Started crying once you spoke about the widow and never having the opportunity to do simple tasks for your spouse. My fiancé appreciated me opening up and telling him about this video.
This is so true. I've been married to my husband for 8 years. The first years were rough. It's funny to hear someone talk about these things on youtube. I can definitely relate. But we are over comers. God is so good.
I must know. Do you agree with the "never tell your husband no"? I cringed so hard when I heard that. Yes I agree our bodies belong to eachother once married. However, I think that can also cause the women to harbor resentment towards her husband. And guilt if she is truly exhausted and wants to delay.
+Bea H. Hey Bea. I really wanted to have a nice and polished answer for that but,truth is, even up to this very night (lol) I have not gotten to the point where I never deny my husband. we have 4 kids together. it's late and by the end of the night..after everything that has just occurred..do you really think I'm trying to deal with that ? child please. I know that sounds terrible but. you know,there's been plenty of times where I try and be understanding because I know men are wired differently then us, and I guess basically they need it. but to answer the question, I can't say I never deny him. and I have felt the guilt as well. would love help on this issue personally. probably the only major issue we have in our marriage .
Go Team Henry The only time I see it being wrong is if its a deeper reason for denial that isn't being shared. Or if your denying on a frequent basis. That's a problem that should be addressed. I think sex should be equally enjoyed and pleasing to both partners and not just done out of duty. I personally can't imagine having sex knowing the other person isn't enjoying it. And I'm sure God didn't intend us to take advantage of each other in that way either. But you should check out www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com . She gives amazing sex advice on how to get in the mood more frequently and make it enjoyable.
It's taken awhile from me to come from seeing your Instagram to following you, to watching you're videos..I truly can relate to the word that God has given you and value you sharing your own experiences for the growth of the faith in others..God has been fighting with me and for me during a period of silence and a season of singleness. I'll stop with the essay, God bless you.
God has used you to renew my mind. I felt so justified in my what about me situations when i felt overworked, overlooked and under appreciated. I have taken key points to move forward in my growth. kindly requesting if you'd upload keeper of the home message. Any chance you'll be coming to minister in the UK? Love and blessings to your family.
Jazz well I'd rather say..."things to know as a life skill" in essence, love without expectations; living a life that's more of God and less of yourself and letting go of offence!
Started crying once you spoke about the widow and never having the opportunity to do simple tasks for your spouse. My fiancé appreciated me opening up and telling him about this video.
This is so true. I've been married to my husband for 8 years. The first years were rough. It's funny to hear someone talk about these things on youtube. I can definitely relate. But we are over comers. God is so good.
I must know. Do you agree with the "never tell your husband no"? I cringed so hard when I heard that. Yes I agree our bodies belong to eachother once married. However, I think that can also cause the women to harbor resentment towards her husband. And guilt if she is truly exhausted and wants to delay.
+Bea H. Hey Bea. I really wanted to have a nice and polished answer for that but,truth is, even up to this very night (lol) I have not gotten to the point where I never deny my husband. we have 4 kids together. it's late and by the end of the night..after everything that has just occurred..do you really think I'm trying to deal with that ? child please. I know that sounds terrible but. you know,there's been plenty of times where I try and be understanding because I know men are wired differently then us, and I guess basically they need it. but to answer the question, I can't say I never deny him. and I have felt the guilt as well. would love help on this issue personally. probably the only major issue we have in our marriage .
Go Team Henry The only time I see it being wrong is if its a deeper reason for denial that isn't being shared. Or if your denying on a frequent basis. That's a problem that should be addressed. I think sex should be equally enjoyed and pleasing to both partners and not just done out of duty. I personally can't imagine having sex knowing the other person isn't enjoying it. And I'm sure God didn't intend us to take advantage of each other in that way either. But you should check out www.tolovehonorandvacuum.com . She gives amazing sex advice on how to get in the mood more frequently and make it enjoyable.
Go Team Henry
+Bea H. Does it change your opinion about "Never say no" knowing it's in the Bible? Just asking.
Great message and a good reminder of what marriage is.
It's taken awhile from me to come from seeing your Instagram to following you, to watching you're videos..I truly can relate to the word that God has given you and value you sharing your own experiences for the growth of the faith in others..God has been fighting with me and for me during a period of silence and a season of singleness. I'll stop with the essay, God bless you.
dang I remember listening to this few months ago but it really is speaking to me know. thanks heather
heather is an amazing depiction of a godly black woman that is gentle and striving to be submissive. #futurewifegoals
she is.
This is everything I need in this season.
Lord knows that I needed this - thank you Jesus
God bless you Heather. This message is exactly what I needed.
Heather you be on it!
I always listen to your teaching. always learnt something new thank you
this has blessed me in so many ways
God has used you to renew my mind. I felt so justified in my what about me situations when i felt overworked, overlooked and under appreciated. I have taken key points to move forward in my growth.
kindly requesting if you'd upload keeper of the home message.
Any chance you'll be coming to minister in the UK?
Love and blessings to your family.
Thanks so much for sharing this. Very powerful message
Thank you for this message Heather! Continue this gift that God has blessed you with. :) I'm so happy to have herd this it was much needed.
I love you Heather, you are amazing. God bless you and your marriage and your family ❤
#thingstoknowwhilesingle 👌💖
Yup sis I was thinking the same thing
yesss
Jazz well I'd rather say..."things to know as a life skill" in essence, love without expectations; living a life that's more of God and less of yourself and letting go of offence!
Needed to hear this💖...
Jesus!!! This was such a blessing
This was awesome. Thanks so much for sharing
Great message!! I needed to hear this message! xoxo
Thank You Lord
You spoke right to my heart. Amazing message.
when is the next married retreat?
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"Being the keeper of the home"...will that be uploaded as well?
I would like to see that as well. ☺♡
+michelle king yes! We are working on uploading it now!
Pinky Promise Movement Inc Awesome! These videos have been such a blessing! ♡
Thank you Lord