If your pet is coming to the end of their life for any reason but euthanasia is not yet needed then appropriate palliative care is something to seriously think about and a topic I discuss in detail here: ruclips.net/video/DeGnBMeYRy8/видео.html
I’ve done this twice, it sucks at the moment but it’s a relief at the end of it. Your loved pet is not suffering anymore. Remember you gave your loved pet a happy home for many years.
Thank you very much for this, as it's helped me a lot. I had my 14 year old dog euthanized last weekend and it was the hardest thing ever, but your video has put my mind at rest. She was suffering, couldn't walk without collapsing and could barely get up without help. She had lost all her vitality and love of life. I was with her, which I am glad about, as she had no anxiety or fear. It was a beautiful, peaceful death actually, but so hard.
Same experience. My roommate's dog was euthanized last night. He was suffering for a really long time, almost no vitality, flinch in pain at almost any touch, no ability to control his bowels, back legs didn't work, covered in tumors, collapsing most to the time when he tried getting up, falling down stairs, regularly collapsing into and not being able to get out of puddles of water and urine, and every symptom of CCD, plus the owner getting ready to leave him behind at the house for 3-4 weeks. My roommate said once the drugs started to kick in, it was the first time he looked really happy and peaceful in months. It's difficult but also a relief not to see him suffer so much every day.
If you are happy to watch your pet suffer with no chance of improvement despite trying to make them as comfortable as possible then I feel sorry for your pet and personally believe that is the cruel thing to do. And throwing the accusation of murder as replies to comments like this is also cruel. Shame on you
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you Dr.,, my Wife and I have been struggling with this most difficult decision for a week or so. Our little pet is suffering, we feel so badly for her and do not want to lay her to rest but listening to your video and reading other pet lovers comments are helping us as we struggle with this. We have an appointment with her vet tomorrow morning. I feel we must allow her a graceful departure from our lives. We're in our 70's, she's a rescue and has been our friend for the last 10 of her 14 years. We will miss her most likely the rest of our lives but for her, I believe we must. Thank you for your response to the person who does not agree with euthanasia.
I absolutely hate the fact that I had to watch this video, I am heartbroken. I am on my way now to the Vet to say goodbye 😭 But your video really helped me to know its for the best. THANK YOU 😭
I made the decision 2 weeks ago. My dog had most of the symptons described in several videos. I hated saying goodbye. He was an old foster mix. I took him in in 2010. At that time he was about 5 or 6. I had him for almost 10 years. He was never adopted so I formally adopted him in 2016. I miss him now.
Yesterday was my last day with my dog and it was so heart wrenching cause of how quick they it was. If felt like I didn't get to say bye in time and see him scared killed me so much. But I really do hope I get to see you again Tanner. I love you so much Tanner 5/3/22
@Three Aces my dog was still eating too but knowing he was in pain was the reason we made the decision. I'm sure it was right decision. I'm sorry for your Missy
Thank you for this video. I really loved your three things to remember. You have helped me and I know I’m doing the right thing….. However, I still can’t stop crying.
Doing the right thing doesn't always make it easier I'm afraid, but it will allow to look back and remember all the good memories knowing you made the best decision possible. I'm sorry for your loss
@@scoobydadog246 as if I need to explain to someone my circumstances but here we are listen lady, my pup was not having the quality of life she deserved, she fell down a flight of stairs and almost injured herself bad, not to mention prior instances. So before you go attacking someone for their decision think about the struggle. Shame on you for even bringing this up as if it didn't hurt bad enough. This world has become so hateful 😔 I mean read these stories its heartbreaking 💔
@@NAMASTEONELOVE I'm no lady, I'm a dude.. and when people get old, what you call "quality of life changes".. You are in public group chat. The point is there are other options Life changes as humans and dogs age. Now it is not the same for you when you are 80, as when you are 20 . I haven't euthanized any relatives who have a history of falling, stairs or not. Why now get a baby gate to block off the stairs. We can make adjustments for our senior dogs. You don't have to be hateful if you don't want to be! The vet industry for a long time only knew about killing older and chronically ill dogs. I'm sorry if you feel guilty, but don't blame me for simply pointing out to others who are reading that there are other options. And who are you do determine what is an acceptable quality of life. I haven't been able to do a full flight of stairs for years now. I've got a great life!
@@scoobydadog246 first of all dude..how are you even going to act like you knew what I did to prevent this from happening unbelievable, she had a gate and knocked it down, but why im explaining this to you i have no idea, so tired of nebby people like you get a life and let others do what they want stay out of mine. Don't try and deflect shit on to me quit responding to my comments.
Who do you think you are telling someone about their own pet have some respect! not only was this post a year old but she also still grieves her beloved dog.
I’m so sorry if you’re at this point with you pet. It’s tough to grieve,but be easy on yourself and carry their light through the world as they watch over you ❤️
I took our 14 year little staffy Ellie yesterday and it was one of the most heart breaking things to have to do. She had almost lost all hearing, eyes were becoming milky, constantly shaking, hadn’t eaten for two days and night before she had a terrible fit and vomited, it was time. Her quality of life wasn’t there anymore and she wasn’t enjoying anything day to day. She had a brilliant life with long walks, played with other dogs and loved absolutely everyone. I’m in pain today but what gives me comfort is knowing I was able to stop the suffering and be there with her as she went
I had my dog of 14.5 years down 4 days ago. I have an enormous amount of guilt that I did it to early, I clicked on this video for reassurance that I did was the right decision. I got Jerry as a puppy 3months old and right after I did I broke both of my legs and became homeless with him, we have been through a lot together and I miss him so much. I know I made the right decision.
What kind of society let’s you become Homeless after you break your legs? There is something seriously wrong with human beings nowadays, I feel that I belong on another planet. Some years ago I took a homeless girl in with her cats and she stayed eighteen months, got educated and found a good home. She just needed a new start. It wasn’t too difficult and so worthwhile. I hope your are in a lovely home now. If not go to Lewis Howes utube and watch his,interview with Rhonda Byrne, author of The Secret and The Greatest Secret. She has some good ideas that worked for her and many of her readers! Namaste 🙏
Had to do this yesterday to Dexter, my 12yr old Pointer. Mentally he was fine, but his back legs were just collapsing underneath him. He could get about, but only just. His front end was fine, but it was like his back end was a staggering drunk. It was obvious he had to go, but the fact that he was mentally sound made the decision just that little bit harder. I rang the vets on the Tuesday and booked him in for the Thursday. I cried after I'd booked him in, but knew it was the kindest thing I could do for him. Wednesday night was awful, as I knew what was coming the next morning. I spent the night on the sofa with him that night and cooked him a big steak for his last tea. The morning came and I felt physically sick. Took him to the vets and fortunately the vet let me come in with him (corvid restrictions were being slackened, but still in place). The catheter was already in his front leg when I was allowed in, and the vet had put an extension onto the tube so that he could distance himself from me. I sat Dexter down in front of me and sat on the floor with him, cuddling him the whole time. The vet let me know that he'd started with the process, and within seconds I could feel Dexters' head starting to go heavy on my arm so I laid him down in front of me, stroking him and talking to him the whole time. I put my hand on his chest and could feel that his heartbeat had stopped (obviously the vet did his own checks). The vet then said I could spend as long as I wanted to say my goodbyes, so I gave him a final stroke and a kiss on the head and stroked his eyes shut. Yes, it was a horrible experience, but it was also a relief both for Dexter and for me. He doesn't have to drag himself round any more, and I don't have to feel sorry for what was once such a proud and athletic dog having to struggle to stand up. The process was over in a matter of seconds, and very peaceful. It's the day after now, and whilst I'm still sad while I write this, I know that Dexter will have thanked me for helping him on his way. A small part of me went away with Dexter yesterday, but an even bigger part of him will be staying with me. Thanks for the good times Dexter. Gonna miss you.
@@Rae-lh7ex Thanks. It's an awful thing to go through, but I just wanted to reassure other people out there having to make this awful decision is more than likely the best for both parties and how quick and painless (physically) the procedure is.
My puppy was put down today... It's was hard, but this video helped me with the terrible experience. It was an act of kindness and compassion... Thanks for the guidance.
Thank you for this video. I really needed to hear all of this. My dog is 13 and a half, she has reached her end stages of life. I’m crushed, but I know now it is my last act of kindness to give to her.
I totally agree with this video, just remember in nature animals have their lives cut short quickly and violently, you, the pet owner making such a hard decision is already a much better thing to do even though it doesn’t feel like it.
Well, your pet is not out in nature, and modern medicine has lots of end of life medications available to manage symptoms. Humans have been using them forever, they are cheap and easy. I think you humans are doing this because it's easier for YOU and talking yourself into thinking it's such a good thing.
Thank you for helping me with making such a difficult decision. My dog (Siberian husky) is 12yo, and he has a late stage of nasal cancer. I scheduled in-home euthanasia to end his suffering. I still have no idea how I'll be able to cope with this loss but I find it a bit comforting to know that I'm going to be there for him until the very end, and that he'll know he's not alone.
This video was very informative. Thanks for your sensitivity in explaining the process of making the difficult decision to say goodbye to our pet. My family is doing so tomorrow. After taking him to the vet yesterday, we already felt that it was time and she confirmed it for us. Can't say that I am looking forward to tomorrow but I know it is in our pet's best interest at this point and stage of his life. He lived a great life and brought tremendous joy to our family for the past 17 years. We will definitely miss him but NEVER forget him! Farewell, old friend! Luv always! 😭
@@OurPetsHealth Thanks! My pooch actually passed a few hours before he was scheduled to be euthanized. He passed comfortably on our couch in a blanket around family. Doesn't make it any easier witnessing him take his last breath but we knew it was time. We'll miss that fella for sure. We already do! 😥😢😭
Thank you for posting this, I had to make the decision today to put my dog of 15 years to sleep. She was one of the sweetest, most loving friends you could have. I found your video and while it was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make, your "three simple statements" @ 06:54 helped me keep some perspective. The vet was very supportive, but seemed more interested in giving her drugs to "make her comfortable" to prolong the inevitable with the only potential solution having more side effects, risks and potential pain then I was willing to put her through. I urge you to please stay with them until the end, you'll be able to comfort them so they don't feel scared or unsure of what's happening. The most important thing is how they feel leading up to that moment. They've been with you through so many things, it's the least you can do, no matter how you feel. If it's available in your area, I highly recommend you find a vet that will perform the service in you and your pets home. In my case, she was on her favorite chair laying under her favorite blanket when she went. I know she felt right at home as she was sleeping on her own right up until it was time. Its hard enough, I can't imagine having to go through this at a vets office.
Thank you for your advice. My dog is at his last months but not suffering yet, still happy. But he has an ulcer and is 14 years. He's always so anxious at the vet's office. I hadn't even thought about this so I will discuss it with her to do it at his most safe place at home on the couch lying next to me🙏💗
Thank you. We had just made the decision to let go of our Bailey ( 16 ) girl but I’ve been struggling with feeling guilty. She has a collapsed trachea that she’s been struggling with for the past three years and it’s gotten worse. So we made the decision today to let her go. Your video just affirmed what everyone’s been telling us that it’s better to let her go before she reaches a point where she’s suffering more than she already is. Again thank you for this timely video.
Thank you so much for this. My little Jess Fox terrier has had a lump and stones removed from her bladder in February. Turns out the lump was Cancer and will return, probably around 6 months. I need to be strong and think only of her going forward.. she is loving life right now but I know that as soon as I see her struggling to pee.. that is the time I need to do what's right. As you so rightly say.. a week too early is better than a day too late.
Tomorrow, my darling Flat-Coated Retriever, Julie, is crossing over to heaven. She has been my dear companion for 15 years. I knew this day was coming for weeks now. And she is now completely immobile, incontinent and the pain med is not effective. I've given her so many treats today, and she's laying near the wood-stove. All the memories are coming back. I do not know how I am going to bear this. This video helped me to know that I am doing the right thing. I am going to miss her so much..
Well I just put my rescue down. He was old. I rescued him three years ago and spoiled him rotten every day I knew this day would come and told him first day. I will not allow you to suffer. And I kept my word. This video assures me I did the right thing. God I miss him. Thanks !
I think that's only natural, but by thinking of it in advance you can be better prepared when the time comes and unfortunately our pet's lives are so much shorter than our own
My heart is breaking even though I know it's the best thing for him. He has no use of one of his hind legs hip dysplasia and severe arthritis in his spine. He's only 10 yrs old. Still wants to play but can't, this decision is soul destroying.
Thank you so much! This video has helped a great deal. We had to euthanize our beloved 13 year old German Shepherd on the 8th of June. It was a sad and horrible decision to make but he was indeed suffering due to arthritis in both hips. We had him since he was 6 weeks old. He will be missed for the rest of our lives.
Thank you so much for this video. I had to make the most heart breaking decision today to euthanize my dachshund Apollo😭 he was paralyzed from the back legs down. He soiled himself and couldn't walk. I was blessed with 8 wonderful years with Apollo💔 my heart hurts so much and I can't stop crying, but seeing him not happy and healthy broke me. Thank you so very much for this video Dr, I truly needed to hear it.
Thank you as your video has helped many and I had to release my dog today because of an extreme health issue, and this video helped me reassure me that I did the best thing for him. Thanks
Just got back from having our 13year old golden retriever put to sleep. He had arthritis in his hips and rear legs. We have helped him for several weeks getting up but the last few days he lost his ability to stand and do body functions. He was still sharp as a tack otherwise. Really a rough decision to put your best friend and companion down after all them wonderful years with him. Rest In Peace BUCK, we will always love you and we already miss you. Thanks for all the wonderful times.
Just lost my 19yr old jack Russell girl,it's the most devastating thing ever.we were hoping she made xmas then we hoped for new year which she just managed but she was very tired and quiet,went off her food and never got out of bed when my son walked in the room as she would normally mug him for sausages she couldn't even do this in the end and slept a lot. On the 3rd of Jan she lay and spent the whole day just staring at me not closing her eyes once.i knew what needed to be done but still prayed for more time but that look was like she was trying to get into my head to say now is the time.i think she new and needed me to know more. Her breathing started to go funny within an hour and rushed her to vet and sent her to rainbow Bridge calmly. I've sent her away to be cremated and I'm now waiting for her coming home. My heart is so broken right now I feel losing a pet is harder to understand than a person I don't know why but it does. Goodnight and godbless my baby girl hollie- bouch we will love you for eternity 💗 😭xxx
Thank you for posting this video. You’ve helped me make a decision. My little darling Tonkinese cat is 14 years almost 15 years old and is dying from kidney failure. I am worried he is suffering silently even though he eats and drinks and wees. He sleeps a lot. I’ll be calling my vet today. He deserves a peaceful end.
I hear back from the vets tomorrow from the blood result. I am shitting myself and havnt stopped crying since I got back. I'm sorry for anyone that is going through this pain of losing something or someone they love my thoughts are with u all x
I am needed some strength, my dog I have had 11 yrs and I swear it doesn’t seem that long. I have a son that passed away in 2013 and he is the one who gave her to me as a gift.. I love her as if she was my other child. Everyday for 11 yrs she made me smile! Her face has one tooth that sticks out. Some say she is so cute, so ugly or strange looking she is cute, her bottom jaw comes out a little bit more than the top does. My son said I knew you’d love her because others wouldn’t.. I said thanks what are u saying he said u just have that kind of heart and u fix those that seem broken. And I heard a song clay walker samg called she loves the broken ones and I hear it and it reminds me of how my son saw me and it is a compliment that he saw me this way. Well u see how hard this is going to be. She is a beautiful little dog had a soul of an Angel. And she has lymphoma and I can’t help her. All lymph’s are so big already. I took her to vet years ago spent 1200 to find out she had polycystic arthritis causing her to walk in pain so medication helped and she got better then she started having itching that wouldn’t go away. I now am told this and I can’t afford chemotherapy if it is just going to cause her to be more sick. I love her and she is a tie to my beautiful son. God help me to do this
@@OurPetsHealth it was the first time and i had a hard time dealing with the fact that we can allow our pets to pass peacefully but who wouldnt want that! Hes chasing cinnamonbuns in heaven now ♡ now i got another senior dog so i guess ill have to get used to it
Thank you very much for making this video. You did a VERY good job of communicating some very big and difficult questions. And you did so, with a Grace and Kindness that, I really connected with. It honestly felt like you were holding my hand and guiding me through making sense of the entire experience I just went through. And there was something very comforting about that. Don't get me wrong, I was literally sobbing through this entire video. But you brought me some comfort, understanding and perspective when I needed it. So thank you very much for that. It's only been a week since putting my Baby Boy, Snowy to sleep. He was an 8-year-old German Shepherd, and from the moment he and I met, we both knew, that this, was something special. But he developed Degenerative Myelopathy (among other chronic lifelong problems he had) and a lot of what you said made so much sense when I heard it, especially for this disease. It's much easier (though still VERY Difficult) to make the decision if your pet is visibly suffering and in pain. But DM is insidious in its painlessness. And it made making the decision....so much more difficult. And when you said the part about the Guilt. My God, the Guilt. It's unbearable and it's crushing. And using their appetite as the only judge of whether your pet is okay or not? That was so important to hear! Because Snowy would always get so excited for food! And seeing the excitement in his eyes made me second guess myself countless times and just added/adds to the guilt. But as you said, we HAVE to look at other things, and I knew that the decision I had to make, was the right one. By far the hardest decision I've ever had to make in my life btw. Lastly, your 3 personal beliefs you shared, REALLY helped too. "There is clearly something significant going on that is making you seriously think about Euthanasia", and "Euthanasia may be the last final act of kindness you can show a sick pet by ending their suffering". I often forget this when the waves of Grief and Guilt hit. Especially the Guilt. But after the tears and sobs I just shed, I feel better. So thank you for giving me that. I feel like now I'll be able to find my way back up to the surface when those waves hit again. Thank you for the comfort, understanding and perspective you just blessed me with. I wish I found you sooner! I'm finally, truly, starting to think like I might be okay again, one day. Keep up the GREAT WORK!
I’m pleased I could help in a small way. Snowy sounds like he truly was a special soul. Take care of yourself, and I’m so sorry you had to go through this loss
My dog has the appointment Saturday she’s 10 years old. I can’t stop crying. I’m so heartbroken, and my ex left me two weeks ago, we used to live together. I’m so emotional right now. I wish dogs lived forever because they fill your heart and you theirs.
I am losing my 14 year old dog today, she has stopped eating and can barely walk, she drinks water but we don't want her suffering without food. Thank you for the video.
Just took this decision with my family. Our cat Miley had a good 16 1/2 years Sie was always the first one to come to eat. she stopped eating and drinking. My daughter did not want her to suffer so we went to get an examination and we ended up to have her put to sleep the same day. They explained everything just like this video. We could stay with her in a comfortable room with calming music and give some last minute of our ❤and good bye. It was super sad 😞 but we think so too, it was the best for her. She will always be in our ❤ RIP Miley
Thank you very much for this video! I had to come to this decision today for my beloved Basset Hound; he was 13. He had an oral tumour that ulcerated which started bleeding…I saw a real difference in him the last couple days and finally called the vet. I could of went in that day but I delayed it a day so I could be with him and have him a nice warm meal and bath. After watching this video I feel like I did the right thing; however much it hurts my heart. I will miss you forever Frank.
I'm due to put my dog down in 3 days. I've really been struggling with this. After watching this, there is no doubt that it's best for him. Watching him struggle every day has just become unbearable. Thank you so much for sharing this YT.
I'm sorry you and your dog are going through this, it really is a difficult time but you at least now know it is the kindest decision for you to make. Take care
my kiddo has been sick since January. she’s lost over 5 lbs and she’s very small. she doesn’t eat well even though she’s on three medications, she can barely walk, isn’t able to get on my bed anymore, and can’t hold her pee or poo well. she’s suffering and I think I may have to have her put down Sunday. I’m sobbing thinking about holding her little body as they push the medication to put her to sleep but I’ll be right there with her the whole time. she’s given me 10 years of happiness and comfort, and deserves the same. I’ll plan on the day of her euthanasia taking her to a park and let her sit in the sun and eat a nice cheeseburger and some ice cream. I just want her to enjoy her last days.
Thank you for this video. A month ago I had to put to sleep my beloved companion Tzoker. Despite my deep sorrow, I would like to help other dog/cat/any pet owners in taking this difficult decision. My dog had lymphoma, he was old and having arthritis. Our last days together were very difficult but manageable. One day before he had a head stroke and a heart attack. I couldn’t believe that I would be counting the hours to put him out of his misery. He lost his sight, he couldn’t walk and eat and he was having seizures… I was also in deep pain seeing him like that. The decision was very clear to me after having done literally anything I could to provide him a perfect life. Just let me add one more point to this video. Despite the pain, be by the side of your friend until his/her last breath. It’s the greatest and ultimate act of love and respect to your loyal friend who shared a life with you and brought you happiness and unconditional true love. Never let them go alone and believe me, despite your grief you will have peace at heart ❤️
I've had to deal with this TOO many times!!!! I love my babies but I'm so sick of this part!!!! As many animals as i"ve had, I've never had to NOT put one down!!! I'm glad I was there for them however!!! I would NEVER leave them alone!!! btw,,,,this guy is great!!!
Thank you for this. Mon Sept 20th 2021 I had to make the decision to put my almost 17yr old boy to rest. He had kidney disease, early dementia, severe arthritis, cataracts, has had Prancreatice and Gastrointestinal problems. Could remember to tell me he had to go potty but would come into the house to poop. He was in pain with his arthritis even tho I had him on a pain shot, wobbled to walk and sometimes fell. I struggled to make the decision because he ate very good, he drank alot of water but I know it was because of his kidneys. He started walking around in a circle thru the house, from the kitchen thru the dining room, and living room back thru the kitchen. I couldn't take him for a walk outside but he could do that in the house practically non stop! My struggle was he was eating good, he doesn't have a voice on the choice, we as humans don't even get to end our struggle even if we want too, but we can end theirs in 2 seconds! I'm still feeling guilty at my loss, and decision to end his pain and confusion! My sweet boy was my Trucker dog since he was 11 mos old! Almost made it to 17 yrs. Longest pet I've ever had! I knew one or the other problems he was suffering would get worse before the other and he was suffering each of them in some way. But its hard to deal with the guilt of am I selfish that maybe he doesn't want to go yet? That ending his life is just easier to stop the daily care of his needs? I Love Him. We get to hang on and suffer till God takes us, but we can end an animal with no problem! Thats my minds dilemma! Did I do the right thing? I'm still not sure, but I'm mourning and can't think, but its too late now. All I can say is I'm sorry my boy, I'm sorry Theodore mommy loves you, don't be mad at me. Rest in Peace and run like you did as a puppy. 😢💔✝️🛐😔
I am going through the same and I know exactly how you feel. I had to put my beloved dog down 2 days ago. He was with me for almost 14 years. He's been I'll since He was 8 (DCM, heart problems) but still outlived all his siblings. It was getting worse and worse with his health and I finally made the decision to put him to sleep forever, before something really bad happens and he bleeds internally or something like that. I did a at-home euthanization and I was with him till the very last second. And know I am dying of guilt, shame and grief. Was ist too early? Did we miss something? Could he lived longer? Was it painful for him to get the injection? And all these question eating up my mind and soul... It will get better by time, but right now I am in a very bad place.
@@DasYpsilon I wonder if doing the right thing ever feels right in the mind or heart. My Theodore might have had a few more months, maybe, but I'm not sure sometimes. Animals have no voice to tell us when its time. I think it will take my mind a long time to not feel guilty. I'm just learning to live with it and make peace
I do think that animals live in the moment and they're fine with what happens and just trust us. I do believe that, you and me, made the right decision. It was a love-decision.
Very helpful. I've listened to it numerous times. My dog had a good death. A few problems finding the vein, but he had "old man veins." He went to sleep, was snoring, then the vet administered the OD. 13 years he loved me and I loved him.
Sorry for your loss. You're right, what better way to go though than simply falling asleep. If we love them, letting them go like this when it's their time is a great kindness, however difficult it is for us. Take care
I’ve been watching several videos and this is one of the best videos I’ve viewed so far to help me cope with my loss. I made the difficult decision to let my Zack go two weeks ago. He was eating and drinking but wasn’t the same. He had brain cancer and rapidly declined.
Please help me!!!! My dog has a brain tumor and we are putting her down in two days and I am not sure to do it or not, my dos is 18 years old and also eating and drinking water! What makes you decide to let your baby go?? Please I need some light
@@angiesubiaolivo1972 My Zack was 14yrs and he declined really fast. In a matter of two weeks. It started with a tumor in his mouth then it effected his eye. He went blind and then he started having multiple seizures. My vet told me his blood results turned out elevated white blood count and anemia. My boy wasn’t the same. It was the hardest thing I had to do. I miss him so much. I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s so hard.
@@bernadettec8456 thank you very very much for sharing your experience with me, I can’t stop crying, I was in total denial until yesterday! I’m so sorry for your loss too :(
Been struggling with this decision as well, my 13 year old Weimaraner has been my best friend. Making it even more difficult is my wife passed away just over 3 years ago....😢😢 One week early or a day late 🤔 I don't want to let him go.... Thank you.
Think about it this way: I’d say to them ‘you’re just going for a sleep,’ when it’s time or I would have an amazing last few hours with your pet. Try not to be upset, your dog or cat might notice you are bothered and be slightly scared that something will happen or has happened. Try to stay calm and happy. Most vets say it is a very good idea to ‘stay by your pet’s side while they are being put to sleep,’ this is true and it really helps your pet feel comfortable and less stressed and frightened of the situation they are in
Agreed, I heard that crying can make it feel to your pet as if you’re upset. Remember, it’s about your pet in those last moments and it needs to feel comfortable. Cry afterwards if possible.
This has been so helpful... It's been a week since we said goodbye to Lucas... our sweet 14 year old Cocker Spaniel. It wasn't an easy decision at all. Lucas loved life and up until the last 2 weeks, seemed happy and still had a good quality of life in spite of being deaf, having two bad hind legs and having a large tumor in his lung. He still love to walk, and play ball albeit much less than in younger years. Two weeks prior to saying goodbye, he was having significant trouble breathing and was in deep distress. We took him to an all night vet and they recommended putting him down. A chest xray revealed that his airway/lungs were significantly blocked. We asked to see him before making a decision. He was in an oxygen chamber and when he saw us, began pawing for us. He looked like the same old Lucas. Hours later, we took him home. The next 2 weeks were tough and we hung on to him too long. He had a seizure last Tuesday May 21st and that's when we knew it was time but still I had extreme difficulty making the call. I was out of town and flew home to be with Lucas and my wife. Thursday night, he had an attack and couldn't breathe well. We were giving him gabapentin which calmed him down and basically kept him sleeping most of the time. We couldn't keep medicating him and we couldn't stand to see him suffer anymore. Friday, May 24th, Lucas died at home with the assistance of a caring vet. I've been struggling with my decision and have been haunted by replaying him dying while we held and loved on him. That's what lead me to this video. We're still mourning and experiencing a lot of grief but every day, it gets less painful. Watching this video brings me to two conclusions. 1) We waited too long and caused Lucas a lot of suffering. 2) We did the right thing in the end. My thoughts go out to all of you who are also dealing with losing a furry family member.
Don't be too hard on yourself. It's an incredibly difficult time and it's easy to look back with the benefit of hindsight. Let yourself grieve and try to remember all of the good times. Take care
Thank you so much for this video. Our golden retriever has been gagging over the last few weeks and then very rapidly lost strength in her back legs. Five days ago we took her to the vet and x-rays revealed she is over come with cancer. She is unable to get up and we have to help her get up to go to the bathroom. My 12 year old daughter is heartbroken and doesn't understand why we need to put her down when she wags her tail so much when we talk to her. We've made the appointment for tomorrow and this will be a great video to watch with her beforehand.
Sorry you and your poor dog are going through this. It is always very upsetting even when you know it's the right decision to make for your dog and you should expect your daughter (and yourselves) to grieve just as for any other family member. Take care
I’m saying goodbye in two days and I know it’s for the best but it is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. She is my best friend and I never thought it would happen this suddenly. Her liver is failing and she still tries to follow me everywhere and I’m terrified to come home and not see her running to greet me. Thank you for this video.
@@OurPetsHealth thank you for your response. She passed away last night, a bit earlier than we initially planned. Her health declined very quickly and we brought her to the closest emergency vet where she was finally relieved of her suffering. I am so grateful for all the people who perform this act of mercy, they see us at our absolute lowest and they still have so much kindness and patience for both pet and owner. I’m planning on sending the office a thank you card soon, they deserve it.
It's been 3 weeks since I had to put my baby bear to sleep. It was one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make in my life he was 16 and he was much more than a pet to me. I swear he knew what I was thinking. I miss him so much. I feel guilty for having to put him to sleep but I knew it was the right thing to do I cry everyday.
I went through this today. Find a vet who will work with you to make the experience as peaceful as possible. I spent several days helping my elderly mom's nearly 16 year old dog dealing with seizures and convincing mom to let go. That said, I would agree with the idea of sending a pet off a day earlier than later. The last two days were really tough as I helped a great little dog deal with seizures and loss of physical control, while convincing my elderly mother to let her go. The clinic was great, with a quiet room, explaining every moment, so I could be with Maggie until the end.
I’m sorry for your families loss but pleased to hear the process was made as easy as possible by your vet. If you could let them know how much you valued their care too I know it would mean a lot to them as it can be a really emotional time for veterinary staff as well as. I hope your mum is getting over her loss too.
Lost my 16 years old jack Russel this Tuesday she was declining in health struggling to breath and walk... Had her since 6 weeks old so sad atleast she can rest in piece...
I was advised by my vet it would be best to put my cat to sleep a week ago. He was 18-1/2, had lost a lot of weight, his back snd hi d kegs were all bony. I was told he most likely had diabetes because he was always eating and never putting on weight. He would drink a lot and pee often. He had a hard time walking most days but occasionally would still jump off my bed which made me so scared he would break a leg! I had him since he was 8 weeks old. I picked him out of the litter. He was my best friend and helped me get through y Dad passing away a few years ago. My heart is broken and I feel so guilty. I keep asking myself if I did the right thing. 😭💔 I've never gone through this before and because of covid I had to do it alone. I just miss him and his cuddles so much. He was the sweetest pet Ive ever had.
Our girl is 14 she has cyst that won’t heal and she’s not sleeping and seems to moan a lot. But still is very affectionate and sweet. Most of the time she sleeps and falls.
I have to do this to my 12 yrs old bull in the next couple of days... This is the hardest decision I'll have to make in my life. Heartbreaking so much... can't stop crying for him... 😢😢😢
In my heart of hearts I know my 15 yo JRT is ready. Her appointment is tomorrow. I just wanted to watch this video to know I'm making the right decision😥😭🐶🐕💔
Thank You, I needed that. I notice my dog wasn't eating much but was very thirsty, then he night before last she suddenly was panting, hiding her face in the corners of the house, legs gave out and could not walk, muscle spasms and trembling in stomach and was listless. When I got her to the Animal Hospital in the morning she started vomiting and almost had a seizure, her blood pressure was low and she had a fever. I have no idea what was wrong with her and it's driving me crazy not knowing what it was because I didn't have tests done, I just euthanized her to put her out of her misery instead of finding out to see if she could be saved. When you mentioned Arthritis which she had, I now know that I made the right decision not bothering with the tests. Still wish I knew what caused all that as it was all so sudden and she was fine earlier in the day other than not having an appetite.
Thank you, this video helped greatly. The closer the matter of fact comes the more you reach out for some comfort and reassurance. This video gave that to me. Thank you.
We have the appointment Thursday and I feel so much pain and guilt 😢 My dog is 13 years and 4 months old and the only reason why out doctor suggested euthanasia is because my dog struggles for years from dry eye sickness 😢 We are fighting with this stupid sickness for almost 6 years and I don’t have the resources to help her anymore 😔 What breaks me is that she seems ok,she eats and drinks very good but her eyes are like nothing I’ve seen before 💔
Thank you for this video, it helps. I am watching a lot of these sort of videos as my old dog is declining, as sad as it is it helps to listen to some different vets talk about this end of life quandary. Thanks again.
This is the best advice and information I have found we had to put my girl to rest last week and I have been struggling with if we did the right thing my husband was certain that we did but I just wanted to hold on to her. I can say after watching this that we helped end her suffering . My heart is broken and trying to go forward without her but it is so hard. She was my best friend she was loving ,loyal she relaxed me and I her I will cherish the life we had together .
That's a hard subject to hear it's not easy letting go I've always been a sentimental person. I hope my dog Bigfoot cancer goes into remission.. he is really lucky because my vet said he should have passed away over a year ago and he is still going but having some difficulty but I'm trying to work it out and hopefully get through it. Thanks Dr Alex 👍
It's not an easy topic to listen to but an important one none-the-less so that we are all prepared when the time does come. Hopefully it's still some time away
I felt so guilty that i have come to a decision to euthanise my 16 year old dog Fluffy. I search for a video to know if i'm doing the right thing as she was suffering from dementia . She was paralysed a year ago but her appetite was good. I kept her going for a year but her quality of life was deteriorating. Her night becomes day and her day is night. We cared for her until it was too painful to see her cry all night. Nothing I did could calm her down. Your video helped me make the right decision to let her go. I still feel so sad and guilty to have to do this but i feel it was time not to prolong her suffering . Thank you for your video.
We had to put our 16 year old friend today, It's been 8 hours since we buried him but before we did so I put my hand in his snout and I swear I could feel a very light breeze; my biggest fear is that we buried him alive; what I'm telling myself is that he didn't suffer as he was still sleeping and we helped him pass away by burying him, if he was indeed still alive then he must've ran out of oxygen while still uncounsious under all that dirt. Thank you for you video I feel a little better because everything you said is helping realize that it really was the best decision for him, he stopped eating two days prior to his euthanasia but he was still able to walk and drink water, sadly on the third day everything hit him like a sack of bricks, vomit, pee, dehydration, couldn't stand up on his own and his back legs weren't working anymore.
Your vet would definitely not have let you take your dog away until they were 110% sure that their heart had stopped, so don't be thinking that you buried him alive. I can assure you, you didn't.
My dog was having multiple seizures out of nowhere, he had about 10 from 2am to 10am. He wouldn't respond to anything, just walked around until he hit something or got too tired. The last couple hours he could barely stand, I would call his name and he just sat there. After a couple more seizures we decided it was best to put him down, to stop his suffering. This was earlier this morning, and I hate myself for not being in there before he passed, I was just a minute too late. Maybe he could've recovered, I hope I didn't make the wrong decision. RIP Rusty you were the best most loving dog I could ever want, you deserve way better.
Really sorry to hear about Rusty. Whenever there are seizures one after the other it is always serious and I'm sure you made the right decision for him. Take care of yourself and remember the good times you had together
@@OurPetsHealth I just wish I could have had better final moments. The last few hours I had with him were horrible, and after every seizure he just got farther away, I try to find peace in the fact that he is in a good place now, better than going through the suffering he was. Thank you for responding, your words mean so much to me.
Just had my baby PTS a few days ago and am heartbroken. He was 14 and had severe heart failure, still able to do alot of things and eating fine but he had a terrible cough that wouldnt stop and was starting to have more bad days then good. On that last day he was coughing and staggering and refused his breakfast and I just knew he was tired of it all. We had a lovely walk that morning, cuddled on the couch all afternoon and he had chicken for tea then I took him to the vets who confirmed he was struggling and not getting enough oxygen. I could of tried emergency treatment but it would of been for me....not him, he was ready to go. I held him in my arms and told him I loved him and let him go. I dont feel guilty as it felt like he had struggled enough but I just miss him so, so much.
My 14 year old male schnauzer has had stomach issues aniexty he was in stage 2 kidney failure he was on medications then he started falling over falling out of bed seizures was told he had k9 dementia he would get up at night and pace the floor and get lost in our room behind things he stopped wanting to eat and drink then he had a bad seizure so I made the decision and took him in August 26 2.00 and set him free I tried to stay calm didn't want him upset he went very peacefully it broke my heart into a million pieces but it was the right thing the vet said he was dehydrated and had chronic kidney failure knowing he isnt in pain or afraid any more brings my heart peace rest in peace my little buddy Jarvis 💙🐾🐾💙
I just had to do it for the 2nd dog. It is the hardest decision I have ever had to make. Don't want to be too soon or too late, but sooner is better. I will miss you Phoebe forever and always.
Just put my sweet old guy down. Never cried so much for anyone. Days of crying. He could hardly walk anymore. Quality over quantity but he was over 14. So special and spoiled. Miss him.
I raised Duke from a puppy. He's got a growth in his mouth that's just getting bigger, I've had him for 14 years. My little guy's saved my life, and helped me with my PTSD and depression all these years. I really don't wanna be fuckin ready to do it.
My dog has recently been diagnosed with kidney failure. We have him on a prescribed diet which he is eating. In the last couple of days my wife and I have noticed that he is doing circles. We are now thinking he may be suffering with dementia. He is around 14 years old. I don't know his exact age as he was a rescue dog. We are keeping a close eye on him. I know that time is getting close and the painful decisions is getting closer. Not looking forward to it one bit. We will both be devastated.
I’m sorry you’re all going through this. Making the right decision for him will bring you comfort in the future, even though it will be very hard at the time. Take care
We had to put our 14 year old dog down yesterday . I would have and did all I could to prolong his life but about 20 min after he was put to sleep realized I waited to long . I did take into consideration his quality of life but ultimately it was my own selfish love that made him suffer . Some situations you can step back from and look at it in a different light but when it comes to a pet it’s about impossible while they are still here .
Thank you, this video is fantastic. I am still struggling with the idea of euthenasing my cat, but this does much in terms of allaying any guilt I have, in worrying that it's too soon.
Thank you so much... I am about to decide to euthinize my pet dog who has been with us for 15 years... it hurts....but you are right... he is suffering... and better to think on what is going to be best for him. Thank you again.
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you. My beloved pet has tumor/cancer. Our vet had already given us some options such as operations and all with no guarrantee. I do not believe in euthanasia, but I have to think logically somehow and decided to do some research. That is when I encountered your video. You are so right. :-) However, I got selfish for a little bit and prolonged his life for 3 days, honestly, not for him but for me. Eventually I had to let go. Just want to share my experience. I really appreciate your video... simple, on point, gentle yet very truthful. God bless you as you help other pets and pet owners worldwide. :-)
What was holding me back was the appetite was good but there were a lot of bads. In my case a gradual decline suddenly turned into a rapid collapse. That caught me off guard and delayed the decision.
My beautiful dog had been declining the past years so slowly that this last week I didnt realize of some problems she had until it was too late. She still looked happy at the begining of the week and declined very fast through the days. Took her to doctor and was diagnosed with lung cancer. I didn't give her proper euthanasia, thinking she still could spend the weekend at home before letting her go. She died at home but i made her suffer. I feel horrible (my first dog friend that trusted me). Thanks for this video. I am Still learning how to help them better.
Wow, never new how hard is was going to be to say goodbye to one of my best friend! I took my dog to the vet yesterday, and found out he has stomach cancer, and his kidneys are failing, taking him to get euthanized today, and i am struggling so much😭😭😭😭😭
I’m terrified. I have no clue what to do. My dog, at only 8 years old, has recently started drinking copious amounts of water, her stomach is distended and full of air, and she’s been experiencing seizures. My veterinarian said that she may have Cushing’s Disease. She’s not really happy anymore, and she doesn’t play or go upstairs. I have a hard time making the decision, and I don’t know if it’s the right time or not.
So much love on this thread my dog is also dying has a descended stomach/heavy breathing I got a headache from thinking about euthanizing pray for me because I think today is the day☹️🙏
@@dextersmith3204 I get what you mean. I’ll keep you in my prayers!! Just remember to stay strong for them if today is the day. I had to euthanize my dog a few days ago, and it was the hardest decision to make. But looking back on it, she was in so much pain, and she was suffering from congestive heart failure and nobody knew it. She definitely had Cushing’s Disease :(
I'm saying goodbye to my boy bestfriend today ... I'm 1h30 away from the event .m. I don't want it to happen ...even tho I know it's better for him ... And cause of Covid ... I can't be there ... the vet is the only one allowed with my dog... that's freaking harder ...
If your pet is coming to the end of their life for any reason but euthanasia is not yet needed then appropriate palliative care is something to seriously think about and a topic I discuss in detail here: ruclips.net/video/DeGnBMeYRy8/видео.html
I’ve done this twice, it sucks at the moment but it’s a relief at the end of it. Your loved pet is not suffering anymore. Remember you gave your loved pet a happy home for many years.
a lovely message, thanks for sharing
I just had to put my max down less then 4 hrs ago your comment just helped me a bit.
Your comment has helped my wife and I deal with what we just did to our Chloe. Thanks.
Thank you for your message.
I don’t wanna let her go 🥺🥺😫😫😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
It's never easy even when deep down you know it's the right decision. Do what's in your pets best interest and take care of yourself
I’m feeling the same way. I don’t want to not ever be able to see him again. This hurts so much. 😭
My heart is breaking just to think that day is coming soon. Diagnosed with lymphoma yesterday.
I’m so sorry 😞
I will say in my experience waking up and finding them gone has been so much harder.
Thank you very much for this, as it's helped me a lot. I had my 14 year old dog euthanized last weekend and it was the hardest thing ever, but your video has put my mind at rest. She was suffering, couldn't walk without collapsing and could barely get up without help. She had lost all her vitality and love of life. I was with her, which I am glad about, as she had no anxiety or fear. It was a beautiful, peaceful death actually, but so hard.
It definitely sounds like you made the best decision for her so she could be at peace. Take care
Same experience. My roommate's dog was euthanized last night. He was suffering for a really long time, almost no vitality, flinch in pain at almost any touch, no ability to control his bowels, back legs didn't work, covered in tumors, collapsing most to the time when he tried getting up, falling down stairs, regularly collapsing into and not being able to get out of puddles of water and urine, and every symptom of CCD, plus the owner getting ready to leave him behind at the house for 3-4 weeks. My roommate said once the drugs started to kick in, it was the first time he looked really happy and peaceful in months. It's difficult but also a relief not to see him suffer so much every day.
It sounds like he is in a better place now and at peace. Take care
If you are happy to watch your pet suffer with no chance of improvement despite trying to make them as comfortable as possible then I feel sorry for your pet and personally believe that is the cruel thing to do. And throwing the accusation of murder as replies to comments like this is also cruel. Shame on you
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you Dr.,, my Wife and I have been struggling with this most difficult decision for a week or so. Our little pet is suffering, we feel so badly for her and do not want to lay her to rest but listening to your video and reading other pet lovers comments are helping us as we struggle with this. We have an appointment with her vet tomorrow morning. I feel we must allow her a graceful departure from our lives. We're in our 70's, she's a rescue and has been our friend for the last 10 of her 14 years. We will miss her most likely the rest of our lives but for her, I believe we must. Thank you for your response to the person who does not agree with euthanasia.
I absolutely hate the fact that I had to watch this video, I am heartbroken.
I am on my way now to the Vet to say goodbye 😭
But your video really helped me to know its for the best.
THANK YOU 😭
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Take care of yourself and let yourself grieve while also trying to remember all the good times
I made the decision 2 weeks ago. My dog had most of the symptons described in several videos. I hated saying goodbye. He was an old foster mix. I took him in in 2010. At that time he was about 5 or 6. I had him for almost 10 years. He was never adopted so I formally adopted him in 2016. I miss him now.
Sorry for your loss. :(
I am very sorry ! Lots of love & virtual hugs are being sent to you from me in L.A. I am Japanese. 💜💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶💖💕💞😭
@@christianbrother4724 So sorry for your loss .💜💜💜💜🥁🎵🐉🎤🎶💖💕💞And thank you for adopting your dog !👍
Yesterday was my last day with my dog and it was so heart wrenching cause of how quick they it was. If felt like I didn't get to say bye in time and see him scared killed me so much. But I really do hope I get to see you again Tanner. I love you so much
Tanner 5/3/22
@Three Aces my dog was still eating too but knowing he was in pain was the reason we made the decision. I'm sure it was right decision. I'm sorry for your Missy
Thank you for this video. I really loved your three things to remember. You have helped me and I know I’m doing the right thing….. However, I still can’t stop crying.
Doing the right thing doesn't always make it easier I'm afraid, but it will allow to look back and remember all the good memories knowing you made the best decision possible. I'm sorry for your loss
A week too early than a day too late, that's a perfect statement thank you makes me feel better about my decision I made.
Hmmpf! Not when it's it you, lady. It might have been a good week. Let the dog and God decide not some human playing God.
@@scoobydadog246 as if I need to explain to someone my circumstances but here we are listen lady, my pup was not having the quality of life she deserved, she fell down a flight of stairs and almost injured herself bad, not to mention prior instances. So before you go attacking someone for their decision think about the struggle. Shame on you for even bringing this up as if it didn't hurt bad enough. This world has become so hateful 😔 I mean read these stories its heartbreaking 💔
@@NAMASTEONELOVE I'm no lady, I'm a dude.. and when people get old, what you call "quality of life changes".. You are in public group chat. The point is there are other options Life changes as humans and dogs age. Now it is not the same for you when you are 80, as when you are 20 . I haven't euthanized any relatives who have a history of falling, stairs or not. Why now get a baby gate to block off the stairs. We can make adjustments for our senior dogs. You don't have to be hateful if you don't want to be! The vet industry for a long time only knew about killing older and chronically ill dogs. I'm sorry if you feel guilty, but don't blame me for simply pointing out to others who are reading that there are other options.
And who are you do determine what is an acceptable quality of life. I haven't been able to do a full flight of stairs for years now. I've got a great life!
@@scoobydadog246 first of all dude..how are you even going to act like you knew what I did to prevent this from happening unbelievable, she had a gate and knocked it down, but why im explaining this to you i have no idea, so tired of nebby people like you get a life and let others do what they want stay out of mine.
Don't try and deflect shit on to me quit responding to my comments.
Who do you think you are telling someone about their own pet have some respect! not only was this post a year old but she also still grieves her beloved dog.
I’m so sorry if you’re at this point with you pet. It’s tough to grieve,but be easy on yourself and carry their light through the world as they watch over you ❤️
I took our 14 year little staffy Ellie yesterday and it was one of the most heart breaking things to have to do. She had almost lost all hearing, eyes were becoming milky, constantly shaking, hadn’t eaten for two days and night before she had a terrible fit and vomited, it was time. Her quality of life wasn’t there anymore and she wasn’t enjoying anything day to day. She had a brilliant life with long walks, played with other dogs and loved absolutely everyone. I’m in pain today but what gives me comfort is knowing I was able to stop the suffering and be there with her as she went
I had my dog of 14.5 years down 4 days ago. I have an enormous amount of guilt that I did it to early, I clicked on this video for reassurance that I did was the right decision.
I got Jerry as a puppy 3months old and right after I did I broke both of my legs and became homeless with him, we have been through a lot together and I miss him so much. I know I made the right decision.
I'm so sorry for your loss Paulie
What kind of society let’s you become Homeless after you break your legs? There is something seriously wrong with human beings nowadays, I feel that I belong on another planet. Some years ago I took a homeless girl in with her cats and she stayed eighteen months, got educated and found a good home. She just needed a new start. It wasn’t too difficult and so worthwhile. I hope your are in a lovely home now. If not go to Lewis Howes utube and watch his,interview with Rhonda Byrne, author of The Secret and The Greatest Secret. She has some good ideas that worked for her and many of her readers! Namaste 🙏
Had to do this yesterday to Dexter, my 12yr old Pointer. Mentally he was fine, but his back legs were just collapsing underneath him. He could get about, but only just. His front end was fine, but it was like his back end was a staggering drunk. It was obvious he had to go, but the fact that he was mentally sound made the decision just that little bit harder. I rang the vets on the Tuesday and booked him in for the Thursday. I cried after I'd booked him in, but knew it was the kindest thing I could do for him. Wednesday night was awful, as I knew what was coming the next morning. I spent the night on the sofa with him that night and cooked him a big steak for his last tea. The morning came and I felt physically sick. Took him to the vets and fortunately the vet let me come in with him (corvid restrictions were being slackened, but still in place). The catheter was already in his front leg when I was allowed in, and the vet had put an extension onto the tube so that he could distance himself from me. I sat Dexter down in front of me and sat on the floor with him, cuddling him the whole time. The vet let me know that he'd started with the process, and within seconds I could feel Dexters' head starting to go heavy on my arm so I laid him down in front of me, stroking him and talking to him the whole time. I put my hand on his chest and could feel that his heartbeat had stopped (obviously the vet did his own checks). The vet then said I could spend as long as I wanted to say my goodbyes, so I gave him a final stroke and a kiss on the head and stroked his eyes shut. Yes, it was a horrible experience, but it was also a relief both for Dexter and for me. He doesn't have to drag himself round any more, and I don't have to feel sorry for what was once such a proud and athletic dog having to struggle to stand up. The process was over in a matter of seconds, and very peaceful. It's the day after now, and whilst I'm still sad while I write this, I know that Dexter will have thanked me for helping him on his way.
A small part of me went away with Dexter yesterday, but an even bigger part of him will be staying with me. Thanks for the good times Dexter. Gonna miss you.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss but you certainly did the best for your Dexter. Take care
I just balled reading this. I am sorry for your loss
@@Rae-lh7ex Thanks. It's an awful thing to go through, but I just wanted to reassure other people out there having to make this awful decision is more than likely the best for both parties and how quick and painless (physically) the procedure is.
May God always bless you both. I’m doing this in a few days and I’m sick over it daily
My puppy was put down today...
It's was hard, but this video helped me with the terrible experience.
It was an act of kindness and compassion... Thanks for the guidance.
I'm really sorry for your loss
Thank you for this video. I really needed to hear all of this. My dog is 13 and a half, she has reached her end stages of life. I’m crushed, but I know now it is my last act of kindness to give to her.
I'm sorry for your loss
I totally agree with this video, just remember in nature animals have their lives cut short quickly and violently, you, the pet owner making such a hard decision is already a much better thing to do even though it doesn’t feel like it.
Well, your pet is not out in nature, and modern medicine has lots of end of life medications available to manage symptoms. Humans have been using them forever, they are cheap and easy. I think you humans are doing this because it's easier for YOU and talking yourself into thinking it's such a good thing.
Thank you for helping me with making such a difficult decision. My dog (Siberian husky) is 12yo, and he has a late stage of nasal cancer. I scheduled in-home euthanasia to end his suffering. I still have no idea how I'll be able to cope with this loss but I find it a bit comforting to know that I'm going to be there for him until the very end, and that he'll know he's not alone.
I'm sorry you are both going through such a difficult time
This video was very informative. Thanks for your sensitivity in explaining the process of making the difficult decision to say goodbye to our pet. My family is doing so tomorrow. After taking him to the vet yesterday, we already felt that it was time and she confirmed it for us. Can't say that I am looking forward to tomorrow but I know it is in our pet's best interest at this point and stage of his life. He lived a great life and brought tremendous joy to our family for the past 17 years. We will definitely miss him but NEVER forget him! Farewell, old friend! Luv always! 😭
I'm so sorry for your loss and hope you'll be able to remember all the good times you shared over those 17 years
@@OurPetsHealth Thanks! My pooch actually passed a few hours before he was scheduled to be euthanized. He passed comfortably on our couch in a blanket around family. Doesn't make it any easier witnessing him take his last breath but we knew it was time. We'll miss that fella for sure. We already do! 😥😢😭
Thank you for posting this, I had to make the decision today to put my dog of 15 years to sleep. She was one of the sweetest, most loving friends you could have. I found your video and while it was one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to make, your "three simple statements" @ 06:54 helped me keep some perspective. The vet was very supportive, but seemed more interested in giving her drugs to "make her comfortable" to prolong the inevitable with the only potential solution having more side effects, risks and potential pain then I was willing to put her through.
I urge you to please stay with them until the end, you'll be able to comfort them so they don't feel scared or unsure of what's happening. The most important thing is how they feel leading up to that moment. They've been with you through so many things, it's the least you can do, no matter how you feel.
If it's available in your area, I highly recommend you find a vet that will perform the service in you and your pets home. In my case, she was on her favorite chair laying under her favorite blanket when she went. I know she felt right at home as she was sleeping on her own right up until it was time. Its hard enough, I can't imagine having to go through this at a vets office.
Thank you for your advice. My dog is at his last months but not suffering yet, still happy. But he has an ulcer and is 14 years. He's always so anxious at the vet's office. I hadn't even thought about this so I will discuss it with her to do it at his most safe place at home on the couch lying next to me🙏💗
Thank you. We had just made the decision to let go of our Bailey ( 16 ) girl but I’ve been struggling with feeling guilty. She has a collapsed trachea that she’s been struggling with for the past three years and it’s gotten worse. So we made the decision today to let her go. Your video just affirmed what everyone’s been telling us that it’s better to let her go before she reaches a point where she’s suffering more than she already is. Again thank you for this timely video.
I'm very sorry for your loss
Thank you so much for this. My little Jess Fox terrier has had a lump and stones removed from her bladder in February. Turns out the lump was Cancer and will return, probably around 6 months. I need to be strong and think only of her going forward.. she is loving life right now but I know that as soon as I see her struggling to pee.. that is the time I need to do what's right. As you so rightly say.. a week too early is better than a day too late.
Tomorrow, my darling Flat-Coated Retriever, Julie, is crossing over to heaven. She has been my dear companion for 15 years. I knew this day was coming for weeks now. And she is now completely immobile, incontinent and the pain med is not effective. I've given her so many treats today, and she's laying near the wood-stove. All the memories are coming back. I do not know how I am going to bear this. This video helped me to know that I am doing the right thing. I am going to miss her so much..
I'm so sorry for your loss
Well I just put my rescue down. He was old. I rescued him three years ago and spoiled him rotten every day I knew this day would come and told him first day. I will not allow you to suffer. And I kept my word. This video assures me I did the right thing. God I miss him. Thanks !
It sounds like his last 3 years were really special
I feel like a lot of us who are here aren't ready for the day to come when we have to say goodbye
I think that's only natural, but by thinking of it in advance you can be better prepared when the time comes and unfortunately our pet's lives are so much shorter than our own
My heart is breaking even though I know it's the best thing for him. He has no use of one of his hind legs hip dysplasia and severe arthritis in his spine. He's only 10 yrs old. Still wants to play but can't, this decision is soul destroying.
I'm sorry for your loss
Same with mine had to put him down to day
Thank you so much! This video has helped a great deal. We had to euthanize our beloved 13 year old German Shepherd on the 8th of June. It was a sad and horrible decision to make but he was indeed suffering due to arthritis in both hips. We had him since he was 6 weeks old. He will be missed for the rest of our lives.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourselves as you grieve
Thank you so much for this video. I had to make the most heart breaking decision today to euthanize my dachshund Apollo😭 he was paralyzed from the back legs down. He soiled himself and couldn't walk. I was blessed with 8 wonderful years with Apollo💔 my heart hurts so much and I can't stop crying, but seeing him not happy and healthy broke me. Thank you so very much for this video Dr, I truly needed to hear it.
I'm so sorry for your loss
@@OurPetsHealth thank you🐾
Thank you as your video has helped many and I had to release my dog today because of an extreme health issue, and this video helped me reassure me that I did the best thing for him. Thanks
I'm pleased I could help a little at such a difficult time. Take care of yourself
Just got back from having our 13year old golden retriever put to sleep. He had arthritis in his hips and rear legs. We have helped him for several weeks getting up but the last few days he lost his ability to stand and do body functions. He was still sharp as a tack otherwise. Really a rough decision to put your best friend and companion down after all them wonderful years with him. Rest In Peace BUCK, we will always love you and we already miss you. Thanks for all the wonderful times.
We had to do the same for our 13 1/2 year-old dog last Friday. So sorry for your loss.
@@davidcooper1680 =Thank you David. We are sorry you lost yours as well. They are hard to lose.
Just lost my 19yr old jack Russell girl,it's the most devastating thing ever.we were hoping she made xmas then we hoped for new year which she just managed but she was very tired and quiet,went off her food and never got out of bed when my son walked in the room as she would normally mug him for sausages she couldn't even do this in the end and slept a lot. On the 3rd of Jan she lay and spent the whole day just staring at me not closing her eyes once.i knew what needed to be done but still prayed for more time but that look was like she was trying to get into my head to say now is the time.i think she new and needed me to know more. Her breathing started to go funny within an hour and rushed her to vet and sent her to rainbow Bridge calmly. I've sent her away to be cremated and I'm now waiting for her coming home. My heart is so broken right now I feel losing a pet is harder to understand than a person I don't know why but it does.
Goodnight and godbless my baby girl hollie- bouch we will love you for eternity 💗 😭xxx
Thank you for posting this video. You’ve helped me make a decision. My little darling Tonkinese cat is 14 years almost 15 years old and is dying from kidney failure. I am worried he is suffering silently even though he eats and drinks and wees. He sleeps a lot. I’ll be calling my vet today. He deserves a peaceful end.
I hear back from the vets tomorrow from the blood result.
I am shitting myself and havnt stopped crying since I got back.
I'm sorry for anyone that is going through this pain of losing something or someone they love my thoughts are with u all x
Good luck, I hope the results are better than you expect. Take care of yourself too
@@OurPetsHealth thank you x
I am needed some strength, my dog I have had 11 yrs and I swear it doesn’t seem that long.
I have a son that passed away in 2013 and he is the one who gave her to me as a gift.. I love her as if she was my other child. Everyday for 11 yrs she made me smile! Her face has one tooth that sticks out. Some say she is so cute, so ugly or strange looking she is cute, her bottom jaw comes out a little bit more than the top does. My son said I knew you’d love her because others wouldn’t.. I said thanks what are u saying he said u just have that kind of heart and u fix those that seem broken. And I heard a song clay walker samg called she loves the broken ones and I hear it and it reminds me of how my son saw me and it is a compliment that he saw me this way. Well u see how hard this is going to be. She is a beautiful little dog had a soul of an Angel. And she has lymphoma and I can’t help her. All lymph’s are so big already. I took her to vet years ago spent 1200 to find out she had polycystic arthritis causing her to walk in pain so medication helped and she got better then she started having itching that wouldn’t go away. I now am told this and I can’t afford chemotherapy if it is just going to cause her to be more sick. I love her and she is a tie to my beautiful son. God help me to do this
I'm so sorry you are in such a heartbreaking situation
Aww I wish I could hug you !! You sound like an amazing mother I wish my mom cared this much !! 🥺🥺 … I know you’re son is watching over you !!
Burried my baby yesterday, best 15 years of my life.
I'm really sorry for your loss but hopefully you will be able to remember all of the amazing times you spent together in those 15 years
@@OurPetsHealth it was the first time and i had a hard time dealing with the fact that we can allow our pets to pass peacefully but who wouldnt want that! Hes chasing cinnamonbuns in heaven now ♡ now i got another senior dog so i guess ill have to get used to it
Thank you for giving another senior a happy home in their last years!
@@OurPetsHealth ofc! It only hurts because they give so much love, its worth it :/
Thank you very much for making this video. You did a VERY good job of communicating some very big and difficult questions. And you did so, with a Grace and Kindness that, I really connected with. It honestly felt like you were holding my hand and guiding me through making sense of the entire experience I just went through. And there was something very comforting about that. Don't get me wrong, I was literally sobbing through this entire video. But you brought me some comfort, understanding and perspective when I needed it. So thank you very much for that. It's only been a week since putting my Baby Boy, Snowy to sleep. He was an 8-year-old German Shepherd, and from the moment he and I met, we both knew, that this, was something special. But he developed Degenerative Myelopathy (among other chronic lifelong problems he had) and a lot of what you said made so much sense when I heard it, especially for this disease. It's much easier (though still VERY Difficult) to make the decision if your pet is visibly suffering and in pain. But DM is insidious in its painlessness. And it made making the decision....so much more difficult. And when you said the part about the Guilt. My God, the Guilt. It's unbearable and it's crushing. And using their appetite as the only judge of whether your pet is okay or not? That was so important to hear! Because Snowy would always get so excited for food! And seeing the excitement in his eyes made me second guess myself countless times and just added/adds to the guilt. But as you said, we HAVE to look at other things, and I knew that the decision I had to make, was the right one. By far the hardest decision I've ever had to make in my life btw. Lastly, your 3 personal beliefs you shared, REALLY helped too. "There is clearly something significant going on that is making you seriously think about Euthanasia", and "Euthanasia may be the last final act of kindness you can show a sick pet by ending their suffering". I often forget this when the waves of Grief and Guilt hit. Especially the Guilt. But after the tears and sobs I just shed, I feel better. So thank you for giving me that. I feel like now I'll be able to find my way back up to the surface when those waves hit again. Thank you for the comfort, understanding and perspective you just blessed me with. I wish I found you sooner! I'm finally, truly, starting to think like I might be okay again, one day. Keep up the GREAT WORK!
I’m pleased I could help in a small way. Snowy sounds like he truly was a special soul. Take care of yourself, and I’m so sorry you had to go through this loss
@@OurPetsHealth , thank you so much Dr. Alex! 🙏🏼
My dog has the appointment Saturday she’s 10 years old. I can’t stop crying. I’m so heartbroken, and my ex left me two weeks ago, we used to live together. I’m so emotional right now. I wish dogs lived forever because they fill your heart and you theirs.
I'm so sorry. Their lives are definitely far too short 😢
I am losing my 14 year old dog today, she has stopped eating and can barely walk, she drinks water but we don't want her suffering without food. Thank you for the video.
I’m very sorry for your loss
Just took this decision with my family.
Our cat Miley had a good 16 1/2 years
Sie was always the first one to come to eat.
she stopped eating and drinking. My daughter did not want her to suffer so we went to get an examination and we ended up to have her put to sleep the same day.
They explained everything just like this video. We could stay with her in a comfortable room with calming music and give some last minute of our ❤and good bye. It was super sad 😞 but we think so too, it was the best for her.
She will always be in our ❤
RIP Miley
I'm very sorry for your loss
Thank you very much for this video!
I had to come to this decision today for my beloved Basset Hound; he was 13. He had an oral tumour that ulcerated which started bleeding…I saw a real difference in him the last couple days and finally called the vet. I could of went in that day but I delayed it a day so I could be with him and have him a nice warm meal and bath. After watching this video I feel like I did the right thing; however much it hurts my heart. I will miss you forever Frank.
I'mreally sorry for your loss 💔
I'm due to put my dog down in 3 days. I've really been struggling with this. After watching this, there is no doubt that it's best for him. Watching him struggle every day has just become unbearable. Thank you so much for sharing this YT.
I'm sorry you and your dog are going through this, it really is a difficult time but you at least now know it is the kindest decision for you to make. Take care
my kiddo has been sick since January. she’s lost over 5 lbs and she’s very small. she doesn’t eat well even though she’s on three medications, she can barely walk, isn’t able to get on my bed anymore, and can’t hold her pee or poo well. she’s suffering and I think I may have to have her put down Sunday. I’m sobbing thinking about holding her little body as they push the medication to put her to sleep but I’ll be right there with her the whole time. she’s given me 10 years of happiness and comfort, and deserves the same. I’ll plan on the day of her euthanasia taking her to a park and let her sit in the sun and eat a nice cheeseburger and some ice cream. I just want her to enjoy her last days.
Thank you for this video. A month ago I had to put to sleep my beloved companion Tzoker. Despite my deep sorrow, I would like to help other dog/cat/any pet owners in taking this difficult decision. My dog had lymphoma, he was old and having arthritis. Our last days together were very difficult but manageable. One day before he had a head stroke and a heart attack. I couldn’t believe that I would be counting the hours to put him out of his misery. He lost his sight, he couldn’t walk and eat and he was having seizures… I was also in deep pain seeing him like that. The decision was very clear to me after having done literally anything I could to provide him a perfect life. Just let me add one more point to this video. Despite the pain, be by the side of your friend until his/her last breath. It’s the greatest and ultimate act of love and respect to your loyal friend who shared a life with you and brought you happiness and unconditional true love. Never let them go alone and believe me, despite your grief you will have peace at heart ❤️
I've had to deal with this TOO many times!!!! I love my babies but I'm so sick of this part!!!! As many animals as i"ve had, I've never had to NOT put one down!!! I'm glad I was there for them however!!! I would NEVER leave them alone!!! btw,,,,this guy is great!!!
Thank you for this. Mon Sept 20th 2021 I had to make the decision to put my almost 17yr old boy to rest. He had kidney disease, early dementia, severe arthritis, cataracts, has had Prancreatice and Gastrointestinal problems. Could remember to tell me he had to go potty but would come into the house to poop. He was in pain with his arthritis even tho I had him on a pain shot, wobbled to walk and sometimes fell. I struggled to make the decision because he ate very good, he drank alot of water but I know it was because of his kidneys. He started walking around in a circle thru the house, from the kitchen thru the dining room, and living room back thru the kitchen. I couldn't take him for a walk outside but he could do that in the house practically non stop! My struggle was he was eating good, he doesn't have a voice on the choice, we as humans don't even get to end our struggle even if we want too, but we can end theirs in 2 seconds! I'm still feeling guilty at my loss, and decision to end his pain and confusion! My sweet boy was my Trucker dog since he was 11 mos old! Almost made it to 17 yrs. Longest pet I've ever had! I knew one or the other problems he was suffering would get worse before the other and he was suffering each of them in some way. But its hard to deal with the guilt of am I selfish that maybe he doesn't want to go yet? That ending his life is just easier to stop the daily care of his needs? I Love Him. We get to hang on and suffer till God takes us, but we can end an animal with no problem! Thats my minds dilemma! Did I do the right thing? I'm still not sure, but I'm mourning and can't think, but its too late now. All I can say is I'm sorry my boy, I'm sorry Theodore mommy loves you, don't be mad at me. Rest in Peace and run like you did as a puppy. 😢💔✝️🛐😔
I am going through the same and I know exactly how you feel. I had to put my beloved dog down 2 days ago. He was with me for almost 14 years. He's been I'll since He was 8 (DCM, heart problems) but still outlived all his siblings. It was getting worse and worse with his health and I finally made the decision to put him to sleep forever, before something really bad happens and he bleeds internally or something like that. I did a at-home euthanization and I was with him till the very last second. And know I am dying of guilt, shame and grief. Was ist too early? Did we miss something? Could he lived longer? Was it painful for him to get the injection? And all these question eating up my mind and soul... It will get better by time, but right now I am in a very bad place.
@@DasYpsilon I wonder if doing the right thing ever feels right in the mind or heart. My Theodore might have had a few more months, maybe, but I'm not sure sometimes. Animals have no voice to tell us when its time. I think it will take my mind a long time to not feel guilty. I'm just learning to live with it and make peace
I do think that animals live in the moment and they're fine with what happens and just trust us. I do believe that, you and me, made the right decision. It was a love-decision.
@@DasYpsilon yes it was. But still hurts.
I’m taking the sweetest boy ever for his last car ride today. It’s breaking my heart....but he has lived a long and happy life
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you can remember the good times
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you. It was peaceful and sweet. He is chasing balls again and I have a lifetime of memories
Still have a sense of guilt regarding me making that decision... I'll never get over it.
Very helpful. I've listened to it numerous times. My dog had a good death. A few problems finding the vein, but he had "old man veins." He went to sleep, was snoring, then the vet administered the OD. 13 years he loved me and I loved him.
Sorry for your loss. You're right, what better way to go though than simply falling asleep. If we love them, letting them go like this when it's their time is a great kindness, however difficult it is for us. Take care
I’ve been watching several videos and this is one of the best videos I’ve viewed so far to help me cope with my loss. I made the difficult decision to let my Zack go two weeks ago. He was eating and drinking but wasn’t the same. He had brain cancer and rapidly declined.
I'm glad I could help just a little during such a difficult time
Please help me!!!! My dog has a brain tumor and we are putting her down in two days and I am not sure to do it or not, my dos is 18 years old and also eating and drinking water! What makes you decide to let your baby go?? Please I need some light
@@angiesubiaolivo1972 My Zack was 14yrs and he declined really fast. In a matter of two weeks. It started with a tumor in his mouth then it effected his eye. He went blind and then he started having multiple seizures. My vet told me his blood results turned out elevated white blood count and anemia. My boy wasn’t the same. It was the hardest thing I had to do. I miss him so much. I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s so hard.
@@bernadettec8456 thank you very very much for sharing your experience with me, I can’t stop crying, I was in total denial until yesterday! I’m so sorry for your loss too :(
@@angiesubiaolivo1972 You’re welcome. Your pet has had much love and well taken care of to be an amazing 18yrs.
Been struggling with this decision as well, my 13 year old Weimaraner has been my best friend. Making it even more difficult is my wife passed away just over 3 years ago....😢😢
One week early or a day late 🤔
I don't want to let him go....
Thank you.
Think about it this way:
I’d say to them ‘you’re just going for a sleep,’ when it’s time or I would have an amazing last few hours with your pet. Try not to be upset, your dog or cat might notice you are bothered and be slightly scared that something will happen or has happened. Try to stay calm and happy. Most vets say it is a very good idea to ‘stay by your pet’s side while they are being put to sleep,’ this is true and it really helps your pet feel comfortable and less stressed and frightened of the situation they are in
Agreed, I heard that crying can make it feel to your pet as if you’re upset. Remember, it’s about your pet in those last moments and it needs to feel comfortable. Cry afterwards if possible.
This has been so helpful... It's been a week since we said goodbye to Lucas... our sweet 14 year old Cocker Spaniel. It wasn't an easy decision at all. Lucas loved life and up until the last 2 weeks, seemed happy and still had a good quality of life in spite of being deaf, having two bad hind legs and having a large tumor in his lung. He still love to walk, and play ball albeit much less than in younger years.
Two weeks prior to saying goodbye, he was having significant trouble breathing and was in deep distress. We took him to an all night vet and they recommended putting him down. A chest xray revealed that his airway/lungs were significantly blocked. We asked to see him before making a decision. He was in an oxygen chamber and when he saw us, began pawing for us. He looked like the same old Lucas. Hours later, we took him home. The next 2 weeks were tough and we hung on to him too long. He had a seizure last Tuesday May 21st and that's when we knew it was time but still I had extreme difficulty making the call. I was out of town and flew home to be with Lucas and my wife. Thursday night, he had an attack and couldn't breathe well. We were giving him gabapentin which calmed him down and basically kept him sleeping most of the time. We couldn't keep medicating him and we couldn't stand to see him suffer anymore. Friday, May 24th, Lucas died at home with the assistance of a caring vet.
I've been struggling with my decision and have been haunted by replaying him dying while we held and loved on him. That's what lead me to this video. We're still mourning and experiencing a lot of grief but every day, it gets less painful. Watching this video brings me to two conclusions. 1) We waited too long and caused Lucas a lot of suffering. 2) We did the right thing in the end.
My thoughts go out to all of you who are also dealing with losing a furry family member.
Don't be too hard on yourself. It's an incredibly difficult time and it's easy to look back with the benefit of hindsight. Let yourself grieve and try to remember all of the good times. Take care
Thank you so much for this video. Our golden retriever has been gagging over the last few weeks and then very rapidly lost strength in her back legs. Five days ago we took her to the vet and x-rays revealed she is over come with cancer. She is unable to get up and we have to help her get up to go to the bathroom. My 12 year old daughter is heartbroken and doesn't understand why we need to put her down when she wags her tail so much when we talk to her. We've made the appointment for tomorrow and this will be a great video to watch with her beforehand.
Sorry you and your poor dog are going through this. It is always very upsetting even when you know it's the right decision to make for your dog and you should expect your daughter (and yourselves) to grieve just as for any other family member. Take care
This is so difficult.
Today is the hardest day of my life. I love you forever Zack and we will be together in our hearts and soul.
I’m saying goodbye in two days and I know it’s for the best but it is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to go through. She is my best friend and I never thought it would happen this suddenly. Her liver is failing and she still tries to follow me everywhere and I’m terrified to come home and not see her running to greet me. Thank you for this video.
I'm very sorry that you are both going through this
@@OurPetsHealth thank you for your response. She passed away last night, a bit earlier than we initially planned. Her health declined very quickly and we brought her to the closest emergency vet where she was finally relieved of her suffering. I am so grateful for all the people who perform this act of mercy, they see us at our absolute lowest and they still have so much kindness and patience for both pet and owner. I’m planning on sending the office a thank you card soon, they deserve it.
It's been 3 weeks since I had to put my baby bear to sleep. It was one of the hardest decisions I ever had to make in my life he was 16 and he was much more than a pet to me. I swear he knew what I was thinking. I miss him so much. I feel guilty for having to put him to sleep but I knew it was the right thing to do I cry everyday.
I'm so sorry for your loss
I went through this today. Find a vet who will work with you to make the experience as peaceful as possible. I spent several days helping my elderly mom's nearly 16 year old dog dealing with seizures and convincing mom to let go. That said, I would agree with the idea of sending a pet off a day earlier than later. The last two days were really tough as I helped a great little dog deal with seizures and loss of physical control, while convincing my elderly mother to let her go. The clinic was great, with a quiet room, explaining every moment, so I could be with Maggie until the end.
I’m sorry for your families loss but pleased to hear the process was made as easy as possible by your vet. If you could let them know how much you valued their care too I know it would mean a lot to them as it can be a really emotional time for veterinary staff as well as. I hope your mum is getting over her loss too.
Grief is love that has nowhere to go.😢
Lost my 16 years old jack Russel this Tuesday she was declining in health struggling to breath and walk... Had her since 6 weeks old so sad atleast she can rest in piece...
I’m so sorry for your loss
I was advised by my vet it would be best to put my cat to sleep a week ago. He was 18-1/2, had lost a lot of weight, his back snd hi d kegs were all bony. I was told he most likely had diabetes because he was always eating and never putting on weight. He would drink a lot and pee often. He had a hard time walking most days but occasionally would still jump off my bed which made me so scared he would break a leg! I had him since he was 8 weeks old. I picked him out of the litter. He was my best friend and helped me get through y Dad passing away a few years ago. My heart is broken and I feel so guilty. I keep asking myself if I did the right thing. 😭💔 I've never gone through this before and because of covid I had to do it alone. I just miss him and his cuddles so much. He was the sweetest pet Ive ever had.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
RIP Axke. 2007 to 2021. You were " once in a lifetime" I'll always 💘 u. Goodbye good boy. 😢
I don’t wanna do it but I have to! He has to be in peace even though leaves me grieving😭😭😭😭😭😭
Our girl is 14 she has cyst that won’t heal and she’s not sleeping and seems to moan a lot.
But still is very affectionate and sweet.
Most of the time she sleeps and falls.
I have to do this to my 12 yrs old bull in the next couple of days... This is the hardest decision I'll have to make in my life. Heartbreaking so much... can't stop crying for him... 😢😢😢
I'm so sorry. Allow yourself to grieve and try to remember all the good times you shared ❤️
Why does my algorithm seem to wanna instill fear only sometimes.
In my heart of hearts I know my 15 yo JRT is ready. Her appointment is tomorrow. I just wanted to watch this video to know I'm making the right decision😥😭🐶🐕💔
I'm so sorry you and your dog are facing this
Thank You, I needed that. I notice my dog wasn't eating much but was very thirsty, then he night before last she suddenly was panting, hiding her face in the corners of the house, legs gave out and could not walk, muscle spasms and trembling in stomach and was listless. When I got her to the Animal Hospital in the morning she started vomiting and almost had a seizure, her blood pressure was low and she had a fever. I have no idea what was wrong with her and it's driving me crazy not knowing what it was because I didn't have tests done, I just euthanized her to put her out of her misery instead of finding out to see if she could be saved. When you mentioned Arthritis which she had, I now know that I made the right decision not bothering with the tests. Still wish I knew what caused all that as it was all so sudden and she was fine earlier in the day other than not having an appetite.
Thank you, this video helped greatly. The closer the matter of fact comes the more you reach out for some comfort and reassurance. This video gave that to me.
Thank you.
It's a very difficult time for sure. Take care
We have the appointment Thursday and I feel so much pain and guilt 😢 My dog is 13 years and 4 months old and the only reason why out doctor suggested euthanasia is because my dog struggles for years from dry eye sickness 😢 We are fighting with this stupid sickness for almost 6 years and I don’t have the resources to help her anymore 😔 What breaks me is that she seems ok,she eats and drinks very good but her eyes are like nothing I’ve seen before 💔
Thank you for this video, it helps. I am watching a lot of these sort of videos as my old dog is declining, as sad as it is it helps to listen to some different vets talk about this end of life quandary. Thanks again.
Sorry to hear you're going through this
This is the best advice and information I have found we had to put my girl to rest last week and I have been struggling with if we did the right thing my husband was certain that we did but I just wanted to hold on to her. I can say after watching this that we helped end her suffering . My heart is broken and trying to go forward without her but it is so hard. She was my best friend she was loving ,loyal she relaxed me and I her I will cherish the life we had together .
I'm very sorry for your loss
That's a hard subject to hear it's not easy letting go I've always been a sentimental person. I hope my dog Bigfoot cancer goes into remission.. he is really lucky because my vet said he should have passed away over a year ago and he is still going but having some difficulty but I'm trying to work it out and hopefully get through it. Thanks Dr Alex 👍
It's not an easy topic to listen to but an important one none-the-less so that we are all prepared when the time does come. Hopefully it's still some time away
The last bit of this made more sense to than most of the make believe videos I've been watching lately .
What an outstanding video. It's very thorough and informative, and has given my heart a lot of comfort tonight. I am so grateful for you.
I'm pleased I could help a little at such a difficult time
@@OurPetsHealth wow!!! ty
Thank you so much. I needed to hear all of this.
I felt so guilty that i have come to a decision to euthanise my 16 year old dog Fluffy. I search for a video to know if i'm doing the right thing as she was suffering from dementia . She was paralysed a year ago but her appetite was good. I kept her going for a year but her quality of life was deteriorating. Her night becomes day and her day is night. We cared for her until it was too painful to see her cry all night. Nothing I did could calm her down. Your video helped me make the right decision to let her go. I still feel so sad and guilty to have to do this but i feel it was time not to prolong her suffering . Thank you for your video.
I'm sorry for your loss. It is always such a difficult decision even when you know it is the right one
We had to put our 16 year old friend today, It's been 8 hours since we buried him but before we did so I put my hand in his snout and I swear I could feel a very light breeze; my biggest fear is that we buried him alive; what I'm telling myself is that he didn't suffer as he was still sleeping and we helped him pass away by burying him, if he was indeed still alive then he must've ran out of oxygen while still uncounsious under all that dirt.
Thank you for you video I feel a little better because everything you said is helping realize that it really was the best decision for him, he stopped eating two days prior to his euthanasia but he was still able to walk and drink water, sadly on the third day everything hit him like a sack of bricks, vomit, pee, dehydration, couldn't stand up on his own and his back legs weren't working anymore.
Your vet would definitely not have let you take your dog away until they were 110% sure that their heart had stopped, so don't be thinking that you buried him alive. I can assure you, you didn't.
My dog was having multiple seizures out of nowhere, he had about 10 from 2am to 10am. He wouldn't respond to anything, just walked around until he hit something or got too tired. The last couple hours he could barely stand, I would call his name and he just sat there. After a couple more seizures we decided it was best to put him down, to stop his suffering. This was earlier this morning, and I hate myself for not being in there before he passed, I was just a minute too late. Maybe he could've recovered, I hope I didn't make the wrong decision. RIP Rusty you were the best most loving dog I could ever want, you deserve way better.
Really sorry to hear about Rusty. Whenever there are seizures one after the other it is always serious and I'm sure you made the right decision for him. Take care of yourself and remember the good times you had together
@@OurPetsHealth I just wish I could have had better final moments. The last few hours I had with him were horrible, and after every seizure he just got farther away, I try to find peace in the fact that he is in a good place now, better than going through the suffering he was. Thank you for responding, your words mean so much to me.
Chris, you have a serious problem and need to address why you are making incredibly upsetting comments here. Go troll somewhere else
Just had my baby PTS a few days ago and am heartbroken.
He was 14 and had severe heart failure, still able to do alot of things and eating fine but he had a terrible cough that wouldnt stop and was starting to have more bad days then good. On that last day he was coughing and staggering and refused his breakfast and I just knew he was tired of it all. We had a lovely walk that morning, cuddled on the couch all afternoon and he had chicken for tea then I took him to the vets who confirmed he was struggling and not getting enough oxygen.
I could of tried emergency treatment but it would of been for me....not him, he was ready to go. I held him in my arms and told him I loved him and let him go. I dont feel guilty as it felt like he had struggled enough but I just miss him so, so much.
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My 14 year old male schnauzer has had stomach issues aniexty he was in stage 2 kidney failure he was on medications then he started falling over falling out of bed seizures was told he had k9 dementia he would get up at night and pace the floor and get lost in our room behind things he stopped wanting to eat and drink then he had a bad seizure so I made the decision and took him in August 26 2.00 and set him free I tried to stay calm didn't want him upset he went very peacefully it broke my heart into a million pieces but it was the right thing the vet said he was dehydrated and had chronic kidney failure knowing he isnt in pain or afraid any more brings my heart peace rest in peace my little buddy Jarvis 💙🐾🐾💙
Needed this today. Tonight we let our girl go away..... Heart broken. But its time! Thanks for the helpers.
I’m sorry for your loss
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you! Quite literally the hardest thing we have done and man does it hurt.
Thank you.. This is so very helpful...Much appreciated ...so kind & thoughtful...
I'm pleased it helped. Sorry you have to be considering this question
I just had to do it for the 2nd dog. It is the hardest decision I have ever had to make. Don't want to be too soon or too late, but sooner is better. I will miss you Phoebe forever and always.
I'm so sorry for your loss 💔
Found my girl as a stray ten years ago but she has an enlarged heart and it could be any day now.
Just put my sweet old guy down. Never cried so much for anyone. Days of crying. He could hardly walk anymore. Quality over quantity but he was over 14. So special and spoiled. Miss him.
I'm so sorry for your loss
@@OurPetsHealth thank you 🥰
I raised Duke from a puppy. He's got a growth in his mouth that's just getting bigger, I've had him for 14 years. My little guy's saved my life, and helped me with my PTSD and depression all these years. I really don't wanna be fuckin ready to do it.
I’m really sorry you’re both going through this. Take care of yourself and reach out for support
My dog has recently been diagnosed with kidney failure. We have him on a prescribed diet which he is eating. In the last couple of days my wife and I have noticed that he is doing circles. We are now thinking he may be suffering with dementia. He is around 14 years old. I don't know his exact age as he was a rescue dog. We are keeping a close eye on him. I know that time is getting close and the painful decisions is getting closer. Not looking forward to it one bit. We will both be devastated.
I’m sorry you’re all going through this. Making the right decision for him will bring you comfort in the future, even though it will be very hard at the time. Take care
Thank you. Your three points make a lot of sense.
Glad it was helpful at such a difficult time
@@OurPetsHealth I have watched it a few times. My kitty is hanging in there so it’s helpful to check back to your advice. Thanks so much
Thank you for making this video.
We had to put our 14 year old dog down yesterday . I would have and did all I could to prolong his life but about 20 min after he was put to sleep realized I waited to long . I did take into consideration his quality of life but ultimately it was my own selfish love that made him suffer . Some situations you can step back from and look at it in a different light but when it comes to a pet it’s about impossible while they are still here .
Thank you, this video is fantastic. I am still struggling with the idea of euthenasing my cat, but this does much in terms of allaying any guilt I have, in worrying that it's too soon.
So long as the decision is made with love and your cats best interest at heart, you can't go too far wrong.
thank you for helping me make this hard decision. Your final Three....
I'm sorry you're going through this process
Thank you so much... I am about to decide to euthinize my pet dog who has been with us for 15 years... it hurts....but you are right... he is suffering... and better to think on what is going to be best for him. Thank you again.
I'm sorry you are having to make this decision. take care of yourself as well
@@OurPetsHealth Thank you. My beloved pet has tumor/cancer. Our vet had already given us some options such as operations and all with no guarrantee. I do not believe in euthanasia, but I have to think logically somehow and decided to do some research. That is when I encountered your video. You are so right. :-) However, I got selfish for a little bit and prolonged his life for 3 days, honestly, not for him but for me. Eventually I had to let go.
Just want to share my experience.
I really appreciate your video... simple, on point, gentle yet very truthful.
God bless you as you help other pets and pet owners worldwide. :-)
Thanks for Your Nice words
Thank you
What was holding me back was the appetite was good but there were a lot of bads. In my case a gradual decline suddenly turned into a rapid collapse. That caught me off guard and delayed the decision.
I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you can remember the good times
I wish we could be put down at this point. Why do we have to suffer for years.
My beautiful dog had been declining the past years so slowly that this last week I didnt realize of some problems she had until it was too late. She still looked happy at the begining of the week and declined very fast through the days. Took her to doctor and was diagnosed with lung cancer. I didn't give her proper euthanasia, thinking she still could spend the weekend at home before letting her go. She died at home but i made her suffer. I feel horrible (my first dog friend that trusted me). Thanks for this video. I am Still learning how to help them better.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself about what happened
Wow, never new how hard is was going to be to say goodbye to one of my best friend! I took my dog to the vet yesterday, and found out he has stomach cancer, and his kidneys are failing, taking him to get euthanized today, and i am struggling so much😭😭😭😭😭
going throught this now most honest yet
I’m terrified. I have no clue what to do. My dog, at only 8 years old, has recently started drinking copious amounts of water, her stomach is distended and full of air, and she’s been experiencing seizures. My veterinarian said that she may have Cushing’s Disease. She’s not really happy anymore, and she doesn’t play or go upstairs. I have a hard time making the decision, and I don’t know if it’s the right time or not.
So much love on this thread my dog is also dying has a descended stomach/heavy breathing I got a headache from thinking about euthanizing pray for me because I think today is the day☹️🙏
@@dextersmith3204 I get what you mean. I’ll keep you in my prayers!! Just remember to stay strong for them if today is the day. I had to euthanize my dog a few days ago, and it was the hardest decision to make. But looking back on it, she was in so much pain, and she was suffering from congestive heart failure and nobody knew it. She definitely had Cushing’s Disease :(
@@Am-vq7rr I couldn't pull the trigger when he sleeps he breathes normally So for now I'm going to wait thank you for your prayers though brother🙏👍
I'm saying goodbye to my boy bestfriend today ... I'm 1h30 away from the event .m. I don't want it to happen ...even tho I know it's better for him ... And cause of Covid ... I can't be there ... the vet is the only one allowed with my dog... that's freaking harder ...
i'm sorry for your loss