Your vlogs don't have to be planned. We like day in the life vlogs. We like to see just what you're doing so it doesn't have to be the most exciting thing ever. My fav vlogs were the really old ones when you were engaged, dating and first married when you weren't thinking about it being planned and you just vlogged whatever.
we appreciate the honesty. you don’t always have to feel like vlogging and although it’s your job, we want you to have fun with it. if that means not vlogging one week, let it be that. i know i personally would prefer a few vlogs over a long period of time rather than a lot of vlogs in a short period of time and then you burn out and stop vlogging completely. i am so proud of you both and love seeing the growth of your channel over the years. thank you for being so genuine and real. you guys encourage and inspire me!
We don’t always want you to plan your vlogs! I love the old ones where you just chill, go to target, meet some friends and hang out! We want to be with you when you run errands, we don’t need it to be scripted or planned! And you don’t always need to be happy! We want to see the real you, no matter what mood you are in! Don’t feel like you have to be fake! We want to know and see the real you! And you are funny just the way you are, you don’t need to plan funny vlogs to be funny cuz you already are! We love you guys, just the way you are!
I think the problem is that now in your vlogs you overthink things. Like you try too hard to be entertaining, in your old vlogs everything was natural, that made it fun to watch. Don’t get me wrong I love all your videos but, your old vlogs had a different vibe and I felt more relaxed watching them. Maybe try feet vlogs more planned videos, e.g. couple morning/night routine, reviewing matching couple clothes off wish or something, cooking vids, looking at old photos, pranks etc. If planning vids makes you guys more comfortable then do that. Then when a day comes up that you feel would be good vlog content... then vlog it! I love you guys, no matter what you post I’ll watch it but don’t stress out over making videos! God bless 💛
yeah i agree, and it really sucks to see that every single youtube couple out there have broken up because managing youtube as a job and being in a relationship was so hard to the point where they all have broken up to focus on there own lives. i am so scared that soon jess and gabriel will end up like every other youtube couple where they had broken up because a relationship was too complicated to be managed while doing youtube.
I agree! If *VLOGS* are getting hard to film, or if they aren't in the mood that's completely understandable and filming some planned videos or sit-down or challenge videos is completely great!
Even people who have “regular” jobs need a mental break every once in a while or have days where they’re just not that into it. We shouldn’t expect you to be different just because you’re vloggers. We still love you
That’s the thing!! You feel like you have to entertain, when in reality we’ve never asked that from you! It’s so nice when you’re just doing life, and we get to see it, no BIG thing going on, no clickbait, just raw YOU.
If vlogging is putting your marriage in an icky place than start doing creative projects separately again and vlog when you feel like it. Jess can do her beauty thing and Gabe can take pride in making his artistic / inspirational films.
You shouldn’t be worried about people saying “first world problems” no matter how great anyone’s life is, everyone has struggles and days where they don’t feel like doing it, or being around people, in yalls class filming for millions of people to see! And also you don’t always have to be super entertaining, I love just watching people’s lives, day to day, how people organize their lives and what not! Don’t worry y’all are great! ❤️
I love when you’re real like this. I think that sometimes youtubers feel this pressure like they have to prove themselves or like always be hype and stuff, but like mentally sometimes we all have eh days. Sometimes you’re just doing mundane things like running errands and you just are tired and want to get through it. Also I know you guys love your job but literally everyone has days where they are just not up to wanting to do it so that’s okay too. Always put your feelings yourself and your relationship before a vlog. We love you and want you to take care of yourselves. I think we would all rather like see you guys post videos only when you feel good about them even if that means less of the time rather than forcing you to feel like you have to be different people or “be on”. That’s my feelings about it love how you guys are so open! Love you!
you both have a platform where your audience loves seeing YOUR life, your real genuine life together, your interactions, your jokes. and i relate to your genuineness and the way you guys feel that its important to be honest, no matter what. so im glad you felt it was necessary to have this conversation on camera, because we don’t watch you to see an absolute perfect day in the life of Jess and Gabe...we watch to see a real day in the life of Jess and Gabe, whatever that may be. thank you for this, we support you 💜
because you were so honest with us i'm going to be honest with you. I loved you guys for so long, I looked forward to every post and vlog for years. then, you started doing a bunch of challenges and planned vlogs and they were enjoyable but I started to lose interest. now since you're vlogs are almost always planned with a "point" I find myself sometimes not watching at all, and it breaks my heart honestly, because I love you guys so much!!! basically I just love when you are real and vlog the everyday mundane things, the things that you probably assume no one wants to watch, but those things are the reason I fell in love with your channel! of course, I'll support you in whatever path feels most authentic to you, but I just wanted to let you know from one viewers point of view 😌💛✨
OMG SAME SAME SAME SAME!!! HAVENT BEEN WATCHING THEIR VIDEOS BEC OF IT. I DONT LIKE THEIR CHALLENGES, SIT DOWN VIDEOS, ITS MORE UNINTERESTING THAN DOING A NORMAL DAILY VLOG, NO SCRIPTS
The thing is guys, yes your feelings are valid, but people change and grow and if they want to evolve with the change of time that’s perfectly normal and fine! It’s interesting to see them in different scenarios and venues and whatever content they produce is amazing because it is the two of them. No need to say the whole “you’ve changed” things because we all have. ♥️
Would honestly be happy to watch a 30 minute video with no edits of you guys doing nothing.. just saying haha 🤷🏻♀️ also you guys don’t need to always post, we’d be happier if you guys posted only when you feel like it and prioritize your mental health because that’s the most important part for us, seeing you guys genuinely happy. Sending love to you both from Australia 🇦🇺💛
Nicole Sarah Besanko I agree! I just love to see them, they don’t have to be 100% or joking the whole time it can be simple chores of seeing them for a day. And exactly, their health and happiness is so much more important than posting on a schedule. They deserve to take some time for themselves ❤️
I think the majority of us would LOVE vlogs that aren’t even planned!! The chill vlogs are so much more entertaining in my opinion :) I also feel like people just love to relate to day to day stuff😊
Crazy watching your videos now pregnant/with child hahaha. I remember the videos with the red counters, vlogmas intros with the pups, your bagels every day with tea from its a grind, regular chiropractic appointments, healthy junk food videos, and even back to you in your garden walkway to your parents house. You were the first person I watched and I'm still here today (,: also still so proud of your natural birth- my mom had 4 natural births and one was a home birth with my sister in the bed she still sleeps in to this day!! Love you Nikki!
bro i feel this. i woke up today and i told my husband “i feel like this is a stay in bed all day kind of day”. sometimes you just don’t feel like doing anything + i appreciate that you guys don’t let that get in the way of your vlogs and maybe this is just me, but why not just not vlog if you don’t feel like it one day? just give yourself that week to regroup and have a day in bed. the best videos are the ones that we can tell you’re excited to film. #selfcare
You guys have been beyond encouraging with your vlogs. I have been going through a lot lately in life and finding true peace and love with God, and I'm so grateful through this time I've stumbled on your guy's vlog channel and you two work extremely well together, haha. Enjoy seeing you guys being a great pair and enjoying life together, and with that being open and transparent with your viewers. Being real is something lacked today by too many, but it's more binding to keep things secret and quiet than to be open and talk about the realities of life. Thank you my brother and sister in Christ for being examples. Praying for you two!
We love watching you are because of who you are, and we don't expect every vlog to be planned and well thought out, I actually enjoy the more unplanned and more relaxing vlogs before there more realistic. please don't stress so much about getting vlogs out.
I hope they know they are supported. I couldn’t imagine having to always be the perfect couple and always be funny and in a great mood. It’s life to have ups and downs and there’s is documented... they’re broadcasted and I think it’s so brave to even have such a public life! I support you guys and this video is so real and authentic that it’s even a bit better to watch than just happy stuff all the time. A refreshment kinda:) love you guys!
at first i thought "if you don't feel like filming then don't." then as I was listening to you guys talk about it more I felt like you are not alone in feeling like this. People in other trades have off days too when they feel like not working which makes your situation NORMAL. but i realize that it is harder for you because your lives are online and are subjected to a lot of judgement than other jobs. you guys don't have to feel weird about it. hope both of you are feeling better. God bless you 😊
yeah i agree, and it really sucks to see that every single youtube couple out there have broken up because managing youtube as a job and being in a relationship was so hard to the point where they all have broken up to focus on there own lives. i am so scared that soon jess and gabriel will end up like every other youtube couple where they had broken up because a relationship was too complicated to be managed while doing youtube.
I love you guys so much. Taking care of yourselves are top priority. Everyone can get overwhelmed and need a break or just need a mental break to regroup and find yourselves again. You guys are my favorite youtubers and I’ve been watching you for years, it is heartbreaking to see you guys feel so down. You’ve got this! Do whatever you need to do, we’ll understand ❤️❤️
Y’all being real is what matters most. I love the quirks you guys have and as everyone else is saying, your authenticity is what draws people! Stay true to what you need and what is peaceful! Seasons may change but put yourselves and marriage first and God will take care of the rest! We love you guys ❤️
I love how honest you two to your followers and it's admirable. Life is like that, there are times when you don't feel to be doing the things that you always like to do because it's your job but if you were not happy to do it then the people who follow you from the beginning will understand and they can spot that there is something odd to your videos so thank you for your honesty. If you don't feel doing a vlog, for me it's okay as long as it will help you two be able to put content that you aren't force about. Just be natural, unique and authentic as it can be. 😊❤️ Kindness and Humility that's the kind of person you two. I'm new here but it doesn't mean I don't see things. God bless and enjoy every steps of the way, it may be on your work, on your married life or in your personal life. Praying for all the goals you have this year to be successful and be fulfilled about it. 🙏
I am so glad you had the talk with us. At some point when we watch youtubers’s vlogs, their happiness makes us feel happy too but sometimes you might wonder and compare your life to them and be like, why they are so lucky and always have fun and all the good things only happens to them, you know? Don’t get me wrong, not in a bad way to feel jealous or anything. But the fact that you open up about it and remind us you are one of us too, you could have lazy boring days too, not everything is always perfect but still you do your best and etc. so don’t feel bad about bringing it up. Love you guys so much, I have always been a huge fan of your contents❤️
Everyone goes through something similar to this. Not to the same extent but everyone has issues mentally just not as public. We love and support you guys being real. I will be praying for you!❤️
I just wanna say thank you for being so real and raw! That's one of the reasons i love watching you guys, their are so many RUclipsrs that are afraid to be real because of the negativity. Ya'll are just such amazing role models :) thank you for all you do!
Thank you so much for being so honest. Every job has it's struggles and it's definitely ok to feel this way. Thank you so much for putting in the effort u guys do for these videos it means more to us conteam than u guys could even fathom. Love u guys💜💕
you dont have to plan your videos, cause the reason why i started watching you guys and why i became such a big fan is because your videos are just pure and natural, and i love that so much ❤️ even if you’d film a day running errands, i’d watch the whole thing haha i just love to watch you guys, no matter what youre doing ☺️ i love you guys so much, just keep doing what youre doing cause youre amazing, God bless you two 💗
you are human! you can't always be happy and jumping around. you should be able to feel other things too and we are here to see them aswell. I love how real you guys are, keep it that way!
Well, I swear I watched all of your vlogs, and you are the only RUclipsrs I get excited about when you post something and the only ones that I truly follow here or on Instagram! So don’t worry guys!! You’re doing such a great job, and I swear I love these kind of vlogs where you guys only stay and talk with us, and open up about struggles and whatever the parts in your life!!! Be blessed both of you!! 💛💛
thank you guys for being honest! I, and many others, will continue to pray for your relationship, job, family, health, and life. You guys have wonderful hearts. *Do what feels best, and go where God guides you.* You have so many people who love your vlogs! Take time for yourselves too, and keep being the awesome and Blessed people we know you are! And it's really great too that you both are being real...we don't see that a lot in today's society and other RUclips channels - that's one of the things I really like about you guys. I would love to hear more about your *faith journeys, Church, Bible studying* etc, and just normal every day stuff :) God Bless, have an amazing week! x
People love your videos because of how funny and down to earth you are. I love watching your videos because you're entertaining, funny, and not afraid to be open and honest. You're real with what's going on and how you struggle (sometimes). I can't tell you enough that sometimes it's all people look for in videos. Our world has gotten fake and artificial (sometimes) but you guys aren't afraid to stand out and be yourself and be real.
I feel the same way. Not that ya'll try to act like you have it all together, because you make it clear you don't. But when you actually talk about your struggles and aren't as on top of everything, it makes you more relatable. RUclipsrs my age seem like they have it all together. Obviously vulnerability makes you more relatable and it makes sense that there are times when you want it to look like you have it all together. But when we want to relate to ya'll, we compare what we see.
I really just want you guys to find the fun in vlogging instead of feeling like you have to plan or force anything. I have seen way to many of my favorite couples break up because of this so I would rather you guys vlog way less than feel like you have to. Your relationship and mental health comes first and we as your fan base understand that. Please take care of yourselves guys 💜
I think it's a normal behavior that sometimes we're not happy or in the mood. I think it's super cool that you share with us the dark side of being youtuber. We love watching your vlogs because you are honest.
Love hearing y’all talk about this honestly and openly! If you’re not feeling it, you’re just not feeling it... it’s just like any other job, sometimes it just gets too overwhelming! Love y’all!
Thanks for being honest. Def agree that vibes are felt across the screen when watching. Gabe’s down to earth attitude is contagious💯 Keep being you! Jess, saying this with lots of love but sometime you need to relax and not overthink. I knw your a planner and this might not come naturally to you but enjoy life’s ride. A lot of amazing things happen when you don’t plan them and least expect it🙌🏼💓 even in the waves of life and rough/busy weeks take joy and positivity with you - it’ll help in the ride ☺️love you guys and sending lots of God’s blessings your way.
This was important for people to see because one might make the argument like, if you have a 9 to 5 job, if you don't feel like going you still have to go and do the work. But with youtube and vlogging its not the same, because if you don't have the energy to vlog, it gets portrayed into the video and the vibe just isn't as positive anymore. Not everyone will see it that way but hopefully more people do. Even though youtube is a dream job for many, they tend to forget that its still a job every job has its negative sides.
I hope you guys know that we genuinely love and enjoy you and your videos. you could post a 20 minutes video of sitting in silence and I would still watch the whole thing. we love the not knowing and the spontaneous vlogs and unplanned days❤️ we also love the planned and organized vlogs. we just love YOU.
If you need to skip a week for yourselves, do it. Don’t overwork! Those who love you on this channel will still be here. We want to see the moments you feel like showing us, when you feel like vlogging. But also, I’m happy seeing anything you post. Doesn’t have to be funny or unique, or high energy. Just you guys!
I really liked this video because it was so honest and raw ! And I think this is a great idea if both of you have nothing to vlog rather then forcing to vlog something a sit down and talk video about any topic or small challenges or games are good to watch and fun to watch !! And if something is naturally planned and is going to happen then vlog the day !! Like how it used to be .. like vlogging the day because something exciting is planned rather then forcing yourself to vlog and do something for the camera .. so I think it’s an amazing video just being yourself and being honest and doing what comes naturally !!! I HOPE YOU GUYS READ THIS !! I love u guys and also if this came out too rude I didn’t mean to it’s just wanted to say this video is amazing and wanted to help if this could help .. love u guys .. watching you guys always makes my day !!
firstly, Gabe didn’t sound very American when he said “glasses” 😂 maybe Jess is rubbing off on him too 👀... and secondly, i feel like having that real conversation was something i appreciated so much. i really love watching your videos.lastly, you guys looked like tomato sauce and mustard on your picnic date, haha! 😂
I completely agree, they need to do what’s best for them. If they can’t post one week and need to take some time for themselves and their relationship they should! We’ll understand always xo
I love your guys videos but I also understand how life can get crazy busy or you get tired and burned out some days, I definitely will always support y’all in everything wether y’all upload or not, and I will always love the videos wether it’s y’all having a chill day or a fun busy day just watching you guys is always so fun a refreshing no matter what, thank y’all for always being so real with us and giving us the best content y’all can!love y’all❤️CONTEAM FOREVER🥺
Thanks for sharing, I think it’s totally normal to feel burnt out with any job, no matter how much you love it. To relieve the pressure maybe you guys could ask your viewers for video ideas they’d want to see, or intentionally plan certain weeks off throughout the year to have time to rest. Even every other week vlogs! Best of luck 😘
You can feel through this entire video that Jess is just not feeling it. We all have our days! Know that we support you with whatever decision you make. Health first ❤️
I love your guys' authenticity! I really honor you for choosing to stay authentic even when it would just be easier to not say anything. That's why you are my favorite youtubers!
guys i just got hooked on to ur vlogs very recently. wich means i just joined the conteam like a few weeks back. till now i have watched so many of ur vlogs and i just love all of them so much that i just wanna keep watching more and more. like i cant stop watching. they r so entertaining and i love them. i dont know wat the chances r that u will read this comment but i love u guys so much and right now i live for ur vlogs. clearly u guys put in a lot of hard work to give us content and v love u and respect u for that. im just glad tat u guys decided to share tat conversation with us cause it helps us to connect to u guys alot more than just normal vlogs. ive always wanted to vlog but never thought it was this hard and that there wer so many things about vlogging tat wer going on behind the scenes. but u guys r going so strong and i just wanted to say i love u guys so much and thank u for lightening up every single day of mine with ur jokes and laughter. i feel like my days wer really boring for the past few months and like i was never happy but watching ur vlogs has made me so happy these past few days. u have really helped me laugh again and im so grateful to u guys for tat. I LOVE U GUYS SO MUCH!!!!!!
Love that Jess and Gabriel are honest with us. I feel like know days you don’t have many youtubers like this. Do you guys and we will all be happy, as fans we don’t expect a video every week if you don’t feel up to vlogging.
Thank you for being so honest. This is why you’re subscribers love you’re content, because it’s real! Every job has its drawbacks & we’re all human. Not everyday is going to be a great day. We totally understand. Love you guys 💙
i really appreciate you two being honest and open about how you feel. Being open about how things really are is always better than trying to fake something just for the camera. And everyone deserves to have breaks and it's normal to have off days no matter who you are or what your job is. Thanks for keeping it real with us! That's one of the reasons why I love you two so much and have been subscribed for so long
We love hearing you guys talk. Don't feel like you always have to do something to impress us because we will watch and enjoy your videos no matter what they are. If you don't feel like vlogging you could do something low stress like a Q&A and I'm sure everyone would love that just as much!
I'm not a youtuber but I've seen a lot of videos on 'the hard side of couple vlogging' and I think that all of us are always here to watch your videos whether you do something crazy or not. I get that obviously it is a job and you do need to get money out of this and sometimes a video flops or something and it doesn't work out, it can be frustrating. I think it's really great that you guys are being honest and opening up about this, but just remember that we're here for you guys and you guys don't have to do something extravagant or planned for the vlog, even if that means taking a break for a week or two. we love you !!
It’s so weird. I just woke up and thought that I want to watch your video because I’m not in a mood and your videos always make my days! And then you basically saying it’s normal and happens to everyone. What a nice reminder, thank you guys ❤️
I live you guys either way. I like it when you're honest and real like this. You don't always have to be entertaining, we just want to see you guys. It doesn't matter what you guys do. I'm just along for the ride you know?
You two are so special, thank you for being you and if you don’t feel like vlogging sometime then don’t!! Just do what you like to do and what you feel comfortable with 🌻 and if you need a break then take a break. Just like we all do 💓 have a great day
Awww the 1, 2 transitions are really fun! The serious talk vlogs are also enjoyable! It just shows how real you guys are and it's one of the most admirable things about you guys, just how authentic everything you two do is so amazing and cute! :D
I really appreciate y'alls honesty! I always look forward to your videos but I understand that you may not always be in the mood. Your real people and that's why I like you guys! You care about your people and want to please them but don't be afraid to do what's best for you! I love you guys and I'm really excited for this year!! ❤️❤️
We understand, everyone has those times, and we are really grateful that despite having days like this you guys still try your best and vlog for us 🥺❤️❤️ we love youuu
two peas in a car. SO GOOD. Jess, Gabe, thanks for being real. Sometimes i dont feel like doing my work either + i also felt so eh about it, but it feels good that we are all human and we do have those days now and then!
I think it's really good that you guys are aware that you need to be careful not to let vlogging ruin your mental health and your relationship. Those two things are more important than putting out a "perfect" vlog every week. Whatever you guys need we will be happy with
The vlog when you pulled the all- nighter, which was completely unplanned, is my absolute favorite and I go back and re-watch it every now and then. We like unplanned things! We like the real you, guys! We don't want you to be happy all the time! Don't put so much pressure on yourselves! ❤
A few people has say what’s on my mind and here I go - I hope that whatever y’all are doing, y’all are loving it. Please know that no matter what type of vlog produce I’ll still watch and support y’all :) Love you guys lots, always and forever x
We are watching you guys not for entertainment, we are watching you for your personalities, its like hanging out with your friends, you know) i really appreciate the honesty and i wanna say its ok you feel this way, we are all humans and sometime we just dont wanna do something, just because and .. its ok ❤️
100% understand! Hope you guys get through this funk healthily and I loved the date! I’m in FL right now near Orlando on vaca so just being in the same state is so awesome! Hope you guys are enjoying the weather and your days in general! You guys are so authentic and genuine! I agree with the talk as well. 💕
This video felt so realatable cuz I was feeling a bit low today and it almost taught me a lesson that we can't expect to be happy all the time and it's okay. Also we always have a choice to be fake happy or show your authentic self. You both are so inspiring for me and just thank you for being on RUclips 🥰💗☺️☺️
Honestly I love the day in my life vlogs WAAYYY more than the “exciting day” kind of vlogs, just relax, take some time off, get your groove back. Lof ja 💓
Hi guys ILYSM. So i have previously commented on how much I us3d to love your vlogs more those from 2016 & 2017, the felt impromptu. Believe me the most I found entertaining is you living your everyday lives and doing errands, not per se to entertain just the ones you'd do normally- realistic, eg. Grocery shopping, cooking and other adulting stuff. Even when you're home we love to know (watch) whether cleaning, sitting and even editing. When you are bored. Believe me we are entertained as we even listen to monologue questions about growing up, say something amazes you. Best way to put it, what you want to see being vlogged, that's what we love to watch. I pray you guys find your peace and inspiration to produce more content and we are open to support wherever you feel passionate with. ❤
It may have been a weird conversation, but your honesty is appreciated, especially because you are putting yourselves a pretty vulnerable position as youtubers . You guys work so hard and we can see that. Love you guys! Hope you have a wonderful week 😘
Life is never planned. If your sad one day then your sad. If your happy one day your happy, and do on. That's the problem with RUclips these days. Theres no authenticity. Not saying you guys aren't authentic but forcing yourself to be a certain way just for a video is not real life. I love your videos and I hope you guys continue to post for a very long time. You guys have so much to offer us.
I watch your vlogs since literally the beginning and you seem like such kind people! every time I see you posted something I get so happy❤️ love you guys ❤️
I could sense in the first couple minutes of the vlog that the vibe was off and it seemed like you didn’t feel like it. Then later the fact that you actually sat down and talked about it shows transparency and it’s so much appreciated by fans and people who watch your videos! Kee your audience in the loop and be authentic it builds trust and loyalty 🤙🏽 Love the videos!
Love how honest you both are!! Thanks for being so honest. Love how you added the date to the end to make it so special to see your real life. Admire you both so much! Thanks for still posting!! ❤️
you guys are so good at your job (vlogging) and how you are real with people and don't try to put on a fake smile every day but are actually happy and living because you have Jesus in you, love you guys so much! keep it up, you go this!
I honestly love how authentic and just genuinely nice your vlogs. Thank you for being always so real with us and just thank you for being you. Don't be so hard on yourselves, everyone has a bad day from time to time. Love you guys!
We appreciate very much you guys being honest and I’m sure all of us want you to be real a 100% of the time. Just figure out what schedule works for you and film your life in a more casual way, you don’t have to asign a specific day for vlogging cus that is going to kill the realness even if you don’t want to. We love the way you are, just don’t feel like you have to act in front of the camera the whole time, we don’t need to know everything
I love that you guys choose to be honest with us, it makes me appreciate you even more... and also, one thing that I love about you is how easily your energy traspases the screen and what I mean with this is that at the end of the vlog, yeah your not hype as in some other videos, but still you joke and do weird, cute and funny stuff because it comes so naturally to you and it’s just part of your personality... idk I’m rambling, I just love you and support you ❤️
Thanks for sharing and being so honest! Struggling with anything is real and valid, for anyone and everyone. It’s okay to have an off day. We love you being real, even when it’s difficult to talk about ❤️❤️
This topic is very relatable even if you’re not a youtuber. With anything it’s really hard to do life or force life when you’re not feeling 100% mentally. I’m a photographer and there are a lot of times where I’m just feeling so warn out or out of it and people don’t understand because it’s “just photography” but it takes mental energy. Especially different kinda mental energy with creative careers. Your vlogs don’t need to be planned for people to watch trust me!!! That’s what people wanna see the unplanned life things!
Vlogs don’t have to be planned or anything! I actually really enjoy vlogs where the people are just doing their everyday life tasks- nothing fancy or out of the ordinary. It gives us something to relate to more whether it be everyday struggles that we all have or tiny victories in everyday! ❤️ love your videos!
y’all are my favorite ever and i love that y’all chose to be super real and talk about how what it’s like to vlog!! and i just love y’alls relationship too :))))) xxxx
you guys are human. Many thousands do love your vlogs and videos, BUT we also love YOU as people. Who are an inspiring couple who love THE Lord and are blessing people all around the world with your inside jokes, your life as a marred couple (which is by the way, so adorable and admirable) I may sounds soppy but it's true. I'm almost 17 and it's awesome that you guys have created such a spiritually safe space on RUclips which can be pretty secular.... Love you guys! ps when you want a long holiday in Australia you could come to Tasmania (where I live) which is a small island AU state with beautiful scenery and relaxing vibes all the way.
I can understand what you saying, if I would be a youtuber I would so many times think about what should I film and I was always wondering where you and other youtubers get there ideas for videos. I respect your story! When you feel to take a break for a week do it, if there people that are complaining about it they don’t understand what you’re going through! Thing about your own health and relationships! I love your videos♥️ love
in my opinion, i’d rather see a genuine video at whatever time is convenient for you guys.. rather than a forced video every week. obviously we love whatever content you make but it’s obvious when youtubers are doing videos just because they HAVE to. it’s not the same when it’s forced. take a break when you guys need to. we’re all humans 💓 love you guys!!!
Your vlogs don't have to be planned. We like day in the life vlogs. We like to see just what you're doing so it doesn't have to be the most exciting thing ever. My fav vlogs were the really old ones when you were engaged, dating and first married when you weren't thinking about it being planned and you just vlogged whatever.
Awesomeness yes i completely agree with this
Agreed! I prefer when it's less scripted and planned
Yessss me tooo i loved those vlogs its not like i dont like these vlogs but the unplanned(u get the idea) vlogs were better
i totally agree!!
I totally agree!!!!
we appreciate the honesty. you don’t always have to feel like vlogging and although it’s your job, we want you to have fun with it. if that means not vlogging one week, let it be that. i know i personally would prefer a few vlogs over a long period of time rather than a lot of vlogs in a short period of time and then you burn out and stop vlogging completely. i am so proud of you both and love seeing the growth of your channel over the years. thank you for being so genuine and real. you guys encourage and inspire me!
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couldnt have said it better myself!!
We know this was a bit of a weird convo... but just wanted to share where we were at in that moment ❤️
Love you so much for it
Jess and Gabriel we love you no matter what ❤️❤️
We love you guys ❤️❤️
Awww love y’all!!!
We don’t always want you to plan your vlogs! I love the old ones where you just chill, go to target, meet some friends and hang out! We want to be with you when you run errands, we don’t need it to be scripted or planned! And you don’t always need to be happy! We want to see the real you, no matter what mood you are in! Don’t feel like you have to be fake! We want to know and see the real you! And you are funny just the way you are, you don’t need to plan funny vlogs to be funny cuz you already are! We love you guys, just the way you are!
Stine Årnes amen!
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I think the problem is that now in your vlogs you overthink things. Like you try too hard to be entertaining, in your old vlogs everything was natural, that made it fun to watch. Don’t get me wrong I love all your videos but, your old vlogs had a different vibe and I felt more relaxed watching them. Maybe try feet vlogs more planned videos, e.g. couple morning/night routine, reviewing matching couple clothes off wish or something, cooking vids, looking at old photos, pranks etc. If planning vids makes you guys more comfortable then do that. Then when a day comes up that you feel would be good vlog content... then vlog it! I love you guys, no matter what you post I’ll watch it but don’t stress out over making videos! God bless 💛
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yeah i agree, and it really sucks to see that every single youtube couple out there have broken up because managing youtube as a job and being in a relationship was so hard to the point where they all have broken up to focus on there own lives. i am so scared that soon jess and gabriel will end up like every other youtube couple where they had broken up because a relationship was too complicated to be managed while doing youtube.
I agree! If *VLOGS* are getting hard to film, or if they aren't in the mood that's completely understandable and filming some planned videos or sit-down or challenge videos is completely great!
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Even people who have “regular” jobs need a mental break every once in a while or have days where they’re just not that into it. We shouldn’t expect you to be different just because you’re vloggers. We still love you
Truth!
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That’s the thing!! You feel like you have to entertain, when in reality we’ve never asked that from you! It’s so nice when you’re just doing life, and we get to see it, no BIG thing going on, no clickbait, just raw YOU.
Emma R. Shaffer couldn’t have said this better
If vlogging is putting your marriage in an icky place than start doing creative projects separately again and vlog when you feel like it. Jess can do her beauty thing and Gabe can take pride in making his artistic / inspirational films.
true i hope theyre still keeping their marriage healthy and not straining it
marriage is hard but i hope they find their way
You shouldn’t be worried about people saying “first world problems” no matter how great anyone’s life is, everyone has struggles and days where they don’t feel like doing it, or being around people, in yalls class filming for millions of people to see! And also you don’t always have to be super entertaining, I love just watching people’s lives, day to day, how people organize their lives and what not! Don’t worry y’all are great! ❤️
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I love when you’re real like this. I think that sometimes youtubers feel this pressure like they have to prove themselves or like always be hype and stuff, but like mentally sometimes we all have eh days. Sometimes you’re just doing mundane things like running errands and you just are tired and want to get through it. Also I know you guys love your job but literally everyone has days where they are just not up to wanting to do it so that’s okay too. Always put your feelings yourself and your relationship before a vlog. We love you and want you to take care of yourselves. I think we would all rather like see you guys post videos only when you feel good about them even if that means less of the time rather than forcing you to feel like you have to be different people or “be on”. That’s my feelings about it love how you guys are so open! Love you!
you both have a platform where your audience loves seeing YOUR life, your real genuine life together, your interactions, your jokes. and i relate to your genuineness and the way you guys feel that its important to be honest, no matter what. so im glad you felt it was necessary to have this conversation on camera, because we don’t watch you to see an absolute perfect day in the life of Jess and Gabe...we watch to see a real day in the life of Jess and Gabe, whatever that may be. thank you for this, we support you 💜
because you were so honest with us i'm going to be honest with you. I loved you guys for so long, I looked forward to every post and vlog for years. then, you started doing a bunch of challenges and planned vlogs and they were enjoyable but I started to lose interest. now since you're vlogs are almost always planned with a "point" I find myself sometimes not watching at all, and it breaks my heart honestly, because I love you guys so much!!! basically I just love when you are real and vlog the everyday mundane things, the things that you probably assume no one wants to watch, but those things are the reason I fell in love with your channel! of course, I'll support you in whatever path feels most authentic to you, but I just wanted to let you know from one viewers point of view 😌💛✨
Kayla Danielle I 100% second every word you just said!!
OMG SAME SAME SAME SAME!!! HAVENT BEEN WATCHING THEIR VIDEOS BEC OF IT. I DONT LIKE THEIR CHALLENGES, SIT DOWN VIDEOS, ITS MORE UNINTERESTING THAN DOING A NORMAL DAILY VLOG, NO SCRIPTS
The thing is guys, yes your feelings are valid, but people change and grow and if they want to evolve with the change of time that’s perfectly normal and fine! It’s interesting to see them in different scenarios and venues and whatever content they produce is amazing because it is the two of them. No need to say the whole “you’ve changed” things because we all have. ♥️
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yeah i agree 100% with you
Would honestly be happy to watch a 30 minute video with no edits of you guys doing nothing.. just saying haha 🤷🏻♀️
also you guys don’t need to always post, we’d be happier if you guys posted only when you feel like it and prioritize your mental health because that’s the most important part for us, seeing you guys genuinely happy.
Sending love to you both from Australia 🇦🇺💛
Nicole Sarah Besanko I agree! I just love to see them, they don’t have to be 100% or joking the whole time it can be simple chores of seeing them for a day. And exactly, their health and happiness is so much more important than posting on a schedule. They deserve to take some time for themselves ❤️
Nicole Sarah Besanko love this! 🙌🏻🙏🏻
I think the majority of us would LOVE vlogs that aren’t even planned!! The chill vlogs are so much more entertaining in my opinion :) I also feel like people just love to relate to day to day stuff😊
maduperera exactly!!
maduperera yes!! 🙏🏻
Crazy watching your videos now pregnant/with child hahaha. I remember the videos with the red counters, vlogmas intros with the pups, your bagels every day with tea from its a grind, regular chiropractic appointments, healthy junk food videos, and even back to you in your garden walkway to your parents house. You were the first person I watched and I'm still here today (,: also still so proud of your natural birth- my mom had 4 natural births and one was a home birth with my sister in the bed she still sleeps in to this day!! Love you Nikki!
bro i feel this. i woke up today and i told my husband “i feel like this is a stay in bed all day kind of day”. sometimes you just don’t feel like doing anything + i appreciate that you guys don’t let that get in the way of your vlogs and maybe this is just me, but why not just not vlog if you don’t feel like it one day? just give yourself that week to regroup and have a day in bed. the best videos are the ones that we can tell you’re excited to film. #selfcare
I love you guys! Keep doing what your doing AND TAKE BREAKS IF YOU NEED THEM! Your real fans will still be here when y’all come back 💕
I agreee!!!!
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Love this !! 🙏🏻
You guys have been beyond encouraging with your vlogs. I have been going through a lot lately in life and finding true peace and love with God, and I'm so grateful through this time I've stumbled on your guy's vlog channel and you two work extremely well together, haha. Enjoy seeing you guys being a great pair and enjoying life together, and with that being open and transparent with your viewers. Being real is something lacked today by too many, but it's more binding to keep things secret and quiet than to be open and talk about the realities of life. Thank you my brother and sister in Christ for being examples. Praying for you two!
We love watching you are because of who you are, and we don't expect every vlog to be planned and well thought out, I actually enjoy the more unplanned and more relaxing vlogs before there more realistic. please don't stress so much about getting vlogs out.
2:29 Gabe says "was that very thoughtful of me?" Jess ignores him completely hahaha😂😂 Love you guys ♥️
I hope they know they are supported. I couldn’t imagine having to always be the perfect couple and always be funny and in a great mood. It’s life to have ups and downs and there’s is documented... they’re broadcasted and I think it’s so brave to even have such a public life! I support you guys and this video is so real and authentic that it’s even a bit better to watch than just happy stuff all the time. A refreshment kinda:) love you guys!
Thank you for this! We get it. 💛
at first i thought "if you don't feel like filming then don't." then as I was listening to you guys talk about it more I felt like you are not alone in feeling like this. People in other trades have off days too when they feel like not working which makes your situation NORMAL. but i realize that it is harder for you because your lives are online and are subjected to a lot of judgement than other jobs. you guys don't have to feel weird about it. hope both of you are feeling better. God bless you 😊
yeah i agree, and it really sucks to see that every single youtube couple out there have broken up because managing youtube as a job and being in a relationship was so hard to the point where they all have broken up to focus on there own lives. i am so scared that soon jess and gabriel will end up like every other youtube couple where they had broken up because a relationship was too complicated to be managed while doing youtube.
we totally understand you. tbh we still appreciate the vlogs that aren’t planned just vlog what’s going on! love y’all!!
I love you guys so much. Taking care of yourselves are top priority. Everyone can get overwhelmed and need a break or just need a mental break to regroup and find yourselves again. You guys are my favorite youtubers and I’ve been watching you for years, it is heartbreaking to see you guys feel so down. You’ve got this! Do whatever you need to do, we’ll understand ❤️❤️
Y’all being real is what matters most. I love the quirks you guys have and as everyone else is saying, your authenticity is what draws people! Stay true to what you need and what is peaceful! Seasons may change but put yourselves and marriage first and God will take care of the rest! We love you guys ❤️
I love how honest you two to your followers and it's admirable. Life is like that, there are times when you don't feel to be doing the things that you always like to do because it's your job but if you were not happy to do it then the people who follow you from the beginning will understand and they can spot that there is something odd to your videos so thank you for your honesty. If you don't feel doing a vlog, for me it's okay as long as it will help you two be able to put content that you aren't force about. Just be natural, unique and authentic as it can be. 😊❤️
Kindness and Humility that's the kind of person you two. I'm new here but it doesn't mean I don't see things. God bless and enjoy every steps of the way, it may be on your work, on your married life or in your personal life. Praying for all the goals you have this year to be successful and be fulfilled about it. 🙏
I am so glad you had the talk with us. At some point when we watch youtubers’s vlogs, their happiness makes us feel happy too but sometimes you might wonder and compare your life to them and be like, why they are so lucky and always have fun and all the good things only happens to them, you know? Don’t get me wrong, not in a bad way to feel jealous or anything. But the fact that you open up about it and remind us you are one of us too, you could have lazy boring days too, not everything is always perfect but still you do your best and etc. so don’t feel bad about bringing it up.
Love you guys so much, I have always been a huge fan of your contents❤️
Everyone goes through something similar to this. Not to the same extent but everyone has issues mentally just not as public. We love and support you guys being real. I will be praying for you!❤️
I just wanna say thank you for being so real and raw! That's one of the reasons i love watching you guys, their are so many RUclipsrs that are afraid to be real because of the negativity. Ya'll are just such amazing role models :) thank you for all you do!
Thank you so much for being so honest. Every job has it's struggles and it's definitely ok to feel this way. Thank you so much for putting in the effort u guys do for these videos it means more to us conteam than u guys could even fathom. Love u guys💜💕
you dont have to plan your videos, cause the reason why i started watching you guys and why i became such a big fan is because your videos are just pure and natural, and i love that so much ❤️ even if you’d film a day running errands, i’d watch the whole thing haha i just love to watch you guys, no matter what youre doing ☺️ i love you guys so much, just keep doing what youre doing cause youre amazing, God bless you two 💗
you are human! you can't always be happy and jumping around. you should be able to feel other things too and we are here to see them aswell. I love how real you guys are, keep it that way!
Well, I swear I watched all of your vlogs, and you are the only RUclipsrs I get excited about when you post something and the only ones that I truly follow here or on Instagram! So don’t worry guys!! You’re doing such a great job, and I swear I love these kind of vlogs where you guys only stay and talk with us, and open up about struggles and whatever the parts in your life!!! Be blessed both of you!! 💛💛
thank you guys for being honest! I, and many others, will continue to pray for your relationship, job, family, health, and life. You guys have wonderful hearts. *Do what feels best, and go where God guides you.* You have so many people who love your vlogs! Take time for yourselves too, and keep being the awesome and Blessed people we know you are! And it's really great too that you both are being real...we don't see that a lot in today's society and other RUclips channels - that's one of the things I really like about you guys. I would love to hear more about your *faith journeys, Church, Bible studying* etc, and just normal every day stuff :) God Bless, have an amazing week! x
People love your videos because of how funny and down to earth you are. I love watching your videos because you're entertaining, funny, and not afraid to be open and honest. You're real with what's going on and how you struggle (sometimes). I can't tell you enough that sometimes it's all people look for in videos. Our world has gotten fake and artificial (sometimes) but you guys aren't afraid to stand out and be yourself and be real.
I feel the same way. Not that ya'll try to act like you have it all together, because you make it clear you don't. But when you actually talk about your struggles and aren't as on top of everything, it makes you more relatable. RUclipsrs my age seem like they have it all together. Obviously vulnerability makes you more relatable and it makes sense that there are times when you want it to look like you have it all together. But when we want to relate to ya'll, we compare what we see.
One thing that I love about you guys is how authentic you guys are!! Love y’all!!
One of the greatest couple ive known since ever, you both inspired me to be a better person each and every day ☺️ love you both!
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I really just want you guys to find the fun in vlogging instead of feeling like you have to plan or force anything. I have seen way to many of my favorite couples break up because of this so I would rather you guys vlog way less than feel like you have to. Your relationship and mental health comes first and we as your fan base understand that. Please take care of yourselves guys 💜
I think it's a normal behavior that sometimes we're not happy or in the mood. I think it's super cool that you share with us the dark side of being youtuber. We love watching your vlogs because you are honest.
Thank you for being real! Sometimes your life seems so easy and cool it’s good to be honest about the bad side of things sometimes, much love
Love hearing y’all talk about this honestly and openly! If you’re not feeling it, you’re just not feeling it... it’s just like any other job, sometimes it just gets too overwhelming! Love y’all!
Thanks for being honest. Def agree that vibes are felt across the screen when watching. Gabe’s down to earth attitude is contagious💯 Keep being you! Jess, saying this with lots of love but sometime you need to relax and not overthink. I knw your a planner and this might not come naturally to you but enjoy life’s ride. A lot of amazing things happen when you don’t plan them and least expect it🙌🏼💓 even in the waves of life and rough/busy weeks take joy and positivity with you - it’ll help in the ride ☺️love you guys and sending lots of God’s blessings your way.
This was important for people to see because one might make the argument like, if you have a 9 to 5 job, if you don't feel like going you still have to go and do the work. But with youtube and vlogging its not the same, because if you don't have the energy to vlog, it gets portrayed into the video and the vibe just isn't as positive anymore. Not everyone will see it that way but hopefully more people do. Even though youtube is a dream job for many, they tend to forget that its still a job every job has its negative sides.
I hope you guys know that we genuinely love and enjoy you and your videos. you could post a 20 minutes video of sitting in silence and I would still watch the whole thing. we love the not knowing and the spontaneous vlogs and unplanned days❤️ we also love the planned and organized vlogs. we just love YOU.
Girl!! Unplanned vlogs are the best too! We love just a chill vlog if you guys just hanging out with friends or going grocery shopping!
If you need to skip a week for yourselves, do it. Don’t overwork! Those who love you on this channel will still be here. We want to see the moments you feel like showing us, when you feel like vlogging.
But also, I’m happy seeing anything you post. Doesn’t have to be funny or unique, or high energy. Just you guys!
I really liked this video because it was so honest and raw ! And I think this is a great idea if both of you have nothing to vlog rather then forcing to vlog something a sit down and talk video about any topic or small challenges or games are good to watch and fun to watch !! And if something is naturally planned and is going to happen then vlog the day !! Like how it used to be .. like vlogging the day because something exciting is planned rather then forcing yourself to vlog and do something for the camera .. so I think it’s an amazing video just being yourself and being honest and doing what comes naturally !!! I HOPE YOU GUYS READ THIS !! I love u guys and also if this came out too rude I didn’t mean to it’s just wanted to say this video is amazing and wanted to help if this could help .. love u guys .. watching you guys always makes my day !!
firstly, Gabe didn’t sound very American when he said “glasses” 😂 maybe Jess is rubbing off on him too 👀... and secondly, i feel like having that real conversation was something i appreciated so much. i really love watching your videos.lastly, you guys looked like tomato sauce and mustard on your picnic date, haha! 😂
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I completely agree, they need to do what’s best for them. If they can’t post one week and need to take some time for themselves and their relationship they should! We’ll understand always xo
I appreciate your honesty and I think everyone can „complain“ about their job sometimes. It is human :)
the way you guys value how authentic you are is so so nice it shows how genuine you are and it is really nice and refreshing to watch ❤️to u both :)
I love your guys videos but I also understand how life can get crazy busy or you get tired and burned out some days, I definitely will always support y’all in everything wether y’all upload or not, and I will always love the videos wether it’s y’all having a chill day or a fun busy day just watching you guys is always so fun a refreshing no matter what, thank y’all for always being so real with us and giving us the best content y’all can!love y’all❤️CONTEAM FOREVER🥺
Thanks for sharing, I think it’s totally normal to feel burnt out with any job, no matter how much you love it. To relieve the pressure maybe you guys could ask your viewers for video ideas they’d want to see, or intentionally plan certain weeks off throughout the year to have time to rest. Even every other week vlogs! Best of luck 😘
You can feel through this entire video that Jess is just not feeling it. We all have our days! Know that we support you with whatever decision you make. Health first ❤️
I love your guys' authenticity! I really honor you for choosing to stay authentic even when it would just be easier to not say anything. That's why you are my favorite youtubers!
guys i just got hooked on to ur vlogs very recently. wich means i just joined the conteam like a few weeks back. till now i have watched so many of ur vlogs and i just love all of them so much that i just wanna keep watching more and more. like i cant stop watching. they r so entertaining and i love them. i dont know wat the chances r that u will read this comment but i love u guys so much and right now i live for ur vlogs. clearly u guys put in a lot of hard work to give us content and v love u and respect u for that. im just glad tat u guys decided to share tat conversation with us cause it helps us to connect to u guys alot more than just normal vlogs. ive always wanted to vlog but never thought it was this hard and that there wer so many things about vlogging tat wer going on behind the scenes. but u guys r going so strong and i just wanted to say i love u guys so much and thank u for lightening up every single day of mine with ur jokes and laughter. i feel like my days wer really boring for the past few months and like i was never happy but watching ur vlogs has made me so happy these past few days. u have really helped me laugh again and im so grateful to u guys for tat. I LOVE U GUYS SO MUCH!!!!!!
Love that Jess and Gabriel are honest with us. I feel like know days you don’t have many youtubers like this. Do you guys and we will all be happy, as fans we don’t expect a video every week if you don’t feel up to vlogging.
Thank you for being so honest. This is why you’re subscribers love you’re content, because it’s real! Every job has its drawbacks & we’re all human. Not everyday is going to be a great day. We totally understand. Love you guys 💙
i really appreciate you two being honest and open about how you feel. Being open about how things really are is always better than trying to fake something just for the camera. And everyone deserves to have breaks and it's normal to have off days no matter who you are or what your job is. Thanks for keeping it real with us! That's one of the reasons why I love you two so much and have been subscribed for so long
We love hearing you guys talk. Don't feel like you always have to do something to impress us because we will watch and enjoy your videos no matter what they are. If you don't feel like vlogging you could do something low stress like a Q&A and I'm sure everyone would love that just as much!
I'm not a youtuber but I've seen a lot of videos on 'the hard side of couple vlogging' and I think that all of us are always here to watch your videos whether you do something crazy or not. I get that obviously it is a job and you do need to get money out of this and sometimes a video flops or something and it doesn't work out, it can be frustrating. I think it's really great that you guys are being honest and opening up about this, but just remember that we're here for you guys and you guys don't have to do something extravagant or planned for the vlog, even if that means taking a break for a week or two. we love you !!
It’s so weird. I just woke up and thought that I want to watch your video because I’m not in a mood and your videos always make my days! And then you basically saying it’s normal and happens to everyone. What a nice reminder, thank you guys ❤️
I live you guys either way. I like it when you're honest and real like this. You don't always have to be entertaining, we just want to see you guys. It doesn't matter what you guys do. I'm just along for the ride you know?
You two are so special, thank you for being you and if you don’t feel like vlogging sometime then don’t!! Just do what you like to do and what you feel comfortable with 🌻 and if you need a break then take a break. Just like we all do 💓 have a great day
Awww the 1, 2 transitions are really fun! The serious talk vlogs are also enjoyable! It just shows how real you guys are and it's one of the most admirable things about you guys, just how authentic everything you two do is so amazing and cute! :D
I really appreciate y'alls honesty! I always look forward to your videos but I understand that you may not always be in the mood. Your real people and that's why I like you guys! You care about your people and want to please them but don't be afraid to do what's best for you! I love you guys and I'm really excited for this year!! ❤️❤️
We understand, everyone has those times, and we are really grateful that despite having days like this you guys still try your best and vlog for us 🥺❤️❤️ we love youuu
two peas in a car. SO GOOD.
Jess, Gabe, thanks for being real. Sometimes i dont feel like doing my work either + i also felt so eh about it, but it feels good that we are all human and we do have those days now and then!
I think it's really good that you guys are aware that you need to be careful not to let vlogging ruin your mental health and your relationship. Those two things are more important than putting out a "perfect" vlog every week. Whatever you guys need we will be happy with
The vlog when you pulled the all- nighter, which was completely unplanned, is my absolute favorite and I go back and re-watch it every now and then. We like unplanned things! We like the real you, guys! We don't want you to be happy all the time! Don't put so much pressure on yourselves! ❤
i love the serious conversation and honesty! we will love you no matter what. sometimes a break is better even if that means not putting a vlog out x
A few people has say what’s on my mind and here I go - I hope that whatever y’all are doing, y’all are loving it. Please know that no matter what type of vlog produce I’ll still watch and support y’all :) Love you guys lots, always and forever x
Thanks for your authenticity.
Music IsMyLife 🙌🏻🙌🏻
We are watching you guys not for entertainment, we are watching you for your personalities, its like hanging out with your friends, you know) i really appreciate the honesty and i wanna say its ok you feel this way, we are all humans and sometime we just dont wanna do something, just because and .. its ok ❤️
I agree! Its literally like we are hanging out with them😌
So well said 👏
100% understand! Hope you guys get through this funk healthily and I loved the date! I’m in FL right now near Orlando on vaca so just being in the same state is so awesome! Hope you guys are enjoying the weather and your days in general! You guys are so authentic and genuine! I agree with the talk as well. 💕
This video felt so realatable cuz I was feeling a bit low today and it almost taught me a lesson that we can't expect to be happy all the time and it's okay. Also we always have a choice to be fake happy or show your authentic self. You both are so inspiring for me and just thank you for being on RUclips 🥰💗☺️☺️
Honestly I love the day in my life vlogs WAAYYY more than the “exciting day” kind of vlogs, just relax, take some time off, get your groove back. Lof ja 💓
Thank you for being so open!! We completely understand and we support you 100% love you guys! 💛
Hi guys ILYSM. So i have previously commented on how much I us3d to love your vlogs more those from 2016 & 2017, the felt impromptu. Believe me the most I found entertaining is you living your everyday lives and doing errands, not per se to entertain just the ones you'd do normally- realistic, eg. Grocery shopping, cooking and other adulting stuff. Even when you're home we love to know (watch) whether cleaning, sitting and even editing. When you are bored. Believe me we are entertained as we even listen to monologue questions about growing up, say something amazes you.
Best way to put it, what you want to see being vlogged, that's what we love to watch. I pray you guys find your peace and inspiration to produce more content and we are open to support wherever you feel passionate with. ❤
honestly u Guys make the most wholesome vlogs and we love it thank u guys so much honestly. And love how honest you are...love you guys:)
It may have been a weird conversation, but your honesty is appreciated, especially because you are putting yourselves a pretty vulnerable position as youtubers . You guys work so hard and we can see that. Love you guys! Hope you have a wonderful week 😘
Life is never planned. If your sad one day then your sad. If your happy one day your happy, and do on. That's the problem with RUclips these days. Theres no authenticity. Not saying you guys aren't authentic but forcing yourself to be a certain way just for a video is not real life. I love your videos and I hope you guys continue to post for a very long time. You guys have so much to offer us.
I watch your vlogs since literally the beginning and you seem like such kind people!
every time I see you posted something I get so happy❤️ love you guys ❤️
I could sense in the first couple minutes of the vlog that the vibe was off and it seemed like you didn’t feel like it. Then later the fact that you actually sat down and talked about it shows transparency and it’s so much appreciated by fans and people who watch your videos!
Kee your audience in the loop and be authentic it builds trust and loyalty 🤙🏽
Love the videos!
Love how honest you both are!! Thanks for being so honest. Love how you added the date to the end to make it so special to see your real life. Admire you both so much! Thanks for still posting!! ❤️
you guys are so good at your job (vlogging) and how you are real with people and don't try to put on a fake smile every day but are actually happy and living because you have Jesus in you, love you guys so much! keep it up, you go this!
I honestly love how authentic and just genuinely nice your vlogs. Thank you for being always so real with us and just thank you for being you. Don't be so hard on yourselves, everyone has a bad day from time to time. Love you guys!
We appreciate very much you guys being honest and I’m sure all of us want you to be real a 100% of the time. Just figure out what schedule works for you and film your life in a more casual way, you don’t have to asign a specific day for vlogging cus that is going to kill the realness even if you don’t want to. We love the way you are, just don’t feel like you have to act in front of the camera the whole time, we don’t need to know everything
The key to be a successful utuber: don't be fake and always be honest with your public. When I watched this video I was happy because you were honest
I think you guys and Jack and Gab are really the most authentic youtubers out there that I love to watch!
I love that you guys choose to be honest with us, it makes me appreciate you even more... and also, one thing that I love about you is how easily your energy traspases the screen and what I mean with this is that at the end of the vlog, yeah your not hype as in some other videos, but still you joke and do weird, cute and funny stuff because it comes so naturally to you and it’s just part of your personality... idk I’m rambling, I just love you and support you ❤️
Thanks for sharing and being so honest! Struggling with anything is real and valid, for anyone and everyone. It’s okay to have an off day. We love you being real, even when it’s difficult to talk about ❤️❤️
This topic is very relatable even if you’re not a youtuber. With anything it’s really hard to do life or force life when you’re not feeling 100% mentally. I’m a photographer and there are a lot of times where I’m just feeling so warn out or out of it and people don’t understand because it’s “just photography” but it takes mental energy. Especially different kinda mental energy with creative careers.
Your vlogs don’t need to be planned for people to watch trust me!!! That’s what people wanna see the unplanned life things!
Vlogs don’t have to be planned or anything! I actually really enjoy vlogs where the people are just doing their everyday life tasks- nothing fancy or out of the ordinary. It gives us something to relate to more whether it be everyday struggles that we all have or tiny victories in everyday! ❤️ love your videos!
y’all are my favorite ever and i love that y’all chose to be super real and talk about how what it’s like to vlog!! and i just love y’alls relationship too :))))) xxxx
Really miss the old kinda vlogs
Me too their vlogs were more intertaining than now
@@hanoodbaeza5691 yeahhh
That’s unholy nostalgia
you guys are human. Many thousands do love your vlogs and videos, BUT we also love YOU as people. Who are an inspiring couple who love THE Lord and are blessing people all around the world with your inside jokes, your life as a marred couple (which is by the way, so adorable and admirable) I may sounds soppy but it's true. I'm almost 17 and it's awesome that you guys have created such a spiritually safe space on RUclips which can be pretty secular....
Love you guys!
ps when you want a long holiday in Australia you could come to Tasmania (where I live) which is a small island AU state with beautiful scenery and relaxing vibes all the way.
I can understand what you saying, if I would be a youtuber I would so many times think about what should I film and I was always wondering where you and other youtubers get there ideas for videos. I respect your story! When you feel to take a break for a week do it, if there people that are complaining about it they don’t understand what you’re going through! Thing about your own health and relationships! I love your videos♥️ love
in my opinion, i’d rather see a genuine video at whatever time is convenient for you guys.. rather than a forced video every week. obviously we love whatever content you make but it’s obvious when youtubers are doing videos just because they HAVE to. it’s not the same when it’s forced. take a break when you guys need to. we’re all humans 💓 love you guys!!!