we went through breakups at the same time

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024
  • hi besties! WE ARE BACK- y'all have missed some chapter but he's a sparks note to catch u up lol. We have closed a chapter in our lives but we're very excited for what's to come. Sorry the quality randomly got so bad end of this video we had endless technical difficulties with this video. We are back with our weekly videos so let me know what you guys want to see next week!
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  • @dqndicore
    @dqndicore 8 месяцев назад +352

    I’m so glad you’re feeling better Sahar

  • @darling_multistan
    @darling_multistan 8 месяцев назад +167

    I’m glad that you’re able to laugh and joke about it now, God bless you guys and I’m so glad you have each other in this situation 🫶🏻💞

  • @Lyra1573
    @Lyra1573 8 месяцев назад +189

    This is so helpful for me right now. I broke up with my bf like a week and a bit ago, it was actually pretty similar to Sahars break up, my needs weren’t being met and it wasnt me, he would reassure me that he loved me and then continue being distant. It hurt so much to have to end things but I knew it was the best decision for me. Thank you for both being so open about to break ups and I hope you both find someone even better! 💕💕

    • @MyahBaltierrez-ym1tp
      @MyahBaltierrez-ym1tp 8 месяцев назад +9

      I'm so sorry I hope you get better

    • @Lyra1573
      @Lyra1573 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@MyahBaltierrez-ym1tpthank you x

    • @georgina1170
      @georgina1170 7 месяцев назад +9

      omg I'm joining the club 😭 also broke up w my bf about 2 weeks ago, felt so unimportant cause he was physically there but so distant emotionally

    • @Lyra1573
      @Lyra1573 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@georgina1170 I’m so sorry girl I totally understand what your going through! Hope you feel better soon xxx

    • @ceerstar851
      @ceerstar851 Месяц назад

      Did you explain it to the person???

  • @mistakenstrangers
    @mistakenstrangers 8 месяцев назад +158

    i’m happy that you two are able to thrive now and you’re happier 🫶🏻

  • @juhibhobe3412
    @juhibhobe3412 8 месяцев назад +69

    I’m so sorry you had to go through your family member passing away along with the break up your so strong for that

  • @juishinde4689
    @juishinde4689 8 месяцев назад +38

    This helps sm these girls don't even know how much of a bug impact they're making into our lives. I'm crying rn

  • @haleyian3719
    @haleyian3719 8 месяцев назад +43

    You guys are literally the definition of black cat and golden retriever bffs 🐈‍⬛🦮😝

  • @angelicacovarrubias2568
    @angelicacovarrubias2568 8 месяцев назад +50

    I got so happy when you posted at least you guys have each for support

  • @ohmainzte
    @ohmainzte 7 месяцев назад +3

    It's been 8 months for me, and I'm finally starting to feel okay again, accepting what is, and letting go of what I truly wanted more than anything ever. I've had to keep showing myself how great I am. How it's her loss. That she was lucky to even experience just a fraction of my actual real love. I was always enough. That the fact that I can love someone that deeply is telling of what I'm capable of. And ultimately, reminding myself that my life is about me, not her. There is so much more to me, and if she couldn't at least recognize that enough to find out, she doesn't deserve to. And she definitely doesn't deserve my love, energy or attention at this point. No more calls or texts, and if I respond it'll be bone dry. Gave myself to her, now I'm taking me back.

  • @phoenixx-11
    @phoenixx-11 8 месяцев назад +24

    I'm going through a breakup as well and I haven't related to anything as much as this , this truly feels like a healing talk with my besties

    • @amiiishaaa
      @amiiishaaa 7 месяцев назад

      Hey! I hope you're doing good ❤ sending lots of love and light 💗

    • @phoenixx-11
      @phoenixx-11 7 месяцев назад +1

      I'm trying to be better, thank you sooo much for your kindness 💗

  • @mazayashah213
    @mazayashah213 7 месяцев назад +4

    The comment section is so classy I keep wanting to make out of pocket comments about your exes but no one’s here to do it with me. Lots of love I hate that you guys had to go through that y’all are amazing people

  • @cinnamin.
    @cinnamin. 7 месяцев назад +1

    This vid is so comforting rn I just went through a breakup like a week ago bc the timing wasnt right and it hurts sm bc no love was lost and nothing happened life just got in the way, its hard to process im trying to move on. Ive been too occupied by all the stuff going on in my life rn to be debilitated by it 😭😭 i just really hope things get better for him and hes okay bc what hes going through is really shit and maybe theres a chance for us in the future but ur so right dont hold onto the idea but when theres someone out there that you already have everything with its like why would you look for anyone else. After a breakup its so important to focus on yourself and surrounding urself with good people and just having time with urself i think is the most important thing, i hope anyone whos going through similar things heals and has a positive future ahead of them love you 🫶🫶🫶

  • @projectpearblossoms
    @projectpearblossoms 7 месяцев назад +4

    this is so real, Sahar ily and i want you to know this really helped me process 💗💓

  • @paola6659
    @paola6659 7 месяцев назад +5

    im happy to hear u both chose to lean on God during such a difficult time and Sahara ur right Gods timing is perfect💞

  • @navyapawankhajuria5879
    @navyapawankhajuria5879 8 месяцев назад +13

    You are a total positive energy girl!! ❤🌟
    I really adore you, your POVs about life.. like dude everything, and most importantly you're a swiftieeee... Sending you love and a lot of sweet hearts ❤️❤️

  • @meel3674
    @meel3674 7 месяцев назад +1

    this is so comforting to watch bc i also just went through a break up recently and this feels like im chilling with girl friends who all shared the same experience. it really is break up season huh.

  • @ididnot_f1ndheaven
    @ididnot_f1ndheaven 8 месяцев назад +11

    AGHHHH THEYRE BOTH SO SO PRETTY I LOVE THEM SO MUCHHHHH

  • @MissAyce
    @MissAyce 8 месяцев назад +5

    Thanks for the video. I’m about 11 weeks post breakup. Around my birthday. Well on. Was officially in no contact before Christmas. That break up on top of losing my pops to cancer in Nov.
    It meant a lot because I thought I found my person and they didn’t see it. But also both he and I were also getting over really bad relationships. So I did learn how it is to enter a long distance relationship while healing from a bad experience. It still sucks but doesn’t hurt like it did the previous two months. ❤❤❤ take care my dears ❤❤❤ stay awesome and ✨ Never lose your Shine ✨

  • @bubble_tea97561
    @bubble_tea97561 8 месяцев назад +14

    I'm glad you feel better and I wish you all the luck going though it 💗

  • @VivianGrace.
    @VivianGrace. 6 месяцев назад

    So happy she is working on her healing era such an inspiration❤

  • @kymberleighkemp8176
    @kymberleighkemp8176 8 месяцев назад +7

    Sending all the love and positive vibes. I’m so glad you took time for you! ❤

  • @aishanadeem
    @aishanadeem 8 месяцев назад +37

    omg i love the bunny sahar is holiding 🥹😭

    • @noviered
      @noviered 8 месяцев назад +6

      it’s a jellycat!! they’re my fav too

  • @avamay2274
    @avamay2274 Месяц назад

    I love how open you are about your relationship with God ❤❤

  • @safetypin127
    @safetypin127 8 месяцев назад +27

    Now TTPD gonna hit really hard😂

    • @sahardahii
      @sahardahii  8 месяцев назад +28

      I know my boy only breaks his favourite toys is gonna hit

  • @justanotherratontheinternet
    @justanotherratontheinternet 8 месяцев назад +3

    I was literally desperate for more sahar and brianna content to watch before meeting up w my friends and here you guys are 😭💗
    Ily and i wish you the best btw!!

  • @diariesofagirlabroad
    @diariesofagirlabroad 7 месяцев назад +1

    Aww it's so good to see you both together though not with the happiest topic... but it seems like you're working/have been working through it and I'm glad to hear you say it's all how it's supposed to be and you can be at peace with it!

  • @Jasmine25064
    @Jasmine25064 8 месяцев назад +7

    the snapchat thing is so real! the same thing happened to me and it's THE most embarassing thing ever in that moment 🤧

  • @aria.d.a.y
    @aria.d.a.y 8 месяцев назад +19

    Sahar we went through the same thing but me 2 months ago so thank you for making this video with Brianna because it made me feel so much less alone and seen💗

  • @AddyIbbotson
    @AddyIbbotson 7 месяцев назад +4

    THE BTS ALBUM ON HER WALL IS GIVING

  • @dovelove8933
    @dovelove8933 8 месяцев назад +7

    Oh wow this video came at the perfect time. I’m a freshman in high school and I just got broken up with by my first boyfriend last week. It was very much like Sahar’s situation (he broke up with me for his mental health and I think he also didn’t love himself enough to love me. It was very good girl x sad boy) and I wallowed for a bit, then was angry, but now I’m trying to get myself back to the girl I was before him or even better than that. Also thanks for the song rec! I already love Renegade but I didn’t realize how much it applied lol. Much love and I’m glad u guys are doing better💗💗

  • @lilyy_222
    @lilyy_222 7 месяцев назад +2

    So sorry that you had to go through that but I know that was just one step in the beautiful path of your life, and everything happens for a reason. So so happy you’re feeling better Sahar!!💗💗

  • @stephaniealaia769
    @stephaniealaia769 7 месяцев назад +1

    Idk why I got notification last night for this video but just finished watching I didn’t think it was my place to ask you both what was going on. I’m glad you have each other to fall back on bc boys come and go but friends are forever that’s how I see it. I wish you girls both the best! 💜

  • @ananyagaur2412
    @ananyagaur2412 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm so happy that you both are feeling better ❤❤❤

  • @Sapphires1985
    @Sapphires1985 7 месяцев назад

    Love these little talks it's like therapy..❤

  • @AahanaBhat-h2n
    @AahanaBhat-h2n 7 месяцев назад +1

    i so happy that both of you took the time to heal

  • @stvrliqhtt
    @stvrliqhtt 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m so sorry you had to go through this sahar❤ good will help you through this and so will we. Love you❤

  • @sharva1428
    @sharva1428 8 месяцев назад +3

    you followed through on the pact!! love you guys💕💕

  • @fullsendmountainbiker5844
    @fullsendmountainbiker5844 8 месяцев назад +4

    Yeah I hate people who speculate about things- they like to create their own drama about what they think is going on, and it doesn’t help anyone, so it’s good that didn’t happen to you. Hope you’re getting better though

  • @samiyi4896
    @samiyi4896 7 месяцев назад +5

    *She never showed him, which was smart, but yeh we're awesome for not assuming stuff*

  • @samiaalli-shaw3590
    @samiaalli-shaw3590 7 месяцев назад

    going through a break up right now and this helped me so much. Thank you

  • @joybartleyy
    @joybartleyy 7 месяцев назад

    I know I don’t know either of u guys personally, I honestly feel like I do. Both of u have a beautiful and genuine energy, I hope God keeps helping both of u through this and I know sooner or later u both will find THE ONE.

  • @monamona_07
    @monamona_07 8 месяцев назад +2

    awww sahar! i lowkey did have a feeling you and mystery man did break up because there was a period of time that you didn't post anything, but i'm happy that you're doing good now and we missed you!! love you both and i wish the best for any future relationships

  • @MarieLikeTheMiddleName
    @MarieLikeTheMiddleName 7 месяцев назад

    So glad you guys are doing better Sahar! God bless you guys ❤ have a good day

  • @taliw7736
    @taliw7736 7 месяцев назад

    Yeess keep praying and believing in the best going forward. Im gkad you took thst time to feel all the sad painful feelings im glsd yoyr feeling better ladies ❤

  • @agnimitrasarkar6359
    @agnimitrasarkar6359 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sahar the poster board looks absolutely beautiful. Would love a house tour cause u have amazing design sense

  • @sphazel
    @sphazel 8 месяцев назад +1

    aaa love you girls you’re both so strong 💕

  • @seasonsgirly
    @seasonsgirly 6 месяцев назад

    poor sahar😢 I feel for you girl

  • @thecatwhopaints1177
    @thecatwhopaints1177 7 месяцев назад +1

    you guys are the older sisters I never had I almost got with bff ex and ever since that she hates me because of your video I have learned don't do that shit I have grown as a person because of you both thank you I have learned to be a beter girls girl and I'm still growing everyday edit I act like I'm a bad person I'm not that was a one time thing horrible still also if you want a story time I can tell it. Any way love you both thank you to my two fav youtubers

  • @wisty2468
    @wisty2468 6 месяцев назад

    i was so upset when my ex broke up with me, because he did it on a day i skipped school, which meant i had to go the school the next day and it was awful

  • @sabaalm5482
    @sabaalm5482 6 месяцев назад

    as an Iranian , Iran is a global threat (based on the commercial) help us citizens, free us from these monsters

  • @ZoeSami-zw3fu
    @ZoeSami-zw3fu 8 месяцев назад +2

    can we bring back the “sahar’s advice” series plss

  • @aishwaryamishra4078
    @aishwaryamishra4078 8 месяцев назад +5

    The rate at which I clicked on this 😂

  • @333victoria
    @333victoria 7 месяцев назад +1

    the vinyls r so cute im crying

  • @RedLipClassic13
    @RedLipClassic13 7 месяцев назад

    PLEASE DO ANOTHER SAHARS ADVICE VIDEO!! They help me out so much and I recently added a comment to your last advice video and I really want you to answer it

  • @abdullahbhatti7303
    @abdullahbhatti7303 8 месяцев назад +9

    I also broke up and my partner cheated on me with my best friend 😢🥺😭💔

  • @Violet-Sky-4580
    @Violet-Sky-4580 7 месяцев назад

    i actually have such a hard time moving on 😭 but im glad you seem so upbeat about it

  • @zahrahosman9364
    @zahrahosman9364 7 месяцев назад

    sahar is glowing

  • @dhruviekhanna
    @dhruviekhanna 7 месяцев назад +1

    sooo... around the same time as brianna I had a breakup too and it was a 1 year old relationship 😭
    When Brianna posted that video abt breaking up on Valentine's I was like same 😭😭 But yeah now I'm in a better space

  • @safiya---
    @safiya--- 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sahar is so me (except it took me two years to get over a situationship 💀)

  • @JaylaGann
    @JaylaGann 7 месяцев назад

    Imma be honest the whole someone cant love you until he loves himself fully is bs in my case because i and he have learned to love ourselves more through finding each other and being together.

  • @LeviBendlin3987
    @LeviBendlin3987 8 месяцев назад +4

    YAY A NEW VIDEO

  • @abdullahbhatti7303
    @abdullahbhatti7303 8 месяцев назад +5

    I love renegade

  • @Esmee_SwIfTiE
    @Esmee_SwIfTiE 8 месяцев назад +2

    OMG I LOVE YOU GUYS

  • @keanberg4
    @keanberg4 8 месяцев назад +2

    how do you know when it's time to break up?? are there any like signs?? im in a relationship and we don't talk much, like barely ever and he tells me he loves me and i know he does but i feel like we should be talking more, and im always starting conversations. but im not sure. and i know we're in high school, so it's not like the end of the world, but also, it's like I've seen other couples talk more and 1-1 convos. And I've brought it up to jhm, and he always says ok i'll work on that, but it never happens. Anway, this really helped, and I'm happy that you guys were ready to talk.

    • @dajag50
      @dajag50 7 месяцев назад +1

      Honestly, you are dealing with the tale tale signs of a breakup. It is up to you when you break it off, but in a couple of months you’ll know if things don’t change it is over.

    • @keanberg4
      @keanberg4 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@dajag50 oki, thank you so much!!😪

    • @dajag50
      @dajag50 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@keanberg4 you’re welcome, it hurts but I know you’ll be fine in time. It is hard when you are willing to try and you’re just waiting on the other person!

  • @paulovesbooks
    @paulovesbooks 7 месяцев назад +1

    SNAPCHAT STORY IS SO REAL LOL

  • @Sage2.0626
    @Sage2.0626 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love your videos ❤

  • @stephiem09612
    @stephiem09612 8 месяцев назад +1

    Aww I'm sorry Sahar 😢

  • @kavyasingh2309
    @kavyasingh2309 8 месяцев назад +1

    My best friend of 7 years recently left me for her guy friends when they made fun of me. Now she's crying to other people saying that she misses me, but she didn't care to support me when those guys made fun of me . What do I do? Some of my friends are telling me to cut her off, but one friend is asking to talk to her.

    • @Hermionee-Jean-Granger
      @Hermionee-Jean-Granger 7 месяцев назад +1

      nah, if she's sorry then she should directly come to you and apologize sincerely and understand that you don't owe her forgiveness or reconnection or anything in return
      let it be for now, don't speak unless spoken to, she was the one who left a dear friend over some random áss guys, it's her fault to fix

  • @hectorjosee3611
    @hectorjosee3611 7 месяцев назад

    Heartbreak is so hard.

  • @heatherchandler-pz6op
    @heatherchandler-pz6op 7 месяцев назад +2

    Should I stop being friends with my ex if I'm not fully over him?

    • @mazayashah213
      @mazayashah213 7 месяцев назад

      😭I feel you, stay strong, stay classy, you’re beautiful

  • @rock_and_read_with_mannat
    @rock_and_read_with_mannat 8 месяцев назад

    First!!!! Love ya Sahar and Bree ❤❤❤

  • @anaswaraanilnair7346
    @anaswaraanilnair7346 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am happy that you are happy

  • @Hebrewstwelvefourteen
    @Hebrewstwelvefourteen 7 месяцев назад +1

    y’all need a channel together!! i adore your guys videos together! hope you feel better bestie!

  • @maui.tech.0415
    @maui.tech.0415 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wait. Sahara You were talking to someone? But nope? I’m confused.

  • @NostalgiaStarfish
    @NostalgiaStarfish 7 месяцев назад

    Plsss take more convos about the breakup plssssssss need this

  • @AddyIbbotson
    @AddyIbbotson 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love both of u so so much 🫶🏻

  • @MAGGIE.108
    @MAGGIE.108 7 месяцев назад

    I saw the title and I was just thinking, oh no Sahar is gonna bust out the Taylor lyrics again. (No hate I do it too😂😂😂)

  • @avaxo.222.
    @avaxo.222. 8 месяцев назад

    love you girls xx🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @Willowfaerie013
    @Willowfaerie013 8 месяцев назад +1

    Omg I had to click on this video the moment I saw it 😂 ❤

  • @penelope6396
    @penelope6396 7 месяцев назад

    Renegade relationships i swear to fucking god..😭

  • @Ldrts13
    @Ldrts13 8 месяцев назад

    I LOVE YOUUU

  • @ricolives1166
    @ricolives1166 8 месяцев назад +1

    Didnt even know Sahar had a man. So I have a chance?!🙏

  • @doodle41
    @doodle41 8 месяцев назад

    I was born at 3:33 p.m.💕I love angel numbers, loved this video too🤍

  • @miaelaine
    @miaelaine 7 месяцев назад

    IM GOING THROUGH A BREAKUP TOO😭

  • @ashley-pc2cd
    @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

    4:02 my NEEDS weren’t being met” (Sahar)

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      4:44 “mystery man did NOT fully love himself”

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      4:52 “someone can NOT love you until they love themselves”

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      5:51 “it’s not over”
      (she didn’t believe the relationship was over)

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      6:01 “I DON’T think you’re meant to be with him” 🧿
      “I think it’s for the BEST” (the break-up)

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      6:19 “LOVE ISNT ENOUGH”❣️

  • @ciara-z6h
    @ciara-z6h 6 месяцев назад

    Whats the other girls name again i forgot

  • @sabrinasingh4723
    @sabrinasingh4723 8 месяцев назад

    Why are Brianna and Adelaide not friends anymore ?

  • @JaylaGann
    @JaylaGann 7 месяцев назад

    Wait you mentioned god?? Which one are you a christian sahar???? I am thats why im asking i have a lot of religions trauma and i wish i could dress like you sometimes without feeling like im "showing off too much"

  • @ashley-pc2cd
    @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад +1

    0:13 were both SINGLE

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      1:10
      Their break-ups happened 1 month ago‼️

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      2:23 what happened?
      (He broke-up with her)

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      2:49 “it would be so much easier if he just did something”

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      3:00
      “I feel like he wants to BREAK-UP” 💔
      (Sahar)

    • @ashley-pc2cd
      @ashley-pc2cd 7 месяцев назад

      4:14 Bri BROKE UP with her boyfriend

  • @eviepup
    @eviepup 7 месяцев назад

    BRI where is your video?! ❤😂

  • @yasmeennassar704
    @yasmeennassar704 8 месяцев назад +1

    Hi Sahar 👋🏻

  • @93tianna
    @93tianna 7 месяцев назад

    I swear guys only care about their external image (3go)

  • @TheDannyShow647
    @TheDannyShow647 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great content! Are you interested in coming on my podcast?

  • @they.love.londonnn
    @they.love.londonnn 8 месяцев назад

    Hi !!

  • @CurrentlyNPC
    @CurrentlyNPC 8 месяцев назад

    What is bris channel name?

  • @yasmeennassar704
    @yasmeennassar704 8 месяцев назад

    🥰

  • @ABBY.IS.UNSTOPPABLE
    @ABBY.IS.UNSTOPPABLE 8 месяцев назад +1

    Omgggg first

  • @Sapphires1985
    @Sapphires1985 7 месяцев назад

    2024 has been garbage Soo far 😢

  • @shaunaleah8769
    @shaunaleah8769 8 месяцев назад

    🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @wazzykid7726
    @wazzykid7726 7 месяцев назад

    Bullshit they where definitely cheated on they js dont know

    • @Hermionee-Jean-Granger
      @Hermionee-Jean-Granger 7 месяцев назад +1

      you assume things about people that you are likely to do, it really says more about you than their exes if you think shít like this