Absolutely right Marriage will not be enough for such a person who has been blinded by his carnel desires, bcz marriage is a relationship based upon morality, values i.e honesty, purity, dedication, responsibility not for the temporary pleasure, for which such people's are mad, after sometime they might be involved in post marital affairs causing more harm to society
السّلام علیکم Respectfully not agreed. Can't be punished for the futural possiblities ill morality . Please justify your comments according to sharia ???? thanks to consider stay blessed
In bhaijan ko Sawal Hi Sahi Se Krna Nh Araha . asal Bt Ye He k Deen dekh kr Shadi To Wahi Insan Krega jisko Khud Ko deen ki smjh Hogi . Jisko Khud Hi deen ka Kch Nh Pta Uska Deen se Kia Lena wo Bhala Larki Men Q Deen Dekhega .. To Jesi Aurat Hogi Usi Kisim Ka hi Mard Usko milega To sahil Bhai Ki Ye bt Yahan Fit bethti Nh He .. Q K Jo Log Pure Hi deen Se Farigh Muslman Hen Ab Unki Shadian Kia srf Is Base pr rok kr rkhni Chahiyen k inko Deen Ka Nh Pta ? Or Agr Ye Shadi Krlenge To In jese Or Bache Society Men Pehel Jaenge ? To Yahan Sahil Sahab Society Ka To Khayal Kr rahe Hen Lekin un Larkay Larkiyoun ka Nh Kr rahe Jo deen se door hen q k Agr Srf Deen Ki Wja Se Unki shadi Nh Hone Di To Iska nateeja Ye Niklega k 10 Saal Bad Bh Un men Deen To aega Nh Lekin wo 10 Saal Tk Zina Or Haramkariyoun Men Or Apne Ap Ko Barbaad Krdenge Or Phr Sari Ayyashi Krke Phr Shadi Krenge To Faida or Kch Nh Hona Blke Ulta Nuqsan hona He 10 Saal Haram Kari Krke Or unki Nature Men Khabasat Beth Jaegi to Bt Sari ye he k Hum srf Society Ka Khayal Krte Hue Esa Nh Kr Skte k Dusre Ko Gunah Krne De Or Itna Bara Gunah jiska Allah Pak Ne Farmaya K Zina K Qareeb Bh Mt Phatakna . To sahil Sahab Se Koi Ye Puche K Zina Ziada Bara Gunah He Ya Society Men Un Jese Bache Pehel Jayen Ye Ziada Bara Gunah He ? Q K unki jldi Shadi hone se ye faida hoga K sb se Pehle To Wo Zina Se Bachenge Or Jb itne Bare Gunah se Bachenge or ye Facebook Wagerah Ki Gandagi Se Unka Dimagh Hatega To Deen To Shadi K Bad Bh Smjha Jaskta He Agr Allah Unko Hidayat De Or Kbhi Bh Kisi Ko Bh Hidayat Askti He. Iska Ye Ilaaj Nh k Shadi pr hi pabandi Lga Do Takay bache hi na Houn. bhai Sahab Allah Jisko chahta He Hidayat Deta He bht Se Kharab gharane K Bache Bh hidayat Mil Kr Bht Bare Bare Kaam krlete hen Allah Ne Hr Chiz Ka Wk Wkt Rakha He Allah Jb Chahta He Tb hi Hidayat Milti He.. or Jldi Shadi Krne Men To phr Bh Seedhe Raste Ki trf ane k ziada Chance Hen lekin Jo Shadi Hi Na Kre Wo To Apni Sari Zindagi Isi Haramkariyoun Men Brbaad Krdega .. to Hum Srf Apne Faide K Liyen Ya Society K Faide K Liyen Kisi Shaks Ko Iski Ijazat Nh de Skte K Beta Shadi Abhi Nh Kro chahe Zina Krte Raho.. Ye Kia Logic Hui ? Humne To Khudko Bh Or dusroun Ko bh Gunah Se Bachana He Or dusre ko zina Se Bachane ka Sbse Asaan Tareeqa Yahi He K shadi Krdo Q K Kisi ki bh Kisi bh waqt Mout askti He Or Agr Uski Isi Haram Kari Men Mout ajae To Kia Hoga ? To Itna Intezar Nh Kra Jata k araam Se jb Deen Aega Tb shadi Hogi . jese Bhooke Ko roti Ki zrurat Hoti He Wese Hi Mard Or Aurat Ko Ek dusre Ki zrurat He Ye Insan Ki Physical needs Hen Or Jld Se jld Isko Pura Krne Ka Sbse Bara faida Ye K Maashre Se zina Or Behayai Khatam Hogi jb Ye Maashre Se Khatam hogaya To Adhe Log to wese hi Thre Insan K bache Bn jaenge Phr Deen Bh Sth sth seekhte rahen . Hr kaam Ek Sth Hota He Jese Tazkiya Nafs Or Jihaad Ek sth hota Wese Hi shadi Bh Sth Sth Hoti He.. Humne Sbse Pehle Khud Ko gunah se Bachana Or zina jese gunah Se Bachana He Baki society Wagerah bad Men Ati He Allah Chahega To Shadi K Bad Bh 2noun Ko Ya unke Bachoun Ko Hidayat De dega .. to Sahil sahab Ki Baten Bari achi Bari Logical Hoti Hen Pr bht Si Jaga Ghltiyan Kr jate Hen Sahil sahab Ne Ye nh socha K deen Sikhane K chakkar Men faida nh Nuqsaan Hoga . Deen Kisi ne Seekhna He nh pr Maashre Men Jb zina Aam Hogaya Or nikah Hona Bnd Hogaya to Society Ka Itna Bura Haal Hoga K apki soch he Family System Tabah hojaega Pura Western Culture Bn Jaega Idhr .. Der Se Nikah Krne ki Hud se ziada Kharabiyan Hen Ye Behayai Or Zina phela Hi is Wja se He Q k nikah Mushkil krdia he Or zina Asaan Krdia He .. To Sahil Adeem Sahab Ko in Tamam Nuqsaanat Ko dekhte hue Bt Krni Chahiye Ye bt Mere Bilkul Smjh nh ai Unki .. Deen ko Agr Ap Pure Deen Ki Tarah Se Lekr Chlenge Tb Hi bilkul sahi nizaam Chlega Agr Usmen Zra Sa Bh Science Ka ya Apni Zahanat Ka Tarka Lgaya To Nateeja Acha Hone k Bad Bura Niklega .. ap SAW K Dor Men knse Sb Log Deen Daar Hua Krte the ? Lekin Shadi Sb Krte The Na ? Or jldi hi krte The . Ya Ap SAW unhen Kehte The K Pehle Deen men Pakke Hojao Tb hi Shadi Krna ? Esa Kia Keh skte the Ap SAW? Yakeenan isi Liyen Esa Nh Kaha Q K agr Nikah Se rok dia Gaya To Log Zina Krenge wrna Agr Allah Tala Chahte To Wo bh esa Qanoon bna Skte The K Pehle Deen Par Aboor hasil kro Phr Shadi krna wrna Ijazat Nh shadi Ki .. lekin Apko Esa Hukum Koi Nh milega .. ye hukum milega K Deen Dekho yani K Jo Waqye Deen Ki Smjh Rkhne Wale Log Hen Waqye Men Momin Log hen To Wo Khoobsoorti k Piche mar Mit Kr Esi Lrki se shadi Na krlen jo deen se Farigh ho Jbhi ye Hukum Dia K deen Dekho Q K ek deendar Shaks Ko bh Khoobsoorti hi attract Kregi Jbhi deen ki Trf tawajjo dilai gai .. baki jo deendar khud nh To Wo apni jesi Hi Talash Krega lekin Uske Liyen Shadi Pr Pabandi Thri Lgai ap SAW Ne .. jbhi ye Ayat he K Pak Aurten Pak Mardoun K liyen Or Napak aurten Napak Mardoun K Liyen .. Jiska Mtlb Ye K Jo Jesa Hota He Wo wesi Hi Chiz Ka Apne Liyen Intekhaab Krta He .. Isliyen shadi k Liyen Allah ki trf se esi koi Shart nh Lgai gai K jo deen se farigh ho wo shadi hi na Kre . q K Allah Ko Maloom Tha K esi shart Lga Di To ye shadi Nh krenge to zina Krenge or Mazeed Gunahoun Men Parhenge Isliyen Allah Ne Jo sahi Chiz Thi Wo Bta di K Jo jo deen Ki Smjh Rakhta He usko chahiye K Khoobsoorti K bjae Deen Pr Foqiyat De. pr Ye Cheezen Lazim Nh qarar din q K Jo Koi deen ko foqiyat De ga hr chiz men Wo Insan Khud Apna Faida Krega Or jo nh dega Wo Khud Apna Nuqsan Krega. pr Allah jo asal Men Chahte Hen wo Ye K Uska Banda Hr Trhan K chote Bare Tamam Gunahoun se Bach Kr Rahe jbhi kisi Chiz Men esi Shart Nh lgate Jis Se insan k Liyen Gunah Ka Or zina Ka darwaza Khul Jae . pr Sahil Sahab Jo point Of view de rahe hen Is Se burai K Darwaze or mazeed Khulenge To Meri Guzarish He K deen Ko Deen Ki Trhan Se lekr Chlen agr us men Apne Dimagh Lgane Shuru Kre to Faide k Bjae Nuqsan Hoga . baki Allah Pak Hum sbki rehnumai Frmae
Nek parents k bache b badkar hote h.. Shaitan khi n khi bhkata hi h family system ki azmaish ya allah ki saza kuch b samjhe.. Solution is that rely on ALLAH with taqwa tawakkal n proper knowledge of deen should provide to children in early ages n help n guide them develope their taqwa n tawakkul towards ALLAH.. Pardon me if i m wrong..jazakallah
@@np3247 السّلام علیکم آپ کی بات میں سقم ھے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ کی سزا نیک لوگوں کو کیوں ھو گی ؟؟؟ بتائیں ذرا شکریہ باقی رہی بات نیک لوگوں کی اولاد میں سے نا فرمان پیدا ھو سکتے ھیں جی ہاں یہ بہت بڑی آزمائش ہے لیکن یہ سب جاننے کے باوجود ھمیں حکم ھے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ اور رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی اطاعت کرنے کا اور کثرت سے مضبوط ارادے کے ساتھ توبہ کرنے کا شیریں درانی You can please contact to me hopefully I will try to make you satisefy and appreciate your healthy thoughts stay blessed
@@np3247 you are right to say . لیکن غور فرمائیں یہ نیک لوگوں کے ساتھ نہیں ھے کیونکہ آپ نے جو صورت بتائی ہے یہ نافرمان لوگوں پر پوری اترتی ہے اور جس وقت انسان نافرمان ھوتا ھے اس وقت نیک نہیں ھوتا اسی طرح اس کا معکوس بھی ھے کہ بعض اوقات انسان کو نافرمانی پر سزا ملتی جو اس کی توبہ اور رجوع الی اللّٰہ تعالیٰ کا سبب بن جاتی ہے So it depends on the situation of the occuranse but it's very much clear that نیک لوگوں کو سزا نہیں ملتی ۔۔۔ شاید کہ تیرے دل میں اتر میری بات
Asslamualaikum sahil.. hume youth me esi soch ya amal motivate krna chaiye ki jo youth ab shadi kre wo proper deen ki guidelines pr chlte hue kre searching wedding n lifestyle etc after marriage n just before marriage.. Aur jin logo ki ho chuki h wo b deen k according chale chahe bure log ho ya ache log.. Huquq sikhe amal kre sbhi jinki ho gyi shadi wo b aur jinki nhi hui wo b..
As Salamu Alikum Be Reaponsible Shadi karna important nahi Responsibility lena khude ki Aur ladaki ki zindagi ki aage chalkar usse bhi koi takleef na ho Allah ke bande dhokebaz nahi hote 😔
Thnkfully koi to h jo shdi ko shdi ki nzr sa dkhta h naky halal zina. i always say marry after being mature, responsible, stable & educated nikkah bhly jldi krlo lkn rukhsti ma time lo 1dusry ko jano Islam b ijzt dyta 1dusry ko smjhny ni taky bad ma msly na ho ajkl arrange marriage krna bewaqufi h. Teenage ma hamy hr chiz perfect ljti ham jzbti hoty sabko jhlt smjhty even parents, shdi ko sirf s x factor sa dkhty jbky ya 1bhot bari zimdari h lkn chand scholars na isko mzk khel bankr rkha h. Nabi na b 25ma ki thi wo b isliy cuz hazart khadija earn krti thi wrna wo itny stable ni thy k family k bojh uta skty ajkl divorce or domestic violence rate q bhar jya h? Q couple 1/2y ma hi tang ajty isiliy qk unko shdi k mtlb ni smjhya jya asy ma phr lrki or bchy jwani ma hi tabh hojty khas krky jab usky pass sahi education naho society ma stand krna na ata ho this gen is spoiled bcz we had family n kids without purpose. Dont teach youth to follow nafs otherwise they'll endup losing & destroying everything like genZ instead teach & grew them acc to islam . Stay focus on namz roza future career protect yourself inshallah u'll find better but unfortunately none talks bout it
No body can deny the aspect of fulfilling sexual desire or attain sexual pleasure with ones spouse..These sexual desires/physical desires (especially for male) push them to have relationship with female or get married with opposite gender..This is the most potent thing you can't just avoid it..why pornography is quite common especially in India and Pakistan?? Why so many tennagers are addicted to pornography and masturbation?? Why fornication is quite common nowadays (especially teenagers group)? Majority people deep inside Know what's the most important reason they're going to get married nd of course all the other things occurs spontaneously..If someone unable to control his desires then of course he/she should get married..nd of course I'm not saying u should treat your spouse like a s*x object.. Firstly you should have utmost respect for her...
Jo loog relationship mein pday hai study krne wale ..baki angles se thik hai.. Aur woh iss mein bht time waste kr rhe hai.. Should those people get married.... Is this the proper reason to get married.. Ulema shadi ka he suggestion dete hai.. Sahil adeem shb ke baat bht sahi lg rhe hai..
Intentiin of the question is good.... I guess he wanted to say marry at young age so that youngsters dont indulge in such things... Those who are already corrupted should be first brought to right path and then married....
no. He is actually an advocate of people getting married at an early age. Not to fulfill impulsive desire but for the purpose of raising leaders. There is a video on it
Ek mayoos insan mashirey ko sudharna to kia usko khud ka pata nahi hota. Sahil is waqt mayoosi ka shikar he, or usne apny ko chor kr sab ko bura kr diya.
If u thought & grew them acc fo islam they'll never go to Haram if not then they'll Even after marriage or kids & will destroy everyone life. Teach them how to protect their chastity by lowering gaze & keeping fast as Allah has said
Shadi jitni jaldi ho sake kar lo ۔۔Rizq ka kya hai Allah Atahara hazar mukhlooqat ko Rizq de raha hai kya woh biwi bachon ko Rizq ata nahi kare ga shohar ke zariye !!! Allah ne kaha tum apne pairon par khade ho kar to dikhao sambhal na mera kaam hai ۔۔۔ Lihaza shadi me jaldi karen
He actuaally saying ke agar in ke shaadi pehly ho jati jo k 80% awaam ha(involving in Haraam relationship and things like this.,to fitnah itna na phelta.
Meri Abu me Meri 18 saal main shadi kr di thi ab main 19.ka hon Mera idea ye hai Kya shadi jaldi karein magar Bache tab paida krein Jab aap financial stable ho jao AJ kla market main pregnancy rokne ke liye buhat material available hai
@@np3247 meray bhai abu fala ke mannay walon ke ilawa saro ka ijma hai ke ap agr rokna chahey to gunah nai hai lekin afzal or sawab ka kam na rokna hai.
Pata nahi is bandey ko nazar lag gayi ya kia ho gaya. Me to isko badey shoq se sunta ta or isko scholar k qareeb ka darja de raha ta. Abhi ye banda track se hat gaya. Unnatural batain karta he. Islam k falsafy se deviate ho raha he. Ek ek chiz ko pakarh kr sarey achey kamon ko bura kehna shuru kr deta he. Shadi se itna allergy he, kahi mamla kuch or to nahi.
Sahil Adeem sahb I'm not agree with you Jald shadi ki baat ha Gand ma mushkil ha jab unhay waqt ma halal mil jay second cheez Rasool Saw na kio kaha nikah Ankho aur sharam gah ki hifazat karta ha Second thing app kah rhay fazool paday hogay ya jald nhi howa jald mashray ma lakho najaiz bachay hongay Aur Pakhtoon maushra akay samnay ha jaha jald shadi ka riwaj ha pakhtoon loog to in gandi chezo ma bohoot kam ha aur unmay tharki bhi kam ha
Absolutely right
Marriage will not be enough for such a person who has been blinded by his carnel desires, bcz marriage is a relationship based upon morality, values i.e honesty, purity, dedication, responsibility not for the temporary pleasure, for which such people's are mad, after sometime they might be involved in post marital affairs causing more harm to society
السّلام علیکم
Respectfully not agreed. Can't be punished for the futural possiblities ill morality . Please justify your comments according to sharia ????
thanks to consider stay blessed
In bhaijan ko Sawal Hi Sahi Se Krna Nh Araha . asal Bt Ye He k Deen dekh kr Shadi To Wahi Insan Krega jisko Khud Ko deen ki smjh Hogi . Jisko Khud Hi deen ka Kch Nh Pta Uska Deen se Kia Lena wo Bhala Larki Men Q Deen Dekhega .. To Jesi Aurat Hogi Usi Kisim Ka hi Mard Usko milega To sahil Bhai Ki Ye bt Yahan Fit bethti Nh He .. Q K Jo Log Pure Hi deen Se Farigh Muslman Hen Ab Unki Shadian Kia srf Is Base pr rok kr rkhni Chahiyen k inko Deen Ka Nh Pta ? Or Agr Ye Shadi Krlenge To In jese Or Bache Society Men Pehel Jaenge ? To Yahan Sahil Sahab Society Ka To Khayal Kr rahe Hen Lekin un Larkay Larkiyoun ka Nh Kr rahe Jo deen se door hen q k Agr Srf Deen Ki Wja Se Unki shadi Nh Hone Di To Iska nateeja Ye Niklega k 10 Saal Bad Bh Un men Deen To aega Nh Lekin wo 10 Saal Tk Zina Or Haramkariyoun Men Or Apne Ap Ko Barbaad Krdenge Or Phr Sari Ayyashi Krke Phr Shadi Krenge To Faida or Kch Nh Hona Blke Ulta Nuqsan hona He 10 Saal Haram Kari Krke Or unki Nature Men Khabasat Beth Jaegi to Bt Sari ye he k Hum srf Society Ka Khayal Krte Hue Esa Nh Kr Skte k Dusre Ko Gunah Krne De Or Itna Bara Gunah jiska Allah Pak Ne Farmaya K Zina K Qareeb Bh Mt Phatakna . To sahil Sahab Se Koi Ye Puche K Zina Ziada Bara Gunah He Ya Society Men Un Jese Bache Pehel Jayen Ye Ziada Bara Gunah He ? Q K unki jldi Shadi hone se ye faida hoga K sb se Pehle To Wo Zina Se Bachenge Or Jb itne Bare Gunah se Bachenge or ye Facebook Wagerah Ki Gandagi Se Unka Dimagh Hatega To Deen To Shadi K Bad Bh Smjha Jaskta He Agr Allah Unko Hidayat De Or Kbhi Bh Kisi Ko Bh Hidayat Askti He. Iska Ye Ilaaj Nh k Shadi pr hi pabandi Lga Do Takay bache hi na Houn. bhai Sahab Allah Jisko chahta He Hidayat Deta He bht Se Kharab gharane K Bache Bh hidayat Mil Kr Bht Bare Bare Kaam krlete hen Allah Ne Hr Chiz Ka Wk Wkt Rakha He Allah Jb Chahta He Tb hi Hidayat Milti He.. or Jldi Shadi Krne Men To phr Bh Seedhe Raste Ki trf ane k ziada Chance Hen lekin Jo Shadi Hi Na Kre Wo To Apni Sari Zindagi Isi Haramkariyoun Men Brbaad Krdega .. to Hum Srf Apne Faide K Liyen Ya Society K Faide K Liyen Kisi Shaks Ko Iski Ijazat Nh de Skte K Beta Shadi Abhi Nh Kro chahe Zina Krte Raho.. Ye Kia Logic Hui ? Humne To Khudko Bh Or dusroun Ko bh Gunah Se Bachana He Or dusre ko zina Se Bachane ka Sbse Asaan Tareeqa Yahi He K shadi Krdo Q K Kisi ki bh Kisi bh waqt Mout askti He Or Agr Uski Isi Haram Kari Men Mout ajae To Kia Hoga ? To Itna Intezar Nh Kra Jata k araam Se jb Deen Aega Tb shadi Hogi . jese Bhooke Ko roti Ki zrurat Hoti He Wese Hi Mard Or Aurat Ko Ek dusre Ki zrurat He Ye Insan Ki Physical needs Hen Or Jld Se jld Isko Pura Krne Ka Sbse Bara faida Ye K Maashre Se zina Or Behayai Khatam Hogi jb Ye Maashre Se Khatam hogaya To Adhe Log to wese hi Thre Insan K bache Bn jaenge Phr Deen Bh Sth sth seekhte rahen . Hr kaam Ek Sth Hota He Jese Tazkiya Nafs Or Jihaad Ek sth hota Wese Hi shadi Bh Sth Sth Hoti He.. Humne Sbse Pehle Khud Ko gunah se Bachana Or zina jese gunah Se Bachana He Baki society Wagerah bad Men Ati He Allah Chahega To Shadi K Bad Bh 2noun Ko Ya unke Bachoun Ko Hidayat De dega .. to Sahil sahab Ki Baten Bari achi Bari Logical Hoti Hen Pr bht Si Jaga Ghltiyan Kr jate Hen Sahil sahab Ne Ye nh socha K deen Sikhane K chakkar Men faida nh Nuqsaan Hoga . Deen Kisi ne Seekhna He nh pr Maashre Men Jb zina Aam Hogaya Or nikah Hona Bnd Hogaya to Society Ka Itna Bura Haal Hoga K apki soch he Family System Tabah hojaega Pura Western Culture Bn Jaega Idhr .. Der Se Nikah Krne ki Hud se ziada Kharabiyan Hen Ye Behayai Or Zina phela Hi is Wja se He Q k nikah Mushkil krdia he Or zina Asaan Krdia He .. To Sahil Adeem Sahab Ko in Tamam Nuqsaanat Ko dekhte hue Bt Krni Chahiye Ye bt Mere Bilkul Smjh nh ai Unki .. Deen ko Agr Ap Pure Deen Ki Tarah Se Lekr Chlenge Tb Hi bilkul sahi nizaam Chlega Agr Usmen Zra Sa Bh Science Ka ya Apni Zahanat Ka Tarka Lgaya To Nateeja Acha Hone k Bad Bura Niklega .. ap SAW K Dor Men knse Sb Log Deen Daar Hua Krte the ? Lekin Shadi Sb Krte The Na ? Or jldi hi krte The . Ya Ap SAW unhen Kehte The K Pehle Deen men Pakke Hojao Tb hi Shadi Krna ? Esa Kia Keh skte the Ap SAW? Yakeenan isi Liyen Esa Nh Kaha Q K agr Nikah Se rok dia Gaya To Log Zina Krenge wrna Agr Allah Tala Chahte To Wo bh esa Qanoon bna Skte The K Pehle Deen Par Aboor hasil kro Phr Shadi krna wrna Ijazat Nh shadi Ki .. lekin Apko Esa Hukum Koi Nh milega .. ye hukum milega K Deen Dekho yani K Jo Waqye Deen Ki Smjh Rkhne Wale Log Hen Waqye Men Momin Log hen To Wo Khoobsoorti k Piche mar Mit Kr Esi Lrki se shadi Na krlen jo deen se Farigh ho Jbhi ye Hukum Dia K deen Dekho Q K ek deendar Shaks Ko bh Khoobsoorti hi attract Kregi Jbhi deen ki Trf tawajjo dilai gai .. baki jo deendar khud nh To Wo apni jesi Hi Talash Krega lekin Uske Liyen Shadi Pr Pabandi Thri Lgai ap SAW Ne .. jbhi ye Ayat he K Pak Aurten Pak Mardoun K liyen Or Napak aurten Napak Mardoun K Liyen .. Jiska Mtlb Ye K Jo Jesa Hota He Wo wesi Hi Chiz Ka Apne Liyen Intekhaab Krta He .. Isliyen shadi k Liyen Allah ki trf se esi koi Shart nh Lgai gai K jo deen se farigh ho wo shadi hi na Kre . q K Allah Ko Maloom Tha K esi shart Lga Di To ye shadi Nh krenge to zina Krenge or Mazeed Gunahoun Men Parhenge Isliyen Allah Ne Jo sahi Chiz Thi Wo Bta di K Jo jo deen Ki Smjh Rakhta He usko chahiye K Khoobsoorti K bjae Deen Pr Foqiyat De. pr Ye Cheezen Lazim Nh qarar din q K Jo Koi deen ko foqiyat De ga hr chiz men Wo Insan Khud Apna Faida Krega Or jo nh dega Wo Khud Apna Nuqsan Krega. pr Allah jo asal Men Chahte Hen wo Ye K Uska Banda Hr Trhan K chote Bare Tamam Gunahoun se Bach Kr Rahe jbhi kisi Chiz Men esi Shart Nh lgate Jis Se insan k Liyen Gunah Ka Or zina Ka darwaza Khul Jae . pr Sahil Sahab Jo point Of view de rahe hen Is Se burai K Darwaze or mazeed Khulenge To Meri Guzarish He K deen Ko Deen Ki Trhan Se lekr Chlen agr us men Apne Dimagh Lgane Shuru Kre to Faide k Bjae Nuqsan Hoga . baki Allah Pak Hum sbki rehnumai Frmae
Your point of views are totally different and totally correct..
Agreed
Bohat Acha question hai
Reality hai
Parents theek ,,society theek ,,,,InshaAllah
Nek parents k bache b badkar hote h..
Shaitan khi n khi bhkata hi h family system ki azmaish ya allah ki saza kuch b samjhe..
Solution is that rely on ALLAH with taqwa tawakkal n proper knowledge of deen should provide to children in early ages n help n guide them develope their taqwa n tawakkul towards ALLAH..
Pardon me if i m wrong..jazakallah
@@np3247 السّلام علیکم آپ کی بات میں سقم ھے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ کی سزا نیک لوگوں کو کیوں ھو گی ؟؟؟ بتائیں ذرا شکریہ
باقی رہی بات نیک لوگوں کی اولاد میں سے نا فرمان پیدا ھو سکتے ھیں جی ہاں یہ بہت بڑی آزمائش ہے لیکن یہ سب جاننے کے باوجود ھمیں حکم ھے اللّٰہ تعالیٰ اور رسول صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کی اطاعت کرنے کا اور کثرت سے مضبوط ارادے کے ساتھ توبہ کرنے کا شیریں درانی
You can please contact to me hopefully I will try to make you satisefy and appreciate your healthy thoughts stay blessed
@@muhammadlatifqadri.koi b pareshani jo allah se dur krde to saza khlati aur jo allah k karib krde wo azmaish khlati h..
@@np3247 you are right to say .
لیکن غور فرمائیں یہ نیک لوگوں کے ساتھ نہیں ھے کیونکہ آپ نے جو صورت بتائی ہے یہ نافرمان لوگوں پر پوری اترتی ہے اور جس وقت انسان نافرمان ھوتا ھے اس وقت نیک نہیں ھوتا اسی طرح اس کا معکوس بھی ھے کہ بعض اوقات انسان کو نافرمانی پر سزا ملتی جو اس کی توبہ اور رجوع الی اللّٰہ تعالیٰ کا سبب بن جاتی ہے
So it depends on the situation of the occuranse but it's very much clear that
نیک لوگوں کو سزا نہیں ملتی ۔۔۔
شاید کہ تیرے دل میں اتر میری بات
@@muhammadlatifqadri. ok mtlb jinke bache bure h unke parents ko toba aur ruju krna chaiye..
INTEGRITY is part of morality
Asslamualaikum sahil.. hume youth me esi soch ya amal motivate krna chaiye ki jo youth ab shadi kre wo proper deen ki guidelines pr chlte hue kre searching wedding n lifestyle etc after marriage n just before marriage..
Aur jin logo ki ho chuki h wo b deen k according chale chahe bure log ho ya ache log..
Huquq sikhe amal kre sbhi jinki ho gyi shadi wo b aur jinki nhi hui wo b..
Totally agree with him 💯 apke masla apka masla hai. Koi insan tum logo ka masla haal karna k lia paida ni hoa
Bilkul sahi jawab
As Salamu Alikum
Be Reaponsible
Shadi karna important nahi
Responsibility lena khude ki Aur ladaki ki zindagi ki aage chalkar usse bhi koi takleef na ho
Allah ke bande dhokebaz nahi hote 😔
If you muslim then follow prophet Muhammad PBUH and he said jitni jaldi ho shadi ker di jay... So simple
@@abdulbasit-su1ol it’s not simple
Thnkfully koi to h jo shdi ko shdi ki nzr sa dkhta h naky halal zina. i always say marry after being mature, responsible, stable & educated nikkah bhly jldi krlo lkn rukhsti ma time lo 1dusry ko jano Islam b ijzt dyta 1dusry ko smjhny ni taky bad ma msly na ho ajkl arrange marriage krna bewaqufi h. Teenage ma hamy hr chiz perfect ljti ham jzbti hoty sabko jhlt smjhty even parents, shdi ko sirf s x factor sa dkhty jbky ya 1bhot bari zimdari h lkn chand scholars na isko mzk khel bankr rkha h. Nabi na b 25ma ki thi wo b isliy cuz hazart khadija earn krti thi wrna wo itny stable ni thy k family k bojh uta skty ajkl divorce or domestic violence rate q bhar jya h? Q couple 1/2y ma hi tang ajty isiliy qk unko shdi k mtlb ni smjhya jya asy ma phr lrki or bchy jwani ma hi tabh hojty khas krky jab usky pass sahi education naho society ma stand krna na ata ho this gen is spoiled bcz we had family n kids without purpose. Dont teach youth to follow nafs otherwise they'll endup losing & destroying everything like genZ instead teach & grew them acc to islam . Stay focus on namz roza future career protect yourself inshallah u'll find better but unfortunately none talks bout it
No body can deny the aspect of fulfilling sexual desire or attain sexual pleasure with ones spouse..These sexual desires/physical desires (especially for male) push them to have relationship with female or get married with opposite gender..This is the most potent thing you can't just avoid it..why pornography is quite common especially in India and Pakistan?? Why so many tennagers are addicted to pornography and masturbation?? Why fornication is quite common nowadays (especially teenagers group)? Majority people deep inside Know what's the most important reason they're going to get married nd of course all the other things occurs spontaneously..If someone unable to control his desires then of course he/she should get married..nd of course I'm not saying u should treat your spouse like a s*x object.. Firstly you should have utmost respect for her...
Apki psychology Sahil se ziada natural he.
Kahi Sahil ne virtual University se to degree nhi li he?
@@techknowledge1266 I don't know you should ask him on zoom by calling his team..😄
Zina Pakistan/India mai married loagon mai ziada common hai.
This thia this 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
Jo loog relationship mein pday hai study krne wale ..baki angles se thik hai.. Aur woh iss mein bht time waste kr rhe hai.. Should those people get married.... Is this the proper reason to get married.. Ulema shadi ka he suggestion dete hai..
Sahil adeem shb ke baat bht sahi lg rhe hai..
JazakAllah khairr
oh wow man...this reply shocked me
Parenting per baat honi chaiey
Right answer
Thanks
احب سماع جميع فديوهاتك .. لقد استفدت كثير من المعلومات القيمه التي تقدمها لنا ... حفظك الله و رعاك .. دكتور ساحل عديم .. ❤️
اعرفت لغه الارديه؟
Intentiin of the question is good.... I guess he wanted to say marry at young age so that youngsters dont indulge in such things... Those who are already corrupted should be first brought to right path and then married....
Sir sorry to say but you also need some classes on Marriage.
And also need to know about reality.
He is right though
Maybe you should give him
JazakAllah g
La takrabuss zina
Roza karo kam khao pet bhar kr mat khao aur nafs ke khilaf raho thode se din ki baat hai
Fir fa dakhala zanna.
❤😂🎉
kindly someone explain what he said at 10:15
It means that girls who have materialistic thinking not emotionally and mentally mature
Best answer by Sahil adeem...because marriage isnt problem solver in fact things become complicated afterwards..
Sorry not agreed and this is not the authenticated answer dear Rider think about ride as well stay blessed
@@muhammadlatifqadri. Depends from person to person. Can't say for everybody. Maybe if the person is serious, they can be bent towards good.
no. He is actually an advocate of people getting married at an early age. Not to fulfill impulsive desire but for the purpose of raising leaders. There is a video on it
7:01 Bhai aap clear bolo
If you want to protect your kids from haram then give them halal ways
phir bhi haram kerty hn
@@OdysseyOrigin3 phr khudkushi karo Sahil ne wo halal kr diya he
Ek mayoos insan mashirey ko sudharna to kia usko khud ka pata nahi hota. Sahil is waqt mayoosi ka shikar he, or usne apny ko chor kr sab ko bura kr diya.
If u thought & grew them acc fo islam they'll never go to Haram if not then they'll Even after marriage or kids & will destroy everyone life. Teach them how to protect their chastity by lowering gaze & keeping fast as Allah has said
Shadi jitni jaldi ho sake kar lo ۔۔Rizq ka kya hai Allah Atahara hazar mukhlooqat ko Rizq de raha hai kya woh biwi bachon ko Rizq ata nahi kare ga shohar ke zariye !!!
Allah ne kaha tum apne pairon par khade ho kar to dikhao sambhal na mera kaam hai ۔۔۔
Lihaza shadi me jaldi karen
Agreed❣️
Bheek per pal raha hai Pakistan isi jahilana mentality ki wajah se. Jis din default hua Allah bhi aisi nikimi quom ko rizak nahi dega.
you are wrong if you don't married its not mean you do sin it's all depends on you.
Ap kindly english na bola krain hmary parents ko nhi ati English kl mai aik bayan suna rhi thi mama ko pr uc mai English thi bht
U r sweet
بسم الله
Hurry up hurry up
Kon c orat sa bachoo samj nahi ai
Mjy to smj e ni ye bnda sawal kia kra h
Sexual desire 💯= Emaan/Eyes &Enviroment
He actuaally saying ke agar in ke shaadi pehly ho jati jo k 80% awaam ha(involving in Haraam relationship and things like this.,to fitnah itna na phelta.
دین تو ھے ھی اکا دکا کا تو پھر دینداروں کی شادی ھی ممکن نہیں
Meri Abu me Meri 18 saal main shadi kr di thi ab main 19.ka hon Mera idea ye hai Kya shadi jaldi karein magar Bache tab paida krein Jab aap financial stable ho jao AJ kla market main pregnancy rokne ke liye buhat material available hai
@@np3247 meray bhai abu fala ke mannay walon ke ilawa saro ka ijma hai ke ap agr rokna chahey to gunah nai hai lekin afzal or sawab ka kam na rokna hai.
Fazool.......Ap apna Emmen ko masboot karay.........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Financially and mentally
mic band karo is ka yar, shor macha ra hy
💀
My 17.5 years old son is HAFIZ and student of class 12 th
Can he get MARRIAGE with out job or business
Please listen to video. You will get your answer.
@@SahilAdeemPodcast humein link send kardo takeh hum bhi es session ko join karday.
Mphil chemistry
@@SahilAdeemPodcast yes send him physiologist . this is the answer you suggest 10:40
Stop saying Matlab Matlab
Bht poor quality sound
Pata nahi is bandey ko nazar lag gayi ya kia ho gaya.
Me to isko badey shoq se sunta ta or isko scholar k qareeb ka darja de raha ta.
Abhi ye banda track se hat gaya. Unnatural batain karta he. Islam k falsafy se deviate ho raha he.
Ek ek chiz ko pakarh kr sarey achey kamon ko bura kehna shuru kr deta he.
Shadi se itna allergy he, kahi mamla kuch or to nahi.
Jnab kuch sahi sy pta nahi chalta ab apki videos sy
Sahil Adeem sahb I'm not agree with you
Jald shadi ki baat ha
Gand ma mushkil ha jab unhay waqt ma halal mil jay second cheez
Rasool Saw na kio kaha nikah Ankho aur sharam gah ki hifazat karta ha
Second thing app kah rhay fazool paday hogay ya jald nhi howa jald mashray ma lakho najaiz bachay hongay
Aur Pakhtoon maushra akay samnay ha jaha jald shadi ka riwaj ha pakhtoon loog to in gandi chezo ma bohoot kam ha aur unmay tharki bhi kam ha
Lahor wapas kardo sahi bola 🤣🤣🤣
'Sir pura mulq he chala jyega' 😂
Fazool vedio......ma agree nahi is insane sa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Farq nhi parhta
Sahil adeem ki bate mane toh har jagah. Brothel khul jayenge