CRUSHES & HEARTBREAK... aka being heartbroken over someone you never dated. (my experience + advice)
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- hey guys... today's video is going to be about my experience with crushes and heartbreak, and being heartbroken over someone i never dated. it also includes my advice on getting over a crush/heartbreak, moving on, and letting go. it took me a while to feel comfortable posting this, so pls be kind, and know that what you see on the internet is SO fake. someone can look like they're smiling on the outside, in a youtube video or whatever, but really, they were just crying over a guy or something else that was going on. treat everyone with kindness, always :)
comment your experience with crushes and heartbreak, or relationships/break-ups you've had, if you feel comfortable, and we can all give each other advice in the comments!
DISCLAIMER: i am straight, so i use he/him pronouns to refer to who i like, because i'm attracted to guys, but i am completely 100% accepting of anyone who does not share my sexuality!
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hey guys, i just wanted to say that while this was a hard video for me to post, it was SO worth it because you guys are the best!! thank you for being so kind and for all your support and all your comments, and i'm glad that some of you can feel less alone through this
Yeah I've been heartbroken over someone I've never had at it's SUCKS. so much so just know you are never alone 💗
Thank you so much for trusting us all with more of your life and im glad its getting better and its nice to have someone to relate to :) and you are never alone :)
you did a good job with this video i am so proud of you for posting this video and being brave i am sorry you are heart got broken i had fun doing the summer musical shrek and had fun at the cast party monday we got standing ovations after each performance of the summer musical shrek i am sad that its done but there are other shows i am doing the hoilday show rock navity and its the first hoilday musical for community theater in my town i am excited i hope you have a great rest of your summer.
Your welcome! We all hope you feel better! ly Ruby :D
Your welcome
Ruby, YOU. ARE. ENOUGH. You have literally accomplished so much more than any other 15 year old has. You have literally published an entire book and you have so many people supporting you on RUclips.
This needs more likes ❤
@@bree.pelcher aw thank you 😊
@@emiliay5636 ❤️ np!
How selfless of her to want to immediately help people not be hurt while she is still hurting. Putting others before herself ❤️❤️❤️. I'm sorry you are hurting ruby, love ya queen 👑💖
thank you so much, ily guys too
i dated a guy in December and we broke up with him in February but i’m still heartbroken about it and it became even worse when i found out he had a new gf. We are all in this together, feel better Ruby❤️❤️
ugh i can't even imagine rn, but yes we aren't alone and i hope you feel better too, ty
Good job ruby! We are all so proud of you with the decisions that you make! 😁
thank you so much!!
I totally get you! Crushed on guy best friend for YEARS (we basically grew up together), just to find out he betrayed me (not gonna say how but it hurt super bad because I trusted him). But honestly, even tho he hurt me, I’m glad because it kinda opened my eyes to how he is not anything I’d want in a partner. It made me realize our conversations are one sided because I always initiate the conversation, he’s still a child mentally, he doesn’t pick up on social cues, he doesn’t like my friends at all (he doesn’t have to like them, but he’ll say they’re annoying to my face). It’s kinda a weird feeling when u are always gazing into their eyes, feeling special when they smile at you… and then one day, that feeling just isn’t there. It kinda made me realize that I was truly over him. You’re so strong for posting this on the internet! I could never! Also, if u need any good songs to cry with (over anything really), try Tate McRae! Her songs are great, especially the older ones! My faves of her new album are Chaotic and Boy X and my fav older song of hers is Dear Ex Best Friend!
I've never had crush or a boyfriend but I've felt this way A LOT in "friendships", you're never alone ruby, thank you for being vulnerable and real, means the world❤️
yes and that's totally valid! thank you so much and of course
Omg no crush- luckyy
@@Siphosamixo actually ive had little crushes but it never was THAT serious because of my standards and because im not ready yet
I need to fix my comment to:
I've never had a boyfriend or been in a relationship, it's more accurate
@@הילהגרינברג oh I was literally like how cause I’ve had a lot
Ruby this couldn’t have come at a more perfect time. I love this boy. I LOVE him. I’ve never felt this way about anyone. I’m currently half way through year 10 (16), and I’ve just never felt like this about ANYONE. every time I think about him or see him I feel a rush of love so strong I nearly faint. I don’t know how to describe how much I adore him and his adorable smile. He just deserves the world. I haven’t confessed to him yet but I plan too. However I just KNOW he doesn’t like me back. like WHY would be like me it’s just…I feel like sobbing every time I realise it. The worst part is in the past he’s liked two of my close friends and I can’t BEAR IT. Like why them and not me. It’s just…I can’t…I just want to sob I love him so much. He’s so smart and earnest yet he’s endearingly dumb and annoying. He’s so easy to talk to and he makes me feel so safe. Even hearing his voice makes me smile. And his smile…oh his smile. It makes me melt. And his mannerisms are adorable. Early this week he went on a two day camp and I literally missed him so much I started thinking about what I’d give just to hear his voice and then I was like DAMN I’m down bad. it was TWO DAYS. I just don’t know if I can take the inevitable rejection. I just feel, like you said, like I’m not good enough. I’m just so heartbroken, I’ve never even so much as cried over a boy before him. Now I can’t stop crying.
you never know how someone feels until you talk about it with them, especially if you're someone who hides your feelings really well! he could feel the exact same way about you and not think that YOU do! i'm not trying to give you false hope or anything but nothing is ever true until it's confirmed. i totally relate to this, but here's just a little reminder that you ARE enough, you are ALWAYS enough, and you will be able to handle the rejection if that is what happens bc you're way stronger than you think and you will find someone else one day if it doesn't work out with this guy, but i totally understand and i hope you feel better soon
@@rubixcubix28 ruby thank you so much for this reply, you’ve been rlly helpful
bro we both kinda went through the same thing. "i feel like i gaslight and invalidate my feelings bc we never dated" most relatable thing ive ever heard
I wish this existed when I went through a bad crush heartbreak. My crush did a 180, and I realized he was obsessed with me and started treating my friend badly. After I started avoiding him, he followed me around the school campus and it took me to have to threaten him with telling a teacher and my parents to make him stop. Me and that friend he treated badly are still friends, and I was so lucky I had her to support me throughout it because even after he did those terrible things and my friend hated him, I still liked him. I'm over it now though. Also I hope you are okay Ruby, I know how badly it hurts :(
i wish this existed for myself too ahaha... that's amazing that your friend was still there for you but i'm so sorry you went through that and i'm glad you're over it! i'm definitely more okay than i have been haha thank you :)
i have a crush on this guy for like 3 months now and he always treats me like his sister and i always thought i was wasting my time cuz he never liked me but on our graduation from middle school he asked me out and i was just smiling and i didn't say anything and he assumed i said yes. now I'm thinking about it and im feeling guilty cuz i dont feel like i like him anymore but he's gonna be thinking about me all through the summer. so ruby everything you've said is totally relatable
i'm glad you could relate and ugh it's just all so confusing lol
This so relatable cause no one makes a video about one-sided love and you're not being dramatic i hope you feel better and you're such a good person..she is so comfortingly sweet..not hating anyone
thank you so much, this rly made my day 💗💗💗
So this person really spins my emotions around everywhere because one day they’ll ghost me and another day they’ll flirt but we aren’t in a relationship we are just friends
❤️ ♥️ “You will be okay…” ❤️ ♥️
I went through something quite similar, so know I can relate to you.
Just know we’re always here for you!
Lift up your head queen, your crown’s falling 👑 ❤️
thanks for watching and i’m glad you can relate, i’m always here for you guys too and tysm 💗💗💗
Awe Ruby, makes me sad you had to go through all that. :( You went through one of the worst kind of heartbreak. I'm so glad you are working through it, it certainly isn't easy. You will fall in love many times, and have heartbreaks again, but it's all part of growing up and experiencing life. I've been through this same situation a few times, you are definitely not alone. A few things I want you to remember, YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!! You are an amazing, smart, talented, beautiful girl, don't ever think less of yourself. There are so many people that will come into your life, you will never have to change yourself or be someone else for the right guy. The right guy will love you for you. Listen to your mom, she is 1000% correct! Stay strong Ruby! You will be ok, we all love you and are here for you!
thank you so much, yup it's not easy but i'm doing it... so glad i'm not alone, and thank you for the reminders, all the same to you! i love you all sm too and i'm here for all of you
Hey Ruby! Wow i never thought i would say this but this video is sooooo relatable. I started liking this boy in November of 2022 and like you said the heartbreak started this summer. He was a year younger than me. I was in fifth grade and he was in fourth. I know you might be thinking im to young to be heartbroken but ive liked this boy for 8 months and ive cried so many times over him. Im horrible at letting go. Its tough. And the fact that my age just makes me feel stupid for feeling all this.The fact that he would never give me a chance. I knew it would never work out. I also dedicate these Taylor Swift songs to him: Teardrops on my guitar, enchanted, gorgeous and red. This was the first boy I’d ever felt this way about. It’s currently july and im still not over him. I dont have anyone to talk to. I feel too stupid to tell anyone bc my age. I have to bottle it all up. Do you have any tips? Also love ur vids! They help me so much!♥️♥️
hey! i'm really glad that this is relatable, and your feelings are completely valid no matter what age you are. you can talk to me any time! my tips are to find things to do this summer that help distract you from always thinking about him, focus on yourself and hobbies that you love and being around your friends and family, but accept that you're going through a hard time right now and you're going to feel this way for a little while. also, journal about your feelings to get them out if you can't talk to anyone!
girl, i get u so much😭 i was dealing with the same thing except he bullied me for liking him 🥲 also just bc ur not special to him doesn't mean you aren't special 💗 and who knows you might have been special to him but it's still sucks sm😭✋🏻
oh no that is awful, i am so sorry :( thank you so much! yeah it rly sucks 😭
Yes.... I have a story for you.
In 2018, when I was almost thirteen, I had my first crush. He was too old for me, and I knew it. However, I allowed myself to get feelings for him. I obsessed over this guy to the point that anytime my siblings made fun of him, I would run to my room and cry. (My siblings meant no harm BTW. They were just teasing me.) Anyway, I wrote about him in my journal and talked about him all the time with my sister and fantasized about what would never be. Then one day, I found out he had a girlfriend. I immediately called my sister crying and really upset. I then went home and told myself that I was over him. I wasn't. I didn't actually get over him until 2020-2021. It was the longest crush, I think, in history. I haven't even seen this guy in over a year. But I am happy to say that life is much more enjoyable now. I am glad I went through that, because now I know what mistakes I made.
girl we are so similar!! i have the worst crush on this guy and he asked me out and later told me it was "just a dare". its been 3 months since that happened. i see him in school everyday and we have the looooooooooooooooooooongest eye contacts. YOU'RE NOT ALONE
wow that is so awful!! i hope you can let go 💗💗
Your title is my current life but the guy still likes me back
This happened to me in June or July '21. I've never been in a relationship. The next year, I thought I was over him but apparently, I wasn't. He and his friends laughed at me bc they knew I liked him and it broke my heart and made me not like him anymore. I am currently going through a difficult time with an injury that took me out of gymnastics forever, it is extremely rare (it's called nonvascular necrosis, which means dead bone). I was sharing it at the camp I was at and he and his friends were laughing and my sister told me and now I just "hate" him in a way
That guy isn't worth it and he's a piece of trash who needs to stand in the middle of the street🙄....You will be okay, miracles are coming your way
I thought I was the only one who felt like this and I felt so alone and was thinking my feelings were invalid but this video has helped so much I love your videos and feel like I can relate to you so much thank you so much for making videos like this love you and your content
I’ve been through heartbreak and have to hide it at school and it rlly sucked and I’m still traumatized and sad from it even though we are friends again :)
ruby i want you to know you’re never alone and you make so many people feel not alone.
that is so sweet, thank you ❤️❤️❤️
i kind of know how you feel :/ I had a huge crush (borderline obsession) on someone, and we became really close. I felt so special. Eventually they started to leave me out and ghost me until they never really talked to me again. I understand how hard it is thinking of how things used to be and it really, really sucks. I suppose all we need to keep in mind is that if this didn’t happen we would never learn to deal with it and would be hurt more in the future. thanks for reading and have a good rest of your day, love your videos
yup i totally relate to this! i love your way of thinking about it though, thank you so much, you have a great day too! thanks again and thx for watching
I'm actually going through a heart break and this video really helped because I've cried a lot and now, I feel like I wasted so much time on him and right now I'm going through the moving on faze and this really helped so thank you
i’m so sorry you’re going through it but so proud of you for moving on, ely glad this helped ❤️❤️❤️
i can’t relate to this completely and i’m so sorry that it happened to you it seems so hard but i had a boyfriend and i liked him for a whole semester before we dated and i was so in love i had never ever felt that way for anyone and he said he felt the same but then he broke up with me because he said he wasn’t happy and he’s already over me. we only dated for a month but it was the best month so far in my life i was so in love with this boy and when we broke up i couldn’t even think propoerly it took me a week to finally start smiling again even though it might have been fake and i still have feeling for him. when i told him i still had feeling for him he said “that sucks” which honestly made me realize that it’s not worth it. i’m doing sooo much better now and i look back at the memories and be grateful for them because it really was a great time
i went through the exact same thing last october and related to literally everything you said, thank you for sharing your experience
wow i'm so glad we aren't alone! of course!! :)
im so glad you feel like you were able to share this with us!! i like girls, and for me, getting over them hurts. i can do it quickly, but it causes a lot of pain. the pain doesnt last for long though, it just kinda comes in waves. to this day, i still miss some girls ive liked. but, i think just realizing that i didnt need them to have myself made me feel better. i realize that one day all im going to have is myself, and have actually already had it that way before. its scary, but the feeling goes away, and its gets better. i hope anyone hurting out there can find the strength to keep pushing. you got this!! love you all so much ❤❤
omg the gilmore girls wall behind you!!! i love it!!!!
Aw I’m so sorry ruby 💔 😭 love u 💔💕
Just sometimes you need to do what Lorelai tells Rory, wallow 👏💗
thank you ly too
Hi Ruby,I have been through a similar situation recently and I know it sucks and it will feel horrible for quite some time but know that you’re not alone and we love you for being brave enough to share this to help and make other people feel seen.Lots of love
SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU.
thank you so much, i hope you are doing okay now! lots of love to you too
I’m so happy you decided to post this, you are so brave for that. Just like you said it’s really nice to be able to relate to someone.The day I was going to tell the crush I had for an ENTIRE YEAR, he confessed his feeling to my ex-best friend (no he wasn’t the reason we aren’t friends anymore). She had to tell him she was sorry bc she didn’t like him like that. Even weeks after that happened I was still comparing myself to her. Asking myself how he could like her when my feelings towards him were SO obvious and her’s weren’t since she didn’t have any. I’ve gotten over it (this was when I was 13) but it was really hard to get to this point.
P.S. I made a playlist too lol, except Olivia hadn’t come out with her songs yet:( 😆
thank you so much
I sorry Ruby, I can relate… I am happy I’m not the only one. I hope your doing better, sending love🥰💖
so glad we aren't the only ones
I know exactly how you feel.
I’ve had a similar thing to this (that I don’t feel happy to share with the world 🤪) and I’m not GLAD that you went through this but i feel relieved that I’m not alone yk?
you will be okay!!!
thx for watching and ly too :)
Just remeber we are always here for you I know this was a hard video for you to film and we all love your bravery and appreciate you!!! We will help you through your hard times as best as we can!!!
Ok, first of all you are literally the best like I watch your videos daily and it breaks my heart to see you be upset over this. overtime, you will start to forget and feel better but just don't let it distract you. second of all I have an ENTIRE STORY kinda like yours but lasted 3-4 years- 😭 I'm starting school tomorrow and I'm NOT ready to see him again. I'm not sure about how my feelings are for him anymore but if I typed the whole story here I would probably break the internet so yea lol
p.s i really hope you respond tbh 😭🥺
thank you so much, i'm doing a LOT better... omg i get it and i'm so sorry, don't feel pressured to share anything but just know you're not alone and you will be okay
@@rubixcubix28 tysm i feel MUCH better now but i still feel like sharing a bit because i haven't really told anyone about this so i'm gonna shorten it and hopefully you can give me some tips on what to do now
so basically i was friends with the guy up until 5th grade and i started having feelings for him in 4th 😊. all my friends knew and were always telling me he had a crush on me but i never believed it. 😭in 5th grade, covid hit and we went virtual for a while but then they allowed us to go in person (i forgot that we covid hit in 4th grade😭) THEN i signed up for in person classes and so did he so....yeah
and then my friends also signed up so that was fun. once we got assigned seats in 4th semester, literally sat right across from me 😱(you can imagine how my reaction was) anyways, we talked a lot and i started to think he had a crush on me ( also i feel uncomfortable saying his name so sorry about that) then he told me he has a crush on one of my friends (this is wayyyy too long) i was shocked and kinda stayed distant after that caus you know- and then my friend knew he had a crush on her so that was stunning (by this time i had convinced all my friends i didnt have a crush on him anymore and only like 2 of them believed ☹)
fast forward a year:
got his number, asked questions about the past like if he had a crush on me in 4th grade (that was a yes, 4th grade me would be so happy rn), my 'friend' and him dated for like 1-2 months, still dont know how i feel to this day, kinda forced myself to not like him anymore
*Thee End.*
You will be ok ruby, please dont let anyone make you feel this way again. I love you
thank you so much ly too 💗💗
wow! I relate to this so much! Thank you!!!🤍
of course! 💗
congrats on 40K!
thank you!!
@@rubixcubix28 np!
you are so sweet. you are such an amazing person. honestly, i have always wished i had you as an older sister because of your advice, honesty, and overall personality. thank you for the great advice and feeling so comfortable with yourself. i know that we all have our things and you won't tell us every current event but, you are so transparent sometimes. it can be hard sometimes. thank you!
I fell in love with the idea of liking him..but I thought wrong ,it's been a year no one but my friend knows
. And it's hard to keep it in when I feel so alone
hey ruby! just so yk, you can always open up to us. We will always be here and put you’re self first💜 we are here for you:)
thank you so much that is so so sweet, i'm here for you guys too
@@rubixcubix28 have a great day💜
omg I can’t imagine how much traitor related 😭😭
yup 😭
And you said you could feel your heart breaking that was so relatable. I recently had a crush on this guy for almost a year and then I texted him and asked him if he liked me because I was at the point where I was getting really like obsessed with him. He left me on read for a whole day and then the next day he just said no. I opened up the text and I feel like all the happiness and excitement from asking him just got ripped out of me. I honestly thought he liked me bc of how much we talked and joked around with each other so I was crushed when he said no. Now my only problem is that who I thought was my best friend had told him without me knowing and knew that he said no but let me ask him for myself. She also told him I was going insane that he didn’t answer me. And now I don’t know if I should stay friends with her bc I don’t rlly want to end it over a guy but at the same time I’m rlly upset with her.
This really helped me think differently about things in my life I had a similar situation and he had a gf and all this things happened on my bus they would play truth or dare and Omgg this spread about my whole grade everyone knew found out about me liking him and I couldn’t just walk in the hall without someone yelling his name in a disgusting way, him and his and his gf broke up his gf got so mad at me and we were friends and then she texted me and apologized and It really helped me and what made me the most happy was the day she apologized to me was my birthday and she told me happy birthday too but it was really hard, love you❤️
I feel so so proud of you for sharing all this stuff with us. I know it is so hard for someone to do so but you stood strong and brave and you just shared everything that hurt you, everything that this guy has done to you. Keep doing what you are doing! You are so strong and not a lot of people would have had the guts to do that. Thank you so much for all the advice and for opening up and am so sorry for everything you've been through because of him.. stay strong, Ruby!❤️🥰
thank you so much, this really means a lot and i'm happy to do it if it helps you guys out, thank you again
@@rubixcubix28 i feel like that your channel and your content helps tons of people on literally everything. In my opinion, more people should get to know you and get to know your videos and what an incredible and helpful person you are❤️
Hey Ruby i havent had a heartbreak, but im sorry abt you were upset . I had a crush on a boy on my class once haha. Thankyou Ruby
thank you, i'm always here for you guys too
@@rubixcubix28 welcome :) aw ty
It is hard to get over someone and I cry sometimes and u helped me actually know what to do to try and get over it tnx lysm ❤
i'm so glad i could help, ly too
I feel the exact same I’m in love with a boy. And I’ve literally never pictured myself with a boyfreind but that’s all I wanted with him. He was perfect in my head at least the version I made of him in my head I realized he wasn’t the guy I thought he was cause he never really was that guy. I’ve liked him since Halloween and I still am in love with him. And I thought he liked me back his mom told me he liked me and it was perfect for a while we would flirt and sit really close to each other and almost hold hands a couple of times always be texting and taking but it all Changed in June when i found out he could not date till he was 16 I felt used and led on because the way we were acting was definitely leading up to a relationship in my opinion in the start of June he started ignoring me when people were around but still talked to me when we were alone. Then the last month of July he was completely ignoring me and I cried so much and was so upset and my feelings felt so invalid because we never dated but it feels like he just broke up with me and I never did anything wrong ?! 😔 and I felt stupid and ugly and my confidence has completely deminished and I don’t know what to do anymore he started taking to me again but I want to ignore him for what he did to me and how he hurt me but I can’t cause I keep thinking he could have been struggling but what everyone around me keeps saying is that he got scared because he’s never felt like that before and didn’t want it yet he didn’t want me. 😔😞 I still care about him so much and ide be happy with us just being freinds at this point i. just want him in my life I feel like I can’t live without him. And my heart hurts so bad cause I keep thinking. About how we used to be and how it is. now and I just want things to go back !! 😢😢🥺🥺. I don’t know what to do my mom thinks he’s just embarrassed because a couple kids at church picked on him and us and kept calling me his girlfriend but not that’s all it took for him to leave me ? Than is he really the right guy ☹️. I hope you read this ruby I needed to vent and thank you for Filming this cause I feel the exact same 💔💔
I admire your openness. And your courage. This really makes me feel heard. Sorry I am so bad with words Just this is great. And relatable. Keep going, I believe in you!🌟
thank you so much, you're not bad with words at all! i'm glad you could relate and i believe in you too
I’m on the road to being over someone I wasn’t in a relationship with !! This is day 1 of me trying to overcome it!
Edit:Day 2!! Feeling a little better, I’ve blocked her on everything, and I have been thinking about her less and less !! Good start!
so proud of you 💗💗
@@rubixcubix28 thanks
Sending you so so much love and hugs I recently have felt something similar to this and I’m so sorry for everything that you have been through 💕💕💕💕🩷🩷🩷🩷
And are going through💕💕🩷🩷🩷
Hi this is so incredibly amazing u are so brave to film this and I am so sorry this happened to u ur literally the most amazing person I know ur so mature and I can tell it took a lot of guts to film this and I admire you so much for being honest because no one likes being lied to even in a RUclips video and ur so honest and raw you out of all people really don’t deserve this ily soo much ur amazing u don’t even know how much I admire uuuu🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😘
thank you so much, this really made my life ahaha you are so sweet... ily guys sm too and thank you again
This is a REALLY HARD video for me to watch....I literally JUST HAD THE EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE!! I rlly needa talk to someone.
I fell for this guy a few years ago and I never told anyone, but a few months ago, one of my friends said she liked him and all of my other friends started shipping them together. None of them know that I love him and how much it hurts when I see them together 💔
that is so awful, i really hope that you start feeling better when it comes to that :(
@@rubixcubix28 I hope you feel better too :/
I'm so sorry this happened to you ruby ): I've recently had something like this happen with someone I really liked and I felt so sad, your video brought me joy that I could relate and I'm proud of you for sharing ❤️ I hope your doing well now.
thank you
@@rubixcubix28 omg I love youuu I'm doing better but I hope you have a nice day❤️❤️❤️
I'm happy you feel better now!!
Ruby I hope you take this experience with you! This made you a stronger person!
i definitely will and yes
Hey Ruby! thanks for making these relatable videos . they really help me feel better and they make my day. I recently moved to a new city and I am going to start at a new school. I was always getting stressed out over the thought of going to a new school and watching your videos were like therapy for me. Keep doing what you are doing and take care. Thanks! : )
i'm so glad they help aww ty! good luck at your new school, you're going to do great and new experiences are awesome, take care too and tysm again
Ruby I will share a personal story of mine. So there was this girl in my school and it appeared quite obvious she had a crush on me. I didn’t know what to do because she had a violent past and had multiple detentions. I knew for my own safety pursing this wouldn’t be a good idea. So I had to turn her down countless times and even had to be brave enough to talk with the dean of students after she threatened to steal my phone number from someone. I feel what you went through 100%!
i am so sorry that you had to go through that but you made the right decision!
I have never been friendzoned because I’m going into 7th grade and had never had the reason to date but thanks for being so brave and putting this on the internet
Love you Ruby💗
Ruby thank you for sharing this was a big decision to make this video I am really glad you did .love u ❤
of course, thank you and ly too
I feel bad :(. But I can really relate I felt so heartbroken over this guy and we weren’t together lol. ly, hope your better :)
i'm glad you could relate aww ly too and i'm definitely doing way better :)
@@rubixcubix28 good :)
@@rubixcubix28 I’ll see you in the next video
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️ I have gone through this thing...... I liked this boy for 1 hole school year and a lot happend and this video is so relatable! Thank you so much for this it really helped ❤️❤️❤️
of course, i'm glad you could relate! so glad this helped too
i am sorry that your heart got broken heartbreaks are not fun i had my final shrek musical performances this past weekend and they went amazing and we got standing ovations . we had a cast party monday and i got to jump on a trampoline with my cast mates sang songs from the musical shrek and had pizza. i am feeling heartbroken and sad this week because shrek is done every time something special ends i feel sad but i am going to do the hoilday musical rock navity and i am auditioning for the lead mary and ensemble parts i am excited i hope you feel better and you did a good job with being brave and honest i am so proud of you good luck with starting 10th grade in school
thank you
@@rubixcubix28 thank you
Hi Ruby, CONGRATULATIONS on 40K I wish I could get there on my youtube channel. Just have 1 question for you are you going to do a 40K special if you do then can you leave a link where i can leave a comment or can I just put it in the comments LY vids!
I have been through a lot of such stuff and sometimes you feel like there is nothing to make u feel better 😀
THIS OMG
I hope ur doing ok now that rlly sucks & you don't deserve that. You are literally so amazing and sweet. Ur feelings are SO valid, don't ever put urself down bc u think they aren't! U are not alone!!! Ik one day ur going to find someone amazing, bc ur SO, SO sweet and just fantastic
thank you so much, i'm definitely doing wayyy better now! you are so sweet, thank you
@@rubixcubix28 aww thank you!
Omg, I feel u so much, thank you for making this video I can relate to u so much!❤
glad you can relate
so last night it was his bar mitzvah and pretty much everyone from my school who is well known got invited. at the time when he was sending out the guest list, we didnt know each other. sure we are friends right now and all and he makes fun of me (jokes) sometimes and im currently in 7th grade right now, we snap eachother but sometimes he leaves me on delivered hahah and i thought he might even give me a chance. so last night everyone was posting on their stories abt him and how they ship him and another girl super hard and posted the slow dance video because he slow danced with other girls (wasnt his choice) and he had a blindfold on. a lot of my friends went and had a bunch of fun. i was sitting there at home too shocked to cry looking at everyones stories. so yeah moral of the story even if its not your crushes fault, if he likes someone else then try to get over them. im saying this from someone who is currently still crushing as this happened last night but thank you so much for reading this
I've had a crush on a guy in a one-sided way I was in LOVE Long story short I told him I like liked him and he ran away and started ovoding me and then we actadenly kissed in 4th grade and now it's summer and I'm missing him 😭😩 hope you read this ruby
You will be okay!!
thanks for watching
@@rubixcubix28 hey no problem!
This video came at the perfect time for me, 6 moths ago I went thro a break up, a moth later a started to like thus guy, but then a told him an got friend zoned. Literally happened 3 days ago...
i'm so sorry :( stay strong!!
I'm literally going threw pretty much the exact same thing its horrible.
ugh i hope it gets better soon❤️❤️❤️
I feel u I'm so sorry this happened to me too I cried for like 3 months
so sorry that happened to you too💗
Glad you made this video
i'm glad too, you guys are the best
@@rubixcubix28 no you’re the best
I get your situation. Of course I didn’t go through anything close. I started liking this boy in the beginning of 6th grade (august 2020). We started dating in January of 2021 but 3 months later in March we unfortunately broke up cause he misunderstood what I meant. Anyways, since then I’ve liked him. It’s going to be 2 years this month. 😅 After we had broken up though he started liking this one girl almost immediately after. I know it’s not even close to what you’re going through but I wish you good luck on your situation. Also, do you have any videos on advice for 8th grade or even middle school? Sorry this is so long. I love you ruby ❤️
I’m so so so so so so so sorry you had to go through this .No boy deserves your tiers .🫶🏽💘🫰🏼😘👍🏼🙏🏻🫵🏻
thank you so much
This was helpful thank you. But can you talk about gay marriage and the community? I love you videos and I feel like its important to talk about this stuff.
i'm glad this helped! i definitely would love to address topics like that on my channel, but i am not very familiar with them so i don't know how i would start in that! but i think it's so important to bring awareness to the unfairness and inequality when it comes to that!
Aww i'm so sorry
thank you
I am really proud of you for posting this video!
I support u hope u r feeling better Ruby!
Just remember u r so amazing and u r so inspiring for me :DDD
Go girl you doing so good 🎉
Hey ruby! I hope your okay
hi! thank you
@@rubixcubix28 of course
Hey ruby, can you do a grwm for school this year!?
Lol I asked her for the same thing! 🥳
@@justcheetah Lol
yes i will be doing one! :)
i will be doing one :)
@@rubixcubix28 yayyyyyy
I’m so sorry recently my best friend started having the same crush as me and they started dating it really sucks :(
wow omg :((
In 6th grade i was obbsessed with this boy for like the whole school year and one day i saw he had a girlfriend and i the nurse i was sick just so i could go home and crie. 😭 i realated to you. And i thought he liked me before he had the girlfriend.
omg :(( i relate ugh
Ruby thank you so much for helping us while you are suffering too💗
5:20 11 December my birthday lol
Anyways i love you so much ruby
of course, i'm feeling a lot better now
Omds my other comment is nowhere to be found so I’m writing another.
I moved to Zimbabwe for a year and a couple of months and really liked two guys got over one quite easily but the first one was the hardest I cried and cried bc he lied to me. He said he liked me back and was giving me signs- bruh then in class on the last day of skl he said was a mistake I cried in class and felt so bad. It took quite a bit to get over him but I realised it was so stupid-. My last crush is really cute he was so nice when I joined the skl we got each other’s numbers and spoke but I could see he wasn’t interested. My so called friend said he knew I liked him but she told him. I got mad at him and we didn’t speak I guess it’s bc he’s rlly cute and I didn’t get so upset tbh. He didn’t care about me so yh. My kinda current one is so funny but I might move schools so idk what’ll happen what’s supposed to happen will happen. I’m 12 and have had like 9 crushes my first one was in year 2 is was very childish obviously but yh.
Well hey ruby,well I've had a heart break before but if the story is too long for u too read then no problem.
It all started when I like this cute boy in my class we are 29 in grade10A and 30in grade10B and I'm 14 now,so I started liking him since and later the boy started to show feelings like his interested and I remember this was when we were writing exams and he later told his friend to tell me that he likes me because his shy to tell me personally so I accepted then when exam finished we were talking, laughing playing then we took EACH OTHER phone number as we were all going for Easter holiday/break .we chatted during those time, talking, knowing each other and on April was his birthday I remember clearlywhich was on 18 I wished him happy birthday 🎉,we chatted so on and so on and he asked me to be his girlfriend and I literally said yes😥😟😔 and every school in our country was experiencing Easter break/holiday for the whole month and when school was about to resume,I told my mom there's this boy that likes me what should I do she said I should focus on my studies atleast when I reach college I can focus on it,and I told the boy sorry I have to focus on my studies and I blocked him on all social media because my mom takes my phone from me during school time until holiday 🤧🤧,and when school resumed he never talked to me until after 4 weeks I told him sorry for blocking him and I explained everything to him and we came back together we only talked on Facebook, WhatsApp but never in class because we were both shy.
Then one day I pranked Him and said ur not my type and I told him it's a joke don't take it seriouand he took it in heart and I didn't know then whenever i try to play with Him he cuts the conversation off.then final exams reached and my birthday came which was onJuly 20 and he never wished me happy birthday I was sad and there's one time his Best friend told me the whole truth that my boyfriend is pretending to like me that he never liked me that my boyfriend wasn't getting over his ex and I got angry and everything got confirmed when my boyfriend told me to getout that he doesn't love me and when I heard that I was heart broken 🤧🤧😔❤️💔💔,it took weeks then his friend named prince who comforted mehe didn't know what I was going through but he made me happy,he stood by my side,and to be serious he's very funny and awesome and along the line I fell for him but he he too liked me,he would say u made today special for me and before graduation my ex😠😠 told me to give him second chance and I refused and there was so many argument between us but later he told me let's just be friends and I just said yes and he told me that prince which is the boy I liked told him which is my ex that he loves me and he went to seek for advice and guess what my ex said that he better leaves me that I'm going to reject him but prince didn't listen to him so my ex told me his sorry and I just ignored him.
And on the graduation day prince told me he likes me and I told him I liked him too but I had a bad news for me and him because on September which is resumption to new class I won't attend that school again and I would be going to boarding school and the school doesn't allow phones well I gave him my bangle me and him both have it now because it wrote love on it and I don't take it off. Well I need an advise because I feel sad now because after finding a true person I'm leaving well it's my fault because after heart break I told my mom to take me to a new school and she decided to take me too boarding well that a twist of fate for me so ruby pls advice me🤧🤧🤧🤧😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Ahh your 1989 pillowcase is so cute 😍
I wish I had the money to buy T.S. merch 😭
#brokeswiftie
thank you! ahahaha i spend too much money on taylor swift stuff
so I like this guy he likes me back and i don't know what to do!
Thank you ruby
ofc ❤️❤️
My bestfriend's the one who gave me heartbreak
Well i hava a crush on this one guy and my bestfriend know that i am so overwhelming about it
But still
She texts him talks with him and even teases me when he mentioned her not me
I really feel betrayed by my crush and also by my bestfriend
She's such a snake 😭😭
I had a crush last year during the summer and we would talk and stuff but then one day he blocked me and he started talking to my best friend and that broke my heart 💔😞
omg that is awful :( i hope you are doing okay!
@@rubixcubix28 I'm better now
Me just looking at the Taylor swift 1989 pillow half the time-
🤭
HAHAHA SWIFTIE?
@@rubixcubix28 Obviously! 😉
Okay I can definitely relate to this.
I always had trouble connecting with people because of some ✨super fun stuff that happened to me✨ and it was 7th grade. A lot of people had boyfriends and girlfriends but I didn’t really like anyone at the time. My childhood guy best friend said he liked me. I tried dating him and I was kind of happy. I said I didn’t want to be with him anymore and I instantly regretted it. And then he started dating the GIRL that I LIKED. I had to watch them hang out consistently and I felt really broken.
( now I’m dating her 🤭🤠 becuz she turned out to be les )
Omg that's so cute! I hope you're both happy :)
Is it me or all my crushes are 🇰🇷 jungkook, euwoo , taehyung,suga , jhope and Felix and it really hurts to know that they will never know me and yeah 😔
My uncle is 32 and he's barely had a gf. I feel bad cause he's a nice guy but he says girls are always playing games and not wanting to date him. I tell him not to give up and he thinks he's pathetic. I feel bad
I had this crush on this one guy for 2 years but he rejected me so I decided to become his friend but I stil had feelings for him while being friends with him. But slowly we started to become best friends and when I started to go to 7th grade I lost feelings for him but we are sill best friends to this day and we text a lot but now he has a girlfriend 😅😕😫
I have a celebrity crush All this guy Dacre Montgomry I was not happy I can relate to you videos he was engaged with his fiancé and didn’t tell me I upset I am watching a song Dacre wake up with his fiancée