., but what I remember above all is the public pressure that was put on the RF and the Queen to be seen to be in mourning, to reflect the sadness of rthe nation . The demand by the public to seee the Queen make comment on Dianas death , even though at the time she was in Balmoral with Harry and William helping them to cope with the loss of their Mother.
The public demanded the Royal family mourn with them, It was the public that demanded Harry walk behnd his mothers coffin at 12 years old, without thought or consideration as to whether he wanted to or not.. The point I am making is that we are all complicit in the mental crisis that Harry faced, and is facing, and more importantly in Dianas death . We make demands on this family because they are royalty and pvrivileged, without thinking about the emotional damage to them from a human perspective,.. Ether this or we project some sort of soap opera narrative into their lives .
As much as the Press ,and in this case the BBC, must be held accountable for this flagrant and illegal manipulation of Diana with regards to this interview,, consider thiis, if there was no demand for the salacious details of the RFs lives, there would be no press demand, because the media circulate and print news that will sell . ( money and ratings) , and in saying this I am fully aware that it is the media that steer the narrative , however we the public devour it all up , amd demand for more and more, and nothing,, absolutely nothing has changed since Dianas death. Peace
This is a reminder to be kind. Don't be quick to judge people rich or poor if you don't know all the facts.
William shouldnt have said that Diana led a false narrative and the interview wasn’t legitimate. She spoke similar things before in Andrew Morton’s book and in published tapes so it was her truth. Thankfully Harry said she was unquestionably honest. Diana’s voice shouldn’t be silenced. It’s not up to William to say it contributed to his parents bad relationship as it seems very pro Charles not taking into account what Diana said and how she felt
I think he meant ,there were things she said that she wouldn't have if she hadn't been so angry ,things she deeply regretted and caused her pain ,he should know ,he was there ,he was the one she turned too ,he became her rock ,the one that passed her tissues while she cried ..Harry was protected by his brother as much as possible from his mother's hurt ...
It was his lived experience or Willaims's knowledge doesn't count?
That statement read by William was written to protect Charles and redeem his image !
@@Carole1279 Or maybe it's because he's now a grown man ,and has decided to let old hurts go in regards too his parents ,..Hate does no good in the end ...
If Harry can speak his truth why can’t William? See the problem with pushing for this “my truth” to be relevant in deciding who was factually truthful?
What is wrong with the son defending his father? He has forgiven him and learnt life lessons from him. Charles may not be a good husband to Diana but he did his best for his children.
Diana’s answers to Bashir’s questions were formed from Bashir’s forgeries and lies. Bashir was her personal friend and may have started feeding her falsehoods from whence they first met. Big possibility.
Why is Harry telling his story that he knows to be true makes some people mad. I don't get it.
It's not just the bbc the tabloids and other media outlets should be investigated too and apologise because as much the bbc was wrong atleast their acknowledge their fault and took accountable. The tabloids are busy pointing fingers at the bbc as though they were not the once who wrote nonsense about her and had photographers constantly chasing her around. This is not about politics it is about hamun values and human exploitation by the media that those tabloids do this very day and still never take accountability, justice and peace for all no matter gow much privilege one has it doesn't justify what these papaers put these royals through at all, you can treat them horribly because of their privilege when majority of them profit of royals, want a monarchy and also no one wants communism and rightly so. Sondeal with the fact that there will be people richer than you and also the money royals get is not directly from the taxpayer but from the crown estate were they get 18-25% of the profits from their estates, land and properties that are not private which they now share with the government because of the agreement with George V, so the abuse they get to this day is not right one bit. I just want to cry for them honestly and i am so angry for the both of them and their entire family.
I agree, it's also double standard, the royal family needs the BBC just to verify they exist and the BBC needs the royals to make money. The BBC has been under the royal family since lizzy years.
to speak so publicly about their pain is very validating for others who are going through pain. How one feels, felt and the way that you try to move forward with no support and how your mental health suffers, i feel, is very important to hear anyone talk publilcly about it. The reach that this will have to help people in regard to their mental health is immeasurable.
Are you ladies on the same planet Harry's making money out of his dead mother.
Nadia let the others speak you are so rude cutting in on them. You aren’t at home now.
That got on my nerves too. Please let people finish before interrupting them
My best friend passed away with cancer, her daughters were 9 & 14
May her soul rest in peace 🙏
💔💔💔💔
The most important part of the interview was that Diana wanted to tell the world that she was not ok. That was her truth.
Nadia you are fantastic at anchoring! Drive conversation whilst being so empathetic ☺️
So true
I disagree as she’s always talking over people not letting them finish
I’ve not liked the BBC for past 2years & not watched or listened to them as I don’t agree with the TV Licence or radio licence. Their programs are also not great anymore. I’d rather pay for something that gives multiple choice viewing.
Oh they have allowed comments
I'm so surprising as well! I thought I was only who realised it😂😂😂
The have, for a couple of weeks now. Also Lorraine and This Morning. I'm still wondering what happened that "unlocked this feature for them." 🤔
This is HIGHLY suspect. This is 25 some years old. ALL of us have had horrendous tragedies with a stiff upper lip. I certainly have and haven't trashed others for it. DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES FOR INEXCUSABLE BEHAVIOR. It is absurd they are whining about her death 25 years later! UNREAL! ENOUGH!
Awwww....May Gods peace be with Harry and William
Charles did'nt protect Diana .he was busy to focus on his mistress Camela. Hary is right to run away From the toxic british media. Look at what piers morghan is doing on tv every occasion and nobody can't stop him Because Meghan cut him off. I'ts big shame for british media
There is no chance of a reconciliation between the boys whilst Me Me is in the picture.
I'm glad Harry is breaking the mould and choosing his wife
& Children first 👏👏
Yes totally agree With you 👍
Are you saying William is not choosing his wife and children first? If William felt Catherine and his children were suffering he would abduct his position but Catherine is a strong person and his children are protect by him and Catherine so to me it's not about breaking any mould it's about doing what you feel is right for your own family and William has done so for his wife and children in the way he wants to so don't go saying Harry has done something different nope he sure hasn't
We hall need to pray for the brothers 🙏 💯
I also watch Prince William. He seems a little stressed to me. But he also gets on with it.
He is angry at the BBC and rightly so, William isn't stressed because he has his soul mate Catherine by his side, as for his career/job well don't we all get stressed I know I do so I'm not about to say he seems stressed we all feel stress so William looks fine
1. THANK YOU FOR KEEPING THE COMMENTS OPEN.
2. Lovely topic. I hope harry and william continue to speak out. The old days are gone, time for them to give a new face to that family.
3. Nadia, i love you as a panelist. As moderator or whatever, pls give others a chance to speak. We would like to hear from them as well.
Thank you!
Bashir's behaviour is a treasonable offence
Charles is the culprit not Bashir
Stop trying to make lady Diana into a Saint. The BBC and Martin Bashir did not kill Lady Diana. He didn't make Charles stay inlove with Camilla etc. YA blame the driver, the no seatbelts, the paparazzi, the Royal family, blame the BBC so much blame. This was an unfortunate accident trying to blame everyone and anything will never change what happened. The trauma of the men who lost there mother is real. We empathize with them.
Harry is in a very very good place he’s come to the realization why these things are happening to him that’s the first healing why is he talking about it because he knows and other people are experiencing things in their life and don’t understand why.
All of sudden people realise that BBC is bonkers 😉, #defundthebbc 🙋♀️
Oprah is manipulating Harry’s weak mind and Meghan is weaponising his grief! Harry is commercialising his mother’s death.
BOYCOTT all Oprah, Harry & Meghan programs!!!!
brenda sending hugs
Think that Harry is over milking thing's
Gob bless you Harry ! I loved your statement ! Your mother is really watching over you💜
Yes
“The more you speak about traumatic things the more it does help.” Please stop. This is not true, and neuroplasticity research increasingly shows it. Talking endlessly about trauma can very easily get someone stuck in that trauma because it teaches the brain to focus on it at the expense of anything else. I’d love this panel to dig a little deeper and be a bit more thoughtful about exactly why it they believe it is helpful to Harry to expose all this vulnerability in front of the entire world. And, perhaps, to wonder why Meghan and Oprah are encouraging and facilitating it.
He appears to be going into an ever darker and angrier spiral; he’s now totally isolated from his original support base, surrounded by people wanting money and publicity out of him, increasingly paranoid, and over-sharing in front of the entire world. He is indeed repeating Diana’s history, almost exactly, and it’s all his own doing. Many of us can see this, or sense it on an intuitive level, and because of that we also sense that this is going to end very badly indeed.
The royal thing is laughing stock cheating Charles and camilla how can they sleep at night shameful couples
Really? did no one pick up on the fact that William reiterated that his mother was paranoid a condition (she was never diagnosed as having), his parents were never going to reconcile because Charles said he never loved Diana and had affair"s" throughout the marriage. His focus was on Bashir rather than what his mother revealed, shame on him.
Where was all this emotion and support for Meghan when she spoke of how the press hounded her, degraded her and manipulated her and her image. Oh wait ...
This post is not about Meghan.
Just such a sad family saga. The Royal Family needs to take some responsibility for Diana's life challenges and the impact on her children. Harry is brave to speak out and get help for himself. and make the necessary life changes to get him and his family into a better mentally healthy situation. Shame on the BBC. The interview should never be aired again and any awards the BBC received for it should be rescinded!!
Oprah & H's Wife are doing exactly the same to Harry ! Using Harry's pain to make their Millions & Money ! Its absolutely disgusting !
Who can afford therapy in the U.S. in the for-profit medical care system? Is he going to pay for the therapy sessions? Does he address the inequality of people not being able to access therapy?
"London's a trigger" is reason he came up with to leave U.K. His mother, who was not wearing a seat belt, had a history of speeding and in the car with an intoxicated driver, died in France.
Just Harry should be taken out of the line of succession, because he'd need to be in London a great deal of time, to perform duties of a British King!
Harry wants to speak to the international community. As an international community, let's respond!
To protect healthy relations between the U.S., U.K. and the Commonwealth, the international (everyone on Earth) public should sign Lady Colin Campbell's
Change. org petition requesting Just Harry to ask the Queen to put all his titles in abeyance.
The link to this petition is provided on her 5/20/2021 RUclips channel, in the drop down box (click arrow next to title of video), within first couple of lines. The international public can use their voice by signing it, and if they want, also leave Just Harry a message.
Link (remove space between the "e" in change and the "." before org):
www.change .org/p/the-public-invitation-to-prince-harry-to-request-the-queen-to-put-his-titles-into-abeyance?redirect=false
I'm hoping Harry keeps speaking up about his mental health so others won't be afraid to open up also, brilliant debate girls.
Oprah & Harry content is not helping people’s well-being, this is triggering, unhealthy and highly dangerous propaganda aimed at lining their pockets!
BOYCOTT Oprah, Harry & Meghan programs
This is awful.
But
Don't forget all that Charles and the royal family did to Diana though
The statement which was made by William about the BBC that’s exactly Harry was trying to tell people all along but he was misunderstood that’s why he moved away.
Prince William the future 💪👑. He doesn't whine and constantly complain but deals with it. Yes!
5:42: exactly - one is grieving with dignity, the other...well, his wife successfully managed to convince him that she is a reincarnation of his mother...
For RF this is just sad. For my lectures on neuro-psychopathology, MM and H are brilliant.
William seems to forget that Charles had done his interview a year or two earlier admitting that he saw still in love with camellia. Also Andrew Morton’s book confirmed everything the interview stated, pure facts.
and no one is critiquing William throwing his mother under the bus by labelling her paranoid, and distancing his father's/royal family's role in diana's greater story.
@@rachelsavard851 William is considered the perfect one, but he did an interview stating when he's with his children, he sees his mother. He should seek help also so he can talk his feelings out, your inside take care of your outside and William is balding fast.
Noone is denying Charles cheated not least Charles 🤦♀️🤦♀️ the problem here is the interview divided the two and made the relationship worse in terms of custody and co-parenting what part of that don't you get
@@rachelsavard851 she was paranoid though, and if William confirms this then I believe him as he was there he is Diana's son remember, he is the older son remember, William was there and you were not remember
@@kylieballard2123 i'm not discussing the 'truth' of whether she had feelings of paranoia, or the state of her relationship with her ex-husband, just that for decades there's been a media campaign to paint her as the problem and reframe the charles story, especially with camilla etc. and William has in essence publically taken a side (yet doesn't get critiqued for it - which in turn speaks to the bias the british have when it comes to the royal family)
I lost all my so-called friends 😀 my wife and my kids are now my best friends. To speak out about what my wife, have to deal with because she's not white.. turned you against me but that's alright because we all have our own bottles to fight in this life!
Diana may have been deceived by Bashir for the interview, it doesn’t erase the fact that she spoke her Truth that everybody knew and saw played out in her live and death. The way she was treated by the jealous and heartless husband Charles, her mother and father in-law’s silence to her pain, and lack of support, was what broke and destroyed her mental health and eating disorder, also emanated in her adultery and other negative behaviour as revenge for the way the family treated her. she really suffered. RF are wicked and Toxic. People should not overlook that fact because they love and respect the Queen. Bad is Bad.
Diana also had premonition the husband was planning to kill her in a car crash in earlier interview with Andrew Morton.
Why didn’t William investigate the real cause or perpetrators of their mother’s murder; instead of trying to clean up for monarchy’s inappropriate acts and now trash or dismiss his mothers truths given it no merit . That is an insult to his mother.
Throwing his dead mother under the bus second time around, just like he did his brother Harry and wife for good Press and Popularity. Pathetic! He should be ashamed of himself. Hat up for Harry, who is more humane, kind giving a genuine and impactful service globally, and a very honest, God fearing and responsible husband and father. God will continue to bless and protect him and family from all evil plans in Jesus mighty name.
Will the BBC have the Royal Charter renewed in 2027 ?
Yet he threw her under the bus for the divorce 🤦♀️
The Me Me Me Me You Can’t See, lol ! as long as his jealous wife and Oprah Winfrey whisper and feed his paranoia, self-centered spoiled Harry will go on sending his family under the bus on Tv for all the millions of dollars they can all get ! It has become more and more disgusting !
he’s literally just sharing his traumatic experience. his family are no angels. why are u so pressed?
His mum was the only person that showed him love you don't get that people?