Public Speaking used to scare the hell out of me, but then..

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @shivaappanna
    @shivaappanna 4 года назад +152

    Attack with a smile, conquer with the kindness👌🏻. My Gosh. Hats off🙏🏻😊.

    • @MM-vk6gm
      @MM-vk6gm 4 года назад +2

      Yours way of speaking very nice it's very good useful to me to improve my skills but while your speaking it's comes for subtitles it will good ,I think .

  • @shivaniparmar8923
    @shivaniparmar8923 4 года назад +136

    When I speak in front of people I feel
    1. My heartbeat gets faster and my whole face gets red.
    2. Hessitation and nervousness
    3. Fear to be laughed at
    In my class when I had to speak in front of people I felt like my heart will come out of my bod. You know my heartbeat used to get faster and the whole face is red and mouth used to feel dry and it still happens to me till date. When somebody ask me a question and I have to give a reply I freeze and my english sound like broken english. It was so embarassing. Because when I see my classmates speaking English fluently I used feel like shit. I used to to cry but I knew one thing that crying would not solve anything.
    So I promise myself I will improve not for anybody but for myself. So that in future when I will get a opportunity to speak in front of people I feel confident in my english and myself. And so that I can help other people and you know and tell them there was a time when my english was not so good but here i am speaking in front of you all and anything is possible and we Just have to made up our mind and tell ourselves I will achieve this and nothing can stop me. This is my promise to myself😊👍
    Thank you mam

    • @devendrapal4272
      @devendrapal4272 4 года назад +10

      Hey! you are good in writing. So one day you will be a good speaker also 😊👍

    • @ankitkhanna4283
      @ankitkhanna4283 4 года назад +8

      Hey..hi
      I am very impressed with your massages how wonderful your writting, it shows how understandable you are, i always saw there are very few peolpe who are not shere their stroy bcoz most of the people wondered ashame to share tha story...but you did well n write well also ...

    • @tanveerunboxing5333
      @tanveerunboxing5333 4 года назад +6

      its really same to same as aleena said i litterally happen in starting few days... when u trying to speack and cnt find enough words to explain our feelings before odience its really hurts a lot but there lived also a hidden pain caused by this situation when we feel wordless to express our thoughts and try and try many more times to speak fluently.. its really so amazing to feel this pain.. you will laughed at me perhaps if you will listen as it happend with me.. when i joined speacking classes after some few days of disscussion classes although i was good in perormance to discuss with guys but when i was called without any information on stage and my name was called by the anker i was really shocked i litterally never forgett that moments of my life.. i was not beliving how someone called me without informing me about this.. i had to give speech before a lot of students and odiences.. when that voice asked me to come on stage a diliver a speech amond them.. i was really shocked but it cant be avert.. so i had to stand up and went there on stage the each and every body was watching my face i was felt so nervous to stand there then i only focused myself to avoid those thing which was happing.. and i start my speech and diliverd my speech infront of them i was shearing but i made me belived that i have to do it.. and i deliverd the speech and then came back to my bench.. that was my first moment on stage infront of a lot of people and odiences.. it really sacared me but those moment gave a srongest potential to speack fluent english before any people.. u cant belived after then i worked hard as much as that i really own myself stolen and prevent slumber of my nights it was happening with a crazy feeling day by day regularly.. and after then.. and by working hard now i feel better to speck among the croud or people or adiences or before stage.
      so the main thing was.. to speack fluently english i got my self fully fallen in crazy love to speak fluent and a profeshional english speacker. this was my story to learn english.😊

    • @artistrygirls5716
      @artistrygirls5716 4 года назад +4

      For learning english...i always used to write my story in a diary...so i thought...that i was good..bcz i was abloe to write...but i never spoke in english to anyone...one day i call my best friend...and in middle talk she used simple english...and then i was silent...i didn't tell any single word to her...and the day i realise i was not good at all...bcoz in my life nobody talk me wid english..there was no need of that...i realise writing is different from spoking...so i decide to improve my spoken english..for this firstly i started to learn english by listening..so i found ur utube channel in my feed and i subscribed your channel 1 month before...and then i talk to myself...my younger brother helps me a lot he also talk me in english...i love your english😍😍😍...u use simple english...but amazing...ur confidence..😍 i just want ur level of speaking...and thank u soooo much...u doing great...it helps to motivate me whenever i see ur vdo...😄😄😄

    • @mangasumitha9693
      @mangasumitha9693 4 года назад +3

      Mam, exactly same problem here.could you share me your email id plz.i want to talk with you

  • @steavesteave2689
    @steavesteave2689 4 года назад +3

    Initially I failed many times during public speaking but then I started to succeed .. following are couple of learnings based on my own experience,
    1. Practice on subject that you gonna talk. The more you practice more you will be comfortable with your audience.
    2. Keep talking every day in group of your friends(just casual talk but it will help later). Untill and unless you are able to talk in your friend's group you can't give a speech in front of big crowd or class when the time comes.
    3. The most important point, if you have not followed first two points then better don't try to give a speech when the day come. You can basically make any excuse to not give speech. It is because delivering bad speech will only make you feel guilty about yourself as that will stay in your subconscious mind And that bad speech memory will make u even more nervous when u want to give public speach next time.
    4. Share your thoughts about any of pain or guilt with your parents and you best genuine friends. This will help you to feel better and also help in public speaking.
    5. Take it easy even if you fail, life is big and it will give many more chance.
    6. Start with small speech and once you become comfortable then go for long speech. Remember one step at a time.
    Thank you guys🙂🙂

    • @TheSaurabhbang
      @TheSaurabhbang 4 года назад +1

      You nailed it my friend !!!! Thanks for sharing 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @steavesteave2689
      @steavesteave2689 4 года назад +2

      Thanks Saurabh... I liked this video and thought of sharing my personal experience 🙂

  • @shaikismail915
    @shaikismail915 4 года назад +6

    Basically I am Mechanical Engineer but I am working as vice principal at school.I am pure Hyderabadi too.We engineers don't appreciate people very easily,we only appreciate people if they have done wonders or they are absolutely talented and intelligent.I am here to appreciate you that you are most talented lady and trying hard to achieve something different which is a huge task for you.My best wishes to you.I pray to Allah to help you in achieving your targets and make you a helpful lady for the society.
    if you goes on continuing this hard work and maintaining consistency then definitely you are going to achieve your targets and fulfill your desires.Keep going don't stop.Always choose most needed and helpful topics about present circumstances.

  • @soundaryaswain5018
    @soundaryaswain5018 4 года назад +3

    Hi ma'am.I used to watch your videos and literally I love it so much. You are so genuine to everyone's problem .I also believe that a teacher is now was a student then and you completely justify this.ok I am sharing what I have gone through .First of all it was a seminar in my college and I had researched the toppic very well and I was ready for that but at the time when my name was announced I was getting nervous and my legs started shivering automatically and my tongue became dry but I stood strongly ,I fought with myself to stand there and after my seminar was over I felt I did this but what I could feel that I had not given my 100% and from that day I am feeling so shamed and under- confident that I could not give my 100%..
    But after watching your video I am feeling so motivated and I am trying and I am following your path and I can see the difference , it's working and one day I will definitely recreate myself and will definitely be a good public speaker and you will be there behind me.#love

  • @soumisen5293
    @soumisen5293 4 года назад +1

    Public speaking is really just like monster to me. while trying to speak with my friends or professors or somebody else(though it's very often) I become so nervous that I can't express myself properly. At that moment I feel so embarrasing that I can't explain in words. I am continuously scared to be judged and also a thought that continuously moving in my brain if people make fun of me. then I feel totally blank. My body starts to trembling. my face appears to be read and I feel so underconfident at the situation.then I think that I run away the place. That's why I can't speak with a good speaker.
    Despite facing a lots of problems, honestly I want to be a good speaker and I always push myself to make better version of me. you are my inspiration ma'am. From you I learn how to believe in myself and conquer my all of fear. By practising so much oneday I must be a good english speaker and I promise it to myself.
    Thank you ma'am for constantly supporting us and really I am able to learn many things from you. always stay with us Ma'am and always keep your beautiful smiling .

    • @Madarauchihagenz
      @Madarauchihagenz Год назад

      Yeah you will become a good public speaker one day there is no room for doubt

  • @brijendrarudraraju8091
    @brijendrarudraraju8091 4 года назад +11

    Aleena there's some magic in the way you say about these simple problems that people face , I enjoyed listening to you 🌻💐🎉🎊🌈

  • @syedraziullah9048
    @syedraziullah9048 4 года назад +7

    Public speaking is really scary for those who hesitate to talk in front of audience. I still remember when I was in school there was a competition of public speaking and the topic was "discipline". I was tensed at that moment but any how I was good enough to complete the task and got second position out of 7 members who participated in that competition :) and thank you ma'am for motivating us to learn english.

  • @twinsistershebaandhafsa8736
    @twinsistershebaandhafsa8736 4 года назад +26

    Kindness is a soft thing but strong enough to save someone's life!!!!!
    .
    🙃😊🙃😊🙃😊🙃😊

  • @IntellectualHeaven
    @IntellectualHeaven 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate your instinct of extending a helping hand to others. Everything can't be done to win accolades and money. Keep moving

  • @amateurindianvlogger7244
    @amateurindianvlogger7244 4 года назад +5

    You always speak from the bottom of the ❤Heart
    That's why I love watching your videos Aleena Ma'am.
    Keep doing this job as it helps us a lot.
    Thanks very much.

  • @AFKavya
    @AFKavya 4 года назад +1

    True ...your smile is frankly mind boggling...I desperately used to push myself to express my opinion on stage and also in front of the class whenever teachers ask questions ....now I think I improved a lot ...basically we must have faith on ourselves and we must be inquisitive to know about the things that are happening around us

  • @babaluchouhan7556
    @babaluchouhan7556 4 года назад +4

    What comes from the heart❣️, it reaches to the hearts ❤️ of the people..!!

  • @Arsina0208
    @Arsina0208 4 года назад +2

    Sometimes I also scared in public speaking but from now I follow this fundamental and hope for best in future speaking stay blessed be happy keep smiling ❤️❤️

  • @babaluchouhan7556
    @babaluchouhan7556 4 года назад +5

    I love public speaking, I practice it daily. Actually I'm crazy about english 😍....

  • @zoya_creation2908
    @zoya_creation2908 2 года назад +1

    Many times I thought that I'm gonna give up I can't speak English but that time I thought I'm gonna watch aleena mam videos definetly she will boost energy on me and I charged and agin I started to try again and now I'm creating more time to do my English perfect .. THANK YOU ma'am

  • @simplemepuja682
    @simplemepuja682 4 года назад +43

    When I want to tell something in front of ppl or teacher in English, I feel blanked... I feel nothing is there in my mind. My heart beats fast.I feel shivering. I become very nervous. That's why I always keep silent. I feel I should't to talk infront of ppl.
    But I will talk now. I will overcome this prblm. Because I want to be a good speaker.
    Thank you ma'am.

    • @chandanjha7475
      @chandanjha7475 4 года назад

      Same with me

    • @simplemepuja682
      @simplemepuja682 4 года назад

      My innrself always stops me to speak up. It become my habit not to speak.I feel not to speak bacause my English is poor. Be honest I afraid to talk 😞.
      Thank you ma'am for giving the chance. I identify my problem.
      Thank you for reading my comment.

    • @simplemepuja682
      @simplemepuja682 4 года назад

      @SRBPS आकाश ਆਕਾਸ਼ AAKASH Being honest most of the word meaning I don't know. I don't understand of some lines. Bt I understand one thing that u r encouraging me to speak. Thank you

    • @Ayatequran439
      @Ayatequran439 Год назад

      Same is the problem with me i literally got blanked that moment i went to stage how can i overcome that fear.. Your nervousness easily visible to the audience ..how should i practice to overcome that fear.. I'm a second year mbbs student.. can i overcome at this age

  • @vaibhavmahale5789
    @vaibhavmahale5789 4 года назад

    You are a beauty with brain.I don't know how you tend to manage to be ahead of the curve.It is captivating,entralling and mesmerizing to watch you.This video is going to mellow us out from stage fright.To be honest you are really walking in everybody's shoes to comprehend the troubles that most come across.

  • @pamatolaa
    @pamatolaa 4 года назад +9

    1- Don't know what to speak, lack of works
    2- fear that people will not be interested

    • @charuupadhyay8272
      @charuupadhyay8272 4 года назад

      Same problem

    • @MadhaviDosapati
      @MadhaviDosapati 4 года назад +3

      Whenever we feel lack of words, we shld strt making notes. So, that we wouldn’t fall short of words and wrt to if ppl r interested or not, pose few questions in between n get them engaged so that they wud automatically start focusing.

  • @amitram2585
    @amitram2585 4 года назад

    Its really nice to see u explaining everything in a simple way it seems everything is easy. Ur confident and believing urself make u completely different from other. You out and out stole the show. But in case of mine. I really scare of being embarrassed. I feel people are observing me. Thats shatter my confidence and makes me fumble. reason being i have never been in such sort of stage where i can flourishe my spoken ability. I am not able to assemble my thought. And deliver in flawless manner. some times i start and all of a sudden i chock up. And also start finding my appropriate word. And this has been problem for almost two years. Initially i thought i would overcome it. But still its a ongoing issue. I wish i could have you before to some extent i would alleviate this issue. I need to build up my confidence. i am trying to get rid of tizzyness before appearing any public speech. Keeping my negative thought away and focus on my positive outlook. Tkank u mam for being so kind with us. Wish u best of luck.

  • @pareshdalbe
    @pareshdalbe 4 года назад +10

    earlier days of my college i was depressed frm my seminars speech can't face to talk at stage infront of many peoples well in war we hve 2 options fight or die so i learned from my mistakes & i m still learning.

    • @MadhaviDosapati
      @MadhaviDosapati 4 года назад

      Great, infact I feel learning is a continuous thing.

  • @digitallife7638
    @digitallife7638 4 года назад

    I view several videos from several mentors. But your videos are really stand out.. A magical connection with audience...

  • @harshitsharma9357
    @harshitsharma9357 4 года назад +20

    I have been presenting speeches since class 5 and till now I have an.experience as a host of 16 events at school.
    I have made mic as my best friend.
    Your story is somehow similar to mine as I always urge the teachers to give me a chance. That's why I have hosted 16events at school in 3years.

    • @akankshaanand1191
      @akankshaanand1191 4 года назад +1

      Good for u

    • @harshitsharma9357
      @harshitsharma9357 4 года назад +2

      @@akankshaanand1191 Thank you Akanksha.

    • @30jannatshaikh96
      @30jannatshaikh96 4 года назад +1

      Very nice but i have a problem can you solve it i can't make proper sentence to speak in front of teacher plss help me

    • @harshitsharma9357
      @harshitsharma9357 4 года назад +4

      @@30jannatshaikh96 See Zoyna, first imagine the different situations which can occur while speaking.
      Try to make sentences and write those sentences on a piece of paper and check them for any grammatical error.
      Speak those sentences in front of the mirror or anyone whom you trust the most.
      This will build your confidence.
      Try this during lockdown period
      *I hope it will help you.*

    • @30jannatshaikh96
      @30jannatshaikh96 4 года назад +1

      Thank you so much i will definitely do this

  • @abubakarqasmi9549
    @abubakarqasmi9549 4 года назад +1

    Really really impressive... I love hearing from you, I have been working on it for a long time. I only have a problem of story telling sometimes, normally in public speaking have improved a lot

  • @akibhossainyasin9039
    @akibhossainyasin9039 4 года назад +4

    My problem is that I take so many pauses and I need the fluency! I want to talk fluently like you😇😇

    • @kamranuddinjalozaicivileng5458
      @kamranuddinjalozaicivileng5458 3 года назад

      Bro we also do the same and it is actually quite workable and proficious technique . But also try to speak english on a random topic to urself . Initially u,ll hesitate and ur mind ,ll go blank . But the more u speak english inspite of getting hesitated, the more u,ll get familiared with english words & u,ll start gaining confidence and fluency in english .

  • @BTY4499
    @BTY4499 4 года назад

    You r my one of the best English guider... I'm speechless to tell u any thing about your ending your gesture.. Your smile like.... Mellions of people life.....

  • @surbhi3829
    @surbhi3829 4 года назад +13

    My heart beats so fast that I feel that I can't stand up. My hands starts shacking I feel I can't face the audience .😔😔but from now on I am gonna face it by pushing myself towards it , I promise u mam.

    • @gouravburman3011
      @gouravburman3011 4 года назад +4

      It doesn't work all of a sudden but yeah u have to work on it over time to time.. by advising u means I know I'm saying this to myself also.. 😁

    • @anushkasingh7088
      @anushkasingh7088 4 года назад

      Same problem is with me

    • @marianasir7517
      @marianasir7517 4 года назад +5

      Don't worry u are not only the one who is facing this. At the beginning everyone go through this. Just keep one thing in your mind the whole audience is sitting in front of u to listen u. They are giving there time to u it means that u are special. The feeling of being special keeps u going. If someone from the audience laughs on u remember one thing that those who can't do anything laugh on others. Those annoying people have not achieved any thing in their life and they also want u to be nill thats why they are doing this.

  • @pratikmore8735
    @pratikmore8735 4 года назад +2

    Aleena you are the best teacher i've ever seen, the way u r teaching is very adaptive.🙂& Thanks for helping me to push myself forward.

  • @jiteshg2760
    @jiteshg2760 4 года назад +17

    Whenever someone is speaking with me in English ,automatically my confidence level goes zero and i feel nervous and bcs of this issue I can't speak fluently..but I really I want to speak with people in English only

    • @FierceSuraj
      @FierceSuraj 4 года назад +4

      Use opentalk app ,,its free and most important u will be able ro talk people whom u dont know about and u will not reveal identity also practice makes man perfect if u want be successful u have to pay price of success

    • @jiteshg2760
      @jiteshg2760 4 года назад

      Thanks@smart snaxie

    • @kishorrajdhungel1971
      @kishorrajdhungel1971 4 года назад

      Peace for paws.

  • @kushikusuma1986
    @kushikusuma1986 4 года назад +1

    Hi dear .g e .like others, I also faced so many prbms ( ofcourse still I m facing) when a matter comes to me to talk infront of people. I m very eager to learn more n more facts n things n I m learning too.till today I m having this hesitation in me wch makes me uncomfortable sometym.but the reality is i need to talk more n flawless English infront of everyone.so after watching this video I m gonna promise you tht I am definitely not going to feel shy to talk.so thnq dear for boosting up my energy.n in the next upcoming days everybody should appreciate me wen I m talking in the public.i vl grow like this. Thnq n love u loads.🌹

  • @shubhamswaraj8609
    @shubhamswaraj8609 4 года назад +15

    At the time 8:22,
    I miss my school teacher
    She exactly do same when class end and she use to give homework.
    Thanks for that feeling.....

  • @1111-h7h
    @1111-h7h 4 года назад

    The more you challenge your self ,more you put yourself under uncomfortable situation the facing your fear, the more you grow, the more you evolve

  • @kkmishra1679
    @kkmishra1679 4 года назад +4

    Hi,
    dear mam
    Yes! I'm totally with u Nd I have also fear of the public speaking.
    Love you from Jharkhand
    But Dil h Bihari

    • @vandanasonkar8188
      @vandanasonkar8188 4 года назад

      Oh ! Really
      She is a mam not ur frnd 😡😡
      Live in ur limmit
      Underdtand you better understand

  • @wonderworld6435
    @wonderworld6435 4 года назад

    What you are saying is really correct according to me. Your expression and smile and the way you are demonstrating the topic really admiring me alot. The way you explaining repeatedly pulling me to watch your videos. Great going, keep it up. Congrats.

  • @anmolsrivastava1890
    @anmolsrivastava1890 4 года назад +4

    I stammer a lot while speaking. It happens mostly when I am talking to a stranger or in front of a mass gathering.

    • @kanha3403
      @kanha3403 4 года назад +2

      Don't think of other people judging you.. Think that everyone there already likes you. Ofcourse, it won't come without practice but just stay in the moment and fear nothing... Try to talk to yourself in English.. in your mind and slowly you'll get fluent at speaking and then you won't stammer! :)

    • @MadhaviDosapati
      @MadhaviDosapati 4 года назад

      Kanha ! Well said. Infact stammering happens when we are conscious about one aspect, rather divert mind and keep maintaining eye contact

  • @meghakedia3744
    @meghakedia3744 4 года назад

    Anxiety, making blunders, and lack of patience is what i face. Having said that, they have never stopped me to be part of opportunities that come my way. But promise to work on my skills and observe others. Thank you CA aleena.

  • @kathrojvandana4064
    @kathrojvandana4064 4 года назад +11

    I literally shiver when Iam on the stage and I couldn't able to pronounce words properly

    • @mallakvinayak3715
      @mallakvinayak3715 4 года назад

      Hope you overcome this..is it still happening

    • @adusumillibhargava6794
      @adusumillibhargava6794 4 года назад +1

      Recently I have started reading "the quick and easy way to effective speaking" written by dale Carnegie ; this book is extremely helpful for beginners; try that book; I hope our teacher prefer this suggestion

    • @MadhaviDosapati
      @MadhaviDosapati 4 года назад +1

      Best way to overcome is by practicing it infront of mirror daily for atleast 5 mins and start visualizing, so that we wouldnt get panic when we face them in real.

    • @WellnessImpleMentor
      @WellnessImpleMentor 4 года назад +1

      Best way to believe in yourself...you are doubting on yourself..makebyourself believe that you are a great speaker...and do the visualization

  • @riya1453
    @riya1453 2 года назад +2

    Hi guys iam in class 12th and I have my biggest dream which is being fluent in English 💯....... actually I have the urge that helps me in improving I never gave up on anything whether I feel nervous or my confidence level got down 🙂......I used to motivate myself bcoz I Know only I can handle myself nobody else can do it for me😊 maybe iam not so good in English but I like making mistakes 😜 I know nobody here going to judge me 😅am I right? ..... okay so ya I really wanna be fluent in English....and ya iam going to achieve my dream one day 😋😋......hope my comment make u feel good 😅😅

  • @dhaneshyadav8167
    @dhaneshyadav8167 4 года назад +18

    Your english speaking skill is really outstanding
    Have u ever gone to speaking class
    Tell the truth pls mamm
    I want to speak as fluant as you speak

    • @sanketdongare6535
      @sanketdongare6535 4 года назад

      Hey .
      It's so great that you had started to talk in english or started writing and communicating in english but their is a small change in above sentence it's fluent , doesn't mean to mock you
      Good luck!!!☺️

    • @RahulSingh-yj9jh
      @RahulSingh-yj9jh 4 года назад +1

      Boss you can also speak but first practice alot speaking English is all about practice....
      Practice means speak as much as you can alone,with friends,over phone with tele caller give your mind a signal by speaking alot and learn new words everyday... atleast 5 ...by have a effective practice...

    • @ansariruhi
      @ansariruhi 4 года назад

      @@RahulSingh-yj9jheven I m also scared of public speaking.it scares me

    • @inderkumar3231
      @inderkumar3231 4 года назад

      Join calling centre or public speak class

    • @murarisharma6361
      @murarisharma6361 4 года назад

      Yeah.. We all know the power of practice as all things learned by practicing by us. If we are doing this for learning English, it'll be gonna so easy like ABC.
      After all scarecity n all of my experience I advise 'please don not give up' and shake it by speaking practice. We will learn together.

  • @arvindersingh85
    @arvindersingh85 4 года назад +2

    My first public speaking was instant. I nominated for award. Me and all office's team members were there. Our business head told to all the winners that you you have to speak at least 10 line for this achievement. Before my turn I was blank and I was to much scarred. But when I started that was great. I feel so much proud.

  • @saroshpadikkal2362
    @saroshpadikkal2362 4 года назад +4

    Whenever I go to a stage , I always feel
    Fear, less confident , nervousness
    And when I start speaking I can't think on stage, I may talk fast, or use lots of filler words or start to fumble.
    So from now on I will try my best to
    Breathe properly, smile and approach slowly when I'm on the stage, and most importantly will try to generate empathy(story telling) and show kindness towards my audience.(you can never be fearful when you are giving something)
    Thank you (😤 proud to complete my homework)

  • @Rashmi96
    @Rashmi96 4 года назад

    This is really a great idea you are carrying to a great level that nobody will come to help us this is us we can do everything for each other .......I admire this this is really amazing thankyou 🙏😊 for everything you are doing.

  • @somiyaamin7839
    @somiyaamin7839 4 года назад +10

    Salaamm alinaaa mAam❣ I m also a C.A student currently plzz want you to make dua for me.. love from Pak♥️🇵🇰

    • @rajaanwar774
      @rajaanwar774 4 года назад

      May Allah Alwys make U Happy that's my Heart duwa for u !!

  • @ashayadav4912
    @ashayadav4912 4 года назад

    I love to speak myself in public...never experienced hesitation...its fun and a good opportunity to make others listen to you

  • @aliyasarosh
    @aliyasarosh 4 года назад +32

    You look Sandeep Maheshwari's sister.

  • @harshitsharma9357
    @harshitsharma9357 4 года назад +2

    Nice message on your t-shirt.
    PEACE FOR PAWS🐾🐾🐕🐕

  • @anushkasingh7088
    @anushkasingh7088 4 года назад +5

    When I was reading comments then I noticed one thingh that is most of comments are in English and I think this is the only English channel where I found people who are really passinate to learn English and forgive me if I made mistake I am also trying to learn English

  • @hujef9465
    @hujef9465 4 года назад +2

    How sweet it is! When you say "ok"

  • @mimismagic506
    @mimismagic506 4 года назад +4

    i know this is out of context but what lipstick are you wearing? it looks really good on you

  • @abhishekkanojia1768
    @abhishekkanojia1768 4 года назад

    That's really the good thing to read each comment to understand the actual feedback..

  • @utsavparikh6913
    @utsavparikh6913 4 года назад +13

    Mam,public speaking time bolte time par kuch English word dimag me nai aate hai.. like I know my topic but kabhi kabhi esa hota hai word nai aata hai or hindi bol padte hai. So mam help me 😞👍

    • @meenumishra3467
      @meenumishra3467 4 года назад

      Mirror main eye contact kar ke bolo bohat helpful hota h. 👍😊

  • @anshnarula9033
    @anshnarula9033 4 года назад

    Thnku sister😊😊 for making this video. I am in class 11th when i was in class 10th i got a chance to speak on stage but on that time i was not prepared. But from now i'll follow your point whenever i get the chance

  • @chandansrivastava8470
    @chandansrivastava8470 4 года назад +5

    Attack with the smile really make die everyone 😊😊😊😊😊

  • @ameerkhusroo4310
    @ameerkhusroo4310 4 года назад

    Aleena you are doing great to motivate us for learning English. Having great respect for you...

  • @jibins.joseph205
    @jibins.joseph205 4 года назад +6

    My biggest problem is when someone talks in English, I freeze and hesitate..
    My 2nd problem is that if I start talking in English I can only talk 2 sentences then automatically Hindi starts coming out of my mouth... What should I do?

    • @tushargumber5655
      @tushargumber5655 4 года назад +6

      Same problem here with me also but you need to remember one thing in your mind "No pains,No gains" and "Practice makes man perfect ".These lines are enough to boost your morale and practice is the key to success

    • @silpashreekar
      @silpashreekar 4 года назад +3

      I also used to do that but blv me no need of hesitate just give smile to the person with kindly and try to talk with him or them with slowly with normal english try to speak what you want to speak no need of any magical english word be real and start with your simple english ...try this

    • @khojendra8832
      @khojendra8832 4 года назад +1

      Try talking with friends and ask them to point out when you start speaking Hindi.

    • @nidhigadani4662
      @nidhigadani4662 4 года назад +1

      I faced similar problems
      For me watching English movies and series strictly in English with subtitles, singing English songs in alone time also helped
      There are English learning apps where learners can call vaya app, calling strangers vaya app who are also trying to learn they don't pass judgment, and I also learned from their mistakes.

  • @ngsweelan8916
    @ngsweelan8916 2 года назад

    thanks a lot Aleena Rais. I really enjoy watching your video because it was from your bottom of the heart. Your speaking always influence and inspired us because your sharing was from your true experience. very useful and powerful sharing. God bless you.

  • @smrutipani895
    @smrutipani895 4 года назад +3

    Can you give a demo class of English for teaching job interview?

    • @smrutipani895
      @smrutipani895 4 года назад +2

      I fear my shit out while giving interview.
      I shivered and fumbled and somewhere in my mind it was there expert and more experienced teachers are sitting infront of me if I will do mistake I won't be get selected. That fear completely ruined my interview.
      So I promise this time I will rock my interview without fear and with glowing beam of confidence and positivity.

    • @akankshaanand1191
      @akankshaanand1191 4 года назад

      Smruti Pani best of luck Smruti

  • @govindavshetty1042
    @govindavshetty1042 4 года назад +2

    In public speaking , I fear :
    - Fumbling
    - of being judged.
    I promise I will overcome this fear by practicing public speaking. ❤️

  • @ayandas2607
    @ayandas2607 2 года назад

    Public speaking is very much difficult for introvert guys like me. But the thorough guidance that you gave about public speaking in this video would definitely helped me a lot mam 🙏

  • @shinymounica7431
    @shinymounica7431 4 года назад

    Yes I’m afraid of public speaking . Even that thought will scare me. I used to present seminars in my pg days ( MDS) but still I would never used to maintain eye contact with the audience (few people, like my HOD, 4-5 staff and 9 fellow pgs. ) I used to prepare the subject well , but I never used to make my speech interesting. I used to talk only my topic very theoretically and just used to finish off as fast as I can .
    But Now, I promise myself to do some homework before going to talk and would definitely deliver a good one by attacking them with my smile and conquering with kindness!!
    Thank you Aleena🙏🏻

  • @karabikalita7683
    @karabikalita7683 4 года назад

    Ma'am whenever I watch ur video I attend it so carefully..ur speaking styles is little bit different than others,it so clear n Vivid.I can easily catch ur words n i get it quickly..ur videos are genuinely hlp me lot..thnkx a ton..

  • @dilipvaniya294
    @dilipvaniya294 4 года назад

    Hi Aleena,
    My name is Dilip and I want to say that I love your way to explain.
    During public speaking ,my heartbeat was so fast and I forgot everything when I was on the staje.
    Thanks for give me a solution

  • @debjanichoudhury7422
    @debjanichoudhury7422 4 года назад

    Fear of being judged...when I see so many people looking at me I start shivering and forget what to talk. Will try to build my confidence and take things lightly

  • @bijayarashmijena3552
    @bijayarashmijena3552 4 года назад +1

    When I was in college I was very depressed how give presentation infornt of my friends and that time I used say myself if I speak then I friends will laugh at me that's why I 'm always hiding to myself to speak in front of people .
    And yes if I will have offer in future to speak in front people then I will tell them about my journey how I struggled to become a fluent how I felt ,how I begin stressed , and how I sometimes overwhelmed and how I made struggled to strength .
    And happy ending- be motivate bcz your the only person who can motivate to yourself , be strong , always put smile on your face bcz smile is the one thing that you can fight to your negative thoughts and give up yourself and Never quit .....
    And I promise to myself never ever think about my mistake if i get stuck never feel embarrass I will speak with confident and smile 😊😊..
    Yes I'm smart, I have confident and I'm an awesome conversationalist and yes I speak English ( this is my motivational quote I'm always telling to myself ) 😊😊😊😘😘 thank you soooooo much mam u always giving opportunity to write something and I think this the way to develop your speaking skill and lots of love mam😍😍😍😘😘😘...

  • @sohakhan5504
    @sohakhan5504 4 года назад +1

    I really love the way you speak. it's really so attractive and fluent too. Plzz keep up such kind of most important videos

  • @danpalrajpur4954
    @danpalrajpur4954 4 года назад

    Thanks from the bottom of my heart for this video, your sheech is very clear to understand everyone

  • @k-popworld960
    @k-popworld960 4 года назад +2

    You know what happen today,I am in 12th grade so, due to lockdown our college helding online lecturers and today there was my economic lecture and sir was explaining the chapter as usual but suddenly they started asking questions and one boy answered his question in Hindi and then after it sir abruptly call my name and said me to convert that sentence in English which that boy explained in Hindi and I was like shivering ,and suddenly I started sweating I don't know why I lose my confidence and didn't reply to him.....and they move ahead.. that's it

  • @shradha2995
    @shradha2995 2 года назад

    Hello Mam . I am so regreted that I saw this vedio now. It's too late now , u know mam whenever I go in front of people I don't know what actually happened to me I don't understand where to start from if I'm speaking may be someone laugh at me that's why I couldn't speak anything but when I was at home in a lonely place I try to push myself I usually start talking with me and there I never stop and took a pause . I just goes on speaking . I promise you Mam that how I speak to myself alone with fluency i will do this in front of public as well . With the help of you your motivation your courage I will change myself and be a perfect speaker. (I'm blessed to have you in my life as a teacher) .

  • @pritoshsarkar9433
    @pritoshsarkar9433 4 года назад +4

    Amazing you are! You are talking so beautifully and the main important thing is that you are so cute I can't explain in words. You have a beautiful eyes and your smile is fantastic...............always keep smiling like that...........God bless you.

  • @sknurjahan5695
    @sknurjahan5695 4 года назад

    I scare that I may stammer, try for spontaneous presentation n commit mistakes. If I prepare, can't move out of it. But love to anchor any programs. I promise to go ahead to fulfill my desire, with your wonderful and invigorating speech.

  • @deepikamohanta6470
    @deepikamohanta6470 4 года назад

    I can write very good English but I face difficulties in speaking fluent English but I love to watch you speaking so fluent English and I hope that one day I will also speak like you.

  • @Amitsa299
    @Amitsa299 4 года назад

    This is best channel of real English speaking.

  • @pallavighivande
    @pallavighivande 4 года назад +2

    I really needed this video😄 Thankyou Aleena...God bless you 😇❣️

  • @jashbirjani9016
    @jashbirjani9016 4 года назад

    You are great. You are awesome in all your videos. Now if taking about me, I am the most frightened person when it comes to public speaking. I am not able to speak single word.

  • @mo.shahid4407
    @mo.shahid4407 4 года назад

    Well said Aleena mam public speaker is not is easy task but if you trying again and again give your best effort from your sites than you will definitely succeed one day and mam your cuteness is overloaded and also ur one cute smile is million dollar 😍

  • @shekhardhamdhere6272
    @shekhardhamdhere6272 4 года назад

    Actually informal speaking is my problem. I can easily speak on any given topic but when it comes to informal or daily use English speaking then it is a hurdle.watching your videos really help me to speak better than before. The way you speak is really make me hopeful that I will make it one day.thanks.

  • @ruksarbanu4221
    @ruksarbanu4221 3 года назад

    Love the way u speak ... N voice was no words to express sach me. brilliant great work u r doing

  • @abhinavchaudhary7738
    @abhinavchaudhary7738 4 года назад +1

    When I was going for public speaking I felt so nervous, I was shivering a lot, fear of people judging my English.

  • @afsar2321
    @afsar2321 4 года назад +1

    You are right... Hope we apply this... Again thank you😊🌹❤😊

  • @priyankasethi4920
    @priyankasethi4920 4 года назад

    True Dear, you said all truth I am also facing the problem when I talk to some one then I know what I have to say but words not come out. You gave very good way to teach us that how we can rid of it.
    Thanks 🙏

  • @rinkujain3585
    @rinkujain3585 4 года назад +4

    In annual day I had to welcome audience and that moment I was thinking to run away and hide somewhere.
    Still I face this difficulty.
    Will try to push myself as much as I can

  • @riteshkadam3262
    @riteshkadam3262 4 года назад +2

    I had similar experience back in days when I was in 7 th standard my class teacher told me to give pledge in morning assembly .(That night I was scariest night of my life , I could not sleep that night . Imagine how that small boy was feeling .
    Ok so the next day .
    When my name was called to give pledge my heart was pumping like hell .And

  • @englishclasses1638
    @englishclasses1638 4 года назад

    You are a Savior.Your sessions always give optimism and confidence in us.Thanksgiving Teacher.Regards.

  • @rommyoye5057
    @rommyoye5057 4 года назад +1

    Exactly....
    We always scared of
    if we are given a chance to speak on d stage thn mind goes blank nothing comes from inside we just think how to conquer bout dis situation
    Genuinely m talking bout this I have already gone thru with d same situation somehow I completed mah task was given to me by my mentor.
    It is literally hard to speak on d stage reason being we have neve been thru wth d same situation however we can master of it when we do dis on a daily basis
    Jokes aprt I really keen to watch your upcoming videos hope you will get 1 million subscriber soon

  • @qaisarshahzad7161
    @qaisarshahzad7161 2 года назад

    Hope that after watching this video we don't feel uncomfortable speaking in public places mam thanks for giving us these tips that make us unique in the public places

  • @tusharnagpal3867
    @tusharnagpal3867 4 года назад

    Most imp part of public speaking is to connect with the audience and if u have the ability to do that then you are half way down 😊

  • @ulhaspatil4298
    @ulhaspatil4298 4 года назад

    Public speaking fear will go after every opportunity

  • @soniagaba1872
    @soniagaba1872 4 года назад

    hello mam i am just a few days old to ur videos i have been also struggling for being perfect in speaking english whenever i get tym i get to listen to u its really motivating to me thnq so much

  • @harshitkumawat562
    @harshitkumawat562 4 года назад

    Yes, from next time I will consider two things definetly that first kill with smile and 2nd is conquer with kindness 🤘🤘🤘

  • @shivamagrawal2559
    @shivamagrawal2559 2 года назад

    You're teach best way of public places speaking thank you so much ........

  • @ishwaryasiri5926
    @ishwaryasiri5926 4 года назад

    Uh really do that...uh'll attack vth uah smile...nd uh r really very kind...lot's of love to uh💖uh r a good teacher as well😄💞

  • @arkbh1
    @arkbh1 4 года назад

    May be, quit possible people will not understating your message but Im sure they will understand your expression, emotions and sense of humor :)
    Thank you Aleena :)

  • @abbasofficial6325
    @abbasofficial6325 4 года назад

    I m Abbas naqvi ,
    Everyone can easily Infatuate on your way of talking,
    Mam thanks a lot for these tips i always follows your instructions nd try to how to speak well.
    You made a lot of videos and each is unique

  • @prashantprashantnishaf7188
    @prashantprashantnishaf7188 4 года назад +3

    I agree with you. Because whenever I am spoken that I fell very scared. My hands shivering. But I wanted to speak with fluency. But my luck is bad like ominous.

    • @MadhaviDosapati
      @MadhaviDosapati 4 года назад

      No, dont think about bad luck bcoz everything can be attained through continuous practice and trust me her channel is really amazing. Even I follow Aleena

  • @chandrimanag1397
    @chandrimanag1397 3 года назад

    The one fear that coming into my mind while speaking is that I will make mistakes...
    The second thing is I am forgetting everything ...I am getting blank..
    And continuously saying sorry for making every mistakes....
    And feel a little nervous
    But but lastly......I promise myself I'm gonna push myself
    To overcome this fear definitely 🤗🤗 thank u Aleena with lots of love

  • @abhirupapradhan6881
    @abhirupapradhan6881 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for making such a useful video for us . .. lots of love from Kolkata..❣️.ami tomake khup valobasi😅😅😅.. valo theko ☺️☺️☺️

  • @rajivyadav8770
    @rajivyadav8770 4 года назад

    Offen somebody make video they speak very loudly or very fast delivery and no feeling in their speech but your speech are very magnifying and attractive. Thanks Aleena

  • @priyapandit9508
    @priyapandit9508 4 года назад

    I have done so many things to improve my English since my childhood and I am still working on it. & I have always avoided the situation where I want to speak in public but don't want to do that anymore. I'm promising myself to improve more and more.

  • @shwetakor2566
    @shwetakor2566 4 года назад

    Once my economic professional was taking Viva and it was my turn to answer but I got soo nervous & blank that I could not speak a single word.
    I promise to myself that I will convert my biggest weakness in to my biggest strength ✊👍

  • @zayarrazarizvi
    @zayarrazarizvi 4 года назад

    aap ki vedios dekhte dekhte mohabbat na ho jaay aapse dar lagta h
    bolnay ka style communications skills sab kuch jitni tareef ki jaay kam h