The Most Powerful Tool To Get Him Back (Say THIS To Reconnect Your Relationship!)
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- This is an interview with Adrienne Everheart on her most powerful tool to get a man back, without playing games or using manipulation tactics.
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Love how authentic these insights are. Not into manipulation or playing games. It’s so important to accept people for who they are and not change them. Refreshing! 💕
Thank you Lucy, I agree!
Tried it and it worked!! Thanks
You're welcome, I'm so happy to hear this worked for you!
So happy for you!
It’s ridiculous how good this is! I genuinely appreciate this advice and I think it’s great! Something about it makes me laugh though. I think because it’s so counter-intuitive that it begins to sound sarcastic, then manipulative. However my guy told me upfront that this is exactly what he does when a woman comes at him very strong and my response was, “Good for you! Not acknowledging behavior that causes you discomfort is a great boundary to set!”. 6 months later I was on the other end of the silent treatment, now I’m rebuilding and this video provides a great skeleton for that conversation! Good thing I ACTUALLY feel this way about the response of walking away - or else I’d come off very fake.
I'm glad this was helpful! Keep us posted on how everything goes for you.
This is beautiful.
I too see the spin in this strategy, that in our attempt to "deliver" the magic potion to him, we are in fact doing the necessary work on ourselves to grow to the place where we have what he needs from us, and for us to give that to him. It's truly brilliant.
Thank you gerls 💕💞 you are the dynamic duo 😊
You’re welcome, I’m glad this resonated with you! 💗
To me and my life right now: This is super valuable, *advanced*, authentic, honest, non-manipulative and beneficial Deep-romantic-partnership material. Good gracious ThankU both . Key is what Helena mentioned at the very end, only use this tool when his energy is clearly at a direction moving towards you, again. That is just what I needed to hear because I was questioning that very aspect and was wishing for an answer !! thankU !!!
You're welcome, I'm so glad this was helpful for you!
He finds me veryyy emotional n sensitive and over reacting dramatic.. n i agree.. plz help me re program my emotions.. control myself.. n able to deal with break up and bring him back by changing my self and his opinion about me..
My man is a cyborg... he's got quite a robotic behaviour. I have to find a way to appreciate this feature of his. It's not easy.
Il club dei Gatti Neri I understand! See it having some positive attribute. Such as him remaining calm under pressure or another positive. Give it some time 😊
@@AdrienneEverheart thanks. I agree.
Lol that is funny, sorry not sure if you meant it that way. Thanks for the giggle all the same.
When I do get talking to him again I'm going to tell him I respect you for walking away it made me open my eyes to how amazing you really are, Thankyou, Stop.. say nothing wait for him to process what was said, Let him talk, Keep everything positive 💖 Thankyou appreciate this video.
You're welcome, we'd love to hear how this goes for you!
communication and walking away!!
So soothing to listen to you two! Things you say feel like applying so well.. thank you❤️
You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💕
Awh! Happy to help!
I don’t think this applies when he already knows “you’re not the one”. That is what he told me.. and he meant it
Yes, if he flat-out told you something like that I would move on. My latest podcast episode might be helpful - you can listen to it on Spotify here: open.spotify.com/episode/047HKuunLUeN5HF167l65w?si=w3YTfNlpSGuE_J5rt7woHg
…or on Apple Podcasts here (feel free to leave me a review!): podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/master-your-magnetism-with-helena-hart/id1585522214?i=1000549483589
Getting what Sets them Apart 💝
Yes!!
5:30 gets to the bones of it.
We broke up because after happy 3 months together, he changed. I was fed up with luck of communication from his side. Whenever there was a clash between us, I gave him time then tried to talk to him so we could find a solution/compromise but he avoids important discussions. He's always like: "you know I don't like talking about these things". We didn't even argue... to argue, there must be 2 ppl speaking in first place. He shuts down. Silence killed our relation. Also, he never admit to his mistakes and never apologise. We separated in March '20. We finally met end of November. I told him clearly what my expectations are and that I won't accept anything less than that.
I'm currently in NC, day 56.
Losing hope he'll be again the great man he once was...
Personally I would move on completely (especially if you were only together three months) - it sounds like you dodged a bullet. He showed you very clearly what kind of relationship partner he would be. 💜
@@HelenaHartCoaching I knew him half year before we got together, he was such a good guy. Then together we were 3 happy months + 2 months happy/unhappy.
I agree with you. He's not the right one. My guts were telling me to walk away so I did. I'm waiting for real love to come around ❤
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Wh'tsapp him for help
This may work on my fearful avoidant
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The comments are so good that I start to read them WHILE the video is playing and then have to rewind the video! Gonna start making it a 2-step process because watching the video while reading... I don’t get the most from the video OR the comments 🤣.
Love to all the lovers of the 🌎 out there 😘♥️ & thanks to both you ladies!
I think much of this is about so-called “active” codependency (Ross Rossenburg) and though he describes it as manipulative (which for sure some codependents are)... others like myself are just direct and honest but going about it in a way that to men feels combative and controlling, even if we are just fighting for our rights! Rights like equal respect, consideration and concessions. So MANY problems truly ARE caused by the wrongful entitlements & double standards/double binds of sexism & I hope you both can talk about this TOO!
I’m coming to understand lots of things from both of your channels, but I don’t think we can push the sexism hit aside. Even men who are less sexist on the spectrum have internalized inequality/wrongful entitlement and I do believe denying this comes at our own peril. You might be able to “manage” a sexist, but you will never get equal respect from a sexist. Ever. So it’s important to be with men who strive for equality-equal respect for both the water (classically & sexistly called feminine) and the wood (classically and sexistly called masculine) in each other and ourselves. I happen to be a high water💧 woman and the day both energies are given their equal and essential due as well as exposing the toxic potentialities of both, we’ll have a BEAUTIFUL WORLD! Males & Females~Females & Males= HUMANITY There is polarity within EACH of us as well 🥰 meaning that my water energy, since I have SO MUCH of it, NEEDS MY OWN WOOD for structure too! And it’s why, in my case, I’m attracted to HEALTHY wood men who carry a HIGH RESPECT and attraction for water energy.
Example: if you’re 60% water & 40% wood... your match will probably be in the same stats in the opposite
Gender is literally the sexist construct of sexism. It says THIS way of being belongs in THESE bodies and this does not. Absolute toxic RUBBISH. And it can prevent females from appreciating their water
:( and developing their wood energy in constructive ways :( and prevents men from embracing their water :( and from developing wood in healthy ways. I’m here for the DAY when the words MASCULINE & FEMININE are abolished! When we do wood things in a healthy, beneficial way~ we are STILL ALL GIRL! Just as when men do water things, like cry to a beautiful song, they are STILL ALL BOY!
Hard to edit on iPhone~ so will leave at that!
Love to the LOVERS, Wood & Water Babies! ♥️
Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞
You’re welcome & Thank you for your wonderful show & guests & want to add~few totally free💝to substitute the word water for feminine and wood for masculine if that’s happens to resonate or expand insights/understanding with you or your viewers. An interest of mine is linguistics and this is exactly how language (and therefore human culture) evolves~at the grassroots! Knowing we all have the power to evolve language in our own lives and in culture is such a wonderful thing to know!
*feel totally free 😉
Def works especially if u did the work on urself and u want better for the both of u not just for a relationship..
Thanks for sharing, Toni! 💞 This video might also be helpful for anyone in that situation: ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html
@@HelenaHartCoaching ur so welcome
This is where I am at right now . I get this and thank you for sharing x
You're welcome Melanie, I'm glad this came at the right time for you.
How about if the guy overall is a good guy...but that defectvis something that really hurts you. Isint this accepting it and settling?
ana Mont without specifics I can’t help you too far but in most cases when a person hurts you it’s because they are not doing something we would rather them be doing. That’s almost every guy in every situation! The nature of relationships. 😂 So I would look at your situation and see if that person is actually causing you physical harm or if you’re making that judgment that you’re being hurt and what you can do to shift your mindset onto a more positive track and see if that problem keeps happening less.
Holy shit! This is so new to me,after all of the "relationship books" all of the talking with girlfriends about men,trying to find answers...it's almost scary how you can kinda turn the bad into unique so easily.I wish I was more like you, Adrienne.what if they know that they are being a butt,and it's there "game" and you try this tactic,do I look stupid,or will they recent me for saying what I said?
Actually when I looked for things I could apply this too, I notice that I DO love that part about him too. ❤️ I miss him so.
Thanks for sharing your experience here! 💞 These videos might also be helpful: ruclips.net/video/m1nRTxXw9Pg/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html.
@@HelenaHartCoaching thank you wonderful human being
You’re welcome! ❤️
Totally irrelevant to the video but love Adrienne's gold jacket! Very useful video too 😊 x
I love it too! I'm glad the video was helpful.
You’re so sweet! Please keep in touch with your success.
Very helpful and I think it's wonderful that you can help others! ❤
I’m so glad this was helpful! 💕
So happy you gained value from this video. Love to you!
My husband and I have been separated for 2 months we have a very deep deep connection and the last few weeks he's been gravitating towards me wanting to go for walks we've been very playful with each other and when he wanted to separate I did tell him I will miss you I will miss us but you know what's best and so we've been spending time together for a few weeks and she has spent some time in the house and he said that he just has flashbacks of a time where I was pushing him away and saying you don't belong here I don't love you go back to your country and so he just said he has a hard time with it being in the house is hard for him and so for that reason he's not sure he can stay in a relationship with me he wants me to be happy and so I don't really know how to erase those memories for him I don't know how to change thhis around😞😞💟🙏
It might just take some time to create a new dynamic with him. Rehashing the past or telling him that things are different now over and over usually doesn’t help - he has to FEEL it from you. 💜
@@HelenaHartCoaching yes I concur actions speak way louder than words! And by reiterating the lessons that I've learned and constantly defending and explaining myself on that basis only further breathe life into the hurtful damaging words that we exchanged . It's clear that he feels I caused most of the damage with my choice of words. Perhaps I did! I appreciate your advice I will stop explaining myself . What is a good blanket statement each time that he brings this up? clearly he's looking for sympathy over and over and over again! I suspect that this could be deep rooted in the childhood post trauma of some kind!
If he keeps bringing it up you could ask if there’s something specific he needs from you (something you could do or say, or perhaps just listen and hold space). If there’s not you can say that it doesn’t feel good to keep talking about the past, and you’d like to focus on creating good-feeling moments with him in the present.
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
I’m in a long distance relationship and I went to live with him for 2 months. Now he is up and down with me. It’s like a pattern for 3 months that everything goes well and happy then he seems to look for a problem and gets moody and accuses me of things I never said then tells me go find another guy and to go block him on Facebook and then goes on minimal texting for a week or 10 days then he comes back chasing again. Not long after I relax he starts this nonsense again.
Jo Kross what do you mean
Jo Kross where? Do what?
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I really resonate with your story Adrienne.
Just try this one out
Wow!! That is amazing advice!!
Thank you, Judy! 💕
Not clear on these points?
Acceptance - is that it??
Be sure to review the steps, this one takes some processing! You’ll want to find a spot that needs healing in the relationship. That’s a good place to start.
How long should you let the texting go on saying they miss you , love you with not further action?
Great question, Emily! Every situation is different, but how long has this been going on?
Yeah we been broke up since last Monday and now here it is Sunday so it's been almost a week like I was saying in my other comment and I saw him and try to talk to him and tell him how I feel like giving peace offering sister and the other you too has nothing to say and I protect myself as bench and walked him to the store and he still didn't say nothing of the fact that he let me reach over and touch them has to me he still cares
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This was very helpful thank you
You’re welcome, I’m glad it was helpful! 💕
Thank you Leah!
When is the right time to do this?
What are positives in being a liar
I wouldn’t advise being in a relationship with a liar, as it would be nearly impossible to build trust with him.
Absolutely none. This method is about finding the best possible feeling attribute.
If ever you found yourself in a situation of your ex breaking up with and you still need him/her back, simply message me via this platform and let me introduce you to some one who can help you get them back. This is no jokes, serious minded people only. +1 (424) 800‑7137
I do this naturally, I see the good in many things
What if the guy would just not leave you alone. He says he doesn't want you back and moved on but would just not stop contacting you?? What do you do???? Am tired, please help..
You might want to consider blocking him if you’ve asked him to leave you alone and he won’t. 💜
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Wh'tsapp him for help
What if he didn't breakup but he ignores me cos he said we fight much and he decides to give me a space. It's been 3moths now though he sent a lovely message on Valentine's day to me but still ignore me
I actually just recorded a video on this that I'll be posting soon! In the meantime, this one should be helpful: ruclips.net/video/VEkz-OSVDbo/видео.html
Amazing because that I Think about Him, but
Patience is My problem.......
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The best ever I heard. Love you both
Thank you so much, I'm glad you enjoyed this one!
He left in the morning for work, during that time I received a text that says I love you. Then the next text stated he was going to stay with his parents for awhile until he decides what he wants to do. I told him ok, I understand I will support him. This was all on a Tuesday, come Saturday he called me stating he was back in town and hanging with his friends but he will be home Monday or Tuesday and we needed to have a conversation. I said ok, and then apologized for the way things went. He no showed Monday or Tuesday but called me last night and said he apologized for not making it home but he is experiencing car issues, then said I dont think I can do this anymore. I replied with this hurts, I wish you would reconsider but I understand. What can I do to get him back at this point? He isn't contacting me at all.
Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. ❤️ These are the videos I’d recommend for your situation (especially the first one): ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/m1nRTxXw9Pg/видео.html.
I Fon' t Say' s it.!. It is The Thrue!..
Thank you very Much.
You’re welcome, Felicia! 💝
Should I tell him this after he seems persistent about the breakup? His very hurt and still loves me but his hurt by my words and said he prefers to be friends for now ... so should I give him space and later implement this tool?
That’s probably a good idea, and I’d also recommend watching this video: ruclips.net/video/m1nRTxXw9Pg/видео.html
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Wh'tsapp him for help
He said we don't have enough in common but I thought we did, so I really believe it boils down to something else. He got hot and cold and told me that finally and basically felt like broke up with me. What would you do in that situation?
Personally, I would move on - I wouldn’t try to “convince” someone to be with me. That being said, this video might be helpful: ruclips.net/video/EFjOGdW_c60/видео.html
Thank you. I'm not even really sure that he ended it but I haven't heard from him and could also see where he may have thought that I did but I'm definitely not going to convince a guy to stay with me if he doesnt want to. It's a long story. Guess I will just try the no contact. I feel as if there's unfinished business but who knows.
You’re welcome! 💜
How do I use this in a situation where he can’t trust me or let me in. He is cold, ignores me , and avoids me.
Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. This doesn’t sound like a good situation, in my opinion. He needs to be at least somewhat open to you in order for it to work.
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
Wh'tsapp him for help
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what if his behaviour has changed drastically after the break because i hurt him during the relationship? he used to be an emotional guy, now he’s distant and cold. which one should i talk about it?
inexorablelove Hi there I’m so sorry this is happening to you. I do have a step-by-step process and the ABC’s to get him back that help you understand what a man is going through during a break up and the best ways that the two of you can repair the relationship and start something new. I really encourage you check out that program. Much love to you and please let me know how it goes!
If ever you found yourself in a situation of your ex breaking up with and you still need him/her back, simply message me via this platform and let me introduce you to some one who can help you get them back. This is no jokes, serious minded people only. +1 (424) 800‑7137
How if, he's walk away because there's situation about his past that dragged me into a problem.
So, to make me out of that problem, he is trying to distance himself.
When actually, im just ok about it as long as i'm with him.
What to do?
Please help me.
These videos might be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/VEkz-OSVDbo/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/HxhizkrTqbU/видео.html.
Hey friend, I got my relationship fixed with the help of a great spiritualist who brought my ex back after so many months of separation,,
He helped me few days ago he does a perfect work I'm am assuring you, you gonna testify
±12138780024⏯️⏯️❣️❣️
Wh'tsapp him for help
My guy Stonewalls me when doesn't wanna do something... It agitates and irritated me... What should I do
This video should be helpful for your situation: ruclips.net/video/7YE2TMD3Q1I/видео.html
Widower, episodes of grief
Hi Evelyn, are you describing yourself or a man you’re interested in here?
The guy I want back we have been apart for a year but in the last five months he goes out of his way to go to places I will be ...my church my chiropractor...and I just ran into him and he said I knew it would happen...is he feeling like reconnecting with this behavior I pulled back for six months
He is in a relationship right now he jumped into one right after me
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How about when the guy of a few years, had huge insecurities and self-esteem issues, that led to a lot of testosterone fight or flight.... anger/ & control... that led to the breakup? I could never compliment him enough when I did genuinely at dozens of times a day. If I stared lovingly in his eyes for 10 minutes, but then turned around to watch the TV, that wasn't enough. I could describe more things that were ridiculous:( And I just didn't think that anger was the appropriate way to deal with everything. BUT he honestly is an AMAZING guy with a heart of GOLD who is one of the most masculine loving selfless men I've ever met, at times. I've focused on that and speak to him about his GOODNESS. (Although sometimes mention the anger). He just has terrible self worth issues and thinks anger is the way to be heard, even when I say it's so much easier to hear you/ help make this better, if I feel a calmness. I know he still loves me and does the best way he knows how. Can I embrace his seemingly bottomless pit of anger/ testosterone? His over-sensitivity? How? Thanks so much! :)
Hi there sounds like you’ve had such a tough time. Sending you lots of hugs. Anger can be an issue with a lot of men and sometimes it’s not so much the anger but something that is escalating it. This is where you want to observe what is being said or what you might be trying to do in those times. In affect trying to fix it. I really recommend Find and keep the one in the dating Unzipped collection it can be found here. goo.gl/A6L7SW It will help you immensely.
Thank you SOO much for your sweet and generous reply, Adrienne!
Best video ever
Thank you, Maria! 💕
A part of me want him back and a part of me don't. I think the don't is out weighing the want, lol
Hi Gail, you are asking the right questions honey! Be sure to check out ABCs to Get Him Back program because I teach you GHB options but also how to attract the type of man you truly desire. bit.ly/ABCGetHimBack
U talk to much , get to d point
So should you call him or text, which is better?
Good question! You want him to reach out to you first, then after a few rounds of text let him know a phone call would feel lovely, and use your script. Let the man be the one to take action instead of you doing the work for him. :-) Learn more about how this all works here: goo.gl/XLTZkp
Adrienne what if you challenged his man hood so it was your fault for the breakup and after apologizing he’s still not speaking to you should you text him this then?
@@madisenavenueentertainment7774 i would like to know this too
What if he doesn't reach out first?
Escuse my" Don't"
After a huge fight and months of problems my boyfriend and i broke up .. two days later i tried to apologise and my boyfriend said that he loves me and he's with me but it has been a week since he said that and he didn't call or talk to me since then, and when i asked him why he didn't call me he said he doesn't feel like talking to me and he doesn't know when will he feel the desire to reach out to me .. please help what does it mean and what should i do
Abir Maassam oh honey I’m so sorry. You can absolutely repair things with him. You’ll need step by step help in either the ABCs to Get Him Back, or Dating Unzipped Collection. Please keep us updated! goo.gl/XLTZkp
If ever you found yourself in a situation of your ex breaking up with and you still need him/her back, simply message me via this platform and let me introduce you to some one who can help you get them back. This is no jokes, serious minded people only. +1 (424) 800‑7137
Abir Maassam the EXACT same thing happened to me!! He broke up with me almost three months ago but, when he did, he said he loves me, it was real, he wants to revisit, what if we are meant to be just not right now, I need to work on some things (I got in my head). But he never called and now won’t respond to my messages.
Did you and your boyfriend get back together? I hope so!
@@bailey1493 yuh we did .. we were on and off for the past year.. but I finally made the decision to walk away.. it wasn't feeling good anymore it became very toxic.. him constantly walking out on me, broke my trust in men completely. I've been single for 8 months now and trust me the things that seem incredibly impossible turn to normal with time
Abir Maassam Thank you ❤️. It’s still not as easy as I’d like it to be... it’s hard when you really love someone lol... 😕. But maybe sometimes we love what isn’t good for us? Thank you for the encouragement. I really hope things go well for you, breakups are hard!
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