I think Arie likes women who are quiet and not too talkative someone he can easily take advantage of. Becca was too smart for him he seems as though he dosent like strong intelligentv women this was very sad. And he is a boring person anyways.
a quiet and reserved women does not mean she's insecure or has low esteem. a loud, outspoken, vibrant woman doesn't mean that she is smarter. Krystal the villain is loud and outspoken, does this mean she is a better pick for Arie than Lauren just because she is that? It's very sad to see how the society always put judgments on women like this. I myself is an introvert, reserved and not a loud person but I did not feel any less or not confident about who I am. When I found my soul mate, I took time because I am so reserved and protective of my heart because I know what I'm worth and what I have to offer. There's nothing wrong for Arie to choose a quiet, reserved woman because there's someone for everyone. The most important thing is the connection, who you vibe with. It doesn't mean this so-called "strong, intelligent women" would have a better connection or vibe and ultimately the superior women who should be chosen.
I think she has personality I think she is just not so out going and talkative and kind of shy but at least it shows she was not using the show for fame with antics like the other women! And who cares Arie didn't go to college that is not for everyone! He is successful n his own right and a lot of people are that do not go to college. You act like he is homeless living in a box or living with his mother!
Congratulations to Arie and Lauren, may your love endure forever! Arie corrected a wrong and did it respectfully and it only comes from social media bullies to criticize Lauren for not being as loud as they want her to be.
Kendall is right it is way too easy for people to just move on. They don't want to stay and work things out with you because they think they could just go find someone else
I don't think people are necessarily judging her intelligence based on her lack of conversation skills, but she doesn't seem to make the best decisions. And, a lot of times when quiet people do speak with brains they say something worthwhile. I didn't hear any of that with her. She has nothing interesting to say, boring, and just seems dense in general. She has a pretty face and good body, in my opinion, but her personality is lacking... unless you like lame puns.
And what does it matter she is who she is we are ALL humans! Geez I feel someone is saying she is not deserving of love. Also she is not the only person on the planet that has struggled in school either!
I totally think that if arie had lauren on his mind while he was becca, his action in breaking up with becca is understandable since it would be unfair to becca if he stuck with her when he is thinking about another woman. However it was royally fucked up to televise it (and unfortunaly i sont know how television works so i cant fully blame it on him) and when she said to leave he didnt leave like dude just leave. And when he corned her into talking further he didnt say anything like take a hint and just leave
They sure could have simplified it. It was sort of laughable when Chris said, "The network has given us another night to show everything unedited." Sure felt a little overdone. Not sure Becca knew but surely he knew something was up because he had contacted her and they had the cameras there. Looks suspicious.
this is a perfect example of how political correctness has gotten out of control: they are being way too kind; Arie’s decisions and actions were 100% selfish
No they weren't. He was confused and made a mistake. He made the right decision getting out before he married her. It would have been worse had he married her.
Everyone saying arie did wrong honestly I dont think he did yes he hurt Becca but he’s just doing what his heart is telling him I mean his 36 years old he wants to make sure he picks the right one because he’ is ready for marriage and kids and he’s just making sure that he picks the one right for him so don’t be hating on arie for his choices he makes.
Kayla Snyder yes he shouldn’t have recorded the break up but all in all it is the bachelor and anything could happen. He’s just going for his heart and he wants the best for Becca
He's known for being a player and a cheater in non-Bachelor life, so I wouldn't say he's ready for marriage. This mirrors his life in which he can't stay devoted to one woman, and I don't think Lauren will be the "cure" for him.
Heather Newbold I honestly think he is ready for marriage I just think he really wants to make sure he finds the one because he is 36 years old he’s just playing it safe.
Kayla Snyder I don’t think Arie said hey let’s record this! It’s the franchise also Becca could have told the camera crew to leave it was “unedited” she did not say that once
Such a terrific idea to have a bachelor make up with every competator and so dignified for the women and such an uplifting and virtuous for ones self esteem How does the me-too left perverted culture spin this one. Babylon Media teaching us about love. Realy.
Arie is not a real man. He is a little boy in a man's body. Becca dodged a bullet. The only reason Arie likes Laure so much is because she resembles Emily Maynard who broke his heart. Lauren has no personality.
Its obvious Arie always knew he has been a chick magnet and so the women who fall for him fell at their own peril. Keep your fingers crossed for Lauren! Just sayin!
Maybe a chick magnet for his wallet but he's not that good looking. I spent every scene saying, "get a haircut!" That, long, comb it forward look is passe. I wanted to take a clippers to the sides and back. Not a good look today.
Tia blew it when she made that judgement about Becca M being young and not ready. It was sooooo wrong of her to blab her psycho babbel to Arie. I think that's what did her in. I hate that kind of judgemental know it all and It didn't go well with him, either.
Arie should have chosen Tia. Tia was the most in love with him among the Final 5 or so, it was pretty clear. They had the most fun and most chemistry. And she balled her eyes out more than the others and really let her guard down. Arie seemed like a boring kind of guy anyway. He wasn't the best conversationalist. Becca got over Arie real fast and you see how quickly she developed the whole "Well I'll just meet someone else soon anyway" attitude. But how the hell do you propose to someone that you just decided that same morning that you were going to do it??? He should have had his mind made up weeks before. And then he breaks off the engagement just to keep open the possibility of seeing if his feelings would work out with Lauren. That's unbelievable. And I don't get why people like Kendall so much. She has a bit of a deceptive look to her in my opinion. Or at least she did on the show. She seemed like one of those women who would be just fine and content with being single and not married for a while anyway.
I think Arie likes women who are quiet and not too talkative someone he can easily take advantage of.
Becca was too smart for him he seems as though he dosent like strong intelligentv women this was very sad.
And he is a boring person anyways.
norma creation very true I get your point and agree one hundred percent.
Lol then why wouldn’t he propose to her initially?
he wanted to please other people
a quiet and reserved women does not mean she's insecure or has low esteem. a loud, outspoken, vibrant woman doesn't mean that she is smarter. Krystal the villain is loud and outspoken, does this mean she is a better pick for Arie than Lauren just because she is that? It's very sad to see how the society always put judgments on women like this. I myself is an introvert, reserved and not a loud person but I did not feel any less or not confident about who I am. When I found my soul mate, I took time because I am so reserved and protective of my heart because I know what I'm worth and what I have to offer. There's nothing wrong for Arie to choose a quiet, reserved woman because there's someone for everyone. The most important thing is the connection, who you vibe with. It doesn't mean this so-called "strong, intelligent women" would have a better connection or vibe and ultimately the superior women who should be chosen.
100% AGREED. Stop boxing people into labels and categories that society has taught you to construct.
Arie sucks but it should have always been Lauren. Becca never seemed right.
Agreed
I think she has personality I think she is just not so out going and talkative and kind of shy but at least it shows she was not using the show for fame with antics like the other women! And who cares Arie didn't go to college that is not for everyone! He is successful n his own right and a lot of people are that do not go to college. You act like he is homeless living in a box or living with his mother!
Congratulations to Arie and Lauren, may your love endure forever! Arie corrected a wrong and did it respectfully and it only comes from social media bullies to criticize Lauren for not being as loud as they want her to be.
This actually was the most dramatic ending ever
That may be true, but I'm pretty sure, "Prepare for the most dramatic season yet!" will be utter once again by Chris Harrison.
i feel america should just accept and mind their own business...everyone judging like they are perfect
I love Kendal’s voice!
I thought I was "weird" for liking her voice lol. Good to know I'm not the only one !
This jerk should not have proposed if he was not sure about himself. Talking about hurting people feelings he sure did well for that!
I really like Kendall so much!
Kendall is right it is way too easy for people to just move on. They don't want to stay and work things out with you because they think they could just go find someone else
because... people can just leave and find someone else...no one owns anyone else or has to stay with someone if they don't want to.
Quadrupliplex they eventually figure out that they can't just go from person to person.
I agree That makes sense! And because people do this so much and the divorce rate is really high.
No way did he have a hard time coming on the show. He was the thirstiest bachelor of all time.
Just because someone is quite does not mean that they are not intelligent
Melanie Brink thank you
quiet*
Well whenever she does talk...... she's also not very bright
I don't think people are necessarily judging her intelligence based on her lack of conversation skills, but she doesn't seem to make the best decisions. And, a lot of times when quiet people do speak with brains they say something worthwhile. I didn't hear any of that with her. She has nothing interesting to say, boring, and just seems dense in general. She has a pretty face and good body, in my opinion, but her personality is lacking... unless you like lame puns.
And what does it matter she is who she is we are ALL humans! Geez I feel someone is saying she is not deserving of love. Also she is not the only person on the planet that has struggled in school either!
Kendall is a beautiful person and a beautiful soul
The Bachelor winter games is so nice and the Bachelor is so brutal.
I felt so bad.
Tia is...*yawn* just the typical girl that has gone on the bachelor.
Tia: "I just say no to everyone so it doesn't work" @Me lol
Love love love Kendall
She is the sweetest personality.
Tia should be the bachelorette she could find true love on a TV show. Becca K can't find a good man on TV. she still had love for Arie.
I totally think that if arie had lauren on his mind while he was becca, his action in breaking up with becca is understandable since it would be unfair to becca if he stuck with her when he is thinking about another woman. However it was royally fucked up to televise it (and unfortunaly i sont know how television works so i cant fully blame it on him) and when she said to leave he didnt leave like dude just leave. And when he corned her into talking further he didnt say anything like take a hint and just leave
Love Kendall!! Would love to see her be the bachelorette!
5:09 lol
Becca God loves you more and will give you the best.
Tia: Herrrrr
I think all this was made up just to get more views this season, think all three were in on it.
They sure could have simplified it. It was sort of laughable when Chris said, "The network has given us another night to show everything unedited." Sure felt a little overdone. Not sure Becca knew but surely he knew something was up because he had contacted her and they had the cameras there. Looks suspicious.
Tia or Sienne were going to be the next bachelorette right?
this is a perfect example of how political correctness has gotten out of control: they are being way too kind; Arie’s decisions and actions were 100% selfish
No they weren't. He was confused and made a mistake. He made the right decision getting out before he married her. It would have been worse had he married her.
Everyone saying arie did wrong honestly I dont think he did yes he hurt Becca but he’s just doing what his heart is telling him I mean his 36 years old he wants to make sure he picks the right one because he’ is ready for marriage and kids and he’s just making sure that he picks the one right for him so don’t be hating on arie for his choices he makes.
his feelings are justifiable but him deciding to videotape the break-up is disgusting of him.
Kayla Snyder yes he shouldn’t have recorded the break up but all in all it is the bachelor and anything could happen. He’s just going for his heart and he wants the best for Becca
He's known for being a player and a cheater in non-Bachelor life, so I wouldn't say he's ready for marriage. This mirrors his life in which he can't stay devoted to one woman, and I don't think Lauren will be the "cure" for him.
Heather Newbold I honestly think he is ready for marriage I just think he really wants to make sure he finds the one because he is 36 years old he’s just playing it safe.
Kayla Snyder I don’t think Arie said hey let’s record this! It’s the franchise also Becca could have told the camera crew to leave it was “unedited” she did not say that once
Such a terrific idea to have a bachelor make up with every competator and so dignified for the women and such an uplifting and virtuous for ones self esteem
How does the me-too left perverted culture spin this one. Babylon Media teaching us about love. Realy.
so he mistook guilt for love, or?
Terrible ending..... I am happy for Kendall it wasn’t her
I like Kendall:)
Arie is not a real man. He is a little boy in a man's body. Becca dodged a bullet. The only reason Arie likes Laure so much is because she resembles Emily Maynard who broke his heart. Lauren has no personality.
do people have long hair ,just to play with it!
Its obvious Arie always knew he has been a chick magnet and so the women who fall for him fell at their own peril. Keep your fingers crossed for Lauren! Just sayin!
Maybe a chick magnet for his wallet but he's not that good looking. I spent every scene saying, "get a haircut!" That, long, comb it forward look is passe. I wanted to take a clippers to the sides and back. Not a good look today.
Hell no. Most guys hairstyles nowadays are pretty bad!
I was thinking the same thing about his haircut, dear Lord!
Arie and lauren will never never last
Tia was the one
Poor arie
Wow
aw i want tia for bachelorette. just saying :(
NOOOO
Tia blew it when she made that judgement about Becca M being young and not ready. It was sooooo wrong of her to blab her psycho babbel to Arie. I think that's what did her in. I hate that kind of judgemental know it all and It didn't go well with him, either.
Arie should have chosen Tia. Tia was the most in love with him among the Final 5 or so, it was pretty clear. They had the most fun and most chemistry. And she balled her eyes out more than the others and really let her guard down. Arie seemed like a boring kind of guy anyway. He wasn't the best conversationalist. Becca got over Arie real fast and you see how quickly she developed the whole "Well I'll just meet someone else soon anyway" attitude. But how the hell do you propose to someone that you just decided that same morning that you were going to do it??? He should have had his mind made up weeks before. And then he breaks off the engagement just to keep open the possibility of seeing if his feelings would work out with Lauren. That's unbelievable. And I don't get why people like Kendall so much. She has a bit of a deceptive look to her in my opinion. Or at least she did on the show. She seemed like one of those women who would be just fine and content with being single and not married for a while anyway.