I felt like you were talking to me every single moment! Anxiety is no joke and it’s sad that some people don’t understand. Especially in the Hispanic/Latin culture people think you are crazy or just being dramatic. I also suffer from anxiety and now depression, it’s the worst feeling ever. It makes me so sad. I truly appreciate that you are going public and talking about it, makes me feel better! ❤️❤️ I admire you!
I feel like it’s not even anxiety anymore, there’s just so many bad things always happening and it’s just hard for anyone to be genuinely happy and not anxious about things that might happen😕
Blanca, look up “enmeshment” and “codependency.” It’s basically when you become too emotionally attached to another person and they do the same. And being apart from that person creates extreme anxiety. It’s super common with Latinos because our families are migrants. To give one example, some of us grew up with multiple families in the same house due to not being able to afford separate houses. Everyone is cramped in the same house & they become dependent on each other. And not only that, it’s just in our culture to be super bonded with our families so we don’t know how to separate ourselves at times. And we tend to apply this to everyone in our lives. It’s also common when you grow up with strict parents. Strict parents didn’t give us boundaries or space to become our own person or learn from our own mistakes. So when you grow up, you unconsciously do the same with your friends or partner. You don’t have boundaries or you become too involved in their lives. And being apart becomes too much. 😫
The older I get the harder it is getting for me to go out and be social. I just love being at home with my hubby and daughter. I always feel like something bad is going to happen. I was all like ya let's party and go out every weekend in my early 20s. I hit these 30s and it's like no ma'am lol
Omg!! I feel the same exact way. It’s a scary world out there. I’m also in my 30’s and have two boys. It’s just not fun being alone especially with all the woman that are going missing.
Girls same and I'm only 20 ... I feel like I partied so much as a teen and I saw the dangers of the world so young and there is nothing better than drinking iced coffee at home w your man and watching RUclips with a candle on.. that's why I don't have any friends anymore lol...😭😐
I get the most anxiety going to peoples parties and having to stand up infront of everyone 😩 peoples stares drive me crazy i feel like im walking naked like in reality im not😩😩
I also get like that at parties .My husband drinks at parties and he loves dancing i dont .People stare and i gt evn more anxiety and i cannot dance lol
I just feel like as a mom we always carry so much on our shoulders that we never have time to be mentally ok we go through alot and it sucks being so anxious and just only having our family and our home to feel safe but i know that being with them makes me feel better and it's going to take time to feel 100% after everything that's been happening wish you nothing but the best and don't forget we support you always ❤❤❤❤
That’s exactly how I feel . I’m always home doing online shopping and when I go out I get very bad anxiety 😥 I cry sometimes cause I feel so unbalanced cause of my anxiety and it isn’t getting any better . I be feeling like I’m dreaming or like ppl are staring at me like if I’m crazy .
I felt every word you said...that's how I feel every day even when I wake up...I throw up for no reason...it's a struggle and for ppl that don't understand think it's funny
I truly believe becoming a mom does awake anxiety more. For the longest I knew I had depression but I never knew I had anxiety. My husband always tells me I need to stop being scared but it’s SO hard. I was so social and at this point I’m scared to talk to a stranger because what if they follow me and harm me and it’s just me and my baby. Girl I won’t even go to the grocery store alone lol I need my husband EVERYWHERE!
I've been living with social anxiety for 8 years now, I hate feeling like this everyday....there was a time in my life that I couldn't even leave my house.
Many people say your 30's are better than your 20's and i truly believe it! I feel like I'm having a spiritual awakening as well. All the petty stuff doesn't matter. It's all about being happy. Whatever that means for you. Anyways! Thank you for being real and sharing your struggles ❤
That is exactly how I feel when I go out, my anxiety is always triggered and I start shaking or stuttering when I talk. Btw love these types of videos 💕
I started having social anxiety ever since I became a stay at home mom! It sucks because I mentally have to prepare myself to go out. And this pandemic has just made it worse 😩
As a mom of 2 kids it's hard especially when you have depression and anxiety...it take over your world...but with the grace of God we will over come it on day at a time...sending you positive vibes
I am the same way & its so frustrating that other people don't get it, the way we feel. Anxiety is something so hard to deal with. Its not as easy as they make it seem to get through a situation. I wish I can be that type of person too that is driving all over town alone doing things independently, going places. Then again me being a stay at home Mom for 6 years probably made me more this way, always being home & not having anyone to visit is depressing. I cry about it and pray. I hope we can all stay strong and positive!
One thing I love about you is that you stay away from drama amongst the influencers. Right now, there seems to be drama going on in some trips. Don’t get involved in them and just have fun 💕 I’m an ambivert 🥴
As you get older you become more vigilant about everything around you; people, your surroundings, etc. I for one don’t like being alone anywhere. With this pandemic I am more cautious about every little thing.
My anxiety is overwhelming me most days. I go to places and I automatically start looking for exits signs.. just in case something were to pop off. People are on edge even more nowadays. Times are sensitive and people die for the most dumbest reasons. Gotta protect my daughter and I
Omggg!! U legit described me! I'm 100% a social introvert & have never knew that was a thing!! When I tell my friends & loved ones that I get server anxiety from the stupidest things & they legit think I'm lying because when I'm with them I'm out going, social& confident but without them I literally am a big ball of EXTREME uncomfortable anxiety! U nailed it on the head forsure!! Becoming a mom deff made my paranoid anxiety go thru the friggen roof!! Love you girl! ♥️♥️
My mom has always been dealing with anxiety and depression and it’s so scary because she always tries to make sure it doesn’t get to her as much because she gets very overwhelmed and starts to panic , I really hope your anxiety doesn’t get so bad and your such a strong person evette and such a good mom you got this girl ❤️❤️❤️ it’s ok if you don’t like being in yourself I know my mom doesn’t either especially when she isn’t feeling well cause her anxiety gets to her sometimes
Omg yes with everything going on in the world I don’t even like going out no more and then when I’m out I’m just so ready to come home ... love how we’re not alone and we can relate 💕
Blanca I love how open with who you really are people always gots something negative to say especially when there not happy. Love im having a spiritual awakening thats just what it is Blanca its normal to feel fear especially now that your a mom pray more go to church start your kids on it too now that there little god bless you
I went through terrible anxiety and depression once before and honestly wouldn’t wish it on anyone especially when you’re with your kids. I looove your eyebrows and wish it was that simple for me tooo ugh ❤️
But honestly that’s one of the reasons why Blanca is one of the MOST UNPROBLEMATIC influencers!!!☺️ she’s never in drama, and she keeps to herself❤️ she literally just puts her focus on her kids, her brand, and making amazing content! That’s one of the reasons why I love her! But I totally get where she’s coming from about branching out! ❤️ love you Blanca!!❤️
Girl I'm ALWAYS home to alot and I feel this way when I leave the house to and I hate it I know I'm being akward and I feel stupid 😂🥺🙄 and yes I loved going out when I was younger and the older I get things change so much 🥺
With the whole trust thing I completely agree. I used to be so open, etc until my hunny's 2 sisters decided to talk about me for literally no reason at all just because I decided to quit my job & stay home with my daughter full time. They were saying "she's using an excuse to be a stay at home mom because she's lazy" "she just wants to use my brother for his money" etc. The only thing that hurt me was that my hunny didn't defend me whatsoever. His excuse was "those are my sisters, i'm always gonna chose their side regardless." & when i confronted them & stuck up for myself since he couldn't all of a sudden i'm a bitch, i'm crazy, i'm rude. 🤦🏻♀️ My daughter just turned 3 & his family doesn't even know her. Of the years she's been born they only met her maybe 6 times. I refuse to be around any of them anymore & that's honestly what made me feel better. Leaving all the negativity out & my circle so so small.
Girl, you are so strong. I’d cry myself to sleep everyday knowing they’ve done that. Proud of you from moving away from that. My bf’s mom is the same way. Just cause I don’t text her all the time she feels there’s some sort of animosity or that I don’t like her 😒
@@dellaaa__ Thank you 🤍 Still to this day I try, i really do. I just don't know what makes people like them 2 even think that's ok to say. Being a mother & having to make sacrifices alone is already tough. I would assume doing what is best for your children was the best thing to do. Sad that they have a whole niece they don't even know & can honestly care less about.
@@jazzy679 That's what's funny about it too, before they decided to talk about me & the time we did get along they always wished they could be a stay at home mom one day and now that I am, apparently "i'm lazy" "it's an excuse just to be home" etc. 🤦🏻♀️ I'm just glad my daughter won't grow up around people like that.
I’ve never related to a video more than I have to this one, thank you for putting this out there & for talking about it since most of us can’t 🥺 I have bad anxiety I hate being home all the time but I hate going out too I’m so scared!!
I feel like as a mom we all have anxiety and especially with all the circumstances we have gone through this last year it has made it harder. But I am so thankful how honest you are with us. Because we can all relate to you. And your doing great ❤️ sending love to you and your family ❤️
I love your content ! You are Super down to earth normal person like you said that happens to be on the internet! I appreciate you letting us in your life ! I will be praying for you ! I deal with anxiety as well and is hard when ppl don’t believe that is a real thing . You got this❣️
i’m 17 & have major anxiety. i also have really bad phases when i get extremely sad too. it sucks so much because if i’m not getting distracted by something, i’ll just be in that state. ive been working at KFC for 2 months now (my first job) and i get so much anxiety before going into work & during work. i dedass cry so much from it. i feel so pressured by everyone and everything there. i’m trying to learn how to cope but it’s difficult. i wanna reach out for help but i’m lost, i don’t know who to go to. i need so much prayer.
Anxiety happened to me during a soccer game and I freaked out, cried, and wanted to stop playing because I felt like I didn't know what to do and every body was judging me. So anxiety sucks!!!!!
This background gives me old evette vibes lol 💕🥺but I totally understand when I get anxiety when I’m around a lot of people around not just because the pandemic I’ve always been like this lol
When she said the pizza senerio I felt that in my bones. Been there done that except i don’t have “my people” to back me up. My only “people” are my tiny humans and I feel like like people judge me the most for having 4 kids at 23 and for taking them out during covid but is like where am supposed to leave them!? When in reality no one probably gives a shit 🤣
I’m the same way! Some days my anxiety is so bad when I go out my stomach starts hurting I end up having to pee so much it’s so horrible. And especially going out alone w my three kids I’m always thinking someone is watching us or something. Moms they worry about everything. I love that ur so real and honest about how u feel. Don’t worry about the negative people they have a problem w themselves not with you. Love u 🥰
Omg yes I’m the same my anxiety is really bad now. Lately I’ve been getting panic attacks just this weekend we went to go run errands LA traffic is always bad but this weekend we were not moving all I kept seeing was cars cars I couldn’t breath omg I swear my anxiety had been so bad praying for better days for everyone 💙🙏🏽
Been dealing with that since I was 18 now 33 but I’m so happy and glad I’m more comfortable and confident around people now! Because I would get the same way panicky and not a well I also trained my brain to be stronger because I feel that is a huge part of it! I understand completely in what you are saying you are not alone! For the longest time I thought I was the only one! 🙏🏻
Same!! That is exactly how it is for me to leave my house the past couple of years too and i am a SAHM but the more I stay home the worse it gets so trying to leave the house more regularly
I’m so glad I’m not the only one!! 😫 Became a mom and BAMMM major anxiety!! Everything you said about how you felt is like you were taking the words out of my mind!! Thank you for sharing!! Needed this.
The same thing is happening to me I’m a mom of two girls and I get really bad anxiety and depression. I was never like this I can’t really go out with both of my girls by myself my man thinks i exaggerate but people are crazy.
I’m in your same shoes girl. My tell my husband bt he doesn’t understand it, I’m constantly looking around as if someone is starring at me &/or my daughter 😖
Idk why but recently I get crazy anxiety being in stores or being around a lot of people I just don’t like it. Also I don’t like confrontation. Like if people start questioning me I feel like I’m being attacked it’s so weird.
I hate being in public now. I do curbside or online everything. However, I live alone and travel alone. Polar opposite from who I used to be and I'm not sure why.
I feel you so much! I can’t have a regular conversation with a stranger now! but with my friends I’m so talkative and the loudest 😂.. i think it’s social anxiety that has built up ( but my anxiety is bad in general. I think about everything that’s happening in the world every second LITERALLY!) But i hope your anxiety gets a little better. Maybe being out more is what you need ! Love you ❤️❤️
I love this video ! I have similar struggle but i like to be by myself ever since the pandemic. To the point where I’ve become to comfortable being alone i get anxiety when i have to be around people. I’m trying to get back out there & one thing that’s helps is taking the focus off of myself and focusing on what i can do for others ❤️
When she said becoming a mom has triggered that even more I feel her so much on that because I’m so crazy about my kids and want to protect them from everything that it’s so overwhelming
Im like this too bc i live in a much bigger city from my hometown and its just my sister & I. I feel like the thing that I haven done to help me get out is just taking myself on “self-dates” just do some target runs, starbucks runs, to the mall just small things. I haven’t been able to do dinner by myself but maybe start with like sitting in a cafe by yourself with just a coffee. It helps alot!🤍
As a Mom of 3 it was sooooo hard for me to start getting used to doing "normal" things with my kids after being in the house for more than a year. I would get anxiety to the point where I was like "never going anywhere again" lol but with my kids being very hyperactive I had to honestly deal with it and do it for them. I think it's okay to feel this way and as you start doing more and more things you'll start feeling more at ease. Sometimes getting out of our comfort zone actually helps. It takes time but you'll get there. Sending you nothing but positive vibez. 🤗
Girl you are definitely going through a spiritual awakening. It’s definitely a roller coaster ride and at times pretty messy but it’s all worth it. Always trust your intuition and it’s all about the vibes. ✨
During this video you literally took the words out of my mouth! I’ve struggled with anxiety and some depression for over 5 years now. I take medication but still feel anxious. Sometimes I’ll make scenarios in my head of some bad shit happening before I go into public😫 I always order my groceries online and stay home for the most part. I dread putting in orders for food as well. If I’m out at a store I get anxious before going up to the cash register or a person to ask a question etc. because people are so rude and I just assume they will be lol. I try to remind myself it’s not healthy to live life in fear but these days it’s hard not to with all the shootings and shit going on. I hope you find something that helps you overcome those feelings. Hang in there💕
I’m so glad your clearing this up because I’m tired of seeing comments of girls always assuming that you have beef with this influencer or with that influencer. People always think RUclipsrs have beef just because they don’t see them hang out or comment on each other’s pics on ig. Y’all really need to stop creating drama over nothing! We really don’t be knowing what people really go through behind close doors. I hope this keeps your name out of peoples mouth and they stop talking shit!!
People love to paint me as the bad person just because Im in my own world, I like to be in my own space and just mind my own business. Trust me I get annoyed when people say I think I’m better than everyone just because I don’t socialize like they want me too. Im just at home vibing with my family. 💕🥺 lol
Girl! You made me feel a lot better by being so open about social anxiety! It’s definitely a struggle! Im so scared to leave my house anymore that’s how bad it has gotten 😔 I definitely think covid has made it so much worse having to stay home and what not.
This is meeee! 😣 It’s a struggle everyday working a 9-5 but on the weekend or with “my people” I’m absolutely fine. I’ve been praying to find a job I can work from home but then I also feel that could make things worse. I had extreme anxiety when my husband deployed as well because he’s my safe place. My therapist would say to just try and go places on your own, it’s difficult but at the end when you see you’ve made it through it is rewarding and it motivates you to do it again. Thanks for sharing with us 💖
Blanca, you are beautiful inside and out! ❤️ Thank you for share your (and your family) journey and life with us. Forget about others opinions and comments and continue to be YOU. ❤️
I use to be the same way when I was super young (like H.S age) I always feared being alone. But then I had alot going on & had to be out & about alone alot & kinda got used to it. Now I live alone, work, go out alone... I feel like it's kinda bad but I'm soo used to it. I'm glad you talked about anxiety though. It's a very common thing! Most of us have!!
Omg I feel this, ever since I became a mom I’m such an over thinker and have anxiety. I love being home but out at the same time but with people I’m comfortable with.
I get anxiety even hanging around my boyfriends family 😞 and coming from a traumatic childhood I’ve become paranoid about everything ! But thank you for sharing we are here for you take it one day at a time Blanca 🤍😘 Meditation helps me and also praying 🙏🏽
I understand you, I had anxiety since 2007... when I had my daughter in 2017. It faded. Still get it when I ovulate or pms.. it sucks. Now I recognize it. So I dont panic. But I been in you exact situation. Going to new places and alone it was bad😅, you’re not alone. Anxiety is usually a sign of something that is bothering you, maybe if you find what it is, it will help you reduce the feeling. If you have deficiency in any vitamin that makes anxiety worst. You got this.. keep going. Because once u stop to worry bout it. It would control u. Btw for everyone birth control does give you anxiety. And after my daughter Its been better. I dont use any
Girl I go through the same thing it's my biggest fear, this world is so crazy. As a mom we only care about our kids and will always protect them, don't worry nothing is wrong with you it's called " Being a badass mom" 🤗. And GIRL GIRL GIRL , that's right don't worry about what others want you always do you and always stay true to yourself and you will forever grow and succeed and find the true meaning of happiness 🙏
Omg i feel the same way!!! I get the worst anxiety when I’m out alone ( which is almost never) I even had a panic attack of the paranoia that someone was following me!! My family and friends are my comfort zone too I just feel like if you’re with company people won’t mess with rather than when I’m alone I feel like a big target!! So sad who now in days us women have to live in fear when going anywhere😩
I'm the same way excalty like you I stay at home 247 with my son never leave wen I go in public I feel like everyone lookn at me and my anxiety is thru roof I feel u on this vid finally some I can relate too 💕💝
Thanks for sharing about your life ...a lot of us suffer of anxiety and it super sucks ..but I’ve been praying about it and it helps me a lot ..keep going mija
I definitely understand you I literally just had this whole conversation with my family earlier this month and it’s just so hard to put your feelings into words especially when it comes to anxiety. But I’m praying for you girl🤍✨
Literally I’m the same going to stores by myself gives me major anxiety as well as everything else whilst being alone. I feel like I always have to have just 1 person with me at all times so I don’t feel awkward. 😬
I feel like alot of people go through anxiety and depression but the reason why we hear most influencers say they struggle with it is because they have a platform to talk about it and what they deal with. I'm sure if you go to the grocery store or mall and ask everyone they will too say they struggle with anxiety so the people who constantly come for influencers about what they are sharing are just ignorant. I too struggle with anxiety and everything evette was explaining happens to me too. Thank you for sharing this with us this video had me like "yeah, me too, omg i am not the only one" so thank you
To be honest I recently ran across your Instagram and I fell in love with you right away after watching this video ! I can relate to how you are feeling 1000000000% you are not alone , Spiritual awakenings are real !
I love this real rough footage, thank you for sharing with us your not alone, take deep breathes get on your knees and pray, ask god for strength and control your life ❤️❤️
Blanca I am the same way. Even now that I’m married with my own little family, I hate, HATE being home alone. Like if my husband leaves with the girls, I cannot relax and my anxiety goes into full drive. Same with going to the store by myself or with my baby girls only. I hate it 😣😩 I’m totally an introverted extrovert to a T. You are not alone! 💯 I’ve noticed that acquaintances/friends don’t invite me to parties or gatherings anymore cause I won’t go if it’s just me, like I have to take my husband or a close friend who will sit with me during the event. Like a friend is inviting me to his/her event but I know they won’t be there at my table all night you know 😂😂😂 it’s sucks.....
I feel you on so many levels, i think so much ugly has been going on in the world for the past couple of years and being a mom with anxiety has to be the worst. But i always say mind over matter ❣️ Sending you positive vibes and prayers!
I can relate so much to this! 💯 My anxiety has been worse as I’m older and as a mom! Every time I walk my kids to school by myself I’m always paranoid so I make sure I Cary two pepper sprays . I hate being this way but this world is crazy ! So I understand exactly how you feel Blanca .
I felt like you were talking to me every single moment! Anxiety is no joke and it’s sad that some people don’t understand. Especially in the Hispanic/Latin culture people think you are crazy or just being dramatic. I also suffer from anxiety and now depression, it’s the worst feeling ever. It makes me so sad. I truly appreciate that you are going public and talking about it, makes me feel better! ❤️❤️ I admire you!
Omg I thought I was the only one!! Ever since I became a mom I over think everything!! And it gives me major anxiety
Omg!! Yes me too
Girl me! My brain overthinks 24/7... also when i interact with people I feel like im dreaming if that makes sense .
It’s normal. We got this mamas lets be happy so we can raise happy kids 💖🙌🏼
I feel like this is one of the reasons I can’t be a mom 😭
Yess I over think too especially about my kids I'm so scared of them getting hurt !!!
“Anxiety is God’s way telling you to pray”.... when I saw this somewhere a few months ago, it hit me like a hurricane!!! And it works....
Thank you for this 💞
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What if you don’t believe in God?
@@TuLatinaw maybe target whats giving you anxiety and then try to think as positively as you can about that thing/event. It helps me 💜
@@hulady7275 Thank you🤍
I feel like it’s not even anxiety anymore, there’s just so many bad things always happening and it’s just hard for anyone to be genuinely happy and not anxious about things that might happen😕
Absolutely
Agree 💕🥺
Yes! Exactly this!
Face your fears and leave it on Gods hands ! That’s what I had to do to get better with my self 💖💖💖💖💖
Okay dios te bendiga te Alex Rodríguez Costa Rica
Blanca, look up “enmeshment” and “codependency.” It’s basically when you become too emotionally attached to another person and they do the same. And being apart from that person creates extreme anxiety. It’s super common with Latinos because our families are migrants. To give one example, some of us grew up with multiple families in the same house due to not being able to afford separate houses. Everyone is cramped in the same house & they become dependent on each other. And not only that, it’s just in our culture to be super bonded with our families so we don’t know how to separate ourselves at times. And we tend to apply this to everyone in our lives.
It’s also common when you grow up with strict parents. Strict parents didn’t give us boundaries or space to become our own person or learn from our own mistakes. So when you grow up, you unconsciously do the same with your friends or partner. You don’t have boundaries or you become too involved in their lives. And being apart becomes too much. 😫
The older I get the harder it is getting for me to go out and be social. I just love being at home with my hubby and daughter. I always feel like something bad is going to happen. I was all like ya let's party and go out every weekend in my early 20s. I hit these 30s and it's like no ma'am lol
Omg!! I feel the same exact way. It’s a scary world out there. I’m also in my 30’s and have two boys. It’s just not fun being alone especially with all the woman that are going missing.
Omg yes I hate going out just my kid and me. Even when we go out with my husband I still feel like I have to be aware of my surroundings.
Same
Omg so me! I struggle on a daily. I do curbside i avoid crowds..
Girls same and I'm only 20 ... I feel like I partied so much as a teen and I saw the dangers of the world so young and there is nothing better than drinking iced coffee at home w your man and watching RUclips with a candle on.. that's why I don't have any friends anymore lol...😭😐
I get the most anxiety going to peoples parties and having to stand up infront of everyone 😩 peoples stares drive me crazy i feel like im walking naked like in reality im not😩😩
Girl I so understand you, makes you want to go hide under a rock or go MIA from any social outing😩
Omg I feel the same way ,you explained it so well😞I feel the same thing around people especially around alot of people
I also get like that at parties .My husband drinks at parties and he loves dancing i dont .People stare and i gt evn more anxiety and i cannot dance lol
Omg girl that’s so me even at restaurants
Okay dios te bendiga Alex Rodríguez Costa Rica
I just feel like as a mom we always carry so much on our shoulders that we never have time to be mentally ok we go through alot and it sucks being so anxious and just only having our family and our home to feel safe but i know that being with them makes me feel better and it's going to take time to feel 100% after everything that's been happening wish you nothing but the best and don't forget we support you always ❤❤❤❤
I dont think this is just for moms lol everyone struggles 😓
Im not a mom, and i understand this 100%
I’m so happy you’re being yourself on social media, been following you for years and I’ve been waiting for this you. 🤍
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“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you”. 1 Peter 5:7
That’s exactly how I feel . I’m always home doing online shopping and when I go out I get very bad anxiety 😥
I cry sometimes cause I feel so unbalanced cause of my anxiety and it isn’t getting any better . I be feeling like I’m dreaming or like ppl are staring at me like if I’m crazy .
I felt every word you said...that's how I feel every day even when I wake up...I throw up for no reason...it's a struggle and for ppl that don't understand think it's funny
I understand you and it’s true ppl think it’s funny or they think we’re exaggerating
Exactly it's like they are amassed to see us go through it..but I hope we get better with time I will pray for all of us...🤍🤍🤍
I truly believe becoming a mom does awake anxiety more. For the longest I knew I had depression but I never knew I had anxiety. My husband always tells me I need to stop being scared but it’s SO hard. I was so social and at this point I’m scared to talk to a stranger because what if they follow me and harm me and it’s just me and my baby. Girl I won’t even go to the grocery store alone lol I need my husband EVERYWHERE!
I've been living with social anxiety for 8 years now, I hate feeling like this everyday....there was a time in my life that I couldn't even leave my house.
Many people say your 30's are better than your 20's and i truly believe it! I feel like I'm having a spiritual awakening as well. All the petty stuff doesn't matter. It's all about being happy. Whatever that means for you.
Anyways! Thank you for being real and sharing your struggles ❤
Wow im going through this right now & it feels so good I can't wait to be 30 in September I feel these next year's will be my best year's🤗
Wow im going through this right now & it feels so good I can't wait to be 30 in September I feel these next year's will be my best year's🤗
That is exactly how I feel when I go out, my anxiety is always triggered and I start shaking or stuttering when I talk. Btw love these types of videos 💕
I started having social anxiety ever since I became a stay at home mom! It sucks because I mentally have to prepare myself to go out. And this pandemic has just made it worse 😩
I feel you 100% it’s so sad that anxiety takes over our lives 🥺 I feel like when I’m out shopping, I’m in a hurry even when I’m not in a hurry 😭
As a mom of 2 kids it's hard especially when you have depression and anxiety...it take over your world...but with the grace of God we will over come it on day at a time...sending you positive vibes
Girl I am the same way I can’t go eat at a restaurant alone I need someone there. Get together as I am always the shy one
I am the same way & its so frustrating that other people don't get it, the way we feel. Anxiety is something so hard to deal with. Its not as easy as they make it seem to get through a situation. I wish I can be that type of person too that is driving all over town alone doing things independently, going places. Then again me being a stay at home Mom for 6 years probably made me more this way, always being home & not having anyone to visit is depressing. I cry about it and pray. I hope we can all stay strong and positive!
One thing I love about you is that you stay away from drama amongst the influencers. Right now, there seems to be drama going on in some trips. Don’t get involved in them and just have fun 💕 I’m an ambivert 🥴
Lmao I get nervous when I have to order food from a place I don’t know either 🥺
Yessss me too!
I luv when u tell us stories. I feel like it’s a 1 on 1 conversation lol 🤍
You should do a podcast!!! I love to hear you talk, you’re so relatable and inspirational. ✨
As you get older you become more vigilant about everything around you; people, your surroundings, etc. I for one don’t like being alone anywhere. With this pandemic I am more cautious about every little thing.
My anxiety is overwhelming me most days. I go to places and I automatically start looking for exits signs.. just in case something were to pop off. People are on edge even more nowadays. Times are sensitive and people die for the most dumbest reasons. Gotta protect my daughter and I
Omggg!! U legit described me! I'm 100% a social introvert & have never knew that was a thing!! When I tell my friends & loved ones that I get server anxiety from the stupidest things & they legit think I'm lying because when I'm with them I'm out going, social& confident but without them I literally am a big ball of EXTREME uncomfortable anxiety! U nailed it on the head forsure!! Becoming a mom deff made my paranoid anxiety go thru the friggen roof!! Love you girl! ♥️♥️
I love how real you are. I struggle with anxiety too and it can ruin so many things. It's so hard. I hope you start feeling better ❤
My mom has always been dealing with anxiety and depression and it’s so scary because she always tries to make sure it doesn’t get to her as much because she gets very overwhelmed and starts to panic , I really hope your anxiety doesn’t get so bad and your such a strong person evette and such a good mom you got this girl ❤️❤️❤️ it’s ok if you don’t like being in yourself I know my mom doesn’t either especially when she isn’t feeling well cause her anxiety gets to her sometimes
Omg yes with everything going on in the world I don’t even like going out no more and then when I’m out I’m just so ready to come home ... love how we’re not alone and we can relate 💕
Blanca I love how open with who you really are people always gots something negative to say especially when there not happy. Love im having a spiritual awakening thats just what it is Blanca its normal to feel fear especially now that your a mom pray more go to church start your kids on it too now that there little god bless you
Girl I love these kind of videos where you open up about your anxiety. Keep them coming 👏👏
I went through terrible anxiety and depression once before and honestly wouldn’t wish it on anyone especially when you’re with your kids. I looove your eyebrows and wish it was that simple for me tooo ugh ❤️
Sending virtual hug! 💕
But honestly that’s one of the reasons why Blanca is one of the MOST UNPROBLEMATIC influencers!!!☺️ she’s never in drama, and she keeps to herself❤️ she literally just puts her focus on her kids, her brand, and making amazing content! That’s one of the reasons why I love her! But I totally get where she’s coming from about branching out! ❤️ love you Blanca!!❤️
Girl I'm ALWAYS home to alot and I feel this way when I leave the house to and I hate it I know I'm being akward and I feel stupid 😂🥺🙄 and yes I loved going out when I was younger and the older I get things change so much 🥺
Hope everyone is having a great day💕
With the whole trust thing I completely agree. I used to be so open, etc until my hunny's 2 sisters decided to talk about me for literally no reason at all just because I decided to quit my job & stay home with my daughter full time. They were saying "she's using an excuse to be a stay at home mom because she's lazy" "she just wants to use my brother for his money" etc. The only thing that hurt me was that my hunny didn't defend me whatsoever. His excuse was "those are my sisters, i'm always gonna chose their side regardless." & when i confronted them & stuck up for myself since he couldn't all of a sudden i'm a bitch, i'm crazy, i'm rude. 🤦🏻♀️ My daughter just turned 3 & his family doesn't even know her. Of the years she's been born they only met her maybe 6 times. I refuse to be around any of them anymore & that's honestly what made me feel better. Leaving all the negativity out & my circle so so small.
Girl, you are so strong. I’d cry myself to sleep everyday knowing they’ve done that. Proud of you from moving away from that.
My bf’s mom is the same way. Just cause I don’t text her all the time she feels there’s some sort of animosity or that I don’t like her 😒
That is called "JEALOUSY" lol..they WISH they could be in your shoes. The smaller the circle the less problems😉
@@dellaaa__ Thank you 🤍 Still to this day I try, i really do. I just don't know what makes people like them 2 even think that's ok to say. Being a mother & having to make sacrifices alone is already tough. I would assume doing what is best for your children was the best thing to do. Sad that they have a whole niece they don't even know & can honestly care less about.
@@Nikkix209 exactly! but remember, what they do to you says more about them than about you. keep your head up 🤍
@@jazzy679 That's what's funny about it too, before they decided to talk about me & the time we did get along they always wished they could be a stay at home mom one day and now that I am, apparently "i'm lazy" "it's an excuse just to be home" etc. 🤦🏻♀️ I'm just glad my daughter won't grow up around people like that.
I’ve never related to a video more than I have to this one, thank you for putting this out there & for talking about it since most of us can’t 🥺 I have bad anxiety I hate being home all the time but I hate going out too I’m so scared!!
Same
Just know we’re not alone 💕 sometimes it’s nice to talk about it
Honestly anymore I feel like I have social anxiety and it freakin sucks! 🙃
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I feel like as a mom we all have anxiety and especially with all the circumstances we have gone through this last year it has made it harder. But I am so thankful how honest you are with us. Because we can all relate to you. And your doing great ❤️ sending love to you and your family ❤️
I love your content ! You are Super down to earth normal person like you said that happens to be on the internet! I appreciate you letting us in your life ! I will be praying for you ! I deal with anxiety as well and is hard when ppl don’t believe that is a real thing . You got this❣️
i’m 17 & have major anxiety. i also have really bad phases when i get extremely sad too. it sucks so much because if i’m not getting distracted by something, i’ll just be in that state. ive been working at KFC for 2 months now (my first job) and i get so much anxiety before going into work & during work. i dedass cry so much from it. i feel so pressured by everyone and everything there. i’m trying to learn how to cope but it’s difficult. i wanna reach out for help but i’m lost, i don’t know who to go to. i need so much prayer.
Anxiety happened to me during a soccer game and I freaked out, cried, and wanted to stop playing because I felt like I didn't know what to do and every body was judging me. So anxiety sucks!!!!!
This background gives me old evette vibes lol 💕🥺but I totally understand when I get anxiety when I’m around a lot of people around not just because the pandemic I’ve always been like this lol
When she said the pizza senerio I felt that in my bones. Been there done that except i don’t have “my people” to back me up. My only “people” are my tiny humans and I feel like like people judge me the most for having 4 kids at 23 and for taking them out during covid but is like where am supposed to leave them!? When in reality no one probably gives a shit 🤣
I’m the same way! Some days my anxiety is so bad when I go out my stomach starts hurting I end up having to pee so much it’s so horrible. And especially going out alone w my three kids I’m always thinking someone is watching us or something. Moms they worry about everything. I love that ur so real and honest about how u feel. Don’t worry about the negative people they have a problem w themselves not with you. Love u 🥰
I’ve been a subscriber for a while now & I must say this is my favorite video thus far. The rawness of expression is it for me!💯💯🙌🏼
Omg yes I’m the same my anxiety is really bad now. Lately I’ve been getting panic attacks just this weekend we went to go run errands LA traffic is always bad but this weekend we were not moving all I kept seeing was cars cars I couldn’t breath omg I swear my anxiety had been so bad praying for better days for everyone 💙🙏🏽
Just know we’re all so proud of you. Can’t imagine having anxiety and being in the public eye your doing amazing🥺💗
Love you girl thank you for always showing me so much love 🥺💕
@@Evettexo🥺🥰🥰
YES, everything you said, YES!! Change is uncomfortable, but it's so amazing that you notice your flaws and your moving forward to be a better you!💕
This is the most realest video I’ve ever seen!!!! 💓💓🥰
Been dealing with that since I was 18 now 33 but I’m so happy and glad I’m more comfortable and confident around people now! Because I would get the same way panicky and not a well I also trained my brain to be stronger because I feel that is a huge part of it! I understand completely in what you are saying you are not alone! For the longest time I thought I was the only one! 🙏🏻
I highly recommend the book untangle your anxiety. It gives really good perspective and makes you feel like you aren’t going crazy
Same!! That is exactly how it is for me to leave my house the past couple of years too and i am a SAHM but the more I stay home the worse it gets so trying to leave the house more regularly
I’m so glad I’m not the only one!! 😫 Became a mom and BAMMM major anxiety!! Everything you said about how you felt is like you were taking the words out of my mind!! Thank you for sharing!! Needed this.
👏 Bravo girl. Im loving the way your chanel is swirving now a days. RAW ! Keep it up!
The same thing is happening to me I’m a mom of two girls and I get really bad anxiety and depression. I was never like this I can’t really go out with both of my girls by myself my man thinks i exaggerate but people are crazy.
I’m in your same shoes girl. My tell my husband bt he doesn’t understand it, I’m constantly looking around as if someone is starring at me &/or my daughter 😖
Kidnapping and shootings everyday dont help our anxiety either🤦♀️
@@jazzy679 exactly smh
Idk why but recently I get crazy anxiety being in stores or being around a lot of people I just don’t like it. Also I don’t like confrontation. Like if people start questioning me I feel like I’m being attacked it’s so weird.
I hate being in public now. I do curbside or online everything. However, I live alone and travel alone. Polar opposite from who I used to be and I'm not sure why.
Huge thanks for this upload! Anxiety is devastating but we can crush it!
I feel you so much! I can’t have a regular conversation with a stranger now! but with my friends I’m so talkative and the loudest 😂.. i think it’s social anxiety that has built up ( but my anxiety is bad in general. I think about everything that’s happening in the world every second LITERALLY!)
But i hope your anxiety gets a little better. Maybe being out more is what you need !
Love you ❤️❤️
I love this video ! I have similar struggle but i like to be by myself ever since the pandemic. To the point where I’ve become to comfortable being alone i get anxiety when i have to be around people.
I’m trying to get back out there & one thing that’s helps is taking the focus off of myself and focusing on what i can do for others ❤️
When she said becoming a mom has triggered that even more I feel her so much on that because I’m so crazy about my kids and want to protect them from everything that it’s so overwhelming
Im like this too bc i live in a much bigger city from my hometown and its just my sister & I. I feel like the thing that I haven done to help me get out is just taking myself on “self-dates” just do some target runs, starbucks runs, to the mall just small things. I haven’t been able to do dinner by myself but maybe start with like sitting in a cafe by yourself with just a coffee. It helps alot!🤍
girlll i am literally just like you, a social introver. we got this though, ily
I’ll always love how transparent you are 💕
Girl you do you and let haters just watch you grow 🙌🏻 you are such an inspiration to all the mommies out here who appreciate you been so real ❤️🌸
Your vlogs have been on fire 🔥 the last couple of them with the consistency. Keep it going!
As a Mom of 3 it was sooooo hard for me to start getting used to doing "normal" things with my kids after being in the house for more than a year. I would get anxiety to the point where I was like "never going anywhere again" lol but with my kids being very hyperactive I had to honestly deal with it and do it for them. I think it's okay to feel this way and as you start doing more and more things you'll start feeling more at ease. Sometimes getting out of our comfort zone actually helps. It takes time but you'll get there. Sending you nothing but positive vibez. 🤗
Girl you are definitely going through a spiritual awakening. It’s definitely a roller coaster ride and at times pretty messy but it’s all worth it. Always trust your intuition and it’s all about the vibes. ✨
During this video you literally took the words out of my mouth! I’ve struggled with anxiety and some depression for over 5 years now. I take medication but still feel anxious. Sometimes I’ll make scenarios in my head of some bad shit happening before I go into public😫 I always order my groceries online and stay home for the most part. I dread putting in orders for food as well. If I’m out at a store I get anxious before going up to the cash register or a person to ask a question etc. because people are so rude and I just assume they will be lol. I try to remind myself it’s not healthy to live life in fear but these days it’s hard not to with all the shootings and shit going on. I hope you find something that helps you overcome those feelings. Hang in there💕
I’m so glad your clearing this up because I’m tired of seeing comments of girls always assuming that you have beef with this influencer or with that influencer. People always think RUclipsrs have beef just because they don’t see them hang out or comment on each other’s pics on ig. Y’all really need to stop creating drama over nothing! We really don’t be knowing what people really go through behind close doors. I hope this keeps your name out of peoples mouth and they stop talking shit!!
People love to paint me as the bad person just because Im in my own world, I like to be in my own space and just mind my own business. Trust me I get annoyed when people say I think I’m better than everyone just because I don’t socialize like they want me too. Im just at home vibing with my family. 💕🥺 lol
Girl! You made me feel a lot better by being so open about social anxiety! It’s definitely a struggle! Im so scared to leave my house anymore that’s how bad it has gotten 😔 I definitely think covid has made it so much worse having to stay home and what not.
I love that you’re a mom now! It’s the cutest love your videos
This is meeee! 😣 It’s a struggle everyday working a 9-5 but on the weekend or with “my people” I’m absolutely fine. I’ve been praying to find a job I can work from home but then I also feel that could make things worse. I had extreme anxiety when my husband deployed as well because he’s my safe place. My therapist would say to just try and go places on your own, it’s difficult but at the end when you see you’ve made it through it is rewarding and it motivates you to do it again. Thanks for sharing with us 💖
Thanks for showing us that not everything is perfect! We are here for you queen and love you ❤️
Blanca, you are beautiful inside and out! ❤️
Thank you for share your (and your family) journey and life with us. Forget about others opinions and comments and continue to be YOU. ❤️
We needed this video🙌🏻 my favorite RUclipsr so open so real and shows real mom life !♥️
I use to be the same way when I was super young (like H.S age) I always feared being alone. But then I had alot going on & had to be out & about alone alot & kinda got used to it. Now I live alone, work, go out alone... I feel like it's kinda bad but I'm soo used to it. I'm glad you talked about anxiety though. It's a very common thing! Most of us have!!
Omg I feel this, ever since I became a mom I’m such an over thinker and have anxiety. I love being home but out at the same time but with people I’m comfortable with.
What worked for me is exercising and spending time by myself even doe I was scared little by little I try going to mall , park, restaurants by myself
I get anxiety even hanging around my boyfriends family 😞 and coming from a traumatic childhood I’ve become paranoid about everything ! But thank you for sharing we are here for you take it one day at a time Blanca 🤍😘 Meditation helps me and also praying 🙏🏽
I understand you, I had anxiety since 2007... when I had my daughter in 2017. It faded. Still get it when I ovulate or pms.. it sucks. Now I recognize it. So I dont panic.
But I been in you exact situation. Going to new places and alone it was bad😅, you’re not alone.
Anxiety is usually a sign of something that is bothering you, maybe if you find what it is, it will help you reduce the feeling. If you have deficiency in any vitamin that makes anxiety worst. You got this.. keep going. Because once u stop to worry bout it. It would control u.
Btw for everyone birth control does give you anxiety. And after my daughter Its been better. I dont use any
Girl I go through the same thing it's my biggest fear, this world is so crazy. As a mom we only care about our kids and will always protect them, don't worry nothing is wrong with you it's called " Being a badass mom" 🤗. And GIRL GIRL GIRL , that's right don't worry about what others want you always do you and always stay true to yourself and you will forever grow and succeed and find the true meaning of happiness 🙏
Omg i feel the same way!!! I get the worst anxiety when I’m out alone ( which is almost never) I even had a panic attack of the paranoia that someone was following me!! My family and friends are my comfort zone too I just feel like if you’re with company people won’t mess with rather than when I’m alone I feel like a big target!! So sad who now in days us women have to live in fear when going anywhere😩
I've never related to you more! I love how much more authentic you're content has become lately. ❤
I'm the same way excalty like you I stay at home 247 with my son never leave wen I go in public I feel like everyone lookn at me and my anxiety is thru roof I feel u on this vid finally some I can relate too 💕💝
Thanks for sharing about your life ...a lot of us suffer of anxiety and it super sucks ..but I’ve been praying about it and it helps me a lot ..keep going mija
Thanks Evette for everything you do you are so therapeutic 🙏🏻💕😍
I definitely understand you I literally just had this whole conversation with my family earlier this month and it’s just so hard to put your feelings into words especially when it comes to anxiety. But I’m praying for you girl🤍✨
Literally I’m the same going to stores by myself gives me major anxiety as well as everything else whilst being alone. I feel like I always have to have just 1 person with me at all times so I don’t feel awkward. 😬
I feel like alot of people go through anxiety and depression but the reason why we hear most influencers say they struggle with it is because they have a platform to talk about it and what they deal with. I'm sure if you go to the grocery store or mall and ask everyone they will too say they struggle with anxiety so the people who constantly come for influencers about what they are sharing are just ignorant. I too struggle with anxiety and everything evette was explaining happens to me too. Thank you for sharing this with us this video had me like "yeah, me too, omg i am not the only one" so thank you
Thank you for posting this. I think a lot of us needed to hear this. I know I relate so much
To be honest I recently ran across your Instagram and I fell in love with you right away after watching this video ! I can relate to how you are feeling 1000000000% you are not alone , Spiritual awakenings are real !
I love this real rough footage, thank you for sharing with us your not alone, take deep breathes get on your knees and pray, ask god for strength and control your life ❤️❤️
Blanca I am the same way. Even now that I’m married with my own little family, I hate, HATE being home alone. Like if my husband leaves with the girls, I cannot relax and my anxiety goes into full drive. Same with going to the store by myself or with my baby girls only. I hate it 😣😩 I’m totally an introverted extrovert to a T. You are not alone! 💯 I’ve noticed that acquaintances/friends don’t invite me to parties or gatherings anymore cause I won’t go if it’s just me, like I have to take my husband or a close friend who will sit with me during the event. Like a friend is inviting me to his/her event but I know they won’t be there at my table all night you know 😂😂😂 it’s sucks.....
“I’m gonna start taking you guys in rides” 😂😂 “so I don’t feel alone” well I can’t wait for these vlogs just you and us 🥰🥰
Me too🤗
I feel you on so many levels, i think so much ugly has been going on in the world for the past couple of years and being a mom with anxiety has to be the worst. But i always say mind over matter ❣️ Sending you positive vibes and prayers!
I can relate so much to this! 💯 My anxiety has been worse as I’m older and as a mom! Every time I walk my kids to school by myself I’m always paranoid so I make sure I Cary two pepper sprays . I hate being this way but this world is crazy ! So I understand exactly how you feel Blanca .