topics in this video!! i also talk about other things in between but feel free to skip around :) 2:26: signs he likes you 3:49: first date tips 5:00: how to meet guys 6:03: how to know if he’s lying 6:26: saying “i love you” too soon 8:03 red flags 9:15: how to get him to text you more 9:45: what age is good for a first boyfriend? 10:23: scared you’ll never find “the one”? 11:00: how to try to not change to impress a guy 11:57: how to break up with someone 13:18: how to not become obsessed during hot girl summer 13:43: how to confess to your crush 15:11: liking a guy with a girlfriend 17:00: how to get over a guy 19:54: how to get a guy to like you 20:39: dating your friend’s ex 21:19: dealing with a guy who likes you but you don’t like them back 21:40: what to look for in a guy 22:19: how to get over a guy who played you 23:48: what if i haven’t had my first kiss yet 24:58: how to stop loving someone who doesn’t feel the same way 25:29: what happens once we both like each other 25:48: what if he’s not ready for a relationship but still likes me 26:22: he likes me but he has a gf 26:45: first kiss advice 27:17: how to get yourself to talk to your crush 27:32: break ups 31:54: how to deal with an ex that used you 32:23: how to get over a crush 33:08: is it normal to not be boy crazy 33:21: how to stop obsessing 33:43: what if a guy says he can’t date and then dates someone else 34:03: what is wrong with boys?? 34:15: how to get more info on ur crush 34:19: how to deal with rejection 34:38: what if you have a crush on your guy best friend 35:29: do all guys just want one thing 35:48: what to do if a guy is using you
I'm 17 and i've never was in a relationship and never had BOY PROBLEMS and im still hoping for happy ever after I think that in the end everyone should stay hopeless romantic because they're good fish in the sea and a couple of worse ones doesn't mean anything I have such high standards and i want to date someone with most of them and im not going to compromise Thank you so much for this video ruby, you're such an inspiring and amazing person and those losers that broke your heart will never deserve you and the one you'll end up with is going to be so lucky ❤️
I don’t relate but a lot of my friends get heartbroken I never understand why but now saying this video I can see why. HI RUBY!!! Hope you’ll get better and find someone better(if you want to) LOVE YOU ❤
I definitely needed this video 😂 I can’t wait to watch it! I can’t wait to finish school on Friday for summer (yes I haven’t finished yet and start again at the start of September)I hope you are doing ok Ruby! ❤️
omg thank you so much for this vid, i rlly needed this bc i grew up with bullying and not trusting boys bc i was their main target so getting into middle school/highschool soon this video will rlly help me ♥Lysm Ruby! ♥
Thank you so much Ruby!!! I can imagine the time and the effort you put in putting all the exact times of your video! Personally this video was so helpful! I feel like you’re the older sister I never had sometimes because you’re so open and honest about everything so thank you! 🩷🩷🩷
I love u so much ruby ty for all of ur advice, and i still haven't figured out the crush on my boy bsf and he shows so much body language he hugs me alot he touches me and stuff and he also ALWAYS makes excuses to hang out and sit next to me
thank you so much for this video, i relate to more of these questions than i thought... theres honestly so much anxiety going into stuff like this (also with friends) that i've struggled with, always second guessing things that i think i should do or not do, but having you just give this honest advice is really reassuring! love you
Hi Ruby! [EXTREMELY LONG STORY ALERT] I'm going into my Freshman year. My middle school has been only the people I've gone to school with since Pre-k, but the high school combines 7 other schools. I've had a crush on a guy (Ill call him Will) since 6th grade. He didn't really know I existed until 7th (we've never really had any classes together since 2nd grade) when I had a lot of classes with him. My history teacher would do these mini pop quizzes sometimes after we had reading assignments for homework. Will sat in front of me in that class, and we would talk almost every day. That's when i started to fall in love with him. One day, we had one of those pop quizzes. The night before (when i was supposed to read an article) I had 3 soccer practices AND a band rehearsal. I was so exhausted that I passed out in the car (and didn't do my homework). I forgot about it completely until I sat down in class and my teacher passed out slips of paper. I locked eyes with my crush and told him without speaking that I forgot the assignment. The teacher asked a question about the article and started collecting the papers. Will (who did read the article) slipped me a glance at his paper. He was the only reason I didn't get an automatic F (that was the consequence of getting it wrong). Throughout the year, he did various things that led me to believe he might like me back. My hopes were crushed when I saw him with my "friend". She was never really nice to me and she KNEW I liked will. Yet she constantly flirted with him every chance she got. This continued throughout 8th grade. They're not officially together or anything but I can tell he likes her. Idk if she likes him or if she's just flirting (like she does with every boy in our grade). Now I'm going into high school where the chances of me having classes with Will are even smaller than before. I don't know what to do anymore. My real friends convinced me to Snap him a few weeks ago. A few days later (he doesn't use the app often) I got a notification that he REPLAYED it, then left me on opened. I don't know what I was expecting, but I was crushed. I have 3 BFFs. One is asexual and the other 2 have bfs. I am hopelessly in love with a guy who will never like me back and no matter what I do it keeps eating me up inside. Sorry for the whole friken essay but I just wanted to get that off my chest. I don't expect anyone to read all of this but if you did, congrats for wasting your time on a random internet stranger.
hey! i just read all of this and first off, i'm so sorry bc i know how hard it is to deal with liking someone like this and it seems like it'll never work out... i would say that there's nothing wrong with continuing to like him, but if you want a chance of being with him, try to get involved in the same activities as he is and try to talk to him and maybe snap him again, but if he doesn't seem to be reciprocating then just leave it alone for a little while, again i'm sorry you're dealing with this, boys are confusing and girls can be rly mean
please please please do a part 3 of reading ur subscribers secrets! I entered a couple secrets when u did the form for it 11 months ago lol and I still really want u to read them! Ly ruby
This is so so relatable 😅- I’ve never related to you more ❤! The player one was so true esp when I found my ex crush talked to another girl as well as me in the same class whilst having a GF 😮
i love ur videos so much and especially these kinds of videos because i feel like people can really relate to this and i love how you keep it real and share your actual opinions to help others. thank u sm ruby!! ps. why are boys so confusing sometimes?!
I love your personality and wish I found your channel sooner. I had a crush on a guy from school who used to be in my class for 2 years. Im 18 now and never had a boyfriend witch some might say is sad but honestly those who date in highschool rarely last. Anyways my crush on this guy never eventuated into anything because my friends told me a couple of months ago that he doesn’t like me. Honestly it shattered my heart, it was a punch in the gut. And now I’ve found out he does drugs so I think I really dodged a bullet. Sometimes no matter how much you think you want someone…. you really don’t. Also guys are sometimes hard to read but usually mixed signals means they don’t like you. Anyways, my advice to everyone is, feel good in your own skin first.
this comment is so true! high school relationships are kind of stupid since they don't last, guys are confusing, and people aren't always who you think they are... tysm and great advice
Hiii! I have a fantastic video idea for your next period. How about creating a series where you vlog your entire period experience, breaking it down into different days? For instance, you can start with 'A Period Week in My Life, Part 1 - Day 1.' Your viewers (and I) absolutely adore your longer videos, so I'm sure they would appreciate this type of video. Let me know if you're interested, I hope you do it! (Love your videos by the way, Iv been binging all of them lol)
I DO NOT want to go back to schooooool. I have to go back in 2 weeks and I want to dieee. Anywaysss, I've had a crush on the same dude since elementary school and we did like each other and some point but then we stopped talking, and now I think about him like every day 🙃🙃🙃... I'm sorta worried we'll gonna be in the same class next school year and if we are then I might as well just drop dead 😊 Anywaysss, I love ur videos and they have gotten me through some really hard times in middle school ❤
Yeah,  I think that would be a good  idea to have your mom answer some of the boy advice questions. I want to see part two of this topic with your mom.
Coming back at the end of the year, and im officially finished with freshman year which is crazy. This year is wild, i had a ton of stuff in my personal life and I still had boy problems💀 which i did not need this year but yk. Excited for summer, and finals are gonna kill me. I actually have a thing for a guy rn which is sucky bc hes switching schools. We texted alot and talk alot but its complicated so this is a little note to know at the end of the day things happen. So if anyones reading dont be too scared, youll be fine even when you dont feel like it all the time🥰
Ruby your are such a brave person to put this out there in the real world. I am not like most males except for the face that I normally will go after what I want. All the advice I can give is if you have a crush on a guy and he doesn't like you don't push it cause its gonna end with you feeling bad.
Thank you Ruby! The funny thing is that i am a 9 year old with a crush that likes me back, but mine started in March and his started in May, it’s honestly funny! (Don’t worry, I am not in a relationship like boyfriend kinda thing with him he’s just like a really close friend, and if I one day he doesn’t want to be friends I will really use your advice)
not only is it bad when a guy tries to hide you, but its also a red flag if they are sharing you with everyone right from the beginning. I was in a situation where he told all of his friends and family about me within the first week of knowing each other, while I had only told a couple of my friends. now that I think about it, I feel like he was kind of using me just to say that he had a girlfriend but I hope that deep in his heart he actually cared about me as much as he said he did.
Im going to try and make this short as possible 😭😭 ok so last month I went to this event in a different town, and I normally go to this town a lot. This guy came up to me and asked for my snapchat and I gave it to him. I asked my friend that lives in that same town as him if she knew him and she said yeah and told me he doesn’t normally approach girls or even get girl’s attention and so for him to do that to me might mean that he’s probably into me. She also said that he’s a bold person and isn’t afraid to talk to people but when I went to the event again I saw him their with his friends and he stared at me the whole time like he wanted to talk to me but he didn’t. One month later which is now, yesterday I asked him what he thinks of me because I honestly needed to know. He’s dry on txt and I’m normally the one who starts every conversation we have and I always show interest and show that I care but he doesn’t. Sometimes I wonder if it’s even worth my time trying to get to know someone who doesn’t even bother to try and get to know me. Anyways so he told me that he thinks I’m pretty nice and cute but he doesn’t know too much about me. So I told him maybe he should try and get to know me better then and he said mhm. One week ago I asked him if he’s into anyone and he said he doesn’t know and I asked him Wydm and he said he can’t explain and I told him that I’m into him and that we should hangout and he said whenever he’s free he’ll let me know. He didn’t really say anything when I told him I’m into him and we haven’t hung out yet cuz he skateboards everyday and where he practices is sketchy and just unsafe and he said he doesn’t want to invite me there so idk. What do you think ruby? I really need your advice, I’m so sorry I wrote a lot and u have to read this much 😭
it sounds like he's sending a lot of mixed signals so i think that you should ask him to give you the times he's available so that you can make a plan, and if he doesn't then just don't write him for a while and see if he reaches out first. it doesn't sound like you know him very well so try looking for other guys to like even though i know it's hard
Thanks so much for this video! I have been crushing on this guy for a few months and he is very kind and nice to me but I think he might have a girlfriend. He sat next to me in class and I overheard him talking to his friend about a girlfriend. I know his friend has a girlfriend but I’m not sure about him. I want to try to get over him but it’s kinda hard since this is my first real crush. Anyway Hope your doing well Ruby!! ❤
Idk if u remember me or not but I think around a year ago I was telling you about how I only live with my dad and brother and the only like girl I could talk to abt that stuff was my cousin well recently I started watching your channel again and I just wanted to say I got my first period in February this year and tysm for helping me your channel has helped sm!
(I'm a guy btw and I'm 16) Imma be real here, I treat girls well infact imma go as far to say I'm one of the low amount of actual good guys out here because me personally I have majority girl best friends because I trust girls more also if a guy is being bad or toxic I just leave, I have a lil bit of guys friends online and irl (not really irl tbh, but the guys I am friends with they're good people) me and other guys (mainly) I don't rock with them they always giving off this gangsta energy that I just dislike, I'm fr a good guy and still get heartbroken so I'm currently single and imma stay that way for a long time Btw most of things you've mentioned I've gone thru that with girls it's not just boys even though I agree most boys out here are just... Bad, I hate boys like that it's hard to find good guys out here, I'm a good guy and sometimes I still get treated like shit by ex's or other boys but this was a good video, I agree with it for the most part and I see where ur coming from Good Job! ❤️
Hi Rudy you are such an inspiration ❤❤ but I have a kinda “weird” question where you on alexia and Katie? Sorry if you feel uncomfortable to answer just a question :)❤
Hi ruby , thanks so much!! You have such great advice hope everything is good with you and your having a great summer , I love you am have a great day/night xx ❤️⭐️
of course, i always try to reply to all my comments... just remember that being used does not define who you are and you have lots of time to figure things out
Awesome video and so helpful coming from you! I got a crush like last December and then a few months ago he got a girlfriend. The guy used to be so nice to me. And its not that bc he got a gf, he doesnt talk to other girls. I know that bc he talks to all the “popular “ girls. Im getting over him but it sucks that he number 1, got a gf and 2, forgot about me. 😭😭 ALSO TO ANYONE WHO IS NOT “BOY CRAZY” I never had a crush like for alot of middle school. Then I suddenly got the crush on that guy. It just takes time and everybody changes.
I definitely needed this video. I didn’t even realize that I could relate to it so much! This helped my friend a lot because she is going through a break up and I recommend your channel to her. She loves you video she can’t stop watching now lol. And I just want to thank you so much!!!! I love your videos!! 🩷 Ilysmmmm♥️
No me being on periods and waiting for her to post something so that I can b relexed seeing her 😭❤️ whenever I'm on my periods and I see your videos i probably feel better
Sometimes I wish I had crushes on people, my friends always have crushes, but I never have a crush really because all of the boys at my school are just mean. But sometimes I feel left out when they talk about dating and stuff.
don't feel bad about it! it just means you haven't found the right person for you to like yet... and trust me, enjoy the times you aren't worrying about it right now but listen and learn about the topic so you can feel more included!
my crush is weird x he’s cute obvssss, stares at me constantly, but when I text him he doesn’t reply for ages and idk if he likes me like that… or just thinks I’m a weirdo LOVE U + UR VIDS SLAYYY MY BDAY TMRW (writing this on 17th July) WOULD LOVE A SHOUTOUT 🎉 U HAVE HELPED GET THROUGH TOXIC PPL AND RELATIONSHIPS ❤ IM ONLY 11 BUT I CAN STILLL SAY THAT U R THE ONLINE BIG SISTER IVE ALWAYS NEEDED 💞💞💞💞💞
some guys are reallyyyy bad at replying quickly... try to talk to him more in person and see what happens... and HAPPY BDAYYYY that's so sweet tysm and i hope you have the best birthday
thank you so much Ruby!! I need help though...I got played super hard for like five months straight, and though its been like almost 2 months since we broke up, i'm still not over him and I feel guilty. he also tried texting me a few days ago to "apologize" and I don't know what to do now. do you have any advice? anyway tysm for this video, it means a lot
great advice as always love you! ❤ also, unrelated, but we’re you in Alexa and Katie? i was watching it for the first time the other day, and this girl came on screen who was starring in an episode of immediately I thought of your face!
Hey ruby, ive had a lot of crushes in the past but got over them (yt crushes) then one were i lived him for months, and now this crush were he likes me back and i feel a connection to him, i dream about him, i have the light inside me (you get it hopefully) that when i dont see him it get dimmer every day but when i dream about him the light gets a tad bit more bright and i cannot explain the feeling.
When I was in 6th grade near the end of the year someone emailed me saying that they liked me and I thought that kid hated me bc he looked so miserable when would give him his paper so I emailed him back sorry no I hoped that didn’t sound mean but I should’ve said something like sorry I don’t like you bc I had and still have the biggest crush on someone else
topics in this video!! i also talk about other things in between but feel free to skip around :)
2:26: signs he likes you
3:49: first date tips
5:00: how to meet guys
6:03: how to know if he’s lying
6:26: saying “i love you” too soon
8:03 red flags
9:15: how to get him to text you more
9:45: what age is good for a first boyfriend?
10:23: scared you’ll never find “the one”?
11:00: how to try to not change to impress a guy
11:57: how to break up with someone
13:18: how to not become obsessed during hot girl summer
13:43: how to confess to your crush
15:11: liking a guy with a girlfriend
17:00: how to get over a guy
19:54: how to get a guy to like you
20:39: dating your friend’s ex
21:19: dealing with a guy who likes you but you don’t like them back
21:40: what to look for in a guy
22:19: how to get over a guy who played you
23:48: what if i haven’t had my first kiss yet
24:58: how to stop loving someone who doesn’t feel the same way
25:29: what happens once we both like each other
25:48: what if he’s not ready for a relationship but still likes me
26:22: he likes me but he has a gf
26:45: first kiss advice
27:17: how to get yourself to talk to your crush
27:32: break ups
31:54: how to deal with an ex that used you
32:23: how to get over a crush
33:08: is it normal to not be boy crazy
33:21: how to stop obsessing
33:43: what if a guy says he can’t date and then dates someone else
34:03: what is wrong with boys??
34:15: how to get more info on ur crush
34:19: how to deal with rejection
34:38: what if you have a crush on your guy best friend
35:29: do all guys just want one thing
35:48: what to do if a guy is using you
taking notes 📝
I already know I'm gonna watch this several times over the next couple of years 😂❤ Thanks for being the big sister I don't have :)
hahaha i hope it helps you out! of course aww
U are!! I love u ruby I was soooo prepared for my first pireod bc of u and it was sooo much easier thank u keep going ❤
That is amazing.
@@hayhay1367ikr she is the best person in the entire world!! idk how she doesn’t have 1M yet!!
I'm 17 and i've never was in a relationship and never had BOY PROBLEMS and im still hoping for happy ever after
I think that in the end everyone should stay hopeless romantic because they're good fish in the sea and a couple of worse ones doesn't mean anything
I have such high standards and i want to date someone with most of them and im not going to compromise
Thank you so much for this video ruby, you're such an inspiring and amazing person and those losers that broke your heart will never deserve you and the one you'll end up with is going to be so lucky ❤️
yesss thank you sm for this comment i love it ❤️❤️❤️
I am sorry that the guy ghosted you😭 Also thank you so much for posting these videos❤I love you so much ruby❤I have been watching you since July 2022
aww tysm for watching ❤️❤️❤️
I love you ruby! Thank you for all of your vids🫶🏼
ly too! ofc
Mee tooooo!
I like her ttoooop
I don’t relate but a lot of my friends get heartbroken I never understand why but now saying this video I can see why.
HI RUBY!!! Hope you’ll get better and find someone better(if you want to)
LOVE YOU ❤
you'll unfortunately understand it one day... lysm
I definitely needed this video 😂 I can’t wait to watch it! I can’t wait to finish school on Friday for summer (yes I haven’t finished yet and start again at the start of September)I hope you are doing ok Ruby! ❤️
lol i hope it helps! omg have a great summer, hope you're doing well
6:50 I was litterally about to make a comment about this scene lol 😆
HAHAHHAA
BAHAHAHA SAMEEEEE 💀💀💀
we need a part 2 ruby!!❤️
i want to!! ❤️
I just watched your video from 2yrs ago! “Middle school advice”. And it helped so much! I’m going into middle school. Your videos are great ❤
omg thank you so much for this vid, i rlly needed this bc i grew up with bullying and
not trusting boys bc i was their main target so getting into middle school/highschool soon this video will rlly help me
♥Lysm Ruby! ♥
of course! ugh i am so sorry about that :( lysm!!
Ruby is so underrated i just found her channel yesterday and i already watch half of her videos. Keep up the great videos💗💗
thank you sm ahhh 💗💗💗
Thank you so much Ruby!!! I can imagine the time and the effort you put in putting all the exact times of your video! Personally this video was so helpful! I feel like you’re the older sister I never had sometimes because you’re so open and honest about everything so thank you! 🩷🩷🩷
ofc!! aww i’m happy to do it for you guys, this comment made my day tysm ❤️
I love u so much ruby ty for all of ur advice, and i still haven't figured out the crush on my boy bsf and he shows so much body language he hugs me alot he touches me and stuff and he also ALWAYS makes excuses to hang out and sit next to me
it sounds like he could like you maybe, see what happens!
@@rubixcubix28 yea maybe
I love it when she posted a new video!
awww
thank you so much for answering my question! i have a lot of boy issues 🥲
love u ruby!
ofc! real lol ly too!
thank you so much for this video, i relate to more of these questions than i thought... theres honestly so much anxiety going into stuff like this (also with friends) that i've struggled with, always second guessing things that i think i should do or not do, but having you just give this honest advice is really reassuring!
love you
ofc! yeah around this age it’s totally normal and i’m so glad i could help, ly too 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Hi Ruby! [EXTREMELY LONG STORY ALERT]
I'm going into my Freshman year. My middle school has been only the people I've gone to school with since Pre-k, but the high school combines 7 other schools. I've had a crush on a guy (Ill call him Will) since 6th grade. He didn't really know I existed until 7th (we've never really had any classes together since 2nd grade) when I had a lot of classes with him. My history teacher would do these mini pop quizzes sometimes after we had reading assignments for homework. Will sat in front of me in that class, and we would talk almost every day. That's when i started to fall in love with him. One day, we had one of those pop quizzes. The night before (when i was supposed to read an article) I had 3 soccer practices AND a band rehearsal. I was so exhausted that I passed out in the car (and didn't do my homework). I forgot about it completely until I sat down in class and my teacher passed out slips of paper. I locked eyes with my crush and told him without speaking that I forgot the assignment. The teacher asked a question about the article and started collecting the papers. Will (who did read the article) slipped me a glance at his paper. He was the only reason I didn't get an automatic F (that was the consequence of getting it wrong). Throughout the year, he did various things that led me to believe he might like me back. My hopes were crushed when I saw him with my "friend". She was never really nice to me and she KNEW I liked will. Yet she constantly flirted with him every chance she got. This continued throughout 8th grade. They're not officially together or anything but I can tell he likes her. Idk if she likes him or if she's just flirting (like she does with every boy in our grade). Now I'm going into high school where the chances of me having classes with Will are even smaller than before. I don't know what to do anymore. My real friends convinced me to Snap him a few weeks ago. A few days later (he doesn't use the app often) I got a notification that he REPLAYED it, then left me on opened. I don't know what I was expecting, but I was crushed. I have 3 BFFs. One is asexual and the other 2 have bfs. I am hopelessly in love with a guy who will never like me back and no matter what I do it keeps eating me up inside.
Sorry for the whole friken essay but I just wanted to get that off my chest. I don't expect anyone to read all of this but if you did, congrats for wasting your time on a random internet stranger.
hey! i just read all of this and first off, i'm so sorry bc i know how hard it is to deal with liking someone like this and it seems like it'll never work out... i would say that there's nothing wrong with continuing to like him, but if you want a chance of being with him, try to get involved in the same activities as he is and try to talk to him and maybe snap him again, but if he doesn't seem to be reciprocating then just leave it alone for a little while, again i'm sorry you're dealing with this, boys are confusing and girls can be rly mean
@@rubixcubix28 thank you so much ❤️ I can't believe you read that whole thing
I’m kinda early!!! I love your vids and you have been really helping me with my teenage years! Love you!!!
tysm aww that makes me so happy! ly too!!
please please please do a part 3 of reading ur subscribers secrets! I entered a couple secrets when u did the form for it 11 months ago lol and I still really want u to read them! Ly ruby
And this is the earliest I have ever been! Love u ruby
YAYYY ly too!
This is so so relatable 😅- I’ve never related to you more ❤! The player one was so true esp when I found my ex crush talked to another girl as well as me in the same class whilst having a GF 😮
haha omg that just sucks 😭
i love ur videos so much and especially these kinds of videos because i feel like people can really relate to this and i love how you keep it real and share your actual opinions to help others. thank u sm ruby!! ps. why are boys so confusing sometimes?!
thank you so much!! ofc!! idk honestly it is soooo annoying
I love your personality and wish I found your channel sooner.
I had a crush on a guy from school who used to be in my class for 2 years. Im 18 now and never had a boyfriend witch some might say is sad but honestly those who date in highschool rarely last. Anyways my crush on this guy never eventuated into anything because my friends told me a couple of months ago that he doesn’t like me. Honestly it shattered my heart, it was a punch in the gut. And now I’ve found out he does drugs so I think I really dodged a bullet. Sometimes no matter how much you think you want someone…. you really don’t. Also guys are sometimes hard to read but usually mixed signals means they don’t like you. Anyways, my advice to everyone is, feel good in your own skin first.
this comment is so true! high school relationships are kind of stupid since they don't last, guys are confusing, and people aren't always who you think they are... tysm and great advice
hi I just discovered your channel and oh my god to be told that you're a swiftie makes your channel so much more comforting than it already is!!!
hi!! omg ahaha yes i’m a huge swiftie 💕💕 welcome to the channel!!
Hiii! I have a fantastic video idea for your next period. How about creating a series where you vlog your entire period experience, breaking it down into different days? For instance, you can start with 'A Period Week in My Life, Part 1 - Day 1.' Your viewers (and I) absolutely adore your longer videos, so I'm sure they would appreciate this type of video. Let me know if you're interested, I hope you do it! (Love your videos by the way, Iv been binging all of them lol)
U should totally make a video with ur mom she's so sweet❤
awww i'd love to!!
I live for these videos Ruby thank you so much for uploading as much as you do :))
aww ofc
Hey, thanks Ruby! I really appreciate all your videos. And I'm sorry about the guy!
thank you!
GREAT ADVICE! Thx so much Ruby! 💓
tyyy! ofc!
Thank you sooo much for this it explained EVERYTHINGGG
yay i'm so glad!
Thank you so much Ruby! I hope this helps with all the crushing on a guy stress😣
Please make more vids like this, I really appreciate them ❤️
of course!
Omg RUBY YOU DONT KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOUR PERUOD RUITIN PERIOD I LOVE YOU❤❤❤❤!!
TYSM ly too!
I DO NOT want to go back to schooooool. I have to go back in 2 weeks and I want to dieee.
Anywaysss, I've had a crush on the same dude since elementary school and we did like each other and some point but then we stopped talking, and now I think about him like every day 🙃🙃🙃... I'm sorta worried we'll gonna be in the same class next school year and if we are then I might as well just drop dead 😊
Anywaysss, I love ur videos and they have gotten me through some really hard times in middle school ❤
good luck with that! and tysm awww i’m so glad ❤️❤️❤️
Yeah,  I think that would be a good  idea to have your mom answer some of the boy advice questions. I want to see part two of this topic with your mom.
i’d love to do it!
Hy Ruby im a huge fan, though i havent been watching u. I love u becuz ur the first youtuber who answers my comments . I promise u ill never forget u
hi! awww ty that's so sweet
Thankyou for this Advice Ruby it was so Helpful! Ilysm❤
ofc! i’m so glad lysm :)
As a boy who's too scared and self-conscious to ask a guy / girl out, these tips are helpful
i’m glad!
Coming back at the end of the year, and im officially finished with freshman year which is crazy. This year is wild, i had a ton of stuff in my personal life and I still had boy problems💀 which i did not need this year but yk. Excited for summer, and finals are gonna kill me. I actually have a thing for a guy rn which is sucky bc hes switching schools. We texted alot and talk alot but its complicated so this is a little note to know at the end of the day things happen. So if anyones reading dont be too scared, youll be fine even when you dont feel like it all the time🥰
Ruby your are such a brave person to put this out there in the real world. I am not like most males except for the face that I normally will go after what I want. All the advice I can give is if you have a crush on a guy and he doesn't like you don't push it cause its gonna end with you feeling bad.
thank you! yes good advice
This is so helpful! I actually just got rejected so thx for making these videos there so helpful 😊
i'm so glad this helps! so sorry about that ugh :(
nooo the video of her crying😭😭😭 i love your videos ruby❤
and also yesss a video with your mom would be awesome
thank you sm! dw i'm doing a lot better now ahaha
@@rubixcubix28 ok lol thanks
Thank you Ruby! The funny thing is that i am a 9 year old with a crush that likes me back, but mine started in March and his started in May, it’s honestly funny! (Don’t worry, I am not in a relationship like boyfriend kinda thing with him he’s just like a really close friend, and if I one day he doesn’t want to be friends I will really use your advice)
that’s rly cute!! i hope this vid helped ❤️
Hii ruby!!! i love you so much you inspire me sm i hope you read this and hope you never stop posting(unless you need a break) ilysm❤❤❤❤
hi! thank you so much lysm❤️❤️
Thanks ruby. Your like an older sister I’ve never had. Love u ❤
aww of course ly too ❤️
not only is it bad when a guy tries to hide you, but its also a red flag if they are sharing you with everyone right from the beginning. I was in a situation where he told all of his friends and family about me within the first week of knowing each other, while I had only told a couple of my friends. now that I think about it, I feel like he was kind of using me just to say that he had a girlfriend but I hope that deep in his heart he actually cared about me as much as he said he did.
yes this could totally be true too! i think it just depends on the situation
im in 7th grade and me and my friends are already dealing with and its so hard. but i love your videos so much. please keep posting
Good advice, you are close to your Mom and Aunt so you are lucky to have them to guide you with dealing with guys.
yes exactly! so grateful
Im going to try and make this short as possible 😭😭 ok so last month I went to this event in a different town, and I normally go to this town a lot. This guy came up to me and asked for my snapchat and I gave it to him. I asked my friend that lives in that same town as him if she knew him and she said yeah and told me he doesn’t normally approach girls or even get girl’s attention and so for him to do that to me might mean that he’s probably into me. She also said that he’s a bold person and isn’t afraid to talk to people but when I went to the event again I saw him their with his friends and he stared at me the whole time like he wanted to talk to me but he didn’t. One month later which is now, yesterday I asked him what he thinks of me because I honestly needed to know. He’s dry on txt and I’m normally the one who starts every conversation we have and I always show interest and show that I care but he doesn’t. Sometimes I wonder if it’s even worth my time trying to get to know someone who doesn’t even bother to try and get to know me. Anyways so he told me that he thinks I’m pretty nice and cute but he doesn’t know too much about me. So I told him maybe he should try and get to know me better then and he said mhm. One week ago I asked him if he’s into anyone and he said he doesn’t know and I asked him Wydm and he said he can’t explain and I told him that I’m into him and that we should hangout and he said whenever he’s free he’ll let me know. He didn’t really say anything when I told him I’m into him and we haven’t hung out yet cuz he skateboards everyday and where he practices is sketchy and just unsafe and he said he doesn’t want to invite me there so idk. What do you think ruby? I really need your advice, I’m so sorry I wrote a lot and u have to read this much 😭
it sounds like he's sending a lot of mixed signals so i think that you should ask him to give you the times he's available so that you can make a plan, and if he doesn't then just don't write him for a while and see if he reaches out first. it doesn't sound like you know him very well so try looking for other guys to like even though i know it's hard
Ok thank you so much!! ❤️
Thanks so much for this video! I have been crushing on this guy for a few months and he is very kind and nice to me but I think he might have a girlfriend. He sat next to me in class and I overheard him talking to his friend about a girlfriend. I know his friend has a girlfriend but I’m not sure about him. I want to try to get over him but it’s kinda hard since this is my first real crush. Anyway Hope your doing well Ruby!! ❤
i totally get it, i had a very similar experience... hope you're doing well too, and that this helped! :)
Thank you so much ruby, i need this 😭🙏
ofc! hope it helped
Tysm for this video!!! This is really really helpfull!!! ❤
Ly Ruby 💖
i'm so glad! ly too
Idk if u remember me or not but I think around a year ago I was telling you about how I only live with my dad and brother and the only like girl I could talk to abt that stuff was my cousin well recently I started watching your channel again and I just wanted to say I got my first period in February this year and tysm for helping me your channel has helped sm!
awww omg congrats on your first period and thank you! i'm so glad my channel has been able to help
@@rubixcubix28 💓
Hey ruby I was just wondering if you could make more period related content in your vid’s love u
yesss i’m uploading a period week in my life this week
Omg ty sm your advices are really useful, you're like a big sister to me
thank you ofc ❤️❤️❤️
11:30 it’s really giving “and yk **** well for you i will ruin myself a million little times”
sorry i’m obsessed with illicit affairs so i had to 🤠
OH YES ILLICIT AFFAIRS IS ONE OF MY FAV TAY SONGS
@@rubixcubix28 YEAH ITS MY THRID FAV EVER JUST FOR THE BRIDGE
@@audreyyyym YES.
please please please make a part 3 of the reading confessions!!
thxs so much for this great advice! I hope you find the right person for you!!!!! lysm
ofc!! lysm and same to you
(I'm a guy btw and I'm 16) Imma be real here, I treat girls well infact imma go as far to say I'm one of the low amount of actual good guys out here because me personally I have majority girl best friends because I trust girls more also if a guy is being bad or toxic I just leave, I have a lil bit of guys friends online and irl (not really irl tbh, but the guys I am friends with they're good people) me and other guys (mainly) I don't rock with them they always giving off this gangsta energy that I just dislike, I'm fr a good guy and still get heartbroken so I'm currently single and imma stay that way for a long time
Btw most of things you've mentioned I've gone thru that with girls it's not just boys even though I agree most boys out here are just... Bad, I hate boys like that it's hard to find good guys out here, I'm a good guy and sometimes I still get treated like shit by ex's or other boys but this was a good video, I agree with it for the most part and I see where ur coming from
Good Job! ❤️
Ruby, deserves an Oscar for how many times she’s literally like saved me lol!!💕
aww ahaha i'm so glad
Hi Rudy you are such an inspiration ❤❤ but I have a kinda “weird” question where you on alexia and Katie? Sorry if you feel uncomfortable to answer just a question :)❤
hey! i was!! tysm ❤️
Plot twist I’m using this to my advantage to literally do the opposite of everything so people won’t know if I like them
hahahaha
Hi ruby , thanks so much!! You have such great advice hope everything is good with you and your having a great summer , I love you am have a great day/night xx ❤️⭐️
hi! thank you sm, i hope you're having a great summer too ly
I probably needed this vid Because I have a guy best friend and I’m not sure if he likes me or not 😅* love you ruby ❤❤❤
i hope this video helps! ly too
Thanks for respond :)
Wish I could stop getting use and don’t even know my sexuality yet I think I’m Bi but not sure
of course, i always try to reply to all my comments... just remember that being used does not define who you are and you have lots of time to figure things out
Awesome video and so helpful coming from you! I got a crush like last December and then a few months ago he got a girlfriend. The guy used to be so nice to me. And its not that bc he got a gf, he doesnt talk to other girls. I know that bc he talks to all the “popular “ girls. Im getting over him but it sucks that he number 1, got a gf and 2, forgot about me. 😭😭
ALSO TO ANYONE WHO IS NOT “BOY CRAZY”
I never had a crush like for alot of middle school. Then I suddenly got the crush on that guy. It just takes time and everybody changes.
i totally get this 😭😭 good luck getting through it
Hi was waiting 12 hours and finally it's out 🎉🥳
hope you enjoy!!
I definitely needed this video. I didn’t even realize that I could relate to it so much! This helped my friend a lot because she is going through a break up and I recommend your channel to her. She loves you video she can’t stop watching now lol. And I just want to thank you so much!!!! I love your videos!! 🩷
Ilysmmmm♥️
ofc lysm 🩷🩷🩷
OMG IM SO EARLY THE TEA IS STILL HOT!! Thank you for information Ruby, love your videos! ❤❤
AHAHA YAYYY ofc tysm!!
ooooo a long video! so excited! x
yesss! i was going to cut it down but then i figured i'd just leave it lol
Thank you so much Ruby this really helped me ❤
i'm so glad
No me being on periods and waiting for her to post something so that I can b relexed seeing her 😭❤️ whenever I'm on my periods and I see your videos i probably feel better
awww that makes me so happy
I always love your videos thank you so much. Love you big sis ❤️❤️
thank you! ly too
Love you, Ruby. Thanks for the video.
ly! ofc!
You answered my question!! Thank you so much, love your videos :))
ofccc tysm!
LOVE YOU Ruby thank you for the advice ❤️❤️
ly! ofc
Sometimes I wish I had crushes on people, my friends always have crushes, but I never have a crush really because all of the boys at my school are just mean. But sometimes I feel left out when they talk about dating and stuff.
don't feel bad about it! it just means you haven't found the right person for you to like yet... and trust me, enjoy the times you aren't worrying about it right now but listen and learn about the topic so you can feel more included!
my crush is weird x he’s cute obvssss, stares at me constantly, but when I text him he doesn’t reply for ages and idk if he likes me like that… or just thinks I’m a weirdo
LOVE U + UR VIDS SLAYYY
MY BDAY TMRW (writing this on 17th July) WOULD LOVE A SHOUTOUT 🎉
U HAVE HELPED GET THROUGH TOXIC PPL AND RELATIONSHIPS ❤ IM ONLY 11 BUT I CAN STILLL SAY THAT U R THE ONLINE BIG SISTER IVE ALWAYS NEEDED 💞💞💞💞💞
some guys are reallyyyy bad at replying quickly... try to talk to him more in person and see what happens... and HAPPY BDAYYYY that's so sweet tysm and i hope you have the best birthday
He’s just naturally flirty with literally everyone and I’m so confused 😅
real
Thank you. You finally posted ❤
ofc! hope you enjoy
I broke the communication barrier!!!!❤❤❤
thank you so much Ruby!! I need help though...I got played super hard for like five months straight, and though its been like almost 2 months since we broke up, i'm still not over him and I feel guilty. he also tried texting me a few days ago to "apologize" and I don't know what to do now. do you have any advice? anyway tysm for this video, it means a lot
hiii!! amazing video !!! and thank uu sm, i have a question what app do u use to edit, and may u give me some tips on RUclips starters?
thank you!! i use final cut pro, but starting on imovie and using that for a while is what i did before switching
I didnt start my period so im watching all of your period videos so im ready
i hope they help!!
@@rubixcubix28OMG YOU COMMENTED I THOUGHT U DIDNT IM A BIG FAN
Thanks for being a big sis I never had, love you lots
i love ur vids ruby!! 🩷🩷🩷
TYSMM
U are so amazing ruby thank u for all that u do we can all count on u❤
awww tysm ofcc
love the advice, thank youuu!❤
ofccc
Good advice Ruby keep the videos coming ❤
tyyy
When you started talking about breakups it was so sad you looked like you were about to cry. Hope you're ok
i'm okay, the pain i went through is pretty recent though so sometimes when i remember it i feel like it still shows on my face lol :)
great advice as always love you! ❤ also, unrelated, but we’re you in Alexa and Katie? i was watching it for the first time the other day, and this girl came on screen who was starring in an episode of immediately I thought of your face!
lysm thank you! and yes ahaha i was!!
@@rubixcubix28 omg yes i knew it! 🥰
Very informative!
Im thinking about making a video on making a similar guide!
cool! thanks!
goated asf
Hey, great video, ily so much 💗
thank you! lysm
Hey ruby, ive had a lot of crushes in the past but got over them (yt crushes) then one were i lived him for months, and now this crush were he likes me back and i feel a connection to him, i dream about him, i have the light inside me (you get it hopefully) that when i dont see him it get dimmer every day but when i dream about him the light gets a tad bit more bright and i cannot explain the feeling.
more period day in my weeksss 😩
yessss i will
I love your advices you are the best💗💗
awww thank you
Ofc I should do a part 2 rubssss❤
maybeee
When I was in 6th grade near the end of the year someone emailed me saying that they liked me and I thought that kid hated me bc he looked so miserable when would give him his paper so I emailed him back sorry no I hoped that didn’t sound mean but I should’ve said something like sorry I don’t like you bc I had and still have the biggest crush on someone else
I love your videos ruby!! Your editing is so aesthetic and it me laugh!!!❤😂
tysm aww!! ❤️
not me getting an anonymous love letter in the mail and it driving me cray :)
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